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| 1 | Is it good to have playful competitions with the girl your trying to seduce?So what are you good at? Lots of options, fitness related just do a bench or pull-up comp, running, etc | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 03:02 AM |
| 7 | Is it worth having a girlfriend like this?My self worth? Mostly on how much money I make 🤦♂️ I’m an extreme guy so it changes often but I’m mostly focused on building my tech consulting business now and take work super seriously | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 03:01 AM |
| 3 | Is it good to have playful competitions with the girl your trying to seduce?Crushed it dude. Are you good at air hockey, pool or darts? Take her out and absolutely demolish her. Strip poker is also a good look 😉 | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 02:52 AM |
| 9 | Is it worth having a girlfriend like this?If she’s that hot who cares. Get yourself out there brother. I have a picture from 2013 wearing a shirt with a naked chick that says ‘take it off’ on it 😂. Own that shit but if your truly uncomfortable just dump her and move on, or talk to her about how you feel | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 02:49 AM |
| 39 | Is it worth having a girlfriend like this?Bruh you got a girl this hot - you can do it again. However, I would use this as a springboard. Take social media pics with her, learn how to get good at sex, make friends with all her hot friends, etc. Dump her after 2-3 months if it’s not working and capitalize on your new found social credit. On the other hand - if you like her a lot - that’s all that actually matters. Her kill count doesn’t matter and what matters is if you like her and like what kind of person she is deep down. I have a hig… | /r/seduction | 11/09/22 02:43 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]My end goal is always the same whether tinder or irl - get to know someone and see if I like them enough to explore an intimate relationship. It sounds contrived and long gamey but it’s usually first or second date in bed, but my end goal is to develop that connection because I really like feeling close to people and have a hard time doing the deed without a connection | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 11:39 PM |
| 1 | Chasing older women on Tinder?I actually disagree. I do very well on dating apps and I put my height in my profile. I’ve met with girls who are 5’11+ and they don’t care. In real life it’s tough to establish a dynamic if you are the small fry in a group - unless going in everyone already knows you are the most important person there One on one less so but it does matter for first glance | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 06:02 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]To be in school again oh man… I got girls to talk to me by being an absolute class clown. You can always do the adult thing though, make eye contact, smile and say hi lol | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Chasing older women on Tinder?Lol I don’t see this is a positive - as a short dude who is successful with women, I avoid all of those places like the plague. I commented on the main thread too but I’m interested in helping because you seem similar to me. I do extremely well in cafes, beaches, parks, gyms and outdoor sports. I also play mad computer games in the winter and have pulled some hot gamer chicks off of tinder If you want to progress - stop doing what your doing and try something else, those venues are not working f… | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 02:23 AM |
| 1 | Chasing older women on Tinder?Your right that its probably 10% when it comes to a relationship, but when it comes to just smash it’s likely 50% or more on first glance and then diminishes when they get to know how big of a chad you are. Height matters to women like weight matters to men 🤷♂️ | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 02:10 AM |
| 1 | Chasing older women on Tinder?As a fellow shorty 5’5-5’7 I can confidently say you gotta have a lot of charisma and charm - but I have scored cuties anywhere from 25-40 on tinder and otherwise and usually don’t have major issues getting what I want. Being a high earner and being in shape helps, but those are more relationship traits than hookup traits. Everyone is going to tell you something different without actually knowing you. Im blessed that I am quite good looking albeit being short. Until I learned how to be charming … | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 01:57 AM |
| 5 | [33M] My game is tight in all areas: look good, feel good, make good money, well built etc. I just don't have the balls to approach! How to work my way up to an approach?Dude no offence but I think you read a bit too much lol. Just go and interact with people naturally. Having a job, nice clothes and smelling good honestly is like the bare minimum to survive in society, let alone pick up women lol Stop thinking about it and just go be yourself and say hi | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 11:28 PM |
| 1 | Men who had success with day game, what's your story?Huh no - just smile at everyone and if they smile back, make a joke and start er up lol | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 10:51 PM |
| 0 | Women stare while men tend to peekBrother - women don’t know what they want 😂😂 | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 06:31 PM |
| 2 | Better to say “let me give you my number” or “ let me get your number “I always give my number, tell them to text me and put it on them to initiate. I don’t have time to play dumb texting games and I don’t use social media at all. The text is just so you don’t get lost when trying to find their apartment lolol | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 05:26 PM |
| 1 | Why should I improve myself to become more attractive to women if so many guys are able to attract women above their leagues?You shouldn’t be putting effort into being a better person for the opposite sex, do it for you. My dad was awesome with women, and he was short, fat, poor and obnoxious but somehow people loved him. Personality is the only thing that truly matters | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 05:23 PM |
| 1 | I have been wearing height inserts for 5 months and I am afraid I will get exposed.Dude you’re a legend but honestly just ditch the shoes and stop perpetuating this madness | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 05:21 PM |
| 3 | Men who had success with day game, what's your story?I flirt and chat with anything that moves. I’m bi so that’s male or female but essentially I go to coffee shops, stores, bars etc and just try and make people laugh out loud and talk to me 🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️ | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 05:19 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]🤷♂️🤷♂️🤷♂️ idk about that, I’ve definitely selected women who were not interested in me at all and worked them until I got what I wanted and they were head over heels It’s just a long game | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Short GuyI’m 167cm - I’ve never gone more than a few weeks without getting laid. AMA lol | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 05:13 PM |
| 5 | Women stare while men tend to peekYeah idk about this, women are extremely subtle most of the time I find | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 05:11 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I’m 5’6 and I wouldn’t leave your girl (or best mate for that matter) around me lol Seriously brother height does not matter even a little bit - the second you believe that, the second nobody else gives a shit I’m probably a solid 7.5 but I get girls tell me all the time I’m in the top 10% regardless of my height | /r/seduction | 06/09/22 05:00 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]That’s retarded man lol | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 02:11 PM |
| 2 | I need some guidance on how to do it right.That’s not being nice - that’s being manipulative to get something. Being nice is doing something without expectation of reciprocity | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 03:16 AM |
| 3 | I need some guidance on how to do it right.Stop apologizing to her If you want to secude her do it. Buy a bottle of wine, candles and get down to business If she isn’t into it and doesn’t want to do it, leave her alone and go do your own thing | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 03:07 AM |
| 2 | I need some guidance on how to do it right.He means don’t do something nice if she’s being shitty towards you | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 03:05 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Lol 😂 he’s not invited because everyone needs space. I don’t know what reality you live in but women have been grouping together to get time away from men for centuries and vice versa. Would you invite her on a hunting trip with the boys? What real man wants to go to a resort in Mexico and sip margaritas with their girlfriend? | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 03:01 AM |
| 5 | [deleted by user]What did I just read | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 10:39 PM |
| 1 | How to be fun to be around and what to do with a girl to have fun?Well humour has always been my strong suit - but I’m on the spectrum a bit and I find mimicking tv shows and quoting them defined my sense of humour. My favourite sitcoms I’ve watched many times, Seinfeld, the office, arrested development, curb your enthusiasm, how I met your mother Usually I like to drop hyperboles and self deprecation as my main forms to make people laugh - and I love poking fun at people. For example - it’s like 30+ degrees where I live and it’s abnormally hot for the year. I… | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 05:33 PM |
| 1 | How many dates before you invite a girl back to your placeSo just tell her your intentions, honesty goes a long way. ‘After biking, how about you come back to mine and I’ll cook you dinner? - no pressure by the way, I really wanna take things slow and get to know you’ | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 04:31 PM |
| 1 | How to be fun to be around and what to do with a girl to have fun?Girls are all different - but they all love humour. If you want to practice, make it a mission to go out and make people laugh or smile everyday and you’ll get better at these interactions | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Girls are so comfortable and easily open up to guys with gay energy. And some girls are scared or cautious around guys with masculine energy. Is this true?Didn’t read most of your post - bi guy here, I give off gay energy, and am super open that I need time good chemistry and time before sex. Every woman is different so there are no hard and fast rules, but typically for me (I have good physical escalation on dates) the girl is the one who initiates going home together | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 04:23 PM |
| 1 | When asking out, should I always go for specific time or can I let it be arranged later?I always leave it open but it’s because I’m insanely busy. I usually say like ‘would love to take you out sometime but my schedule is crazy - what does your week look like’ I usually won’t confirm anything until a day or two before.. but yymv | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 04:19 PM |
| 1 | How many dates before you invite a girl back to your placeJust because they come over the first night doesn’t mean it has to be a ons. You can invite them up and say - I hope it’s okay but just for the record I want to take things slow and just get to know you and cuddle up. | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 04:17 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]Believe it or not - lots of virgins your age and older and it’s not a bad thing. You can try and find another reserved virgin or you can just find a normal girl who doesn’t care Don’t worry about your weight as a barrier to girls but if you wanna be healthier that’s different | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone here have a sex addiction?I’m bi and really struggle with this. I basically am always thinking about sex and hooking up and different fantasies. actual intimacy is extremely difficult. I tell this to girls and they don’t take it seriously ever or see it as a challenge. Also not sure how to find a healthy balance lol | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 04:13 PM |
| 3 | Her friend is way more my typeTo echo the comment below it’s a grease fest. Would love to see how it pans out 😁 | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 04:08 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]He is worried his girlfriend is going to Mexico? Is he worried she’s gonna get gangbanged? Like what’s the big deal about going on vacation? And his question is - what gym do I go to? What lolololol | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 03:44 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Nah I mean open up the convo, set the date, and either keep the conversation going like once a day or less, or just don’t talk to her till she’s back and pursue other things | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 03:43 PM |
| 22 | Escalating at a girl's house?She invites you over - she will set the situation up, girls are not stupid. You can also just like flop on her couch or bed and be like ‘holy shit this is comfy’ and she will get up next to you | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 02:35 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]Bruh what? Lol Two unrelated things. You are paranoid / insecure. Let her have a good time and go enjoy the time apart | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 02:34 PM |
| 3 | [deleted by user]No brother - you can send her a text saying Hey xx. Got your number with the intent of asking you out when I’m back on the 21st. I know it’s a ways away but if your into __ I would love to take you to this place I’ve been meaning to check out. Or Send her some stupid memes and then set it up. Don’t explain shit you don’t need to | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 02:32 PM |
| 2 | 40 matches and 0 dates. Conversations never start or die after one or two messages. What am I doing wrong?No definitely not able to do 8+ consistently - it’s just so much work and pretending to be someone I’m not on my end that I don’t care much for it - as long as they aren’t a troll and have a real nice ass I’m not too picky. Im also short which means it’s a lot more work to pull and it gets exhausting I married a girl who was 8+ when I was younger and it was a massive headache so I’m a bit averse to to it - I’m also in my 30s though, in my 20s I was roided up and had a lot of success with higher … | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 02:28 PM |
| 12 | 40 matches and 0 dates. Conversations never start or die after one or two messages. What am I doing wrong?OP - honestly your probably doing ok and you just need to keep it up.. Depends what your looking for - hot girls (8+) typically need a different play style and the attention you give them needs to be exactly what they are looking for. Going off their profile doesn’t work and you gotta take some risks. More average chicks will be open to actual conversations but people are people and ymmv. Usually takes me about a week on tinder to build up enough conversations to get consecutive dates going - an… | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 06:27 AM |
| 5 | How to get rid of desperationThe trick is to actually not care what happens - easier said than done though | /r/seduction | 01/09/22 06:17 AM |
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