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I read a study pretty recently that said 18% I think. Depended heavily on age though. The older you are the more likely you are to cheat.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 04:32 AM
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Morons mostly. Anyone who's not an idiot knows it's a waste unless you're a legit 10
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 12:26 AM
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I wish we could stop fucking talking about the 80/20 rule like it's even true across all people. It applies to people on dating apps, some of the most shallow people in the world. 29% of women aged 15-24 are virgins. More young women are virgins than young men are lmao. People look at fucking tinder stats and act like hypergamy is an epidemic. It's a thing for sure, but most women arent violently branch swinging all the time. But if you're looking for it, of course you're going to see it. It's l…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/19 12:17 AM
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Dude needs to either get a divorce or ignore the fuck out of her for awhile and work on his own shit. Get friends, hobbies, and get in good shape. Then when he becomes a more interesting person and she wanted to fuck him, turn her down lmao.
/r/MGTOW07/04/19 10:57 PM
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What are the right places to look tho.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 08:18 PM
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I had a chance to get laid with a cute skinny blonde girl when I was 16, didn't have the balls to get it done because of my religious upbringing, ended up losing it at 18 to a chubby, much less attractive girl. At least you got it done. Sometimes I wonder how fucked up I would have ended up if I hadn't gotten it done when I did, but I still wish I'd done it at 16.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 08:14 PM
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Where the fuck do you live that you see legit 230 lbs 6% bf dudes OFTEN? That's like competition prep bodybuilder levels of bodyfat. To be that big and lean you have to be on MASSIVE amounts of drugs. If you've ever seen a dude with those stats in real life it's not something you forget. Maybe if you hang around gyms in large cities literally all the time you'll see a few, but your average college athlete isn't that big and lean. NFL players aren't that big AND lean.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 08:09 PM
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I know you're right. It was just a perfect storm of me having to adjust my focus away from her, another dude happening to be there to pick up the slack, neither of our lives being particularly great at the time, etc. I know deep down it wasn't my fault that she was a shitty partner to me, but I still have to look at myself to see what I can do better in the future, precisely because of what you said at the end: working on yourself is always the best option, and that includes being a better boyfr…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 05:54 AM
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I've met dudes with some pretty unfortunate faces, but yeah ripped+tan+good hair+some muscle is about as good as any particular guy can get. I'm 5'9" so I'll never get tall dude points but that's okay. Confidence and social skills are important, but it's more that you have to hit a bare minimum, even if you're hot. If you're not hot, but have incredible social skills or are really really funny, you can make up for it some, but it'll never be as effective as just being hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 04:26 AM
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Yeah game is pretty dumb, but RP gets some shit pretty good. Rule 1 of RP is to lift, which is smart as fuck. If you're in good shape, have a good haircut, take care of your skin, and dress well, almost anyone can be "hot" at some level. You can't hit supermodel status probably, but being fat/skinny fat and greasy won't do you any fucking favors. But yeah game is dumb as shit. Either they wanna fuck you or they don't, trying to convince them they do when they don't is a waste of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 03:58 AM
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That study specifically defined virginity as having had no oral, vaginal, or anal sexual contact. I guess that means I can say I lost my virginity at 16 instead of 18?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 03:39 AM
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Most RP dudes are RP because they weren't hot enough to get laid the easy way lmao. No legit 8+ has to use sexual strategy, they were drowning in pussy as soon as they hit puberty.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 03:20 AM
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I know in my scale, 9's are universal, like a true 9 is a 9 to everyone, but 10's are subjective. Like I'm really into redheads and asians, right? So a 9 that happens to be a redhead is probably a 10 to me, but to a guy that's not into redheads, she'd be a 9, because she's OBVIOUSLY a 9, but he might be more into brunettes and doesn't want to give a redhead a perfect score.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 03:19 AM
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Lmao in high school there was this hot dude I was friends with and every time any of us other dudes in the group were talking to a girl, there were trying to fuck him instead. It was especially frustrating because he was a serial monogamist who ended up marrying the 2nd girl he actually fucked. Dude was a 9 and didn't even use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 03:15 AM
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They're fucking entertaining lmao. You just have to be careful not to get sucked into the drama. Slutty girls are a great time if you're not the one fucking them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 03:10 AM
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If most girls don't have ONS or FWB, how does that whole 80/20 rule work out? How can all those women being sharing such a small proportion of men without most of them being outside committed relationships? Or does the 80/20 thing only apply to women already engaging in hookup behavior?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 03:08 AM
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I'm friends with a group of girls that are all constantly fucking new dudes they just met, getting mad as fuck that those dudes don't wanna date them, and then reassuring each other that they aren't doing anything wrong, it's the guys that are shitty. Then they do it all over again the next weekend. Classic /r/nicegirls behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 03:06 AM
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Exactly. It blows my fucking MIND how people will have ONS over and over and over and hate them every time, but the next weekend they're back at the bar for another.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 03:02 AM
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I know in my experience, "submissive" is usually code for "too immature to let me know what she needs." When a girl isn't voicing her concerns/needs, it tells me when she's finally fed up, she's either going to dump me or go get her needs filled by other dudes, leading to emotional, and sometimes physical cheating. Some women can be total fucking nags though, you have to strike a balance. Healthy communication is key.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 03:00 AM
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I think a lot of my problems with women come from still being pretty young (23) and most women my age not being particularly grown up yet, and the ones that are got snapped up pretty quick. I agree with you that being a workaholic is unhealthy, but there are times in life that's just what you have to do, especially if you have goals in life. It was just unfortunate in my case my ex wanted a constant whirlwind and I wasn't able to keep up. I get what you're saying about shit drying up as soon as …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 02:57 AM
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They go hand in hand. If you can make a girl laugh, you can make her wet, and if you can make her wet, you can make her laugh. If she's attracted to you, you'll probably be funny to her, and vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 02:32 AM
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I also work in a field that involves lots of talking to people, the trick is to talk about dumb shit until you hit on something that obviously interests them, and then crack that nut the fuck open. Eventually they'll love you because you're cool with talking about shit they're really into.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 02:30 AM
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We need a series of strategies as detailed as RP, but for finding normal, quality, well adjusted women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 02:29 AM
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This time of game can be exhausting though, and will backfire if you're ever "off", especially if you've created any sort of mid to long term relationship based on it. People start to expect you to always be the funny guy, and when you're not people notice real quick.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 02:28 AM
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And the "good looking enough" barrier is different for each woman. I was pretty fucking fat in college, so I dated chubby chasers, but they were out there, it's not like it was impossible to meet pretty cute chicks that liked me. It just MASSIVELY lowers the pool of women you can draw from. It seemed to me like the most important part was coming across as a pretty normal, balanced person. I think most guys make the mistake of coming across as fuckbois. If she thinks you're just there to hit it a…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 02:26 AM
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That shit honestly sounds nice as fuck to me. I'd love to find a girl who just wants to stay in and eat some good food and watch movies and fuck. In my experience it just seems like that doesn't stay enough for very long.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 02:21 AM
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It can be really hard to keep all the shit in your life moving forward and also do all of the stuff for your girl. I know my last semester of college I really had to buckle down and grind to finish out, and wasn't quite as attentive to my relationship, and all it took was a good three months of focusing on myself for once after three years of putting her first for the attraction to take a nosedive. It's really fucking hard man.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 02:20 AM
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A lot of people enjoy trashy behavior, but then they get older and wanna pretend they didn't enjoy it and go looking for someone who was never into it and try and fit into that hole.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 02:16 AM
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Honestly, I just don't have fun at all going to bars and parties. It's exhausting for me. I wouldn't do it at all if I didn't like meeting women and having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 02:15 AM
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Dude if I get shitfaced more than once every six months I hate myself. Totally not interesting at all to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/19 02:14 AM
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I mean he was gonna wife up Ariana and then she dumped his ass, but in my opinion he got lucky as fuck with that.
/r/MGTOW06/04/19 05:21 PM
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He's literally the dude that started that "big dick energy" thing. He gets girls because he has a reputation for having an enormous schlong.
/r/MGTOW06/04/19 05:20 PM
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What's life without a little risk?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 01:32 AM
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That's actually interesting to me, what sort of argument does he have for men not willing to marry their LTR? Does he have good points, or does he just shame them into it?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 10:18 PM
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Only if whoever compiled the data did it in a fucked up way. I'm happy to change my mind over good data though.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 10:17 PM
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Lmao you didn't give me anything. You literally gave me less than the people throwing entire Wikipedia articles at me. This should be an easy win, if it's true there should be piles of studies and evidence. Where is it? Why in over 100 comments has no one been able to give me any?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 10:07 PM
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Source?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 10:00 PM
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Why not? You can't make a claim without backing it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 09:52 PM
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I've been here a while. I see lots of PP women talking about how men who aren't interested in marriage aren't worth committing to and I'm wondering what benefit marriage would have for a man. There's the obvious benefit for women in making it harder to get out of the commitment, but women don't have that problem, so it seems one-sided to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 09:51 PM
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Source? And please not a fucking Wikipedia article.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 09:50 PM
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Where I live doesn't matter, it's a place with alimony laws. "Alimony is pennies compared to happiness" okay then, why would I ever get married? No one has given me a reason that marriage will make me happy enough with my life to risk having to pay alimony. Can you?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 09:49 PM
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My ultimate goal right now is finding someone who can give me a good reason for men to get married. I've been mostly met with poorly read Wikipedia articles, a couple good points, and one dude who says arranged marriage is unironically a good thing. I don't give a fuck about the SMP right now, I just wanna know why any dude would wanna get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 09:48 PM
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...and owing alimony? That's literally what this whole thread was about. If a man wants to leave a marriage he has to pay money, so why would he get into a marriage. No one so far has been able to give me a convincing answer. A couple people made good points, but no one has given me a clear benefit for men in marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 09:46 PM
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Good luck cherry picking more studies to fit your idea that ultra conservatism is a good idea! :)
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 09:44 PM
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Sure, and when there's a contract, it's hard for a man to walk away without specific circumstances, and it's easy for women to walk away.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 09:43 PM
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The first one returns a 10 year old study with 500 cites. BUST The second one returns a handful of studies with literal 2 digit numbers of cites. BUST Sorry dude, these are NOT good sources.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 09:42 PM
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No one is making you, but if you have some previous knowledge/sources that are better than "I misread a wikipedia article six months ago" I'd love to hear it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 09:40 PM
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You're the one making retarded claims. It's not my job to fact check you. It's my job to see if your claim has any merit. Most of the people making claims in here throw out a wiki article they misread at best. If you have literally nothing to show me, then I can safely assume you're literally just making it up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 09:37 PM
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Like with all the other baseless claims in this thread, I have to ask for a source.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 09:35 PM
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The implication being that they're giving money so they don't have to go to court and be forced to pay money. The end state is still the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 09:13 PM
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That is an excellent point, and not one I considered. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 09:09 PM
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"95% are uncontested because the parties came to an agreement concerning property, children, and SUPPORT on their own." Does alimony not count as support? Maybe the specific word "alimony" required a judge but this seems to suggest there is money changing hands anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 09:08 PM
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No, but I wouldn't conflate a healthy sexual relationship with a binding contract that fucks you when you try to get out of it. A relationship with a contract is unhealthy, just like a "just handjobs" sexual relationship in unhealthy.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 09:04 PM
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Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 09:02 PM
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Excellent point, probably the first good one I've heard so far in this thread. Thank you, I hadn't thought of it in that light.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 09:01 PM
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Can you link anything specific?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 09:00 PM
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Can you not have security without a legally binding marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 09:00 PM
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If a man you were dating told you he wanted to be married, let's say, in a religious institution, and was happen to make you next of kin and give you power of attorney, have kids, etc, but didn't want a legally binding marriage, would you still be interested?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 08:59 PM
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This is in response to large numbers of women (admittedly on reddit) that state they would never commit to a man not interested in marriage. I'm curious if there is any appreciable difference between a committed LTR and marriage outside of the downsides of divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 08:57 PM
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Another commenter brought up the idea that some states don't have alimony, and couldn't come up with a source that proved it, can you? I'm also interested in a source for "single-digit percentage of divorces" involve alimony. Seems like something that should be getting spread around a lot if it's true. And even good prenups get thrown out.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 08:56 PM
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No, wanting them to sign into a contract that fucks half the people signing is a red flag. I look at it like this: I'd be cool with getting married, but I wouldn't marry someone obsessed with getting married.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 08:49 PM
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I agree about children, but this is mostly in response to seeing women on reddit talking about how they would never commit to a man who wasn't interested in marriage. They can't seem to come up with a good reason other than not wanting him to be able to leave whenever he pleases. That's a red flag to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 08:39 PM
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So all states still have alimony? Just some states fuck you a little less hard than others?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 08:37 PM
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Do you have any thoughts on what a proper alternative could be?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 08:27 PM
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Sorry, I'm not seeing on that page anything like what you said in your first comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 08:26 PM
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Good comment, I wasn't aware of that first point on alimony. Do you have a source?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 08:16 PM
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And I'll give a fuck as soon as she's in jail.
/r/MGTOW28/03/19 07:42 PM
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I totally agree. You can't take an anecdote and turn it into a philosophy. I wish there were more subs where people talked about how great their relationships are. All the big ones are full of people bitching and getting cheated on. It can be extremely depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 05:21 PM
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In contrast, I had a long relationship that was basically textbook RP bullshit. I'm not a big RP guy, but someone more inclined to that thinking could EASILY have used the same experiences I had to go full-blown RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 05:11 PM
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Not cumming sometimes is okay, but I'd rather know you're not cumming so we can work towards the best possible sex for both of us. You're doing us no favors by lying about it, especially when I know you're probably going to talk mad shit about me when we break up because I could never actually make you cum.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 05:05 PM
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To be fair, it's not just men you have to do this with. I'm not going to tell a woman how bad her blowjobs are while I'm getting one. I'll wait awhile and bring up a different way I want to try, and then make a show of OBVIOUSLY enjoying it much better. If I'm literally in her mouth, unless she's hurting me I'm not gonna stop her because then I'm never getting head ever again.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/19 05:03 PM
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I know some sugar babies, they all have one thing in common: they have no problem putting out.
/r/MGTOW27/03/19 04:51 PM
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I mean if you're a 3/10 obese boy you can go way the fuck up. I've seen fatties go from 3s to 8s.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/19 03:07 AM
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He's also an idiot married to a 45 year old. Not exactly someone to model your life after.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/19 10:27 PM
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In my field I often have events where I'm required to wear all black, black suit, black shirt, black tie, black socks, black shoes. But if you're not required to your "suit order" should probably be something like blue, grey, black in that order. Black shouldn't be your first suit for sure.
/r/TheRedPill25/03/19 10:25 PM
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I left my last girl because she didn't like I spent most of my time working on being a better jazz saxophonist. Keep on keeping on my dude.
/r/MGTOW24/03/19 03:12 AM
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I mean deeper and harder isn't always better. The thing about being big is you have more variety. A small guy is only gonna be able to get so deep. A big guy can go deep or shallow depending on what fits in the moment.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 09:05 PM
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People overrate the ability of people they've hooked up with. If you're committed to the relationship and willing to get better, you're going to have better sex. I've never had a hookup that came CLOSE to the sex I was having towards the end of a 3 year relationship. The best hookups are like pretty okay relationship sex in my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 08:51 PM
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Bar none, the best sex I've ever had was the very last time I had sex with a girl I dated 3 years. Fucking mind blowing, insane sex. I got to where I could make her cum doing literally anything, it was easy as fuck. This coming from when we started neither of us could make the other cum and it was weird and stilted. Practice is important.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 08:49 PM
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Girth is WAY more important. It's really about overall volume of the penis, but increases in girth add way more volume than length. A long skinny penis is generally less satisfying than a short thick one.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 08:47 PM
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What makes the difference between the bad shit, the okay shit, and the good shit? For you anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 08:39 PM
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Don't listen to her words, watch her actions. The RP shit will fuck with you but there are some serious red flags here. Maybe she really does regret all that shit in her past? But who knows man. It's up to you to decide. If you're doubting this much already though, it's probably for the best to end things. Once you stop trusting someone it's almost impossible to trust them again.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 08:38 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 08:35 PM
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I think you don't understand what big dicks are. You might be thinking of the HUGE 1/1000 dicks that destroy, but if you have 7 inches in length and 5 in girth, you're WAY above the median but you're not gonna kill anyone with it.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 08:34 PM
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If you're smashing cervix's with your dick, even if it's big, you're probably doing it wrong. It's your job to figure out what angles/positions work best. There's also the benefit to having a big dick that you don't always have to use the whole thing. Girls like variety, sometimes they want the whole thing in deep, other times you can pump 3-4 inches in and out and they like that too. If you're small you can only ever give the small experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 08:33 PM
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This is just your opinion though. LOTS of women are into big dicks, and if they've never had one, if they find out you're big they're gonna want to take it for a spin just to satisfy the curiosity.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 08:31 PM
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Yeah. Foreplay is important and all but girls legit go nuts when they find out you're big. I'm not even huge, just big enough that most girls with low counts probably haven't been with bigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/19 08:30 PM
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Studies have shown that complaining makes you feel like shit. You should probably cut back on it a little.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 07:20 PM
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Not really expecting sympathy, all I did was ask you to clarify what you were saying. "fuck 10 girls" is a task, it's not advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 06:54 PM
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Thanks buddy, I appreciate the advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 06:44 PM
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How exactly does a bunch of hookups make me more ready to commit? Seems like the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 06:43 PM
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It's difficult to divorce the thought of the genuinely good times we had, with the digust of the act. This is very true. My ex was generally a pretty great person, but didn't feel like I gave her enough support, and instead of asking for me to change was I was doing, elected to have an emotional affair with the guy she's with now. I loved her, and we had a lot of good times, but I'll never think of her as anything other than an immature cheating little girl ever again.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/19 06:32 PM
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She was probably justifying it to herself in some way. My ex had a long going emotional affair that she still doesn't understand was an emotional affair. She actually legit told me "I needed more support, and I didn't think you'd give it to me even if I asked, so I went to him, and sometimes he felt like more of a boyfriend than you did" lmao. Insists I'm the bad guy in that situation. This chick was probably thinking "well it's his fault for not being around at the time, what was I supposed to …
/r/TheRedPill22/03/19 06:27 PM
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I love watching Joe Rogan defend her joke stealing when he was the one who stood up to Mencia and made that whole thing blow up.
/r/MGTOW22/03/19 06:00 PM
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"It's the process of getting your shit together that is important" Damn buddy you have no clue how much I needed that right now. I feel like I'm working on so many things at once right now I feel like I'll never be where I want to be, but it's not about the destination, it's about the journey. I'll sure be happier once I lose all this weight though.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/19 05:53 PM
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Guys can do LOTS of things that make up for height. Working out, dressing well, having a good personality, etc. If you cant get laid or find a partner it's not because you're short, it's because you're lazy and willing to blame the problem on the one thing outside your control.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/19 02:29 AM
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This is also true, but men care about looks a lot more than women will. Men like to think if they get shredded and wear shoe lifts they'll slay because that's what women have to do to get their attention (or the equivalent I guess), but for men aging isn't the death sentence it can be for women in the dating scene. At least as long as they don't get fat as fuck and if they start balding they shave it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 10:20 PM
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This is very true. But I don't think (many) people say that. I hear stuff more along the lines of "you're less desirable on average as you age and if you want to start a family you should do it young for the best chance of getting an adequate partner." I do hear people say it like you described, but those guys are weirdo outliers who probably don't see many women in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 10:10 PM
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Shit dude when I left my last girl she already had the dude on lock. It took a week for him to dump his girlfriend and another week after that and they were official. I actually can't fathom moving on that fast. We were together three years lmao I can't even bring myself to go for a hookup yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 08:54 PM
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It wasn't necessarily because she was attractive, but because I was part naive and part knew I wasn't going to marry her so I could deal with some of the shit for the time being because I liked having sex regularly and hanging out with her. But there were MASSIVE GLOWING RED FLAGS that I won't tolerate from anyone ever again, if nothing else than for my pride.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 08:34 PM
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33 makes it harder to find an LTR for women, but it's not like it's impossible. Being short doesn't make it impossible either.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 08:32 PM
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Most people cite the OK Cupid studies incorrectly anyway. My favorite is the 80/20 study where everyone conveniently ignores the part where men will swipe right on everyone but ONLY message the most attractive, whereas women will swipe 20% but message most of them. The way it works out is men end up being pickier as far as actual interaction goes than the women, but women vet more strongly at the outset.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 08:31 PM
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You can let yourself go or get your shit pushed in by a baby in your 20's too. If you take two exceptionally attractive women, but one is 20 and one is 30, the 20 year old is going to be the more attractive one 9/10 times.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 08:28 PM
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There's good looking, and there's good looking for a 30 year old. You can be a 10/10 30 year old, but if you stand next to a 10/10 20 year old you're losing every single time, as far as beauty goes. There's an argument to be made that the maturity of the older woman makes her more appealing as an LTR prospect, but if you're chasing the finest of honey's, you're probably chasing women in their early 20's.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 08:26 PM
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I like going to parties but I always feel like I have to spend a lot of time recovering from them. It makes me less likely to go when I know I have one day off this week and I'm gonna spend it getting hammered and not recovering.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 08:21 PM
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I enjoy parties, but they take a serious tole on me. I can't do it every weekend, every couple of weeks at the absolute most. Never gotten laid from a party though, maybe if I did I'd like them more. It doesn't help that I hate drinking, and there's lots of drinking at every party.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 08:19 PM
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No idea. For her she always needed a LOT of support. More support than I was able to give her, that's probably why some people do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 08:06 PM
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Yeah it seems like a lot of work. I'd think the only people who would bother and the people obsessed with a huge number. But I don't even understand how people manage to make it to 20. I've been with less than 10 and can't imagine it going much higher.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 08:04 PM
1

I've known some serial monogamists before and it always seems weird to me. My last girlfriend left her last ex like two weeks before we met and we jumped right into an LTR. When I left her she immediately got with someone else. I always feel like I need time to breathe and recover before I can give myself over to someone else again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 07:22 PM
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I mean isn't this exactly why rp dudes talk about spinning plates? It's basically having a number of FWB's. You get plenty of sex and there's a variety. You wont get the massive numbers a dude banging a new girl every week will get but it's also much easier and when one leaves you can find another.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/19 07:20 PM
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I think men who are unapproachable are just considered sex offenders lol. LMAO basically this. They're called "creepers." At least they were back when I was in junior high/high school. In college you graduate to getting accused of sexual harassment.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/19 07:35 AM
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I can't understand how you could possibly think a consent app is bad. It's so obvious lmao. I'm usually on the fence concerning the whole "false accusation epidemic" but this is just blatantly anti-men.
/r/TheRedPill18/03/19 08:29 PM
5

Lmao dating is never as hard as reddit makes it sound. But they'll get offended when you suggest they're all neckbeards who never go outside.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 03:26 AM
1

If you're being honest about your height it might just be they're used to hearing something like 5'10" from people your height.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 03:24 AM
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And I get told I'm dark blonde all the time when it's pretty dark brown, just shiny so if you look at where the light hits it can look blonde. I also have a red beard which you see a lot with brunette guys but I've never seen on a blonde guy
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 03:23 AM
2

People are straight up dumb as fuck when it comes to height. People swear all the time they're this or that but it's easy to see they're lying. I work with a guy who claims 5'11" and hes obviously 2-3 inches shorter than me at 5'9".
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/19 03:21 AM
1

Cold approaches don't happen that often. Your average well adjusted dude will talk to women if he is aware of them through an avenue, like they have a mutual friend or something. That shit's easy. It's much more difficult to walk up to a woman you don't know at all and start a conversation, at least for your average kinda shy dude. PUA is all about cold approach and numbers. Normal dudes will approach if they see a lane of approach.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/19 08:20 PM
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There are definitely areas where attractive people gather. I'm from Arkansas, and a Little Rock 10 is like an LA 8, and a Conway 10 is like a Little Rock 8 and an LA 6.
/r/TheRedPill17/03/19 06:56 PM
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It's nice that it makes it so fucking easy to get laid. Not necessarily on the dating apps, but it made women more comfortable with being easy as fuck. In the past if you wanted regular pussy you had to commit. Now I can walk into any bar and get some.
/r/MGTOW14/03/19 10:02 PM
1

My hair is pretty much exactly like my mom's dad except in color. Same texture, thickness, etc. I don't really mind losing color but I wouldn't be cool with going bald. All the guys on my dad's side that went bald though had really thin fine blonde hair and I don't have anything like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 09:40 PM
1

When I got my driver's license I was 15 and 5'9" and told them I'm 5'10" because I was hoping I'd at least grow another inch, but it never happened, so now I feel like a douche.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 08:39 PM
5

The general rule is anyone who claims 6'0" is actually 5'10", but anyone claiming 6'2" is 6'2".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 08:38 PM
1

Whenever a guy tells me his height I assume he's three inches shorter than he says. I'm usually very honestly with women about my height and they usually think I'm lying. They'll think I'm 5'11-6'0 when I say I'm 5'9" because dudes lie about that shit so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 08:37 PM
1

Exactly. No one knows what the fuck they're talking about when it comes to height or dick size. If you're not inflating your numbers you're falling behind, because literally every other dude does it. Turn that 5'10" dude to 6'2" and that 6 inch dick to 8.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 08:33 PM
5

7.5 is a big ass dick. You've probably seen dudes with 6 inchers say they have 7.5, but a legit 7.5 is pretty rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 08:32 PM
3

I tell guys if they're not lying about their height they're shooting themselves in the foot because literally every dude does it. Girls can't even tell how tall you are, I'm 5'9" and girls CONSTANTLY tell me I'm 5'11" or 6'0" because that's what 5'9" dudes usually claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 08:31 PM
2

Lmao one day this will be a thing of the past as these dudes who wanna pull this shit realize they don't have to get married.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 08:29 PM
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I don't think it's that they're in a harem, I think they just see themselves as being in a casual sex relationship with someone who has other casual sex relationships, and they ALSO have other casual sex relationships. It's more like a network of people banging each other than a dude with a bunch of personal girls, even if that's what it looks like from his perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 08:27 PM
1

My dad's side except for my dad are all bald as fuck. My mom's side keep all their hair and some kept color into their 80's. Looks like I'm all set.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 08:25 PM
1

Serious question: if you got fat really early in life and later lost the weight but have loose skin, how many points does that dock?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 08:24 PM
3

Women are powerful as fuck until it comes time to remember their birth control pill.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 08:22 PM
1

If you stack them they might as well be. Condoms are 97%, the pill is 99%, proper pulling out is in the 80's I think? Put them all together and you're not get pregnant unless you're the two most fertile people on the planet.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 08:22 PM
0

Get on the pill/implant/shot, and don't fuck dudes that refuse to wear condoms. Make him pull out as well, and if he fucks up a single time never talk to him again. Congratulations you're never going to get pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 08:21 PM
3

If they don't want children they should just not be retarded about it. Contrary to what pro-choice people will tell you, it's really not that hard to not get pregnant. Condoms, pulling out, and whatever birth control the woman likes best (pill, implant, shots, etc) and you're looking at a 99.9997% chance of not getting pregnant. Those are astronomically low odds. If you somehow manage to actually get pregnant after all of that, congrats, you're literally the two most fertile people on the plant,…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 08:20 PM
2

No shit idiot. Next!
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/19 08:16 PM
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AMAZIN
/r/MGTOW13/03/19 12:10 AM
1

It's fucking stupid to encourage the behavior you apparently hate. If she thinks he's that gross, it should be a no-brainer that she probably shouldn't fuck him. But she does anyway because she either doesn't actually hate his behavior or he's attractive enough to her that he gets a free pass. It's gross that she tries to have it both ways by taking advantage of his obvious willingness to fuck her while also trying to look like a good person by talking shit about someone who is so obvious not in…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 08:28 PM
2

Be strong buddy. It's tougher than you think being single for the first time in a while. Cut out your ex completely, cut out all her friends, block all of them on all social media, don't let anyone tell you how she's doing, completely discontinue giving a fuck. If you spend any time at all thinking about her you're gonna have a bad time.
/r/MGTOW11/03/19 07:23 PM
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There was a laundry list of reasons I ended my last relationship, and she still didn't understand why I was ending it. She was totally oblivious to all the things she did that I didn't like or made me uncomfortable even though I had tried to talk to her about it for ages.
/r/MGTOW11/03/19 04:36 AM
1

I agree with all of that. What I was saying is if you have made it to 3+ dates and you're still fucking other people, there's a grossness to that. I feel like after three dates you should have a reasonably good idea of whether you want to be exclusive or cut them loose, or something in between. If I hit date 10 for example and I found out she still had a side piece, I would be a little hurt. It would probably prevent me from wanting to pursue her any more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 12:24 AM
1

Seriously. If you've fucked 30 dudes, THATS OKAY, but why would you get with Billy down the road who's been with two ltrs in his whole life? Why the fuck do you think that's a good idea?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 12:17 AM
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The idea of a woman I've been on multiple dates with still fucking other people honestly grosses me out. I wouldn't still be fucking around if I developed an interest in someone. Are people just wired differently when it comes to sex? Or do you develop that mindset.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 12:12 AM
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A lot of people do this unintentionally, especially if they're the "wanna fuck when they wanna fuck" type. They dont think of it as stringing along a guy they like, there just happens to be a guy they hang out with but dont wanna fuck, but if a dude happens to show up that they wanna fuck, they're just gonna fuck them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/19 12:09 AM
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Lmao you are 100% not wrong. After we broke up it took her about two weeks to start fucking her "friend" that she saw "as a brother."
/r/MGTOW11/03/19 12:04 AM
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This was literally one of the biggest reasons I broke up with my last girlfriend. I would literally always initiate contact, if i didn't do it for two days, we weren't talking for two days, and she had the fucking balls to say she was the one putting in all the effort. No thank you.
/r/MGTOW10/03/19 10:52 PM
2

Lmao I had a girlfriend who was careless about her bc because "we can just get an abortion" and she'd get so mad when I didn't wanna fuck her or I wanted to use condoms. Sooooo glad I dodged that bullet.
/r/MGTOW10/03/19 02:54 AM
1

I know horrifically ugly women with sugar daddies AND boyfriends. So yeah, they might get pissed they can no longer get the top tier dudes but it doesn't REALLY matter to them in the long run.
/r/MGTOW06/03/19 11:17 PM
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Sure, you can make that argument, but you have to apply it to anyone. I think we can all agree that when women get into relationships with dudes that beat the fuck out of them it's not their fault though, so I'll give guys who date crazy women the benefit of the doubt.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 05:35 AM
2

I would count it as full PIV or PIA intercourse, as least as far as heterosexual couples are concerned. If I thought about it awhile I could probably come up with "what number of blowjobs is appropriate for you age" or something but I don't really care THAT much.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/19 01:27 AM
2

I think it would be really fun as something to get into as a couple. I probably wouldn't do it by myself or date someone who does it by themselves though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 10:26 PM
6

This is correct. A woman with 5-10 partners by age 30 is cool. A woman with 10 partners by the time they graduate high school is a red flag.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 10:21 PM
2

BP guys don't say stuff like that. It's always "just be nice and yourself and eventually the right woman will come along." Which is nice advice for women but absolutely will never work for guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 10:16 PM
7

any emotionally healthy girl will not just leave a partner unless something is already wrong with the relationship A lot of the problem with RP guys thinking this is they don't get involved with emotionally healthy women. I know it's pretty dumb to say as a blanket statement, but a lot of what I read from them sounds like they got fucked over by fucked up crazy women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 10:15 PM
0

If you're hot and still a virgin that means you have incredible standards. If I as a person meet those impossible standards it's very validating because it means I'm obviously doing the right things in my life. If you're a disgusting pig and I'm the first guy to EVER fuck you, I'm literally scraping the bottom of the barrel. So yeah it is about appearance, but it's also what that appearance says about the both of us.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 10:07 PM
2

In my experience, women that are still virgins past the age of around 20 have some sort of issue or hangup. Best case scenario, they're just waiting for marriage. More often they aren't having sex because they're horribly horribly insecure, or they're extremely unattractive, or both. Sometimes they're just horrible to be around in every way possible. I know a couple that are "waiting for the right guy" but the right guy seemingly never comes along for some reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 10:05 PM
2

Unattractive people are certainly capable of pairing off. The ones that don't have standards too high for what they're capable of pulling and are also unwilling to better themselves enough to get to a point getting the kind of people they're interested in.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 10:03 PM
5

To be honest a large portion of the people who use "pill" terminology at all are completely fucked in the head. There's a reason you NEVER hear that shit in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 09:59 PM
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I've seen it happen with women a few times. If there is a single woman just head and shoulders more beautiful than the rest of the crowd, 90% of the dudes there will be absolutely drooling over her.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/19 09:57 PM
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