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Police officer sexually abused me when I was 21. His colleagues laughed at me when I tried to report him. Russia is wild and corrupt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 06:34 AM
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Honestly telling from experience cheaters do want to be caught
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/02/22 06:32 AM
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This situation would be hilarious if there wasn't baby involved. I feel so bad for this poor child
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/01/22 10:41 AM
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Does anyone know how her haircut is called? I want the same one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/04/21 10:25 AM
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I feel like that should be added to handbook
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/01/21 10:29 PM
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I’m personally okay with taking party drugs like xtc or mephedrone on raves/parties/concerts. My dealbreaker is people who use drugs casually on daily basis. I really hate weed tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/01/21 08:02 AM
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People do not change unless it’s for themselves. Not for anyone, ever. Also abusive people do not change because it works for them. Some people could change after maybe some kind of near-death life changing experience but otherwise I do not believe so. If an abusive/low value man appears to be changed for someone it’s only temporary.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 11:58 PM
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That was a great post, thank you
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/01/21 11:27 PM
3

Our kids would be beautiful but most likely psychopathic and prone to addictions
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/12/20 11:48 AM
1

Lmao when my ex's new gf reached out to me I learned that he lies about studying to be a clinical psychologist. This dude barely finished highschool and unable to study due to how his brain fried from drugs. I was crying with laughter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 07:14 AM
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It’s hilarious to me how russian redpilled men always say how russian women are gold-digging promiscuous feminist bitches and western women are much better when american redpilled men say exact opposite stuff and think that slavic women are traditional and submissive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/12/20 09:18 AM
3

She worked as a prostitute to support his lifestyle too. In one of the streams she told that she’s working to buy him a new iPhone. This dude always leeched of previous girlfriends too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/12/20 03:12 AM
14

It’s ironic that today is also the birthday of my shitty ex who used to beat the shit out of me lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/12/20 09:59 PM
2

It’s the bare minimum but her bf still made for her more than my ex when I had an abortion
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/11/20 02:08 AM
14

I would take PS5 for myself and give him the box filled with poop and glitter
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 10:27 PM
3

Aww this is actually cute
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 06:09 PM
106

Wtf it’s my birthday. I’m offended
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/11/20 04:21 AM
38

This! My ex had the weirdrest relationship with his mother. It had slightly incestious vibes mixed with hate. His mom used to call him antichrist and demon and would protect and defend him at the same time. Tbh all his family is a bunch of weirdos and I'm so glad that they are not my in-laws
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 11:34 PM
12

Every time I slept at my NVM ex’s house my face would breakout really bad because of how dirty the sheets always were. I also had to remind him to buy toiletries and stuff. Cringe
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 10:44 AM
20

My ex still owes me almost 1k. It’s a huge money from where I live
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/11/20 10:11 AM
2

Director Ari Aster said himself that Midsommar is a breakup movie
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 03:28 AM
22

I lost all interest in sex as response to being abused by my NVM ex. Still I blamed myself for not wanting to have sex and forced myself to go through it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/11/20 03:13 AM
35

That’s why I’m grateful that I was able to get an abortion
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 11:31 AM
68

Omfg. I had an abortion earlier this year and recently learned that my ex was talking to another girl at that time. There’s nothing sacred for lowlife NVM
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 09:25 AM
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Communication works only if other person is willing to listen. I spent so much time researching on how to communicate in a relationship and wondered why wasn’t anything working when I just had to accept that there is nothing I could do except stand up and leave
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/11/20 09:22 AM
4

I blocked my ex 4 months ago and never checked his socials and I’m still trauma bonded as hell...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/11/20 04:35 AM
19

Yep! I prefer to just be silent about my views and ask questions instead and listen, so I could avoid fake woke guys
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/10/20 01:50 AM
56

Every time someone posts an article about some way abusers manipulate people I’m always like “shit my ex did that to me!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/20 04:51 PM
166

How sociopathic you should be to do something like that.. I just can’t wrap my head around it
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 05:13 PM
363

My ex cheated on me while I was recovering after suicide attempt and being 10 days in deep coma. This video makes me a little bit sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 04:16 PM
5

lmao. My dad is barely 5'5 and he is a literal "chad". He is fit, kind, generous and friendly. People love him. It was never about the height
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/10/20 07:38 PM
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I don't care. I don't communicate with his friends, he's blocked everywhere and I have no idea what's going on in his life. You should block him for your well-being But shitty people do not change and he's just on his best behaviour in the beginning of the relationship so she'll also be dissapointed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 02:05 AM
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Oh my god this! I met his mom just days into the relationship and she seemed so relieved that someone would look after him. This was way before I knew that his whole family tired of his shit and avoids him like plague. Meeting family means nothing, sometimes they just want to get rid of their lousy sons somehow
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/10/20 10:39 PM
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We had r/GenderCritical but it was banned
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 01:00 PM
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I blocked my ex two weeks after breakup because I didn’t want to be stressed waiting for his text. Knowing he can’t reach me makes me feel much better
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 12:52 PM
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This reminds me of how some men would constantly joke about making dogs lick peanut butter from their balls. It’s like they actually confess to being into bestiality. Never seen a woman joke about fucking a animal
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 02:58 PM
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I’m pretty sure my ex stopped maturing at the age of 14. He dealt with life and relationship issues like a dumb teenager would.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 04:00 PM
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I kinda doubt that LVM could actually be changed unless they want to become better. They could look better or learn a couple of new manipulation tricks but they still a shitty men at their core. Bancroft says that abusive men are abusive because it works for them
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 02:49 PM
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I learned the hard way to not befriend pickmes. Never again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/20 07:40 AM
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Aftermath of prolonged gaslighting is unreal. You start to doubt your own judgment and feel like a crazy person. I have to constantly re-check things I say or do because I’m never sure about myself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 03:55 PM
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Is there any info on how to change your attachment style?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 02:59 PM
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I’m still attracted only to same people as me. Creative types, same hobbies, taste in music and movies
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 02:55 PM
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I really should do this too I’m having a huge anger issues after being abused and indulge in revenge fantasies as a way to cope. Anger is eating me alive :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 04:08 PM
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Lmao my ex also had a shitty level of humor and he would steal my jokes and tell them as his own
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 02:36 AM
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My ex bff saw how horrible my ex treated me and even took pictures of my bruises as evidence and still took his side after breakup and they both preach that I was “abusive” She’s honestly the most pickme girl I’ve ever known. She threw her friend of 15 years under a bus for a guy who calls her ugly slut behind her back and tells everyone embarrassing stuff about her. I think they’re perfect match
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 03:41 PM
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I used to screenshot dumb shit they say and put it in a folder before deleting chat
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 10:14 PM
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I had to remind my ex to buy toiletries every damn time lmao. He would rather spend money on alcohol and live like a hobo than buy stuff he actually needs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 10:12 PM
6

After suffering from acne for a million years I just found that I needed only retinol, gentle cleanser, good moisturizer and SPF. My skin never looked that good in my life. I’m never going to spend hundreds on skincare ever again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 06:24 PM
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Idk what’s with these people. I used to have mephedrone addiction at one point and would be mortified if someone knew. Why brag about it? Are they 15?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 07:12 PM
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They will never appreciate a good woman and will cheat on literally anyone. It’s not because of value of woman, it’s because of inability to form close bonds, low empathy and general boredom so they keep chasing the new shiny thing. She better off without him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 07:08 PM
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It’s easier than ever to groom children and teenagers now because of social media so it’s really important to make a handbook for young girls
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/09/20 07:05 PM
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It’s true how shitty relationship affects your health. After my NVM ex left all my bpd symptoms vanished and I finally started losing weight
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 08:28 PM
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That woman from car dealership is real MVP. I’m glad that you got rid of that cheating waste of air
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/09/20 08:25 PM
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If you’re not excited about dating, do not date.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 09:14 PM
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I really love this new younger generation of girls. They don’t take any bullshit
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 09:13 PM
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I have only one good male friend but its probably because he is very uninterested in sex
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 03:06 PM
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Yes, trauma bonds are very real and almost impossible to break. But after 10 years this is enabling. They absolutely should sit down with her and have a long talk, about how this situation affects her and everyone, suggest some options and offer help with separating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 01:29 AM
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I will never judge anyone for not being able to leave an abusive relationship but crying to you after every fight? I feel like the some kind boundaries should be drawn here. My old friends told me they won’t be listening me ranting about my ex anymore but they would help me if I made an active effort to leave the relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/09/20 12:52 AM
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Watching porn is wrong even if you’re not in a relationship. Gross. So many women trafficked, destroyed mentally and physically so men could have their pathetic 3-minute wank
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 11:09 PM
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This bullshit narrative ruins lives
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 07:54 PM
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Everything will be alright sweetie. Just block him everywhere so you don’t have to see him and new girl. I’m in the same situation rn And I know what it feels like
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:37 PM
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Yeah no, it’s love-bombing. Good man will NEVER treat a woman like shit. Sorry girl but your ex is LVM and soon will abuse his new girl too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:30 PM
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I cringe when girls are raving about exes texting them or trying to get together. They reached out only because they lonely and need a quick ego stroke. I know guys who have a rotation of exes and old hookups to text from time to time. Attention from ex is not a compliment, it just means they think you’re available and easy to use and dispose again
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:19 PM
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Their compliments are so shallow. Like you’re beautiful, you’re smart, you’re sexy. It’s never about what they like about you. They see women as things to use and abuse
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:16 PM
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100% true! It’s hard to do at first because women are tought to be super responsible for everything in a relationship. When I was with my NVM ex no matter how hard I tried or never tried at all, the outcome is always the same. It’s never been about us and never will, it’s about their demons and insecurities. When you feel horrible about how men wronged you remind yourself that it’s not about you and walk away
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/09/20 06:14 PM
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Him mom and stepdad tried to warn me about him and I didn’t believe because they would describe a demon while my ex seemed like a kindest person in the world. Also his best friend at the time would tell me that my ex is not who he seems to be. I wish I listened, but I was really inexperienced and dumb.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy31/08/20 04:51 PM
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He’s not perfect but I had a great childhood. Makes me wonder why I even stayed with my NVM ex haha
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 01:04 AM
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My dad is HVM. He met my mom at the bus and took her to restaurant the same day and they married within a year. My mom left her fiance for him. He always provided for family and I never saw my parents fight. There was no any tension in the air ever. When my mom got cancer he made sure she got the best treatment and found her the best oncologist in our city. Dad always supported my interests and hobbies and I picked up a lot from him. He pays a ton of attention to me even today.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 12:56 AM
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There is no magic way to just stop loving someone. If you read the handbook and books you already have all info you need. Getting over a relationship takes a lot of patience, time and determination. Its great that you already scheduled a meeting with therapist. In a meantime go NC, fill up your schedule, pick up a hobby or two. Don’t even stalk your ex’s social media. And most importantly, accept that it’s over. Once you’ll let go of any hope it will get much more easier
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 11:46 PM
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Omg girl. I also have a story to tell. I took a loan to help my ex move to another city with me and settle there - he never appreciated the gesture and started making my life a living hell just when we moved. He would always say that he will pay me back but ofc never did. That was a lot of money for me and my credit score is really bad but I’m working on it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/08/20 10:22 PM
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Maybe picsart? It has millions of user-made stickers you can plaster on photos and I’m 99% sure it has there brush stickers
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 11:25 PM
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Isn’t it nice when people let you know how shitty they are before you get emotionally invested? Lmao
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 11:19 PM
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I really really hate these future-faking men. This is a form of abuse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 11:07 PM
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This absolutely was written by a man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 11:12 AM
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She’ll come around. When I was with my ex I was hating on FDS because I knew everything on there is truth and I was a pickme
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 03:26 PM
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Perfomative and not exactly good. It seems good because you insanely emotionally attached
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/08/20 03:24 PM
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ASPD ofter comes comorbid with bipolar so it's def possible. My ex was diagnosed bipolar and later with aspd. Honestly your post makes me think we dated a same guy His stare was a creepiest I've ever seen too. At the beginning I always thought that he was about to snap at me all the time. Later I got used to it and his eyes were much less intense but still
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 09:45 PM
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Since all languages are welcome I'm posting one of my faves for my fellow russian FDS women ;) Basically it's about a woman kicking LVM out of her life and driving away from him on cabriolet. She's a little sad, but she knows it's for the best since he doesn't have a heart and she's bored and lonely with him Ludmila Uspenskaya - Cabriolet https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=V00HNxI40M0
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/20 09:34 PM
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This is a great guide but I would never be able to pull it off. I’m just a very anxious person :(
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/20 12:59 PM
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My ex was really attractive but looked already a little rough at the age of 22 because no skincare, exercising or proper grooming. He is delusional about his looks and thinks he is going to look great even at 40. Boy no, not with your lifestyle Edit: 30-something year old former “pretty boys” who think they look the same as they were at 19 are hilarious tbh. Genetics can only take you so far, after certain age your lifestyle and choices decide how you look
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 09:53 AM
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Lmao I swear men are emotionally retarded
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/08/20 09:44 AM
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Hnnnng goals!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 10:34 PM
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Seconding dr. Ramani! Her content is very informative and compassionate, I love her narcissistic glossary series
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:19 PM
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Toxic relationships work the same way because of intermittent reinforcement. You can stop loving a person a long time ago but still finding yourself helpless and being unable to leave. This really should be teached at schools
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 05:18 PM
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For real! I always thought there should be LVM database because dating these people is very dangerous
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/08/20 04:39 PM
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Sagittarius 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 06:53 PM
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How do you know when you’re ready to date again after a nasty breakup?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 06:50 PM
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That’s creepy as hell. Can’t imagine living my life always looking to exploit someone
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 01:20 AM
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So true! When I started making friends at school and going to therapy my mega NVM ex perceived this as a huge threat and started throwing stupid tantrums accusing me of cheating and wanting to leave him. LVM/NVM are pure predators.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/08/20 01:04 AM
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My mom is a really weird and passive person when it comes to health so when she was diagnosed with lymphoma my dad had to drag her to every doctor’s appointment. He also found me a rare antibiotic and brought it to me by helicopter when I was in a very critical condition after suicide attempt. Me and my mom would probably end up dead if my dad was a LVM. It’s scary how choosing the wrong man could destroy your life in so many ways
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/08/20 11:20 PM
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LVM project like crazy. My ex used to drive me nuts with crazy accusations of cheating because he was the unfaithful one
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/20 08:22 AM
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What a piece of shit! This is a body of a woman who created an entire life within her. This makes me so fucking angry
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 11:29 PM
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I think when fwb turns into something serious it’s never for a good reason and not going to last
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/20 06:06 PM
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I love when shitty men out themselves like this
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 09:59 PM
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Thank you! After being treated badly it feels unreal to be unconditionally supported by people I unwillingly neglected for some time. Friends and family are everything and only thing that matters
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 09:52 PM
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I’m also 1 month free. Not as productive as you but also lost 7kgs, stopped using drugs and reconnected with my old girlfriends. Feels amazing finally doing something good for myself
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/20 06:21 PM
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Rationalization is a bitch. Sometimes people would believe the most ridiculous lies to avoid facing ugly bitter truth. No more rationalization for me tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/07/20 07:17 PM
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I love posts like this! Really encouraging
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 12:31 PM
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Please assign me a flair! I tried writing a modmail but still nothing
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/07/20 11:58 AM
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Yep, the opposite of love it’s not hate, it’s indifference
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 10:54 PM
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Yep! Triangulation is a gaslighting tactic. They make you jealous on purpose so you’ll be insecure, anxious and look over their flaws. No decent person would make you feel that way
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 04:36 PM
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Ugh this is so cute
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/07/20 04:28 PM
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You were triangulated. Also since he was with her only for 6 months and she’s unavailable he probably just idealises her a lot. It’s not about you, it never was about you. There is no dreamgirl, he will hurt another women too
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 04:03 PM
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Gosh. My ex did similar shit. He would lie even when presented with evidence, without even flinching. I’m so glad I don’t have to deal with that shit anymore, these people are completely narcissistic and antisocial
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/07/20 03:54 PM
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I love Dr Ramani! She is so gentle and compassionate, listening to her is like being comforted by wise cool aunt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/07/20 10:51 PM
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Good for you for not responding to his pathetic breadcrumbs! I’m 99% sure he isn’t actually sorry tho
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/20 08:58 PM
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He’s probably already abusing her. She’ll still go through narcissistic relationship cycle.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/06/20 02:23 PM
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Thank you ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 03:28 PM
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Yep, classic idealise-devalue-discard. Just wasted three years on this nightmare relationship
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/20 11:10 AM
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He was straight up sociopathic sometimes. If I married him I’d end up in a body bad one day
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/20 10:32 AM
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I just wanted to thank this sub and all people in it. I was brutally discarded by my abusive ex and this sub really lifts my spirit. Thanks to all of you, girls! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/06/20 07:15 AM
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