| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 5 | Not sure what to do with this guy of questionable value..nip it in the bud? | SEEKING ADVICE | yehet420 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 02:20 PM |
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| 232 | Pickme women in the workplaceThis is so sad Alexa play “Fucked my Way to the Top” by Lana del Rey 😭😭😭 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/03/22 12:56 AM |
| 66 | Celibacy is POWERFUL ❤️✨This is what I have been saying! Due to years of sexual trauma I had extremely poor boundaries for so long. I feel like I have finally taken my power back being celibate. My ex last year was the last person I was intimate with in a while and I honestly don’t miss freely giving my body to LVM. They have to earn it now and it feels amazing to know it’s all up to me and I will never succumb to feeling like I “owe” a man sex due to pressure or doing the bare minimum ever again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 10:43 AM |
| 54 | Social conditioningI am an ex-SW and I had the idea of starting an OF (you don’t have to post porn content on it) teaching young women about other ways to make money during COVID or just whenever, really. I now work in sales making 60-80K a year. I hate the way SW is being romanticized now as the trendy side hustle for young girls to start as soon as they turn 18 😞 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 04:18 AM |
| 4 | That's what you get when you build a manI fucking hate when scrotes try and excuse any and all assholery with “hEy I’m JuSt BeIn HoNeSt”....I’ve had dudes straight up say “hey, wanna smash?” And when I called them disgusting they say “hey can’t fault me for being honest and keeping it real” YES we can. They adopt this bullshit “no filter” attitude to show they don’t even care to respect us in the least or show even a modicum of decency. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 05:57 PM |
| 0 | Not sure what to do with this guy of questionable value..nip it in the bud?Yeah he doesn’t directly say stuff like “I hate minorities” or calls them slurs but for example I will be watching a show with a majority black women on it and he will comment how their hairstyles are all tacky or I will be watching a Kpop video and he will say they are all “ugly” and look 12 years old...it just is gross and rubs me the wrong way. Very ignorant! Thank you for your story. I don’t want to seem like I am thirsty to start seeing a new man but my ex seemed to move on just a few month… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 09:28 PM |
| 13 | Not sure what to do with this guy of questionable value..nip it in the bud?Honestly, yeah. Relationships take work, but I shouldn’t need to write a whole thesis about the pros and cons 😆 thanks, sis | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 03:36 PM |
| 1 | Not sure what to do with this guy of questionable value..nip it in the bud?I asked him about the moving thing and all the places he moves around are in the Miami area, not out of state or even out of the county or anything. I didn’t press him on why he is going back to France for a couple of months but he did say he is coming back and that he is in the Miami area for good. I have lots of platonic male and female friends who are like this too, constantly moving around within the same county/city area. I don’t really understand it, but I do find it a bit strange and unst… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/08/20 03:34 PM |
| 6 | Weekly FDS Chat, Check-In, Quick Questions Answered July 30 2020What do you do if you live kind of “out of the way”? Does it still make sense to ask the guy to pick you up or Uber you if all the stuff you do on dates is by their place? I live in an inland suburb in South Florida and the new guy I’m talking to lives by the beach near Fort Lauderdale/Miami. My mom says “don’t keep driving out and ‘chasing’ him you look thirsty and desperate, make him come to you” (my mom has a more HVW mentality than me lol) not to mention my LVM ex always had me drive all the… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 06:12 PM |
| 6 | dating in 2020Yup! “FeMaLeS tHeSe DaYs AmIriTe KiNg?” (Side note your handle is hilarious 🤣 love 90DF) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/08/20 12:37 AM |
| 2 | What is the long-term motivation for working/focusing on my “beauty”?Bar soaps are not meant for washing your face, they can do damage to the outer protective layer. But if it has been working okay for you then do your thing, I just wouldn’t advise it for everyone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/20 07:12 PM |
| 3 | What is the long-term motivation for working/focusing on my “beauty”?Lol I don’t recommend any products to my clients that I don’t actually use or would not use myself. Yes, there are some lucky people who don’t need to do a whole lot to keep their skin nice but our skin is exposed to dirt, sweat and bacteria every day. You need to wash it with a gentle cleanser, that’s skincare. Then you also need a moisturizer so your skin isn’t dried out from washing it. And sunscreen to prevent premature aging from the sun’s rays and protect from skin cancer. Maybe you can ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/20 06:46 PM |
| 6 | What is the long-term motivation for working/focusing on my “beauty”?Skincare is most definitely not snake oil. As a licensed esthetician I can tell you not everyone has “normal” unproblematic skin. If you have oily, dry, combination, aged skin or suffer from acne there exist products to help with that. Not everyone’s skin can be healed by just eating salad and not smoking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/20 05:40 PM |
| 8 | Or- better yet, don’t reply.Sorry to hijack your comment but anyone have tips for how to deal with irresponsible, selfish, psychologically abusive LVM baby daddy (we are broken up, thank god) who does not respect boundaries and does not put in the effort? I try to keep things short with him but when it comes to my child he knows how to push my buttons, and get me on emotional rants, which he then doesn’t reply to, making me more frustrated. I only text when necessary, and then try my hardest to work with him but he immedia… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/20 01:03 AM |
| 92 | Quite.My baby’s dad and I have been broken up for 8 months and he STILL brings up all the ways I “ruined” our relationship as an excuse and justification for his lack of financial support and emotional abuse. And whenever I bring these up it’s always “I aPoLoGiZeD aLrEaDy wHaT mOrE dO yOu WaNt” 🙄 LVM are always the victims and can’t stand it when you tell them about themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/02/20 09:57 PM |
| 8 | Haven’t been on tinder in years but this made me laughExactly. My father had me at around 50 and just passed away last year (I’m 29) and I feel way too young to be losing a parent. I feel like it’s definitely a little selfish to have a child after you pass a certain age. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/02/20 06:47 AM |
| 79 | As requested: a medical professional explains why you should not be having anal sex.Ive always said this and had women get so mad lol. “It’s the only way I can come!!1” uh...sure, Jan. 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/20 04:58 AM |
| 14 | Don't send nudes. EVER.Exactly! I once went on an okcupid date with the most gorgeous, seemingly HVM ever. I really thought I hit the jackpot. So I forced myself not to sleep with him. We made out the second time we hung out but then I made an excuse to leave before things got too steamy. I went home and he unfriended me on Facebook and said he found someone who he “connected better with”. 🙄 but I stupidly didn’t view this as dodging a bullet at the time, instead I blamed myself for not putting out and told myself not… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/01/20 08:21 PM |
| 2 | Women Have Nothing to Lose and Everything to Gain from Making Men Pay For First DatesI would not say FDS is conservative lol. They advocate for women to have their own money in case the relationship goes south. I don’t think they necessarily believe in the gender roles so much as they see them as a means to an end. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/19 06:10 AM |
| 23 | JUST👏🏼SAY👏🏼NO👏🏼TO👏🏼TACO👏🏼BELL👏🏼 😂I will never date a gamer again. It’s okay to play it for recreation in moderation but when you spend most of your day on your ass with your headphones in and expect your girlfriend to just sit there and watch you? When you do that instead of getting a job? (Which a growing number of young men are guilty of these days) And then when you complain about it other men say “Just learn to play too so you can both have fun!” Why should I be the one to take up a new hobby I have no interest in just to s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/12/19 09:40 PM |
| 86 | Great apology, that's real learning to do better.They make memes about how all women these days look the same because of makeup trends but go on Tinder and 95% of the guys on it are so generic, ugly, and/or basic. They take the most unflattering pictures, too! I want to give them all makeovers Queer Eye style, the ones who aren’t totally hopeless anyway 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/12/19 03:39 PM |
| 20 | Had this conversation on tinder this morning. I truly can’t believe some men are like this about self confidence.Yeah no, not knocking your response at all. I also say things like that, or “haha thanks, I try!” Looks like you picked up on his fuckboy-ness real quick 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 04:12 PM |
| 41 | Had this conversation on tinder this morning. I truly can’t believe some men are like this about self confidence.See, the first time they call me pretty, I’ll give them a simple “thank you” and continue the conversation. When they keep repeating it as a tactic (guys will do this, especially creeps trying to get your guard down and love bomb you) is when I will say “yes, I am quite aware. I’m very beautiful. Anything else?” | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/12/19 03:58 PM |
| 14 | Reminder: if nobody knows you’re together, you’re single, sis.I don’t know. My last relationship, I used to post him a lot at first but there would always be random, hateful, jealous men who would comment nasty things on our photos like “he looks gay” “you need a real man” etc just because he was slim and not very muscular. Bitter ex-friends after a fight would also message him making up some crap about how I was cheating on him or something, just to start a rift between us. So I stopped posting about him and just put “in a relationship” on my About Me. Al… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/19 02:50 AM |
| 3 | Anyone else gets turned off by picky eaters?My ex was like this and it was the worst. But makes sense that a manchild would have the palate of a literal child so not sure why I was surprised 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/11/19 02:20 AM |
| 11 | Despite what they are saying, men care about statusI’m active in the local music scene around here and if you had any idea the amount of petty ass drama and gossip that happens daily between the males in it it would make your head spin. And yet they love to claim women are the cAtTy ones who don’t like each other lol. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/19 11:25 PM |
| 24 | Perfect way to deal with their “jokes”They do it online as well. Whenever I call out a dude for posting a shitty misogynistic meme they get SO triggered and annoyed that I didn’t just shut up and laugh along. Half the time I don’t even bother saying anything anymore, maybe just like the comment of someone who said it isn’t funny and I actually got MESSAGED asking why I liked the person’s comment, and that I was “crazy” for not being able to “take a joke” 🙄 The fragility. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/19 09:46 PM |
| 49 | If this isn’t the goddamn truth 😂😭This shit pisses me off to no end. I remember people using that to excuse why Snooki got punched by that idiot in a bar. Even though he was stealing HER drinks the whole night and she was just standing up for herself and confronting him. People are so vile. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/11/19 07:57 AM |
| 9 | I didn’t want to go this route but I think I’m starting to really dislike and look down on most men. Don’t want to feel this way.Same tbh. I keep trying to remind myself there are “good guys” out there and not become a full-blown misandrist but it’s so hard when reading some form of what you described above is legit an every day occurrence. And people will say “it must just be your circle/who you hang with” no, it’s everywhere lol. Real life, Internet. I really want to expect better but they don’t make it easy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/11/19 05:35 PM |
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