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| 3 | Thoughts on the Piers Morgan/Andrew Tate interview?Disheartening to say the least. It’s a gift to pull it off when I meet them I always think about how masterful it is to be a grifter and wonder how they can live their lives being such a net negative to society. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/22 11:04 AM |
| 16 | If a woman isn’t interested in you within the first few minutes, just never botherIt’s a bad place to be anyway because at the point she’s never going to respect you usually it’s only because they’re settling since other options dried up. Otherwise what could possibly happen in a matter of 10 years? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/22 06:30 AM |
| 1 | What happens when people "give up"?I keep on saying no one told me this that “man cannot be still, must always grow” and as if someone was supposed to, this has always been my issue. There’s so much I want to accomplish but I don’t trust myself to be able to figure it out so I set my bar so low. Now I wanna raise the bar but I’ve turned myself into this robot at work who always realigns back into this mechanical mindset that I can’t break. Something needs to change soon before I truly go crazy but I don’t know how when my mind fe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/09/22 01:46 PM |
| 1 | How common is this? "I have an amazing career, make almost 6 figures, have lots of friends and family, fit and physically active, many hobbies and talented, but I can't get a single date"You actually have most of what you need to be attractive and you don’t realize it. Being forthright and obvious about anything for whatever reason is unattractive to many women. It’s the slow reveal that you’re a competent and alluring guy, but let her peel off those layers by dropping hints. Many guys who are very passionate need to play the slow game first because they can get long winded very fast if the girl isn’t interested in what they are. Having hobbies is good, being unaware the girl ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/09/22 01:43 PM |
| 1 | You can't complain about female promiscuity if you aren't willing to marry the virgin that you say you want and provide for herYeah the umbrella-ing of every girls experience is something I noticed too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/09/22 10:19 AM |
| 1 | people who have high n-count, do you find it difficult to maintain ltr relationships?Why do you care if fat girls have high standards if you’re not going after them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/22 03:33 AM |
| 1 | I hate how fucking stupid a lot of black men have become, because of Kevin Samuels.Swinging wasn’t enough to keep him from cheating? | /r/ExRedPill | 15/08/22 12:42 PM |
| 1 | Dating spaces gaslight the absolutely living shit out of menI wouldn’t give a shit unless it’s something I really want (I guess I don’t give a fuck about kinky sex anymore I just wanna be with someone I’m comfortable with and get off with them) it would only make me insecure if I didn’t have those crazy experiences under my belt previously. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/22 04:51 PM |
| 22 | Dating spaces gaslight the absolutely living shit out of menProblem isn’t that his GF did that in college. It’s that he didn’t have a satisfying sex life in college and now he feels insecure. Had he picked up a girl within an hour of meeting her when he was younger it wouldn’t make the difference to him. He idealized her for something she’s not, and it’s a bummer he gets called a misogynist for this. He’s not, simply believes in fairytales where everyone is exactly how they seem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/22 03:06 PM |
| 29 | I hate the worldYou want an e-girl? That’s your strict typecast here? You can be more discerning than that what even is an e-girl? They’re playing a character online to get money so of course you feel like you need money to get them. Instead maybe consider connecting on a level of interests and hobbies while your financial situation matters you don’t want to be with someone who only wants you for the money right? | /r/ExRedPill | 06/08/22 03:22 PM |
| 2 | I don't want to lose my virginity to an escort, that's the easy way out!People have sex all the time without forming a real connection first. Those are the kinds of people that may recoil if OP admits to them they’re a virgin. If there is a true bond I can see it not being a major issue. They’re are a lot of stereotypes with virgins that you seem to ignore though, and if any of them are true such as being a shut-in, lacking social skills, being unemployed, then he may have a harder time finding someone to connect with more than the virginity itself. Whenever I see p… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/06/22 07:21 PM |
| 1 | should I get an escort? I feel like my lack of experience is what's holding me backDo you think you’ll get attached? You’re already having other forms of sex with these girls without any complication. What exactly is happening after all of that foreplay up until the moment you’re about to have sex? A conversation prompted by you or them? | /r/ExRedPill | 07/05/22 02:52 PM |
| 8 | should I get an escort? I feel like my lack of experience is what's holding me backThey’re not having sex with you because you’re telling them you’re a virgin and there’s a perception that it comes with supposed “attachment issues” even though I never got them and you may not either. It’s irrelevant information that many already believe to be a social construct anyway. You’re giving it more weight then it’s worth. Have sex then after the deed is done you can tell them, or don’t because it’s casual anyway they dont need to know any more then you want to tell them. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/05/22 01:38 AM |
| 4 | should I get an escort? I feel like my lack of experience is what's holding me backYou’re 6’6 I don’t see how women aren’t approaching you. Get a friend and go out to a nightclub you could be a mute and probably get laid as long as your body language ain’t completely awkward. | /r/ExRedPill | 07/05/22 01:25 AM |
| 1 | Women want to date someone on their level or higher because they are turned off by sharing their RessourcesApparently the majority of women function in this “hypergamous” way according to Reddit because it’s a repetitive opinion I’ll see on subs like this. In my experience women will date men that are a lower status if they have low self esteem and believe they’re not worthy of a higher status man. I’ve seen many losers dating women out of their leagues because they are women that like to be in control and feel a lack of it when they’re with a higher status mate. This is something I’m in tune with ob… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 09:45 PM |
| 13 | Women believe they understand men more than they really do, and that is a problemAlways felt this way to me so this hit home. We’re constantly being told as men to imagine ourselves in their shoes but its rare to see it reciprocated. It’s always about trying to understand them better never the opposite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/05/22 08:12 PM |
| 1 | I think asking women out on a "date" lowers your chances. Here's what I learned to do.Not really a risk if you have an abundance mentality because you won’t care if she friend zones you, you’ve got another date in a couple days. Usually friend zoning occurs because there’s no flirting going on, not because it’s unclear your hangout isn’t a date. | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 03:03 PM |
| 1 | Guys who used to be rejected by women but worked on themselves and now are successful, do you feel little disgusted by the change in behaviour of women?How bad were you before and how long did it take for you to get where you are now? | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 11:56 PM |
| 2 | DMing models on Instagram does actually work, but you have to do it in a VERY specific way to get responsesAre you planning on actually meeting them? Give an example of flirty banter through text never been able to figure that one out. | /r/seduction | 09/04/22 09:20 PM |
| 1 | Women, how often have you run into micro vs bigger dicks?Since you’re familiar with urology is there anyway to shrink your dickhole? I’m not even kidding you but mine appears to be getting bigger with age and it’s bothering me tremendously. I figure it’s because I do masturbate a lot which is making me wanna stop. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/04/22 04:30 AM |
| 15 | Getting shamed for dating women younger than meThis is it. Issues with problems that don’t concern others almost always boil down to projection stemmed from insecurity. Just be ready with a quick response to show you’re actually interested in the person and it’s not some age fetishism. | /r/seduction | 31/03/22 09:19 PM |
| 1 | If you are a man who doesn’t have long term goals or passionate about something, you can’t expect women to be attracted to you.If you’re rock climbing regularly I have a hard time believing you’ll be chubby. Usually attractive people have attractive hobbies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/03/22 05:17 PM |
| 1 | Am I delusional for thinking i can score hot women despite being short, skinny, mediocre job. Should i settle?He had still ghost written books for celebrities but your general point still stands. | /r/seduction | 21/03/22 07:42 PM |
| 2 | Am I missing out by not being on Instagram?Yeah I’d hope they are women out there who agree even if it’s a slim margin. | /r/seduction | 08/03/22 08:04 AM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]It’s so obviously sarcasm and if you deliver it right then they’ll know that. “New” implies its not serious, I’ve seen people use this line to success. | /r/seduction | 01/03/22 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Cold approach; this always worked for me 85% of the timeYou’re relying on pre selection by getting to this so fast. You can do it but chances are slim since they don’t know you so they’ll answer yes immediately regardless of wether its true unless they’re automatically attracted to you. I’m not saying it’ll never work but it won’t play to the strengths of the everyday guy. | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 11:13 PM |
| 8 | A woman that, I didn't initially notice "picked me up"This is a great post that I can promise will go over most guys heads because they’re so outcome dependent and strictly care about looks and notching up numbers like they’re Tom Hanks trapped on an island. Wouldn’t mind an update if you do end up seeing her again. | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 09:55 PM |
| 5 | Unpopular opinion: This subreddit teaches 'fake' methods for desperate & insecure guys. Work on your inner confidence and i am sure you don't need this stupid subreddit.It doesn’t have to be if you’re not gross or cringey. I see it as a vehicle for guys to take more action. Like religion you access what’s necessary and you throw out the rest that isn’t apart of your system of beliefs. | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 09:51 PM |
| 6 | Cold approach; this always worked for me 85% of the timeI find it intrusive to ask about a boyfriend in the first minute of talking to someone. It’s a turn off and they might lie immediately because it’s too overwhelming for some random to ask that. I much prefer indirect, just starting a convo, seeing if it flows, if it doesn’t then you ain’t compatible anyway if it is she’ll even give a number even if she’s seeing someone. | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 04:44 PM |
| 1 | Read this if you get stressed and anxious about sexHmmmmmmmm DM me with more details. | /r/seduction | 14/10/21 06:48 AM |
| 1 | I'm very social and liked but I don't form real connections?You and me dude. Once we figure out how to solve this we’ll be golden. | /r/seduction | 10/10/21 06:04 AM |
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