yellow748 Archive

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1	Schedule Same here, but we alternate Wednesdays so our son doesn't go a whole week without seeing either of us. Plus, 4 days without my son is about as long as I can stand.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/12/23 03:11 AM
2	Men who pay Child Support - What do you pay per month? Nebraska 1 50/50 joint custody Me 45k her 54k then, now idk maybe 60k? She covers all medical/dental, all expenses over $50 are supposed to be split. I pay $31/mo because I worked a ton of overtime (FedEx driver during covid) during the separation.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/12/23 02:58 AM
2	Question for men who were barred from entering their own homes/left overnight with no support & don't know how to cook - like me If you have a Sam's or Costco membership, you can get some really good kitchen stuff. I got an awesome set of mixing bowls (Viking brand) that are metal with silicone bottom and lids. They all nest together for easy storage. I also got a great set of pots and pans (Members Mark) that nest really well, heavy duty, lids have holes for draining. Air Fryers are always on sale it seems. I got the Power XL grill air fryer combo for $50 off. I've also learned how to ask advice from fellow shoppers. The…	/r/Divorce_Men	21/12/23 02:41 AM
2	Question for men who were barred from entering their own homes/left overnight with no support & don't know how to cook - like me Minute rice is just precooked. Comes in a pouch, just heat and eat.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/12/23 02:24 AM
4	How to stop looking back In order for reconciliation to work, you have to become a new you, she has to become a new her, and neither of you can go back. It sounds like you are on your way and she's attracted, but she hasn't changed a bit.	/r/Divorce_Men	21/12/23 01:42 AM
1	Expectations of friends If your 3 friends have been through it before, then just ask them. Their situations are probably different, so their abilities to help you out will differ too.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/12/23 04:04 AM
3	Whats the first hour after, like? You're not a downer, just down. Don't let her steal your future by holding on to the resentment. You'll just end up bitter and depressed. If your possessions are that much of an emotional trigger for you, start replacing them. Sell or give away the old. Have a vision for how you want your new space to look and work, and be very intentional about what you bring in. Every improvement you make will be a subtle middle finger in her general direction. Like they say, the best revenge is a life well li…	/r/Divorce_Men	06/12/23 03:36 AM
3	Whats the first hour after, like? I don't think 'good luck' is the right thing to say in your case. Idk why, but 'happy trails' seems more in order.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/12/23 03:05 AM
2	I just can't believe I'm here My ex reminded me of the saying: Every time we figure out how to make ends meet, someone goes and moves the ends. Her "love language" changed more often than our newborn's diapers.	/r/Divorce_Men	05/12/23 02:08 AM