| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|---|---|
| 663 | ‘Just checking to make sure you give blowjobs’ | MALE DEPRAVITY | yellow_pterodactyl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 05:20 PM |
| 6 | Hinge, a couple looking for a 3rd. No thank you. | THE AUDACITY OF SCROTES | yellow_pterodactyl | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/12/20 08:42 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
|---|---|---|---|
| 169 | When people ask me why I suddenly only date younger guysI had a guy send me a video of him getting an erection. He was 38. blocked | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 09:46 PM |
| 14 | Congrats sisYup, perfectly fine with him trashing our last name. 🥲 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 01:05 PM |
| 18 | Congrats sisMy BIL told my sister, I can’t wait to get rid of your last name. Excuse me? Your name is American Scandinavian with a -son at the end. Real original. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 12:01 PM |
| 3 | SAFETY TIP: IF A MAN ASKS YOU FOR HELPThat’s what always has me worried about my dog. We just had someone report that someone in our neighborhood is stuffing meatballs with rat poison. 😣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 08:10 PM |
| 2 | SAFETY TIP: IF A MAN ASKS YOU FOR HELPI previously responded when you were just asking me a breed lol. I’m sorry. I tend to talk about how awesome she is. I didn’t know this, but they do have a protective streak. She has determined that I am her herd to protect! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 03:24 PM |
| 3 | SAFETY TIP: IF A MAN ASKS YOU FOR HELPMy dog is a Heeler mix :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 03:17 PM |
| 53 | SAFETY TIP: IF A MAN ASKS YOU FOR HELPI appreciate this sub because I feel like when I post the following, I won’t get a ‘well akkktually you were rude to him’ I had a dude roll down his window and ask me for directions to the dollar store at an intersection. He definitely caught me in a moment where I couldn’t get out of there as he was in my path. I kept walking, but he kept asking. So, kept my distance, told him to drive south or go to a gas station and figure it out. ‘Where’s south???’ ‘THAT WAY’. And kept going. It’s balance of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 01:53 PM |
| 1 | Roasting my past libfem pickme self 🤡Thank you. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 06:18 PM |
| 28 | He just ended things because I was making him wait for sexYou know, I hadn’t thought of that. I inadvertently do not disclose those parts of my life to really anyone. That was 5+ years ago and it was a really good life lesson. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 04:19 PM |
| 70 | He just ended things because I was making him wait for sexI dated a guy for about a month. We were super into each other and declared that we were bf/gf. I told him about my past and how scared I was and asked to take it slow. He scoffed at wanting to wait until we got to know each other more. He told me not to worry about birth control because ‘he’s got that covered and women shouldn’t be taking drugs for men’ Needless it say as much as I was growing to love him... I knew he wasn’t at concerned about me. The breakup sucked. I was hurt that he was more… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 03:50 PM |
| 5 | Roasting my past libfem pickme self 🤡Security question: can I start a new account and be let back in? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 04:29 PM |
| 6 | Guess I'm Strange AF ThenEverytime someone describes it to me, it sounds like a logistical nightmare. I’m good. Don’t forget ‘ethically’ non-monogamous. Yeahhhh okay. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 12:34 PM |
| 78 | Guess I'm Strange AF ThenWhy should I be okay with a guy wanting a polyamorous ‘relationship’??? Stop gaslighting, VICE. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 03:12 AM |
| 18 | Thank you mods 💗Hell nah!! Lol!! ♥️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/03/21 01:01 AM |
| 3 | Came across this today I have no wordsSounds like he wants a sexdoll | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 07:24 PM |
| 38 | Don’t let them baby trap you ladies. Very bad things can happen.I’ve only gotten baby fever when I was in a committed relationship. Before/after I broke up with him, those thoughts vanished. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 02:17 AM |
| 6 | The backlash that FDS gets, both on and off Reddit, proves that society is committed to keeping women in unsatisfactory relationships to the benefit of menI think I’m comfortable with saying I’m part of the A/E/C building industry, licensed professional. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 07:09 PM |
| 4 | The backlash that FDS gets, both on and off Reddit, proves that society is committed to keeping women in unsatisfactory relationships to the benefit of menI’d recommend watching ‘this old house’ they explain the design/construction/architecture better in my opinion. My favorite series was their thing on Charleston. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 07:02 PM |
| 3 | The backlash that FDS gets, both on and off Reddit, proves that society is committed to keeping women in unsatisfactory relationships to the benefit of menBahah! I’ve heard the unrealistic expectations of tech! Brilliant. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 06:24 PM |
| 9 | The backlash that FDS gets, both on and off Reddit, proves that society is committed to keeping women in unsatisfactory relationships to the benefit of menYou mean like a cellulose structure type built house? I’m not as familiar! Interesting. That’s so cool. I’d say go for it. Do what makes you happy. :) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 05:18 PM |
| 12 | The backlash that FDS gets, both on and off Reddit, proves that society is committed to keeping women in unsatisfactory relationships to the benefit of menAwesome! I’m down to see a different perspective. I use the analogy of an actual surgeon watching greys anatomy as to why I have a hard time watching HGTV lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 05:17 PM |
| 22 | The backlash that FDS gets, both on and off Reddit, proves that society is committed to keeping women in unsatisfactory relationships to the benefit of menNo! Might be interesting though. Tbh, DIY network/HGTV is particularly aggravating (for me) with it’s unrealistic expectations of cost/labor/time. 🙃 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 04:51 PM |
| 48 | The backlash that FDS gets, both on and off Reddit, proves that society is committed to keeping women in unsatisfactory relationships to the benefit of menI want to build a net zero cabin in the woods on 10+ acres. Gotta use my expertise somehow. Lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/03/21 04:43 PM |
| 19 | Why do we only tell women not to go outside after a certain time? Men don't even have to think about this bullshit.I live in super a super cold climate, so running at night in winter never bothered me and I did it all the time. No one is out, and it’s far too cold. My dad suddenly gets concerned ‘you can’t run at night. You’re a woman’ I told him to worry about his gender then, not mine. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 02:49 AM |
| 134 | If You Hate Online Dating, Delete Your Dating AppsHoly shit yes. They want you to keep swiping-it’s an addiction and you get a little dopamine hit whenever you get a match. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/02/21 02:02 AM |
| 5 | Every time one of our stalker subreddits make a hate post about us, 👏 WE 👏 GET 👏 MORE 👏 SUBSCRIBERS 👏Someone who doesn’t have the emotional range to not understand how that could be so hurtful is low value. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 08:44 PM |
| 15 | Every time one of our stalker subreddits make a hate post about us, 👏 WE 👏 GET 👏 MORE 👏 SUBSCRIBERS 👏I had enough vent/lectures from them. It’s been helpful here to figure out how brush it off when men start acting strange. For instance, a guy told me that no wife of his would live under his roof without learning how to shoot a gun/go to the gun range. Excuse me? I don’t get to decide? Your roof? Nah. He played his cards. Same dudes say they like women feisty. No you don’t. Clearly, it’s just a saying for how you like them in bed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 08:19 PM |
| 38 | Every time one of our stalker subreddits make a hate post about us, 👏 WE 👏 GET 👏 MORE 👏 SUBSCRIBERS 👏I saw someone reference this on a dating subreddit. I left that subreddit because it was never constructive and always some lurker asking if I allowed the guy to touch my boobs or something. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/02/21 02:24 PM |
| 81 | Gonna pull up to the Drive Thru and get a Frosty just to cool down from this BURN 🤣So subtle. I love it!! Where the ‘well, akkkktually’ and ‘not all men’ is just on the fingertips. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 02:05 PM |
| 4 | It's not kink shaming; it's refusing to buy into the bullshit. It's calling out depravity that serves men while destroying the lives of women. It's rising up against a system of oppression every woman on earth is laboring under, due to no fault of our own.What does this sub think about with the podcast ‘guys we fucked’? (I’m not a fan, but I’m not going to actively hate them) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/02/21 02:02 AM |
| 5 | What LVM really mean when they say...Or! Can take a joke. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/02/21 07:52 PM |
| 17 | Dear male lurkers: FDS is coming for your girlfriends.Yoooooo 👏👏 thank you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 01:09 AM |
| 74 | Dear male lurkers: FDS is coming for your girlfriends.Ahahah!!! Someone just messaged me from this comment. Someone is triggered. 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/01/21 12:15 AM |
| 245 | Dear male lurkers: FDS is coming for your girlfriends.I’ve never been randomly DMed until I posted here. Some random with a fresh account. Nah. Bye. Blocked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/01/21 10:17 PM |
| 9 | ‘Just checking to make sure you give blowjobs’LOL! Brilliant. 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 10:52 PM |
| 11 | ‘Just checking to make sure you give blowjobs’A lot of people block, but I couldn’t help but retort. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 10:47 PM |
| 28 | ‘Just checking to make sure you give blowjobs’Honestly, dating sucks right now due to COVID. It sucked before, but I was able to do hobby meet ups and meet new people. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 07:45 PM |
| 165 | ‘Just checking to make sure you give blowjobs’Ha. I wasn’t too heartbroken about it. Guys like these are too horny to even wait a day before getting into the ‘important details’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 05:58 PM |
| 107 | ‘Just checking to make sure you give blowjobs’To die on the hill of blow jobs right out the gate... gotta sort out your priorities | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 05:58 PM |
| 90 | ‘Just checking to make sure you give blowjobs’It’s this weird ass reconnaissance that some men do. ‘Just want to make sure you’re a freak in the sheets’. A.) I don’t know you. B.) I don’t know you. C.) all of the above. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/01/21 05:56 PM |
| 41 | BEWARE: Beard/ Hat FishingI inadvertently don’t match with anyone not smiling. What are you hiding? Joy? Happiness? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/01/21 04:19 PM |
| 87 | And then they proceed to tell the woman to 'smile more'Tbh, I think he was testing me. ‘This girl can’t handle this’ I don’t reveal every part about me because I’m not a super narcissist. I briefly glanced at half his shit and it was explaining his business and everything and how great he’s doing at it. He later asked for a full body photo. Lol. I was amazed how hostile the conversation was getting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 05:08 AM |
| 218 | And then they proceed to tell the woman to 'smile more'I had a guy today message me WALLS of texts about his life and what he likes to do. Then goes ‘wow, I’m just carrying this conversation on my back. Why aren’t you talking more?’ Jesus dude. Calm the fuck down. Not everyone writes a goddamn novel. I haven’t finished your first series of texts. And I’m so sorry I don’t watch football, bro. Get over it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/01/21 03:04 AM |
| 10 | My ex was arrested marching on Washington today. Looks like the trash took itself out 🤦♀️I was chatting on bumble with a guy and he wanted to video chat before we met. Turns out he was in West Virginia at a ‘stop the steal’ rally. Excuse me? Never had a more easy block in my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/01/21 01:28 PM |
| 2 | “Stop attaching yourself to that man”💞👑If often wondered what is their game plan. They start talking about what they are in a relationship in details. Relax, we haven’t even met yet! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 05:20 PM |
| 32 | “Stop attaching yourself to that man”💞👑I have a problem with getting attached to men when it’s the beginning stages. I was talking with a guy via text back and forth for a few days and then suddenly-poof nothing. Slowly learning to trust my gut on this one. He lost interest after ‘love bombing’ me. I was disappointed after feeling hopeful. Let it be. Move on. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/01/21 05:07 AM |
| 9 | Online dating in a nutshell; heads men win, tails women loseYup. It’s less crass than saying ‘wanna fuck?’ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 03:44 AM |
| 5 | Online dating in a nutshell; heads men win, tails women loseTbh, I’m not exactly sure how to respond to that. That ‘friends’ with benefit route is just fraught with mines waiting to be tripped. I had a guy I was casual with get mad at me that we weren’t having sex. I told him, you basically are telling me that you do not value me enough to take this any further than your perfect narrative. So, either settle for making out or get lost. I’m not rapunzel, dude. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/12/20 03:01 AM |
| 162 | Online dating in a nutshell; heads men win, tails women loseI get a kick when guys on OLD say ‘looking for FWB’ Listen, this implies that we’re friends. I don’t know you, dude. (The FWB route is a whole other conversation) What you’re looking for is just some free-no-interest-benefits. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/20 02:46 PM |
| 1 | She really predicted the future ...Yeahhh. Unfortunately, it’s hard to do otherwise especially in COVID. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 09:40 PM |
| 9 | She really predicted the future ...They see my boobs and consider it a complement. 🙄 Because that’s all I am to them, I guess. This is behind the safety of online dating. I just fuck with them and then block them before the day is done. Edit: It could be some long-con negging? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 05:21 PM |
| 22 | She really predicted the future ...Wasn’t worth that much. The audacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 05:13 PM |
| 46 | She really predicted the future ...I have a few guys say I should join onlyfans and feel empowered. What? Like ruin my career if I’m found out? Lord knows how easy it is to get doxxed these days. I worked too hard for my career to be objectified. I also had a guy I dated for about a month tell me I was ‘pretty enough to be a call girl’. ENOUGH? That conversation never sat right with me and I broke it off with him. Good riddance, he later attacked me and told me I sucked at kissing and I needed to do a better job at shaving my leg… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/12/20 02:51 PM |
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