yellowho Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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–	Women of the purple pill, if you met a guy whose IG was full of selfies, what would you think of him? It's the heavily filtered and photoshopped pictures that would be put me off.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/06/24 10:00 AM
6	Do most women choose the Bear? Not most but I've heard women say before they would rather die in the worst way than be raped. If I chose a man in that context and he did rape I would probably blame myself for 'choosing to be raped' and I'd also have to live with that. People who have been raped already blame themselves so in this scenario I would struggle with it a lot. I'd then have to deal with the trauma of rape, the high probability that my rapist will not be jailed, any possible sexual diseases and possibly pregnancy. I …	/r/PurplePillDebate	21/05/24 07:07 PM
1	If the man doesn't like the woman more the relationship will never work out. Youtubers and red pill men need to stop telling women to pursue men. Men hate to be pursued and feel uncomfortable with a woman thirsting after him She's right, it's why all the women in my life told me to stop approaching. The men will hold it over your head and say they settled for you. This was the case for my friends who pursued men of different heights and weights.	/r/PurplePillDebate	19/12/23 10:01 AM
2	Do You Think It’s A Good Idea, To Split The Gym By Gender? By split the gyms you mean one gym has a mens and womens only section or one gym is for mens the other for women? Bc if it's the latter, my local gym would be closed and that would suck. The idea is fine, I don't think it's needed but I wouldn't complain.	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/23 07:46 PM
9	Guys complaining about no dates/marriage perspective. Do you realize how cool is being single? I'm sure men who struggle with dating have heard this all the time. "Be grateful, it could be worse" and chances are they have tried that approach but there are men who want children/ life partner. It's not like they have a choice between single or being in a relationship because as you say they don't get dates. They're only option is to deal with it and be grateful. Also side note not all women want or need those things, come on.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/23 04:34 PM
5	For those women that don't get "cat called" / approached by men, does the rhetoric that "Every woman faces this" make you feel like 'less" of a woman? Guys swipe on me yes but those guys also unmatch after we match, they are looking for casual, different views from me that would make us compatible. I do get that I do much better online but that doesn't mean those guys are 1 - attracted to me and 2 - want to be with me bc some guys will like you and then put up with you and show that/ want to control you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/23 02:33 PM
3	For those women that don't get "cat called" / approached by men, does the rhetoric that "Every woman faces this" make you feel like 'less" of a woman? Nope, I fare better online but that is dealing with a lot of ghosting, looking for casual only, unmatching, different compatabilities/morals etc. Can't complain too much about that though its much better than in person and yes I have also approached men irl and its not working	/r/PurplePillDebate	10/12/23 02:27 PM
19	For those women that don't get "cat called" / approached by men, does the rhetoric that "Every woman faces this" make you feel like 'less" of a woman? Yes it does make me feel 'less of a woman' simply because people claim this to be a universal experience for women. It's a bit weird because on one hand I realise that it makes women feel unsafe especially when they're younger/alone but I can't help thinking why am I left out of this thing. I know that makes me sound insecure lol. Now I tell myself to just scroll on by and that those conversations are not about me and my feelings but about a wider issue regarding power dynamics and women/girls.	/r/PurplePillDebate	09/12/23 10:43 PM
–	About being late to respond back to guys’ texts. That's an extreme response but I guess it's your boundaries. Do you think the same to a friend who doesn't respond to you straight away?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/12/23 08:11 PM
1	About being late to respond back to guys’ texts. Hmm I think a delay response of 24 hours is a bit extreme but I would think she would explain why the late response anyway. Option A is unrealistic ateast to me, when I'm busy with work I don't have the time to text and want to finish my work asap. Don't know how it is for others but I like to relax sit down and then text the other person. So my response may be delayed but the alternative is texting the person 'busy' and killing the conversation there. If I delay the response then I can just say…	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/11/23 06:50 AM
1	What age does being a male virgin become a massive red flag? Are you asking because this is a thing that comes in conversations? Not a man but couldn't you say you are just waiting for the right one or something. I see women complain about men being too eager for sex so I would try to paint myself as different from them and that you just will see how the relationship takes you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/11/23 11:33 AM
6	Why is domestic violence funny/acceptable when the man is the victim? It's definitely not ok, that's why we should push back everytime we see it. When I see that or people making light of rape/sexual assault I make sure to comment on it and then share and tell others to do so. It's not much and people will say you're too 'sensitive' like they say to me but that stuff should never be used as a joke.	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/11/23 07:43 PM
7	Why “open communication” is often code for “adhering to a woman’s terms” in a relationship… You too, a bit passive aggressive huh	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 09:36 PM
5	Why “open communication” is often code for “adhering to a woman’s terms” in a relationship… If you start a conversation with someone by being frustrated and annoyed it will start an argument. Can you really not sit your partner down and ask them how they are doing. Then initiate light affection like kissing and touching then escalate.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 09:33 PM
15	Why “open communication” is often code for “adhering to a woman’s terms” in a relationship… -husband speaks to wife frustrated and echos his concerns. How is it open communication if he is getting hostile? What's the time frame between him helping out and him creating an argument? If the only reason he helped was to get sex then she will have to leverage sex everytime she needs something. So not an ideal scenario for the husband either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 09:25 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I've never seen the ridiculous standards most just want an affectionate man and visually looks ok.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 08:42 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread If bad body is obese then b but would prefer c and make him lose weight.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 08:38 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread That's what I thought but then I see people say femcels aren't a thing and criticise foreveralonewomen.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 08:24 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread If he was born in a religious country where saying yes to sex would mean death/jail?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 08:22 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread There's tiers to it? Virgin incels - incels - escortcels Then why do they have an issue with femcels? If an incel can have sex and still be an incel then femcels are a real too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 08:19 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread I mean in the term we use now yes it's more misogynistic victim but I mean can you be involuntary celibate if you have standards in who you fuck.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 08:12 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread Would rejecting a woman who says you have to pay for sex still make you an incel?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 08:06 PM
–	Daily Community Chat Megathread If an incel rejects a woman is he still an incel or does he have to actually reject sex from the woman? What if he's just not attracted to her? Are religious people incels too?	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 07:55 PM
1	Women do want to be apprached. 1 in 10 is quite high. I would say a lot of women don't want to be cold approached in particular. It's impersonal and usually used by men looking to pump and dump. Do you wait for signs from other women before approaching? It's also dependant on where you live too.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 07:18 PM
1	Daily Community Chat Megathread Hm I didn't think about that but looking back she did have big almond eyes so that could be the case	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 10:14 AM
3	Daily Community Chat Megathread If you wear contact lenses do you tell your partner that you wear them or just let them find out? What about coloured lenses? I overheard a man say a woman had beautiful eyes and she had on green contacts. I would let them know if it was coloured but just normal lenses, no.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 09:35 AM
7	Women don’t and never need to be accountable for their actions The last paragraph isn't exclusive to women. Newsflash people who cheat are shitty people, they will claw onto any excuse than take responsibility. They'll say it was an 'accident', you don't show them enough love or whatever else they can think of but at the end of the day that was their decision. Men give excuses to why they cheat as well, they don't just frown and move on lol. 3rd paragraph you say men get blamed for choosing the wrong person but the last paragraph there you are blaming women…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/23 09:17 AM
2	Ladies, do you think it’s a red flag if a man grew up with an absent father figure? Absolutely, not. Having a shitty childhood/absent father isn't reflective on who you are currently or will be in the future. I would want him to work on any issues he feel he might have (as would i). I would want us to be the best parents we can be.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/23 07:33 PM
43	[Q4All]What are your thoughts on “Foodie Calls”? "women who scored high on the “dark triad” of personality traits (i.e., psychopathy, Machiavellianism, narcissism), as well as expressed traditional gender role beliefs, were most likely to engage in a foodie call and find it acceptable." "Although women who had engaged in a foodie call believed it was more acceptable, most women believed foodie calls were extremely to moderately unacceptable." Not the norm and is just bait, most women will choose to go out with friends for food dates. You can a…	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/11/23 02:18 PM
4	Is aggression and things like being disagreeable, maybe even being a bully, a turn on for women? I wouldn't say men are inheritably evil though awful men do exist and are able to get women to fawn over them (something I find hard to understand). That dude is a POS, sorry you have to deal with him OP. Aggression can be something a women looks for but you also said it yourself he is conventionally attractive which some people will ignore every red flag for. There's also the possibility that the people he is attracting aren't good people so they don't care about his behaviour.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/23 08:19 PM
25	Women overestimate the times they are being "hit" by men Ugly woman = bad Attractive woman = good How do you know she saw that as flirting? You're overestimating yourself! You're claiming your everyday interactions with unattractive women gets interpreted as flirting. Seriously?	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/23 03:52 PM
1	How much would you rate yourself out of 10, and why? I think I'm a solid 5, I've put my photos on those rating sites and I've gotten 4.8 - 5.2 from men. I still have to lose weight, tone up, get better posture, work on my voice then I think I'll be closer to 6.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/09/23 07:09 PM
1	Jobs that are dealbreakers (for me )...what about you? Military, police, influencer and jobs that would have him work long hours	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/09/23 07:07 PM
2	Which of these women would be the most desired for relationships / dating ? I think men would choose B then D being 2nd most popular for dating.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/23 08:35 PM
0	Question for Women - Is it true that you find the majority of Men unnatractive? I'm just speaking for myself but: 1 - unattractive - 30% 2 - neither attractive nor unattractive - 30% 3 - Attractive - 25% 4 - Intimidating/too attractive 15%	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/07/23 07:59 PM