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When you're accustomed to privilege, equality feels like oppression.
/r/MensRights14/01/24 09:16 PM
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Never heard of a stay at home mom being labeled with "failure to launch"
/r/MensRights13/10/23 10:31 PM
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I agree. I'm a 6'3 man and I prefer shorter women.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:52 PM
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"i like to wear a piece of floss string to work, if you don't accept that it's my body and my choice, you're a mysogynist pig!"
/r/MensRights07/08/23 12:42 PM
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"Tell me one thing about the Barbie movie and I'll judge your entire character"
/r/MensRights30/07/23 11:00 PM
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I trim 2 mm once a week, a little stubble looks good on me imho. If I keep growing it longer it looks shabby and unkept.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 09:11 AM
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She will say anything that makes her audience feel good about themselves, which in turn creates engagement and revenue. Total grifter.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:30 AM
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Gambia, lots of grandma's go there to experience big schlong from sweet talking boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/23 10:51 PM
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If there are medical reasons for removing the appendix or tonsils, the parents are right to do so. MMR vaccines are beneficial for both the kids own health and for not infecting other kids, so that's ok too. Circumcision is different because it doesn't have a medical benefit.
/r/MensRights22/07/23 06:10 PM
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Like what? Give me an example.
/r/MensRights22/07/23 05:24 PM
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Because men and women are out of sync. Women have their "hoe phase" in their 20's, the men that can do to, but many can't. The men that can't and eventually become more attractive want their hoe phase too, but it happens in their 30's leading to a mismatch. If they don't get to play the field like their girlfriends did in their 20's they'll feel like they missed out on the opportunity and feel resentful. My friends were players in their 20's, seem to have very stable relationships now in their 3…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/23 08:17 AM
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Most circumcised men have no problem feeling pleasure when having sex, millions of men around the world are circumcised. Having said that, I think it's wrong to do it to kids that can't consent.
/r/MensRights20/07/23 11:47 PM
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I am holding off on sex because I don’t want to be disappointed with severely decreased pleaser and feeling. I'm sorry, but I don't understand, are you afraid of her reaction or how sex without foreskin will feel for you?
/r/MensRights20/07/23 09:48 PM
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Yes I've noticed it where I live, in restaurants, coffeeshops, shops, museums etc there are more women. The men that are there are usually there with their woman partner and kids.
/r/MensRights20/07/23 08:11 AM
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When are writers like this going to learn that it isn't the gender that creates these behaviors from top leaders, it's the behaviors that put them there, regardless of gender. Women that become top leaders exhibit many of the same character traits as the men in similar positions.
/r/MensRights18/07/23 10:14 PM
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TLDR; I hate men, you are evil, you are my enemy, let the gender wars begin!
/r/MensRights12/07/23 08:40 AM
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I've heard the most savage takedown of feminist from gay men,maybe because they don't need their approval and they know to hit where it hurts.
/r/MensRights05/07/23 09:21 AM
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Utilitarian relationships have been the norm since the neolithic revolution. Sometimes deep love can blossom, but the utilitarian motives come first.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 08:32 AM
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Text still blurred out in the link unfortunately
/r/MensRights19/06/23 07:19 AM
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Did you write you were looking for a FWB in your profile?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/23 07:58 PM
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When i ponder on my existence, i think the higher ambitions i have in life, the more work and pain i will have to endure. If i spend most of my time awake doing a job i don't like, i will have wasted my life only for a few peak experiences that i can gain through money and status. Instead i think i imagine i can live a frugal, small life, but have more freedom over my time and I can have a rich inner life through reading, watching movies playing video games. I won't have as much money or status,…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/23 04:05 PM
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If women want to this, then it's only fair to make sex work legal, so men can have sex outside of marriage as well.
/r/MensRights09/03/23 09:21 AM
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Live terminally online (spend 7 hours/day on average online/TV/games like they said in the video to the article), live in a rural area or with relatives and you don't need that much money.
/r/MensRights06/03/23 05:26 AM
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Example, you're in a bar. You look around, you see a woman looking at you, you smile, she smiles, she looks away you look away, a few seconds later, you look back again, she looks back again. You can now assume that she would like for you to come over and introduce yourself. If the woman doesn't want to make eye contact with you, assume she's not interested.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/22 10:16 AM
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Smooth operation you've got going
/r/seduction29/09/22 06:38 AM
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Fascist
/r/AntiFeminists31/08/22 06:43 PM
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More looksmaxing among men that want to qualify to participate in the "hookup league" and women objectifying men.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 07:49 AM
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I'll flip it, why would men NOT be easily influenced by sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/22 08:34 AM
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Kind of like the Madonna and whore concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 09:08 AM
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Shared cost for child and more personal time. If a woman just feel like she won't be able to commit to a life long marriage, she might prefer it. Many divorced couples (especially the ones that can maintain friendship) seem to enjoy being able to have free time for adventures, while experiencing the joy of having kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 08:34 PM
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"baby contracts" might be the future. Man and women enter a contract to have a child together, split custody.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 09:37 AM
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It's amazing/scary how much false eyelashes changes a woman's appearance
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 11:05 AM
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I (man) tint my eyebrows a few shades darker, since my natural are very light, it really makes me more attractive according to women i talked to.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 02:36 PM
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No fear of being called gay, vain and feminine are more probable reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/22 02:34 PM
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OK, we're on the same page. Thanks for clarifying.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:13 PM
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You are a liar. When we bring dogs into our lives, we have to be aware of this pack hierarchy. With one dog, it’s simple. All the humans are Pack Leaders, and the dog is subordinate. But how does it work if you have more than one dog? In this case, you effectively have two packs. One is the pack of humans and dogs, with all of the humans in charge and all of the dogs subordinate. The other is the pack of dogs, who will have their own hierarchy and they’re going to figure it out long before you d…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 04:10 PM
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Are you saying, a man looking for a hook up will have a hard time finding that and will have to get in to a relationship to get sex? Kind of goes back to the cliché "women are the gatekeepers of sex and men are the gatekeepers of relationships", which I actually think is true in most cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 11:46 AM
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Wolfs have their pack, but a pack always have an alpha. Same goes for dogs. Also, since your dog is completely dependent on you for food and shelter, you are actually the alpha, you have the power and are in control. This makes you secure in the relationship, you've got your dogs loyalty. This is why I hypothesised that people's relationships with pets are growing more deep, since there's a lack of loyalty and love between individualistic people that won't compromise for an other person, both se…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 11:40 AM
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I don't think men take any relationship they can get. Just listen to all women saying there are no men looking for a committed LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 10:56 AM
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Maybe people love their pets now more than ever, since they can be the alpha in the relationship? which is harder in a relationship between humans.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 10:24 AM
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I never seen anyone do that before, but maybe it's because of different cultures. I don't know, sorry i loled, you do you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 01:25 PM
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Reading a book in a public hot tub lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/22 09:53 AM
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Projection! Your onion!
/r/PussyPassDenied24/02/22 06:03 PM
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I think it's easier for men than women, but it's also individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/22 10:20 AM
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Agreed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/22 11:29 AM
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No means no to me, BUT I can understand why some men would think no means maybe, because many women say persistence shows that a man is serious about dating the woman. If the man shows that he's willing to dedicate time and resources on you, the risk that he'll ghost later you diminishes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:42 PM
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I've tied up my condom after I came and brought it with me after I left the girls place to make sure nothing like that would happen.
/r/PussyPassDenied12/01/22 12:43 AM
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I guess all description of personality with words are reductive to some degree. That doesn't mean there's no value in trying to put words to characters traits though, because the alternative is often ignorance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/22 03:18 PM
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Follow up question to women that don't slut shame promiscuous women, do you think prostitution should be legal or illegal?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/21 12:44 PM
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Right, but the question was if women value intelligence, and I think they do in both examples you point out, but for different reasons. Second one for the beta buxx like you say.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 07:30 PM
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Second will probably give you a higher paying job though, which is attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/21 04:26 PM
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Right, I've said that I'm emotionally unavailable to women, because I want to be my best self when/if I enter a serious relationship. I want to be my best, partly because I don't want my vulnerability to be used against me later and I have high demands on myself that I don't live up to currently (real self vs. imagined self).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/21 11:09 AM
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When I notice myself being too stand offish, competitive, calculating and cynical, I try to remind myself that every person I meet have a life story I don't know. Most people have something that's interesting or beautiful about them, even people that hold beliefs counter to my own (just don't talk about that subject). I have to be curious and try to get the other person to be as curious as I'm trying to be. Together we can create a positive spiral. On the other hand, if I don't get anything back…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/21 11:30 AM
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A common argument I hear against prostitution from women is that all prostitutes are broken humans that can't make decisions for themselves, therefor it's correct to make prostitution illegal. It bugs me that the women saying this don't want to listen to the sex workers perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:48 AM
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Correct. Scandinavia is an outlier regarding prostitution from an international perspective.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/21 11:38 AM
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In my country, prostitution is considered rape, no matter the circumstances. I don't agree, but it's impossible to discuss the topic without being labeled a disgusting loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/21 12:16 PM
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Agreed, but I must admit, I'm quite easily fooled by eyelash extensions, lip fillers, contouring, make up.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/21 01:21 PM
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Because men are on a drug called testosterone. (Yes, women have it too, but much less)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 03:16 PM
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Yes, I can still be turned on by a woman I despise. I don't think that's common for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 03:07 PM
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I was curious if they'd be bothered. I think women seeking stability is a valid argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 01:49 PM
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For me it would be house or techno music, but your point is still valid :) Yes, I need to get out more, the lockdowns made me a shut in even more. I haven't heard about Dark Academia and am not familiar with Victorian literature, I'll google it!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/21 01:45 PM
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Interesting, thanks :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 09:46 PM
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Plenty of hypocrisy to go around.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 09:43 PM
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By supporting systemic reforms focused on helping boys/men. For example, boys failing in school, how could we change schools to help them achieve higher results and become all around more virtuous humans? That's more constructive than hating imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 04:41 PM
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It came as a surprise when it happened, now I understand the culture better. In China prostitution is prevalent, yet it's still illegal, lots of hypocrisy going on to say the least.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 04:28 PM
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That sucks, but at least you were young and you got over it, good for you! Unfortunately I'm currently in this mindset. I just try to shut off my emotions and stay distracted, if I'm distracted until I die, I won't suffer feeling guilty for a life wasted. Creating a life with as little responsibility as possible. Set a very low expectation for life and then I won't be as disappointed. I know I'm depressed, but I fail to improve even with the help of a therapist, I'm just too comfortable in my mi…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 04:21 PM
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Be a part of the solution, not the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 04:09 PM
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When women suffer: "Systemic problem" When men suffer: "Pull yourself up by your bootstraps" Your lacking of curiosity for why this happens .
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 04:05 PM
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Sex work is viewed very differently around the world. In Sweden where I live, prostitution is illegal (for buyers, not sellers) and most people (mainly women) see prostitution as rape. In China, where I went on a date, I tried to hook up with my date, but she declined, then she said bluntly, but sincerely: "If you're only looking to hook up, why don't you go to a prostitute?". I t was an interesting clash of cultures.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 03:53 PM
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That's true to some degree, but I'd replace your hate with more compassion. Men have been told to pull their selfs up by the bootstraps all their life, maybe we as a society could try to help them instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 03:40 PM
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Yes, getting comfortable in misery. Create your own fantasy world online and block out the physical world as much as possible, so you don't see what you're missing out, ignorance is bliss.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 03:18 PM
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How do the women you date react when you say your bi? (sorry if I used the wrong term) Do they accept it?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 03:14 PM
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Many men want to qualify to the "hook up league", to be the man women sexually desire for a causal hook up. They think "I want to have my fun before I settle down with someone for a LTR". The problem is many men don't qualify, leading to less sex during his 20's. When he enter his 30's his dating options increase as more women are looking for a LTR. If it turns out she's been having a lot of hook ups with hot guys, she got to experience what a lot of men wish they could experience during their 2…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/21 03:07 PM
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I think it's about feeling emasculated, like many others proposed as well. I think changing diapers, washing clothes, reading bedtimes stories to the kids are activities where you need to tap in to your "feminine side" to give your best effort, so for men who are SAHD I think it's a good idea to have some sort of activity in your life that taps in to the "masculine side" (playing sports, carpentry, tinker with the car).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 12:26 PM
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think sometimes men don’t want to take on those chores and other cases it’s the woman who won’t let him “take the lead” at home. There's a stereotype of a breadwinning husband, but at home it's the woman who makes decisions about domestic life (what friends to hang out with, what to buy, where to vacation etc.). I wonder if the roles could be reversed, a SAHD being in control of the household and a wife who doesn't question his decisions, would work (if he takes the role seriously).
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/21 11:52 AM
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Insightful, reminds me of game theory and the prisoners dilemma.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 10:46 AM
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That's sad. When people get to this point, communication is broken, only loyalty to your team (women in this case) and winning over the enemy (men) matters.
/r/MensRights26/11/21 10:35 AM
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Maybe a guy doesn't feel he is where he should be or is in the middle of making up his life and he thinks you are already at the finish line so he feels like he's fallen behind and can't catch up to you or something. This is me. I feel like I need to have "perfected" my life before I'm worthy of love, hence I haven't dated in several years.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/21 09:57 AM
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Lust = I see a hot woman, next thought, I'd like to have sex with her. Romance = so much emotionally deeper, I feel seen as who I'm, I want to please her etc. Different feelings that are quite easy for me to separate.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 12:04 PM
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Right. OP gets validation from the crush and sex from the other guy. If I was in a similar situation I'd like a clear answer, do you want to see where this crush can go? If not, please stop flirting with me and I'll do the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/21 11:55 AM
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To get a long term partner. The red pill gives me insights into gender dynamics, that I would have had a hard time understanding through personal experience alone, although many of my personal experiences align with red pill insights. In short, it helps me with finding out what I value and what to be aware of to not me used.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/21 11:03 AM
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If you meet someone great all the stats on the average stop to matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/21 11:20 AM
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I think I understand. I get very aroused by "plastic women" (botox, fillers, duck lips, fake eyelashes, contouring, breast implants etc.), but then I think it looks clownish or too much in public. It's basically the madonna/whore concept. I would like to change my feelings around this, but I just don't know how.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/21 02:25 PM
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Yes, a bit of a tangent. I agree that countries sovereignty is paramount. The problem with Sweden is that rights are not earned, but given to immigrants right away. High immigration with a big well fare state has had horrible consequences for Sweden.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/21 11:42 AM
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I understand you, but I don't want to go back to living that lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 09:39 AM
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Yes, it's a dilemma. Without proper data it's hard to identify problems, but on the other hand putting people in more or less arbitrary groups isn't great either. I don't know the best solution. Sweden has huge problems with integration and it creates tension between natives and immigrants. (I'm not against immigration, but I'm against the way Sweden has done it).
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 09:34 AM
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Women, but there's no data on the ethnicity of the victims that I know of.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/21 09:24 AM
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But, strikingly, almost half of the offenders were born outside of Sweden (47.7%). Of those foreign-born offenders, 34.5% were from the Middle East/North Africa, with 19.1% hailing from the rest of Africa. As a percentage of all convicted perpetrators, therefore, 16.4% were foreign-born individuals from the Middle East/North Africa, and 9.1% were foreign-born individuals from Africa (excluding North Africa). How far does this signify over-representation? On the basis of population records kept b…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 03:55 PM
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Interestingly, it has been estimated that the global population was consistently around 10 million people during hunter and gatherer era. Only after the agricultural revolution did the population skyrocket and especially after the industrial revolution. So, your statement is true if we go back to that lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 03:49 PM
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The choice: 1. move to a city where you can get a job, but cost of living is sky high and the standard of living is low. 2. stay put, no job, grow some food for self, rely on support from others, close to family. That choice is not simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 03:39 PM
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Reductive.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/21 10:37 AM
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Your narrative is collapsing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 10:17 AM
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If men (all men, but specially average men and "those nice men who have a JUST FINE sexual life") know what is out there, be it through friends, porn, mainstream or whatever, they are going to feel irreparably disatisfied with their average sexual life... I have a childhood friend, who always looked good, was charming and hooked up with many women. Recently he also became incredibly rich (over 20 million dollars) from selling his company. I still like him, but I just can't listen to his stories …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/21 10:08 AM
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An interesting thing is that I feel sympathy for her when she's crying and apologising, even though she doesn't deserve it. So, it seems we (society) are predisposed to feel sympathy for women no matter what they've done, as long as they cry and apologies, this feeling doesn't apply to men though. The consequence is judges being more lenient towards women.
/r/PussyPassDenied08/10/21 11:02 AM
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People with similar political beliefs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 09:54 PM
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- If politics is unimportant to both, date. - If politics is important to both partners, don't date. - If politics is important to to one partner, don't date. Consider myself right (by European standards)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/21 12:49 PM
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Nobody is to blame. Women wanna bang who they wanna bang: the top 10% of men. Yes, but technology has changed the game. When dating was more localised, the pool of attractive men was higher, since they didn't have to compete on a global scale.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/21 10:38 AM
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The meaning of the sexual revolution in the 60's were quite different for men and women. Men imagined a future where they could have sex with as many women as possible. Women imagined a future where they were free to pick the one man that was perfect for her (in the past she was set up by her family with someone and had fewer option before settling down). Now women have the opportunity to date a wider range of men, leading to dates with more high status men, but they won't get commitment from th…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/09/21 01:09 PM
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Every time they say "Netball" it sounds like they're saying "nipple" to me lol
/r/PussyPassDenied26/09/21 11:15 AM
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Yes, if he's trying to change a feature that's really outside the norm. So if he has a huge crooked nose, go ahead and have rhinoplasty, but if he's just ageing normally, don't get a face lift.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/21 01:05 PM
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Caring about girl’s orgasm as much as you care about yours Anyone else been with a woman, you've had your orgasm, you notice she hasn't orgasmed, you ask her how you can help her orgasm, she says "I'm fine" and then it's over. My problem is that they aren't willing to communicate what they want so I can increase her pleasure. I would love seeing her orgasm, it brings us both pleasure.
/r/MensRights18/09/21 10:18 AM
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Seems like you have an allergy, talk to a doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:44 PM
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May i ask, do you get a similar negative sensations from sex toys or dildo's (if you used them)? Wondering since most of them are made from some kind of plastic.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:39 PM
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I feel like I'm very concerned with wearing a condom during sex, at least with someone new or someone i don't yet trust. Both stds and unwanted pregnancy are the reasons. I even tie up my condom and bring it with me when I leave so she can't steel it (unlikely, but not unthinkable). Having said that, sex without a condom feels much better and it takes some time to put it on, you can lose your groove. That can lead to little interest in using a condom.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/21 08:29 PM
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The reason is that men have two different goals (often), meeting short term partners and long term partners, looking for both at the same time leads to the behaviours described by OP. Many men would like to hook up with a woman that showcases some of these behaviour, only based on being attracted to her looks. A man that is only looking for long term partners, can "afford" being more picky, since having sex wasn't the primary goal anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/21 12:52 PM
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The juice isn't worth the squeeze, I guess he thought. He was looking for a hook up.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/09/21 09:06 AM
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Too bad. Speaking for a year only to hookup once seems like a waste of investment, so it's strange behaviour from him. I wouldn't think of cumming too fast was very embarrassing, especially the first time with someone new can be so exciting that it's hard to contain, but give it a few more times and you can understand each other better, the sex will last longer.
/r/seduction30/08/21 03:26 PM
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Did he suggest helping you cum after he came? If not and if you meet again, maybe you could try to ask him to do whatever turns you on. I think most guys see it as a defeat to not make the woman they have sex with cum.
/r/seduction30/08/21 02:33 PM
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"My way or the highway"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/21 08:22 AM
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"I miss the good old days when we had arranged marriages"
/r/seduction28/08/21 10:53 AM
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Basically, whoever cares less wins.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/21 09:41 AM
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comes from values placed on us growing up. Most of the time, we are taught This emphasizes nurture's influence, but not nature. Biological differences also influence mens and women's views of "only wanting sex".
/r/seduction20/08/21 11:48 AM
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Groups vs. individuals. A statistic about a group can be helpful to understand a larger picture, but when you meet an individual, you should be careful to assume that the statistics about the group applies to them as individuals. Grant individuals the benefit of the doubt before jumping to conclusions.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/21 10:41 AM
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Not all intentions are received the same. If the intention is to hook up, it's not a very tactical move to say that you're looking to hook up within the first five minutes of talking, that doens't work even with girls who are open for a hookup.
/r/seduction29/07/21 03:09 PM
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Because evolution made us that way.
/r/MGTOW25/07/21 01:05 PM
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Women now, myself included, are looking for men who also shares the chores. Men who have the same interests and hobbies. Men who fit into our lives and whose lives fit with ours. Men who are "our best friend" but who we have romantic feelings for I get your point, but one problem I've had regarding this in a previous relationship, was that when I did chores, they weren't being done according to her standards. It felt like she wanted to have the last word of how our household should function and …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/21 12:50 PM
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It's tricky, I like a woman that dress nicely and takes care of herself, but I don't like high maintenance girls, since I think that she'll be expecting me to pay for all that and she won't be satisfied with a dinner at Olive Garden which is enough for me to be happy when I go out for dinner.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 01:28 PM
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Made me think of the prisoner's dilemma. If, on average, people are more guarded and negative towards meeting new people it can become a downwards cycle, since one persons behavior influences the other.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 01:06 PM
1

They outsource the act of parenting to their wife Daughters in puberty wants to distance themselves from their parents to forge their own identity, especially fathers (the opposite gendered parent). So, it may be that the father has a harder time engaging with his daughter compared to the mother.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/21 11:40 AM
2

I think your post is true for shorter relationships, but over a longer time the high value woman might fall in love with the lower valued guy and if she's in love she might become more attracted to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/21 10:33 AM
6

Great article! I find game theory to be very important to understand a myriad of things in life, including relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/21 06:53 PM
1

Everybody is stunning. Nobody is stunning.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen28/04/21 03:16 PM
1

Many men come in to these kinds of situations with a fixed mind set on getting sex. It doesn't matter who you are as long as you're hot enough to fuck in their minds. If he states his hopes for sex early on, he can suss out what kind of person you are and if you're worth pursuing (time, effort, money). If you dismiss his attempts, he'll know what you'll expect and he can move on to the next woman (if his goal only is sex) and try the same thing. So, for these guys it's a numbers game. Also, doin…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/21 01:38 PM
1

Las boobas grandes!
/r/PussyPassDenied07/03/21 03:00 PM
14

They really either like you or they don’t I have a lot of matches on Tinder and I would (if I could) sleep with all of them just based on their profile pictures, so in that sense I like them or I don't, BUT who I like for being in a relationship with has a way higher bar. This makes it harder for women to seduce men if they want more than just an ONS and is the reasons that many women want to be wooed by men to make sure their intentions are more than just a quick lay.
/r/seduction08/02/21 02:17 PM
2

Too bad you can't be open and honest, especially since you'd like that for men. I state my intention for something casual in my profile.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 09:55 PM
3

I understand your reasoning. What i would like to see in your online dating profile is that you are honest and open with about all requirements. "It's your job to woo me and pay for our date" "i won't have sex until we're in a committed relationship". This way I know to swipe left on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/21 09:36 PM
2

I have the same attitude. The amount of work I have to put in to get laid is the difference between the women though. Some less attractive women I wouldn't even try to contact (on Tinder for example) but if she reaches out and is DTF I'll probably say yes. Then there's the hotter ones that I'll be ready to jump through some hoops to get with. Then there's the hot ones with great personality and those ones I'll want to spend time with and get to know better.
/r/askTRP28/01/21 04:31 PM
1

It's all game theory
/r/seduction22/01/21 04:12 PM
1

That shower cap lol
/r/PussyPassDenied17/01/21 08:55 PM
9

Because men provided more value to women when our roles in the home and society were separated. Women don't need men anymore. When needs are met, women look to what they want, and they want qualities few men possess, leading to an abundance of women for a few men, leading to non-commitment from the man, because he can and he has the sexual drive to do so. So, women are pickier (see it from the POV of Maslow's hierarchy of needs) and the quality of men have decreased compared to women. More men h…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/21 02:53 PM
4

In an ideal world, I'd make a lot of money and be the breadwinner with a stay at home wife, have four or more children and still be able to go on fancy vacations abroad and buy a few toys my self as well. Having four children without having one partner staying home is hard, at least if the kids are close in age. Also, having a clear division of labor in the relationship seems great, which is harder in relationships with shared responsibility. Having said that, I'm not in that position, so I'd li…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/21 08:52 PM
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Question: How specific and open are you with what you want in your dating profiles? If I write: "Here for something casual" I've made my intent pretty clear and I won't give false intention of me looking for a relationship, but it could also be a big turn off for girls who might be open for a casual fling, but they might think that if they agree to meet with me they are obligated to have sex or that they have given away some of their power. This is the dynamics of the game in my eyes and I don't…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen05/01/21 11:51 AM
5

You know she's mad when the heavy metal growl comes out lol
/r/MGTOW02/01/21 06:09 PM
144

Success is the best revenge.
/r/MGTOW27/12/20 10:13 PM
5

You're 20. Kids shouldn't be an issue while dating at that age if you don't really want them, even for the girls you're dating.
/r/MGTOW227/12/20 11:51 AM
1

If there is ONE recurring theme on PPD, it's the VAST over-emphasis on biology and genetics, when it comes to explaining human behavior, desires and fears. That might be true on PPD and other Red Pill reddits, but the opposite is true from mainstream media, Hollywood and academia. The emphasis on biology on PPD is a reaction to the socialisation narrative. Clearly it's a bit of both.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/20 09:07 PM
14

The lesson: you're not automatically a good person because you're disadvantaged.
/r/PussyPassDenied02/12/20 03:14 PM
1

Yes, but if you start doing whatever you are "supposed to do" and you try to suppress your feelings, but these feelings keeps on popping up, maybe they're trying to tell you that the path your on is somehow wrong. If you on the other hand, start work on yourself and you notice that you beginning to feel better, keep going. Your feelings and thoughts were probably create by your lack of activity and engagement and didn't "mean" anything.
/r/MensRights30/11/20 03:24 PM
1

I'm all for being a doer and being stoic. Your feelings might not mean much to others, BUT they mean something to yo. Sometimes you need to understand your feelings first in order to take the next step and do.
/r/MensRights28/11/20 02:31 PM
2

Whatever floats your boat i guess. Yes, I saw an article on that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 09:33 PM
16

I think the desire and market for "charming companions" will increase. Handsome men that are attentive to women's needs and understands her. In return she'll pay for trips, dinners etc. maybe even give the man an allowance, basically a sugar baby, but a man. Many of these career women have a lot of money to spend. As a man you can't just be handsome though, you need to be able to carry on interesting conversations and really make the woman feel seen and heard.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 08:16 PM
1

The archetype that comes to my mind as the most successful spinning plates with young beautiful women, is an independent, successful artist of some kind. He understands women and is sensitive in to their needs, but his primary love in his life is his passion for his work, and no girl is going to change that. He doesn't need to flaunt with his money, but he has enough to take the girl with him on adventure.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/20 12:30 PM
2

Ok. On Reddit, you can't make any assumptions of the other party.
/r/MGTOW24/11/20 05:27 PM
1

You don't specify where you started talking to her. If it was on Tinder, I would think it's ok for the female to assume that you're at least interested in a hook up.
/r/MGTOW24/11/20 05:08 PM
2

I'm a man. I always cared a lot about how women looked and am judgemental towards them based on looks. Since I'm so harsh on women's looks, I have to be equally judgemental towards myself, otherwise I'd be a hypocrite. This mindset have made me very vain. I spend a lot of time in front of the mirror analysing my "defects" and I have had plastic surgery several times. All in the name of increasing my attractiveness. It has not been healthy for me. I've been diagnosed with BDD. So, I agree with yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/20 12:23 AM
1

I'm not talking about 30 year difference, more like up to 10 years difference. So 40 year old man with a 30 year old woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/20 03:08 PM
1

Throughout history it has been common for men to be older than women when getting married, so maybe the question is why we should expect men and women of the same age to marry?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/20 05:54 PM
3

Because evolutionary psychology and behavioral ecology.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/20 12:51 PM
1

It takes skill, status and looks for a man to get casual sex. This isn't the case for women. Women who want casual sex, just need to ask for it, and she'll have it (not from all men, but from many). These men put women in to two categories, the ones that he could possibly have sex with and the ones that are potential long term partners. If he meets someone he considers for a long term, serious relationship and she later in the relationship reveals that she's had a lot of casual sex in the past, …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/20 03:18 PM
1

Sooo many contradictions, funny!
/r/AntiFeminists29/10/20 09:03 AM
1

He's talking about lust, not love.
/r/MGTOW18/10/20 10:39 AM
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Too reductive. Love exists. If it's worth it is another question.
/r/MGTOW16/10/20 11:04 PM
3

In old times, the division of labor was that the man was the breadwinner and women the boss of the household. Now most women work, but they still want the role of the boss of the household, because the husband will "do it wrong" if he does something his way. If we're supposed to have a more equal relationship, women needs to accept that her husband may do things a bit differently and accept that, without scolding or nagging him. The man also have to take responsibility.
/r/MensRights22/09/20 11:14 AM
2

You could obviously say, "Equal right equal fights", which makes sense if you say men and women are the same. The alternative is to say, women and men are different and should be treated differently in some occasions, like this one. He is obviously more powerful and could have used more restraint. I just want the feminists to see and admit their hypocrisy, so we can have a real discussion about what to do in a situation like this.
/r/PussyPassDenied20/09/20 07:45 PM
3

Too reductive. Humans are probably the most adaptable species on the planet. More on the topic: Joe Rogan - William Von Hippel's Criticism of Sex at Dawn - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=djq-13y2YG8&ab_channel=JREClips
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/20 04:19 PM
2

This resonates and makes sense to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/20 06:18 PM
3

That was a juicy story, lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen11/09/20 03:09 PM
1

anikka albtrite Hadn't heard of her, but yeah, she's cute and hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 10:43 PM
3

Didn't think about that, but that's true!
/r/MGTOW09/09/20 06:38 PM
12

Exactly. I match with many women on Tinder that I have no intentions of taking the first step with, but if she sends the first message, I know it's going to be an easier hookup, at least that's my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 01:50 PM
1

I perceive a youthful looking woman with feminine features as pretty/cute and I associate that with a good stable partner, but a woman with a more artificial and sharper features has more sex appeal. IMO the best combo is a neotenous face but with a curvy body, that's very rare though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 11:39 AM
4

Most women I know often date down. Men are less like to be university educated, and therefore unless he’s an exceptional man he’s probably likely to earn less than her. Most men are not good home makers and have to be nagged to clean and take care of their own children. Most men are ok with their female partner making less than them, but many women are not ok with their man making less than them. Maybe that could be balanced with him being a great home maker, but that seems to breed resentment i…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/20 11:19 AM
3

Minoxidil and dermaroller have helped me slowdown and reverse some hair loss. It's pretty cheap and not many side effects for me. Worth a try IMO
/r/askTRP08/09/20 02:02 PM
1

This post made me think of this video i watched recently. "There is a difference between men's and women's casual flings, and science says so" - https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=488F9P9vZ7c&ab_channel=BetterBachelor
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/20 09:49 AM
2

Thanks, I'll probably just say it like that.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 02:26 PM
3

Interesting seeing it through the the prisoners dilemma, makes sense to me.
/r/askTRP07/09/20 12:54 PM
1

How old is this?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen06/09/20 06:47 PM
1

I like makeup on women, if it's not too clownish
/r/MGTOW05/09/20 01:09 PM
3

I think the beauty standards have changed for women. To me it seems people of mixed race are considered the most attractive . This article from the New Yorker talks about it. There was something strange, I said, about the racial aspect of Instagram Face—it was as if the algorithmic tendency to flatten everything into a composite of greatest hits had resulted in a beauty ideal that favored white women capable of manufacturing a look of rootless exoticism. “Absolutely,” Smith said. “We’re talking …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/20 09:59 AM
11

Could you copy paste the text in the article?
/r/MGTOW23/08/20 01:13 PM
1

Regarding the side note: They talked about this on a recent Dark horse podcast: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=j38rX1qxvG4
/r/MGTOW19/08/20 12:46 PM
1

Music. Digging for tracks online and DJing. I like house and techno in many different sub genres. I make mixes a couple of times a week and I love the feeling when two tracks line up perfectly. The threshold to get started is pretty low, a midi mixer is cheap to buy and it's pleasurable almost right from the start. Just need love and curiosity for music.
/r/MGTOW19/08/20 12:07 PM
1

Reductionistic
/r/MGTOW18/08/20 01:59 PM
27

Relationship = security. Sex = adventure. Both sexes are interested in both, but women need to have children earlier in life then men (biology). Women have their "adventure time" in their 20's, men in their 30's once they gained some status, hence the mismatch in timing between the sexes.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/20 02:11 PM
4

Find something else you like about parties, I love house and techno music and I go to clubs just for the music and to dance, I don't care about the women, but when they see me having fun on my own they are drawn to me and I can proceed to engage or ignore depending on my mood. Btw, I'm over 30 years old.
/r/MGTOW18/07/20 02:06 PM
2

Hair reminds me of Goldeneye DK mode
/r/MGTOW11/05/20 05:16 PM
5

DK mode :)
/r/MGTOW27/02/20 11:54 AM
2

I hear this argument all the time, "if he doesn't pay, how can I know he's not only looking for sex?". If a guy pays on a date, it's by no means a clear that he's looking for a long term serious relationship. He might just have a lot of money and feels ok with spending some cash, but without having a serious intention.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen24/02/20 07:38 PM
1

He divorced her according to him.
/r/MGTOW12/02/20 03:53 PM
1

Link to article
/r/MGTOW21/09/19 10:10 AM
1

Long article, so here are some quotes of his main points: - The MGTOW movement understands a few female vices correctly, but what it does not admit is the symmetry between the sexes. For every female vice there is a virtue, and for every male virtue there is a vice. This the appreciation is missing because in contemporary world, for contemporary societies are dominated by sentimentality and utility — not virtue. - “If I cannot live without pain; if I cannot have a defanged woman I can control an…
/r/MGTOW27/10/18 06:52 AM
2

Yes, it's especially marriage that scares me. I've inherited quite a bit of money and I'm terrified of having someone manipulate me for my assets.
/r/MGTOW27/10/18 06:37 AM
1

i guess that makes sense, it's a focus on the individual and not the collective, hence not a movement.
/r/MGTOW27/10/18 06:34 AM
1

https://medium.com/@TXHart/why-are-men-going-their-own-way-mgtow-7a2d0c28b6a9
/r/MGTOW27/10/18 06:31 AM
1

https://medium.com/@TXHart/why-are-men-going-their-own-way-mgtow-7a2d0c28b6a9
/r/MGTOW27/10/18 06:30 AM
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