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1

If your social media game is good, just keep doing your thing. Assuming you do cool stuff (with or without women), many of them will come back later on. I just had a girl DM me today asking if I wanted to go on a trip with her and I haven't seen her in 3 years.
/r/seduction10/10/22 09:22 PM
1

I agree with monkey…if she offers to make you a dating profile you’re deep in the friendzone. You need to level up your SMV and hopefully she will pursue you first.
/r/seduction26/07/22 04:21 AM
1

I would just fade them…most of them will take the hint. You get the option to go back to them if you need to
/r/seduction26/07/22 04:18 AM
4

The most attractive women I’ve dated I met on Tinder. All the attractive women I know are on dating apps. Maybe you’re a Boomer but this is a different era.
/r/seduction26/07/22 04:15 AM
5

yea can't get laid with 5 girls who are all friends, they don't want to be slutty in front of their other friends..the good news is: you can easily hit up the one you like afterwards
/r/seduction23/07/22 11:09 PM
6

I’m confused, did the girls know each other? If they did that was impossible to begin with
/r/seduction23/07/22 06:26 PM
10

What he said…all other answers here are possible but this is the main reason. It’s a huge shit test
/r/seduction18/07/22 03:37 AM
24

It might be a shit test but I don’t think it’s common…I’ve gone on hundreds of dates and never had this come up
/r/seduction16/07/22 01:38 PM
1

I said 5 guys…and if you met her on an app she’s talking to at least 5 guys yes
/r/seduction10/07/22 06:36 PM
-2

Or she was originally interested and is getting bored. You can’t come up with anything more unique? She has five other boring guys texting her “how’s your day?”
/r/seduction10/07/22 06:10 PM
2

Do NOT ask a girl “how’s your day?” Lame af
/r/seduction10/07/22 05:30 PM
2

I use IG instead of text message…so they can see my stories and the cool stuff that happens there. Only had one flake out of 30 where the date was a week out.
/r/seduction10/07/22 05:29 PM
2

It depends on his scarcity mindset…if she’s his only option I would say go for it. If he has a rotation then avoid friend groups
/r/seduction26/06/22 07:09 PM
1

From what you told me I would guess you didn’t escalate enough. But the other thing is a day also isn’t that long. There have been multiple girls that I’ve dated that took three days to reply after the first date. Sometimes it’s a test to see if you’re needy. I would just hand tight and send a feeler in 4 days…do NOT call her out on not responding, just invite her to something cool
/r/seduction25/06/22 11:44 PM
7

The right reason to not do this is for your own safety. There are so many women in the world, I don’t need a guy showing up to my doorstep with a gun. You never know who you will run into these days
/r/seduction23/06/22 12:08 PM
3

A girl I matched on Tinder invited me to meet her and her friend at a rooftop one time. When I got there apparently her friend had met another guy and I was thrown into a situation with three strangers. I could have left and thought about it but the little voice inside my head told me to just embrace it. I ended up hitting it off with the girl and passed about 8 shit tests before taking her home. We ended up dating casually for a few months. Just be yourself! You never know what will happen…it’s…
/r/seduction11/06/22 03:01 PM
2

This too yes
/r/seduction01/06/22 03:25 AM
1

Because the targets are usually alone?
/r/seduction01/06/22 03:24 AM
2

Only works if you’re attractive
/r/seduction01/06/22 12:37 AM
1

Day game is much better done alone
/r/seduction01/06/22 12:36 AM
3

Girls like that require a different level of game. They’re almost never worth it anyways
/r/seduction01/06/22 12:15 AM
10

That’s not her rejecting you at all...it was a massive shit test which you passed
/r/seduction01/06/22 12:13 AM
2

Haven’t you seen Dirty Grandpa?
/r/seduction27/05/22 12:16 AM
1

Yes…when you ask a girl out keep it lite. Dates are supposed to be fun etc…it’s not a job interview. One way to do this is: “xyz looks cool…want to check into it with me?” So it’s low pressure and you’re doing it anyways. Xyz can mean anything from a new coffee shop to a new rooftop lounge…you get the idea
/r/seduction22/05/22 01:19 AM
1

Depends on the girl and their age…lots of younger girls get freaked out these days by voice calls. A confirmation is fine but keep it lite
/r/seduction21/05/22 08:37 PM
2

25 percent flake rate for online dating is very high after a place has been set...I think 5-10 percent is ok. Your social circle flake rate is very abnormal...my guess is you’re coming off needy via text and they change their minds
/r/seduction21/05/22 06:48 PM
1

Totally worth it...college girls won’t care about a larger place...they just want to have fun
/r/seduction21/05/22 05:23 PM
2

Yes logistics matter...do it
/r/seduction21/05/22 05:03 PM
1

Sounds like you’re in the friend zone to me...if she liked you, you would never hear about her bf
/r/seduction21/05/22 05:02 PM
3

Yes always get them back to yours and not the other way around
/r/seduction21/05/22 05:01 PM
1

Go balls deep brah
/r/seduction21/05/22 05:00 PM
6

It’s always happened but online dating made it worse
/r/seduction21/05/22 04:35 PM
9

Soft rejection...women make it easy for guys they’re into
/r/seduction21/05/22 02:36 PM
10

Women have more options Also she’s still testing you subconsciously and you must have failed a few times
/r/seduction21/05/22 02:35 PM
9

Agree, seems like a red flag on her part if anything
/r/seduction21/05/22 12:23 PM
1

If she lost interest because your game is weak she is not coming back. If you were dating 5 other women and refused to be exclusive with her and put her in a rotation, she is definitely coming back. We call them boomerangs and it’s true in my own experience.
/r/seduction21/05/22 12:21 PM
1

In fact I like to ask them to add me on IG to see how interested they are...you can always add them later. Little power flip
/r/seduction21/05/22 11:56 AM
1

No that’s instant creep status...never ever add a girl on social media unless she gives it to you What’s your opener? If your first few lines are solid about half of them will talk and carry a convo...can’t ask for a higher hit rate than that
/r/seduction21/05/22 03:46 AM
1

Which area are you at? Most good clubs have way more girls...bars are 50/50. Murray Hill bars are easy mode for younger girls...don’t even get me started on Williamsburg bars, every girl is down to fuck there
/r/seduction21/05/22 03:44 AM
1

Try to meet them quickly...they have dozens of guys talking to them. Whoever gets there first gets the fruit
/r/seduction21/05/22 01:51 AM
1

Inner game...work on self confidence. First step is to talk to everyone like they’re your best friend...the cashier at the supermarket. The stranger at the bus stop. This will build your confidence and eventually you just do the same with women
/r/seduction21/05/22 01:39 AM
1

What do you talk about? Girls on dating apps are fickle...my guess is you haven’t kept their interest and they have moved on
/r/seduction21/05/22 01:38 AM
2

Just use Tinder...you can bump into thousands of women within 1 mile there
/r/seduction21/05/22 01:33 AM
3

I have lived in NYC for ten years and it’s a ridiculously soft market. Sure your game has to be tight but the sheer volume of women and tourists make it easy
/r/seduction21/05/22 01:32 AM
2

No clue what you’re talking about...NYC is by far the easiest market in the world. Almost 2-1 women to men and 10 bars on every block. Also she lives so close to you so she can be over in 20 minutes anytime...logistics matter
/r/seduction21/05/22 01:31 AM
3

I just said the same thing! Yes I agree...give them one last shot and then be honest...they will def fuck you if they actually like you
/r/seduction21/05/22 01:29 AM
2

This has happened to me twice before...I date a lot in NYC and bang half of them on the first date and half on the second. So when these two girls made me wait it only made me want it that much more. In both cases, I decided to give it until the fourth date, hard stop. If it didn’t happen by then I was prepared to cut my losses. They both tried to resist again on the fourth date but I made it clear that if it didn’t happen that night, I was done (not too sternly but they knew I meant business). …
/r/seduction21/05/22 01:27 AM
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Bro she told you about another guy she fucked while staying with you? You are too deep in the friendzone...work on yourself first and pursue other women
/r/seduction21/05/22 01:20 AM
2

Finally a dude who knows what he’s doing. I was starting to lose hope in my fellow men reading most of the other posts
/r/seduction17/05/22 03:36 PM
11

If you’re female friend is attracted to you it will help. If she friendzoned you other women pick up on it right away and it will hurt
/r/seduction17/05/22 03:32 PM
1

Yea lots of seeking arrangement type girls there. They’re usually not hard to fuck if your game is tight
/r/seduction17/05/22 03:13 PM
1

I date a lot of women and don’t agree with half of what he said. Instead of having a decent discussion, OP chose to misinterpret my points and just get emotional at me.
/r/seduction17/05/22 01:13 PM
1

You take it to the extreme and completely misinterpret what I said. I never said be a pushover. I said you don’t have to be a diva. I also never said “flake” as in the sense that she doesn’t show up. I meant she just rescheduled a few hours before the date. I don’t know if you have reading comprehension issues or you’re just not that smart.
/r/seduction17/05/22 01:09 PM
0

My guess is you’re aiming really high
/r/seduction17/05/22 12:45 PM
1

When she’s going down on you just throw her face down there
/r/seduction17/05/22 12:44 PM
2

Fucking do it. I passed twice in your same situation ( my ego didn’t allow me to fuck her...I was like let me reject her) and I have regretted both
/r/seduction17/05/22 12:42 PM
1

That’s mainly a certain type of girl (lots of them in NY). For the rest, classic seduction will still work
/r/seduction17/05/22 12:41 PM
3

When they flake, I just reply with “ok.” About half of them will come back and counter with a new date
/r/seduction17/05/22 12:36 PM
2

Steps 1-2 are good but 3-5 is horrendous advice. Lots of younger girls don’t do phone calls with strangers these days. Being a diva is just bad. Being disappointed when she flakes is also bad...the right reply is “ok.” I’ve had women come crawling back when I didn’t chase them like every other guy when she flakes.
/r/seduction17/05/22 12:36 PM
6

I have a few routines that escalate a first date conversation into sex. My favorite one is asking if she has ever kissed a girl...and depending on how she acts I might ask if she has ever been in a threesome. Awareness is key...you need to read her and know when to escalate and when to pull back. Your tone has to be neutral like you’re asking her to borrow a pencil (don’t be your average simp who gets excited just because she has kissed a girl).
/r/seduction15/05/22 03:36 PM
1

I said flirt lightly not try to grab her ass. Basically be the cool new guy
/r/seduction14/05/22 10:26 PM
1

Yea don’t do LDRs...you’ll never get the time back
/r/seduction14/05/22 09:49 PM
2

If you have to ask you’re prob decent but not objectively good looking...prob like a 6 or maybe even a 7. Anything higher and you’ll just know
/r/seduction14/05/22 09:48 PM
3

This guy fucks
/r/seduction14/05/22 09:47 PM
1

Sounds like she just wants to catch up bro...”old friend” sounds like you were friendzoned hard
/r/seduction14/05/22 09:46 PM
2

“Yea you’re the fifth today”
/r/seduction14/05/22 09:45 PM
1

What city do you live in?
/r/seduction14/05/22 09:44 PM
1

Kyle is a very good looking guy so you should discount coaches like that...they just don’t like what it’s like to be rejected. That’s why Mystery was the OG...weird looking mf who got laid
/r/seduction14/05/22 09:41 PM
1

There’s only one answer to this: the girl should always ask. You are coming across a little insecure though and she might say no...In which case you just ghost her and bang ten other women. No exceptions
/r/seduction14/05/22 09:40 PM
2

We need more details here...actually just one detail: have you fucked her yet? My advice will be very different depending on your answer
/r/seduction14/05/22 09:37 PM
1

It prob wasn’t a test...she was prob genuinely more attracted to the other guy. Or wanted him to orbit her (aka get resources from him)
/r/seduction14/05/22 09:36 PM
1

Yes agree...if some girl that I hadn’t banged yet swapped IGs with some dude I could care less. If she’s your wife then you have a problem.
/r/seduction14/05/22 09:34 PM
1

I don’t think he was friend zoned after the first date if she wanted to see him again. However I do think he will be dumped after the second date due to his reaction to her little test. The solution is to just hit on her other friends. Worst case you get another lead...best case she comes crawling back.
/r/seduction14/05/22 09:33 PM
3

It depends how advanced your game is. If you are good with women just flirt lightly with all her friends...creating competition is very powerful.
/r/seduction14/05/22 09:31 PM
1

Bad advice...you can def hang out with her friends but only if you are a cool motherfucker and can entertain multiple people at once. This can be hard as they may have their inside jokes etc but just pivot the conversation to something you’re comfortable with (my default is sex...girls love to talk about it and it’s easy to tease them.) If done correctly, this will create massive attraction from the original girl. If you’re a beginner you may not want to hang out with her friends.
/r/seduction14/05/22 09:29 PM
10

Yes...pretty high risk
/r/seduction10/05/22 03:32 AM
6

They always settle down in their late 20s...doesn’t make it a good idea to marry them
/r/seduction10/05/22 03:17 AM
1

Patrick Bateman here
/r/seduction01/05/22 09:38 PM
1

Yep what this guy said
/r/seduction01/05/22 09:37 PM
1

Back when I was single in NYC around 3 times a week. Now with a gf about once every two weeks
/r/seduction17/04/22 11:05 PM
1

This is brilliant
/r/seduction15/04/22 07:20 PM
14

It’s tough...one of the girls I connected with very well on an emotional level, we just happened to have terrible sex. And most girls that I have amazing sex with I can barely speak to. If you’re lucky enough to find a combination of both you should keep her.
/r/seduction03/04/22 09:29 PM
2

Haha no way! There are at least 10 girls for every 1 guy with decent game. If my friends learn game then it’s good for the group…I can meet their girls friends etc.
/r/seduction02/04/22 02:02 PM
2

I don’t talk about it to show off but sometimes I’ll bring over different girls to hang out with them in a group. Everyone gets a kick out of it. Also I like motivating those lazy mfers.
/r/seduction02/04/22 01:51 PM
1

What happened on the first date?
/r/seduction02/04/22 12:30 PM
3

Exactly. As one of the original dating coaches Mystery said, women are attracted to the unemployed motorcycle gangster.
/r/seduction02/04/22 12:29 PM
9

This was me. To be honest when you become higher value your whole view on life changes. I only stay in touch with one person in high school. The rest of my old friends can’t understand why I don’t want to spend hours smoking weed on a couch. For you it should be option A. I only talk about game etc to guys who get it.
/r/seduction02/04/22 12:26 PM
1

I’ll give the serious response. You want to just deflect the compliment and don’t overreact to it. You have a lot more going on elsewhere for you. A good answer would just be to shrug and say “it does the job” or “it’s above average I guess” and move on.
/r/seduction02/04/22 12:22 PM
1

How long have you been friends for?
/r/seduction25/03/22 05:16 PM
1

An hour FaceTime? No No No. You don’t have time for that because you have 5 other women chasing you
/r/seduction25/03/22 02:21 PM
1

It means your ELO score is low
/r/seduction13/03/22 11:10 PM
2

I don’t go down on girls. When they go down on me the risk is very very low (look it up) so don’t worry at all. Asking if she got checked recently is a huge mood killer
/r/seduction13/03/22 11:09 PM
2

Mentioning strip UNO was a mistake. Reeks of desperation. Just get her back to your place, start doing shots with her (alcohol helps), escalate and physically carry her to the bedroom.
/r/seduction13/03/22 10:54 PM
1

It depends on how tight your game is. And whether she puts you in the alpha or beta mindset. But another way of thinking about this is: she has fucked other guys on the first date before. I don’t want to wait while other guys don’t. Also, abundance mentality! If you’re banging other girls you won’t try so hard to get sex from her. She will feel it and knows if she doesn’t put out soon you will just drop her.
/r/seduction13/03/22 10:46 PM
2

Most of you who are shocked and outraged have obviously never had a rotation. If you lose them both then who cares? Find two more. I don’t think lying is okay but I think using the word “friend” is fine…they can use their imagination. Women love competition.
/r/seduction10/03/22 09:52 PM
3

Not just looks…although it is mostly looks. Status can also get you there
/r/seduction08/03/22 06:19 PM
7

Online works great if you’re top 20 percent. If not, girls just have too many options there and in person is much better.
/r/seduction08/03/22 02:54 AM
6

Fame over money over looks. Justin Bieber can get laid more than a 80 year old random billionaire
/r/seduction08/03/22 01:03 AM
3

I don’t think they’re ugly...not as hot as a place like NYC or prob Poland but they move very quickly.
/r/seduction06/03/22 03:39 PM
16

London was very easy for me game wise. Very sexually open place…yes the girls are not as hot as some other cities and logistics can be a pain but if your game is tight you can get laid there.
/r/seduction06/03/22 03:33 PM
2

Ignore ignore ignore. She may have met someone else or it might be a shit test or power play. Either way you are the high value male and have other things to do (aka hotter girls)
/r/seduction06/03/22 12:06 AM
1

Play it back at her. And ignore her. Do something cool (hopefully you are already, not just doing something cool to show off) and post it on IG story. This is the only way you can get into her pants. Once I had a girl straight up tell me on the second date she wasn’t interested in me. I was seeing other women at the time so just shrugged it off. I continued doing stuff and sharing on IG (like I would have done anyways) and she reached out to me after 9 months. 9 freaking months! That victory was…
/r/seduction03/03/22 05:04 PM
1

If your SMV is high enough there’s nothing more efficient than Tinder. This only applies to the top ten percent of men. Everyone else needs to cold approach
/r/TheRedPill27/02/22 09:32 PM
1

This happened to me too. Had a small rotation going with 3 girls a few years ago and one day something really bad happened at work. I was due to meet one of my plates that night and even though I should have moved it, I figured the release might help me. I couldn’t get it up and the next week when I texted her she said she has found a BF!
/r/TheRedPill27/02/22 08:53 PM
1

Sounds like a test to me
/r/seduction20/02/22 10:23 PM
1

I actually like to wait a few minutes before the kiss...it makes them think “is he gonna make a move? Creates good sexual tension”
/r/seduction11/02/22 03:12 AM
1

Of course but life usually isn’t like this...chances are the hotter girl is giving you more shit
/r/seduction08/02/22 04:30 AM
1

Maybe...so ask her to get a drink. If she wants attention she won’t invest time in you. I just don’t want him to miss out on the girls who got dumped and want to fuck now
/r/seduction07/02/22 03:53 AM
2

You like my cock baby? Tell me how much you like my cock You like it hard? Tell me you want me to fuck you harder
/r/seduction07/02/22 02:04 AM
1

Invite her to something not sexual
/r/seduction07/02/22 01:18 AM
1

Yes I would be attracted to her…I would just treat it as another shit test. My reply would be “you’re right, even my mom thinks I’m hideous” with a smirk. Gotta get that inner game down…nothing a random girl says can phase you
/r/seduction07/02/22 01:17 AM
3

What he said. Also sometimes if they’re out and drunk they will text you and ask to come over.
/r/seduction07/02/22 01:15 AM
1

I would just tease her…any other reply is too serious for a first date. Something like “my red flag is girls who aren’t adventurous enough”. She will of course defend herself and say she’s adventurous…then you can use it later on to invite her to your place…”I might be an axe killer but you said you were adventurous “
/r/seduction07/02/22 01:14 AM
1

Totally using you
/r/seduction07/02/22 01:12 AM
6

This is a salty reply…if she hit you up she prob wants to fuck anyways but being so upfront about it will kill your chances. Meet her at the bar downstairs and then escalate
/r/seduction07/02/22 01:11 AM
1

Sounds kind of weird…I would kino and touch her leg while seated at the bar etc.
/r/seduction07/02/22 01:10 AM
2

What he said. Being the dangerous forbidden playboy makes panties drop
/r/seduction07/02/22 01:08 AM
8

That sounds like a shit test...she’s just seeing how you react. A better reply would be “don’t flatter yourself...maybe I just wanted some gym tips”
/r/seduction06/02/22 03:01 AM
7

This also depends on the city. In NYC, lots of young girls who aren’t afraid to date guys in their 30s
/r/seduction06/02/22 02:44 AM
3

It’s called a shit test…classic. It’s how they test us and gauge our reaction to see if we’re strong enough. This one was pretty tame.
/r/seduction03/02/22 02:39 PM
6

Just ignore the pic…bringing it up sounds salty and will cause her to lose attraction. You’re impenetrable and can’t be affected by something as silly as a pic.
/r/seduction02/02/22 03:38 PM
4

As someone who once dated up to 7 women at the same time, I can say that being straightforward honest is NOT the right move. Women just get too sensitive and you start having these serious convos about where this is going etc. You should just dance around it and joke about it. If your value is high enough, women don’t mind being part of a rotation and they will also learn to joke about it...i.e. “I hope I’m more fun than your Friday date.”
/r/seduction30/01/22 06:00 PM
2

Clear power play and also possible shit test...the only move is to ask once and not ask again. Make her think about all the other women you’re fucking. Never ask twice
/r/seduction23/01/22 04:57 PM
0

These girls are more fun but also more prone to cheat, esp those in outgoing fields such as sales. I attend a lot of corporate conferences and travel and the “center of the room” girls are also some of the easiest.
/r/seduction21/01/22 08:42 PM
1

I personally went up to 65 girls in 4 years living in NYC…that included a few longer term flings (not exclusive relationships but girls I would date for 3-4 months). 100 girls is very very reasonable.
/r/seduction03/11/21 07:04 PM
4

I don’t know why you think he’s exaggerating…10 girls a year is very reasonable
/r/seduction03/11/21 12:40 PM
8

“What makes you think I’m so easy?” “If you paid me I wouldn’t have sex with you” The key is delivery…say it with a smirk. And yes, every woman who has ever said that to me I’ve had sex with them pretty quickly after. It’s just a test
/r/seduction01/11/21 01:47 PM
3

Two words: another dude It’s almost always the case when this happens. Even if the sex was bad you get another shot if she’s into you
/r/seduction17/10/21 11:31 PM
1

Yea 60…About 15 new girls each year. Prob easier to do in a place like NYC
/r/seduction01/09/21 01:06 PM
5

Lost my virginity at 22 (night before graduation actually!) She became my steady gf for 5 years (we were long distance) so my number count remained at 1 until I was 27. Broke up with her, studied and learned game and got on Tinder in NYC. Maintained a rotation of 7 at one point…got the n count past 60…now I’m in a relationship again. It can def happen!
/r/seduction01/09/21 02:59 AM
2

Keep doing your thing my guy! Don’t let the haters get to you…lot of jealous dudes out there. A lot of my “friends” questioned my lifestyle too lol
/r/seduction28/08/21 12:17 AM
1

Used to do something similar in NYC but I never did 10 dates in 10 days…most I ever got was 7 lol. It was mostly because I couldn’t drink that much
/r/seduction27/08/21 10:11 PM
3

IG game involves a lot of social pics..many pics with other very hot girls will do the trick. You can’t fake it entirely though…they need to leave comments and likes on your pics too
/r/seduction23/08/21 08:43 PM
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