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Guys that are actually nice aren’t seen as creepy, the stereotypical “nice guy” that thinks girls are vending machines where you put in kindness to get sex and will call a girl a whore for not sleeping with them are the ones that get seen as creepy. The girl equivalent of the “nice guy” is probably the pick me. Neither one is actually nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 04:30 PM
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Absolutely not. I was miserable in my last relationship because I liked them more. I would never put myself through that again, nor have I ever wanted to or don it before. I don’t want to chase anyone, I’d rather be alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 07:00 AM
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The guy who grabbed my ass on the stairs every week in high school is pretty good evidence that sexual harassment exists. And our uniform was knee length shorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:41 AM
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I don’t go on many dates in the first place, the risk of encountering a pushy or aggressive guy makes it just not worth it. I left online dating as well since I never actually met anyone in real life save for one single time that ended in a… unfortunate long term relationship. It gets made fun of on Reddit a lot but online dating really is terrifying for women. Not just on an emotional level but on a safety level too, the risk to reward ratio is pretty abysmal. It’s not that all men are dangerou…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:37 AM
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Yup, I’m the opposite of you and I’ve dated the social science artsy type of guy and I just can’t get along with them. And I’m part artsy myself, but I guess the computer science and math-y part of me is stronger. It’s not always a gender thing
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:27 AM
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Studying psychology even a tiny a bit is life changing for this, it helps you understand that subjective feelings are also a kind of objective fact. A reaction or feeling might seem subjective, but the existence of that feeling and the mechanisms that caused it are very much objective and based on human psychology. signed a (mildly autistic) compsci nerd
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:25 AM
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You’d be surprised how many women there are in stem that are very “logical”. Fields like CS, math, physics etc attract people like that regardless of gender. Maybe try dating someone in one of those fields? I’m a girl and I strongly prefer dating guys in a similar field because I’m very analytical and just don’t get along very well with people who aren’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:23 AM
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Most women do not want to “share” guys. Being afraid of being played or used is the most common reason women my age end up single
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:15 AM
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I have zero interest in sharing anyone or a cab driver, but I’d date someone that doesn’t make a lot if we share interests. I absolutely love physics but I didn’t get to pursue it so I’d 10/10 date the broke physicist. (Yes most people in physics are broke unless they work for the government. Sounds crazy but it’s true)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:14 AM
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Have you talked to a normal woman in the past year? Who the hell is going after a guy that has 10k instagram followers over a smart dude with a medical degree?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:10 AM
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Yes. I don’t have trouble getting a date online, but I want a real relationship and that is almost impossible. Even if you’re looking for something serious guys expect you to sleep with them well before you’re exclusive. Waiting to go all the way until the third date is considered extreme, and there is a large subset of guys that will pretend they want a relationship for as long as it takes to get you in bed, even if it’s months, and then ghost you. Plenty of guys will go on a date with me off h…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 06:04 AM
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Absolutely not. Any signs of toxicity or him being abusive towards an ex is enough to run a thousand miles away. I will never date a guy that says “all my exes are crazy”. I feel bad for the one guy with actual crazy exes but I’m not taking that risk I don’t care who it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:56 AM
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Then don’t date a girl that dresses in a way that makes you so uncomfortable. Don’t try to change someone, just find someone else.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:50 AM
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That is not nice at all. That’s the female version of the toxic “nice guy” stereotype
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:43 AM
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I’ve been the “nice” type most of my life, and I was ironically treated the best when I had a weird alternative phase and wore all black and fishnets for a year. The regular me is invisible or treated like trash, and I’m far from overweight, I dress well and my only real many trait is being 5’9.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:41 AM
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That’s only true if said nice girl is pretty - and very pretty at that, because the nice girl needs to look good without showing off her body. Even an average looking “nice girl” is not gonna be desirable at all to guys. A “fun and sexy” average looking girl will be liked more than a “nice” average looking girl 90% of the time. Average and nice = invisible.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:36 AM
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This is the real feminist take, I hate how skewed the general perception of equality has become.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:22 AM
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Bro wants a totalitarian dictatorship except only to micromanage everyone’s relationship. It’s insane to try to create perfect equality by splitting things down the middle when men and women aren’t identical. We’re very similar and identical in some ways, but whether in day to day life or just our physical body and strengths, we are not the same. We’re equal in worth not clones.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:19 AM
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What if both partners can be loving and caring towards each other and express that in whatever way works for the other person in their unique relationship? It’s not a damn formula.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:14 AM
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Not if involves physical combat. I’m a 5’10 woman so you would think I’m fairly strong right? Well my 5’8 male friend who’s scrawny, weighs even less than me, and never worked out once in his life can quite literally kill me without breaking a sweat.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 05:45 PM
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At some point it’s irrelevant though, I’m average with a bmi less than 20, I’m not sure if losing 20lb and being underweight will help my case very much
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 05:29 PM
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