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Search for zyzz chat roulette videos on youtube.
/r/askTRP28/03/17 02:12 PM
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Your whole post reeks of trying to be the bigger man. If someone gets angry at you and it affects you to the point where you show your temper, you've broken frame and lose. The win is when you let their anger roll off you like water from a duck's back. You're correct in that it's like approaching, the more conflicts you're a part of the more you're able to control your emotions and get what you want from the situation. Men with nothing to prove don't get angry every time they're threatened 'caus…
/r/askTRP07/05/16 06:15 AM
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"No snowflake in an avalanche ever feels responsible".
/r/TheRedPill10/12/15 06:11 PM
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What's your question?
/r/askTRP15/11/15 05:54 AM
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Probably trying to use you for free weed for her and her friend, don't bother.
/r/askTRP21/07/15 05:20 AM
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Look at her lifestyle. Factors such as smoking, drinking, excessive tanning, (lack of) exercise and quality of diet will tell you a lot about how a person will age.
/r/askTRP27/05/15 04:56 PM
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Nope that is social suicide. Be a wolf in sheep's clothing.
/r/askTRP16/05/15 10:31 AM
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There's quite a good 10 day guided meditation for beginners on https://www.headspace.com/
/r/askTRP08/05/15 04:10 AM
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You should take up meditation, it will help you control your thoughts better as well as help you with your sleeping problems.
/r/askTRP07/05/15 06:10 PM
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What on Earth are you blabbering about? Dear God learn to make your thoughts more concise. There's a lot of mental masturbation and patting yourself on the back in your post, whilst you've got fucking nowhere with these girls. You wanna know how to make these 3 girls, or even any girl into your plate? The big secret?.... You fuck them. Then you fuck them later whilst intermittently fucking other girls in between. Go and try to FUCK these girls, not play with their hair in class, and come back wi…
/r/askTRP05/05/15 11:41 AM
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I have suffered from brief tendinitis before, and the exercises in this video helped me immensely: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hUyMNyrOHJQ What I recommend is to do those exercises daily, every couple of hours at least. Now that you're doing those, having tendinitis doesn't stop you doing a lot of exercise. Go get a new squat PR, do some HIIT. Stay active and know that you are doing what you can to actively improve your situation and recover. This will help you feel like you're working towar…
/r/askTRP04/05/15 04:38 AM
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Don't think about meeting her anymore unless she apologizes, gives you an excuse and suggests a meet up herself. Even then make it completely on your terms. Don't appear butthurt around her, just do your thing. In all likelihood any chance of you guys hooking up now is dead.
/r/askTRP03/05/15 07:12 AM
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It just means they found him attractive from the beginning. There were probably times where they had this thought but then he fucked it up or a hotter guy came along, but they don't mention those times. Even if a woman has this thought that doesn't mean she's just gonna jump into bed with him right away, the seduction still has to take place and he still has to prove she was right to think that. Don't spend too much time thinking about what women say, honestly who cares
/r/askTRP03/05/15 06:59 AM
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In the beginning you wanna smash her every chance you get. The ratio of times you meet and fuck : times you meet and don't fuck will set the tone for the rest of your interactions. Shoulda fucked her when she came over drunk, or at least in the morning. Sleeping in the same bed without sex and then going to her dance recital and her then shooting off shows that you're her orbiter at this point, even though you started off well. ALWAYS BE CLOSING.
/r/askTRP02/05/15 02:05 AM
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Was what worth it?
/r/askTRP01/05/15 02:15 PM
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Dunno I can't read her mind. Ask her to meet and escalate, if she says yes, you'll have your answer as to her intentions pretty quickly. Won't meet = online orbiter/+1 validation Meets but doesn't accept escalation well = Wants a real life orbiter Meets and fucks you = Wants to be plated again
/r/askTRP01/05/15 02:13 PM
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When she said she's "not looking for a relationship", what she meant was she's "not looking for a relationship with you". You will come to understand what girls say vs what they mean as you get to know more of them. Try not to be bitter so that you can actually learn something from this experience. All's fair in love and war mate, don't hate your friend for having a go with a girl you couldn't even kiss. Also, never tell a girl you love her if she hasn't told you first AND you've fucked her a lo…
/r/askTRP01/05/15 02:05 PM
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Those guys who get laid a lot know how to go from meeting a girl to taking her to bed a percentage of the time, and have the confidence to do it. Right now that's the difference between them and you. Sounds like you've got the looks down and you're interesting. Great, but if you can't confidently show that to a girl and have the balls to go for it then you're gonna lose out to someone who will. It's fine to ask for a girl's number after a few minutes, if you're not a completely weirdo you'll pro…
/r/askTRP26/04/15 06:27 PM
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Dating a virgin is both a blessing and a curse. On the one hand she is not jaded from 30 Chad Thundercocks ploughing her silly but on the other her repertoire in the bedroom will extend no further than the starfish in the beginning, so it's up to you to train her. It's not an issue that needs to be deeply considered beyond that.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 03:06 PM
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Raise your value so that you're in the top 20% of men. How? Value is pretty much split up into 3 areas. Health: Lift, take care of your body, eat well. Do you look better than 80% of guys? Wealth/Status: How much do you bank? (don't actually tell me.) Does the way you dress and act reflect a high status man or a poor college student? Social: Do you have good game? Are you preselected by other women? Do you have the confidence to strike up a conversation with a girl at any time or place? Excellin…
/r/askTRP26/04/15 09:08 AM
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Do you think she would have told Brad Pitt she doesn't think it's a good idea? Sorry dude she's just not that into you.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 09:01 AM
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If you "rebuild" your relationship with him he will only see it as you saying that you will accept this kind of behavior again in the future. You wanna worry about this shit every time you introduce him to a new girl of yours? Cut him out. You thought of him as a brother, but brothers don't do that to each other.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 08:55 AM
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Some girls give more IOIs than others. Shy girls tend to give less, but it doesn't mean she's less interested. Wanna know if a girl likes you? Doesn't matter if they're awkward, shy, confident whatever. You escalate, if she allows it to continue and enjoys it, guess what - she likes you.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 08:51 AM
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I've seen lots of alpha men become pathetic yes men to sluts. It can happen to anyone if you don't have your guard up and someone/TRP to warn you about it. Also, women are good at hiding that shit. Most guys can't figure it out. The real problem however is not if alphas can love the women, the problem is that sluts are ruined and are in fact the ones unable to love men (see: divorce rates/alpha widows.)
/r/askTRP26/04/15 08:48 AM
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If you don't ask for their number, how else are you gonna set up a meeting time and place with them? Girls give their number out ALL the time, it's not a big deal. No offence but you are over-estimating yourself here ("is it not enough?") You imply you have high SMV but if you don't know this much your game must be pretty weak. Being able to talk to a girl or guy anywhere is good but doesn't mean you know how to take a girl home. So yes, get out there, asks girls for their numbers, set up dates …
/r/askTRP26/04/15 08:42 AM
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Assume all girls are sluts until proven otherwise. AWALT given the right situation. You've given us hardly any information about her, and there could be lots of red flags you're missing. Fuck her a few times and find out her number, by that point you should have a better idea of what you're dealing with.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 08:36 AM
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Diagnosis: Oneitis. Suggested treatment: No contact, heavy lifting, self-improvement, fucking 10 other girls.
/r/askTRP26/04/15 08:30 AM
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In addition to the lifting and doing sports mentioned, one of the most important things you can learn at school is good study habits. This is the time of your life where you develop your personal learning system that will set you up for doing well academically in your life. Do your homework, study for tests, and find the way that suits you best. Learn to work hard. This will apply to a lot of areas in your life. Don't just drift through life until it forces you to pull your socks up, be ready. A…
/r/askTRP26/04/15 05:01 AM
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Look at the way you spoke - "next time babe I'm going to fuck you until you've came, you need to sleep now. Idk why I didn't last as long as normal" - You didn't actually say sorry, but this is almost the same thing.
/r/askTRP05/04/15 05:10 AM
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Dude you're being way too aloof here. She's continuing the sexual escalation by presenting herself to you. Fucking reward that shit, but don't overreact. Just a simple "nice, let's meet at x on saturday". You carry on like this she'll think you're not into her, insecure, or gay. She's just throwing herself at you, if you're trying to plate her as you say then push for a meetup and get it done. Don't be "too cool" (a.k.a not cool.)
/r/askTRP04/04/15 08:54 AM
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No it doesn't matter. Apologizing for it matters though. Don't even mention it and if she brings it up just be like eyyy baby i got mine what's the big deal haha. Then fuck the shit out of her next time. Honestly if you get her off most of the time stop caring so fucking much.
/r/askTRP04/04/15 07:53 AM
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When you learn all these new things like you have and start applying them in your daily life, it takes a little while to become congruent and actually believe them, for them to actually BECOME your character as opposed to just trying them out. During this period other people will be able to sense a bit of in-congruence and will call you on it, but just keep pushing through until it becomes natural and they will stop. Keep up the good work.
/r/askTRP28/03/15 06:56 AM
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It's possible but highly unlikely due to two things: 1) Women usually date up 2) Men's value increases over time. So if you were able to get a high value girl at one point in time it's likely that you won't be able to get the equivalent later as long as you're working on yourself.
/r/askTRP16/03/15 04:14 PM
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If it was as easy as reading a couple of books and watching a couple of videos then everyone would be successful. Go approach 1000 girls whilst reading and improving yourself every day and come back and make another post when you're done.
/r/seduction01/02/15 04:22 PM
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Train him like one of Pavlov's dogs. Whenever he talks about something non-work related, act more interested by looking directly into his eyes and paying a lot more attention to his words. Ask questions and actively engage with him. Do all that cute shit girls do. If he turns the topic towards something that you really enjoy, reward him for it. Do a little something for him, be affectionate, sex, whatever. Whenever he talks about work, let your disinterest show and even start doing something els…
/r/askTRP30/01/15 04:31 AM
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Every day we read new "TRP works" stories from people all over the world who have read the sidebar and other resources like yourself, and then gone out and implemented those things. Should you take every story as the absolute truth? Of course not. Being cynical can be a good trait when exercised properly but do not waste too much time dwelling on your thoughts. Instead, it's up to you to see if what is put before you here is true or not. Take what is useful to you and ignore the rest. Actually g…
/r/askTRP05/01/15 03:53 AM
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First, be honest with yourself. You clearly do still like her at least a bit. In the short term, get so busy working on yourself that you don't have time to sit around "yearning" her. In the longer term, fuck 10 other girls. Sounds like you don't have much experience with women so it could be a long road but by the end of it you will be much better off.
/r/askTRP11/12/14 05:27 AM
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Read this: http://illimitablemen.com/2014/04/13/monk-mode/ Also, get in the habit of seeking out answers yourself (google), rather than just asking for them.
/r/askTRP02/12/14 02:30 AM
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If you wanna go from friends to partners then fuck her. You'll have to get away from your friends and be alone with her if you wanna move things forward. Whatever you do, don't take her out on expensive dates like dinners etc.
/r/askTRP30/11/14 12:26 PM
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Use the Brad Pitt rule (from http://www.artofmanliness.com/2008/02/05/the-brad-pitt-rule/) "Call up the woman you like and ask her on a date. Did she say yes? Great, she probably likes you. What if she makes up an excuse for why she can’t go out? This is the time to employ the Brad Pitt Rule. Imagine that instead of you, Brad Pitt had asked this same woman out. Would she use the same excuse with him? If Brad Pitt asked her on a date, would she still say she had to study or was going to the movie…
/r/askTRP07/11/14 10:15 PM
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Feminism is women trying to lose their responsibilities, but keep their female privileges, whilst taking the privileges of men but forcing them to uphold their responsibilities. They say they want to be equal, but only in areas in which they feel men have it better. The classic example is that women want to be paid equally to men, but that men should still pay for all the movies, dinners, gifts etc. They want all the perks that men have had but none of the downsides. Real feminism achieved its g…
/r/askTRP07/11/14 09:56 PM
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You said you went no contact and then talk about texting each other and meeting. That's not what no contact is. Delete her from everything, ignore any and all attempts to contact you. Don't spend another minute writing to her, or making posts about her. Get on with your life.
/r/askTRP04/11/14 10:20 AM
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You're putting girls on a pedestal right now. It's not your job to protect their feelings or to worry about objectifying them. Girls love to hook up with attractive guys too, they're not all looking for LTRs. If you are honest from the beginning you do not need to be apologetic about getting what you want. In regards as to how you should best get experience, my advice would be start spinning plates, as meeting a variety of women will be extremely beneficial to your self-confidence and you will l…
/r/askTRP24/08/14 06:06 PM
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Small steps my friend... Start lifting, eat better. Also, you have it backwards. You do not need to fix your problems with women first. You need to fix YOURSELF first, and the women will follow.
/r/askTRP03/08/14 01:12 PM
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Don't you like her hot pics? Reward her for her good behavior, don't shoot her down.
/r/askTRP02/08/14 06:01 PM
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The best way to be interesting is to be interested. Get a hobby or passion that really excites you, when you talk about it, it will engage the other person as you truly care about what you're talking about. This should be your goal. "Not being boring" is not a good goal. Get excited about something. Also, people love talking about themselves and their own lives, learning to ask the right questions to get people talking about what makes them tick will also lead to interesting conversations. From …
/r/askTRP01/08/14 12:59 PM
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Just message her like a week before she's supposed to show up seeing if she's still down to meet. Use the time until then to be out working on yourself and spinning other plates.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 04:49 PM
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Say it with a smirk and confidence and it will be fine. Just because you're married doesn't mean you suddenly have to do everything she asks you just because. Or you can reword it like "yeah i can do that, can you do so and so while i do that?" Make it fair or preferably in your favor.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 04:10 PM
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Whatever you find pleasing counts as good behavior. Cooking you a meal... Staying in instead of slutting it up on a girls' night out, that kinda stuff.
/r/askTRP31/07/14 11:47 AM
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Be alone with more girls more often.
/r/seduction31/07/14 09:58 AM
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You no longer help her with her work. You no longer bring her cereal. You no longer apologize to her when you were not in the wrong. You need to hold your frame better. Don't lose your temper in these situations. Next time she asks you to do something for her, ask "what's in it for me?" If she doesn't come up with something you deem as worth your time then just don't bother. This might be hard to read but she doesn't respect you because you don't respect yourself. It's clear that you run around …
/r/askTRP31/07/14 08:14 AM
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She's showing herself in a sexual light to you. Presenting you with her body. If you want to plate this girl you shouldn't punish her for this behavior or she may be apprehensive about doing sexual things in the future, or just think you're too inexperienced to know how to handle it. At the same time though, you shouldn't drool over her pics. I think a simple "nice" followed up by telling her when and where to meet you when she's next in town is best. This is one of those situations which is gua…
/r/askTRP27/07/14 08:32 AM
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"You love it"
/r/askTRP19/07/14 02:06 PM
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Over 50% of marriages in the USA end in divorce. Millions of men thought they had found "the one". 20 years later they lose half their shit and pay alimony for however many years. What makes you different from these men? You think your feeling is special, but it isn't. You are sticking your head in the sand and ignoring the facts like many men before you who have regretted it. Not only are you not playing the game, you are not even aware there is one.
/r/askTRP15/07/14 02:10 PM
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Drugs can change peoples' moods. That being said, you made 2 BIG mistakes. You didn't have ID, this makes you seem like a child and any woman will instantly lose respect for you over this, even if she doesn't show it. Your second mistake was letting the situation get out your control by going to her place. Anyone could have been there to sabotage your evening, it was out of your control. Especially before you sleep with a girl the first time, you must stay in control and that means selecting a p…
/r/seduction13/07/14 10:01 AM
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Have some self respect. Next.
/r/askTRP05/07/14 08:36 AM
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Pretty obvious she wasn't attracted to you enough to give you her number, but didn't want to openly reject you so she took the easy way out
/r/askTRP22/06/14 02:33 PM
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How do you have the time or energy for this shit? Next.
/r/askTRP22/06/14 04:06 AM
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“No man has the right to be an amateur in the matter of physical training. It is a shame for a man to grow old without seeing the beauty and strength of which his body is capable.” ― Socrates
/r/askTRP22/06/14 03:19 AM
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If it's legitimate criticism then get your shit together and take away their ammo. If it's unfounded criticism solely to make you look bad in front of your peers then agree and amplify or banter back. You could also just brush him off like an annoying child, "hey man i'm busy, don't you have work to do?". Say the last part like you're asking them if they've done their homework. Saying nothing is bad because your silence is letting him know there are no repercussions if he continues to humiliate …
/r/askTRP21/06/14 09:07 AM
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A high partner count negatively affects a woman's ability to pair bond with her husband and children. As such it's reasonable so ask about a partner's sexual history before committing to an LTR. She lied about her partner count. OP doesn't want a relationship with a slut so this naturally worries him (though he shouldn't trust what women say their partner count is in the first place). The real reason she lied about it was probably because she was pumped and dumped and feels very ashamed of that …
/r/askTRP21/06/14 04:46 AM
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Absolutely not. Being able to own a home without any debt reflects positively upon you.
/r/askTRP18/06/14 04:45 PM
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If you don't see her in your day-to-day life just ignore her.
/r/askTRP15/06/14 04:00 PM
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30 minutes isn't too far, especially if she's the one making the journey most of the time.
/r/askTRP15/06/14 07:35 AM
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Your indecision is because of your lack of experience with other women. If you had slept with a lot of women this would be a no-brainer. You need to leave her and find your own happiness, experience life and stop putting so much time and energy into this black hole of drama and attention. Work on yourself, lift and sleep with other women. When you have a few plates lining up to give you the blowjobs that you could never get with this woman you will look back and laugh at how easy a choice it sho…
/r/askTRP14/06/14 08:30 AM
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