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buy a spy cam and install it in living room and in your work room what if your files DV on you. Narcs are worst man they don't give a F about anything other than them
/r/Divorce_Men12/07/25 04:08 AM
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awesome hang in there Men are fuked by courts in this age
/r/Divorce_Men13/06/25 12:35 AM
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sorry to hear marriage is the most disastrous thing that can happen to men I plan to get kids somewhere away in different cheap country and pay child support
/r/Divorce_Men12/06/25 09:09 PM
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Remember they are women I say a women is a grown up another teenager; That's how God has designed them not there fault Don't hate the game; Learn the rules I am also fuked by women and family court but stopped complaining
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/25 10:16 PM
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Rule 1 Do not trust your attorney - specially if you have money 1st thing they do is to evaluate how much money they can extract from you, by delaying your case, sending you 100 emails and charging. This is known process how they make money. You are there source of Income. 2nd - Try to AVOID firms: go with single lawyers. Firms are most corrupt they make sure they Suck your blood. atleast single lawyers they have less overhead set your expectations clearly with them and budget don't show you hav…
/r/Divorce_Men29/04/25 01:10 AM
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Fuk My situation is fucked as he'll I have same question If spouse is bitch like this how long the case last
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/25 11:28 PM
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I thought I am the one who did dumbest mistake in selecting partner. I have went from earning 200K to zero today and with 130K USD debt. However she is gone emotionally mentally and I am happy. I Hope I can get back to market and make all money to pay off all debts. Buddy 53 F Broke single mother with mental issues and adults broken ass kids. Get out of this shit ASAP.
/r/Divorce_Men25/04/25 10:36 PM
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Man she is not a good mom. She has mental issues, Narc, Bipolar what not. look at these scenarios. You keep compromising thinking for the sake of kid. She gets flexibility, She is any ways a person with mental issue. Your kids stay with her. Your kids mental health and life is anyways screw up because of her. Her being in your kids life is -ve not good in long run. She is gonna screw Your kids mental health. You being in your kid life will help. Think of a your kid like a ocean and you a clean s…
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/25 03:39 PM
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Can we connect on Private message, you seem to have good knowledge on CA law. I have to discuss my narc garbage 🗑
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/25 12:00 AM
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First thing to accept is that if you put your leg in the garbage no matter what your leg is gonna stink and you will have to do the right things and pay the price to clean it up depending on how dirty the garbage I also married a piece of craap and now paying the price. you have kid as well so do what is best for kid
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/25 02:24 PM
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sent you question is more detail in private chat
/r/Divorce_Men15/04/25 06:01 PM
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Fake domestic Violence
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/25 12:49 AM
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Man as you know it's no fault. Doesn't matter no one knows what happens in bedroom. don't rush there is no need to rush also move out before she plans any DV on you
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/25 12:32 AM
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No one knows dead bedroom stuff. Is she going to admit that she slept with 5 guys. Do you wanna trust a H0E who slept with 5 guys while in relationship with you? Call State Bars - Search Google- legal aid lawyer reference - They can advice for 30 mins in 20-30 Bucks. I am sure she has to pay more than 30K that's why she is suggesting uncontested. It's Assets Half of Marriage length + You will get monthly support for sometime. If she is earning more you should be able to calculate lump sump. Be s…
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/25 12:30 AM
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The family court judges are looking for every possible reason to make you pay thats their job. I made 200 K lost my job and market suks Guess what now they see you as a guy who makes 200 K forever.
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/25 02:21 PM
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The most notorious judges are from Family court; If you continuously start making money from side gigs it can hurt
/r/Divorce_Men12/04/25 01:40 PM
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Congrats What can you claim the support amount on Tax expemtions ? what about if you are paying support out of canada ?
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/25 09:23 PM
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not hot no good sex we both were young Not marrying again - No legal drama Married in good faith only to get extorted 😞
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/25 12:52 AM
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yes I hired lawyer but the court said Oops you should have closed this support on time and since I didn't close the support on time they have asked me to pay it.. That's why I am looking if I file divorce in Texas will court look into this huge amount and give me discount on divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/25 12:14 AM
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married to a gold digger also found that she had long affair before marriage which she was not over with
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/25 12:11 AM
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we never lived in Texas as a couple we lived in another state. What does Split mean here ? The support order is in another state since I didn't close this it kept on accumulating My question is if I start living in Texas for more than 6 months, I should be able to file the divorce and when I file divorce will judge ask to split the money during the time of marriage or judge will consider this situation where support is accumulated to huge amount and will remove the property split. I am going to …
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/25 06:26 PM
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Thanks, Since I left the state and the only way I can file is living in that state for 6 months. But I am getting job in Texas that's why inquiring here
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/25 04:50 PM
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which state is this where assets after separation are divided
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/25 05:41 AM
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Thanks for your insights. But unfortunateIy I got married. I don't have any problem with 50 50 but I have given her huge sum of money on trust which I have proof but now she also wants 50 50. That's why I am looking for place where this is acknowledged rather than just going by the books
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/25 03:54 PM
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One of the guy on Reddit said he had lawyer wife. What he did is got her cases and client info - . So he threatened her that he will release those info to opposite party and make it public. The guy mentioned his lawyer wife divorced her easiy..
/r/Divorce_Men26/11/24 08:45 PM
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don't go overseas. After doing divorce process and going through I an planning to file divorce here
/r/Divorce_Men09/10/24 09:38 PM
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Buddy we all have done Simp things being with these Hoes. Forget about God, you have to take the matters to your hand. File the divorce and move on: She was never yours it was just your turn. People do say try best but that is with right people. Imagine she mocking you with other guy she doesn't respect you at all and she doesn't have self esteem.People like these are people who do not deserve second chance because its waste of time. Good luck and move on
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/24 03:05 PM
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I have support hearing like a conference.. what happens there? they told me it's before the case goes to judge.. I am not in US.. so wondering... can you guide me.. we can dm
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/24 03:08 AM
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120000
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/24 03:01 AM
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I have 120 USD due to pay that kunt
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/24 02:56 AM
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commenting to keep the track on this post.. It would nice we can have zoom call together to share experience and save ourself
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/24 07:47 PM
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fukin these supoort.. I have 150 K due in spousal suporot and it keeps on growing.. I left pa and moved out now it's scary
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/24 10:16 AM
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I have video recordings and lawyers said marital misconduct doesn't count
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/24 04:03 AM
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wow.. can you make love with your new women and let the stbx know somehow ? happy for you
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/24 05:46 AM
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The only reason for marriage could be kids. But you know that there are chances at some point she is going to cheat or loose interest.. same applies for men as well. Only thing is law will kill and punish men. I think we should marry but keep in mind that a spouse is not your blood relation one day they may get bored, relationship could get sour etc etc. Getting Prenup or a companion relationship where you can walk out
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/24 02:28 AM
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why don't you read about Narcissim and Bipolar topics online. You will 90 % of your answer. I did the same
/r/Divorce_Men05/03/24 05:58 AM
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I am dealing with extreme Narc wife .. she hit me in .sleep I bleeded multiple times.. in just short marriage I have been hit kore than 50 times... and courts won't listen
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/24 10:56 PM
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sign a prenuptial with him ..That will give him peace of mind..on other side if you stay long and build trust he will open up if there's love which we all know don't exists
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/24 09:46 PM
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I am in canada and I have my ongoing divorce in India.. I have no ties with US anymore since I left 5 years ago.. I am going to argue on these grounds and see..spouse is hostile she won't do any agreement
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/24 05:47 AM
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Buddy I don't have kids but I am also fuked up by this legal system and more by the rage and hostility of my ex which she is using through legal system.. It's been 5 years of Battle. I just started my depression pills and taking therapy.. I feel hopeless and seem like I will crash anytime.. But I know some day I will be fine with dealing with shit as it is not in my control.. fukcing this system treats husbands like criminal
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/24 05:13 AM
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If you see open any forum women get together pretty fast support each other which is good.. Every abused person need supoort.. but for abused men there is no support when I was in community I left my ex because of abuse and fear as she was planning to put me in false Domestic Violence. All community gathered helped her Even she sold all of household stuff including my clothes calling I ran away and left her. I didn't get any support; I ended up taking wrong decisions and wished I could meet some…
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/24 12:24 AM
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Thanks.. yes no kids only 3 years of marriage. The problem is ex is hostile.. and I don't know how the asset division will look like.. I am separated for 5 years and I heard you have to provide every information and each transaction.. The only thing will be my bank account details from date of marriage to date of separation.. I was thinking to file in Canada but after researching online and getting the information about california I am having second thoughts filing anything from Cali.. I will ta…
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/24 07:13 AM
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Thanks a lot. if you aware of process can I DM you and if you can advice me there I can share little more details in DM
/r/Divorce_Men22/02/24 01:54 AM
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hmm commenting to track this
/r/Divorce_Men20/02/24 04:54 AM
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file spousal suport on her
/r/Divorce_Men17/02/24 05:45 PM
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who !!!
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/24 11:35 PM
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Man.. what can I say I am brutally fucked in family courts .. life's destroyed.. Indreak every second to gk back in time and never marry again
/r/Divorce_Men09/02/24 04:37 AM
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if you were Narcissitic you wouldn't have asked this question because Narc don't even think they have problem. but you can always talk to Therapist
/r/Divorce_Men03/02/24 03:22 AM
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Man I am being fuked by my ex in all possible way you can imagine. yes there was point when I thought that no law is for men.. and that's true. However I was helped by so many women as well and yes things can change over time.. I met few women who gave easy divorces to their husbands and moved on.. there are.good women but off course they are not available .. that's why I have decided to Stay alone and not marry.. but don't loose hope
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/24 03:53 PM
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The only thing I learned is that if it's legal select your women carefully. If you fail this exam you only have 2 option die or fight
/r/Divorce_Men01/02/24 05:56 AM
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OK don't blame on yourself. Trust me I feel the same way. but just be careful. You lucky you got divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/24 09:01 AM
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bro why did you still meeting.. what if she files a DV case on you
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/24 05:40 AM
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Marriage is like you are signing the paper to be a slave. It's like don't complain if wife or court fuks you up You are signing a jail term and you are at mercy of your wife.. so marry someone who can be merciful and decides not to ful you up
/r/Divorce_Men19/01/24 12:45 AM
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When so many dudes are crying on internet what do you think. I have faced family court, and 90% of cases women are abusing the system. problem is no one highlights mens issue. I recommend you to. visit family court see how guys are mutilated there. That's enough data for me...
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/24 05:53 PM
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Majority of women cheat and abuse the family court system against men. If a women has amicable divorce with you where she has not harassed or cheated ..you than it's okay. lot of red pills because majority of women will harasses the guys and use system. marriage can breakdown due to any reason, including either spouse falling in love with someone, loosing interest or even getting attracted to someone.. Things change when she decide to file false cases.. cheat and use you as a tool..
/r/Divorce_Men18/01/24 05:34 PM
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yes.. I quit my 200K job.. I moved the money and I will leave India permanently never to come back again to that country again
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/24 07:17 AM
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ah man.. I was in US.. just 3 yrs of marriage I earned 150k .. some family Court's are crazy
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/24 09:44 PM
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no kids.. haven't seen her or talked to her for past 5 years .. India Is crazy when it comes to divorces.. women files tonnes of cases and case last for 15 20 Years
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/24 08:22 PM
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what's the duration of your marriage ? what state you were in..
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/24 07:50 PM
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India.. you will not get divorce if your wife is not willing to leave you. She hasn't come to court once in past 3 years and I am being fined and treated like a criminal. That's how Indian courts work
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/24 06:04 PM
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you are lucky she is asking for divorce. mine one is not letting me go even if I offered her all my savings
/r/Divorce_Men14/01/24 02:34 AM
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Bro remember one thing there are 1000 of people supporting. and advising her. So she may tell you one thing and do something as advised. don't trust her, women who go to court or police are done and you should now fight tooth and nail to protect your interest good luck buddy
/r/Divorce_Men13/01/24 05:50 PM
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oh man.. we all have been fuked by these family Court's.. no matter what corner of world we are in
/r/Divorce_Men13/01/24 05:48 PM
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ah man.. sorry about that
/r/Divorce_Men13/01/24 05:06 PM
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no loam.. old car.. but I loved it
/r/Divorce_Men13/01/24 05:05 PM
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Mod. thanks for response I am separated 5 years ago. divorced filed 3 years ago jn India Now I am planning to open corporation and work as freelancer in canada. This corp is after separation and filing divorce. Everything will be fresh start so can this still come under marital property. It will take 700 dollar Expense to open it and any new income is after years of separation and filing divorce so I think this should not be a marital asset in any way ?
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/24 08:19 PM
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I have not made the corporation yet. I will be making it in few months and starting from scratch. all the money earned will be fresh and I will pay myself 40 % to run my expenses and rest money will be in corporation since this corporation is 5 years after separation with new money earned, Can court encroach into this money
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/24 05:50 AM
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she is in US.. probably overstayed or claiming fake asylum
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/24 04:50 AM
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I don't have child.. 4 yrs marriage no kids separated 5 years ago. divorce is running in India. I am in canada. Indian divorce seems like will run forever. I am planning to file divorce from canada.. will they look into my business money. also want to keep the money earner into corporation
/r/Divorce_Men09/01/24 02:45 AM
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hey.. looks like you have money.. Why don't you hire a good lawyer and consult; don't wait till shit hits the fan.. prepare now
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/24 07:35 AM
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sorry to hear that buddy worst year for me 2023 lost so many things diagnosed with depression I am fkin loosing it and done with the world
/r/Divorce_Men07/01/24 01:57 AM
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I mean you guys are divorced and off course she will try to look good to get some dates attract guys. Your feelings are fine.. you are human being.. but she is also right at her place.. nothing wrong..
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/24 01:31 AM
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yes I am planning to leave country.. fkin don't want to live like a criminal for rest of my life.. this is corrupt place to live I will leave and probably never come back again..
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/24 10:41 PM
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sent you message... looking forward to connect
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/24 10:40 PM
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ah man.. thanks... you can connect in message just to discuss..
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/24 10:39 PM
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hey buddy I lost and still loosing so much. lost jobs twice man now I feel let the btch take everything and leave me.. my mental health is at toll because of the family court I am also set to zero.. but will restart from scratch..but obviously not rich like you good luck
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/24 10:49 PM
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yes man.. my head is numb from last 5 years and I am taking anti depressants
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/24 05:17 PM
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yes.. High number of Male suicides. but who cares man.. media won't cover and if male is abused or dies it's not interesting story.. The family law in India is one sided.. Court's even tell guys to beg or sell their organs to pay money to fully able women's citing it's responsibility of the men and traditional culture.. but when it comes to women's accountability it's they adopt liberal culture.. life is not fair..
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/24 02:08 PM
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man.. my ex spoiled my life. she was into her EX and she humiliated me during sex I lost confidence and thought something is wrong with me.. but it wasn't true..
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/24 02:19 AM
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I am telling you.. improve your lifestyle like gym, yoga etc .. sometime wrong advice also harms.. one doctor told me I have low testrone..later another doctor told that the test the old doctor gave was in evening when testorone are low.. Try to meet gal who can respect you and is more feminine.. spend time yoga get morning cold showers leave girls for a while
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/24 10:26 PM
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I think mental health is very important. If you connect with a girl who stimulates you mentally and you feel connected.. you will have a blast sometime after terrible relationships, the sex drive just dies doesn't mean something is wrong stress lifestyle etc..
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/24 10:21 PM
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my stbx has fuked me up..lost my job.. I came to thailand for a short break with .y savings.. life going hard next fee months or year.. hut fuk off let me take a break and think later
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/23 12:14 AM
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Mine one.. fked me up financially socially all the possible ways. kick her out of your heart.. You will find replacements easy. If she loved you, you wouldn't be here.. break up happens but when things go to court it's a business to save losses .. Good luck educate yourself on family laws.. There is no point to fight..
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/23 07:06 AM
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In India she Can Suck every where throughout her life and if she is not marrying she can get support forever.. even if it's one day marriage..
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/23 05:46 AM
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buddy.. .. first relax Don't be afraid to be alone. It's peaceful Family Court's are rough. Even if she gets 10 15 % more during property division throw that momey and move on. You will earn more I was in same mindset that let court and attorney take the money, but trust me they don't giv fuk even if you dead. they will sell your kidneys. So take a wise intelligent call deal it like a business cut your losses and throw emotions out of the window when this is over go to Thailand
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/23 05:43 AM
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thanks
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/23 07:10 AM
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yes that's the plan now
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/23 07:10 AM
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Some say that if it is contested divorce but she can still come to India and claim whatever and say that the divorce was not filed under Hindu Marriage Act. Her case will still be registered. even if court will see and may not favour her but they can not stop her from filing divorce case and other DV cases..
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/23 07:08 AM
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In India she can file cases as she wish. It's not like western countries.. we have dowry case, she can claim residence in parental properties etx etc
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/23 07:04 AM
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We are both Indian Citizen. Indian court has accepted my divorce application 2 years back and my case is under trial. As far as US I am not in US for more than 5 years. I am not US citizen neither she is. In India if we are married as Hindu only Indian court can give us divorce. foreign divorces are not recognized
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/23 06:06 AM
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yes I am finally going to consult lawyer. but doing some prep work. lawyers in US are expensive.. so I am preparing to get as much info as possible. thanks
/r/Divorce_Men20/12/23 03:19 AM
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