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It's not about being alpha or keeping your "alpha" status. It's just about not making stupid decisions. She's 25. She's fucken young and immature. She's not going to make the best decisions. And it looks like you haven't either. Just get your shit together and make decisions where you can keep your identity. Don't sucuum to decisions u feel are wrong. Don't see yourself up for failure. Just do what u think is right. Youll never regret it if u think you're doing the right thing.
/r/askTRP04/07/17 12:29 AM
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Yes BC why not? What do you have to lose?
/r/askTRP04/07/17 12:23 AM
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This is me. It's a maturity, standard, and age thing ... In my opinion. It's not terribly difficult to put in time and get your dick wet. But it takes time to get w a cool girl. So concentrate on getting the good ones.
/r/askTRP04/07/17 12:20 AM
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Just get Viagra.
/r/askTRP04/07/17 12:16 AM
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Most of the time rescheduling is ok. Until u feel it isn't. Perhaps she doesn't think it's a big deal so she reschedules whenever she feels like it. Perhaps you're super sensitive and are looking into this issue way too much. Perhaps she's a bitch and doesn't actually give a fuck about you. Why not just ask her what the deal is? Tell her u don't like it. If she reacts like a bitch then move on.
/r/askTRP04/07/17 12:15 AM
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Honestly you did the right thing in cutting off contact w her. Just keep trying to rebuild your life. Be social, take up hobbies, dont be salty. You're right about the sidebar. Most of the posts here are from sad, salty Af ppl who got fucked over by a woman. Just be the best version of yourself and you'll be fine.
/r/askTRP04/07/17 12:10 AM
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Why do you care so much about a girl you've never met? Sad....
/r/askTRP04/07/17 12:03 AM
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It kind of just seems that she's not into the same fetishes as you. But many other women would be, so perhaps try them?
/r/askTRP27/04/16 09:43 PM
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That sounds cool and I totally know what you're talking about! You should definitely add some bullet points about some of the projects you've done that have to do with the job description, either out in the field or in the classroom. Other than that you're fine. Good luck!
/r/askTRP27/04/16 09:04 PM
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It could be that you're pretty intense for most people. From your description of yourself, you seem to have worked really hard to be able to accomplish all the things you did. It takes a certain type of person to do all that. So your high energy spills to all other aspects of life, including conversation and things that may be meant to be relaxing. I know I have the same problem and felt like girls don't necessary understand your intensity. If this is at all relevant, I can explain more.
/r/askTRP27/04/16 08:55 PM
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I don't know if I'd want to spend the time to loosen up a wait-until-marriage type. It's a lot of effort man. It's up to you. Maybe have chicks on the side?
/r/askTRP27/04/16 08:45 PM
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This is more or less par for the course. However, quantity of phone numbers isn't better than quality of the interaction. I'd err on the side of getting less numbers but having better interactions with the girls you do meet so that they're more vested in you for a meet up.
/r/askTRP27/04/16 05:48 PM
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It's super creepy. She's also not respecting your space. You should tell her how you feel about it. But also propose a solution, like having her text you a few hours before hand or coming up with a set of pre-determined days to drop by.
/r/askTRP27/04/16 05:43 PM
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What I like to do is read a bunch job postings for my position and try to extract commonalities. There will be buzz words that will be seen throughout all similar job postings. Reuse those buzz words but personalize them towards your past experiences. Another piece of advice is to write the results of your responsibilities. For example, "Developed automated BI dashboards, resulting in a 3x increase in productivity". Those are some general tips, but can always give you more if you provide some ad…
/r/askTRP27/04/16 05:41 PM
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Is there a local university? I used to do BJJ and Muay Thai at my uni, but half of the group were locals.
/r/askTRP27/04/16 04:57 PM
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I think you're right to go with your gut instinct, especially since you guys have been together for 5 years and there's a sudden in behavior. It can mean several things, in my experience. She's currently cheating on you (hope that's not the case). She wants to explore and experience new things outside the relationship. This is pretty common as you guys have been together for 5 years. It's all in your head. It's good that you went on instinct, but now you gotta figure out what the real root of th…
/r/askTRP27/04/16 04:46 PM
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I guess that's what I mean. Just forget about it now.
/r/askTRP27/04/16 04:14 AM
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I'm saying telling his ex that his response of "K" wasn't the best way to respond is a good move. It seemed that OP felt bad about the way he acted and just wanted to let something off his chest. I don't see anything wrong with that. Now he has to face reality and get over her. I think it might be harder to get over someone if you feel like you were a dick to them in the past. My comment only reflects that part of OP's post. In terms of his slut ex, it doesn't matter anymore. She can do whatever…
/r/askTRP27/04/16 12:08 AM
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not true if you do compound lifts like cleans, jerks, snatches.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 11:40 PM
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I don't know man. I disagree. There are muscles around the jaw and neck area. If you work it out, you'll notice a difference. Take a facial pic of a guy that's 10% body fat but doesn't workout one bit, then take an athlete that's 10% body fat. The athlete will probably weigh more because he has more muscle all over his body, including his face and neck area. Now compare the 2 types of guys -- you'll definitely notice a difference. Not just in jawline but in the total facial makeup of the athlete…
/r/askTRP26/04/16 11:22 PM
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I think both losing fat and lifting does. I'm talking more about an athletic jawline. In my experience, losing fat exposes the jawline but it's not as sharp and chiseled as it can be without the lifting component. But perhaps it has to do with genetics, as well.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 11:13 PM
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If she is disrepecting you and it's pissing you off, then why haven't you dumped the bitch and moved on? No one should disrespect you and make you feel less of a man. Do you really want some bitch that's always giving you tests? Even if you've passed all the tests -- what type of relationship do you think it's going to become? You've just passed some hoe's standarized tests....and now you get to experience the real relationship!....nah bro...real relationships don't work like that.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 11:10 PM
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I honestly wouldn't give a fuck about these tests. I think you might be a little sensitive and afraid to lose this woman. She might be a little naive and socially inept. She might be testing the waters to see where the boundaries are. To think she is putting you through a barrage of tests to see if you pass or not is a bit cynical. Personally, I think she's just testing your boundaries. If you don't like her describing someone else as hot, model, really good looking, then just say something. You…
/r/askTRP26/04/16 11:06 PM
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I'd figure out if you're angry about spot situations or if you're generally just an angry person. Being angry about specific situations is easy to solve. Because you just have to solve for that particular situation. Being angry as a person is tough to solve. You have to really figure out what is making you generally angry. You may have to go back to your past to figure it out. I've read "Beyond Anger: A Guide for Men: How to Free Yourself from the Grip of Anger and Get More Out of Life" by Thoma…
/r/askTRP26/04/16 10:57 PM
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The problem with logic is that you can have 2 logical arguments from 2 different perspectives. Then you're arguing about whose right. Here's an example, in which I got advice from a female friend. I recently got a new job and was in the process of negotiating my salary. I was set to call HR to give him a counter offer for my salary (obviously, I was going to ask more than their initial offer). I was going to ask for $XXX,XXX because I have 5 years of experience and at 3% growth year-over-year, I…
/r/askTRP26/04/16 10:54 PM
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I think everything everyone has said is 100% accurate. You can do so many things to help you converse in a group setting. What might be difficult is choosing where to start. It depends on what you're trying to accomplish. Are you trying to attract a girl in a group setting? Are you trying to win over the bros? Depending on what it is you're primarily trying to accomplish, you may choose to try different things. My advice is really to stay true to yourself. What are your hobbies? What do you enjo…
/r/askTRP26/04/16 10:38 PM
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Honestly, this is pretty common for a first real relationship where you guys took each other's virginity. How old are you guys? The "first" will always hit the hardest and will always leave the biggest scar. At least when you're in the process of getting over her/him. The red flags are that she gets jealous if you like other girl's photos or talk to other girls and that you guys only said 2 things at lunch. Growing up is all about figuring out what you want in life and finding people that make y…
/r/askTRP26/04/16 10:24 PM
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It's that jawline doe. Lifting will give you that jawline that all women love. Going from 20% to 10% helps expose that jawline, but you gotta be lifting too. Diet, lift, diet, lift -- rinse and repeat.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 10:07 PM
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I think it's a good move if you want closure for yourself. It allows you to get over the girl faster and move on with your life. If you were doing it for other reasons, like trying to get her back or whatever, then I'd say it was a bad move.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 09:47 PM
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Who the fuck cares bro? You guys are 17. Just fuck everything in sight. Let her go off and fuck everything in sight. That's what you're supposed to do at 17. She's not your problem anymore. And a 4 month relationship won't fuck anyone over. It's a drop in a bucket in life.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 09:44 PM
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Try fetlife.com and go to some of their community events. You might meet someone that shares your interest and would consider you an alpha.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 09:43 PM
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Lifting, promotion, mediation, diet -- all of this is stuff you're supposed to do, whether or not you're in a relationship. Just go out and meet women. Don't worry too much about applying what you know or what not. You might just need some interaction with the opposite sex. Even if you don't get your dick wet, you'll feel better by interacting with other girls.
/r/askTRP26/04/16 09:41 PM
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Hard to say without more information about each situation. Generally speaking, it could mean: You're dating half-whores that won't put out but will give you a little bit of satisfaction. You're not putting her in the right mood. Girls decide on whether they want to have sex with you from the beginning of the date. Are you showing her a good time? Are you being too cheap? Are you being a gentleman? (The only time this isn't true is if you do get her naked and she's wearing matching panties and br…
/r/askTRP26/04/16 09:24 PM
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She has hobbies Brunch is not a hobby. She's not into cosmetics (within limits) More accurately, she doesn't look like a clown out in public.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/16 09:16 PM
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Well.....if you're a man and aren't a sex machine in bed...then what are you? That's just a pre-req to becoming a man. This is especially true if you know for a fact that women like a dominating sex machine. I'd learn how to fuck like a boss.
/r/TheRedPill26/04/16 09:15 PM
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I've considered asking if she'd be interested in an open relationship. From everything you told me about her, she would definitely not be interested in an open relationship. The question you need to ask yourself is if you can live the rest of your life with boring sex? Alternatively, have you tried to spice things up in bed? You can start off slowly by introducing some toy in the bedroom to see how she would react. If the response is positive, ramp it up a notch. Lastly, and most importantly, yo…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/16 09:15 PM
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Do you think she will cheat on you if she's away? If you do, then just dump her right now. What's the point of being in a relationship that isn't based on trust? It seems like you just want to get your dick wet. Otherwise, why would you want to demote a girl and sleep with other women, if you think you have a great relationship? Take the pussy out of the equation. Would you still want to be with her LTR? If yes, then why fuck everything up by sleeping with other women behind her back? Or telling…
/r/askTRP26/04/16 09:13 PM
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Really stretching bro. Most men do get burned but we don't have many options to quit (How do I know? I've been at the top and worked with many male and female executives. Everyone is burnt out.) Society has stereotyped men into the breadwinner role. We feel that we NEED to work to the bone and make a ton of money. Society has cast women into the homemaker role. So when a woman chooses to go partner track in corporate -- and HATES IT -- society lets her have an out. Because there's nothing wrong …
/r/TheRedPill26/04/16 09:05 PM
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Today, we are changing tribes multiple times in a day. You have your family tribe, the work tribe, the people on the street tribe, the pub tribe, your friends tribe, your relatives tribe, etc. I would say that even in modern times, most people really only have 1 pack that they are dedicated to. This can be your family or your life-long group of friends, but I would argue that most people really only put value in one pack (i.e., women and men put most value in one pack). So what I'm saying is tha…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/16 08:49 PM
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And men totally do this too. You're single and see a hot woman -- you're going to try to sleep with her despite her having a horrible personality, no job, no career, etc. It's just to fulfill your short term sexual needs. But as you get older, both men and women want more than just sex. Both want great conversation, a well-rounded and sane person, and to be financially stable. So you seek someone that can provide all that. It's never easy in life, more so for man who wants to get married. Defini…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/16 08:29 PM
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Totally agree with you. Sometimes there are real reasons that make both women and men act differently than their normal selves. I've been tired and stressed from work before and sometimes I just don't feel like having sex. But I'll definitely be back to normal once I've caught up on sleep and am less stressed. If normalcy is not achieved after awhile, then the relationship is either already dead (as you mentioned) or this woman/man just has too many things going on and isn't ready for a relation…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/16 08:11 PM
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A male who has no interest in corporations should not date a corporate female. I think this is true for another reason. A female in corporate, especially a female in a high position, has a certain way of thinking -- and it's a pretty alpha way of thinking. They tend to be aggressive, decisive, and ambitious. They also spend most of their day and life working, and may have bad work/life balance. They're looking for someone with similar traits and for someone that understands the stressors in thei…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/16 07:56 PM
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Doesn't this also work the other way around? If a man wants to "communicate" and is shut down, then it's up for the man to be strong and dump the woman if he doesn't feel like his voice is being considered. If you, the man, choose to just accept the woman shutting you down, then it's your fault for being such a beta. Him: We haven't been having much sex recently. Her: I've been tired and stressed from work Him: Anything I can do to make it better? Her: No babe it's just me. I'll feel better soon…
/r/TheRedPill26/04/16 07:45 PM
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