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| 4 | How do I move onI get what you are saying. Maybe, ultimately the break up wasn't about your self-improvement, it may have been about something else. I'll share a little about myself. I always wanted a man to accept me. But I realized two things: 1. I wasn't completely accepting my man for who he was and 2. I hadn't fully accepted myself. I started working on accepting myself, faults and all. It didn't mean I didn't want to grow. I want to continue to learn and grow. It meant that I needed to accept that I was l… | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/06/18 02:24 AM |
| 9 | How do I move onWell, then, it seems like it wasn't meant to last. I hate to sound harsh, but I am over 40 years old. I've made so many mistakes and now things are starting to click for me. So, let say this: if the guy brings up: "You need to improve, lose weight, go to school." then he is telling you he doesn't accept you as you are. Should you lose weight? If it is medically recommended for health, then yes. Also, men do prefer women who take care of their appearance. It's just the way it is. With that said, … | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/06/18 10:18 PM |
| 18 | How do I move on"I told him that he had become less emotionally invested in me." --- he needed you and instead you made demands that he give to you. You do not have to be gorgeous to get a man. But you do need to be giving, whether the man is alpha or beta. Men don't really care about your plans for self-improvement. Or rather, they don't want to hear you TALK about it. You do it or you don't. Men are simple. They are action oriented. Don't talk to your man on how you plan to improve yourself. Just do it and do… | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/06/18 09:23 PM |
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