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| 5 | Becoming averse to sex with husband (25F) newly marriedHave you looked into your hormone health? You definitely don’t have to have a diagnosable imbalance to notice a difference from supplementing different things. Also consider your stress/cortisol levels. | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/10/23 03:03 AM |
| 1 | Can definetly recommend listening to some tunes to make cleaning less boring :) Nature Ambience does it for me (to counter the stress)I love to clean to background soundtracks! It makes me feel like I’m in a movie, and helps me to romanticize homemaking. I’m not sure how to link my playlist without sharing my name but a lot of it is Italian instrumental tracks. One of the Artists I like is Armando Trovajoli | /r/RedPillWomen | 23/08/23 09:19 PM |
| 2 | How do I move more gracefully?I find having a full length mirror(as big as possible) in a location you spend a lot of time helps me a ton. I’m more aware of how I’m moving and I’m more comfortable with my body because im used to seeing myself all the time. I noticed this because i move around a lot, and the times when I’ve had a large mirror in my bedroom I tend to keep at a healthy weight a lot more easily too | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/05/23 04:31 AM |
| 3 | How do I move more gracefully?Any resources you recommend? | /r/RedPillWomen | 25/05/23 04:28 AM |
| 7 | How to not settle but also not aim too high?Have you read the “build a husband store” post | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/05/23 07:24 PM |
| 2 | Red pill has made me (F22) lose interest in menTime to read a few old fashion romance novels | /r/RedPillWomen | 20/05/23 12:50 AM |
| 7 | How to get more comfortable with being naked?Sleep naked | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/05/23 05:58 PM |
| 1 | How to come to terms with male sexuality?Did you NEVER have a conversation about being exclusive? Even when you were dating? | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/05/23 07:17 PM |
| 10 | How to come to terms with male sexuality?Thing is he already agreed to monogamy with you. Too bad he didn’t learn about RP sooner if that’s what he wanted | /r/RedPillWomen | 06/05/23 01:56 AM |
| 4 | This sub: "If you're a man, you should focus on TRP." Also this sub: "A man with RP knowledge is a red flag."A RP dating sub would actually be cool, but it would probably need to be a private group to filter through who is actually ready for marriage | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/05/23 08:32 PM |
| 1 | How to find a boyfriend/husband who is looking for a housewife?I didn’t realize those types of dating sites existed! Thank you so much for sharing, on Reddit of all places lol | /r/RedPillWomen | 01/05/23 03:55 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop being so downright (for lack of a better word) obnoxious?I’m guilty of playfully bickering, but I’ve learned that it can be really emasculating to a man and the underlying tone is disrespectful even if that’s not the intention. I finally though of it like would I talk like this to my father? No. To a teacher I look up to? No. Etc. | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/23 08:19 PM |
| 1 | What do you do for work?I know an older women who has been mri tech for a long time while being a mom/wife. Idk how much she makes exactly but it has to be over 100k and she only works 3 days/week with a flexible schedule. | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/02/23 12:26 AM |
| 3 | I am a man and wondering if there is a similar /r/ for men?r/theredpill ? | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/12/22 03:11 PM |
| 3 | I want to do a complete 180 in my relationship, but i don’t even know where to start.Read the surrendered wife by Laura Doyle, also consider doing coaching through her program. It is basically instructions on how to reverse these type of situations, although it is very difficult and can take a LONG time. Also deal with your trauma in therapy so it doesn’t continue to damage your relationships, and lastly take some accountability | /r/RedPillWomen | 16/12/22 03:24 PM |
| 1 | Advice for 24 year old woman turning 25 please!Well being a lawyer gives you an advantage in that you have access to high earning and ambitious men, definitely use that to your advantage! It sounds like you don’t have any debt so you might consider scaling back in your career and focusing on preparing yourself for a relationship/husband hunting haha. Read the sidebar for really helpful information on effective vetting process:) | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/12/22 09:34 PM |
| 1 | Advice for 24 year old woman turning 25 please!Do you plan to stay home with your children? | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/12/22 07:41 PM |
| 1 | Advice on raising your kids with good morals in a society dominated by hypersexual cultureYes | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/12/22 07:29 PM |
| 2 | Will a man not want to marry me for being the other woman?? | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/12/22 02:19 AM |
| 9 | A Sexuality Struggle, I GuessHonestly I’m straight but wasn’t really attracted to anyone at all until I was like 19. I think it was partly due to high stress, and depression for me, but you still have time, some people haven’t even started their period at 17 | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/11/22 04:29 AM |
| 4 | Does Laura Doyle condone abusive marriages?I think it’s important to remember that LD only deals with married couples, not the dating stage. So presumably these are men that you deemed decent enough to marry. And like other commenters mentioned, there is a large caveat at the beginning of the book for exceptions | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/11/22 06:37 PM |
| 7 | Ladies, please heed the advice hereLove to hear this! | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/10/22 04:03 AM |
| 1 | When to settle/how important is chemistry for marriage?You should not marry a person who you feel this way towards, it’s totally unfair to them. | /r/RedPillWomen | 15/10/22 10:39 PM |
| 9 | Boundaries for Two Couples Living TogetherI’m planning to do this with my brothers family soon. Obviously there are cons, but I think the other commenters are not even considering the pros. If it works out it could be a wonderful community and a way to tag team with another mom for more support. It takes a village right? | /r/RedPillWomen | 12/10/22 11:23 PM |
| 8 | How to fight resentmentI don’t have advice but just want to add, remember this is a season of life that will pass. It sounds super overwhelming, but you will be all the more patient coming out the other side! | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/09/22 01:02 PM |
| 1 | Ladies, what are some things you wish your mother had taught you?Love all of this. And if anyone has ideas for replacing swearing, please share! | /r/RedPillWomen | 24/08/22 04:16 AM |
| 17 | Has following Laura Doyle's advice actually worked for you?I think some of the wording can be altered, but the concept still holds true. One of the main take aways I got from the book is how much we women can over explain, which eventually gets in the way of our men organically contributing to the relationship. So that’s where her curt suggestions come from. Maybe it wouldn’t work for your relationship, but it’s hard to call it terrible advice when it’s saved so many marriages. | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/07/22 09:11 PM |
| 1 | First year of marriage - advice?The empowered wife | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/07/22 03:16 AM |
| 15 | First year of marriage - advice?Read Laura Doyle, and don’t wear the pants. | /r/RedPillWomen | 03/07/22 03:45 AM |
| 2 | Scared my partner is a narcissistIt’s definitely hard work even with a partner who isn’t a narcissist… I sympathize for you | /r/RedPillWomen | 30/05/22 01:37 AM |
| 2 | Scared my partner is a narcissistI think you’re missing the point, following LD steps have changed narcissists behavior, no one said their diagnosis changed, but the way they treated their wives changed | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/05/22 04:50 AM |
| 9 | Chore division with a WFH boyfriendTake the free time, prioritize your free time before becoming resentful over doing chores. | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/05/22 04:34 AM |
| -1 | Scared my partner is a narcissistI believe it was in the empowered wife, but basically she says everything she teaches applies to narcissistic husbands as well. She says the narcissism basically disappears when the wives follow the steps | /r/RedPillWomen | 29/05/22 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Scared my partner is a narcissistLaura Doyle talks about narcissists | /r/RedPillWomen | 28/05/22 06:37 PM |
| 4 | I wish I could teach my mother red pill basicsYou can gift her a Laura Doyle book? | /r/RedPillWomen | 27/05/22 08:36 PM |
| 6 | Lost my virginity to a guy who wont date meThe whole time I was reading this thread I just kept thinking, if you even decided to date imagine how long you would wait to get married… | /r/RedPillWomen | 11/05/22 08:50 PM |
| -8 | Say a kid has an illness that requires antibiotics to treat. What should a wife do, in your opinion , if her husband says no to the antibiotics?( He did “research” online and turned against them)There’s plenty of alternatives to antibiotics. Why not find something suitable and honor your husband at the same time | /r/RedPillWomen | 07/05/22 03:06 AM |
| 2 | Your husband comes before your children. Almost always.It’s from the Bible, Or at least that what I was told, I couldn’t point you to a verse | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/05/22 04:28 AM |
| 1 | Your husband comes before your children. Almost always.Interesting, I was always taught that the womens first priority is the kids and the man’s first priority is his wife. | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/05/22 10:29 PM |
| 5 | Homemaker Wedding RegistryI recently got rid of my microwave for an air fryer and it’s great if you are trying to lower toxins. Although I would be careful to make sure you look for one without nonstick. Also a big case of Maison jars for storage! | /r/RedPillWomen | 26/03/22 10:44 PM |
| 1 | I [32M] would love to hear your perspective!Get her the book empowered wife by Laura Doyle | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/03/22 08:49 PM |
| 15 | Boundaries with the MILI know exactly how you feel:/ there’s no easy solution. Maybe she just can’t be alone with your kids | /r/RedPillWomen | 14/03/22 08:45 PM |
| 6 | I 22F was spoilt and sheltered my entire life. I don't know how to face hardships and am very naive/trusting/childlike.Do you work? | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/03/22 08:10 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]You should read the Empowered Wife by Laura Doyle | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/02/22 10:06 PM |
| 25 | How to stop bickering in relationship?I struggle with this too. I’m practicing saying “ouch” and then nothing else at all. That way he knows How I feel without having to bicker over it. The hard part is holding my tongue afterwards🙃 | /r/RedPillWomen | 13/02/22 06:45 AM |
| 7 | Learning to communicate better?Are you maybe putting him in charge of your happiness a bit too much? You sound a bit codependent. When he is spending time with other people and you’re feeling like u need more attention, that would be a perfect time to go do something for yourself:) if you’re happy, he will likely need less “decompression” time and end up spending more time with you. As far as the ski trip, I don’t see how he could’ve rescheduled something with his boss? Or why he would want to when you’ve had an attitude? Whe… | /r/RedPillWomen | 10/02/22 04:20 AM |
| 1 | Ladies, how can I be more patient with my partner's self improvement efforts?Kudos for recognizing your shortcomings, I struggle with this too. Thanks for sharing | /r/RedPillWomen | 05/02/22 03:26 AM |
| 5 | Ladies, how can I be more patient with my partner's self improvement efforts?Thank you op for sharing, I got a reminder I needed as well. Don’t sweat the small stuff, and also why am I living from a place where every little thing annoys me so much? | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/02/22 08:39 PM |
| 8 | Struggling in my relationshipHe is trying to manipulate you, you need to cut contact. The things you shared do not EVER happen in a normal relationship. He has showed you he does not care for your safety or your emotions. | /r/RedPillWomen | 19/01/22 01:29 AM |
| 21 | How to dress feminine in cold weatherThere’s a tip I saw about where skin colored warm tights under panty hoes | /r/RedPillWomen | 04/11/21 11:35 PM |
| 85 | Friend told me the "days of having long hair are over"Sounds like a hyper-feminist trying to look more masculine. She definitely has it backwards that she is going to benefit more from having short hair lol. Sad how she is so young too | /r/RedPillWomen | 02/11/21 10:08 PM |
| 2 | How to become more feminine when my man also is feminineYou might benefit from reading some Laura doyle | /r/RedPillWomen | 22/10/21 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on a man with a low to potentially no body count?Do you mean in this particular case, or any man who is a virgin? | /r/RedPillWomen | 09/08/21 01:48 AM |
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