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I know she’s being satirical but it just makes me sad that the culture exposing a bunch of powerful men for being rapey and abusive is the same culture that promotes abuse and degradation of women during sex and shames you for being a prude if you’re not supportive of sex work, kink/BDSM, and pornography. None of it is ethical yet people still like to pick and choose due to what gives me them more validation in the eyes of society. If you claim to support and protect women and expose human traff…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 01:33 PM
78

Imagine being with this guy for years and then breaking up 🥴
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/02/21 01:18 PM
26

Exactly. But for some reason women are taught that if he pays, or takes us out, or gives us any sort of positive attention, we have to put out in some way or else he won’t validate us. FDS helps us break away from that toxic mentality and start to provide our own self-validation instead, which is considerably more rewarding than a measly compliment from a shudder man
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 03:54 PM
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Yeah. Completely agreed. When I first started applying FDS principles to my life it was difficult because I had to fight against everything I was conditioned and trained to do. It has gotten easier over time the more I’ve started to appreciate my own self worth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 03:52 PM
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I think its socially engrained in women to be pleasers and for someone who is new to FDS, it feels “wrong” or counterintuitive to “take advantage” of a man without giving him anything sexual in return, which society has trained and conditioned us to believe. I wonder if next time you meet up with him, you challenge yourself not to encourage sexual situations (even though you feel that’s the way he sees you now), a HV response would be for him to be receptive to your desire to slow it down. And i…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/02/21 08:33 AM
40

So dreamy 😍
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 06:39 PM
152

Imagine being proud of having zero emotional intelligence
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/01/21 06:35 PM
42

I hope Walmart appreciates that I don’t shoplift when I’m there.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/20 09:00 PM
52

Except for the guy who mistakes loyalty towards his wife for cuckoldry 🙃🤷🏼‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/20 02:13 PM
34

Men are SO trash.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/20 04:37 PM
10

I’m not judgmental but if you don’t conform to my sexual expectations then you’re a prude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 11:23 AM
105

So... during sex.... she needs to communicate to him that she would like to be pleasured as well? Because obviously sex is for male pleasure only.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/11/20 12:50 PM
5

This is the most evil, vile, insidious thing I can think of.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 07:36 PM
17

This can’t be real.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/11/20 01:36 PM
14

Hinge more like CRINGE Anybody?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 06:32 PM
8

Equlity Yep.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/11/20 06:31 PM
3

Well in REALITY a lot of young Asians aren’t dating, getting married, let alone having kids. Many factors go into this such as technology, work ethic, not having enough time to date, etc. so K-dramas are one big fantasy/fairytale to them, really.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 10:21 PM
2

Precisely.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 10:19 PM
7

Korean here — they tend to have very traditional roles in relationships. Men work and women make the home. In recent times though since both men and women work, women are expected to help provide AND keep the home AND raise kids. Korean men aren’t very good helpers and are very, very unempathetic. BUT even though I speak in generalizations, obviously not ALL of them are like that, just enough for it to be a problem. My uncle is a homemaker (he’s my grandmas caretaker, she’s bed ridden) and my au…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 11:10 AM
3

This is what mine did. I never told him when I was feeling under the weather or ill because he would suddenly start acting sick too and then be like “I can’t take care of you, I’m sick too!”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/11/20 10:59 AM
52

Imagine believing your erections are that important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/11/20 10:29 PM
9

If you’re a groomer just say that
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 10:19 PM
209

That poor girl, 20 years old. So young, whole life ahead of her. It’s a shame she’s on Onlyfans
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/11/20 06:59 PM
4

I make RBF eye contact until they slither away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/11/20 07:29 PM
32

If I didn’t fake an orgasm with an ex boyfriend he would give me the cold shoulder for the rest of the day. Men are... you finish the sentence.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/10/20 01:19 PM
3

Me too! A nice glass of red at the end of the day though 👌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 06:10 PM
58

Why do these men think they are so invincible 😐 I’d be calling DoorDash so quick. When I was 21, I went out drinking with someone I thought I trusted. She took $50 from me while I was shitfaced to pay her tab and then threw me in an Uber. It was this dude with red hair who let me control the radio, I was extremely drunk — like, word-slurring, constant-babbling, screaming through the roof window drunk. I remember as we were nearing my house, he turned off his Uber gps thingy and continued driving…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/20 02:00 PM
2

Doesn’t know how to clean because it’s not “his thing?” Is she aware that if she marries him, she will have to carry the entire mental load for the rest of their married lives? What else does he “not know how to do” because it “isn’t his thing?”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/20 03:18 AM
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Okay like I have said a million times I can’t speak on the religion itself. I know there are extremists in every religion that use the religion to push hatred and violence and misogyny. It completely distorts the religion to the point of it not being practice as intended. This conversation has prompted me to do more research on the Quran.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 08:39 PM
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Because then that removes the responsibility from the actual person. It’s a cop out to blame your religion for you being a shitty person. There are plenty of Muslims who use their Islamic beliefs to be peaceful, loving, and respectful people. They don’t stand on the back of Islam to push their violent and exploitative narratives — extremists do that and it happens in every religion, despite whether the religion is inherently peaceful or not. To blame an entire religion is to oppress an ENTIRE gr…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 07:43 PM
6

Agreed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 04:17 PM
39

This usually happens when a woman is with a dude who completely disrespects her and betrays her trust, and instead of leaving him like a sensible woman would, she develops traumatic bonds with him and is forever stuck in a whirlpool of betrayal trauma triggers. We’re crazy cause they make us crazy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 03:46 PM
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Again, I don’t know enough about Islam to comment on those claims. And I wasn’t trying to say you are oppressing anyone. I am saying FDS can’t inherently be anti-religion or anti-Islam. Not all “religions” are bad, although many people who practice religion use that to push their toxic narratives. It happens a lot in Christianity, in fact I wrote a whole post on it a few weeks ago. FDS- is anti rape, anti misogyny, anti porn, anti abuse, etc. so take that info and do with it what you will. ETA y…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 02:25 PM
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Like another commenter stated above, blame the people themselves for their abuse and exploitation. Not the religion as a whole. The reason for this is that if you are anti-an entire religion, you are also oppressing thousands of women here who practice FDS and said religion. However, I don’t know enough about Islam to comment on whether the religion in general is as toxic and volatile as they say.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 12:12 PM
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FDS is against rape and abuse, yes. This does not necessarily mean it is anti-religion. You even said yourself you are not well versed in other religions like Buddhism or Hinduism. So you can’t generalize. FDS as a whole may not support some religious beliefs but that doesn’t mean people here who are religious or spiritual are hypocrites or anti-FDS 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/10/20 11:35 AM
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Experience and empathy 👌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/10/20 09:43 AM
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Hi! I couldn’t find a way to direct message you but I wanted to THANK YOU for recommending this series to me!! I watched the two videos you recommended and then some, they certainly are life changers. I love how energetic and positive he is. I shared this series with a close friend of mine also and she sent it to her mom and brother so it’s making its rounds around here. Thank you again for the rec ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/10/20 10:25 AM
5

WoMeN ArE mOrE EmOtIoNaL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/10/20 05:50 PM
16

Not Steve Buscemi 😂☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/10/20 03:26 AM
2

Solid points lady 👌🏼👏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/10/20 11:35 AM
262

I’d tell the wife what her husband tried to do and give her the $100
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 12:45 PM
6

This is awful. I’m sorry your in law family ever experienced that. The corruption happening in Venezuela is devastating for sure. I would die before I ever sold my child for food.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 10:30 AM
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I agree with this but I do think that socialism is easily corrupted because of those points exactly. Especially by corrupt leaders. I think that’s what’s happening in Venezuela coupled with the oil situation. But people seem to try to use the “socialism is bad” blanket statement for Venezuela’s situation which is just not the case. There is so much more that goes into it than that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 10:22 AM
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I think it’s more so that Chomsky acknowledges that a lot went into play with Venezuela’s economic downfall and the blame shouldn’t solely be placed on socialism (also, socialism is not inherently bad?) I will agree that Chavez is a corrupt leader and I think Chomsky did end their friendship over that. So, I don’t know. I won’t say Chomsky is a high value man because I don’t know the guy, but his general sense of caring for the well being of humanity is certainly a high quality value.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 10:18 AM
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I’m a big fan of his. Studied him and his views a lot in college!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/09/20 09:51 AM
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Exactly! In sports, when a ref gives a red flag, you’re out for the whole game. Same should apply to dating.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 04:57 PM
9

I don’t get the whole logic vs emotion argument? Every human being makes impression/emotion-based decisions.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/09/20 04:55 PM
26

Why did this resonate with me so much?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/20 01:25 PM
1

How is your mother’s relationship with her parents? How was it in her childhood?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 04:33 PM
35

It’s not just me! Thought I was overly picky for a second
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/20 04:26 PM
28

It breaks my heart that she has to feel like she needs to apologize in the very beginning of the video for reacting to alpha m’s video.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/20 11:17 AM
126

For someone who’s not worried about what people think about her, she sure is pretty defensive right off the bat going on and on about how she doesn’t care what people think while showing off a lip tattoo on a whole social media platform.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/09/20 02:56 AM
14

This is soooo cringey omg
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 10:29 PM
61

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼 So proud of you. Don’t let anyone minimize your feelings. They are so valid.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 10:15 PM
5

Jesus said better not to marry at all than to marry and not follow marriage commandments 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 10:10 PM
5

Did we have the same grandma?!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 06:26 PM
11

YES amen to that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 04:40 PM
10

Another point here is that Jesus never forsakes anyone. He doesn’t tell the broken “Oh well sucks to be you guess you’re going to hell.” He says “Go forth be healed and sin no more.” Jesus has faith that EVERYONE is capable of being high value. Low value people CHOOSE to be low value, despite how capable they are of being better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 04:39 PM
6

Yes ma’am absolutely, that sounds delicious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:58 PM
10

Thanks for the YouTube suggestion, I will check him out ASAP!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:48 PM
12

Yes yes yes. Amen to this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:46 PM
10

Amen sis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:40 PM
18

Girl I love RC Blakes 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/09/20 01:40 PM
23

Hope she gets picked 💁🏻‍♀️💅🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/09/20 09:58 PM
16

I don’t have daughters. But I’m teaching my sons how to respect people (especially women), respect boundaries, set boundaries, be hard workers, and never, ever, ever assume that they are entitled to anything in life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/09/20 11:03 PM
14

This should be the top comment.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 04:44 PM
10

They say that because they think women should look like the unrealistic, photoshopped porn stars that they’ve conditioned themselves to believe is the standard bar for attractiveness. 🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 04:43 PM
98

He won’t stop watching it tho 💁🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/09/20 04:10 PM
3

Omg are all Sagittarius sex obsessed? My Sagittarius ex loved sex but was an amazing lover and was very dedicated and committed to me in all ways. It ended because we were long distance and he was about to join the Navy. What a shame. I went on to marry a dirty filthy rotten Libra 😑
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 11:16 AM
3

It’s because Libras are so damn indecisive! Never know what they want, are scared of commitment, have constant FOMO, which is why they also spend all their fucking money on luxury and entertainment items or get overindulgent in shit like food and porn. I hate them all. I will never ever ever date or marry another Libra. I like Sagittarius ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/09/20 11:11 AM
25

Every Scorpio I ever dated was super intense and passionate in very narcissistic, sexual, and domineering ways. Libras aren’t so great either. Self centered, wandering eye, and horrible with money.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 11:52 PM
4

I’m impressed 👏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 10:27 PM
338

Call me a downer but the fact that he did this and recorded it and posted it on social media tells me he did this to be praised and glorified online and didn’t actually do it to make his girlfriend happy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/20 01:49 AM
21

Had to scroll too far to find this. 👏🏼 These misogynist scrotes got women brainwashed into thinking this behavior is normal/tolerable/unchangeable
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/09/20 01:35 AM
17

Nah Cause then you’d just be doing a lot of unpaid work 💁🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/20 12:53 PM
30

I mean it’s not a red flag per se, but they definitely won’t have the bedroom experience to give you satisfying sex. And also watch out for compulsive porn usage. THAT is a red flag.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/09/20 11:57 AM
17

Sounds like your conscience is talking you out of it already. Listen to her!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/09/20 06:40 PM
3

I think FDS is most beneficial for pickmes who need a change in mindset or a push in the right direction. If all of us had the mental discipline and fortitude to change and improve without a support system such as this, then FDS would just become one big echo chamber.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 09:00 PM
47

Is he talking about a dowry? In Chinese culture usually the girl’s parents will offer a dowry to marry the girl off (but the bride gets to keep a lot of it)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 01:16 PM
17

The way I see it is, pickmes need FDS more than HVW do, so I’m glad they’re here and getting the support and guidance they want/need.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/09/20 01:23 AM
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It did for a while and then like the pickmeisha I was I jumped right into another relationship with a pornsick dude. I’m on the mends now tho 👌🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 08:13 PM
1

Fair point 👏🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:24 PM
1

They want to be unevolved bafoons so bad
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 05:24 PM
29

Is it bad I am not a supporter of sex work in general? I personally believe it’s another way to enable the patriarchy and give pornsick men an excuse to objectify us and tell us we “ask for it.” I don’t think there is a responsible way to use porn or commercialized or underground sex service without it harming one party in one way or another. With that said, I do think sex workers deserve just as much respect and support as anyone else. I just don’t support the industry as a whole and I prefer t…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 03:56 PM
31

How long was he going to the point you actually had to ask to change positions out of discomfort? Sounds like he was the problem.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:06 PM
8

You’re probably right that it was a sarcastic post. Either way, if the patriarchy is fragile enough to be dismantled by a measly rinsing of a dish, what the hell are we doing here? 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:05 PM
13

They want so badly for it to be their “biological hardwiring” so they don’t have to take responsibility for it 💁🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 02:01 PM
56

Sexual power? Wow, the blame diversion is strong with this one.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 01:56 PM
9

Oh 🤔 Well anywho, I see a lot of girlfriends and wives go on social media praising their partners for bare minimum effort. I guess that’s why I thought this was one of them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 01:54 PM
50

JFC. I hope he lies awake at night disgusted with himself for this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 01:52 PM
72

Got a PM from a male lurker just now trying to victim blame. I didn’t realize how common it was to get PMs from lurkers here.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 01:19 PM
1

Imagine being the clown who praises her “bare minimum king” on an entire social media platform for rinsing off a plate.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:45 PM
50

Solidarity ✊🏼
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:41 PM
12

Can we call them scavengers instead? Even predators are calculating and tactful. Scavengers just lurk and harass the weak or dead, like vultures or hyenas. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:41 PM
304

Nope the “relationship” only lasted six months until I discovered he was a pornsick limpdick scrote who couldn’t have sex with me unless he looked at porn in the bathroom first
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:37 PM
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With an old boyfriend, I used to have to fake orgasms or else he would get pissy and cold-shoulder me the rest of the day. Because not orgasming is my fault I guess 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:13 PM
55

Scrotes will minimize and twist any situation until they find an angle that pushes their own narrative. It’s pathetic.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 12:11 PM
48

My dog understands the “no” command better than most men so... even comparing themselves to animals is giving a little too much credit 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 10:58 AM
49

Hey, he’s helping us weed out the LVM 🤷🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/09/20 10:49 AM
12

While any long term relationship will never be completely perfect (minor inconveniences here or there), forgiveness is a strong word that implies in order to continue in the relationship, you have to lower or ignore your boundaries and expectations. To say that a long term relationship requires ANY of that at all is selling yourself short and already shows you have no self respect.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 10:14 AM
25

What a two timer! So much for HVM, Harvey 😂😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/20 10:07 AM
1

“Men are really nice to me” What do you mean by that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/08/20 06:06 PM
12

In this case yes. Red flag. He’ll drop the ball on this, he’ll drop the ball on bigger things too. He’s all talk and noncommittal. Maybe you need to drop the ball on him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/08/20 08:42 PM
21

That’s what happens when you sit in front of a computer all day mindlessly giving your dick whiplash on a regular basis
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/08/20 09:00 AM
63

That sounds like emotional manipulation to me. Whenever you’re bothered by something, he flips it around and plays the “woe is me” card so that YOU end up feeling guilty and consoling him instead of the other way around.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/08/20 12:01 PM
31

Way more men pay prostitutes for sex than I thought.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 12:09 PM
48

Right? But it’s all fun and games until it’s the woman wanting to sodomize the man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 12:02 PM
252

Sounds like this dude wants a trophy for being attracted to his wife. The bar sure is low out there...
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/20 11:51 AM
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Schrodingers douchebag: either joking or serious depending upon the reaction of those around him
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/07/20 10:08 PM
31

This
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/06/20 10:02 AM
7

Lol I’m confused?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/20 12:57 PM
5

And the pickmeishas are going, “I cAn ChAnGe HiM”
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/20 07:42 PM
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He shouldn’t have disregarded your boundary. However I think it’s a sign of a HVM to prefer calling. This dude isn’t obviously because he didn’t schedule a time with you and then proceeded to invade your privacy. But generally speaking a HVM would prefer call over text. So I would just keep that in mind.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/20 01:16 AM
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Battle of the pickmeishas.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 03:57 PM
9

I say between 6-8 months is the sweet spot. Before that he’s desperate and after that he’s noncommittal and indecisive
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/05/20 12:56 AM
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Pretty sure stonewalling is a form of abuse..
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/20 09:54 PM
2

He’s gonna end up doing the same thing to that girl too. He is the problem
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 08:34 PM
1

Lol why do LVM think that their dick is some attractive, sexy, magical tool that women will drop their pants for upon sight? Dicks are actually kind of ugly and weird looking.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/05/20 12:30 PM
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That is DEFINITELY not even the same person 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 11:43 AM
1

How long had you guys been seeing each other?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 11:40 AM
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