yolarosh Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Starting Game at almost 40, need to gain experience asap!		yolarosh	/r/seduction	12/10/16 03:12 PM
0	Severe oneitis with BFF I want to distance myself from her to save my soul	Blue Pill Example	yolarosh	/r/TheRedPill	21/09/17 06:02 PM

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2	Let's be Honest Here About Virginity I'm 40 and still a 'virgin'... It was a big deal to me leading up to my 40th birthday, after that it didn't bother me as much as I thought it would. Mostly because I'm just now starting to experience what my teens would have been like if I wasn't such a insecure and socially awkward mess when I was 20. Only the past 2-3 years I've started to experience and enjoy attention from the opposite sex, before that I didn't even consider myself worthy of a woman's attention, all those missed opportunitie…	/r/seduction	01/08/17 05:36 PM
1	I became awesome and the girls didn't come How does that work out for someone who is naturally introverted ?. I am very social and being part of it, I talk up random strangers when I'm out alone, but I don't like to be the center of attention. I enjoy myself just being by myself, not all the time, but most of the time	/r/seduction	20/06/17 07:03 AM
1	I became awesome and the girls didn't come Awesome post lots of gold here. As a guy who's had never had an actual LTR with a woman except for close friendships, I still have some observations to share Social status doesn't mean shit to woman, this coming from a guy who was pre-occupied with achieving this most of his life but never got the girl to liking him romantically one bit more. Physical attractiveness is overrated. I've seen fatties with the sexiest hotties (they usually compensate with wealth and status) which caused me to questi…	/r/seduction	19/06/17 10:52 PM
2	Being Unapologetic About Your Sexuality Helps You Get Laid Significantly. Exactly my issue, when I approach a girl and chat her up I hear myself thinking 'don't be a creep and ask for her number she's just being friendly to you'. Even when they're eyefucking me I stop myself from asking for their number coming up with all kinds of excuses. I tell myself that she has to show clear interest in me (ioi) before I approach and talk, but then again most girls look away, is that shyness or and indication of no interest ?. The main fear again is REJECTION and your Ego not bei…	/r/seduction	10/06/17 01:26 PM
3	Being Unapologetic About Your Sexuality Helps You Get Laid Significantly. 'He thought about selling his car to his friend for years but never asked if he would buy it, fearing it would break the friendship' ..more accurate.	/r/seduction	09/06/17 10:20 PM
1	Being Unapologetic About Your Sexuality Helps You Get Laid Significantly. I'm already friendzoned by my bff but I still want to fuck the living lights out of her, so how can I be congruent with my real intentions without breaking the friendship ?	/r/seduction	08/06/17 07:56 PM
1	I'm 30 and a virgin who's never been on a date. I'm starting to get interest from women but I basically run away. If makes you feel any better (it probably won't), I'm officially a 40yo virgin as of last month. When I passed the age barrier it didn't bother me that much as I thought it would, although popular culture says it should. I am a wimp when it comes to getting woman to have sex with me, but I can talk to woman I'm in to and get them on a date, but after that my mind goes in overdrive to protect my Ego from getting rejected and hurt because of my lack of sexual experience. I'd say this is main reaso…	/r/seduction	30/05/17 11:36 PM
4	Zero to Sixty: Go to the Club Alone? I've been going to clubs alone but not for the music, not many men that do, it's also a meatmarket you know whether you want to admit it or not. I go to get laid or get lucky somehow, so when I go home alone without a girl I feel miserable. I don't enjoy the music (80's 90's rock clubs) but the ambiance is great, so when your a loner and don't socialize you stick out like sore thumb, even I avoid talking to those guys. Having a conversation in such an environment is a big challenge, I don't have…	/r/seduction	28/01/17 05:33 PM
1	Carl Sagan gives great advice. Rejection from a girl for most of us feels like there is no point to living anymore, her fucking you makes you feel like you've conquered the world, this is how great our Ego is, the world revolves around ME ME ME ... Well then take a few steps back and you'll find that your own physical world isn't the center of anything at all, it just floats like a spec of dust in an extremely hostile environment that could end it in a blink of an eye and there would be no one there to even care or notice. Th…	/r/seduction	26/12/16 12:06 AM
1	Why being stuck in your head means rejection. Brings to mind the phrase I read somewhere "no amount of spiritual practice will get you laid". Any thoughts ? I tried it, meditated seriously every day for almost a year thinking it would make me a confident ladies man, well it did make much less anxious talking to girls and being around them (and a very different person), but every time it came to showing my intent the anxious churning in my gut was there again, making me come off like a desperate try hard. So you have to mention the disclaime…	/r/seduction	20/12/16 10:54 PM
1	"This One's Special; The Sex Can Wait" As a woman could you shed some light on this 'friendzoning' behaviour of a good friend of mine ?. She's married with 2 kids for some years now but lately unhappy because her SO doesn't give her much physical attention, she also doesn't feel attracted to him anymore. Comes in this guy a coworker who falls for her, she initially finds him just cute but after the guy kisses her she also falls for him. They have a short stormy affair involving 'only kissing' (thats what she says) but feels very burd…	/r/seduction	19/12/16 11:18 PM
1	How to be happy with my life? This my problem too ! ;) saving this one.	/r/seduction	18/12/16 11:32 PM
1	How to be happy with my life? A more interesting question is also 'WHY do I rely on other peoples opinion of me?'. The answer is (in my case anyway) societal conditioning, it shapes your every interaction unconsciously. It went so far as to not rely on my own opinion of myself, my value as a person was solely determined by other people/my family's opinion of me, just imagine how my interactions with women went down. Being cautious, not showing my intentions, being insencere, the whiff of insecurity was too strong for women t…	/r/seduction	18/12/16 11:18 PM
3	How do i ask girls at a club to dance with me? I started taking salsa classes a few weeks ago and it helped me a great deal loosening up on the dance floor with all types of music, but with salsa music itself (aka dancing with a partner) it's a different story because as a man you have to lead the woman so you can't just wing it and freestyle, you have to follow the rhythm and swirl the lady around in a confident manner which requires lots of practice with a partner. Just a warning, if you wan't to get good at dancing fast don't start with S…	/r/seduction	04/12/16 04:21 PM
2	How do i ask girls at a club to dance with me? Wow great advice, why didn't I read this before I went out yesterday and just danced by myself all night all the while being anxious about not approaching and dancing with girls who were IOI-ing me !. The funny thing is almost all the guys around me were trying the same thing by not dancing and getting drunk instead and just staring at girls lol. I tell yah, going out on your own is such a mindfuck in terms of testing your limits and fears. I did talk to some guys around me to warm up, but the g…	/r/seduction	04/12/16 04:10 PM
1	The Difference Between Mastering Pickup & Actually Getting Laid Some comments needed on my 'logistics' and what I need to change first in order to take a girl home I have a single bed now because I needed more space, so fucking a girl in my bed is impossible (believe me I tried...) I have a roommate (who isn't home on weekends). I live 30/40min from the city center where all the clubs are. The bars in my neighbourhood are filled with junkies, old people and cougars and the local clubs attract mostly teenagers. I don't have a car What should I change/improve …	/r/seduction	16/11/16 05:45 PM
4	While women are interested in looks to a degree, they are more interested in how you make them feel inside. [For newcomers] Your adressing the 'newcomers' here and then go on about being a REAL MAN who is super confident around women and knows how to attract them .... that's so helpfull thanks a lot ...	/r/seduction	03/11/16 06:49 PM
1	Starting Game at almost 40, need to gain experience asap! Ok so regarding cold approaching public, I usually only 'meet' other women during commuting to work, so there is a very limited window to chat these women up untill they have to get out at their stop. I tried talking up a few women but the interaction feels forced to me bc they could get up and leave at any moment, so I have to get their number quick or else I'll probably never see them again. Yes I tried bars but the whole atmosphere and loud music (I dont have a loud voice) feels so intimidati…	/r/seduction	16/10/16 05:26 PM
1	Starting Game at almost 40, need to gain experience asap! Looking me in the eye and holding my gaze repeatedly, smiling, playing with their hair, standing closer to me to see if I make a move. I notice the difference bc I do this often looking them in the eye to check for interest, but the times they do I just freeze up, analyzing what to do or say next.	/r/seduction	12/10/16 06:33 PM
1	Starting Game at almost 40, need to gain experience asap! Stop analyzing and studying shit Thanks for reminding ! Funny I actually put myself on a Reddit moratorium for a while bc it only got me more confused and unable to act, then I stumbled upon Book of Pook and read that for a while. I mean it does help me as a inexperienced man to understand women better, but at the end of the day if I don't approach it's wasted time. In the next 90 days, set a challenge to approach 100 women in person What to do you mean by 'approach', just say hi and chitchat an…	/r/seduction	12/10/16 06:22 PM
2	Girls aren't what makes you happy Easy to say when you're nearing 40 and never had a proper girlfriend and your friends & family keep telling you that a girlfriend will finally make you happy. To use your analogy, the marketing behind supplements (friends, family,peers) keep telling you that you 'need' supplements (a girlfriend) to get bigger (happy), so you buy into it believing it will, only to find out for yourself that they don't add much if you don't workout hard and eat plenty. Try to undo this kind of societal conditionin…	/r/seduction	07/10/16 09:49 AM
1	How do you determine when a girl wants you to talk to her by her body language? We've covered the WHEN, but how do you determenine the WHO to approach ? I mean there is overwhelming choice, I find it difficult to determine what criteria to use on what women, I mean if I follow my dick and use 'fuckable' as the leading criteria then I have to approach and talk to 90% of the women I see. Usually I'm just goddamn horny and just want to fuck any '6' I see walking around, but then I feel guilty for thinking this way and pass. What to use and stick to; fuckable, hot, interesting,…	/r/seduction	23/08/16 08:27 PM
1	Had the biggest success I've had in 4 years last night. Thanks to the seduction community. Bookmarked very inspiring post man. Book of Pook is so incredibly entertaining and no bs wisdom on women. Thanks! With me as well the weight of inexperience and age weighs down on me heavily, the anxiety of talking to a woman (I'm too old for her, not good enough, my job sucks etc) coupled with some negative recent expieriences with approaching women haunt me everytime when I feel strongly attracted to a woman. To give an example. I mostly 'meet' women when commuting to and from work, so my wind…	/r/seduction	22/08/16 05:55 PM