yomo85 Archive

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0	As I’ve started getting older - I don’t think I even want to be in a relationship. Same. I now hypothesize that most men were to get married when young to avoid having them realizing being their own master. In the past and in the present a man can and usually is way more successful in that fight for himself. Even the dreaded 'retirement care' can be purchased instead of begging your wife and kids down the road. Do I enjoy female company. A roaring yes. Am I willing to pay the relatiinship fee? Almost never. When I was 15 years younger an insane sex drive and female approval wa…	/r/TheRedPill	13/07/26 06:06 AM
4	Any successful guys here still play video games? What’s your relationship with them? Do what you enjoy. When you are succesful and have meaning in what you do, why not play some games on the side. I just do a job I am successful at, but it is not my passion. So I just learn new things like playing the piano for instance. It is really up to you. What RP never explains, and quite frankly it cant, is what is not just the endgame but what is the purpose. At age 40, I stand after my RP time of over 15 years, at a point most men never reach. Namely: Meaning of life itself. When you se…	/r/TheRedPill	18/04/26 01:51 PM
9	Why do men develop oneitis so strongly? Lack of options. As soon as my game took of after years in the gym, personal and financial devolopment, I suddenly (early 30s) did not 'need' pussy in my life to be happy. I had some side-chicks and frankly onitits disappeared overnight. Oneitits as per definition is the projection of you wishful thinking onto one woman out of unfulfilled needs. If you dont need to project since all needs are met oneitits is gone. Most girls never catch onenitits simply because their circle of 'friends' is large…	/r/TheRedPill	02/04/26 05:47 AM
1	Useless, selfish blob seeks hardworking, selfless servant. Why yes, she has a nose ring. Damn a second virgin Mary	/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen	23/10/25 01:06 PM
33	The looming 2030-2040 Millennial divorce wave This. You dont even have to be RP. Divirce stats are all over TikTok, the term simp has entered public knowledge and while GenZ is also whiring it up, there is an increase in self-awarness in dealing with sluts	/r/TheRedPill	25/09/25 05:21 AM
1	Women see AF/BB as a singular journey of personal growth. What is considered creepy? The successful, ripped, 10% body fat, well dressed man who has years of personal development under his belt who hits on a young woman or your average 195lbs, 5'8, 32k, 32% body fat schlub who dresses for Wal-Mart? It is really about perception imho.	/r/TheRedPill	11/09/25 12:52 PM
6	We remember the sex-pilgrimages of the 2010's... It is a testament not to trust social media or women in regards to their promiscuity. This post of OP is not really phrased that way, but guys 25-30 should see the writings on the wall. I have experienced it myself. Die-hard cock-gobblers turning into docile, chaste career women who want nothing more than the family and the picket fence. As we all know it - you can't turn a hoe into a housewife, so raison du etre is erasing any hint of being a whore in HS or college in the first place. I even wi…	/r/TheRedPill	07/09/25 08:54 PM
27	We remember the sex-pilgrimages of the 2010's... Ahhh the great 'After Turning 25 Purge'. Honestly even if they do the scrub. Looking at a profile pic with over 100 likes from guys is a dead of a CC hooker	/r/TheRedPill	07/09/25 05:46 PM
1	The Human Mating Dance - A 180 Degree Reframe on Conventional Red Pill Wisdom Well no. The burden of performance still lies on you. But initiating is her prerogative and pro-active game is an anomaly. See, we men tend to think that we must overcome her by using game from the beginning and the most cunning methods available to us just like playing sports. It's far easier to learn how to read body langauge and gauge cues and then moving in or positioning yourself in a way she is able to send cues. My success rate is through the roof using this method. Cold approaching the c…	/r/TheRedPill	31/08/25 04:25 AM
1	Why So Many Men Get Used By Women Yup. Being sorry for fuck ups. Somewhat regular sex life. Taking your position into consideration even if you are not there is another big one like 'I have to double check with my bf if he also prefers the red or the white wine'	/r/TheRedPill	21/08/25 02:42 PM
3	Why So Many Men Get Used By Women I used to see it that way. But this is too bleak IMHO and limits your enjoyment of her presence by turning it into a 100% power struggle all the time. Be the one who is at peace with yourself and with the possibility of her leaving you at any given moment (prepare for it / never marry / giving her kids is a gift not your burden). Any attachment will cause suffering, this is and was laid out in every major religion from the Romans to the Buddhists and everyone in between.	/r/TheRedPill	21/08/25 02:40 PM
1	Hyper-successful males pairing up with synthetic/artificial females — observations It depends what fake means. Seeing the fakeness as a leg up in the hyper-competitive bloodbath that is the sexual market for the upper 1% of men girls use every little buff they can to increase their chances. It is like Tinder but in reverse.	/r/TheRedPill	13/08/25 10:50 AM
16	Women don’t Care About Your Struggles A woman usually knows deep down what end of the bargain she has to hold up. You see this constantly when women lose their appeal and complain about invisibility after 35+. You are hold up to your end, and to make things work hold her up to her end of the deal. Nothing wrong with that. But mixing a male sense of duty into essentially a mutual agreement is a recipe for disaster. Women exploit this masterfully. But in the end even they tend to agree with the alphas who leave their gf/wife if she go…	/r/TheRedPill	05/08/25 03:29 PM
8	No Woman is Ever "Single" Take it from eugenics. For every woman who successfully bore a child, 17 (yes, seventeen) men were unsuccessful. But 17 lives who have no vested interest in society won't contribute, and just after roughly 40.000 years of modern human existence, we are moving back to square one.	/r/TheRedPill	05/08/25 08:04 AM
16	The TEA Has Been Spilled I like to disagree. HS gossip was treated as such and was subject to rebuttals. I dont care aboit the app but I care about justice. Having a place where defamation can run wild and spill all around the world should be subject to litigation. Even Chad cant easily stand against a semi-public rape accussation.	/r/TheRedPill	28/07/25 05:55 AM
2	How to stop texting like a simp (and actually get dates out of it) Saw this and IMHO phone and text is dead. Most women don't have the attention span or even the interest in texting with 20 orbiters lining up. Any any woman under 35 is straight up afraid of answer a phone call. My most success came from applying the 'limited time offer' tactic. Approach in the real world, engage, then immidiatly gauge interest and suggest a change of venue rendering the approach into an immidiate date or she loses the opportnunity of 'having you'. If she is giving you BS, sorry…	/r/TheRedPill	06/07/25 11:36 AM
2	Basics on How Not to be Unattractive This + gymflation. 17 yo using steroids fuckuing up their system is insane. The complete middle was evaporated. It's either be hot or be junk.	/r/TheRedPill	29/06/25 07:04 PM
1	If She Is Taking Birth Control When You Meet Her, You May Need To Change Your Strategy This. OP is totally right. However, the default for women after stopping BC is not being a bitch or not interested anymore. It is being drawn to a classical alpha male archetype again. The synthetic hormones that trick the brain into thinking ovulation has already occurred in a women are no more. Post-Ovulation is the phase of the need for beta provisioning. This perpetaual cycle is then broken. If low-key game and being a charming nice guy - in the best sense of the term - won her over and led …	/r/TheRedPill	13/05/25 12:16 PM
13	Single mothers gave up their fairytale — they don’t deserve fantasy, just terms. This. If she isn't a widow shed made bad choices. Either chosing the wrong man before assessing his child rearing capabilities and/or character or she made a very lighthearted decision of bringing another human on this earth without any thought that this entails at least an 18 year responsibility tag on it.	/r/TheRedPill	11/05/25 09:39 AM
1	Women Are Born with Value, Men Must Earn It – Why It Holds True This. Back when the social security system was not in place women were a liability. They easily died of infection, could not work as hard, could not go to war, were usually never accountable etc. It was so ingrained in society that the groom was paid a good lump sum if he was respectable and took the daughter of a fathers hand and cared for her. We need to bring back for men the old question 'what is in it for me'.	/r/TheRedPill	21/04/25 01:10 PM
1	If TRP believes it’s mostly unsustainable to meep LTRs, why does it always blame the guy if the girl leaves him? Every relationship needs two partners to work. You, as a man, have at least control over your part. And common wisdom has it, that almost no one is, on his part, 100% without a flaw. Sometimes it happens. But then, TRP usually replies with AWALT and some virtual pats on the back. But, quite frankly, since women, once again, usually, are followers there might be something wrong with your leadership.	/r/TheRedPill	21/04/25 01:06 PM
1	How to stop texting like a simp (and actually get dates out of it) Many are very hestitant to give out phone numbers espacially when being cold-approached. Hell, my mom got ID-thefted by just her phone number and a vague adress. My take is, message her on that fucking app but never ever follow her. If she is in for you. Do as OP suggested. If she does not reply she was just in for the clout.	/r/TheRedPill	21/04/25 12:56 PM
1	New Netflix movie coming out about how evil the manosphere is. Big surprise, we turn boys into monsters! It takes place in the UK where a swat team of 30 fully geared up dudes go to arrest a teen boy for posting online. Fuckin UK When leaving the plantation and wanting to become a plantation owner is now so threatening that you make a propaganda movie as kind of a last ditch effort.	/r/TheRedPill	21/04/25 12:48 PM
2	Using Price Per Nut calculation to evaluate financial worth of having a girlfriend in the United States $100 average for sub-par sex because you two don't know each other - except you are a sociopath that likes to return video tapes. I call this $100 hooker units (HU) but a HU is closer to $50. $50 for enduring the drivel of a whore and then have the burden of performance, hell no. I try to generate lays out of everyday situation, the cute librarian, the check-out girl with a nice ass, the new lady from the DMV. If they are interessted you know it upfront. No money involved, no stupid mating dance…	/r/TheRedPill	15/10/24 06:34 PM
5	DiCarlo Escalation Ladder I am more a fan of Derek Rakes IRAE Model. It takes the fluff or the weird almost acadamic like structure out of this whole thing. Generate immideate genuine interest (I), generate (some) rapport (r), move ASAP to attraction (A), and he added (E)nslavement to this whole model because it sells better.	/r/TheRedPill	15/10/24 06:25 PM
1	How to overcome redpill rage after learning the truth about female nature ? See it like a buddhist or any other religion. The circumstances that enabled female behaviour were for one not set in stone and just as fate had it, women are - at least for 30 and under - on the bright side of things. It is what it is. Your were being unfairly lied to that is what hurts. And I bet you would be the most raging slut ever when given the opportunities like your typical 22yo girl has. Plus, it is very cruel being born with an innate worth that decreases almost daily and basically th…	/r/TheRedPill	08/10/24 03:42 PM
9	How to Be a G on a First Date – Setting the Frame and Closing Strong Kudos to you and strong frame my brother but you should have had sex otherwise it means nothing to her brain. I learned this the hard way either because my little warrior was not on duty on time or logistics fucked it up. Have sex, or at least implant in her dread for not having sex with you. With enough space between you two her mind will rationalize your encounter as nothing more as a little flirt. It didn't couuuunt. And the next day some other non-beta is gonna hit on her again and then you …	/r/TheRedPill	08/10/24 03:31 PM
3	OG Content [Repost] \| Archwinger: "Obsessing over a slutty past is an indirect pedestal; Assume she's a slut, but don't obsess" [TRP Vanguard] Thx for the insight. You do you. Life for me is an endless grey area, not as in depressing, but as in uncertain. I don't want to rationalize certain circumstances. I need a fixed number to proceed. With women for a LTR it is 8 prior partners. Employers do not employ ex-convicts or druggies. Teachers usually don't give a pass below 60%. The IRS fucks me over when I do my taxes wrong one too many times. Sames goes for me with women. And the siren call of 'but I am different' can be too sweet whey …	/r/TheRedPill	07/10/24 08:47 PM
2	What forms does "genuine desire" from different women take? Does female "shapeshifting" matter? No. Genuine desire does not exist like you might it define it as pure desire to be with a certain person. With women it is all circumstancial. They desire what you are the gatekeeper for. Money, status, security, something to brag about to the other girls. Single moms are the worst offenders. They desire every average Joe with a decent enough job or a 6.5/10 fucktoy simply because no one would touch the nasty snatch knowing what bastard came out of it. Oddly enough men know this. Otherwise the f…	/r/TheRedPill	07/10/24 08:33 PM
5	A post on avoiding false rape accusations. I do the same. Not as paranoid but your phone in your pocket has gigabytes worth of free space. Use it. Back it up. On a side-note it is a nice time capsule.	/r/TheRedPill	07/10/24 08:26 PM
9	OG Content [Repost] \| Archwinger: "Obsessing over a slutty past is an indirect pedestal; Assume she's a slut, but don't obsess" [TRP Vanguard] Great post. What I would like to add: draw a red line in the sand, at least just in your mind. At 22 you won't meet virgin or a basically new model women. For me it's plate-spinning-material-only when she has had more than 8 partners - given I am 38 now. You do you. But you need rules for yourself, so that self-rationalization does not take hold. You want to start a family at 27 maybe 4 guys she has been with is one too many, maybe you are ok with 10, but you need to make this clear to yourself …	/r/TheRedPill	05/10/24 12:28 PM
5	What got you into red pill? How did it change you? Hope? I made my way after I found TRP after 25. It was in its infancy back then. I had it all. The classical anger phase, the hit-on-everything-that-moves phase, the 5-days-a-week gym phase, read economy and philosophy books phase, I went through it all. Now, at 38 I make roughly 70k but this includes everything from health care to car costs to rent. 70k just for me. Hell, I just recently purchased a motorcycle new 100% cash and the guy from the dealership was just not used to people paying cash, so h…	/r/TheRedPill	03/10/24 02:08 PM
1	Should Men Approach Women Directly or Indirectly? My 2ct. Cold hard direct approach is a thing of the 2000s/2010s, or maybe the club scene now, although I suppose it is now a worse blood bath of the 99% of men than it was in my heyday. Now, since the novelty factor wore off, it is better to approach direct without obvious goals. Just escalate as fast as possible from an innocent question and conversation about the subway schedule or college prof or whatever is at hand and move up the latter to rapport, attraction and then try to close on a high…	/r/TheRedPill	08/08/24 01:23 PM
2	Since I've lost most of my muscles, I've also lost a lot of respect from people, specially attractive women and young men (the jacked ones). You might think of Jordan Peterson as you like but one thing rings true to me. Every interaction between males and males and males-to-females is based on the presumption that an altercation can happen anytime, at will. Only respect and the fear of becoming a social parriah holds us back. Every female-to-male interaction happens on the presumption that intercourse could take place. Every female-to-female discussion is based on the presumption on competing for the best male's provisioning or group…	/r/TheRedPill	30/07/24 01:13 PM
3	Body count is a strong predictor of infidelity and divorce It is a matter of perspective IMHO. See, when a boy is young and goes every blue moon to their local fair with a roller coaster and such, he will love every bit of it. Being on a fun ride with people he loves, cherishes and looks up to makes for some great memories. Now imagine that boy being on all Six Flags, Disney and F1-Circuits and then settling for a mediocre fair in Wisconsin. He will never really appreciate the company that he is in, the things people do to make him happy, the work and p…	/r/TheRedPill	30/07/24 01:03 PM
2	Negging is Dumb Bar hopping is not about having fun with strangers anymore it is about $15 drinks, waiting lines and people I would not want to be seen with in broad daylight. Can't really talk about clubs anymore, maybe the scene kids are keeping it real.	/r/TheRedPill	16/02/24 09:05 PM
3	Negging is Dumb My sides. Believe in you and they will fuck you. Top kek. Anyway, crude game tactics served me well. Problem is and was with guys who never calibrated well. A tease or neg not landinf is one thing going straight to insults is just wrong.	/r/TheRedPill	16/02/24 09:02 PM
9	Women cannot go back in lifestyle Yea. But IMHO getting your love juice sucked out just by being hot is not as fulfilling as having a bond with another human being as short and thin it may be. Don't get me wrong I am not judging and lived this lifestyle a couple of years but what OP mentioned rings true to me. As soon as you want more than pure sweaty sex and be it a small talk, women try to squeeze you like a lime. It's like hookers, $100 for sex $250 for foreplay and and kissing. But it is what it is now. 37yo gals are availab…	/r/TheRedPill	16/02/24 08:55 PM
1	THIS IS THE WAY to Text Girls on Tinder, Hinge or Bumble (Full Example + Breakdown) I would even go so fas as to say that 99% come from the first pic. Even then a 10/10 Chad does not come close to the attention a 6/10 Becky gets. With OD remember: when you do it, it is just a game, never invest more than a couple of minutes into it (except the first pic maybe)	/r/TheRedPill	09/02/24 11:21 AM
1	💊 Therapists are Modern-day Religious Leaders 💊 A Girl's Friends are now her Family 💊 To be honest, during my military gig, I have seen quite testosterone heavy guys cry and becoming depressed, a coworker confessed after several drinks that he was molested as a child in summer camp and is unable to pairbond. I doubt that TRT is a magic bullet. Or I have not seen any studies.	/r/TheRedPill	05/02/24 07:00 AM
3	Remember, She's Never Yours, It's Only Your Turn If she wears the uniform of the streets shr belongs to the streets.	/r/TheRedPill	04/02/24 09:35 PM
2	Sleeping well is the foundation to productivity and well-being. Optimize your sleep TODAY. I would cut out supplements like melantonin. It screws with you by increasing your body's tolerance to its own version. practice sleep hygiene. No screens of any kind 30min before you sleep. +add a sleep ritual like brushing your teeth right before you sleep or read some pages of a book +as with lifting sticking to a habit is key so sleep always at the same time like 9 or 10pm	/r/TheRedPill	04/02/24 09:25 PM
1	12 reasons not to work in women-dominated industries, using Healthcare as an example True. I can be a stoic but I will never be Sisyphus until I retire in hearing mindless soul-crushing babble from 9-5.	/r/TheRedPill	04/02/24 09:15 PM
1	The Fuck Rate is about to Implode - Civilization Requires Compromise \| TheRedPill It is not men's will. That is a power fantasy. It is usually reason and logic on a society wide basis. We could even introduce something less drastic such as one family with children equals one vote. The main issue is political power without political consequence. Before the 20th century all societies had a certain rule that basically states, before one can be considered equal you have to have skin in the game.	/r/TheRedPill	04/02/24 08:57 PM
1	💊 Therapists are Modern-day Religious Leaders 💊 A Girl's Friends are now her Family 💊 The issue is not therapy per se it is the normalization of something deeply private and making it a notch on the victim totem pole. All reasonable people would agree with me when I say, therapy is for conditions that are or will be biological detrimental to you. Causes usually meant PTSD as a soldier, anxiety after child abuse, suicidal thoughts, alcoholism you get the gist. And real victims usually never openly talk about it either. Today therapy as OP points out is yet another check-box for mo…	/r/TheRedPill	04/02/24 08:47 PM
3	The post wall massacre is real. You leave men out of the equation. When you cross in the mid-30s territory, your sex drive normalizes to that of a girl. Sex is great but so is freedom and many other things. No matter how hard all the 'alpha' men want to be known as Genghis Khan who fucks everything with a pulse. I would bang an 8+ any time of the day but honestly why enadngering my sleep pattern or spare time to woo a 5 or a 6 quite possibly with baggage for some awkward sex and the drama that most certainly ensues due to the …	/r/TheRedPill	07/09/23 02:05 PM
2	My last 4 dates were basically identical. Best adivce in a long term and you put my best dates into words. Whenever I had a great time she tagged along. When I went all out to make her day it was mostly awkward. Of course so something objectivly fun many people would enjoy, a jet ski ride for instance, not showing her your niche collection of 70s porno movies.	/r/TheRedPill	07/09/23 01:55 PM
1	How it feels to not get married and live a single life? Many people die statistically in the early morning around 4 - 5am in a facility ie nursing home, hospital, hospice care. So you will very likely die alone. It is not like taking your black book out and make an appointment with your relatives or set up a Zoom call. In a twist of irony thee big titty stay-in nurse is more likely to wish your farewell than any children you may have.	/r/TheRedPill	07/08/23 10:17 PM
1	How it feels to not get married and live a single life? First, as a man, you have to be actively chosing this livestyle and not rationalize it. Mother nature forsaw that many men will never have offspring and implanted in all of us a backup firmware. Studies have shown that once men reach 50 and are never married and have no kids ie live in solitude - but they are somehow not lonely. Unlike women whose programming requires offspring or bugs start to appear ie cat or dog ladies. For me, it works out. I weighed my options and having kids and a marriage…	/r/TheRedPill	07/08/23 09:00 PM
1	This Medium Article from a middle-aged homewrecker shows that blackpill, redpill and female nature are real and undeniable I guess this is why many women go apeshit when hubby's sex drive declines with her. Hear me fellas: I held at one point in my life three jobs at once just to avoid student debt, constantly tired and having headachea and praying to god to get a good nights sleep and not doing the sex thing drove my then-gf nuts. As soon as you dont need the goods it's buyers market.	/r/TheRedPill	07/08/23 07:24 PM
4	This Medium Article from a middle-aged homewrecker shows that blackpill, redpill and female nature are real and undeniable 37 here. I found the variable HU ie hooker units which translates in my city to $250. A woman has to be worth more to me to change plans (gym, friends, motorcycling) than one HU. Otherwise my peace of mind is endangered.	/r/TheRedPill	07/08/23 07:21 PM
2	Had two great dates, then she ghosts me Right that. Just watch a 30yo women handing her number out like candy on Halloween. It's all relative. Take a loss with a 20yo and that's it. You might even be TRP Rocky but going up against a 20yo girl who is virtually Creed is a settup for an L. Sometimes you make it sometimes you don't.	/r/TheRedPill	29/06/23 07:55 AM
1	Cancel Culture, And Losing All Your Things Just Because You Offended Somebody Is Going To A Whole Another Level... And Will Only Get Worse With Time. Recent experience While I get the sentiment. This is BS. Your guy in the story was a professional he did behave unprofessionally and some cunt reported it. If, for instance, my physician would use such crass language I would also reconsider his services albeit not reporting him. There is a difference between talking crass and ooenly among peers and friends and doing the same while customers paying you.	/r/TheRedPill	25/06/23 10:25 AM
1	[FR 3] First time cold approaching at a downtown college town while running night game. Things almost got violent. Analysis at the end Club game is like Tinder on crack. It's looks and status and some game only. While game might push a male 6 or 7 a point up you are still going to go against the 6ft Chad, the promoter or the 'hawt' bouncer. Might occassionally work but it's a hard no for me now. Plus women are in clubs mostly to get wasted, and to be approached. So the novelty factor is not there, like say, while shopping for clothes.	/r/TheRedPill	25/06/23 10:18 AM
1	Breaking Free from the Weekend Warrior Lifestyle: How to Quit Drinking and Build a True Social Life I just order a alcohol-free beer or even a alcohol free wine. Ordering Pepsi in a longdrink glas also works wonders. To be honest I'll leave most parties at 10pm. Without being totally hammered the club setting or a party is just stupid. Grown-up people getting drunk just to be able to hold a conversation is a testament to our society.	/r/TheRedPill	17/06/23 10:44 AM
2	Experience with girls and friends who are chads redpilled me more than any content creator Early on in life up until I guess 30. Getting women is like playing poker with almost zero chips while everyone goes all in every time. You check, sit it out, get a better understanding of the game, try to get more chips and when you are dealt a good set of cards you engage. As you get older you know what hand you can play. You have mucb more chips, and you literally don't care anymore.	/r/TheRedPill	30/05/23 08:09 AM
2	Why are there not more TPR posts about having kids and raising them? I guess you won't find any because the society wide fallout of the hard-coded truth that women, just as men, do not really adhere to LTRs as a default will wreak havoc to the already fucked up marriage rates. But I am not pulling this completly out of my ass. Studies have shown espacially in women that satisfaction with a relationship starts increasing dramatically after the first sex and drops off of a cliff after 2.5 years without children. This means 3 gestational periods are enough to go hun…	/r/TheRedPill	29/05/23 08:06 AM
2	Once the Old Generation is gone... I think so, as well. Right now, we are entering hard times. The rise of the trad wife is a testament albait a false one to that	/r/TheRedPill	18/05/23 06:44 PM
1	Men are trash Every man is valuable but no man has intrinsic value. However, you define your own value and that has to be taught. If you want sex you have to provide something but other than that a man is not governed by external ressources per se. And on a side note: men do valuable things which go unnoticed so never do something for people other than your friends or family for which you don't take credit or get paid. All women shit on low level jobs but women are the ones who will invoke the weaker sex dyna…	/r/TheRedPill	17/05/23 08:13 AM
1	Why Do You Think 'Blue Pill' Advice Is So Popular? It is popular because it does not hurt. It does not force you to bear the responsibility if your own actions. Even if one completly denies what TRP says and just follows the stoic advice of 'be your own master and change what can be changed and see how it is not what it should' he will sooner or later have to face a harsh reality not the cozy comfort of mom's or Buzzfats 'advice'.	/r/TheRedPill	11/05/23 05:33 PM
1	What escorts taught me. True words bro. However, consider this an escort fucks you right away if you chose so and when you look 'hawt' she will enjoy it as much as I enjoyed it getting paid for doing club promotion during college. It is literally fucking awsome job. Your love sick girl will cool off after a couple of month and then you tradr your most valuable currency ie time for her girl problems. As South Park put it satirically years back: every guy pays one way or another for a girl to kiss him	/r/TheRedPill	11/05/23 05:19 PM
1	Sudden insight dawned on me today about the idea of working/providing etc Ask a different question: What services can a wife provide for you, you cannot obtain by employing a third party at-will? Kids? - Surrogate Sex? - Escorts Company? - Escorts Couseling? - Therapist, Lawyer, MD Cooking? - since you know lifting and TRP you can cook yourself Cleaning? - Maid / DIY Most women will upsell you 'love' and cannot even articulate what that means. To be honest in the current climate I find it unlikely to meet marriage material women.	/r/TheRedPill	08/05/23 09:26 PM
1	My RedPill journey, 4 yrs ago I was 28 and a virgin, and decided to change my life. Thx to this community! Kudos to you man. But for real my men not every bad feeling that lasts longer than an hour is a fucking depression nowadays.	/r/TheRedPill	08/05/23 09:16 PM
4	Why are there not more TPR posts about having kids and raising them? I came from a very poor background. Now I am a tech lawyer with a very cozy no stress job. During my ascencion, if you will, I had a plate. I was around 27 or so. Out of law school but still shitty jobs due to my lack of experience. My plate surprised me with the 'I got pregant trick or truth'. I don't know if it was real or a shit test. However, I got snipped ie a vasectomy at 26 because I realized the only thing that could set me back was very dangerous behaviour. And while I managed not to en…	/r/TheRedPill	08/05/23 08:58 PM
1	Why are there not more TPR posts about having kids and raising them? Very true. On the other side if evolution takes over once again humanity will drift into constant war without any hope of scientific progress as every man is busy getting some action by brute force. We see it in the west and in Japan. Men are dropping out. You cannot go full berserk nor can you have a somewhat stable relationship without getting taken advantage of or fucking with the woman's mind. So folks started to value their spare time. Ever wondered why it's so damn hard to get a plumber or…	/r/TheRedPill	08/05/23 08:43 PM
3	Why are there not more TPR posts about having kids and raising them? Dude believe me, when the first girl tries to baby-trick you when you had the snip, everything is put into perspective. I could live monogamously for the rest of my life since I am not so sex crazed like in my early 20s anymore but man the incentives women get to fuck you over and collect cash and prizes is insane.	/r/TheRedPill	08/05/23 08:34 PM
3	Why are there not more TPR posts about having kids and raising them? Lawyer here: pre-nups and post-nups are thrown out even ex-post as soon as one party hase dire circumstances. Pre-nups protect from a divorce fallout when rich people getting married to even richer people and then eventually have a divorce since splitting companies, vast amounts of land with contractors is a pain in the ass. All mariages get stale. That is a fact. No matter how 'alpha' you are. Women are wired to get a fresh batch of seed, men ie high SMV males, are wired to fuck different women…	/r/TheRedPill	08/05/23 08:31 PM
1	Dude does everything BluePillers preach he should do to have fwb. Bluepillers: YOU ASSHOLE!!! FWB is female rationalization not male reason. Hollywood movies aside. Chad or you did not just sprayed his cum all over you and calls every blue moon to do even more deprved things to you, no, lo and behold, he is a FWB! It is supposed to be so. Since a friend can always evolve in a relationship.	/r/TheRedPill	03/05/23 03:25 PM
2	Do men really age like "wine" (especially past 40)? How you age is up to you. Aside from the generalization that women age like milk since their SMV is coupled directly with their fertility which is then directly coupled with their looks. I am 37 right now. I will never be able to compete against 20yo Michael Phelps or a young seasoned TRP bro but I will blow the vast majority of 20 somethings in US/CA out of the water since TRP advised me over ten years ago to increase my lifting power and endurance and to take up martial arts (still suck at tho…	/r/TheRedPill	03/05/23 02:59 PM
2	Dinner at girls bosses house? How should I look at this? Can mean anything. I have strict policy of no privat fun of anykind with the company staff bosses included. From time to time the odd guy bro emerges for who I will make an exception but the fallout will not usually end in me begging HR for forgiveness because I fucked a girl at a christmas party or offended some snowflake. On another note, personal dinners are usually used to butter you up. Since you were having dinner you can't deny this slightly illegal favor I will ask you for. There is a re…	/r/TheRedPill	03/05/23 02:29 PM
1	You guys are right and it's annoying The mother fantasy is dangerous. Ever see a mother loving her 17yo boy? No because nature tells her that her task is done. Then her son becomes to her what all men are to her, tools for her own agenda. It might even just be for bragging rights.	/r/TheRedPill	29/04/23 02:28 PM
1	FR: This shit works for real I just read this post and I don't know what to say. She behaves in a not acceptable way and you go all nuclear. While this works now, it won't in the future and now divorce was once on the table. There is an escalation ladder in diplomacy for a reason.	/r/TheRedPill	29/04/23 02:21 PM
1	Getting The Girl It is not as bleak as you put it. Most men spent energy on women. True. But look at what kind of women most men put their energy into. 20 something, no kids, firm tits. Trust me, it is sad seeing a 30s woman trying to live their 20s again and getting shot down in the most gentle ways possible by anybody except your thirsty beta. You remember the old 'I have a bf' line? Yea? I and many others use it too in our 30s. 'Sorry I have a gf'. The half time of tail who can command such time investment …	/r/TheRedPill	29/04/23 02:00 PM
3	"I'm sorry if I came on as an asshole" - most men are Nice Guys OLD never worked for me. So I am inclined to call BS. Anyway. Statistically speaking the infamous chart from ok-Cupid, Tinder and Bumble laid it out quite succinctly. For females there are no male 10s or 9s or even 8s. Now, your fat friend may have found the magical bullet, yet, assuming he exists, his daygame and aura must ooze such a presence. For me, almost a decade ago, ripped abs and a professional photographer netted me mere 4 matches a day with entitled bitches who I was supposed to ent…	/r/TheRedPill	29/04/23 01:51 PM
2	The rise of hypersexualized girls and f*ckboys I always found it funny how for most women escorts are way worse that meth hookers. But seeing it from an economical point of view it is obvious. An escort usually can adhere to ettiquette, looks beautiful and hot, is usually versed in small talk and won't make scene, hell my last rscort was able to golf well. If you pay for an escort once a month from 25 onwards to 50 it is usally cheaper, more novelle and more finite than a divorce from a SAHM.	/r/TheRedPill	12/04/23 03:57 PM
1	Shared Custody and Post Divorce LTR Outlook I'm 36 and I spin two plates since more is just to frustrating. Spinning plates refers to a particular arrangement not a particular setting. Both girls know there is just semi-exclusivity involved, I like doing my thing, and no money ever is transferred ie. dinner-dates, paying for both parties for or on a vacation. They can leave at any time and, frankly it is the same as a marriage, just without the formalities and the financial fallout. And since women whoring around and not finding a husband…	/r/TheRedPill	09/04/23 11:32 AM
3	Why being in a relationship or accidentally impregnating a black women is a terrible idea Impregnating a woman is, in my opinion, a game of Russian roulette. You gain nothing but you can lose everything. I have a 28yo plate who is sweet and kind girl. Yet, this girl shows every other day how she actually does not need me economically, emotionally and sometimes even sexually. It's a shit-test I know, but it is like coming with a nuke to a knife fight. I'm a-OK with that, since she's only a plate. But this sweet, gentle and kind girl was raised by a very much intact family with sibling…	/r/TheRedPill	09/04/23 11:23 AM
2	Can you really see yourself with a (much) younger woman? When you are 35 you want the body of a 20yo not the woman. I like 25-28. See, bar-hopping, hell even going out on couples nights (moderate alcohol) past 11pm is not for me anymore. I just like to ride my motorcycle, have a nice cup of coffee and getting my balls licked after sparing or the work-out sessions. Thing is, when you age things are put into perspective, your perspective, as you simply don't care about other people anymore status-wise. And doing 20s-things again is daunting. I had some …	/r/TheRedPill	08/04/23 05:22 PM
4	Speak her language Women don't think in the paradigm of ideas. They think emotionally. Men have to think in ideas because no one will rescue you when you fucked up sans your parents - sometimes. The idea of getting a good education ie college for men is to make money or to pursue scientific research once again sans the knucklehead or trust fund baby. For a women it is to follow a passion or for the college 'experience' sans the ultra ugly girl who will not be taken care of. Take marriage for example. When men ta…	/r/TheRedPill	08/04/23 05:09 PM
1	Woman are interested but life is still a mess. I never really understood the concept of having a therapist when one is not pathologically mentally sick. Dude, in my opinion you have demons and you need to fight them alone. I had also issues. Every man has. What you have is armchair imposter syndrome and the cure for that is making objective observations and putting them in context. The opposite of you is arrogance. You have the goods but not the faith and an arrogant person has the faith but no goods. Can you lift 200lbs? Good! 85% of pe…	/r/TheRedPill	08/04/23 04:45 PM
11	Can you really see yourself with a (much) younger woman? I have a plate for roughly 5 years when I was early 30s. I met her at 24 now she is 29. We sometimes go on vacation together, other than that it is basically sex and sporadically companionshio. Visually, people thought at the beginning that I was fucking a barely legal girl and think now we are roughly the same age. It's almost comical how short a woman's peak actually is. But my point is, while a man or an RP-man for that matter, will develop body, mind, friends, career and a purpose she basica…	/r/TheRedPill	19/03/23 09:41 PM