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| 540 | Men all of a sudden showing empathy for a rape victim...guess the gender of the victim and the gender of the rapist? | MALE DEPRAVITY | yomommahouse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/05/21 01:57 AM |
| 157 | SCROTES join violence against women forum on Zoom — and masturbate and play porn. | MALE DEPRAVITY | yomommahouse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 12:24 AM |
| 1 | A salute to my NV narc ex. Thanks ladies for all the inspiration 😂Enjoy! | LESSON LEARNED | yomommahouse | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 02:10 AM |
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| 61 | Not having children in this pedophilic society.Here's further proof and reasons not to have children, men will rape their own toddler daughters, then the judge himself will feel that perp might not "fare well in prison" so he'll just get a pass: https://www.nydailynews.com/news/crime/woman-sues-ex-husband-du-pont-heir-dodged-prison-raping-3-year-old-daughter-article-1.1740180 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/07/21 08:21 PM |
| 89 | LVM I see it now and I am ready to leaveI'm looking forward to your next post when you call him your no value EX. You've got one life, don't waste one more second of your precious time on this old, nasty, bitter, woman hating scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/06/21 04:16 PM |
| 11 | You weren’t cheated on, HE IS A CHEATERThese disgusting psychopaths also get off on getting caught as well, because if you stay after they've been caught, they know they can continue to abuse you, and knock you down even further. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/21 11:26 AM |
| 8 | 🚨Vetting Strategy: Watch how a man drivesI could have saved myself a lot of heartache if I would have just dumped my no value Ex by the way he drove alone. It really does show a lot about their character, but I didn't put it all together until further into the relationshit. He checked off every one of your red flags except the dirty car, he kept his car meticulous and actually spent more money on that car than he ever spent on me. He never had any concern for my safety when I was in that car with him, he drove like he was the star in h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/06/21 07:51 PM |
| 15 | Shame dumping and blame-shiftingWow, my ex did the exact same thing. They really all have read the same book "How to narc" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 04:00 PM |
| 47 | Shame dumping and blame-shiftingAnytime I would bring up an important topic I wanted to talk about with my ex-narc, he would always tell me that he can never talk about anything with me because we both just want to win and be right. That wasn't true for me at all, I wanted to genuinely discuss my grievances and figure out how we could resolve them, but that was his excuse to get out of any uncomfortable conversation so he wouldn't have to take accountability for his actions. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 03:58 PM |
| 3 | Women boss up after their break up. Then men go around doing the same shit, business as usual. ☺️I just found out a few weeks ago that my ex had an ex from years ago and her kid move in with him only 3 weeks after I left him. She found out that he was already cheating on her a month in! He had also told her that we had broken up over 4 months ago (when she moved in) when it had only been 3 weeks. You just cant make this stuff up. Validated my decision to leave. He has absolutely no intentions at all to better himself, he'll being a cheating rat until the day he dies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 02:46 PM |
| 71 | "You can't let one bad experience color your perception of all men!" "Actually, most men I've met treated me/women badly" "If every man you've dated was a jerk, there is probably something wrong with you, you're the common denominator"And penguins are monogamous! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/06/21 02:25 PM |
| 15 | Men do not form meaningful friendships with other men. It is not your job as a woman to fill in that void.Men connect and bond by sending porn clips to each other and telling each other how hard the latest twerking teen tiktok video makes their pp, that's about the extent of their emotional connections. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 01:03 PM |
| 54 | Women boss up after their break up. Then men go around doing the same shit, business as usual. ☺️My ex, said basically the same thing in a letter he wrote me after I left him. He said; "I sacrificed so much for us such as friendships etc to make you happy" These "friendships" he speaks of were multiple emotional affairs he was having with women that he claimed up and down were just friends, then I hacked into his phone and found he was sexting them, sending love poems and stupid me gave him a chance to remove these girls from his life...cOMmmUnicATING to him why it was wrong only to find ou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/06/21 12:52 PM |
| 36 | What are your favorite quotes from Lundy Bancroft’s “Why Does He Do That?”"Abusers externalize responsibility for their actions, believing that their partners make them behave in abusive ways. Each of my clients predictable uses some variation of the following lines: "she knows how to push my buttons" "She wanted me to go off, and she knows to make it happen" "she pushed me too far" "there's only so much a man can take" "you expect me to just let her walk all over me. What would you do?" When I would call my ex out on his abuse, he used every single one of these exc… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 06:40 PM |
| 21 | I made a meme out of my cats for you beautiful women 😘When I left my ex, I took our cat with me. And I agree, my cat is far superior to him (and every other man I've had the displeasure to date and marry), and I am far happier living with a cuddly fur critter that doesn't cheat and watch porn. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 05:24 PM |
| 5 | Discussion: Has anyone else watched the TV show “Manifest”? I can’t help but notice a lot of HVM qualities in Ben Stone.It's sad the only HVMs that seem to exist are only playing the acting role of one. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 04:35 AM |
| 3 | The other day a male approached me while I had earphones in walking around at a mall. I just walked away without responding but next time I’ll do this instead 😍 her response was too good lmaoI always just tell guys I don't have a phone, even if I'm holding one in my hand haha. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/21 04:30 AM |
| 37 | dating strategies are different for men vs womenThe more I read on this sub the more I feel validated in my decision that I'm done dating forever. I actually have no desire to be around men at all. For me, FDS stands for "FLEEING DEGENERATES STRATEGY" | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 03:05 AM |
| 66 | NVM who think they can buy consent and free willYeah, normally women don't smile when they are being paid to be raped. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/06/21 12:20 PM |
| 52 | nOt aLlmEnIn my life experience it has been ALL men, not some men, not a few men, but ALL of them. So until I meet that one man that isn't like all of the men I have had the same experiences with over and over and over...it's ALL men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/05/21 08:15 PM |
| 162 | How would you ever be able to trust him again? Disgusting.I'm not shocked at all. This is normal male behavior from what I've experienced in my life. This is why I stay away from them. Oh, and in my last relationship, I found out that a good family friend of ours was sending nudes of his wife to my boyfriend. I betcha her husband was already distributing her nudes anyway. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/05/21 06:56 PM |
| 126 | young girl posts tik tok about being flat chested, middle aged plastic surgeon comments.There is a very well known plastic surgeon in Mexico where tons of girls fly over the border to work done by him. I just read that he's been accused by at least 5 women that they had been sexually assaulted when they were under anesthesia. One of them who had not had sex in almost a year ended up with an STI. I went on the facebook page of the doctor and I couldn't believe that some women were still thinking of going to him because they had put down a deposit. There were comments like, "hey girl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 07:51 PM |
| 9 | A treatise in favor of casual snoopingSnooping is my kink. Don't you dare judge me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 11:39 PM |
| 7 | A treatise in favor of casual snoopingGod I'm exhausted just reading that. It always astounds me the lengths that men will go to hide a whole other life (or lives) just to get their dicks wet. Like just imagine if men actually put as much effort into one relationship as they do into lying and cheating what a different world this would be. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 11:24 PM |
| 2 | Underneath the mask is another mask, and under that is an abuser 😩OMG were you my neighbor? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 10:22 PM |
| 167 | NEVER call a man attractive to his face.On the other hand, my narc ex was extremely attractive, it was embarrassing how many pickmes would actually flirt with him right in front of my face. I made it a point to not over compliment him and when I found out he was emotionally cheating on me he used the excuse that I don't compliment him enough. No matter what, they all find an excuse to cheat. I give up. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 07:26 PM |
| 14 | How abusers use your anger against youThis is exactly what my emotionally and physically abusive ex did to me. I would be angry...not even screaming angry, but just angry and want to talk things out. He would always use my anger as an excuse of why he can't talk to me. He'd say things like, "see, this is why I can never talk to you about anything and why we never get anywhere! I'm not doing this right now with you because you're irrational, you cant let things go" Meanwhile, I'd just be like, just because I'm angry does not mean I c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/05/21 03:07 PM |
| 4 | Watching porn makes men unable to pair-bond effectively with womenWell said! Listen up all you ladies, this is truth right here. Being alone is FAR better than ever ever being with a pornsick loser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 09:38 PM |
| 13 | I tried to highlight the worst parts, but it's all so bad... 😬I dated an ugly guy once because I was constantly told I was too picky and I should give this one guy a chance. This is how it turned out: I found out he cheated on me, when I confronted him he took my phone and would not give it back and got physically violent with me. After I broke up with him and told him to never contact me again he called and texted me continuously from different phone numbers. He then proceeded to break into my house while I was on vacation and stole everything of value I … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 12:16 AM |
| 2 | I will not be a detectiveUgh, I think maybe we were dating the same guy, haha. Sorry you had to deal with someone like that too, but happy we are both out. I totally get the random anger coming out of nowhere, I get that all the time as well as feeling mad at myself for not leaving at that first red flag. Much love to you, I hope you are in a better place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/05/21 02:29 AM |
| 30 | Billionaire Pedophile Rings are looking less and less like a conspiracy every day. Save yourself, Queen.I watched Eyes of the Devil and yeah, make sure you are in a strong state of mind when you watch that. It is truly disturbing and I guarantee you will wish you never knew how dark this world truly is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/05/21 01:57 PM |
| 2 | Can we talk about how insane and psychotic scrotes are about porn? Scientists, psychiatrists, people that work with porn addicts or sex offenders are expressing a very consistent narrative about the toxicity of porn...how it can destroy women, AND men. But men don't seem to care at all.Just ask him to take a selfie with you on his phone, immediately after he takes the pic grab his phone excitedly and say "oooh let me see how cute our pic is!" if he immediately gets nervous about you handling his phone, or grabs it back as quickly as possible....you have your answer, he's a porn addict. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 09:59 PM |
| 1 | I feel like too many of us here have experienced this and been left feeling crushed and confused after being discarded - The psychopathic relationship cycle. Knowledge is power 🤍From https://www.healthline.com/health/psychopath#diagnosis: Since the term psychopath is not an official diagnosis, experts refer to the signs described under ASPD. According to Masand, some of the more common signs to be aware of include: socially irresponsible behavior disregarding or violating the rights of others inability to distinguish between right and wrong difficulty with showing remorse or empathy tendency to lie often manipulating and hurting others recurring problems with the law ge… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 09:46 PM |
| 1 | Creepy men taking pictures of young women will never be okay.Almost ALL men would end up in that registry. It would be easier to have a registry of the men that don't do this crap. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 09:09 PM |
| 2 | Creepy men taking pictures of young women will never be okay.I found creepshots in my exes phone too. When I looked at the timestamp of the pics, they were literally right after he had dropped me and my girlfriend off for her bday celebration. When I confronted him about the disgusting pics he had the nerve to tell me that they were for his "boys" because you know there is such a lack of pics of women on the internet he was just helping his boys out. How chivalrous of him! UGh, I'm embarrassed to say that that wasn't enough for me to dump him right then a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 09:01 PM |
| 3 | Scrotal RecallYet they can remember every line from The Matrix and every single Star Wars movie, but just can't remember the date of your birthday, or even have the sense to put a reminder on their calendar so they can remember. They know ladies, they are just testing you to see how much scrotacity you are willing to put up with. If you let it slide once, they know you are willing to let other things slide like cheating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 08:42 PM |
| 4 | Matthew Perry weaponizes his Hollywood status to force teen girls young enough to be his granddaughter to look at him on dating apps. Tik Tokker calls him out.Let's not forget that Chrissy Tiegan is a pedophile herself so makes sense why she would defend him. She makes me sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 08:23 PM |
| 3 | I can never listen to "baby mama drama" the same anymoreDid you know that 100% of unwanted pregnancies are caused by men? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 08:16 PM |
| 7 | What’s the most embarrassing pick-me thing you’ve ever done?!??? 🙋🏻♀️🙋🏾♀️🙋🏽♀️🙋🏿♀️🙋🏼♀️The HV ones know who they are and know why we say it. Also the HV ones are def NOT on Reddit to even read that | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 07:22 PM |
| 17 | What’s the most embarrassing pick-me thing you’ve ever done?!??? 🙋🏻♀️🙋🏾♀️🙋🏽♀️🙋🏿♀️🙋🏼♀️If that's the worst pickme thing you've done then you are doing just fine girl! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 07:17 PM |
| 23 | I can't think of anything I could say that would be better than her responseAKA, I want a woman who hasn't figured out the true nature of men, hasn't realized yet that the majority of us ain't shit, and will blame herself when I inevitably abuse and cheat on her. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 02:05 PM |
| 13 | Mr.SleepyPeople and the disturbing underground network for sharing and trading drugged/passed out/sleeping women eyecheck videos. This is considered a fetish. I consider it assault.Every day I find another reason to stay far away from men | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 09:20 PM |
| 6 | Take your pick, ladies! - *sobs*PTSD | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/05/21 06:14 PM |
| 2 | I went on a blocking spree today. :)Yep, I deleted all of my social media too when I broke up with my ex 8 months ago, at first it was just supposed to be temporary but then I realized how much freer I felt without it and I will never go back. Now like another person mentioned they need it for their job, I do too because I do investigative work, but I created fake accounts and I only use them to find who I'm investigating, I never use them to lurk on exes. Not having SM, has freed up so much of my time, and mental energy. I really… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 09:59 PM |
| 17 | I will not be a detectiveWow, I could have wrote this myself, except I actually did go into full on detective mode in my last relationship. I found FDS and you guys gave me the strength to get out, so thank you ladies for showing me the light! EVERY single time I had a gut feeling something was up, and I would check his phone I was ALWAYS ALWAYS right. He would talk his way out of all of it, made me feel like I was the crazy one etc. I went to the extreme of installing an app on his phone that records everything. All of… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/04/21 09:48 PM |
| 50 | The bar is in hell. I don’t know who’s worse: OP or the commenters!Yep, and I bet he shares those nudes with all of his homies too | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/04/21 07:39 PM |
| 55 | The Benefits of Living Alone vs living with a LVMI actually had the opposite experience, my last ex was ridiculously neat and tidy. He did all of the housework, all of the laundry and the majority of the cooking. Sounds great right? Wrong! You know WHY he did all these things? Because he was a complete control freak. Whenever I would attempt to say mop the floors, he would hover over me like I was a 5 year old attempting to clean for the first time in my life. If I wanted to make him a nice meal, he would literally criticize the way I did ever… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/04/21 08:29 PM |
| 65 | Is it possible to trust any man these days?"Is it possible to trust any man these days?" Sorry to be the bearer of bad new ladies, but based on my decades of experience and research, no. NO it is not. Sorry. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/04/21 04:22 PM |
| 3 | So very disappointed with this content creator (explanation in the comments).I thought at first this was John Mayer with a 40 pound weight gain. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 08:44 PM |
| 9 | That horrible spinster life, wait...Ever since I was little I always saw myself as having a "Golden Girls" type of future. Then I bought into the fairytale lie that there are good men out there and got married. I'm happily divorced and very happily single now, and not seeing one single benefit of letting a man back into my life. BTW, one of my best friends lives next door to her good friend, they are both stupidly happy single and have opened up their back yard space so they share one large beautiful garden area. They each take ca… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 02:46 PM |
| 14 | Mood for lifeThis has been my life since I left my no value abusive narcissistic EX. Life is sweeter now that I only have ME to worry about (and my cat) My condo is clean every day and well decorated and looks like it should be featured on a magazine. My kitchen is sparkling clean every day when I wake up in the morning. I sleep in bliss not worrying that I'm being cheated on by some scrote in my king size fluffy bed with luxury sheets and linens. I sleep in until I please on the weekends and I wake up super… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 02:12 PM |
| 4 | This is the type of obtuse mentality that I'm referring to when I say "men are committed to misunderstanding us"I couldn't even finish reading that. It's hilarious how emotional men are. Not once in my life have I ever gone to a male sub and felt the need to write out paragraphs of why I'm mad. I don't give one single fuck what men want to do in their own space. LOL...men, the logical sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 01:44 PM |
| 182 | I hate Adam Sandler’s films.Can you imagine if the majority of female characters in movies were ugly, broke, mentally unstable, overweight, had no job, dressed repulsively, had no hygiene, but always ended up with some hot ass guy in the end because her charming personality won him over? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 01:37 PM |
| 6 | Prof made us watch a documentary called “Cowboys in Paradise”, it truly highlights how disgusting men are.I found it on youtube if any of you are interested in reminding yourself how horrific men are: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sUAyz-ym9d8 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 08:41 PM |
| 6 | Yes, you are allowed to set the standard that you don't want porn in your relationship.But the thing is... it's not fake. These are real women and children being RAPED. Being trafficked, humiliated and abused. Nothing about it is fake accept the pleasure they may be faking from being abused by rapists. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 02:49 PM |
| 8 | It may not be All men but it’s enough menI was going down a youtube rabbithole one weekend watching horrific videos on child sex trafficking. I kid you not, every time someone would make a comment such as "how can men be so cruel" there would always be some scrote saying, it's not always men! Women buy sex too! Or if someone would comment about women being victims some scrote would be like, let's not forget that boys and men are victims too! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 11:13 PM |
| 7 | LVM : I want a 9 or 10 women, with slim body who works out and put on makeup. Also LVM :The second pic with the big fat nasty slob, the girl is holding her notepad like sorry, can't touch you...got a notepad in my arm. I cringe to think what that nasty man smelled like. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 10:19 PM |
| 36 | Beware of bars/clubs/restaurants that offer "Free drinks for ladies!"Also a great place to meet cheap/broke men if that's what you're into | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 11:19 PM |
| 15 | Apparently the manosphere thinks that women are "sexually harassing" men by wearing makeup and revealing clothes. Female beauty is seen as aggression against men, which in their mind justifies male violence against women. I wonder if the Atlanta shooter spent any time on Reddit incel forums 🤔Yep, I was one of those girls! At 11 years old I had pretty big boobs already. I was constantly being harassed by guys at school, they would literally walk up to me and grab my boobs in the hallways or wherever. Also lots of pervy teachers staring at my boobs too I was so traumatized by this. I remember going home and crying and getting glasses of ice water, laying down and placing them on my breasts to try and make my boobs smaller so the boys would stop touching me. I thought the ice would mak… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 07:07 PM |
| 7 | To hear what LV scrotes think of women and how they try to manipulate us, watch some "comedy." 100% he's not kidding. 50 years old, never been married, and this is how he treats women. High standards will save your life.Just spend a weekend watching regular comedy shows on cable TV with him (if either of you have it), most of those shows are all sexist and will have a lot misogynistic "humor", (the reason I don't subscribe to cable tv) If he thinks any of the so-called sexist jokes are funny, then you have your answer. Also ask him who his favorite comedians are, if he tells you someone you never heard of, go look it up on youtube and find out what kind of humor it is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 12:19 PM |
| 148 | To hear what LV scrotes think of women and how they try to manipulate us, watch some "comedy." 100% he's not kidding. 50 years old, never been married, and this is how he treats women. High standards will save your life.It's very important ladies to find out what kind of "comedy" the man you are dating is into. As I found out, my ex was into some very misogynistic stuff. I sat down with him to watch some stand up "comedian" he loved and he was just dying at all the disgusting sexist jokes. I was like, oh so why is that so funny to you? He was like, iT's jUsT a jOke! I'm like well if you are laughing at a joke that all men cheat, then you must agree with that, otherwise you wouldn't think that is funny. Surprise… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 07:17 PM |
| 11 | What are your thoughts on this? Nearly all comments say “to make sure you’re not a catfish” but I don’t buy it.he eyes being the window to the soul and all that. Women can sense men's depravity. Men want to look into our faces/eyes without a woman looking into his and clocking him and reacting and rejecting him. Yep, learned this the hard way. My ex was traveling and we were video chatting every night. I had went to the beach one day and got a really bad burn. He was like take your top off and let me see how bad it is, so I did. When I went looking in his google drive months later I saw a bunch of screen… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 06:59 PM |
| 40 | Woman asks men who are into exploiting their wives sexually for other men (wife sharing etc) why they enjoy it, gets this response. Imagine seeing your wife as a sex toy that’ll earn you brownie points with The Boys.So they shouldn't have a problem then if we test drive their hot friends? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/03/21 06:15 PM |
| 47 | I guarantee the girlfriend is leagues more attractive than him. Remember, a lot of men see us as objects. A lot of men only see value in your appearance and they compare you to retouched images of models.Sounds like another pornsick scrote to me. I betcha anything his girl outweighs him in the looks department, but his porn-fried brain convinces him he actually has really had all those girls he's been jerking to while they are being trafficked and raped, and he thinks he's way better looking than he actually is. Girls, I'm so thankful to all of you in this sub and for posts like this, it really confirms my decision to remain single, I see no point in men at all anymore. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 06:10 PM |
| 20 | Pastor slammed for telling wives to ‘lose weight,’ look less ‘butch’These men are so delusional!!! I betcha he's a raging porn addict too, which is why the delusion is real. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 06:44 PM |
| 23 | Studies show that husbands stress wives out more than their children. Women say they feel like a husband is another child instead of a partnerCan confirm and reason #3452 I am divorced and have no desire to marry again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 06:17 PM |
| 3 | On a question about why old men hit on 13-18 year olds. I am absolutely disgusted and frightened.With no checks, and no verifications on the majority of those sites, it could very well be that they ARE underage and being trafficked, there is no way of knowing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/02/21 02:46 PM |
| 25 | Why I left my Fiancé. - Woman shares inspiring story of how she trusted her intuition, decided to she deserved better, and left her fiance (a man she had dated for nine years).Nope, pretty sure it's porn. People who seemed to know her were commenting about it. And that was my first thought also. Porn destroys relationships every time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 08:46 PM |
| 50 | Why I left my Fiancé. - Woman shares inspiring story of how she trusted her intuition, decided to she deserved better, and left her fiance (a man she had dated for nine years).It just goes to show where men's heads are at these days! This pathetic peter griffin loser had the most beautiful woman he'll ever have in real life, but he chose his porn addiction over her. Lesson for any of you ladies dealing with a guy who watches porn, you will never ever come first, leave as soon as you can or you will waste your precious youth with a man who is willingly and knowingly rotting his brain away to porn, and believe it will never get better, they just get worse. The only thin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/02/21 08:31 PM |
| 21 | While viewing porn, man sees his wife’s photo - decide he’s been cheated on 🙄But let's be real, the majority of men in relationships (and not in relationships) these days are porn addicts, just some haven't been caught yet, or the woman is just pretending to be cool and accept it, or like on that sub, they finally have had enough and are trying to figure out if they should leave because they have "hope" he will change. News flash for all the women on that sub...they don't change, they just get better at hiding it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 04:49 PM |
| 64 | Have men always been so bad?Oh no, it does not take until 20 years old, these young boys are starting out with violent porn! My friend's son is 10 and she found he was watching rape porn. 10 YEARS OLD!!! There is no softcore porn anymore, it's all vile and violent these days and this is what little boys are being exposed to day after day after day. Also the porn will continue to get more extreme and violent as we have a whole generation just STARTING on the most vile porn imaginable, can you imagine what they are going to … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 04:39 PM |
| 33 | Former Sex Worker Discusses Repulsive ClientsSo true. I had an ex once tell me every single one of his friends all went to hookers on the regular. They were all guys with good jobs, good looking and had wives, girlfriends and kids. It was at that moment I realized men aren't worth my time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 02:19 PM |
| 7 | Former Sex Worker Discusses Repulsive ClientsMe too! I don't even make eye contact with men anymore. I'm so repulsed at what I know about them and the disgusting things they feed their brains on a daily basis. I'm not even attracted to them anymore knowing what I know. Especially thanks to this sub for my daily reminder of why I remain single. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/02/21 02:13 PM |
| 29 | beware of men that aren't over their EX and the subtle ways they let you knowI had live access to my exe's gmail, and I was snooping in his drafts and found he was writing his ex an email. He was telling her how much he missed her and how no matter what he would always love her and all this sentimental crap. In our entire relationship I never got a heartfelt message like that. I was so mad, I texted him right away and told him when he got home we needed to talk and this was serious...so serious that he should start considering another place to live immediately. Funny tha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 01:21 PM |
| 79 | NVM runs over jogger and kills her. His first thought? Take her into a field and sexually abuse her dead body. Men ALWAYS think with their dick....ALWAYS!It's really sad when you hear of men doing stuff like this it's not even surprising or shocking anymore...just another day and another degenerate male doing what males do. And look at him, he's 28??? 28!!! I'm positive no woman has ever been desperate enough to have sex with that, so he had to lose his virginity to a corpse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/02/21 01:07 AM |
| 34 | Car dealership allows men from general public to write obscene and sexual comments about female employee. You can literally be just doing your job and the LVM will gather to be disgusting.These idiot men think they are so witty and hilarious with their porn references and trading in for the new model jokes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/02/21 04:20 PM |
| 15 | Imagine if he'd spent all that time and energy on any other hobby or even cultivating relationships with other humans... what a wasteGracias❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 10:06 AM |
| 123 | Imagine if he'd spent all that time and energy on any other hobby or even cultivating relationships with other humans... what a wasteI can't believe that I live in an age where not only is jerking off to porn so normalized but also something men are actually proud of and celebrate. Just look how funny and edgy this scrote thinks he is. Oh my God all my rape and trafficking tabs are useless now...cuz you know there isn't so much porn on the web that I probably could never watch all of it if I lived a million years. What about muh dick? Ammirite guys?? Hurdurrhurdurr. Ugh...I'm so disgusted with men. Get me off this planet.. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/12/20 02:07 AM |
| 33 | Oh yes please let me donate my whom to fulfill your wishes while your wife sits at home unknowingly. Line up ladies, line up...I'd totally get a pic and any info I could and send it to the wife. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 11:25 PM |
| 26 | i did it! i finally left him!!!Good for you and congrats on your new awesome life! I left my pos narc about 3 months ago. Best decision ever. Best advice I can give is to go total no contact. It speeds up the healing process significantly. I actually deactivated all of my SM so that helped a lot too...now I don't even want to go back to that either ..another waste of my time just like my ex. Take care and give us an update in a few months. Come here if you need encouragement. We're here for you! Much love and peace to you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 07:00 PM |
| 79 | This comment thread reminded me why reddit is a terrible place for advice. This woman got cheated on and some of the comments are advising her to go to counseling before considering divorce. FDS would never.🙄Let's also remember this is probably the first time he got caught. NOT the first time he's cheated. Guaranteed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/12/20 03:32 PM |
| 10 | I’m so fucking tired of this shit.Gross. Idiot actually finds a woman that will have his ugly ass and he thanks her by cheating on her...or trying to anyway. Another reason I never give ugly men a chance. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 12:09 PM |
| 31 | I’m so fucking tired of this shit.I want the story here! Was this from a dating app? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/12/20 02:49 AM |
| 17 | Sunk Cost Fallacy in full effectI thought the same thing | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/12/20 01:49 AM |
| 13 | Not disclosing their age? red flag?Men who are willing to start a relationship with a lie will have no problem continuing to lie. Just remember that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 11:49 AM |
| 28 | Anyone else feel significantly less attracted to men because of the existence of porn?Yep...I'm finding most men to be completely undatable. I'll take my beautiful single life, in my tastefully decorated clean apartment with my cat and my peace of mind any day. I'm already picky in the first place and find most men unattractive..but add on that most men are now pornsick and that rules pretty much all of them out. I'm okay with that though, I like being alone and almost every woman I know who is not single is dealing with a pornsick man and they are all miserable. I've had too man… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 11:41 AM |
| 35 | PrettyScale - JustScroteThingzNot only should you never send nudes..but apparently now the rule is you should never send a picture at all! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 08:00 PM |
| 21 | FDS approved guide to buying Christmas gifts for men?4 months? Nothing. Maybe a little card with a very short sentiment. I was in a so-called commited relationship living together. Got him a very nice gift and found him receiving nudes from some whore the next day. Save your efforts of picking out and giving a nice gift to the women in your life. Men don't care and they certainly don't appreciate it. Don't spend more than5 bucks if you do get him something. Oh that reminds me of another ex of mine. We were together for almost a year. I was so exci… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 07:56 PM |
| 33 | A very apt rebuttal to the recent terrible New Yorker cover (NSFW but tried to censor a bit)This is awesome! Great work! You really captured the true essence of the typical single male. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 01:52 PM |
| 100 | A very apt rebuttal to the recent terrible New Yorker cover (NSFW but tried to censor a bit)And the jizz all over the keyboard 🤣 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/12/20 01:49 PM |
| 13 | 46, but not ready for commitment LOLOr he's married | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 11:24 AM |
| 110 | The comments on this are so sad...I wish I had known sooner in my younger life or had been taught that if you are uncomfortable with porn use, you absolutely have every right to feel that way and for it to be a valid reason to run...not walk away from your relationshit. Ladies... especially you younger girls...if you tell your SO that you don't want porn in your relationship and he continues to watch it...this is emotional ABUSE! You need to leave the minute he breaks your boundary. No second chances because trust me they have n… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 11:11 AM |
| 23 | Love when men stalk your reddit profile just to comment abusive stuff on all your posts because you post here. It only further proves our point!This is the reason I have ALL messaging on here blocked. I have a life and no time for such nonsense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 10:31 AM |
| 42 | To barbara the builders this is your future, the minute he is better off you are disposed off as used cumrag for whatever reason.And here we have reason #57890 of why you don't give men information about your past sexual experiences or trauma. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 10:27 AM |
| 40 | Peak male depravity and porn sickness.I'm not! I'm seeing men these days have no shame with their porn consumption. They encourage each other and don't even try to hide their depravity anymore. I also saw on reddit, where they jerk off together now, jerk off buddies they are called. Every day I get less and less attracted to men. If this is the depravity I have to deal with, I'm good alone for the rest of my life. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 03:10 PM |
| 9 | This RIDICULOUS New Yorker Cover is SUPPOSED TO BE an accurate reflection of today's modern woman and her love life. The cover is called " Love Life" and the illustrator's name is Adrian Tomine...Idiot doesn't even know how to draw. Look at her legs...I can't even make out what he did there with the flip flop and the leg, and who has a knee like that, what a mess! Her apartment is cleaner than his stupid drawing. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/12/20 02:56 PM |
| 20 | My friend she wouldn’t mind being casually proposed to while doing dishes or taking out garbage - I hope I never get to this pointI had an ex propose to me in the kitchen next to the toaster oven while eating a chicken wing. I declined that heartfelt super romantic moment..he was just toooo good for me haha. Well we broke up and he ended up stalking me for a year. He would call my job...show up at my job...follow me to lunch etc. It was a terrifying time. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/12/20 09:58 PM |
| 36 | Watch for their actions not their words.Wow I think we dated the same guy. I did the same thing with my ex for almost three years. I'm about 3 months out of this relationship and I'm still beating myself up for all the paragraphs I wrote to him on basic respect. He'd be sorry, get me flowers, be "good" for a short time and the cycle would repeat. I can't believe how long I stayed with this guy, but dumb me moved in with him which made it harder to leave. But, if there is one lesson I learned...if I even have to set boundaries in the f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/12/20 10:59 AM |
| 4 | The "phone thing"Unpopular opinion but I'm all about checking their phones. I think most of us here would not cheat in a relationship..but the thing is most men do if they have the chance. As much as some of you don't want to believe it, but it's true and men need to be spied on for our own protection. I refuse to live in the dark. Men will hide a whole nother ass family on their phones. I don't t trust any of them...but that's just me. 🤷 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 10:59 PM |
| 35 | LVM: the “poor me, I fucked up, I feel so bad!” Routine!It's funny that men never need to communicate to us on how to be decent human beings...because normal people automatically know how to treat people with respect. I learned the hard way, but if you need to teach someone how to treat you with respect that's a convo not worth having. Just walk away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 10:30 PM |
| 122 | Consensual abuse is not sexy.Maybe next time a guy tells you he's into this stuff tell him you are too, but you have a kink for ball torture and shoving a giant dildo up their ass. Watch how fast they they'll nope out. Yet us women are expected to be okay with being abused and tortured during sex. Why aren't they okay being on the receiving end? You know why? Because they know it's degrading, disrespectful, and hurtful and that's why they get pleasure out of it....but they would never put their own selves through that for a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 01:14 PM |
| 152 | SCROTES join violence against women forum on Zoom — and masturbate and play porn.From the article: "How ironic,” she said on Twitter Tuesday. “We were putting on a forum about violence against women, and various men began calling us whores and masturbating on camera. This is what it’s like to be a woman in Mexico.”. Ugh I have no words how disgusted this makes me. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 12:38 AM |
| 137 | SCROTES join violence against women forum on Zoom — and masturbate and play porn.This happened in Mexico where I live. Women can't even have a zoom meeting to protest violence without degenerate pornsick SCROTES taking over their space. This makes me so sick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/11/20 12:26 AM |
| 79 | We need more mothers like thisShe needs to make sure he hasn't already installed cameras elsewhere like in the bathroom. I don't put anything past these pervs. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 08:04 PM |
| 11 | People really think "communication" is going to help herThis was my first thought too having experienced it first hand. I think of it this way...if I was lusting after thousands of hot guys with perfect bodies on the daily...no matter who I was with they would start to seem pretty average or even unattractive at some point when I have at my disposal at any time I want all the hot bodies I want. It really does destroy their brains and any ability to see the beauty in the woman they are with. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 03:13 PM |
| 11 | 6 baby mamas and looking for “the right woman and the right time”I can already see his future...a broke ass scrote paying 18 years of child support to a half a dozen or more baby moms. Why would any of these women WANT to settle down with him? 🤣 What a loser. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 03:06 PM |
| 37 | TriggeredThis is from Ace Ventura lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/11/20 03:01 PM |
| 23 | I'm FREE- they don't change but you can change your life!Congrats girl on your freeedom! I just left a LVM too who coincidentally was a hoarder and had many unfinished projects too. I love my clean uncluttered new condo and the peace I have. Although I'm still struggling with the break up, I remind myself every day that his actions had nothing to do with who I am but who HE is. He can be someone else's problem now. I'm free. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 07:35 PM |
| 62 | Women should never be collateral damage for men's bullshit. Why the prospect of a man changing is not a happy endingI'm living proof that the more chances you give them the more they will continue to disrespect you. They will not change. They don't want to. The only thing they will get better at is lying and deceiving. I wish I would have left the first time he disrespected me. Lesson learned though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/11/20 07:23 PM |
| 43 | Imagine feeling this entitled to women's bodiesI swear to God seeing shit like this makes me never want to leave my house. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 07:37 PM |
| 7 | Post on r/ trashy. You should see the comments. Such a young boy already saying "she wanted it". And they find it all funny, the comnents are so disgusting, I have completely lost hope in men.Well most kids these days have cell phones and porn on demand at any time of the day or night. And even if they don't have a phone they have friends who do and most of them are watching porn due to the ease of access EVERYWHERE. I read that boys as young as 8 are already porn addicted. It's really sad and horrifying living in this world now with little boys this young having access to all of the horrific content that is literally available at the press of a button. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 03:56 PM |
| 24 | Post on r/ trashy. You should see the comments. Such a young boy already saying "she wanted it". And they find it all funny, the comnents are so disgusting, I have completely lost hope in men.My God us women can't even feel safe around 9 year old boys. The male species is truly horrifying. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/11/20 02:45 PM |
| 97 | This was a few years ago my LVM ex contacting me months after we broke up (after a 7 year relationship)...he starting dating someone immediately and I subbed here and found you girls. Thank you to all of you who've helped me realize my worth ❤He's just seeing if you'll respond because that means to him you are still thinking of him and aren't over him. He wants to keep you in his harem garage in case the new girl doesn't work out. Don't fall for it or respond. IT'S A TRAP!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 01:49 PM |
| 234 | Preach 🙌🏼Oh Lord if this isn't the truth. I had to think long and hard about all of my friends who are in relationships and I can honestly say not one of those men deserve any of them. They are all either cheaters, in-between jobs (jobless), do nothing around the house, do none of the childcare, misogynists, porn addicts, or a combo of all of the above. I'm truly beginning to come to the realization that being single is a way better deal for women. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/11/20 01:45 PM |
| 8 | There is no such thing as closure. Don’t waste any more time, Queens, and kick him to the curb!and she probably feels like she won't be able to do better at 34, which is terribly sad and untrue. I agree that sunk cost fallacy is part of it as well. Even if she can't find better, which is highly likely only because most men are shit these days (not because of her age), but even if she doesn't find someone better, being alone is still HIGHLY preferable to being in a clown show like this. Give me being alone any day over being with some scrote who takes away every ounce of my dignity and pea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/11/20 06:42 PM |
| 8 | Are you tired of being surprised by rape scenes and movies and TV shows? This website allows women to check if there is rape or other sexual violence in a movie before watching!What's disgusting is these scenes are made for men's viewing pleasure. I don't know any women that enjoy watching these scenes or don't feel uneasy viewing them. Sadly men will use this database to find sick scenes to watch instead of avoid. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 02:52 PM |
| 2 | John Gray in his ted talk explains that studies showed than women’s stress level is higher than those of men in a relationship (4x more at home to be exact). This is insane. If your relationship brings you stress, stay single ! No one In Nature is able to survive to long term stress .If he was obsessed with porn he wasn't loyal. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/11/20 11:51 AM |
| 17 | The majority of the comments used her mental illness against her and barely anyone told her to be careful. They jumped straight to making excuses for hin. If its a joke, it's not funny at all. There are better ways to spend your time. Yeah...I'm scared of men.Just binge watch for a day the youtube channel 'crime watch daily' and you'll find she has every valid reason in the world to think this. Men are not rational nor can they think beyond their immediate emotions. You wanna bet if she is mentally ill he's the reason for it? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 08:52 PM |
| 92 | Dude is embarrassed because his wife carried his child 🙄Another pornsick loser who thinks women's bodies shouldn't and dont change after child birth. She just spent the last 9months of her life carrying this a**holes baby and this is the way he shows his love and appreciation. Oh no muh penis wasn't expecting stretch marks. 🙊🦍🐒🐵🙈 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 08:46 PM |
| 10 | Just a little something to brighten up yall’s day ☺️☺️😆😆Yep and then go jerk off to them | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 12:00 PM |
| 49 | Just a little something to brighten up yall’s day ☺️☺️😆😆I would possibly take him out for a walk at the park or in a local field though. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 11:59 AM |
| 12 | No more red flags for me.Good job! Enjoy your free and peaceful life. That piece of trash never deserved you. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 12:35 AM |
| 76 | Perfect response!FALSE! Life is the longest thing you'll ever do. (Don't send that text) | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/11/20 12:28 AM |
| 48 | Heck yes!! I love seeing people stand up and say no to memes that objective woman’s bodies. :)Ugh this triggered me. My last ex was a freaking 42 year old manboy and I got a hold of him and his friends group chat on WhatsApp. It would make your eyes bleeeed with the disgusting misogynistic memes and gifs they were passing around on a daily and almost hourly basis. This meme is nothing compared to what these men share on the daily with each other. This is how they bond by degrading women. If you think your man ain't doing it...I can almost guarantee he's good at hiding it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 07:28 PM |
| 197 | How to deal with men talking to youWhat was he wearing? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 07:21 PM |
| 14 | Story of a liarThis sums up my last relationship | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/20 10:57 AM |
| 48 | No 50/50 birthdayGive us the update after you dump his cheap ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Feel free to brag about your SO/partner below. What are some green flags you've seen in your relationships?Sounds like a relationship with a woman | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 09:11 PM |
| 42 | Anyone else seen this self righteous narc on the bachelor?Oh wow and all the comments defending him. Even worse the pickmeeees comments. Disgusting. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/11/20 09:04 PM |
| 23 | Broke up with BF bcs of OnlyFansRight? If I only have the choice between being single or be with a pornsick loser...I'll take being single forever hands down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/11/20 10:44 PM |
| 3 | It’s my friend’s birthday. I got her some little gifts and I’m taking her out to a nice restaurant (that I found and picked and I will pay for our meal) She’s an amazing person and I want to make her feel special on her day 💗Yep! Just got out of a relationship a few months ago and I always got him thoughtful gifts. There was this watch he really wanted and I saved up my money by working overtime and got it for him for his birthday. The next day I see a text go off on his phone, and it was some whore who he had previously told me was "just a friend" sending him nudes. I told him right there to give me my watch back. The audacity is unbelievable. Never again will I ever put that much thought or effort into a gift for … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/10/20 03:38 PM |
| 74 | It’s my friend’s birthday. I got her some little gifts and I’m taking her out to a nice restaurant (that I found and picked and I will pay for our meal) She’s an amazing person and I want to make her feel special on her day 💗This is so nice! Better to spend our money on the women in our lives where at least we know they will appreciate it. You do something nice like this for a guy, they not only don't appreciate your effort, but they'll cheat on you the next day. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/10/20 11:21 PM |
| 19 | But if I say "respect me and don't watch porn" my standards are too high 🙄🙄He wants 18 to 19 when even the 50 year olds don't want him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/10/20 07:19 PM |
| 59 | Obvi? I just got back on tinder and after FDS I digress. Hard.It's also a breeding ground for rapists. Just watched this documentary on Tinder and hard pass. https://youtu.be/IFFTMfp5iQo | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/10/20 03:15 PM |
| 36 | I felt this in my soul.Me too. Today after work I went up to my rooftop pool at my condo overlooking the ocean...had a fizzy gin drink with a good friend and had some hearty laughs. Then later made myself filet mignon with homemade chimichurri sauce and sauteed broccoli. Now I'm laying in my luxurious comfy king bed cuddling with my cat watching true crime stories. After just leaving an abusive relationship 2 months ago I cannot tell you how much I am loving my peace and singleness. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/10/20 02:22 AM |
| 18 | An ex hit me up to “check-in” with me and see how I am doing. Check-in for what? What am I, a fucking hotel?Just another narcissist looking for some supply | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 03:46 PM |
| 251 | No one wants your used up Cheeto chodeThey also get shorter due to the constant jackhammering. FACTS. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/10/20 05:20 PM |
| 3 | The torture, rape and murder of Junko Furuta. The men who did it are walking free today after mostly 6-9 year prison sentencesI read about her story years ago and it still haunts me to this day. It's probably the worst crime I've ever read about. I felt so sick after hearing her story and cried for her. Poor Junko. I believe there is a hell...and those men will all get their punishment eventually. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/10/20 01:24 AM |
| 7 | Please RUN when a guy says he has mostly female friends. He doesn't have mostly female friends. He has mostly PICKMEISHA friends!!I just got out of an almost 3 year relationship because of this. He swore up and down these were just friends. Then I saw a random text come in from one of the random friends....it was a nude. Beforehand he was telling me they were old friends from back in the day..nothing is going on etc. He made me feel like I was being jealous and irrational. My gut was right all along!! Not only that I found more stuff from more "just friends"... Broke my heart. I wish I would have left at the first red flag… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/10/20 10:06 PM |
| 128 | Excuse me, what the actual f*ck?And I betcha he adores her and has been faithful the whole time. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/10/20 07:21 PM |
| 18 | Why do men think it’s OK to watch porn in public?!I hate this his world so much. The way men share this stuff like they are trading baseball cards...I'm convinced there is no hope anymore for women trying to find a decent man. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/10/20 08:34 PM |
| 10 | Just saw this on PPD and it honestly scares me that probably most men think this way. This whole thread is grossI can't tell you how many men have told me that their married friends all see prostitutes behind their wives backs. Happy looking couples/families too where you would not expect the man would ever cheat. This happens way more than you might think. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 09:52 PM |
| 19 | Murder Red Flags: If you have experienced these, you are at higher risk of being murdered.The scary part is they can show NONE of these red flags and still kill you | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 09:20 PM |
| 29 | Fuck dudes I’m not dating againOh I totally have PTSD after this relationship. My therapist told me that was what I was experiencing.... specifically betrayal trauma which has almost identical symptoms to PTSD. The abuse I endured from this guy was horrific. I literally never want another man in my life again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 07:26 PM |
| 146 | Fuck dudes I’m not dating againWas with my ex for almost 3 years. Got a random text on FB while we were on vacation together from one of his exes asking me if I could give her his address as she hadn't seen him since he went to an ultrasound appointment with her. She needed his address so her lawyer could send him child support papers. The kid at this point was like 2 years old already and he basically ghosted her after he went to that ultrasound appt with her. Him and his whole family had me convinced that this woman was cra… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/10/20 03:01 PM |
| 21 | Found on fbMy ex narc basically stole all of his misogynistic jokes from standup comedians. No jokes he ever made were original. I found it interesting that he would laugh the hardest whenever a comedian would talk about cheating and how all men do it and if they say they don't they're lying. I asked him why that was so funny to him...he of course gave me the iTs jUsT a jOkE lighten up line. So I said if a comedian was joking about being a pedophile would that be funny too? He literally just turned it arou… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/10/20 06:49 PM |
| 7 | This is why the six month period before declaring someone a HVM is a MINIMUM. Strap in ladies, this is fun.Wow this was me 4 weeks ago! I found some shady shit on his phone and let him guess what it was...he ended up admitting way more than I knew. Im so ashamed of myself that I didn't leave at the first red flag. Here I was almost 3 years later a complete mental mess because he gaslighted me to the point I thought I was the crazy one. This man had a whole harem of whores he was Communicating with that were "just friends" who happened to send unsolicited unwanted nudes! I was told they are stalking h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 04:27 PM |
| 58 | Anyone else completely okay with being single forever?The grass is greenest where you water it. This! Sadly most men have no concept of this. I just walked out of an almost 3 year relationship. Thought he was the one but found out I was just one of many. He thought sexting other women on whatsapp that were just friends wasn't cheating.. cuz u you know I've known them forever and they are married! They just send me nudes without me asking! Yeah I'm good by myself. I don't know any guys that aren't depraved like this and I'm not willing to go through… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 03:21 AM |
| 84 | Reminder: not even animals are safe from male depravity and porn sickness. How a man treats vulnerable animals/ others is a signifier of how he’ll treat you.My ex used to make weird sexual comments about animals too which made me realize how pornsick he was. We were watching a video on youtube with a kitten and a bunch of puppies playing and he said something like that cats gonna get gangbanged. I'm like umm what? Why would that thought even cross your mind you sick perv. Then we got a female cat and she went into heat and he would make lewd comments like she's craving some dick etc. He did this all the time and I'd call him out but of course I was … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/20 11:25 PM |
| 18 | I rejoined online dating yesterday and it all came flooding back to me just how ugly and unkempt men are.Because they are all pornsick. They see the ugliest grossest guys getting hot girls and they truly believe that hot women and all women for that matter don't care about what they look like. They believe no effort needs to take place and we are all just foaming at the mouth for any disgusting scrote. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/09/20 01:36 PM |
| 18 | The pain of realising I was brainwashed and finally breaking freeHe wasn't going to Thailand to find himself...he was going to Thailand to find underage girls to rape. Bye Paul. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 10:05 PM |
| 24 | Relating FDS to Christian Values in Regards to Dating and MarriageI'm so sorry you had to deal with a husband like this. My pastor who is such a great man explained it like this. The bible says several times for husbands to love their wives. It never says for a woman to love her husband but says to respect their husbands. He explained that if you don't love your wife you can't expect her to respect or submit to you. It's that simple. We respect a man that loves and cherishes us. Love is not cheating. Love is not being ignored or dismissed. Love is not being un… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 01:40 PM |
| 52 | Jesus Christ men are SICK. I know that the op is a sex worker but its still terrifying! What those men are even thinking? Shes literally getting assaultedCorrection....they are paying for rape. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 11:46 AM |
| 19 | I know he fuckin’ lyin’ 😂😂😂😂Haha I knew I recognized this guy's face! He apparently went to hell and he says it is verified by God. Youtube video here: https://youtu.be/WHmqfURaIw8 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/09/20 12:55 AM |
| 34 | breaking up with my bf for texting his exI just broke up with my ex of almost 3 years because of the same thing...and many other things also. Told him I was uncomfortable with him being friends with his ex on social media...took him 6 months to finally remove her. Next I found an I miss you letter to her in his email drafts. He convinced me he wasn't gonna send it. Ugh...I know. Next I was looking through his contacts and found her in a man's name on his whatsapp but the picture was hers. What a dumbass. He tried to explain that one aw… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 07:44 PM |
| 110 | There are men out there proposing like this. Yet, Pickmeisha over there still claims to love her onion ring and ‘wouldn’t want it any other way’, because TrUe lOvE. Quick reminder that if a man truly loves you, he will put effort in such a special moment.After I got divorced I met a man that proposed to me after 2 years. Do you know how he proposed? In my kitchen...standing up near the toaster oven chewing on a chicken wing. I kid you not. I said no. 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/20 02:19 PM |
| 3 | This makes me sick to my stomachIdk..because this stuff happened outside of school too. That time in life is so hard for girls no matter what. I had a friend in an all girls school and she was bullied relentlessly and hated her experience there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 09:01 PM |
| 8 | This makes me sick to my stomachThis was me too. I developed really early and had boys at my school constantly grabbing my boobs. It happened all the time..in the halls, at lunch, in the library... everywhere. I had disgusting teachers that would lear at my chest and make me sit in the front of their desks so they could stare. It was an awful time of my life and I still feel traumatized by it. I would come home from school and put ice packs on my chest for hours in hopes I could shrink my boobs down! I was only 11 or 12! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 08:51 PM |
| 20 | Get yourself a man that cooks for you > a man that buys you fast foodMy last boyfriend was a fabulous cook who cooked every meal for me...he also studied massage therapy but practiced law. He gave me massages daily and especially when I was on my period he always took care of me. However...he is now my ex as he had a problem not being able stay away from sexting his female "just friends".. I put up with his shit for too long because he was good to me in front of my face but was a big flirt with every attractive woman behind my back per the evidence I found in his… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 08:40 PM |
| 10 | OP catches her 15 year old brother masturbating in her panties, wonders if she should tell her parents, comments say no and that it’s not a big deal.In my last days with my ex...I was going through his pics on his phone and found a picture of my panties. The pic was taken after we had sex for the first time... found this pic like 2 years later and I also never saw those panties again. Btw...he was in his late 30s so I guess they never grow out of their sick fetishes...they just get worse. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 05:21 PM |
| 25 | The FWB I Pretended Wasn't Complete Garbage 🤡Haha the TLC strange addiction guy who was in love with his car😂😂I should have added that one to my collage | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/20 02:14 AM |
| 14 | A HVM will cut off contact with their ex if it makes you uncomfortableThe difference is women can be just friends with their exes...men however cannot be just friends with their exes. The only reason they keep their exes around is in the hopes of still getting to sleep with them again one day... narcissistic supply. Men cannot be just friends with women...ESPECIALLY their exes. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/09/20 06:30 PM |
| 6 | Sex “experts” say that porn usage can be healthy and even beneficial in relationships...Yes so healthy that it has ruined every single relationship I've been in. Not to mention how many of my friend's and family member's relationships it has ruined also. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/09/20 01:14 PM |
| 44 | 🤢🤢 Imagine playing along with literal pedophilia.... “But besides that he’s great!”Other than him being a pedophile our relationship is PERFECT!!! 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/09/20 04:51 PM |
| 3 | And that’s why you have to leave these cowards at the first sign of disrespect. You’re in for a ride if you don’t.And just another reminder of why you don't move in together before marriage | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/09/20 10:46 PM |
| 7 | For a 37 year old scrote who claims to be having the time of his life sexually, he sure devotes a lot of time to writing about us on his blog. 🧐 (6 total screenshots)I wish I was as smart as you when I was 17! It would have saved me so many years of heartache. Good for you girl! Make sure you try to get through to as many of your friends that you can. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 04:39 PM |
| 22 | For a 37 year old scrote who claims to be having the time of his life sexually, he sure devotes a lot of time to writing about us on his blog. 🧐 (6 total screenshots)These pornsick scrotes are so brain dead they literally don't know how to distinguish reality from fantasy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 04:37 PM |
| 13 | For a 37 year old scrote who claims to be having the time of his life sexually, he sure devotes a lot of time to writing about us on his blog. 🧐 (6 total screenshots)Right on! I have no idea what men are talking about in their subs because I simply don't CARE. I can't imagine spending my time stalking their subs then writing about how butt hurt I am over their views. I can't imagine ever being so delusional and EMOTIONAL! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 04:33 PM |
| 21 | If your man won’t let you look through his phone, he has something to hideTotally agree. I always was against this until I decided my gut was trying to tell me something. And wow was I right! Porn, cheating, sexts, contacts in men's names of exes, nudes from all the women he SWORE were "just friends" and I was CRAZY for thinking otherwise, pics of women's asses he took out on the street, screenshots of mutual friends in bikinis...the horrifying list goes on and on. Now would I be kind of embarrassed for one to see the contents of my phone? Yeah probably a little bit, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/09/20 02:46 PM |
| 10 | Why do men think stuff like this is going to make us want them? 🙄If he put a clown face on her his statement would be more accurate | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 11:35 PM |
| 64 | I joined this subreddit not because I'm looking for a HVM, but because this is a safe space for women calling men out on their bullshit unapologetically.Me too girl. I'm here to be reminded every day of the degeneracy of men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 10:04 PM |
| 24 | Can men and women be just friends?I believe women can be just friends with men. I however do not believe that men can be just friends with women. Sorry ladies men don't think like us no matter how much you want to believe your man is one of the good ones that can handle a platonic relationship...I've seen enough instances in my life of women trusting their husbands with other females alone and it has never ended well. You also have to look at the moral character of the woman here and what are HER intentions. I would not feel com… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 03:51 PM |
| 44 | Nothing but factsI can confirm this. I got a hold of an old phone my ex boyfriend let me borrow. He didn't know he still had all of his whatsapp chats still on there. All of his friends were sending nasty porn of their wives and girlfriends etc. Even his BOSS at the law firm he worked at was sending this shit. He had tons of group chats also with other men where degrading memes and porn was the main topic. He was even exchanging this crap with his family members. I thought he was such a nice wholesome guy. I'll … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/20 12:35 AM |
| 61 | Julius Fucking Caesar.I just can't anymore with these degenerates. The world would be better without them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/09/20 07:09 PM |
| 17 | It really doesn't matter what you wear or how much or little you cover up yourself. Men's depravity is never your faultWow! This is so depraved and disgusting. Makes me believe that if men in every country could get away with doing this they all would do it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 09:40 PM |
| 27 | Is it possible to find a porn-free man, who I fancy and who will take me on dates?Sorry to tell you this but the only way you can truly know is if you get a hold of their phone without them knowing. If you straight up ask them and they know you are against it, they will lie. If you tell them you are cool with it, then they are justified to use it. You need to act neutral about it and check it for yourself. I always say don't judge a man by the content of his skin color...judge him by the content in his phone. It's sad it has to be this way these days but we all know it's true… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 05:00 PM |
| 36 | Hollywood big shot started an acting school. Married one of his students when she was 16 and he 51.She's famous now for all of her pedophelic tweets she deleted recently. Her tweets were absolutely disgusting and horrifying and I'm truly afraid for her children. In one of them she said something about a BABY looking like a pornstar...a pornstar that would do anything type of pornstar amongst many more sick things. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/09/20 01:23 PM |
| 184 | What the fuck makes old men think they're a catch and they stand a chance ?It's porn. Porn tells them they are entitled to women half their age and that young women want them...even when they have absolutely NOTHING a 20 year old woman wants or desires, they fill their porn fried brains with the notion that all young women are craving their gross crusty bodies...and when they don't respond like they do in porn they can't understand why. The delusion is strong. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/08/20 05:03 PM |
| 13 | What's the last reason you rejected a guy for?I was dating this guy for a few months and he took a trip to Switzerland. He sent me a picture of himself in a towel at the "spa" he was visiting. I googled the name on the towel and found out it was a swingers club. Well, that was the end of that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 10:00 PM |
| 68 | Why do men do this, it really irritates me. If you know you're not ready for a relationship or don't want one with her, then just leave her alone. Don't string a woman along just to feed your ego.Because of lack of morals, lack of values, lack of integrity, lack of empathy, lack of valuing women as human beings. It's that simple | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 08:30 PM |
| 54 | I’m a big fan of doing what you want, but stepping back and seeing the rising amount of $ made off of women to fit popular beauty standards is unsettling when you think of where these ideas are coming from in the first place.Imagine how many industries would go out of business if women didn't find it necessary or pressured to objectify themselves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 06:41 PM |
| 3 | Why on earth on are teenagers worried about this shit....oh wait I know. Breaks my heart : /Ugh, I can only imagine all the nasty pedophile pervs that lurk on that sub | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/08/20 06:31 PM |
| 5 | Would counseling work?I think you should leave him, but if you are dead set on trying to make this work then you need to set up clear boundaries and follow through on the consequences if he violates your boundaries. The first thing you need to tell him is that porn, ANY porn has no part in your relationship with him. Tell him you respect his wishes to keep using it if he wants, but you will not tolerate being in a relationship with someone that uses porn and if you ever find evidence to the contrary you are fully rea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 05:14 PM |
| 6 | SupportThat last meme he sent you tells you everything you need to know about him. He hates women and he hates you. He was using you, and I know you know this. But what he sent was him telling you who he really is. A misogynist POS. Believe him | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 04:44 PM |
| 43 | How to vet his friends• degrading talks about women. Even if it seems only slightly degrading, it is probably worse when no woman is there. And yes, even though your partner isn’t participating in these convos, he does so when you’re not there with him. No one can passively disengage in such environments for years. THIS!! I dated someone that acted like he cared so much about women and respected them. Always talked highly about his mom and sisters. Was so chivalrous and a complete gentleman to me and every woman he c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 03:15 PM |
| 19 | “Some Women Like It” is not a blanket excuse to justify all the depraved & abusive pornography you fap to. We know those women, & they’re damaged from histories of sexual trauma. Stop pretending you give a fuck about them. Just admit you like masturbating to Rape & Child Sexual Abuse Victims and Go.And even if they are "consensual" you can bet most of them are coerced into "consent". So basically IF the woman is being paid (and a lot of them are not, as there is SO much trafficking going on), she is most likely doing things she didn't initially sign up to do, and is being coerced and bullied into things she didn't consent to initially, as I have read so many stories of this being the standard of what happens. So regardless, these men are just watching women "consenting" to being raped by c… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/08/20 03:06 PM |
| 6 | Women are more likely to stay in marriage when their spouse is ill, yet men are more likely to leave if their bangmaid is too sick to put out anymoreJust look how popular incest porn is now, trust me, they don't even value their own daughters. All women to these sick fucks are fair game, they even sexualize their own daughter. It's prob the main reason this guy wants to have sex with a college age girl...he's been perving on his own family. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/08/20 06:34 PM |
| 181 | Women are more likely to stay in marriage when their spouse is ill, yet men are more likely to leave if their bangmaid is too sick to put out anymoreSo he wants to go find a girl that is younger than his own daughters to have sex with....but don't worry almost dying wife...she won't mean anything to me other than being a sex toy. I wonder if he'd be okay with his daughters sleeping with a man his age being nothing more than a sex toy? It's so disgusting that men can't see women for being anything more than something to wet their dicks with. No compassion, no empathy...completely void of a soul. This is so sad and sickening. The entitlement i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/20 08:25 PM |
| 3 | Men of Reddit: “Daily porn use is the only thing that stops me from raping women”So watching other men rape most likely trafficked women and children through a screen keeps you from raping women. How ethical of him. The logic of these pornsick wackos is unfathomable. Men will literally do anything to justify their porn usage. They don't give a crap about the dark side of the industry, the trafficked women and children, the horrific abuse, rape, and violation of human rights. As long as they can jerk off to as much depraved content that their chafed dicks desire then it's all… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 10:44 PM |
| 4 | Young Scrots perpetuating pornsickness as normal and the Pickmieshas in the comments are celebrating.wow, his mother must be proud. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 04:38 PM |
| 22 | Males who Frequently Watch Porn More Likely to Experience EDThis is old news...and just one of the MANY MANY reasons FDS does not support dating men that watch porn in any capacity. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/07/20 08:23 PM |
| 4 | Is the anticipated “more intricately woven band” also made of scrote hair?Oh my your comment made me giggle | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/06/20 04:16 PM |
| 4 | I am still not over the shock that had I stated this would have been my future. Married to a fucking pedophile.Hell yeah! That's what I would do too, there is no communicating anymore at that point. Get your sh** outta my house, there is nothing else to say or do, there is no communication that needs to take place. You are are predator and I want you away from my child, also I would make sure anyone else in the neighborhood with children would be aware of what just took place. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/06/20 01:11 AM |
| 30 | Waitress isn't playing around with sexual harassmentPublic freakout? More like public JUSTICE | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/06/20 05:54 PM |
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