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I've heard it used by a woman, but mostly lesbians being mean to gays because they have more fun and they think they wear the trousers. In my experience, it's mainly used by immature men who are frightened of a situation where someone is badly hurt or because they don't know how to show sympathy. Funny how people can see it so differently :S
/r/MensRights16/10/10 09:42 PM
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If it's about pain threshold, shouldn't the phrase be "ballerina up"?
/r/MensRights16/10/10 09:38 PM
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the standards of a man If "man up" is supposed to mean being stoic and industrious (or some variation), I far more often meet older women who fit this bill than men of any age. Some young women I meet would never fit this character, but the point is that this isn't a male standard - it's a human standard and people of whatever gender have it or don't.
/r/MensRights16/10/10 09:32 PM
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Boo! Answer it here! Copy-paste other relevant posts if you have to! I'm not gonna subscribe to another subreddit based on a premis you haven't fully justified when there's a stonking interesting exchange going on here. XP
/r/MensRights22/06/10 08:34 AM
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Oh I was just trying to get you to say more because I am interested and wasn't yet clear on all the details. I think I am fairly clear now tho :). I think I have very similar prejudices. I'm mistrustful and critical of a certain category of male gender. Among other things, I resent their exuberant expression of their sexuality, which is a freedom I envy (I try to destigmatise LGBetc where I can, but I'll happily be closeted in certain situations if it makes my life livable). I think I keep quite…
/r/MensRights21/06/10 10:22 PM
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distrust and disappointment with how most males just naturally are. I still don't entirely get what you mean by this. At a guess, you don't like men who talk about womanising a lot/ are aggressive/ drink a lot? It's not really healthy to dislike and distrust large sections of humanity, that's true. But it can be pretty difficult to 'hate the sin but love the sinner'. I guess you are either having trouble doing that or you think the sin you picked is not actually a sin?
/r/MensRights21/06/10 08:18 PM
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What makes you say that?
/r/MensRights21/06/10 09:00 AM
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Did you change your opinion based on the comments here, then?
/r/MensRights20/06/10 08:33 AM
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Ignore Jayhammers. His opinions of the 'natural female role' are not really relevant to this thread. Personally, I would be critical of films like that too, but not so much The Jungle Book, because it's a colonialist-era story which accurately represents the culture of the time/place. It messes with the original story a fair bit though :/
/r/MensRights20/06/10 08:32 AM
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Also, buzz and woody were pretty good and strong characters, also presenting positive qualities You may find them to be entertaining, worthwhile characters, but they are not effective real-world characters. They're Toys! They would be identified with children more than real adult men. They also, in the first two films, represent negative supposed masculine qualities, like jealousy and conceit.
/r/MensRights20/06/10 08:15 AM
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Well the problem with the banning is that the silent downvoters get overlooked while the very reasonable yet dissenting commenters get vilified and banned.
/r/MensRights20/06/10 08:09 AM
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I'm in agreement with jayhammers. I'm lead to believe from certain quarters that this makes me a bad, woman-hating type of person, so I'll qualify that I don't think you should screen everything your child watches. Phew! ;) I've not seen this film either tho... For some reason, we're not very critical of children's media. We expect them to rehash according to formulaic societal values. More socially unconventional stories (like the Grimm Fairytales, with murder and violence etc) get minced by Ho…
/r/MensRights19/06/10 06:54 AM
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No one raindrop thinks it caused the flood.
/r/MensRights19/06/10 06:39 AM
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You do seem to give off a male vibe. Gender Guesser says male :S
/r/MensRights13/06/10 01:03 PM
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You've really lost your credibility as a mod in my opinion Seconded
/r/MensRights12/06/10 09:55 PM
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Hey. Sorry for the slow reply - I just finished a bunch of exams and decided to ban myself from Reddit during (hopefully paid off). Well I understand that patriarchy is both an assumption that human society has to be hierarchical and a bias that tends to put men and 'male values' at the top. Importantly, it's not necessarily something that specifically benefits men over women per se. Often it will disadvantage individual men (who are lumbered with child support/generally more responsibility/assu…
/r/MensRights05/06/10 08:03 AM
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MRAs should fight for Men's Rights well Proper Feminism, in my experience is not about holding Women's Rights above Men's Rights, even if some off-centre feminists (which could well be the majority of self-proclaimed feminists you have encountered) encourage that view by their words and actions. Neither of these 'Rights' concepts really makes much sense to me. I don't think that either group should have special rights beyond biological fact. I am glad that ideologies countering feminism exist, b…
/r/MensRights05/06/10 07:19 AM
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however, and I'm not sure it's fair to say that it is a universally bias-laden concept By this I meant that not everyone I know uses it in a biassed way and all the feminists I know have been quite reasonable about it (I probably have an unfair sampling on this as they largely are very academic feminists - not 'lay' people jumping on a trendy bandwagon and labelling themselves 'feminist' to couch their sexist views). On the topic of women reinforcing patriarchal systems (like criticising eachoth…
/r/MensRights05/06/10 07:08 AM
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Agree, agree, agree. There is no possible integration here, period. Disagree. I'm fairly sure that Men's Rights is not just about combating feminism and feminism isn't just about demeaning men or propagating a narrow concept of 'patriarchy'. Unless you want a perpetually adversarial dogma to both feminism and men's rights, somethings gonna have to integrate into something. Integration would mean changing both, and they both definitely have rough edges. Maybe rough middles as well...
/r/MensRights31/05/10 09:56 AM
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You don't invite antisemites at an Anti-Defamation League conference Why not?! Aren't these the people you are trying to influence? You might not give them voting rights, but if you've got a light, aren't you supposed to shine it in dark places? Otherwise, you're just creating factions for some kind of war, eh?
/r/MensRights31/05/10 09:42 AM
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This. This is awesomely truthful and interesting. I would quibble with a lot of what you say (eg. 'patriarchy' is a concept which is obviously problematic but under constant review by most of the feminists I know. It should never really be used to explain away an individual's failings, however, and I'm not sure it's fair to say that it is a universally bias-laden concept), but this is impressively constructive and coherent. Why are you not a moderator on this subreddit?
/r/MensRights31/05/10 09:36 AM
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I worked in an 80-20 split in favour of women (a large London hospital). It sucked! ...but I agree that it was a perfectly functional and effective institution. I think she was talking about social wellbeing, rather than business effectiveness. It felt pretty crap, being in the male minority who was capable of discussing something other than kids and pregnancy :/ Bit of a sexist example, but it was unpleasant in other ways too, that are harder to put simply (and certainly pretty impossible to pu…
/r/MensRights31/05/10 09:19 AM
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Do you know, I think that there is enough bullshit among some feminists to warrant harsh criticism. It's pretty ironic and tragic that those proponents of womens rights who get hold of power (in the UK at least) seem to be tossers (or maybe I'm biassed against them because they're politicians...). What I find interesting in this subreddit though, is that where some cultures value criticism/undervaluing of women as a fundamentally masculine trait, some people here seem to value criticism/underval…
/r/MensRights31/05/10 09:08 AM
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tl;dr. I probably agree with your analysis of everything except that I think your argument is really against the linguistics/semantics of feminist theory. . Well clearly you have developed your own intellectual authority by discussing the concept with people (which is good for you and I can respect) but a lot of what you've said does not sit at all well with my experience of the topic from discussion with feminists or direct experience. The way you say that patriarchy doesn't exist anywhere (do …
/r/MensRights31/05/10 08:55 AM
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I don't think everyone is out to usurp power or propagandise. I'm fairly sure that people studying in these areas just want to build up a clear view of the world for themselves and for posterity. Whether or not you want to put inverted commas around "patriarchy", it's something that exists in some form (obviously the shape of it is open to debate). I'm a white, middle class guy (aka The Devil;) saying this, so I'm not just throwing the concept around to try to benefit myself somehow - don't you …
/r/MensRights30/05/10 11:34 PM
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How come I never seem to encounter a Swede who isn't awesome?!
/r/MensRights30/05/10 11:17 PM
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I googled. It says that the claimant cannot be cross-examined by the defendant. Where's the harm in that? People who are accused of rape are allowed a lawyer, right?
/r/MensRights14/05/10 07:00 AM
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Hiya. I'm from the UK and not sure on the laws over there. Would you mind clarifying what makes allegations of rape not work the same way as allegations of other crimes? It sounds like it's allowed to be alleged anonymously? What's with the assumption of guilt? What makes you say that? Is it that the effects of unfounded allegations are almost as bad as a conviction - 'mud sticks'? I don't know about cases of date rape, but when I worked in A+E (ER) in London, we had a fair few people (men and w…
/r/MensRights13/05/10 11:40 PM
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Having a sex change is not working against, disrespecting, etc your body.
/r/MensRights23/04/10 06:23 PM
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Feminists shouldn't be telling us what masculinity is. Apparently they have been. Without having read a word he says, I/we can dismiss his views as unrepresentative of men/masculinity. Wot? I don't think he was ever trying to be a spokesman for mankind. Academic analysis is independent of personal circumstances, or should be. At most you might (having read his work) be able to identify some bias, but not dismiss every comment he has ever made as worthless, which you are implying.
/r/MensRights22/04/10 04:34 PM
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Hooray for you. I would find it hard to be so considered and reasonable in my dismissal of this article. It reads snide and invective to me, filled with negative interpretations and aspersions.
/r/MensRights22/04/10 04:19 PM
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