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Okay good luck
/r/ExRedPill13/07/26 06:36 PM
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Your question is "Am I not seeing something obvious?" and we're trying to tell you, but you're still refusing to see it
/r/ExRedPill13/07/26 06:34 PM
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When any guy approaches you at a bar or makes a move for kiss/asks you back to his place it's gonna make the majority of women uncomfortable This is likely true when the man and woman are. complete. strangers. That's why "cold approaching" is a bad idea. For two people who know each other, maybe have some friends in common, and have developed some chemistry and possible attraction, asking someone out (potentially even going in for a kiss) is not some huge risk it's extremely normal
/r/ExRedPill13/07/26 06:33 PM
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Everybody complains about dating apps At least on a dating app, the people are choosing to put themselves out there. Women should be able to exist in public with men thinking they are putting themselves on display to be hit on
/r/ExRedPill13/07/26 06:27 PM
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"I don't care if I make a lot of women uncomfortable, as long as one woman eventually has sex with me" You seem like a catch
/r/ExRedPill13/07/26 06:24 PM
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Dating apps barely get you any matches What makes you think "cold approaching" is going to be any better? women seemed way more disinterested What makes you think women are interested in a stranger who randomly comes up and hits on them?
/r/ExRedPill13/07/26 06:20 PM
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The effort is participating in a rich social life. It's asking your friends if they have any single friends. Using a dating app. Going to speed dating events
/r/ExRedPill13/07/26 02:11 PM
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People usually just spontaneously kiss, they don't ask for permission, for instance. People don't just go in for a kiss with a complete stranger. If you're kissing someone, you probably have some established romantic or sexual relationship, and spontaneously kissing is not at all a violation of those norms. Cold approaching a complete stranger, where the only thing you have in common is that you are currently existing in the same location, is completely different
/r/ExRedPill13/07/26 02:07 PM
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Sure, a lot of things are harder for some people than others. Regardless "cold approach" is going to have a very very very low success rate
/r/ExRedPill13/07/26 04:13 AM
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Most guys do not have the luxury to wait for someone else to ask them out. That doesn't mean you have to "cold approach" a complete stranger. You could build a social life, actually meet lots of people, and ask someone out after at least a couple of conversations. It is much more natural that way, has a faaarrr higher likelihood of success, and gives you a chance to suss out whether there is mutual interest to begin with
/r/ExRedPill13/07/26 02:52 AM
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In theory there shouldn't be anything wrong with going up to strangers making small talk and asking them for their number/coffee A lot of women do not enjoy being on the receiving end of this. It doesn't feel good when simply existing in public is seen as in invitation to be hit on by someone who knows literally nothing about you other than "she's hot"
/r/ExRedPill13/07/26 12:38 AM
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There a lot of women who don't expect that. Date women who are aligned with you on this
/r/ExRedPill11/07/26 09:39 PM
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And at 16 girls would still date guys with better clothes, a decent build, a better hairstyle Doesn't this go the other way too? People are attracted to who they find attractive. So yes, a guy (or a girl) with a good hairstyle is more good-looking than a guy (or a girl) with a bad hairstyle
/r/ExRedPill05/07/26 07:10 PM
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That's just being single
/r/ExRedPill05/07/26 04:59 PM
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Successful at what?
/r/ExRedPill05/07/26 04:58 PM
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Depends on the guy
/r/ExRedPill05/07/26 04:57 PM
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Explain what I'm missing
/r/ExRedPill05/07/26 03:52 PM
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Do 16 year old girls generally expect 16 year old boys to be extremely financially successful?
/r/ExRedPill04/07/26 03:33 PM
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Once my status and circumstances improved, suddenly the options showed up. I’ve seen both worlds now. What does this mean? You 'didn't have status' or attention from girls at 16. Now you 'have status' and attention from women at 23, right? What "status" could you have had at 16 that would have gotten you attention from girls?
/r/ExRedPill04/07/26 02:27 PM
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What kind of "status" did you want to have when you were 16? What "status" do you have now at 23?
/r/ExRedPill03/07/26 08:52 PM
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Do you feel this way towards fat women, women in wheelchairs, old women, or otherwise "undesirable" women? Or only the ones who are attractive to you?
/r/ExRedPill30/06/26 05:25 PM
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What are "reversed roles"?
/r/ExRedPill20/06/26 08:15 PM
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i saw a person on that sub who was 5 inches in girth/circumference who said in some women he still felt loose Have you ever seen a tampon? Can you explain how you think it works?
/r/ExRedPill31/05/26 12:42 PM
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In my younger years (17-21) I was a low value / status male. A woman my same age was light years ahead of me in life. Most of the years you are talking about are you as a teenager. How advanced or "high value" or whatever is a little teenager supposed to be? What exactly made girls/women your age sooooo far "ahead" of you? You can't think of any struggles they might have been having during that time?
/r/ExRedPill23/05/26 03:00 PM
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Did your life get better because of the red pill, or are you simply not in middle/high school anymore?
/r/ExRedPill22/05/26 10:53 AM
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Good news: the vast majority of women on the planet have never even heard of TwoXChromosomes, let alone posted anything there
/r/ExRedPill14/05/26 09:33 PM
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There are 4 billion women in the world. Each one is an individual person with her own preferences and tastes. I am a woman and I have never been attracted to "rugged" men
/r/ExRedPill05/05/26 03:30 PM
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Those are great things to strive for. What is the problem?
/r/ExRedPill04/05/26 10:51 PM
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What are feminine qualities?
/r/ExRedPill04/05/26 10:35 PM
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A death sentence to your dignity? What? Relax dude it's not that deep
/r/ExRedPill04/05/26 07:59 PM
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Are you saying that you want to acquire a pretty woman to have on your arm in order to impress your college bros? That's your goal in life?
/r/ExRedPill04/05/26 06:45 PM
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Yeah these men are jealous of what they think a (young, conventionally attractive) woman's life is like. Idk any woman who goes to yacht parties or anything even remotely like that
/r/ExRedPill02/04/26 01:58 PM
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That's an interesting take
/r/ExRedPill25/03/26 12:04 AM
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the men would not be settling for their girlfriends so much, because for many men, it would not be that easy to have casual relationships. So they did settle for a girlfriend? Because if they had access to lots of hookups, they would choose that instead?
/r/ExRedPill24/03/26 05:40 PM
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I'm confused because what you're saying in this comment seems like the exact opposite of what you said in this paragraph from the original post: Men seem way less selective than women for casual relationships. Because of that, even if a woman hasn't had many partners, those partners might often be "higher level" in many ways (more attractive, more social, more successful, etc.) Men have lower standards, but end up with exciting and attractive women. And women have successful attractive partners …
/r/ExRedPill24/03/26 05:20 PM
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what I've seen with friends Male friends or female friends?
/r/ExRedPill24/03/26 04:39 PM
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Can you try to just be kind to people in general
/r/ExRedPill09/03/26 06:26 PM
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Lol Lmao, even
/r/ExRedPill08/03/26 04:52 PM
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You think so to what?
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 11:05 PM
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Maybe he is right that all the women he knows like dominant men (unlikely, but maybe). There's 4 billion other women in the world though
/r/ExRedPill09/02/26 10:59 PM
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Therapy
/r/ExRedPill02/02/26 06:30 PM
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What do you like about your girlfriend? Why do you want to be with her?
/r/ExRedPill26/01/26 01:41 AM
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What is the specific problem you're having? Is it insecurity about your looks, or some type of social anxiety when it comes to girls/romance, or something else?
/r/ExRedPill19/01/26 03:39 AM
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Are you asking for advice?
/r/ExRedPill19/01/26 03:21 AM
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Confused
/r/ExRedPill28/11/25 12:40 PM
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as men love women Yeah you sure expressed a lot of love for women in this post
/r/ExRedPill27/11/25 02:55 PM
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Why is it written as if it happened to me/the reader? None of this happened
/r/ExRedPill27/11/25 02:59 AM
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That's not why I downvoted you!
/r/ExRedPill26/11/25 10:55 PM
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What
/r/ExRedPill26/11/25 12:12 AM
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Sure. If I liked a guy and he told me he had never had sex before, that wouldn't change my mind about all the other things I already liked about him
/r/ExRedPill18/11/25 02:25 PM
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You put words in my mouth when you said I think men are my enemy, which you pulled from absolutely no where. I drew conclusions from what you wrote, and have now provided evidence for my thinking in another comment. I'm not arguing with you, I'm asking questions and having a discussion. Why do you think this is an argument?
/r/ExRedPill18/11/25 02:04 PM
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This is the difference between men and women is that if men and this is going to sound crazy men cannot have super high standards because we're not women and I'm telling you from real experience this is how men end up being virgins and having no experience until they're 30 and 40 which ironically creates another problem. Something that literally helped me get more experience is yes I dropped my standards my inhibitions and dumb myself down This is your experience, which you are assuming is true …
/r/ExRedPill18/11/25 02:01 PM
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I didn't say you SAID that. I said it's what I'm gathering from what you've said.
/r/ExRedPill18/11/25 01:55 PM
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instead of waiting for them to come to When did I say I wait for men to come to me? they're tiny white women. You think only tiny white women are feminists? Think about it that young girl who has everything going for her she chooses the local city drug dealer because in her head she views the traits in this man attractive This just in: sometimes young people make bad decisions! Who knew! Like I said our culture is stuck between a crossroads of what's considered morally good and what's considered…
/r/ExRedPill18/11/25 01:55 PM
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What I'm gathering is that you think your experience is universal to all men, and also that you think you can read women's minds
/r/ExRedPill18/11/25 01:40 PM
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understand a man instead of seeing us as an enemy or something too correct if you put yourself in our shoes if that makes sense. Should I ask out men I'm not interested in to satisfy your need that I understand men enough? When did I say that I think men are my enemy??? Is dating the only area you care about re: gender equality?
/r/ExRedPill18/11/25 01:37 PM
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You're assuming that women never question how men live. That's not a fact. I'm a feminist. I've never asked someone out because I've never wanted to. Am I not "legit" enough for you?
/r/ExRedPill18/11/25 01:26 PM
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I didn't say that you ARE treating people badly. YOU said that you are questioning whether "we" are judging people based on their appearance or their character. Who is the "we" you are talking about here? Does it include you or not?
/r/ExRedPill18/11/25 03:30 AM
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Other people behaving badly towards you is not a reason for you to behave badly towards other people. I can't believe I have to explain this to someone
/r/ExRedPill17/11/25 10:21 PM
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I do kind of have to dumb myself down. not every girl likes intellectual conversation and sometimes it can even be a turn off don't then?? You have free will, you don't have to date people like that
/r/ExRedPill16/11/25 11:09 PM
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Just to pick out a few things here: I remember making an argument when I was a teenager about how women should also equally approach men to even the playing field not only to make dating easier but also to show what men go through on their side. I would argue that women should "approach" whichever men they want to, if they want to. Rather than some arbitrary number just to make men's dating lives easier, somehow. A lot of women will go their entire lives never questioning their boyfriend or husb…
/r/ExRedPill16/11/25 11:05 PM
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You don't know whats happening in any woman's head. I've been attracted to A LOT men, but didn't give any indication because I just didn't want to date at the time
/r/ExRedPill28/07/25 04:06 PM
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Counterpoint: no you don't
/r/ExRedPill18/07/25 02:48 PM
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they see one pool of men and filter as though all of the men are equally likely to want a relationship with them. You think women are completely unaware that some men want relationships and some want to hook up?
/r/ExRedPill11/06/25 07:29 PM
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I mean the alternative is a staple of red-pill ideology: that 80% of women really are only interested in 20% of men. How is this the alternative?
/r/ExRedPill11/06/25 05:20 PM
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Women are swiping left on a whole lot of men who would treat them well and feel lucky to be with them because they have a false sense of their options. This sounds very "nice guys finish last :( " or "just give me a chance :( " Women swipe left on men they're not interested in. It doesn't matter if the guy would hypothetically treat her sooo well. If she's not interested, she's not interested and she has every right to swipe left on that person
/r/ExRedPill11/06/25 04:49 PM
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it can absolutely make mistakes There's no thought behind what chatgpt spits out. It's just glorified predictive text. When you get something accurate out of chatgpt, it's just as much a coincidence as when you get something inaccurate
/r/ExRedPill05/06/25 04:28 PM
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Alright man, have a good one
/r/ExRedPill26/07/24 05:16 PM
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it gets downvoted or attacked Is someone attacking you? I’m not saying I would socially isolate them, or attack them, or belittle them, or anything truly harmful, just that I’m not interested in dating someone who expresses their feelings in that manner because it seems immature Maybe we're seeing different uses of the word online, but from what I've seen this is exactly what it means to get the ick. Something that a person says or does that's a little immature or a little gross, and it makes yo…
/r/ExRedPill26/07/24 05:03 PM
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Not at all, I think anyone is justified in "getting the ick" (or whatever you wanna call it) for whatever reason. Honestly, your comment came across like you thought you are justified in feeling that way and others aren't. These kinds of tik tok trends have people expressing that emotion over very trivial things. I’ve seen some that view even playing a trading card game like magic the gathering as an ick, when it’s a harmless social past hobby. Are you saying that getting the ick over MTG is unj…
/r/ExRedPill26/07/24 04:45 PM
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Yeah, and I would say feeling that emotion over a person using a simple three letter word is also a trivial reason to immediately lose any and all interest in someone. In my comment I was just pointing out that your feelings toward the word "ick" are exactly the same feelings other people have over [some other harmless word/behavior]
/r/ExRedPill26/07/24 04:32 PM
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if I heard a adult woman use the word “ick” to describe behaviour they didn’t like, I would lose any and all interest. Unless it’s something that is actually gross in terms of emotional, physical or hygienic boundaries it really just comes off as exceedingly judgemental. Even then, the language and phrasing just comes off incredibly immature isn't this like exactly what "getting the ick" is? for some people it's if their date uses the word 'moist' or something, and for you it's if your date uses…
/r/ExRedPill26/07/24 03:58 PM
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