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Do you enjoy the process?
/r/seduction27/05/26 05:39 AM
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Send. If she approves, it means she doesn't find it creepy. You can do the honest opener "Hey, I really regretted not asking for your number, then remembered you said bla bla, so I was able to find you here. Would you like to meet for a drink later this week?
/r/seduction19/05/26 10:45 PM
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Well then, my apologies.
/r/seduction03/11/25 01:06 PM
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thanks AI bot
/r/seduction03/11/25 01:00 PM
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befriend rejections, change their meaning.
/r/seduction03/10/25 08:13 PM
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I'm allowed to think, analyze the situation, only after I take action - only after I say "Hi".
/r/seduction02/10/25 04:55 PM
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where are you located? maybe David Tian stuff can be helpful? https://davidtianphd.com/masterclass/
/r/seduction11/11/24 02:30 PM
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if you promise to be a good girl maybe I will ;)
/r/seduction17/05/22 11:22 AM
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You got it bro 😀
/r/seduction01/10/21 11:32 AM
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you are right that i should first test this mindset in the field, and post only if it works for me. I go catch em :)
/r/seduction01/10/21 08:45 AM
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you're confused, it's ok. all I said is that you have to show your value - confidence, status, etc.
/r/seduction01/10/21 08:17 AM
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that was your mom's reaction when catched her
/r/seduction01/10/21 08:14 AM
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read post slowly, I'm sure you'll understand after a few times :)
/r/seduction01/10/21 08:13 AM
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Thanks! great points, super relatable for me.
/r/seduction19/08/21 04:28 PM
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how is your body language during the interaction? It's important to smile, have open body language. nice short free course (with linkedin account, no need for credit card) for making good first impression. https://www.linkedin.com/learning/creating-great-first-impressions/the-power-of-first-impressions
/r/seduction22/01/21 09:48 AM
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it's a fine word, I might adopt it. thanks ;)
/r/seduction28/07/16 08:06 AM
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what an honor, a personal novel for me only! learned a new work "hubby" :) OK now I understand better and I see nothing wrong in it, it's natural. Lucky you for finding a 9.3 and 9.8 in your life. Nothing beats waking in the middle of the night sex IMO. Lots of fortune and happiness with the family!!
/r/seduction27/07/16 05:43 PM
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Haha in my alternate universe it's the Boston Dynamics dog who washes dished. Are you sure it's good way to think like that? your reality (husband) is far more precious than an imaginary ex which is just a piece of imagination right now IMO. (At least in my experience when I'm imagining a better reality, then when I'm back in real reality I suffer). Marrying Bill Nye? so lucky !!
/r/seduction27/07/16 08:04 AM
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well now I'm curious, what are you doing in the alternate universe you like the most? I'm sure in at least one of those universes we are happily married with a robot dog. (must be the worst one for you, tell alternate you i'm sorry :D )
/r/seduction26/07/16 09:57 AM
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Haha tnx, Happy to hear, actually I'm also in a relationship and lives in a different country. So maybe in another life time ;)
/r/seduction25/07/16 09:27 PM
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ah I understand, I like your suggestion. I'm also a big skeptic and science guy (major in physics), let's date :D
/r/seduction25/07/16 11:33 AM
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Some great questions,thanks
/r/seduction22/07/16 07:37 AM
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Do you find this topic objectifying women? Why? I find that most of the time I converse about normal topics - work, entertainment, politics, sports, etc. I can enjoy it but to be honest I don't really care about it, I have "deeper" topics that I invest my time and energy upon, for me it's understanding my psychology (through Meditation and mindfulness), how the mind and ego work, enlightenment work... I think that anyone has topics that really fascinate them and they are passionate about, that's…
/r/seduction22/07/16 07:36 AM
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Cool, thanks for clarifying
/r/seduction22/07/16 07:05 AM
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That's interesting, So if I understand correctly when you repeat what she said to her, you: 1) understand the deeper meaning of what she said. 2) she knows you understood and listened so it triggered an emotional rapport and she feels closer to you? Sounds great
/r/seduction21/07/16 02:39 PM
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tnx for saving me from replying :)
/r/seduction26/12/12 10:21 AM
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well, how it went? :D
/r/seduction24/09/12 10:57 PM
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"do or do not, there is no try" :) hmm, The "theory" of trusting is to try and be total. when the ego comes into play, it divides you. It becomes "you" versus "them" or "Him". If you trust the universe, and the key here I think is that the universe, (or the reality) is "right" (although it's not really a question of right or wrong), even when your logic tells you otherwise. Like if someone wronged you , you may get upset and angry, but if you trust that "that what should have happened", you won'…
/r/seduction26/07/12 09:16 PM
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ah good! so do you have any practical way to deal with the ego? what do you think of the method I use?
/r/seduction25/07/12 10:14 PM
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Well I guess it's good advice, but from my experience it's not enough. one's ego is too strong and seems too real so even when you "know" it is wrong and fallacious you will listen to it and follow it's will, because it is working on the deeper emotional level, while the argument against it are intellectual. So you need something more. The only thing that i have found to work is to trust. Every time I feel the ego rise and start to "suck my energies" and make me suffer, I tell myself, about what…
/r/seduction24/07/12 09:46 PM
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"sweeter than a bag of candy?" or whatever you/she consider sweet in an excited voice or "wait until you TASTE me!" just play along
/r/seduction18/06/12 12:26 AM
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I don't think you have to stop completely playing video games. But the idea is, you're good on what you invest your time. How much time have you dedicated to developing your social skills compared to the time you dedicated to playing video games? If you will stop playing video games it will force you to have fun in different ways, which normally involve other people so you get to socially interact!
/r/seduction31/05/12 07:41 AM
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Well, first' learn how to converse! to understand how conversations work read here: http://www.improveyoursocialskills.com/conversation
/r/seduction30/05/12 07:43 PM
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/r/seduction18/05/12 02:50 PM
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and I've fixed the link :D
/r/seduction18/04/12 09:17 AM
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I don't think its contradictory to care about what people think of me and dismiss their bullshit. IMO anything that is done that is hurting someone's feelings (all things considered...) should be scorned at and laughed at. And if you accept such behavior you encourage it. So if a girl rejects me in unfriendly way I'm not gonna get hurt, it's her that should be ashamed of her behavior, so I'll tell her or laugh at her. And that is out of respect to her as well, because ultimately such behavior is…
/r/seduction18/04/12 09:12 AM
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That guide was posted here recently. covers the basics.(IMO best guide around)
/r/seduction17/04/12 08:12 PM
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and although it doesn't seems to be your problem (Imaginary one :D) that's the guide I most like about making conversations: here
/r/seduction17/04/12 08:08 PM
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Ultimately, We are all the same. what triggers your emotions? You can compliment her, say something funny, etc. This nope nope nope reaction seems to me like a regular "don't exit your comfort zone reaction", like you prefer the inferior yet familiar option over the exciting and beneficial yet unknown one. You need to learn to step out of your comfort zone, try it once and see what happens... =) Overall it's a game, you've got nothing to lose. This whole existence is fucking big joke :D Overall …
/r/seduction17/04/12 08:04 PM
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to get a girl interested, just say something that will trigger her emotions. do you find it easier to talk when drunk? what are your thoughts/emotions when approaching women?
/r/seduction16/04/12 06:02 PM
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DO you have something to offer them girls? In order to be confident, You need to have something to offer, otherwise your conscience won't let you approach - you will feel like you're deceiving her. You have to believe in yourself.
/r/seduction16/04/12 10:31 AM
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Him: "don't you trust me? wink
/r/seduction12/04/12 11:21 PM
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serving alcohol to people, that's a turnoff :) poor, poor people, how have we become to this? ;_; Anyway, here in Jerusalem the impression I get most bartenders don't care about me at all, So a bar having a nice bartender (as you sound) will surely make me visit it. grrrr fuck english, so hard to say want I want in the manner I want ಠ_ಠ
/r/seduction06/04/12 09:15 AM
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"Whats the difference?"
/r/seduction27/03/12 09:10 AM
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It's not bad advice but its missing the point entirely. what you need to think about is WHY you give a fuck about everything? why you're insecure about your opinion? why you think your opinion is less valid than someone Else's or the opinion of an entire group of people? (just because many think something that makes it more valid?) If you know about yourself that you are not a fool, why would you be afraid to be put in situation others regard you as a fool? not sure I'm clear about my point, but…
/r/seduction14/03/12 04:53 AM
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