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So, what is she saying?
/r/askTRP29/09/16 12:45 PM
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Trigglypuffs?
/r/askTRP23/09/16 02:49 AM
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Agreed. You should be getting plenty of vegetables and good quality meats that have a lot of vitamins in them. For anyone curious, [beef liver has more vitamins than apples or carrots] (http://chriskresser.com/natures-most-potent-superfood/).
/r/askTRP18/08/16 02:33 PM
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All rhetorical, all for you to think about. Get busy and this will fade in a year or less completely. You'll be the version of yourself you want to be. Awesome, thank you! Developing your version of the perfect body is a start. Focus hard on this. Just started back on a diet and lifting plan, going to go hard at this like you said. What are you doing to make money? This is going well. Have a successful side business coming up on it's 1 year anniversary, and I'm buying some rental properties very…
/r/askTRP17/08/16 08:54 PM
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Moral of the story is, you're a beta bitch with oneitis. You're dead set on being this girl's bitch for the rest of your life. No one here is going to help you accomplish that goal. That's not what I am trying to accomplish. I am just trying to do what's right and I wasn't sure what to do.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 08:38 PM
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Eventually, you'll develop that self love. You'll come to grips with everything, and let go of the past, your onesitis, and anything else you've got going on. You'll be able to get girls plenty better than her, looking and personally wise too. It'll all click. Thanks man, I appreciate it. Right now, you're just not doing enough. What else should I be doing?
/r/askTRP17/08/16 08:37 PM
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Hey man, it's your fucking life. I am the fucking truth when I'm right, and I am right. Not trying to argue, I appreciate your input, I am just having a rough time and confused, that's all. Fucking other women didn't do it for you? Hmm... that's because it's not the women that will make that shit fade. It's a start. But your life sucks balls, that's the problem. If it were great, you wouldn't get onesitis. You wouldn't be able to because you'd love yourself. How do you love yourself? Serious que…
/r/askTRP17/08/16 08:18 PM
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Do you expect to marry this girl? Spend your lives together, living happily ever after? Is that what you see in the future? Is this the woman you want to bear your children? Is her family the one you want to visit on Christmas? Never getting married, and not sure about kids, but the rest, yes. If so, hop on the relationships subreddit, because no one here can help with that endeavor. To be told to stop being an asshole and it's all my fault?
/r/askTRP17/08/16 08:12 PM
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To right a wrong for your onesitis. Is that better? But even fucking other women didn't get her out of my mind? I don;t want to go back to feeling like I did when we were apart. I wish there was an easy answer.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 08:10 PM
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Mind taking a look at my thread /u/IllimitableMan? This post was linked, and I'm going fucking nuts.
/r/TheRedPill17/08/16 08:09 PM
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It's to right a wrong. You don't think it's because I care about her still? I couldn't ever get her out of my mind no matter how many chicks I fucked. HB9 college freshmen, old crushes, friends of the family. It didn't fucking matter one bit.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 08:07 PM
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Either way, she's showing she's not interested in valuing your time so spin new plates. Yeah, she is showing that. I'm not saying what you did was a horrible mistake but any woman will commit their memory of you to villainy if you let them. How do you not let them? So you acknowledged she was right, was there any compromise on her behalf? She's realizing she wasn't available to you as she thought she was, maybe she told a friend or family member who talked her out of it. I told her she was no sa…
/r/askTRP17/08/16 08:05 PM
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Yeah and the decisions cost me dearly. And I'm asking the questions now?
/r/askTRP17/08/16 08:02 PM
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your ego is fucked and your relationship with the self is skewed I don't disagree at all, I just don't understand.
/r/askTRP17/08/16 07:58 PM
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She has lost respect for you, I know that. But why and how? I don't understand? I really was an asshole to her. And I know you hear we shouldn't apologize to women, but I hurt he bad, for a long time. I think of stuff and cringe at what a dick I was. Like I fucked her once and told her to go sleep on the couch because I needed a good night's rest and I couldn't get one when she slept in bed with me. She went to the couch crying and I slept like a baby. This was a year into our LTR. I would const…
/r/askTRP17/08/16 07:56 PM
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you are being too centered on your ego instead of using it as a tool. What do you mean?
/r/askTRP17/08/16 07:53 PM
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Fuck man. Bad news. You've gone back in time to right a wrong and in the process wronged again. This situation is beyond fixable, I have to be the one to tell you. And I know that because she is full of shit and didn't want to come through and didn't answer you. She had her phone and ignored you. Didn't come over because she didn't want to. We have all been in your shoes at one point or another and the truth is, you are being to centered on your ego. You need to let this go. Erase the drawing bo…
/r/askTRP17/08/16 07:50 PM
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Even if she's the top 0.1%, the best girl out of a thousand, there's what, 33,000 girls as good or better in the US alone? You fucked up. Learn from your mistakes, don't make them again. Move on. If she wanted you, if she wanted to see you, if she wanted you in her life, you'd already be back in there. The fact that she's resisting every step of the way makes it clear that's not the case. Maybe she's reminiscing, maybe it's nostalgia, maybe she's reveling in the validation that can only come fro…
/r/askTRP17/08/16 07:46 PM
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Cool. Thanks.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 02:13 AM
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It's an LTR. Started as a plate, turned into an LTR the last 3 months. I am going to hold out. Should I contact other girls in the meantime?
/r/askTRP31/05/16 11:47 PM
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Man, don't address it? Don't even ask? I understand the logic in not losing frame and showing her that she does not move me when she acts emotional, but I'm just wondering if it will show I don't care for her?
/r/askTRP31/05/16 10:27 PM
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So how do I handle the conversation when she eventually calls or comes over?
/r/askTRP31/05/16 10:08 PM
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So what do I do/how do I handle when she calls or comes over eventually?
/r/askTRP31/05/16 10:07 PM
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Yeah I def don't want to do that. I will continue to be calm. What do I do when she finally calls/comes over?
/r/askTRP31/05/16 10:06 PM
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Why not? Couldn't it be a test to see how much I care. She's told me in the past that I "throw girls away" because i've had a lot of attention from girls.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 09:08 PM
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I get that, but what if it's a comfort test? Fuck, I hate these stupid ass games. I've been reading TRP a lot and many guys recommend keeping possibilities open for someone else when you're in an LTR in case something happens. I haven't cheated, but I do have options.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 08:50 PM
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But the social media blocking? I am being chill. I am NOT going to give her the satisfaction of freaking out. I have a ton of shit going for me in life. Great career, solid side business, and a position in my local area that gives me notoriety. She has a job in answering calls for customer service and no other hobbies. She said yesterday that she would be "so bored" without me in her life. This is looking more and more like a bullshit shit test the more I talk it out.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 08:47 PM
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True. I am not giving her the satisfaction of any reaction other than the one phone call and couple texts she got earlier. She has made her decision. I have half a mind to park somewhere else tonight so when she drives by my apartment she doesn't see my car and starts to really worry.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 08:39 PM
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Hmmm, shes looking for some drama. Ah, the rollercoaster of emotions. Can you expand on why she would be looking for drama?
/r/askTRP31/05/16 08:35 PM
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The only reason I could think of is that she is doing this is to get a reaction out of me? She is def a girl who looks for things that get a reaction out of me and shit tests like fucking crazy.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 08:33 PM
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Well we've never weny any time without talking, so 48 hours will be the longest by far. Just want to make the right decision here.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 08:25 PM
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She obviously doesn't respect you enough to let you know whats going on. So, should no contact myself be the best course of action? Outside of an almost life or death emergency, there is no reason for this at all, and will be sticking a fork in us. But, I do want some answers myself. It's just a weird situation.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 08:23 PM
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I don't disagree, but can you elaborate more?
/r/askTRP31/05/16 08:22 PM
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Go nuclear?
/r/askTRP31/05/16 08:11 PM
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I have options. Just want to make the right call here.
/r/askTRP31/05/16 08:11 PM
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So no contact myself?
/r/askTRP31/05/16 08:10 PM
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