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Work on the skills if you don't feel comfortable. Become comfortable talking to more women and people around you. Keep focusing on your self and get some experience. Practice conversations, travel, learn about yourself. You can feel alone at any age and even when you're actually dating someone.
/r/seduction29/08/22 03:22 PM
2

they like it when its their idea
/r/seduction20/08/22 12:07 PM
41

He needed to. Unfortunately OP can't see this until he humbles himself and does the work.
/r/seduction18/08/22 01:49 PM
2

The truth is they're not even actually in the game. They think they are but they're actually NPCs.
/r/seduction16/08/22 04:38 PM
2

If you are sufficiently passionate but not annoying about it you can share some aspects of it.
/r/seduction15/08/22 04:30 PM
0

Might you be autistic?
/r/seduction09/08/22 03:46 PM
2

Same worst/best of both worlds. It's awesome when you do connect but damn is it rare.
/r/seduction21/07/22 08:12 PM
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Both are stupid unless you make an actual connection in my opinion. They could probably sell you this with AI bots in the future which is probably the future of OLD.
/r/seduction12/07/22 06:10 PM
1

People are generally operate out of fear and avoiding pain. The energy you bring to the ambivalent women make them feel comfortable and lets them pursue you and you probably give them space to make a decision. Since it doesn't matter to you you're only noticing the times when it affect you.
/r/seduction11/07/22 09:26 PM
1

Sounds toxic af. Just wish her well and on to the next.
/r/seduction30/06/22 03:28 PM
6

Goes both ways and you only set yourself and others for pain.
/r/seduction30/06/22 02:24 PM
5

So it sounds like you need to become socialized. That means talking to more people and learning how to fit in. Clearly, some stuff was missed in Kindergarten or your childhood. Not to worry it's all learnable it will just take more deliberate practice.
/r/seduction26/06/22 01:31 PM
1

That is beautiful and completely true unless I'm drunk and horny.
/r/seduction26/06/22 12:13 AM
1

I think everyone found it to be an escape instead of something you build with someone.
/r/seduction20/06/22 08:28 PM
12

It's a scam. They accidentally made something good for a few years. Unfortunately, I missed out lol
/r/seduction18/06/22 06:43 PM
1

It's all about signaling
/r/seduction16/06/22 07:59 PM
0

Maybe we live a version of Lysistrata where we just stop paying attention to women for any purpose other than work or study. We instead focus on ourselves and the needs of society overall.
/r/seduction15/06/22 07:43 PM
2

No need to be confused, her words are very misaligned with her actions, and sure, she could have told you to fuck off, but women are trained to be nice to stay safe around men in situations and she "goes into that mode" like where she's nice and polite. I know a few people who have trouble saying when they are uncomfortable or don't like something. I would ignore her in the future and only talk to the women around her. You could confront her but she's the kind of person who's likely "creating he…
/r/seduction14/06/22 05:21 PM
2

Would you feel like a success if you lived that way? Seduction is a way of life. There are guys who can seduce someone just by connecting. I don't think that's easy on OLD if you are just average looking. But in person you can learn a lot more.
/r/seduction07/06/22 08:42 PM
2

Won't even matter if females are around, if you're successful, people find you.
/r/seduction07/06/22 07:21 PM
1

People really like good vibes and people want that chemistry for themselves.
/r/seduction07/06/22 02:57 PM
10

Delete the app and instead study, exercise, learn how to meditate or create wealth. Literally do anything else. OLD is a complete waste of time. You want to be learning and making experiences.
/r/seduction07/06/22 01:17 PM
2

I feel like you will probably still end up with a cop or firefighter and divorced in a few years so just lean into it. J/K keep your standards high from a character standpoint. Looks and fitness are different than character and healthy habits. Are you part of any other organizations? I feel like you might want to become part of a charity or volunteer activity. I find I meet really good people when you help others. Personally I would love to. Strong women are in my experience the most fun and cra…
/r/seduction07/06/22 01:14 PM
1

I usually just ask for future permission. Then I say thank you and don't do anything until it feels right later.
/r/seduction06/06/22 02:40 PM
1

Focus on yourself man. 22 seems old to to you but get your head right, build your focus and attention on the things that matter most.
/r/seduction01/06/22 10:06 PM
1

Desensitise yourself games you can play: - Practice asking for people's names and being polite. Introduce and learn everyone's name at a party and a little bit about them, maybe a fun fact. - Thank people who help you. Thanking people with their name when they help you is even better. - Get a coach/wingman/woman who can help with the introduction. Practice with a friend or two so you have experience. - Study people in social situations who you like and feel do well and model your behavior around…
/r/seduction31/05/22 07:06 PM
2

Gotta give everyone space to choose you.
/r/seduction26/05/22 05:07 PM
2

I actually think women have zero experience with meeting men's emotional needs and actually are afraid because they are trained to find utility in a man or fear them.
/r/seduction25/05/22 11:50 AM
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This is not a pick up forum brah. You gotta connect, enlighten, deepen and understand.
/r/seduction24/05/22 11:43 AM
2

It's as if you don't understand statistics and sample sizes. In online dating, your "conversion" rate isn't include the likely 1000s the women who ignored your profile or swiped left. So the subset that is left is all people who have a vague interest in you. In real life you're approaching people with no intention of building rapport and escalating, sure some are giving you their number but that may be to just be polite or get you to leave. Keep working on your day game and I hope you wore a con…
/r/seduction19/05/22 05:19 PM
1

Why are you parsing words that mean nothing. The only word you need to hear is no. Tell her good luck and go live.
/r/seduction17/05/22 02:06 PM
4

It's 100% true. If you end up loving them know it's because you have a lot of love to give and you're a loving person.
/r/seduction17/05/22 01:38 PM
7

Understand that knowing this person isn't going to make your life better or more interesting. You have to do that yourself. If she's interested honestly she'll let you know. Vaugely toxic things that I do to make it easier to focus on my own shit: 1) Match cadence but err on focusing on your needs first. If someone I really like texts me I don't reply right away. I set a timer or send a delayed message a little longer or less time than it took them to reply. So for example, if someone takes an h…
/r/seduction16/05/22 04:21 PM
4

Practice being outgoing in other areas beyond dating
/r/seduction10/05/22 03:50 PM
6

Its way more authentic and is about building connection and intimacy. Spamming people sucks no matter where you do it.
/r/seduction05/05/22 06:49 PM
0

Maybe in your sample size
/r/seduction05/05/22 12:07 AM
2

You will get more girl friends and if I'm honest Women make great friends. They bring you food, they take care of you when you're down they'll host and throw parties for you. They'll find people for you to talk to. If you want to build INTEREST in someone you have to be worthy of that which means having a fucking life and things that you are passionate about even if they're dumb as fucking all hell.
/r/seduction04/05/22 04:30 PM
2

Every one has ten and it started before the internet lol
/r/seduction03/05/22 11:35 PM
1

Build a sexy university
/r/seduction02/05/22 11:09 PM
1

I don't think so, it helps, but it's not a guarantee. He does have a lot of games and skills, and he has no desire to do what you describe because he's got a lot more important things to do. You need things you care about and are committed to that make you a person interesting enough to pursue.
/r/seduction02/05/22 02:03 PM
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The truth is you're not that interesting/hot. Even a 30-year-old Brad Pitt walking up to a woman is not 100%. You should never take it personally.
/r/seduction02/05/22 01:55 PM
2

Confidence and charm are universal
/r/seduction01/05/22 11:19 PM
1

internal mindset and externally women do not want to choose how to pick a partner, its difficult and time consuming and ultimately they need society to back them up if it goes sour. So that validation is also a kind of insurance against behaviors outside of the norm. And yes making yourself attractive to all women will help you generally but not every single woman follows this paradaigm.
/r/seduction30/04/22 01:01 AM
2

Drunk handsey women and their boyfriends. Unless it is a male strip club then you will meet very unattractive women with poor boundary control.
/r/seduction29/04/22 04:03 PM
1

This date doesn't matter; life is ultimately meaningless.
/r/seduction29/04/22 02:53 PM
5

Yep, it sounds lame but "be cool" is still good advice. Sudden movements frighten these creatures. Almost best to come at it from off angles.
/r/seduction29/04/22 02:32 PM
44

Hip is now side ass
/r/seduction28/04/22 04:44 PM
2

You're killing it because tinder is a dumpster fire.
/r/seduction27/04/22 04:29 PM
2

lol. I give people the choice of what kind of advice they want to hear. Do you want me to give you my opinion and or suggestions? Do you just need to vent your frustrations to me? Do you need encouragement?
/r/seduction26/04/22 05:54 PM
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these stories always sound like bad 70s noir
/r/seduction26/04/22 01:00 AM
2

Literally, bro, you're on r/seduction. He probably has more charisma and charm than you right now. How do you develop that? I would go read and study him and work on my own game. Do you want to seduce someone? Talk to them, learn about them, see what makes them tick, have fun together, and let them share their emotions and more. Just don't be toxic. If you love doing this and it's honest to goodness something you love, it works.
/r/seduction22/04/22 07:37 PM
0

Never push. Only pull. Rejection is rejection, sugar-coated or not. Someone's attraction to you does not define you. Don't keep trying. Focus on yourself. Practice talking to women. If she wants to stay connected, that's cool; move the conversation to linked in or something and spend time talking to people who want to talk to you.
/r/seduction20/04/22 08:00 PM
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Good enough is relative and always changing. Are you good enough? It depends what you want. Plenty of people out there to settle down with. But that's not what you want. Why else would you be here. Ask someone OUT? Sure pretty much always. You just don't "deserve" a shot. Are you good enough to take it? Are you strong enough to deal with rejection?
/r/seduction20/04/22 01:13 AM
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1) You probably need to delete your account and start over later. 2) Apps are not dating. Apps are a controlled/curated way to make assumptions about people based on a limited set of pictures, text, and images using arbitrary criteria. People who really like to seduce people know that interaction is the way you seduce someone, and that's impossible to do in a single action or a text message. Real seduction requires in-person interaction. You can certainly build trust and intimacy on these apps, …
/r/seduction19/04/22 03:14 PM
3

Turn into a fuck boi this second. Stop talking to her. But don't actually do this to get her attention. Accept that you have feelings for her and that an actual friendship is not possible at the moment. Work on yourself and your game and then go get yourself someone who's into who you are and move on.
/r/seduction17/04/22 05:49 PM
1

And yes, the way the Sex/Consent PSA's are structured is for fucking morons who don't know how to have a conversation with someone. You can totally ask for consent in a really sexy way. You have to work on it. You can't be like, "...hey...I....uhmm...please....would it be ok i uh...." --> Instead, either be coy with someone you're learning about or be clear and direct with someone who you know is feeling you and you can escalate and get consent. "I'd to kiss you." Wait and see her reactions. Doe…
/r/seduction06/04/22 09:07 PM
1

My only advice is to love the process and stay focused on yourself. Rejection has less to do with you than the person you realize.
/r/seduction06/04/22 05:26 PM
3

If you're a sapiosexual this is the way
/r/seduction05/04/22 05:22 PM
2

Its not a zero-sum game. It's good to take some pressure off of yourself tho. I would revisit and make changes, not for the purposes of "seducing someone" but rather becoming seductive AFyourself. That's the thing people don't get on these forums and apps. You're trying to become seductive not act it. Best of luck with your break! Don't quit the self-care. Keep working out and focused on yourself. Clearly, you didn't have the balance needed.
/r/seduction28/03/22 06:45 PM
1

I think its a combo of a cognitive shortcut which is the social proof. Evaluating someone for social & biological fitness is very difficult.
/r/seduction02/03/22 04:07 PM
1

i never found it a good place to do anything but dance
/r/seduction12/02/22 10:20 PM
1

Suck it up, thank her for being kind about it and move on. Focus on your self and what needs to happen for you. You shot your shot. Make peace and move on. Let any resentment go. And valentine's day is shit.
/r/seduction12/02/22 04:47 PM
1

That can't actually tell if you have a reason to be confident so it works out
/r/seduction10/02/22 01:13 PM
5

Be grateful, finding out 4 dates in and however many chats/messages etc. Change your mindset here, she clearly wasn't ready or mature enough to communicate where she was or what she wanted. Ask yourself what exactly were you attracted to? Was it how she related to you? Was it for who she was as a person? Learn or win. That's it.
/r/seduction07/02/22 05:42 PM
1

Communication, understanding, consent and patience. Just talk to her lol.
/r/seduction23/01/22 07:58 PM
39

Ask what's she's doing Wednesday?
/r/seduction17/01/22 01:04 PM
2

How you make them feel about themselves when you talk to them is probably the most important thing. Humans are not exactly rational. Taking your health seriously is awesome though. As a South Asian. Just make sure the eyebrows are in good shape. I will trim body hair sometimes. I sometimes shave where I have tattoos but I accept my body hair. It actually makes it easier when you're together too smooth skin in skin can sometimes get stuck
/r/seduction30/12/21 01:13 PM
1

Just don't lie, enjoy life
/r/seduction24/12/21 10:36 PM
5

This is 100. There is opportunity cost when you do anything dating wise.
/r/seduction20/12/21 08:18 PM
6

Just a general rule of thumb about life. If you don't have goals, you make excuses.
/r/seduction14/12/21 07:11 PM
20

Just to be clear, there is nothing wrong with being friends with someone you find or have found attractive even after being rejected. The mistake is thinking friendship means future anything. Friendship is friendship. Sex is sex. One can lead to the other but you have to be someone compelling enough for people to tread there. Situations change, people can and do become more attractive to each other. Keeping focused on yourself, your goals, your plans, and your friendships can lead to other beaut…
/r/seduction13/12/21 01:25 AM
1

and you don't need spelling either lol
/r/seduction13/12/21 01:10 AM
1

Yeah, I'd focus on making actual friends and branching out from there. "Girlfriends" will come organically with uber-success but most of us don't become Jeff Bezos or Elon Musk. You will probably need some game as well. If you want to be seductive on the other hand you do have to learn how to have a good time just being yourself by yourself, More people will be attracted to you when you have the right mindset. Right now it doesn't sound like that. It sounds like you already gave up. People don't…
/r/seduction13/12/21 01:07 AM
1

lol its like 20 year old's stopped learning about "the internet"
/r/seduction10/12/21 01:29 AM
1

The only time im complimenting like that if she's my legit friend or she's naked on top of me and we have a great laugh.
/r/seduction08/12/21 02:35 PM
2

I'm old school but texting is for scheduling & coordinating until you have a real connection and even then having actual conversations on text is fraught with issues.
/r/seduction06/12/21 04:11 PM
1

Did our loud say to chair first "are you taken?"?
/r/seduction02/12/21 10:42 AM
2

You attract what you project and you project how you're feeling and how you feel about yourself. Sometimes someone can ruin your mood because you allowed them to. Reading these posts are making me excited to get back out there. First got a few projects to work on.
/r/seduction28/11/21 02:08 AM
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Girls won't feel you unless you're feeling your self. Once you've been at it for a while it's fun to learn to get rejected or shoot it. Sometimes you learn something but mostly it makes me feel alive. Once you've spent years laying around being sad or mad. Doing something fun in the moment is great.
/r/seduction27/11/21 07:55 AM
1

Hey man. No Rugrats.
/r/seduction24/11/21 08:17 PM
6

Try something other than drinks? Dance, hike, park, museum, volunteer, feed her, get ice cream, grocery shop and cook, zoo, arcade Like you can literally seduce someone anywhere lol it doesn't have to be a bar/drinking vibe.
/r/seduction18/11/21 12:48 AM
2

Real peace comes from seeing the world as it is and working to better yourself. Everything is temporary.
/r/seduction18/11/21 12:36 AM
1

IG puts people you don't know into to one of three categories primary, general and requests. Good luck. I use IG to make new friends. I don't think it's good for dating but it is a great calling card if you're a creative or have a sense of humor. I do photography so it's awesome for that. Like I definitely can slide in and get a follow. Then sometimes I actually run into people and they're like wow we already follow each other. We have a laugh.
/r/seduction17/11/21 07:12 PM
3

Yeah why waste it on a cute girl you will likely see again. I don't see how you recover unless she's actually like good friends with someone you know and they vouch for you. Probably best to move on.
/r/seduction17/11/21 06:56 PM
12

Isn't that what Instagram is for haha
/r/seduction17/11/21 06:34 PM
149

Thank you. We should hold women to the same standard. Just be respectful and direct. You got hands and eyes still. Also many guys are trying to workout and bounce just like women are.
/r/seduction17/11/21 05:33 PM
21

Yep he got that big creepy energy. Hopefully he learns.
/r/seduction17/11/21 02:19 PM
14

Basically OP took one tiny bit of personal information and dm'd her after saying hi and maybe some sort of pheromone response. I would accept OP didn't escalate properly and acted like many a gym creep and IG creep.
/r/seduction17/11/21 02:15 PM
1

I'd say thank you, Thank you. 1 down 10 to go.
/r/seduction17/11/21 12:33 AM
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Sounds like it's also weird. If you are attracted to him and he's not able to navigate bring up the yellow flag while escalating. He's clearly attracted to you. These days if you can't know your lane or manage your actions in professional settings your likely to be fired or cancelled. He might get away with it now but all it takes is one person to get uncomfortable. So either he's a risk taker and or really stupid.
/r/seduction10/11/21 12:10 PM
10

Are you going to 'You' her and stage a meeting? Haha please don't. If you are attracted to her, go for it. Depending on how shy she is you can bring up the light stalking this morning.
/r/seduction09/11/21 02:49 PM
2

Your mindset needs a reset. Are you masturbating or looking at porn? Stop. I'd also learn how to talk to all women and not just ones you are attracted to. Once you can talk to them like another person you can learn how to keep people engaged in a conversation. What do you care about? What are your hobbies? You attract who you are not what you think you deserve. 28 is a few years older but it sounds like there's more going on than just it's been hard to get dates.
/r/seduction08/11/21 11:44 AM
1

I'd laugh about it with a few of the enemies and keep them closer. The ones that serve no purpose you can tell them to shut up or get the fuck out. Not everyone has to like you. You don't need to have everyone enjoy you. Not everyone is going to be there for you as you grow and become the person who you want to be.
/r/seduction08/11/21 11:32 AM
1

maybe do something that recharges you? exercise, art, building something, seduction is a marathon, not a sprint.
/r/seduction02/11/21 02:16 AM
2

Cautiously. She seems like a mess right now. There may be other things going on in her life that were the root cause of this. Maybe it goes well and she gets it together or maybe she'll latch on to you and become an energy vampire. Besides being cute/attractive what does she offer you?
/r/seduction01/11/21 12:47 PM
2

Like, relax bro. Everyone on here texting back like they're negotiating an armistice
/r/seduction01/11/21 01:16 AM
6

Just looking out for O.P.
/r/seduction31/10/21 10:46 PM
15

Life is unfair.
/r/seduction31/10/21 09:28 PM
41

Talk to her all you want. Just don't go there and def don't sleep with her when she's drunk. If she's drunk her impulse control is limited and even if you were also drunk its just asking for an issue later. Respect her as a person also FYI 100% sober sex is always better.
/r/seduction31/10/21 06:42 PM
4

You didn't do anything wrong, you are allowed to have feelings and be confused by incongruity. Ask yourself what do you want to have happen. Really be honest. Not what you would take if she gave it. If you want to be friends then that's cool. Define it and make sure you understand your own boundaries. If she really wants to be friends she'll respect them and you will too. If you want more just be honest but it's not really a negotiation.
/r/seduction31/10/21 01:24 PM
5

Be cool. Some people are bad with labels. Keep focused on yourself. Play nice. If it gets serious have a serious conversation. So far it seems fun. That is unless.shes making you uncomfortable with the ambiguities.
/r/seduction31/10/21 09:52 AM
1

It's a process of desensitization. You will always be nervous if you like someone because the risks are real however if you talk to more people and work on connecting with them this will be easier. I talk to more than just women because there is more to my life than getting laid. Personally the mind is more fun.
/r/seduction28/10/21 02:05 PM
1

You get some therapy to work on your own issues. People are weak and if you're miserable you are going to have a tough time connecting. Get outside and walk. Drink water. You keep drawing. You learn about it on your own if you can't find a class. Maybe make pizza art hahaha.
/r/seduction28/10/21 11:35 AM
1

It's a numbers game. But that being said have you ever set expectations or asked someone what they want? Are you being fetishized? I've noticed a thing the longer you wait for sex there tends to be be a higher expectation of a relationship. Maybe it's the tension and exploration.
/r/seduction25/10/21 11:35 AM
1

I guess lesson learned.
/r/seduction18/10/21 12:35 AM
0

yeah almost make a grimmace face and move on.
/r/seduction17/10/21 10:18 PM
8

bro, you let them grind on you, not vice versa, if she grinds on you then you might escalate but not initiate, its like no one's been to a middle school dance. that's not the dynamic that is exciting. take some classes if dancing is hard and learn to have fun with it if it feels weird.
/r/seduction17/10/21 10:17 PM
1

Its not hard. You practice with everyone. All the time. You build awareness about it. Learn to talk to every woman and get them to smile its really actually kind of easy. Then when you meet a hot girl and you don't hit on her or make her feel like an object and instead you've made her smile and she's like huh.
/r/seduction17/10/21 04:10 PM
7

if she's got issues like that well she should go work on them. I don't think she's dating material.
/r/seduction15/10/21 01:35 AM
5

100% its the dead stare that is not making eye contact.
/r/seduction13/02/21 05:34 PM
8

Good job. You won by leaving her alone at the gym and having a reference which is huge.
/r/seduction13/02/21 05:25 PM
1

I actually had a great summer of dates but I burned out and now I'm sad and at home. Pandemic finally wore me out.
/r/seduction20/12/20 03:10 PM
1

It's fine as long as they don't steal them from you.
/r/seduction09/05/19 10:28 AM
1

Oh this must have been juicy
/r/seduction24/12/18 01:19 PM
1

Handle it with pride. Be happy for your friend and be happy you connected with this person. It's okay to be a little sad but don't let it turn in to bitterness. I strongly consider talking to her less and being less available (but not in a manipulative way), just focus on yourself, your happiness and finding people who want you. Good luck!
/r/seduction19/12/18 11:33 PM
1

You testing new material brah?
/r/seduction15/12/18 10:34 PM
0

Be good, not nice. Nice to me feels like you're trying to win people's affection by playing nice and it's annoying. I mean be an ethical person who respects other peoples boundaries and your own. If you want to talk to a girl, ask her out, do it because you want to. Good luck dude.
/r/seduction22/11/18 12:54 PM
1

You miss 100% of the shots you don't take. - Wayne Gretzky
/r/seduction22/10/17 11:38 PM
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