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I did it again just for shits and giggles Me in reality: 29 years old, bmi 24, gender woman. AI says I'm a 16 year old male with a bmi of 33 who's a 5.1 in attractiveness. 🥴 you really think this nonsense is supposed to help you know if women find you attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 09:33 PM
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I don't actually care what the AI rates me. Men regularly ask me out and I have a loving committed handsome boyfriend. That AI rating means nothing. I judge my appearance off of what I see and what others tell me. Not a robot.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 09:27 PM
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Unless you're gonna fuck the AI then it's opinion is irrelevant. The Ai rated me a 3 in looks but I regularly score 9.5 on photo feeler. Good looking people have no trouble getting laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 09:17 PM
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Ah yess, AI is more accurate at telling you how attractive you are than your actually dating prospects rolls eyes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 09:00 PM
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I'm not from Germany so I don't understand the culture. But a lot of white women are afraid to admit their attraction to black men for some reason. They might be racist/xenophobic/homophobic/jealous/or just rude. I wouldn't take it personally since you're happy with your current partner. I'm a white woman and black men stare at me all the time, obviously i don't think it's out of racism I usually just assume they're attracted or checking me out. Don't let strangers bother you. Keep doing what yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:50 PM
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Sometimes I stare at a man who is tall and in good shape because he's attractive. Black skin is also so beautiful to me so sometimes I like to admire from a distance. Maybe they think youre hot or it's xenophobia.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 06:44 PM
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Never in my life except once when he demanded it and called me immediately and I had to block his number right after
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 05:54 PM
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I've had over 40 partners and zero consequences to think if besides tons of orgasms and free dinners. Maybe some people just don't know how to play the game.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 05:28 PM
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My boyfriend takes a quick shower as soon as he gets to my house if he's coming from anywhere but showering at his place. I can't even imagine that's so nasty
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 05:23 PM
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That's nasty and also disrespectful. I could never.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:22 PM
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Okay I don't feel entitled to relationships. Relationships are born out of compatibility and desire on both sides. I'm not giving my body to man I'm incompatible with or a man who wants to use me for sex. No one has to do anything they don't want to. Men lie about wanting relationships to manipulate women into sex, that's a different story. You can weed those types out by waiting 4/5 weeks to fuck. They'll bail after date 2
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:15 PM
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Again, you're competing in the beauty contest as an average man and expecting to win. Stop doing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:10 PM
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It's not supposed to be compared to IRL. That's like comparing your local beauty pagent to the miss universe contest. The Bumblefuck County beauty queen wouldn't make it passed the first round in Miss Universe. You're competing with men out of your league. I'm not triggered, tinder works fine for me. I understand what you're saying, what I'm saying it's that it's ridiculous. People who act against their own interests are outliers. Most people over 25 are in relationships or dating
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:09 PM
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It's a disgusting and unfortunate reality. Thanks much appreciated
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 04:07 PM
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I know plenty of men with tits
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 02:42 PM
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I've had 2 men shit in my bed because they barely wipe their ass. Amber heard is an outlier, men who don't wipe are an epidemic among straight men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 02:41 PM
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If you're not successful on OLD then I'm just making suggestions as to why. Its literally a beauty contest, if they're choosing other people it's because they have better options. I didn't make any judgements, just suggestions as to why this isn't working out for you when so many others have little to no issues using OLD. My roommates met on OLD and they both below average looking. Your perspective is very entitled and unrealistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 02:40 PM
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I have sex when I want to and when I'm ready I don't withhold anything. No one is entitled to my body before I'm comfortable enough to give it to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 02:35 PM
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I have had a couple great relationships, hook ups, and made friends off tinder including my current boyfriend. I had over 60 options and narrowed it down to him. Who are you to decide who's their best match? To get my boyfriend I ghosted 59 dudes AT LEAST. YOU don't get to decide what a woman's best interest i Your judgment isn't better than ours about what we like. You're not entitled to a chance, maybe you're not as good looking or good at chatting online as other men. Again, thats something f…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 02:30 PM
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Men are never going to get easy casual sex if they aren't already just because they downloaded an app. I'm a happy tinder customer and I've never spent a penny. I've had a few hook ups, a really wonderful relationship that didnt work out in the end, and met my current boyfriend on there. This seems to be a personal problem, most others don't have the same struggles as you. Chances are you're in the bottom 50% of men on tinder if you're having these struggles and maybe need to work on your appear…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 01:00 PM
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Ghosting isn't a "problem" it's just a thing. If someone ghosts you they're not interested. You can't force someone to be interested or stop other people from doing things you don't like. This would work better for you. As a woman it wouldn't work for me and I would stop using tinder all together. This post is literally "how could tinder change to make MY life easier while ignoring the needs of the corporation and anyone else who is actually successful using OLD"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 12:58 PM
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How is real life dating being hard for you a problem for the corporations that run OLD apps? That's your personal problem. That's like me saying the government should subsidize cat food because my kitten likes the expensive stuff. This is a you problem. OLD is a beauty contest, if you're not attractive why play the game?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 11:23 AM
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I have at least 40 matches in my queue and 25 which we've ready messaged. Tinder is 75% men.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/22 11:20 AM
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I guess you've never met a Mediterranean, black, or asian person
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 01:03 PM
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I didn't say I improved since 21. I said I look the same. If you don't care then why do you keep responding? You have no idea what I look like and are making baseless assumptions.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 01:01 PM
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Let's see how you look and I'll post a pic of myself
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 12:58 PM
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You have no idea what I look like. I'm baby faced and in shape. 21 year old kids ask me out at work all the time. Most people guess I'm 23.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/22 11:54 AM
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Something like 75% of narcissists are men though. I think the word your looking for is egocentrism not narcissism.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 10:08 PM
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In my opinion, when I was younger the attention I got was not positive. I was hit on, groped, followed, harassed, most people don't take you serious and guys will almost say or do anything to sleep with you. I'm 29, I look the same as I did when I was 21 except now the guys who ask me out actually want to date me. Not use me, bother me, or coerce me into sex. In my opinion younger women get more negative attention. Attractive women 29-45 still get PLENTY of attention, just not the cheap desperat…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/22 07:17 PM
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Both men and women on average weigh more at 30 years old than they did when they were 15. It's just a fact of society. Have whatever preferences you want no one cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 08:48 PM
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I wasn't defending him at all. I was making a point the girls he had access to in high school were children and older women tend to have larger bodies. Most people are larger than they were in childhood. Relax.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 03:38 AM
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Also high school girls tend to be thinner. Women in their 30s aren't usually as thin as they were as a kid.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/22 01:19 AM
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Men are hornier for any sex at all. Women can get super horny for that guy. When I loved my ex i thought he was the sexiest thing I ever saw despite being chubby and average looking. I was always the one pestering him for sex. Women are definitely just as horny for good sex. We won't put ourselves out there to be used as a fleshlight though.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/22 09:43 PM
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This guy has to be on the spectrum somewhere to conflate lying with "let's go up to my dorm" and to think he needs to hurt women to feel powerful is just pathetic. If he's so attractive and handsome why can't he get a girl to like him.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 03:41 PM
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Yelling anything at a stranger from the street is pretty rude. Unless someone is about to be hit by a car, dropped their wallet, or is asking for directions etc, leave strangers alone. Random women don't want to be yelled compliments at from random men on the street.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/22 11:53 AM
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Waitresses make more than CNAs. Waitresses make like $25/hr and cnas make closer to $10-$15. (I know, I've worked both jobs)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 06:32 PM
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People who play games on occasion usually don't identify as gamers. If I go for a hike once a month I'm not a hiker. People who call themselves "gamers" usually spend a few hours a day.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 12:43 AM
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There are many games in the Mario franchise, I didn't specify, you assumed. Super Mario 64 is the official name of the single player Mario game for n64. I've never dated a gamer and never will, I don't care about your hobbies, you can't convince people to change what they like because you disagree with it. That's not how the world works.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 12:21 AM
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I'm not "judging" anyone. I'm not gonna sit in my house all day I like to go out and be social outside in the nice weather, you know see new things, meet new people. Saying I'm incompatible with heavy gamers doesn't mean I think it's wrong I just don't want to deal with it. Also last time I check Mario kart 64 was a multi-player game.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/22 12:15 AM
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Really hot women don't need tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 11:51 PM
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Mormons wouldn't accept this man lol
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/22 07:25 PM
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Obesity is a problem foe many reasons. Genetics isn't one of them. If people were actually genetically fat there would have been more fat people during the 1920s -1970s. The obesity epidemic is purely a lifestyle disease. Please get over your lazy misinformation. There are countries with half the obesity rate of ours. The USA isn't the pinnacle of the universe.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 09:27 PM
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I don't know too many Life long thin people. Most people diet and exercise to maintain their health.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 09:26 PM
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Most people would notice when their clothes stop fitting that their gaining weight and calorie restrict. This is a societal problem, not a health problem. You don't have to eat LESS by volume, you have to eat less by calories. Again 20 cucumbers is more filling than 1 tsbp of peanut butter. You're making layman's points. You don't understand what calorie density is.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 08:05 PM
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Peanut butter is one of the most calorie dense things you can eat besides actual butter. 200 calories is also about 20 cucumbers, 10 heads of lettuce, or 10 full size tomatoes. At an extra 200 calories a day it would take 2 weeks to gain 1 lb.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 07:26 PM
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Stay lean vs not be obese is very different. I'm not saying be fit and thin. Genetic issues can cause you to be more hungry, but that doesn't mean you need to eat calorie dense foods. People whonare harder to satiate literally just need more water and more fiber. They don't need to eat anything caloric to fill their stomach. Being larger than a normal weight counterpart can be explained by genetics. 70% of Americans being overweight is a societal issue. Obesity and morbid obesity cannot be expla…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 06:52 PM
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I don't have the psychological capacity to sit in a desk all day. I choose active jobs on purpose. Sitting on your ass 8 hours a day sounds like my nightmare from hell. I couldn't manage that type of job. I went to college for nutrition, there really aren't that many genetic factors or diseases that cause people to be obese. The only way to do that is to eat more calories than you burnm. Even if hormones increase appetite whatever genetics aren't directly causing anyone to be overweight unless i…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 06:25 PM
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Women aren't subjugating men. Men spent thousands of years subjugating women. There has never been anything different.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 06:19 PM
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53% of us adults are married and other 9% are unmarried and living together. So 62% of adults are in a relationship. That doesnt account for those dating and not living together. You're the minority hun. Not people in relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 05:03 PM
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Men who subjugate women for their own gain are misogynistic. Men who do what's in their best interest are not. A man can make a decision about what's right for him without abusing or manipulating another person, they do it all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 05:01 PM
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My warehouse isn't like UPS or FedEx. It's super easy. Some people literally are out of breath walking from the front door to their work station. It's insane.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 05:00 PM
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By telling others online that you have perpetual imaginary 25 year old girlfriends? That must be doing wonders for the ppd community thank you for your contribution.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 04:26 PM
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It amazes me you think an internet stranger cares about your imaginary dating life
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 04:18 PM
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The proof is called "reality" and you can see it in real time if you leave your basement. All my friends and coworkers are in relationships and enjoying their lives. I don't know anyone as miserable in real life as average PPD Joe.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 04:17 PM
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Plenty of women, including myself would kms before I ever lived in a society like that or emigrate. American women are not going to submit to men as a class. It's simply not going to happen. Edited for missed word.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 04:16 PM
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So women are supposed to ignore their best interest for the sake of a few loser men who can't get laid? What a cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 04:14 PM
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I know plenty of men who don't need an incentive to bond with their children. Anyone who needs motivation or a trick to be a good father should start working on that during pregnancy. It's unrealistic to think men will start taking estrogen as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:34 PM
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The only backlash is from men who haven't developed social skills. The rest or us are dating, married, employed, and doing okay. Women will never agree to go back in time. If men can't compete in the times of equality then that's an onus on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:31 PM
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Oh I'm sure about that
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:29 PM
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Okay then good luck getting your stay at home wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 02:20 PM
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You can request whatever you want. It's no one's obligation to do anything for you. The way you're talking seems like you definitely don't have a stay at home wife.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 02:12 PM
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I'm 100% about body positivity. But I work in a physically demanding job and no, overwight people do not pretty much live the same way. I can tell you it takes some people 3x as long to walk across my warehouse and they can barely complete tasks that are entry level for my job. They're struggling to do basic physical tasks whether it be light lifting, walking, or pulling pallets.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 01:47 PM
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Most Americans can't afford that lifestyle. The average income is about $43k. Stay at home wives are expensive.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 01:43 PM
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It's not. We don't want random men in the street sexualizing us over something we can't control.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 03:00 AM
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I've never dated a gamer, I'm too active socially to sit around with someone while they play video games. The guys I date usually go to the gym, play sports with friends, take day trips for fun. We will play a game of Mario on the 64 every blue moon but I game more than all my exes. Most I do is 2 hours of animal crossing a week on the switch. People who aren't gamers aren't going to stop being social to sit around.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 02:07 AM
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I'd rather be alone than date/marry a gamer. Women aren't going to change their standards, were happier alone than settling.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/22 01:29 AM
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You're just being ignorant now
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 06:09 PM
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No sexual assault vs loneliness is not really even comparable. The idea that it could be is insulting. Women also experience loneliness and men also experience sexual assault. Ask a man who was raped if he could take back his trauma in exchange for loneliness ...... I doubt he would agree with you. Women are complicit in their own rapes for dating men larger than them? As if a man my size couldn't overpower me if he wanted to because he has more muscle mass? Wow, I can't believe I was even debat…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:14 PM
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Very attractive....... 🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:59 PM
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Well those guys wives have a lot of options too, why choose you over the others ?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:56 PM
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Most women don't want to fuck a married man. Your value as a married man is extremelyyyyyyy low to a woman looking for sex because you will never offer commitment. Men are happy to fuck your wife and never talk to her again. You've overestimated your sexual valued and c*cked yourself basically. Open relationships always benefit the woman more than the man you can find that information anywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:44 PM
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I've explained myself in multiple comments but no one here can break down why women should care about men having less dating options. No one can even give me one reason?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:41 PM
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I'm debating here. In my personal opinion I care about society as whole including men and women's rights. Here on this sub though, it's obvious some men get satisfaction from comparing sexual assault, abortion rights, pay gap, and equality to dating struggles. The severity of these struggles is wildly different. If I'm worrying about getting raped by dates, do you think I should deeply empathize with a man who is simply lonely? Can you compare lonely vs sexual violence? I don't think so. I perso…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:40 PM
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Sometimes they try to manipulate but its extremely obvious. Men who really want a relationship have certain behaviors that cannot be replicated. A man can say whatever but unless the actions are there to back it up you can tell right away. Men who really like you never mention sex and usually just let it happen organically. Men trying to manipulate you into sex will test the waters by bringing up sexual topics before its appropriate just to gauge your reaction. It's quite embarrassing actually. …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 04:34 PM
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They already don't. Why should they? Because you're going to pay child support for 18 years if you get someone pregnant and she can't access abortion. Men already don't care about women who are sexually assaulted and never have. They'll only care when it's their mom, sister, wife, or grandma. Men not dating will never effect me.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 03:47 PM
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Okay then Google it or look up old ppd posts since yall are literally obessed with body count. I thinking you don't know English since you had to ask what the average is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:24 PM
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The men here are really wild lmao. I don't owe you a response either. What is the point if saying they don't care when there is no legitimate reason why we should. Isn't this called purple pill DEBATE?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 02:23 PM
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Whatever the total number of sexual partners is divided by the number of people being asked. You don't know what an average is?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:44 AM
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I know what he said, I'm asking why women should care... my reading comprehension is just fine. I'm not sure what point you're trying to make.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/22 05:43 AM
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One is more common than the other, you're the outlier. Women who would rather be single than date someone who they don't want are much more common then men who use sex work services.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 10:26 PM
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I was responding to this specific comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 10:23 PM
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Can you explain why an individual woman should care about how hard online dating is for men? I don't see many men who care about the dating difficulties women have so I'm not sure this is a "women bad women don't care" situation as much as the fact that other people's dating struggles are literally irrelevant to strangers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 09:03 PM
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I don't make exceptions. But humans are nuanced. It's about the guy as a total package, if there a few things easy to work on then it's a no brainer that I'll give it a shot. If someone has a stack of red flags I'm not going to date them. Most women I know aren't making exceptions they're dating whoever they are most compatible with and respects them. Anyone man or woman who does this most likely is codependent.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 08:07 PM
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Most men would rather be in a relationship with a woman that they enjoy spending time with. What you just described is your personal preference.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 07:20 PM
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If you're desperate enough to pay for sex then go ahead.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:38 PM
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I think attractive people in general are in high demand and low supply being that 70% of Americans are obese. The body count thing I think is just a matter of averages. Most people are going to have average body counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 05:37 PM
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The woman is happier alone than with a guy she doesn't value, typically a man would still like access to a woman he doesn't value highly for sex. Guys say they just want an attractive woman who "hasn't slept with the whole block". Attractive women who don't have access to casual sex are low supply/high demand. The average guy doesn't have access to this woman. The average man is obese, earns 43k a year and he will have access to the average woman with an average body count. A lot of these guys w…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:18 PM
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Women would rather be alone than be with a man who doesn't meet their idea of value. Society can determine whatever it likes, but if an individual feels they can't get their "match" EVER then there is something dropping their value that they're not seeing.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 01:03 PM
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If that type of woman Is higher value than the man looking, he will never get it. And individual man doesn't determine a woman's value, she does. So if she determines that her value is worth more than he can offer he's simply aiming out of his league.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/22 12:11 PM
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What is plastic surgery going to do about someone who is obese though? Kids are getting fatter and fatter every decade. Even with gastric bypass/sleeve surgery you're gonna have to be very overweight first and even when the weight is lost they will have excess sagging skin. My stepmother had that surgery and a full body lift with skin removal, she looked like Frankenstein naked. A nose/boob job isn't going to fix the obesity epidemic.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 10:33 PM
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Highest value male that ever pursued me would be 31years old, 6'2 with a muscular body, very attractive face, good style, amazing hygiene, owns a small restaurant (about 150k a year in profit), lives humble but spent a ton of money on me, affectionate, emotionally available, supports his entire family. Richer men have pursed me but none were as affectionate, generous, or attractive so I made him #1. We first met at his restaurant then matched on tinder. He wants a relationship, marriage, and kid…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 06:33 PM
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If I talked about my day at work to my ex it was "too stressful" for him. Yet I had to hear him scream about how his manager was a bitch and drove him crazy while he worked from home 8 hours a day and that wasn't supposed to stress me out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/22 05:07 PM
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That's literally this entire sub
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:11 PM
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Right? I've never seen a man with a less attractive woman and been like "damn I want him" what kind of stupid psychology is this
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 11:09 PM
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You haven't done any science though you just typed out your fantasy and expect me to believe it as fact. Not you* OP*
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 09:41 PM
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Uhm I think you're making a lot of assumptions about what I find attractive. If we were all running off "biology" we wouldn't have jobs, clothes, or gay people. We'd be cavemen. There are a lot of socioeconomic factors that effect libido.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 09:41 PM
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These men are below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 06:24 PM
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So your opinion is more valid than a study is what you're saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 06:17 PM
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Humans have evolved so far past biological function that I don't even really consider it. There are so many factors in libido I don't think we can track them all
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 06:14 PM
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🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 05:27 PM
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Your opinion is just nonsense
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 05:26 PM
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Depends on the context. Men and Women are aroused by different things
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 05:26 PM
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Yes but in the study I linked it also says humans are vastly different than animals when it comes to hormones and almost incomparable. I don't care how chimps or rats respond to hormones, it's not the same as humans. I think men are just socialized that anger is the only acceptable emotion. Loneliness is more of a sad emotion than an angry one, also a self fulfilling prophecy because anger and desperation are unattractive to women. I just think men feel more entitled to sex. I went 2 years sex f…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 05:07 PM
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When measuring how attractive someone perceives themselves you'd have to ask them for their self reported attractiveness? Is there another way to measure something so subjective that you can think of? 👀
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 05:04 PM
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Okay so you don't agree with the study and your opinion is based more in fact than a study?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 05:03 PM
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I'll just leave this here
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 03:56 PM
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I don't really know because I don't think the scientific community knows. Our libido isn't only controlled by sex hormones but all stress hormones like cortisol can effect it. There is so many hormones in the human body and so many behavioral/socioeconomic factors can we really assume someone's libido SOLELY by hormones ? Not only that but our hormones interact with each other in so many ways its gonna be hard to specifically choose one factor
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 03:54 PM
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If your woman has to demand and nag that you do chores, chances are she doesn't want sex because women aren't attracted to men they have to mother. Being a grown, competent, caring adult is attractive to women. Being lazy, dirty, and having to be asked multiple times to do their share of housework is a massive turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 02:40 PM
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There is a lot of debate about how testosterone effects female libido in the scientific community. Women's sex drives are driven more so by estrogen and progesterone. "The likelihood that an androgen-only clinical treatment will meaningfully increase women’s sexual desire is minimal, and the focus of pharmaceutical companies on the development of androgen therapies for the treatment of female sexual desire disorders is likely misplaced."
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 01:33 PM
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Quite a few times. I've never smelled anything bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/22 12:38 AM
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Here's an article written by a divorce attorney. One of the reasons is that women file for divorce more is that men don't file the paperwork https://www.divorcemag.com/blog/6-reasons-why-women-are-more-likely-to-file-for-divorce-than-men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 06:31 PM
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A zygote is created when a sperm and egg combine, so yes men are needed to produce a new human that's what sexual reproduction is. Without the woman's uterus and formation of the placenta the zygote will never form into a human. For example maybe I have flour and my boyfriend has yeast but unless we have an oven it will never turn into bread it will only be dough. Dough and bread arent wuite the same thing. Without a woman's body children cannot exist. Not sure what point you're trying to make b…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:33 PM
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70% of women file the paperwork, not initate the divorce. A man might leave his wife and she's the one who has to file eventually because her husband left her and she doesn't want to be legally married anymore. Look it up. Women usually are left with the responsibility of filing the paperwork. That doesn't mean the woman is the one who wants the divorce, sometimes the man just doesn't care to file the paperwork.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 05:24 PM
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None of my friends bave crows feet. My grandmother didn't get any wrinkles until her 50s. My dad didn't wrinkle until 45. Maybe you live somewhere where a lot of white people are exposed to the sun. Zero of my black friends have wrinkles.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 03:40 PM
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Clean vagina shouldn't have a smell either so I'll repeat myself in that it's a hygiene problem
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 02:22 PM
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I'm with you here 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 01:56 PM
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I don't know any 25 or 30 year old women with wrinkles. Where the hell do you live? Most people start wrinkling about age 35. I see a lot of young men with crows feet because they have never moisturized in their life but otherwise maintain unwrinkled akin into their late 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/22 01:12 PM
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Or men just actually don't stimulate the clit and focus on doing what makes them cum. I can make a woman or man cum in about 15 minutes. How is a woman supposed to orgasm when men don't do anything that might actually cause it to happen....
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 10:26 PM
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I live in one of the most densely populated states in the US. There was literally thousands of people there. You're saying only the fat kids go to the fair ? Lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 10:25 PM
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No one has tricked me into sucking their dick lmao. Sorry no one deep throats you bro. Have you tried eating their pussies first?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 08:42 PM
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I will say this, I'm 29 years old and went to the state fair last week. I looked better than 60% of the teenage girls body wise. The obesity epidemic is really bad. My 31 year old bf also looked better than 60% of the teenage boys. He's super fit and I'm a healthy weight & curvy. I felt bad for the youngsters not able to experience youth in all of its glory.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 07:28 PM
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I'm 29 and have the same experience. I've never been asked.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 03:24 PM
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The point isn't that women aren't supposed to enjoy penetration, the point I was making was that women usually don't enjoy penetration without being aroused which usually means oral or fingers. Penetration can be enjoyable if the woman is aroused. If not aroused it's painful, not neutral feeling. That's why oral sex is more important to women than men. I would never let a man use me like a sleeve he's gonna eat my pussy before sex or were not having it.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 02:46 PM
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the orgasm gap Women seem to be better statistically
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:44 PM
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How do you know how someone is in bed until you have sex with them lmaooo. There are statistics on women's rate if orgasm and it isn't very high. I've had very caring partners who still don't understand how to make a woman cum because they learned sex from porn and have to be completely reprogrammed
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:42 PM
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A big dick literally hurts unless aroused most women want oral before the big dick to get them aroused. Also most women are happy with average sized, big can be nice under the right circumstances but it's not a universal preference. Penetration is fun but most women I know also need clitoral stimulation.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 01:42 PM
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I've smelled plenty of dicks that smell like fish. Plenty of uncircumcised men do not clean their foreskin properly and it smells like hot ass and fish market. Both genders can be equally unhygienic. That's an individual problem not a gender problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 12:48 PM
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Most men do not know how to please women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 12:33 PM
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The whole point is the woman lays there Not getting pleasure
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 12:32 PM
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Bi woman here, sucking dick takes 10x the energy of eating pussy. All the licking you do in oral on a woman gets done on a man plus a 6 inch rod down your throat
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/22 11:53 AM
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Women demanded inclusion in their brands. Men can, too. There would need to be a pushback from men about models with abs.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/22 02:21 PM
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If a males sexuality is based in the degradation and power over another human being it deserves to be shame. Too many men like to orgasm at the expense of the women they're fucking and not enough men are considerate and fulfilling lovers. Anyone who sees another person as a hole to nut it should be shamed. Sex with two people involved means both participants should have their needs met. (By needs for women I'm simply suggesting clitoral stimulation and warm up but most guys don't even want to do…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/22 02:15 AM
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That guy is not a 6. He's maybe a 4. He's ugly in the face. He rates himself a 6 but I think 4 is generous.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 06:21 PM
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What does that have to do with being an unkempt slob? You think the guy with the patchy beard and no jawline should NOT groom himself? That will appeal to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 08:19 PM
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So now that we've seen data showing men are more likely to cheat than women are you going to call male cheaters undisciplined? Or continue to argue the stats by age group? Since men cheat more wouldn't that men are inherently less disciplined than women?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:46 PM
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No but you did the same thing in another comment, so why can't i?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:41 PM
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17% more is the same rate to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:22 PM
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Bro just say you don't know how to make a woman cum and call it a day 🤷‍♂️ you're low key ousting yourself here as sexually inept. No one person "authentic" is NOT another's "totally fake". The actors are either cumming OR NOT. I would choose the same actress in a lesbian scene over a straight scene because the other woman isn't going to penetrate her dry vagina like the male will. I want to see pussy eating that looks like it actually feels good and not those weird aggressive licks that I know …
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:21 PM
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Plenty of guys with bad jawlines grow out beards. The average man is 5'9. 5'6 men aren't the norm. I will say if you don't take care of your appearance that your height doesn't matter at all. You'll be written off for being unkempt and sloppy before your height is even taken into account. Would you rather date a chubby girl who doesn't care about her appearance of a chubby girl who has soft hair and nice skin and smells good? Hygiene and self maintenance are a bare minimum requirement for all hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:08 PM
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So we both agree that women get off in lesbian porn more than straight porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 07:04 PM
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I know those porn actors and some of those sites and I don't like them. Owen grey is good at sex but he looks like a fucking alien. Even thr "hotguysfuck" link was all penetrative sex and blow jobs. Sometimes I just wanna watch a women get eaten out. You don't get to dictate what people find arousing homeboy
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 06:23 PM
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I fake orgasms so many times to make sex end that I don't really believe guys can tell what is faked or not. If their clit isn't being stimulated I guarantee there is a degree of faking. Most women don't orgasm via penetration.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 05:46 PM
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I don't even want hot guys I just want to see sex acts that women actually enjoy. A hot guy not pleasuring a woman doesn't do much for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 05:41 PM
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The women here disagree with you. Maybe you don't know what women find sexually appealing. I also like to watch some videos of men and women, usually oral sex or manual stimulus but there are barely any of those videos. No I literally can call myself straight and there isn't anything you can do about it 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 05:27 PM
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A lot of these guys are telling you that these guys want to buy "intimacy". I had a friend who was constantly buying online content and begging women for nudes. He basically just thought it wad funny he could get "whores" to send him nudes. He would keep them forever and even threaten to expose the women who sent them. He didn't care about intimacy it was about degradation, power, and control. None about intimacy. Begging online for nudes isn't about intimacy or connection its about power.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 05:11 PM
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You're cherry picking one age group. Men cheat more on average over their lifespan. Why can't you just accept the data for what it is instead of cherry picking info which still doesn't fit your narrative 😬
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 05:02 PM
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That chart says age distribution of adult film stars. That isn't even related to the topic your arguing about. Yes two parents in a stable environment. Most early 20s women aren't stable yet. They're still practically children, especially in the US. Hence why, if you read your own link, parents who have children in their early-mid 30s have the most successful and healthy children.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 05:00 PM
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I'm watching sex acts that look pleasurable., for me. I've explained this already. How could women possibly get off of sex acts that are obviously geared toward males? I want to see something that could actually make me cum in real life. Unfortunately the only porn actors who do this are also women. Women are beautiful, I still don't want to fuck a woman IRL. most women watch lesbian porn. You think this is an issue of our sexuality or that most porn is geared toward men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:58 PM
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Today I learned, if you're a man, keeping well-groomed and attractive appearance is being monkeys to random stranger women and not a reflection of your self care, hygiene, and confidence. Most women will not like you if you look like a mountain man or basement dweller.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:52 PM
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So you're agreeing that men cheat more than women as per the stats ? only 17% more means 170 MORE cheating men than women per 2000 people. That's a big difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:44 PM
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Thats how YOU use porn. You don't get to dictate how other people use porn or tell them their sexuality. I can't "self insert" myself into straight porn because those male pornstars aren't doing anything I want done to me. I feel bad for those actresses pretending they're turned on and enjoying a man who isn't doing anything pleasurable for her. Self inserting myself into straight porn would make me feel disgusting.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:42 PM
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Okay so when you watch porn there is no men in the porn? You like to watch men with a tiny little shriveled dick? Or do you like to watch women have sex with big dick men? Does that make you gay? Are men who like to watch women get pounded by a big dick gay? I think that would literally make all men gay. If I'm having sex with cismen that makes me straight. Just because I like to see sex acts that are actually pleasurable doesn't make me a lesbian lmao. Ffs stop watching porn with dick in it oth…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:31 PM
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that's not what the statistics say
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:28 PM
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People who write out opinions and expect others to respond to them as "facts" are not worthy of my time.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:26 PM
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He said exactly what he meant to say. It's men like him that make women vet so hard. We don't want to end up in a relationship with someone who sees us as an object.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:19 PM
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Men statistically cheat more than women though. So men are more undisciplined?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:16 PM
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No, actually we can. Women are the focus of most porn. There is not a lot of porn focusing on the man in the video. Watching lesbian porn means I get to see another woman being pleasured the way I would like to be pleasured. Were not aroused by the fact it's two women. We're aroused by the fact that the sex acts their doing look like they feel really fucking good. Like fuck I wish a man knew how to do that to me. Unfortunately most porn isn't geared toward women so we find what works for us. Som…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 04:01 PM
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Stats show late 20s -early 30s is the safest time for a woman to have a baby, also early 30s statistically has better outcomes financially for children. Women in their early 20s actually have more complications then older 20s and early 30s. This info isn't really based in science it's more based on your opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:55 PM
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At colleges they are. It's literally the point of some fraternities.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 03:51 PM
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In my area hinge is trash
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 02:28 PM
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Men are still having infants in their 70s and no one bats an eye.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 08:21 PM
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Women- hate men who don't respect women men- wow our hatred for women is justified because women hate how much we hate them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/22 08:20 PM
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Red pill is obsessed with that okcupid study 🤣🤣🤣 I honestly can't even take that seriously anymore. Yeah you brought up women who say "no hookups" on tinder so I addressed that. Again you're purposely being contrary to not address any real point.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/22 10:53 AM
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It's like your purposely trying to be a troll. For a ons only attraction matters. For a relationship there is nuance to compatibility. From your statement it's very clear you're not understanding how percentages work. You're still not addressing that there are countless men swiping right on 100% of women and skewing the data on men. Or that women looking for a ONS would rather have no sex than sex with a guy they're not attracted to. You're cherry picking your responses because you don't have an…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 10:49 PM
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Relationship require a lot more than just physical attraction. Have you never maintained a relationship to understand the nuances of romantic connection? You can't possibly fathom that there is more to relationship compatibility than just physical appearance? So you're suggesting women match with men they're not attracted to, to message them for weeks to get to know them, before deciding if their truly compatible or not? How does that make sense? You didn't even address the fact that tinder is 7…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 10:27 PM
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Only 30% of tinder is women. Of course 30% of the demographic doesn't wipe right on 95% of men, men are 70% of the profiles. Attraction is personal, I like chubbier guys. All the stereotypical "alphas" would be a left swipe for me. The women who say "no hookups" probably want a relationship or to meet new people. So what? Tinder is literally a beauty contest and I don't get why some people here get so butthurt about that, you're marketing yourself through photos? Can you get to know someone's pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 09:40 PM
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I'm 5'4, the shortest I'll date is 5'9. The height doesn't actually matter to me but I like to get fucked really hard and most men under 220lb just can't do it right. There are more men who weigh 220 lbs above 5'9. I just have a thing for tall chubby guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 08:56 PM
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No. What I'm saying is the dynamics of a long term relationship and the dynamics of a ONS off tinder sre very different. In a marriage or relationship women will value their man for his personality, values, companionship, goals, etc. A hook up doesn't require any of these things. Women will date a 5'7 guy if there is an emotional or interpersonal connection. When just looking for physical intimacy, women typically will not settle for someone just to have sex, they want to be physically attracted…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 08:53 PM
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A lot of people on dating profiles are looking for NSA sex. Women won't fuck a guy they're not super attracted to. They'd rather fuck no one at all. I know plenty of short men in relationships. Doesn't men random women online would like to NSA fuck a short guy. Men wouldn't fuck an escort they're not attracted to. Women won't risk sex with an unattractive man
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/22 08:23 PM
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I'm bi and have seen 4 men in my life who came to a hookup with skid marks in their boxers. I have never met a woman come to have sex with me who wasn't shaved, waxed, washed, and usually also lotioned and perfumed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/22 02:11 PM
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That's what std tests are for. Women don't carry the germs of all the men they've had sex with unless they catch an infection. I typically see men feeling emasculated that a woman has had more partners than him because he doesn't want to be compared to other men sexually.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 10:37 PM
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That's insecurity for ya
/r/PurplePillDebate29/05/22 10:34 PM
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None
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 10:45 PM
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When I want company I call my friends I don't hit up randoms on the internet. Healthy humans aren't starving for companionship because they are emotionally healthy enough to make and maintain friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/22 03:47 PM
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There really isn't much for me to reply because there's too many questions than I have the time for. 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 05:03 PM
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Slave? Who said anything about slaves.... rp men are the ones crying lonely. Educated women are happier being single, women are happier single in general. If they don't want a higher chance of finding a life partner then don't. It wasn't advice it was just an observation an a response to someone saying women are "over educated". Also getting educated in general leads to better outcomes in life, it's great advice for most people. Telling someone to reduce the positive outcomes in their life to fi…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 04:46 PM
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But women are happier single than with a low value man so it's not really a big deal to us. When educated women are happy being single there are even less women for men to marry which limits lvm dating pool even more.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 02:44 PM
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Johnny depp has been a drug addict since heard was in elementary school.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 01:23 PM
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What percentage of men are paying for their girlfriends apartment? Most men and women make 45k and have to pay at least 1k rent. Most men literally can't afford to support a grown woman how have you convinced yourself this is actually common?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 01:01 PM
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Yes, it does. The more educated you are the higher your chance of marriage according to statistics in the US. If men aren't getting educations they're reducing their chances of finding a mate statistically.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 12:55 PM
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Are women over educated or are men undereducated?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 12:24 PM
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If you're interacting with someone for hours then exchange phone numbers that a cold approach?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:19 PM
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Not if they didn't cold approach me. People often interact without cold approaching.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 04:03 PM
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Yes but they rejected him and married HVM. Even in his prime he wasn't good enough for these women. Why do rp men always talk about Leo who literally uses gold diggers for sex while looking 15 years older than he is? Because rp men don't take care of themselves and wish they had money like Leo. They don't look at HVM male celebs like Jon hamm or Keanu Reaves.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 03:56 PM
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Celebrities are hot and date each other. That doesn't mean anything about him as person. He's a celebrity who dated other celebrities. That's like two warehouse employees dating. It's not really a big pull. Now that he's old he basically dates gold diggers. Not to mention most the women you just listed are now happily married while he plays around with escorts.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 03:50 PM
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I disagree if someone has high standards you can limit your dating pool. I'm an attractive woman who didn't date between ages 25 and 28 because guys my age were all looking for ONS.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 03:48 PM
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Men who are interested in dating usually don't cold approach. Most guys I've dated I met through friends or events. A lot of cold approaches are just interested in your appearance and just want to fuck. They usually have a topic they try to start a conversation about whatever it may be just to talk to you then work in the asking out. It's very obvious usually and very awkward for me. Sometimes they just walk up and sit next to me at the bar even if my boyfriend is on the other side of me and sta…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 03:47 PM
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Hot guys can be the most creepy especially when they approach with the mindset that you're not gonna turn them down because their hot and they get very insulted if you're not interested. Some are more cocky than confident which is a huge turn off.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 03:46 PM
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this is what a stud looks like?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 03:39 PM
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He gives me the ick I don't find him attractive at all anymore he looks beaten down and used up
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 03:37 PM
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15 years ago he was 32. Now he's 47 going on 57 since he never took care of himself properly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 03:25 PM
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I don't get horny for those things as woman. I get horny for physical appearance. I've liked guys and had sex with them but their body physically repulsed me and I couldn't continue seeing them because they weren't attractive. Money will keep a woman in a relationship if she's a gold digger but money doesn't cause horniess that's a ridiculous insinuation. Gold diggers use men for money because it's easy and they can. Men and Women Do use echother for sex all the time. If you've bever experienced…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 01:27 PM
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It's funny you say that because devito has been happily married for decades while dicaprio keeps fucking 20 years old gold digger models into his 50s. Dicaprio is like bilzerian at this point, only attractive for transactional relationships. Devito has a wife and beautiful children. RP men hate gold diggers yet continue to use dicaprio as an example. His gfs might as well be escorts, they don't like him for his appearance. I can tell you as a 29 year old woman he is fucking hideous now and physi…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 01:24 PM
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You're obsessed with n-count
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 12:43 PM
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Oh okay sorry got you. Yes I agree red pills lack logic and make very emotional points to excuse themselves from any responsibility or accountability in their inability to attract women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 06:44 PM
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I don't hate any men. I just enjoy the mental gymnastics of the red pillers. I'm in a very happy relationship with a very loving man thank you very much. Not all men subscribe to this nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 06:38 PM
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They want a Virgin dream girl to have freaky kinky sex with them and then once she does she's a slut anyway
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 04:45 PM
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Is visibly overweight like 150 lbs or 350 lbs because those are very different people. I can assume anyone male or female over the weight of 275/300 probably has more body odor than a smaller person. As for the average, I'm sure men don't do as thorough of a job wiping that ass. If men wipe their ass like they change their sheets it's probably 1 wipe every month.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 04:12 AM
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Tinder is 76% men. Theyre all fighting for the same 24% of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 03:33 AM
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Since tinder is 76% male, women are 24% of the population and some of those are bots or other guys. So if 20% of the app is women and they're only swiping on the top 20% of men I guess that's saying something about how many options they have. They're so many dudes on tinder fighting for the 20% of women in reality. Not the other way around.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 03:32 AM
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I've cleaned bathrooms and disagree about the women's bathroom being disgusting I've seen 5 times dudes have shit in the urinal or on the floor. Worst thing in women's room is paper on the floor or pee on the seat. The entire men's room at my old job had piss all over the floor every single day like it was standard to expect men couldn't aim for the fucking toilet. I'm sure everyone has hygiene issues to some point but I've never seen a woman's underwear encrusted in shit. My ex shit himself sno…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 03:29 AM
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Nah women wipe their ass otherwise it would end up in our vagina. Women don't play like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 02:44 AM
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Overweight at 5 foot 4 is like 145 lbs. I'm sure 145 lbs women can wipe their ass just fine. I'm bi and met enough men with skid marks. Too many to count. Never had a woman have shit stains in her panties women aren't built that way. If we don't wipe properly we'll get an infection sooner than later. Men just don't gaf
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 02:43 AM
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Some guys don't even know how to wipe the shit out of their ass
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 10:59 PM
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All arguments are penetrable, doesn't change the fact you don't understand the rules of debate or how to make talking points.
/r/AntiFeminists19/05/22 07:06 PM
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My ex was paying $400 a month in child support and his ex had a 12 day hospital day because she almost died giving birth. She's 80k in debt and he pays $400 a month while she takes sole care of their child and he was out smoking weed and hanging out with his friends. That's equal to you?
/r/AntiFeminists19/05/22 07:05 PM
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No, child support doesn't cover the cost of the mothers hospital stay for labor or cost of prenatal health care. Conscription isn't a reproductive issue. You're simply derailing. Men being 80% of workplace fatalities has more to do with labor laws and lack of safety regulations, nothing to do with reproduction.
/r/AntiFeminists19/05/22 07:01 PM
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There are states in the United States where women who are raped still have to give visitation rights to their rapist. How is this different for men and women? The United States has a long way to go with their laws on sexual assault in general. If you want a kid and the woman doesn't you don't get to use her body. If I wanted a kidney I don't get to take yours just because I feel like it. If you don't want to make a woman pregnant, use condoms, get the snip, or don't have sex with her. You have e…
/r/AntiFeminists19/05/22 06:59 PM
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I passed 11th, 12th and college English with honors. I was captain of debate and mock trial as well. I think you're the one with the difficulty here.
/r/AntiFeminists19/05/22 06:52 PM
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Why didn't you the almighty penis wearer choose to wear a condom? Don't you know can lead to pregnancy when done with out protection of some kind? No one is stopping 100% of men from INSISTING on wearing condoms to reduce their chance of impregnating a woman. Abstinence works as well. Same way some women are resorting to abstinence as a protest against roe v wade, why don't men's rights activists choose abstinence and protest in the streets for fathers rights? Who is stopping you from making the…
/r/AntiFeminists19/05/22 06:51 PM
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Men can so choose to take part in pregnancy if they want to support their partner. There is no legal entity enforcing men to take their spouse to appointments, pay for doctors visits, or even comfort the woman they made pregnant if she is sick, hospitalized, or dying. There is no legal enforcement to start paying child support once the woman is pregnant. All of those responsibilities including breastfeeding, bottle feeding, changing diapers will fall 100% on the mother unless the father CHOOSES …
/r/AntiFeminists19/05/22 06:48 PM
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A bunch of things women are responsible for that men are not. Seems here the only thing counted as "responsibility" is child support or alimony. There are literally thousands of other factors in pregnancy and raising a child outside of the financial spectrum and men are typically responsible for none of those things. Women are also responsible financially for things like the costs of pregnancy and birth, none of which fall on the father. Men who do not want children should take the utmost care i…
/r/AntiFeminists19/05/22 06:41 PM
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Clusterfuck of text that makes points to refute your opinion ? We call that a paragraph hun, good luck passing 11th grade English I'm sure they'll ask you to read at least 200 pages.
/r/AntiFeminists19/05/22 06:36 PM
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The media told me that women are the only ones that biologically can get pregnant? Or is that just the truth of the world? Please explain.
/r/AntiFeminists19/05/22 06:33 PM
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Why did you delete your comment ? Can't stay on topic so you delete? Very mature.
/r/AntiFeminists19/05/22 06:30 PM
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No, men are not as responsible in the eyes of the law. Men are not responsible for pregnancy, the costs, the costs of birth, the pain of labor, the lifestyle changes needed to make a healthy child, the days off of work needed for doctors appointments while pregnant, the possible life threatening or life changing medical issues that pregnancy can cause. Women typically have to sue for child support to get anything from an unwanted father and even then most child support is statistically never pai…
/r/AntiFeminists19/05/22 06:17 PM
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The point that poster was making was showing how hypocritical it is to control women's bodies with lawmaking when men are 50% responsible for pregnancies. Two people make a baby, not one.
/r/AntiFeminists19/05/22 05:46 PM
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I would agree with that historically and today, except that 1990-2005 ish time when anorexia heroin chic was the sought after popular physique. Even the "thick" women in rap music videos are tiny by today's standards
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:43 AM
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Okay well I'm natural and if their asses are fat then maybe I need to get my eyes checked because they all look like very thin athletic women with toned but tiny booties. There is no C curve or hump of the butt just a toned flat, athletic butt. They're beautiful women but they do not have fat asses which is what the comment said, that black men liked big asses. They just like asses period....were making the same point, but then you brought up asses vs breasts which wasn't what we were originally…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:39 AM
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The comment you defended specifically said black men liked bigger butts, not liking butts over breasts. You're moving the goal post a bit so I backed up my stance to the original comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 01:33 AM
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I'm projecting what? That your idea is a fantasy? Random make outs in clubs? Okay so what are you 13 years old? What does that have to do with anything? Most people make out in clubs because they're blacked out drunk and not because Chad approached them with weird/sexual shit. Women don't like to hear weird/sexual shit from men they don't already like. It isn't fucking rocket science and if you think women like random men saying weird/sexual shit because he's "chad" you're absolutely delusional.…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 12:48 AM
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No i must've clicked reply to the wrong person I was replying to the same person as you.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 12:43 AM
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these are thick/flat/curvy asses to you? they're literally FLAT
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 12:42 AM
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Yes all men like asses. Black men did have the stereotype of liking asses more than the giant fake breasts marketed to white people. To say those asses are large by today's standards would be a bad argument since most of them would be flat pancake asses by today's standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 12:38 AM
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A big ass in 2006 wasn't what a big ass is today though. YouTube the song "miss new booty" and look at the asses. Those were considered thick women, not the giant fake diapers women install today. Smaller asses were in and we didn't have women getting implants or BBL and passing it off as "natural". a fat ass 15 years ago was literally a medium sized athletic ass today. Surgery has changed the standard 100%. video for miss new booty
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 12:00 AM
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I mean how much he could buy is really irrelevant. The bottom line is those women STILL don't want to fuck him. Same way I don't want to go to my job everyday but I do to keep a roof over my head. To say that men are happier with access to prostitutes is hilarious to me coming from PPD. Red pillers HATE gold diggers, women who want to use men for their money, which is literally the business plan for escorts. What red pillers mean is that they hate gold diggers because they CANT AFFORD THEM. So t…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:52 PM
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He nutted as he typed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:48 PM
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Is child bearing, cooking, cleaning, being a mommy-band maid isn't a resource? Because women get used for this things all the time including sex..... using a man for money BADDDD!!!!!! using a woman for sex, companionship, child bearing, and maid services is LIFEGOALS according to PPD. yall want to use women so bad and idea one might return the favor is soooo threatening to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:44 PM
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Creepy and weird meaning a way that scares women away and make them not want to interact with you. You assume sexually successful men say outrageous things and cross boundaries, which is wrong. Women don't like when people cross their boundaries. I think you're fantasizing that Chad has it so easy and you're supposed to be able to treat women like shit and still get laid while not looking like Chad. In reality this is an incel fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:41 PM
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Exactly. Women who sell their bodies as a profession aren't a charity. They're expecting to make money otherwise they would just get a job at the gas station or work from home.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:14 PM
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Do you come here to be racist and argumentative or to make actual points?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:07 PM
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The "ideal" marketed image in the 90s and 2000 was a small bum. I'm not talking about human preference I'm talking about what the media marketed. Learn to read.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:44 PM
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R/badwomensanatomy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:43 PM
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Women charge a lot for sex work because they don't want to fuck you and need incentive greater than what they can make hourly at Walmart or McDonald's. Sex work is also extremely dangerous and not worth doing for a discount. Women will never do sex work for cheap unless they're drug addicts.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:35 PM
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Harem is literally an Arabic word
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:32 PM
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I still don't like big asses so not really. The new definition of big is fucking huge. Most people like ones with a nice shape regardless of the size.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:29 PM
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This is inherently untrue. I know plenty of old and young men who don't like them. Humans are not a monolith.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:28 PM
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In fact big asses were undesirable. Commercials sold exercise equipment promising a smaller backside. Most women my moms age (late 40s/early 50s) still try to make their butt smaller.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 08:24 PM
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Things that never happened for 500 please. Girls didn't pretend to like you because you're new as a set. lmfao get a fucking grip on life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 07:45 PM
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No they're actually very different because they don't experience the athletic triad. Yes men can have eating disorders and literally starve themselves, but there is no male equivalent to the athletic triad. Women are prone to osteoporosis and men do not lose reproductive function like women do. Men would literally need to starve, not just have low body fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:46 PM
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Yes with any amount of low body fat comes a calorie deficit that can lead to nutrients defiencies and basically starvation/anorexia. Women should be 20% or above for proper bodily function. Most body builders/gym bros could be diagnosed with eating disorder not otherwise specified as well. That much muscle/low body fat is bad for the heart and a lot of male body builders die very young.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:35 PM
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No. Men are different. Women literally need a certain body fat percentage to maintain function. link
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:24 PM
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10-17% body fat in women can cause the athletic triad... osteoporosis, eating disorder, and no menstrual cycle. That isn't clinically healthy even if it "looks good". Clinically would be considered eating disorder nonotherwise specified
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 05:10 PM
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I've never tried to change a man they're usually thr ones begging and crying promising they will change or the red flag in question was a mistake. It's usually men promising me they will change which I know is bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 05:54 PM
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Now this is MFING lie 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 02:29 AM
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Yeah everytime i tried a fwb situation, the man wanted me to have a girlfriend like level of commitment and answer booty calls even if I meant I would be up super late on a school night. They didn't even want to make plans 2 days in advance... they wanted to hit me up like "hey wanna come over RIGHT NOW?" And could never compromise or reschedule. They really wanted a free hooker/therapist on call. Which in reality isn't going to happen to 99% of men 🤷‍♂️
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 10:15 PM
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Okay keep that up while working 40 hour weeks with a toddler and a wife and see how you feel about it. You're cleaning up after you right now. Not children and a husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 08:03 PM
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But if no one else wants you besides her then you also belong to the streets. Getting it now?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 10:21 PM
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They don't just LIKE her, they sent her $1 mill.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 06:25 PM
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No a man having a good social circle and being able to maintain friendships is literally in my top 3 requirements of dating. No loners because they lack the skills to maintain relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 06:07 PM
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Oh you want to control who has access to sex or who doesn't based on your religious beliefs. Well you can live in your fantasy land then enjoy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 06:02 PM
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You make no logical sense. You sound a like a "bare minimum" type of guy, women love that. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 06:01 PM
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So the guy who got a modeling job from being the hot mugshot guy is your example? Okay then I'll use bhadbhabie as an example that all men like hoodrat teenagers who got famous off of Dr. Phil. She did just make $1 mil on only fans right? This must represent all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:58 PM
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I used what's called an "analogy". Asocial people complaining about having no social skills to find dates is YOUR problem. It isn't society against you. You have to be good at something to get a result. If you don't even like socializing how can you expect us to feel bad for you that you're not socializing? You don't sound asocial you sound very bitter and alone and desperately seeking to BE SOCIAL. you sound high key jealous you haven't developed a basic skill, vital to friendships and dating a…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:53 PM
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Why do TRP men think their better in their 30s/40s after they've learned a thing or two? Most people in egalitarian relationships like to be on the same page emotionally, socially, financially etc. It's only when someone wants some sort of power over the other that they purposely seek out someone with less life experience, less emotional intelligence, and less financial competency then themselves. It's that swayed power dynamic that people find cringe. Like how most teenage pregnancies are fathe…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:48 PM
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I'm 100% sure it was WAYYYYYY more difficult to get into major league baseball then to get laid bro. You're just talking nonsense now.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:41 PM
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Yeah well the fucked up thing for most shitty people is that they're so shitty they don't even know how to pretend to be good for longer than 6 months. Also most good people don't associate with shitty people for long because we don't share the same values. Hence the data showing narcissists typically see a huge decline in their relationship after 4 months article here
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:40 PM
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Running fast and hitting home runs seems redundant and irrelevant except for playing baseball.... I can't do any of things yet still wonder why I'm not a MLB hitter?!!? That's how you sound
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:31 PM
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That guy could've literally matched with a bunch of women then edited the bio later. You're an idiot if you base your dating life off of memes and screenshots. I met my boyfriend on tinder and I liked his bio because it said he was quiet, goofy, and liked to cook. I'm out here in the real world forming opinions off of my experiences and TRP is basing off of......... memes? Go outside bro
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:29 PM
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I dated a domestic abuser/cheater and they're typically very self loathing and manipulative. I knew the guy 15 years and he couldn't maintain a relationship to save his life. He cheated on me with 300 plus pound women on tinder and would make up false identities and spent THOUSANDS to tens of thousands buying me gifts, expensive trips, and even a car. Despite his best efforts he still couldn't get a normal nice girl to date him for more than 3 months at a time because his true personality would …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:27 PM
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Wow that screenshot just changed my entire worldview!!!! I will overlook any life experiences I've had or knowledge of how women work now that you've schooled me with a tinder screenshot. Tinder is OBVIOUSLY the gold standard for finding good men. /s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:21 PM
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Not for LTRs. Sex isn't the be all and end all of life unless you're emotionally unintelligent or have nothing going for you in life otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 05:14 PM
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Yeah women aren't interested in men who hate them. It has nothing to do with the sex and everything to do with their misogyny.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 04:57 PM
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If the town bike is the only woman who wants you, is that really women's problem for being sexually active or is the issue that you're SO undesirable that only a woman who fucks everything will fuck you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 04:53 PM
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Women could approach men. And we do. But TRP types will never be happy with the women that approach them. I met my boyfriend on Tinder and did a lot of the "courting" because I thought he was sweet, kind, and considerate. I would never chase a man who is aggressive, overly-confident (cocky)cocktail, or socially dominant. I like quiet, goofy, types. It's much easier and safer to "approach" a guy who is feminist and sensitive and sees me as an equal. A TRP type guy would never get approached by me…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 04:47 PM
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As a woman I personally don't get bitter after rejection because I don't waste my time. I meet someone, if I'm interested I'll ask immediately and if I get rejected I didn't spend 3 months pretending I'm his friend hoping he wants to fuck. I don't get my hopes super high.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 06:25 PM
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This girl is bugging with these pics she put up. Those guys are all unfuckable to me. This is my type link I like a tall guy with a bit of meat. Vikingesque physique with some muscle, and a round belly, and nice tree trunk legs. Especially if they have a beard.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 02:54 PM
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The only guy here close to attractive are the last two with the chubbier guy looking the best to me. The first 3 mightve been cute when I was 16 but now that I'm older they look like children. The last guy could lose about 20 lbs and be absolutely perfect. I know plenty of women who don't even like abs.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 02:50 PM
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Because women who want kids already have to take on the role of baby maker, child carer, and maintenance of the home even if she works. Men can't get pregnant. A lot of pregnant women cannot also simultaneously be the breadwinner because pregnancy can be a devastating medical condition for some. According to studies men still do not take care of children or do as much housework as women. As a woman if I still need to work, clean, and take care of my children a higher percentage of the time than …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 02:44 PM
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No not 100% are cheaters. You're just arguing semantics. Narcissists are not more likely to be super loyal. Maybe some don't cheat but given the nature of narcissism itself they are only loyal to themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:28 PM
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I am disagreeing and saying that they're not loyal and it's scientifically proven. Narcissists see their ability to manipulate as a reflection of themselves, not the actual partner. There is no subgroup of inherently loyal narcissists.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 08:07 PM
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No, narcissists are known to be cheaters. It's scientifically proven. https://journals.plos.org/plosone/article?id=10.1371/journal.pone.0242277
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 07:51 PM
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The average man in the US is 5 foot 9, 200 lbs with a 40 inch waist. 85% of men will bald by age 50. Why can't these people date each other? When I gained weight over the pandemic (I'm 5'4) I was 185 with a 30" waist, 38" hips and 34ddd boobs. Women can hold weight wayyyyyyy better than men to be fair.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 07:27 PM
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You can compare testosterone in men to estrogen in women. That being said men having more testosterone doesn't make women less horny.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 07:20 PM
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You can compare fruit. But not the physiological effects of sex hormones across two different genders who also utilize those hormones very differently.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 07:16 PM
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Testosterone is the driving hormone in men. Estrogen cause horniess in women. Men having "Testosterone" doesn't make them more horny. Men and Women have different hormones responsible for arousal. You can't say that men are more horny because of Testosterone. There are studies showing a tiny bit of testosterone in addition to estrogen can increase a woman's libido, but not Testosterone alone.. You're comparing apples and oranges.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 07:11 PM
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I'm a straight woman but I dated two men who were glaring narcissists. They cheated with anyone and everyone who they could get. I think cheating and narcissism go hand in hand. Can't have one without the other. Never met a faithful narcissist, man or woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 07:05 PM
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