youdontevenknow84 Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
6	LTR asking me to discuss my decisions with her? Captain-First Mate is a dynamic that encourages her to have an input/opinion on subjects that affect the relationship. You take them into consideration as you make decisions for the ship. You don't have to ask her opinion, but she should feel welcome to offer it.	/r/askTRP	31/10/16 07:43 PM
5	Getting my friend (f, HB8, 24) to date me (m, 30) I know I shouldn't put this girl on a pedestal, but she's a unicorn. Durr	/r/askTRP	16/10/16 04:16 PM
1	Should I consider it success if If it was a first date, then no it's not a fail. This would in no way really mean this girl doesn't put out on the first date. As you said yourself it was a logistical issue.	/r/askTRP	16/10/16 04:14 PM
1	LTR Question Same boat. Going out with my LTR is boring. Great girl, but I'm not going to bars to talk about love. I'm going to bars to either bullshit with bros or chase tail. I occasionally will entertain her by going out to eat at a bar, that way she gets the bar feel while I treat it like a restaurant. Not sure if there's a guide, but I'd be interested in other points of view. I sometimes wonder if I should just dump her to chase tail. Problem is she is a girl I want to stay with for LIFE... just wish I …	/r/askTRP	16/10/16 05:28 AM
3	i just became the only single guy in my circle of friends.. Congrats dude. Breaking the mold!	/r/askTRP	16/10/16 05:13 AM
1	Fuck I deleted her after the goodbye hug in the middle of the bar. I didn't want to hang out in her Tinder list of backup plans. Btw I just want to point out how funny my Post Reply list is. Since they're all the same topic title, all I see is: Fuck Fuck Fuck Fuck Fuck Fuck	/r/askTRP	15/10/16 07:25 PM
3	Fuck It was a casual greeting, then she told me she just finished working out, so I told her she'd have to show me her guns sometime. Then it was straight to "sure just tell me where and when", so I said "tomorrow somewhere between us". I don't look amazing, though. Average build. 6'2" 190 lbs. deadlift 250, sq 195, bench 175, can only bust out ~10 pull-ups per set. Light cardio. Honestly I expected a flake, but she sent a confirmation text a few hours prior.	/r/askTRP	15/10/16 03:14 PM
2	Fuck That's a good point. I had just ordered another beer when she said that, and I was taken back. Seemed like a huge cop out. Who goes on late night dates when they planned to go hiking at 6:30? Probably would've been the same outcome except my pride would be a little better off if I called her on the hiking comment when she said it.	/r/askTRP	15/10/16 09:51 AM
0	Fuck Probably luck. Haven't been in the Tinder game a while and I don't get many 8's. I literally sent her two messages before telling her where to meet me and she agreed. It was the least initial investment I've ever made.	/r/askTRP	15/10/16 09:46 AM
7	Fuck just an hour	/r/askTRP	15/10/16 05:49 AM
2	Fuck Yeah, just sucks. I would've gladly given her a ride for a few hours. It's a weird feeling sometimes but putting myself out there any more than I did would've just been "dancing monkey" level type shit.	/r/askTRP	15/10/16 04:50 AM
18	Fuck Fuck dude, my heart just grew 3x bigger.	/r/askTRP	15/10/16 04:34 AM
3	[3-year LTR] Getting Insecure About Me Going Out So I'll just kick it with her later.	/r/askTRP	14/10/16 09:51 PM
1	[3-year LTR] Getting Insecure About Me Going Out Very rarely, and only after I encourage it for social reasons. It normally ends up being just a couple hours for her. She's mid-20's, I'm 32.	/r/askTRP	14/10/16 08:10 PM