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youguess321/r/askTRP06/04/21 01:31 PM
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youguess321/r/askTRP19/04/21 10:25 PM
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youguess321/r/askTRP23/08/18 11:40 AM
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I have said to her that I won't make her leave her job. Although she may do it because of the pressure. Btw, she just called me saying she chooses opt. 2 Didn't seem happy about it though. (I am working remote, so to me this is the same as excursion).
/r/askTRP20/04/21 07:18 AM
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Well written bro. What I'm asking her is a sort of ultimatum. And by me asking her it is clear that I expect her to ditch the job or refuse such trips and what happe s, happens. You are right that she should come up with something. BTW, she got the job in the process of transitioning from fwb to ltr and said that if we were in ltr back then she would not have taken the job. But we are in ltr now, so I'll see where her words meet her actions.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 05:16 AM
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I have a problem with this as the previous ltr cheated heavily. So at the point where I get attached to the girl I start obsessing about this. Now combine it with scarcity. Apart from that she has mentioned that she has cheated on a ex 10 years ago, so there is that. If you were in this situation what would you do?
/r/askTRP20/04/21 04:59 AM
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Seems the wisest, thanks, didn't think of that.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 04:55 AM
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Her field of work is very scarce so there are rarely openings and she really seems to enjoy the job. The trip by itself is not worrying me as last time I saw it as really toxic and none of the colleagues likes the trips. They were bitching non stop. So all enjoy the office work and all dislike the trips. But females are scared to make a point about it to their manager. It was all good till the moment I saw this colleague trying to banter her though. For the past two years this is the first situa…
/r/askTRP20/04/21 04:52 AM
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The thing is she sees that I cannot sleep cause I'm spinning those thoughts when going to sleep and she is scared of me dumping her as she knows I have low tolerance. So she knows I would let her go, that's why I communicated the problem as it's affecting me and not sharing would lead to the same thing happening every month / two.
/r/askTRP20/04/21 04:40 AM
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Isn't that a form of mateguarding?
/r/askTRP20/04/21 04:34 AM
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Try to find a higher quality female. But first you have to accept that this is the past and the time together has gone. Head up make progress and you will find even better.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 10:30 PM
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Imagine a hamster spinning(running in a wheel). Her toughts are the wheel and her mind is the hamster. The hamster will spin the wheel until she finds a way to justify a shitty action. Also works in reverse, when she likes your and you say something bad to her, she will spin it until she does not feel bad about what you said and start seeing it in a positive manner. Search the forum for examples.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 10:27 PM
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She knows there is no coming back. It's strange that the thought of giving her a grin some years down the line if this was to happen would feel good. Whatever happens, I'll be good and have a lot of years ahead to settle with another women if she turns out to be a waste of time.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 10:17 PM
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Not denying the oneitis, the most interesting thing is that things started to reverse since covid and not being able to see other people. Emotions started and our polarities reversed a bit. Even she was surprised and was like - you didn't give a fuck for me for 1.5 years and then in a slip of the moment you wanted to live together and started doing the reverse of what you used to. Which is true, I get too invested in a ltr after some point. Will get back on becoming the prize. Thanks.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 10:10 PM
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Thanks mate, I think I've read your post. She is looking to settle and I will provide way more security than the guys she does /will meet. The think I fear is that she will NOT branch swing, and may just temporarily hop on some dude just for the emotion. I definitely will get back on track and move her to the side instead of making her the center of my word. Btw, what is even more strange is she enjoys me coming to work with her as she know working from home for a year is starting to get on my n…
/r/askTRP06/04/21 10:05 PM
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True, she was a plate and for a long time and she would get wet just by walking past the door. I should check tmrp probably as the guys there should be facing the same problem with lack of mystery + comfort.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 09:47 PM
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Yep definitely too much comfort, scarcity, lack of social life as of late and working remote for over a year has made me slowly lose track of the things I was aiming at before. It's 30% due to covid and the rest is from me by focusing too much on her and making her the center. I've started training and will start to focus on self improvement, will check the channels also, 10x.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 09:45 PM
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Thanks mate. I actually see myself as well developed for my age and so does she. But you both are right that scarcity and lack of mistery since we started living alone has taken its toll and I think she sees my as a great Bb/secure prospect as she is looking to settle down. Btw, the guy is 15 years older than me, problems with alcohol and apart from good social skills, he is behind. Sweet were the times when she was thinking If I was slaying other women.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 09:40 PM
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I'm vetting her for more than just a LTR, so there is no way without getting into a ltr. But if such behavior would be an ongoing thing for 20+ years, will I stay, fuck no. That's why I was thinking of enforcing/commenting on the situation and analyzing her reaction/follow through.
/r/askTRP06/04/21 03:13 PM
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She knows that she'll be gone if such thing happens. The problem is that its getting In my head. With last ltr I found out she cheated a year after, so I see this as lost time. Scarcity is tough. So I should not be mateguarding / trying to force boundaries such as no male friends?
/r/askTRP06/04/21 02:11 PM
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She will be moving out the day we break up. Might drop her the rest of her payment for the month and that's it
/r/askTRP27/03/21 08:30 AM
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I highly doubt the dumping part. If she was to do so then I would be happy. No point in investing In such women.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 09:23 PM
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It's 1.5 years relationship, 1 year prior to that she was a plate. We have sex once or twice a day but yeah, it for sure is not as enthusiastic as it used to be. It's gonna get better if I stick to the ground rules as I've let some beta traits slip in during the relationship. I cannot understand this rule about not living with a girl. At some point when I choose the last girl, I will have to live with her, so what gives?
/r/askTRP26/03/21 03:46 PM
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In this part of Europe it is unwritten rule that the man should provide for the comfort. It's a 1.5 year relationship, there is not much to lose if she would leave because ot that.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 03:21 PM
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I have not had such problems with furniture. She has made suggestions but was denied. Forgot to mention she doesn't have keys for the apartment. The 50/50 would be like 30% of her salary so may get pissed a bit.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 02:09 PM
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Cannot agree more. The thing is that the 15% were not bothering me then. But it started to feel odd.
/r/askTRP26/03/21 02:06 PM
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Thats probably because she is hotter than the chicks im used to else i would not be floating this boat. Anyways i want >HB6. Should i expect the same to happen with those girls or is it that i have just not given her enough tingles.
/r/askTRP23/08/18 01:04 PM
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Damn, a good one bro
/r/askTRP23/08/18 12:46 PM
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reasoning?
/r/askTRP23/08/18 12:45 PM
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