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Completely agree. This post is the truth. I wondered why I had trouble fucking girls in college, but had an easy ass time in NYC. Let me provide an additional perspective as a 20 year old American in a large state university and in order to generate some discussion. SMV gets males through the door. Personality and game come after, and all are important for maintaining attraction. Looks + Wealth + Status = SMV. In my experience, I have found that if we target the demographic of girls that attend …
/r/TheRedPill16/02/16 10:07 PM
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Brah most guys on here would say next because the greatest power you have in a relationship is to walk away. By nexting you would have inevitably made her desire you more, seeing as she's invested either way as she offered you maintenance sex
/r/TheRedPill20/01/16 05:11 AM
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Where do you live? If your goal is to get laid more, I'm of the philosophy that you need to actively start trying to get laid. I see people here posting about you need to internalize TRP more, aka more monk mode. Na fuck that you've spent two years in monk mode. Bitches will never come running to you to fuck you until you're in the top 0.01% of guys. You're white, take advantage of your race and day game. Asian and indian girls will want you. If you've been meeting girls only through your social…
/r/TheRedPill14/01/16 05:10 PM
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Idk what university you go to but I go to a big 10 university with greek-centered night life. What I've found is that the sorority girls are mostly just percieved to be hot. I'm bengali too, I have a thing for white girls and society deems sorority girls to be the top in our colleges. Look elsewhere. Sorority girls were not always sorority girls. Their looks did not change (except for the fake blondes), only their greek status did
/r/seduction10/01/16 06:21 AM
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Bro I will lay it out flat for you. College is all about status. You may be more fit than, have better game than, and be an overall more interesting guy than that frat star, but in the end the frat star has more access to opportunities to mix with the sorority girls, automatic status because he's in a fraternity. Also, the sorority girls all talk shit about their sisters that fuck GDI's/rando's, so if you want to approach a sorority girl you must do it when they are alone, so if you do end up fu…
/r/seduction10/01/16 06:01 AM
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What if pornhub gets this data from registered users. As in the user selects their gender upon registering. I'm sure many registered females are actually men in disguise
/r/TheRedPill10/01/16 05:49 AM
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Olympic lifting is too technical. If the time spent obtaining proper mobility (assuming originally computer guy posture) and learning the lifts were spent bodybuilding along with powerlifting movements, greater hypertrophy will be achieved Olympic lifting does not lead to an aesthetic physique. Klokov does bodybuild and has even competed in bodybuilding shows. The chinese do a ton of accessory movements. Watch some streams from 2015 worlds, most lifters are not aesthetic - even the GOAT Ilya is …
/r/TheRedPill09/01/16 03:26 PM
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You should be careful who you tell to neglect carbs; people that listen to you without knowing what they're getting themselves into are in for a world of pain
/r/TheRedPill28/12/15 06:05 PM
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I personally acquired the oneitis out of a scarcity mentality, many other users have gone through the same as me. It is important to note that this is not the cause of your oneitis. I had the mindset of I'm never going to get a girl again. The way I was able to overcome that oneitis was to fuck other girls, and prove to myself that I am able to get other girls. You have already accomplished that, so I can't advise you based on first hand experience but I'll throw in my two cents anyway. When I s…
/r/TheRedPill27/12/15 04:05 AM
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I know I plan to be obese in 2030 http://www.nhlbi.nih.gov/health/educational/lose_wt/BMI/bmicalc.htm Currently overweight, only 20 pounds until I'm considered obese. Seek solace in your gains and become a statistic.
/r/TheRedPill06/11/15 06:28 PM
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Very interesting. Usually preselection works in social settings in a way where people need to know you as that guy that gets around. That, or you need to verbally exchange. Your hickey gets around that problem; you can exhibit preselection in an environment where you do not know anyone, without physically being with a girl.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/15 03:04 PM
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If you want to talk about why shit tests work you may want to incorporate frame into your argument. You can think of a shit test as a certain frame that the girl is attempting to impose onto the interaction. Your goal should be to have the entire situation controlled by your frame. Essentially you should not resist or argue her shit tests, instead make them your own. When a girl says you have a small dick, if you agree and amplify you effectively allow the girl to feed into your frame. If you le…
/r/TheRedPill24/09/15 10:16 PM
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Yeah this shotgun method has worked well with recently graduated younger women 23-25 in nyc
/r/seduction14/09/15 01:17 PM
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It's unfortunate but chill with friends -> Chill -> "Netflix and Chill" sounds so anti-seductive but is the most realistic model of college seduction
/r/seduction14/09/15 05:06 AM
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Seems like you caught one-itis and you know the solution to the problem yourself. Demote to plate. Proceed to nuclear dread game.
/r/TheRedPill08/09/15 12:33 AM
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Being known as a fuckboy is a positive rather than a negative and will increase women's likelihood of wanting to fuck you. Your ex-gf used an ad hominem attack when you told her the honest truth; in other words it is a shaming tactic that is based on her own moral truth. If we set all morals aside and objectively apply TRP theory to the term fuckboy we see that it establishes preselection quite well, which we know is great for getting women to fuck you. No women wants a man that no other women w…
/r/TheRedPill31/08/15 12:31 PM
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You're tunnel visioning onto the scientific basis for Briffault's Law. That does not matter. It may be better to argue that Briffault's Law is a misnomer, as it may be better to call it a principle. Briffault's law says that a woman would prefer association where she gains something (protection, your company, emotion, your money); that is true in 99% of cases. That's why women don't associate with introverted, shy guys that can provide them absolutely nothing, not even conversation. And that's w…
/r/TheRedPill18/08/15 06:27 PM
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I would encourage you to keep her as a plate. She will be useful for preselection upon your return. When you leave just tell her you're leaving. She will throw a fit, just maintain frame and leave anyway. If you do want to completely sever ties with her, it's time to practice youhadanidea's relationship nuke schema (future post at some point), I would reserve this option if you're sticking your dick in crazy - as in she will accuse you of rape if you leave. This is easier to accomplish if you li…
/r/TheRedPill16/08/15 05:04 AM
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Any tips on inviting back to your place if you're a subway ride away? Or do you just set up logistically so that is never the case?
/r/TheRedPill10/08/15 05:53 AM
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Yeah just go for it while you're going about it in your daily chores. At the grocery store, on the street, if you have time go for it, you learn you have nothing to lose other than a couple seconds/minutes of time.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 07:10 PM
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If you have 3k to drop and don't care about it do it if you want some formal experience. But don't use it as an excuse to not approach yourself. If you're saying "I'll approach girls after I pay for the course" you're robbing yourself. Go out and approach and see what you're capable of yourself, experiment, and refine technique, you may be pleasantly surprised. If afterwords you still decide you want the course then you should do it.
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 07:09 PM
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Approach, Approach, Approach. Go to a location far from where you live so you don't have to deal with social stigma. And seriously just talk to girls about literally anything. Just walk up to them and ask them for a date. Get rejected a couple times and you will realize it's not that bad at all. But make sure as soon as you get rejected you smile and say "see you later", never harass after the rejection, it's not worth your time (remember abundance mentality). If you want have some fun with it. …
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 07:02 PM
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That's a good point, that many who post here are noobs. After being on this sub for a couple months you begin to learn to sift through the bullshit on this sub. I still find some hidden gem posts from those exposed longer, but the truth is that all you need from TRP is in the sidebar, you learn the concepts and apply them to your life based on context. When I first joined TRP it was pretty well enforced that if you're a noob you don't post and you just read the posts. It was given that after you…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 06:54 PM
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Let's not get caught up in TRP jargon. Google "Stop Calling Them Shit Tests: A Real Guide to Passing Any Test a Woman Gives You" and read the seddit post on that. You don't need to pass every "shit test". You don't need to "act alpha". You behave however you want and act according to your own morals, but sexual strategy itself is amoral (refer to the sidebar); that being said you can definitely apply TRP concepts within the framework of your own morality in order to establish a family, in fact t…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 07:29 AM
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I was debating putting that in my post but I'm truly not an expert at game and pick up. I've been approaching girls cold for maybe 2 months now only, and what works for me may not necessarily work for you. My personal preferred method so far is something similar to the direct opener I mentioned in the post -- "Hey, I know this is weird and I don’t know you but do you want to go out sometime" because as I mentioned earlier it's polarizing, it cuts the bullshit and gets to the point without pedast…
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 07:08 AM
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The depression phase is not a question of good or bad. It just happens to be a reported response that is common for many after swallowing the red pill. Yes I realize it's common pop psych but here we are taking TRP theory and applying it to real world situations. If you read /u/Whisper's original theory post on those five stages he suggested it as a means to establish an imprecise progression after exposure to the redpill which can then be applied to essentially every post made on this forum as …
/r/TheRedPill09/08/15 06:34 AM
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Your first pic on tinder should include one of the following, ideally all three in order of importance Your abs A girl kissing your cheek Some animal Another poster mentioned hiring some 10s for pics, very possible can hand out $5 to do that. Make sure they kiss your cheek as to avoid the friendzone-look. Remember preselection. You don't look like a fat fuck but you're also not large-framed. For better abs get someone you know to photoshop realistic abs on you. Then watch your tinder matches inc…
/r/TheRedPill06/08/15 06:22 AM
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I'm disappointed in the direction this sub is going.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 12:22 AM
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There's no clubs here and I'm not interested in night game
/r/seduction29/07/15 04:49 AM
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Let's apply this to what we see girls do when boys text them (moreso younger girls); they discuss with their friends. "What does this mean" etc. I've seen some guys behave like this but its moreso girls, attempting to decode what a straightforward text may mean. I suppose this could be extrapolated further, perhaps we can say that it's best to use straightforward texting in order to get that hamster spinning
/r/TheRedPill14/06/15 03:06 AM
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be wary of too much introspection. Can lead to self pity. Keep up the good work.
/r/TheRedPill13/04/15 03:09 AM
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You don't necessarily need to reach escape velocity to escape orbit. Remember "orbiting" is what happens when the net force on the object is perpendicular to its velocity; resulting in circular motion. This centripetal force, Fc = mv2 /r = mg; is actually mass independent, and orbit, as you defined it - never getting closer, can be escaped by deviating from the velocity needed to establish the proper acceleration towards the center of the system. Yay physics :D
/r/TheRedPill18/03/15 12:39 AM
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I don't think this will be an end all be all. This is only visual and audio feedback, it lacks the entire physical intimacy of a woman (touch, smell, taste)
/r/TheRedPill12/03/15 09:05 PM
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what are your opinions on this video and its relation to the feminist uprising?
/r/TheRedPill08/03/15 01:01 AM
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What do you recommend us to do in calcutta?
/r/TheRedPill02/03/15 11:21 PM
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Any recommendations on some readings to run game?
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 07:16 AM
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I live in the USA and I am on a student's budget. I suppose prostitution could work, but I'm also afraid I may abuse prostitution and grow addicted.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 06:57 AM
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The thing is that I've tried. I just can't do it. I have never done it in my life.
/r/TheRedPill01/03/15 06:55 AM
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This is by far one of the most enlightening posts I've read on TRP. After beginning my TRP journey about three weeks ago, I suppose deep down I realized why my last LTR dumped me was because I was a loser. But it wasn't until I read this post that the idea finally sank in and I came to terms with the fact that she left me was entirely because I was a loser. Wow. I've had the moment of clarity you feel after having sex for almost an hour now because I've finally come to terms with this.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/15 12:54 AM
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Yeah do this. We forget that we can choose to be beta. Go against everything that is TRP. Start crying with her, if you don't know how this is a good opportunity to learn. In a week she will start to despise you. That is when you break all contact and become forgotten.
/r/askTRP18/02/15 05:20 AM
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I agree. Yoga is pretty brosciency. Improving mobility is much more efficient for injury prevention
/r/TheRedPill17/02/15 06:48 PM
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what is your mencius moldbug? Could you provide me a link?
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 11:14 PM
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It's out there. An example would be JQ1, it's a BET bromodomain inhibitor --- read: non-hormonal. You could read about it here http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/JQ1 I'm only familiar with its antioncogenic effects, it's currently in phase I clinical trials for some lung cancers. Glaxosmithkline actually developed an interesting derivative of it recently, but they only want to supply lung cancer researchers with it :/
/r/TheRedPill11/02/15 03:34 AM
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Share with us your experience, if you want. I find it helps to write out different facets of my relationships and analyzing my behavior at the time, what I did and what I should have done had I been redpilled at the time
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 04:13 AM
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