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He is saying that if he had a nice shirt on, he would be out of the girl's league and she wouldn't be able to get him. But if he's wearing a crappy shirt it makes him more attainable for the girl. It's just a joke for self amusement since he doesn't give a fuck what she thinks about his shirt lol.
/r/seduction11/10/17 07:31 AM
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Sigh. I guess every newbie gets one free cringe post. But seriously man if you're still caught up on your ex and it's killing your game you gotta let it go. We've all been there and everytime it seems like the world is over and everytime its not. 19 is nothing. Im only 22 and even I feel like when I was 19 was a lifetime ago... When I was 17 I thought I was gonna marry my gf, when I was 19 I thought I was going to marry my next gf, when I was 21 I really really thought I had found the one, and n…
/r/seduction11/10/17 07:16 AM
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Not sure what you're looking for us to tell you. Lower your standards or wait for the right one. Choice is yours.
/r/seduction10/10/17 08:09 AM
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Nah no interest in making clickbait vids
/r/seduction10/10/17 08:04 AM
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Read the damn side bar and don't post such painfully general questions
/r/seduction10/10/17 07:59 AM
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Its saying that because you are short you shouldn't think that it makes you unattractive you should think that it just means women will be able to get you more easily because if you were tall you would be out of their league.
/r/seduction10/10/17 07:57 AM
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Came here to say this. Clickbait title from a fantasy world. Even if you are a top 1% looking guy girls will still rarely approach on their own. Just be a man and approach yourself. don't make out with drunk girls Yea that's gonna be a no for me dog
/r/seduction10/10/17 07:49 AM
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Ah yes finally another poorly shot video with 58 views. Just what this sub needed.
/r/seduction10/10/17 07:43 AM
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Attain: To achieve something abstract "He attained greatness" Obtain: To get something physical "He obtained a new car from the salesman"
/r/seduction10/10/17 07:36 AM
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What about that guy makes him a dating guru... Most of his shit has nothing to do with pick up at all and his content is free.
/r/seduction10/10/17 05:15 AM
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http://nypost.com/2016/10/12/sources-back-derrick-rose-nba-teaches-condom-disposal/
/r/seduction09/10/17 11:20 AM
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lmao
/r/seduction09/10/17 06:37 AM
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The NBA players union actually instructs players to always make sure thy flush their condoms because of this reason.
/r/seduction09/10/17 06:37 AM
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Why is this whole damn sub now "how to approach at X location" Pickup is the same for any location with a bit of calibration. There's no secret gaming convention theory. Just approach and use the tips like any other situation
/r/seduction06/10/17 07:55 AM
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If she'll cheat on them she'll cheat on you. Fuck her if you want but not relationship material
/r/seduction06/10/17 07:53 AM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZB62oaOeqR0
/r/seduction06/10/17 07:44 AM
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Hahahaha holy shit if this isn't the truth. Applies to everyone though. There are some sorority girls at my university that I would cut off both of my hands just to smell their sheets, but I'll never forget when I used the word "anomaly" and one of them asked me why I use such complicated words
/r/seduction06/10/17 07:39 AM
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Could a post have been anymore low effort than this? Are you going alone? Are you going as a date? With a friend? Scratch that, when the opener is over just grab the nearest girl and go for the kiss
/r/seduction06/10/17 07:18 AM
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Read models and watch RSD youtube videos. College is the easiest getting laid is ever gonna be. Get involved with as many clubs and things where you can make friends, preferably women, as possible. I know it sounds like a meme but try to only masturbate 1 or 2 times a week and never to porn. Youll be amazed how much energy you have after only a day or 2
/r/seduction06/10/17 07:13 AM
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Really you think night game is 0 chance? I would say its the easiest since you can always just go for the low hanging fruit of a a girl who is drunk.
/r/seduction06/10/17 07:09 AM
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You have obviously analyzed this situation enough to know exactly whats going on. Just take action instead of asking reddit reaffirm what you already know
/r/seduction06/10/17 07:03 AM
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I admire your effort but it sounds like this was just a case of rejection. No need to over analyze it. Also, theres not really a point in knowing if shes lying about her boyfriend. If she isn't lying it doesn't matter, and if she is lying it isn't worth it. keep it up though
/r/seduction05/10/17 11:27 AM
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"How do I get laid in one of the easiest places to get laid known to man" Go out and meet some girls. Read the side bar for what to do after you meet them
/r/seduction05/10/17 11:17 AM
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No one whose opinion is worth caring about should care if you have a car especially in a major city with public transport... Where I live people actually look at you like "why..." if you are a younger person with a car It might be something besides the car issue that you haven't thought about..
/r/seduction05/10/17 11:10 AM
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For example, most of us know deep down that looks matter but this guy will call all good looking men douchebags Looks obviously matter... But its definitely not everything.. I have seen it first hand where guys I knew who were literally model tier had only the most basic success because they were super boring while my friends who created fun energy would pull constantly.
/r/seduction05/10/17 07:37 AM
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If you've already been texting back and forth it should be mutual. I once dated a girl in high school that I would text first everyday (this was back in 11th grade when the cultural was to be constantly fucking texting every second) anyway I decided one day I would wait to see how long it would take her to text me first and she texted me at like 9pm saying "are you alright?" lol be wary of one sided conversations
/r/seduction05/10/17 07:26 AM
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On October 7th at 2:36 pm. /s Come on man have a little self determination. Just ask out whoever you want next time you see them. Not that hard.
/r/seduction05/10/17 07:18 AM
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Why does this question come up so often here? In college age is like the least important thing in the world. Because being in college is like its own age group of "college kid". Take an 18 year old high schooler who has to ask permission to go to the bathroom and wait 2 months and they are a young adult. Take a 28 y/o guy who is married and owns his own business and compare that to a grad student who still goes to wine Wednesday at his frat. Age is downplayed because everyone is at the same poin…
/r/seduction05/10/17 06:53 AM
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Youtube RSD RSDmax, RSDjulian, and RSDtyler combined have more quality free content on youtube than you could ever hope for. And they round each other off. Max is more geared toward actual game, Tyler is more into the personal development of game (I.e. teaching yourself how to be happy with yourself), and Julian is sort of a hybrid.
/r/seduction05/10/17 06:42 AM
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As someone who was in marching band for 7 years I am 90% sure that the sousaphone player didn't even see her and was just doing a horn move as part of the song choreography.... If not then this isn't a PPD it should be dudesbeingdicks. She was just vibing with the band and wanted a video. If anything she was complimenting them.
/r/PussyPassDenied04/10/17 11:49 AM
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Like the article says my man, plenty of fish in the sea. I know exactly how you feel since Im still getting over my ex of 2 years that I was legitimately planning on marrying. Two of my all time favorite quotes are from 'Models' - "What if it was a gift?" and "Life is not happening to you, it's happening for you" We're all gonna make it man
/r/seduction04/10/17 08:00 AM
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Expected a click bait article. Actually got some cool information. Thanks!
/r/seduction04/10/17 07:56 AM
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It's only a mistake if you didnt learn from it. I totally feel you bro. I cant tell you how many times Ive had a set going really well and fucked it up in a theatrically cringey way. I still cringe hard when I think about them sometimes but I just have to laugh it off and say well good thing I know not to try that again.
/r/seduction30/09/17 04:15 PM
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Come on dude... Grow some balls
/r/seduction28/09/17 01:16 PM
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damn nigga where you at? Thats ridiculous
/r/seduction28/09/17 01:15 PM
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If youre town has good public transit or if you live near somewhere you can go on a date then absolutely. Picking the woman up is pretty outdated, although still good to do.
/r/seduction28/09/17 12:01 PM
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You aren't her therapist bro. She obviously has some baggage that she hasn't dealt with yet. Just be yourself and try to show her that you are (Im assuming) a nice guy and she can trust you but I would really encourage you not to build any relationship on the foundation of trying to "heal" her. It's not fair to you.
/r/seduction28/09/17 10:56 AM
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Man you are way overthinking this. This is what 90% of the posts in this sub are now. "I want to do X but there is A B C D preventing me from it... Validate me reddit!" Approaching in the gym is hard because most people don't want to be interrupted, so you might have to come up with something. Maybe even as simple as timing your exits to be the same and chatting her up - yea it might come off as a little weird but really who gives a fuck? If she wants to talk to you then it will be no problem an…
/r/seduction28/09/17 10:44 AM
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Reset your account (delete the app off your facebook too) Then try plus. I was getting like 5 matches a week if I was lucky then I got plus and its like 10 in an hour because they make your profile higher status. Imo worth it for like $5 a month
/r/seduction28/09/17 10:35 AM
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Don't say "I jus wanna fuk u bb" Do say "Im not looking for a relationship rn" then it just depends on if shes down or not
/r/seduction28/09/17 10:30 AM
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Cologne definitely makes a difference when used properly, but its also not a deal breaker without it. Girls can definitely get turned on by a nice cologne and they will notice even if they don't say anything. The huge key is that you have to use it properly... Don't get any cheap bullshit, Id recommend spending at least $50. However this amount should last at least 4 or 5 months depending on how often you use it (I only use cologne when Im going to bars or clubs, not everyday) But the major key …
/r/seduction28/09/17 10:25 AM
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I read somewhere that usually once you get to the point where you're wondering if its okay to kiss her you probably could have kissed her 10 minutes ago.
/r/seduction28/09/17 09:06 AM
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Damn that's good. I can never ever remember names either. It has cost me more than a few quality girls when they shit tested me asking what their name was and I didn't have a back up plan for forgetting lol.
/r/seduction27/09/17 09:13 AM
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Totally agree with this. Asking an interesting question can be good if done properly but getting too meta with a person when you first meet them is just strange.. It usually sounds so forced
/r/seduction27/09/17 08:53 AM
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Ahahah how did you pull that off? "Hey my friend is too scared to get your number can I give it to him??" If he was too shy to talk to her, and too indifferent to even try once you got the number for him I would say he has no business keeping you from going for it. Although I do understand the complex dynamics of friendship, maybe just ask him if hes cool with it.
/r/seduction27/09/17 08:48 AM
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Lmao if you could actually pull off having a fuck buddy group chat to just see who is available you would be my idol. However I recommend as the old saying goes, "don't shit where you eat" I have a feeling 99.9999% of girls would not go for being in a chat with all the other girls you're fucking and would probably kill most of their interest. I admire your courage though and definitely want updates if you pull it off.
/r/seduction27/09/17 08:36 AM
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What the hell does "different schedules mean"? are you trying to convince yourself not to message her lol? You eat dinner, she eats dinner. Just ask her if she wants to do it together sometime. Simple
/r/seduction27/09/17 08:25 AM
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Don't talk to any of them or they'll think you're a creep. Just go to class, never say anything, just stare at them during the class to see which ones wink back at you... Honestly man what were you thinking when you posted this... do you just want someone on reddit to confirm that when you are in a huge yoga class of only girls its a good idea to talk to them..?
/r/seduction27/09/17 08:18 AM
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Being okay with slumps haha. Ill go out one night and have a blast end up grabbing really hot girls and making out with them without saying a word and feel like a fuckin pimp, and then if I have a few weeks where I don't meet any new girls I start getting in my head that Im not good enough or something so then I don't have confidence in my interactions, rinse, and repeat until I get my shit together
/r/seduction25/09/17 12:33 PM
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What in the fuck does this have to do with this sub. I swear to god half the posts here now are absolutely meaningless
/r/seduction22/09/17 10:44 AM
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Don't message her again until the date. No need to put a meaningless conversation on life support just for the sake of talking to her when shes already agreed to meet you. Before the date send her a light hearted see you soon or something
/r/seduction22/09/17 10:40 AM
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Glad Im not the only one who sees that's what a majority of this sub's posts are becoming "Guys, using only my tl;dr version of events do you think this girl likes me?!?!"
/r/seduction22/09/17 10:31 AM
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Honestly if I were you I would ditch calling as a main method of communication. I definitely believe calling early on in the interaction can be good because it is unique now a days and sets you a part, but I think calling someone repeatedly who isn't calling you back in equal volume is a death sentence. Tread lightly
/r/seduction22/09/17 10:27 AM
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How about reading the sidebar and browsing this sub before posting stupid questions
/r/seduction22/09/17 10:10 AM
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Clickbait
/r/seduction22/09/17 10:09 AM
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I definitely relate. I dated the same girl for like 4 years and when we broke up the first girl I managed to pull was so insanely hot that I wasn't even sure what had happened, she was a perfect 10 to me and when it came time to perform I was like wait this is the first new girl Ive been with in years. If I finish too soon she'll think Im lame (with my gf it was always just like 'sorry about that I was already super turned on, lets just go again in a few minutes and ill be able to go longer'), a…
/r/seduction22/09/17 09:16 AM
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And what does that have to do with this sub... honestly.
/r/seduction22/09/17 09:04 AM
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Start by reading the side bar ffs
/r/seduction21/09/17 08:51 AM
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No a good face is everything. In fact most girls prefer the dad bod. If I were you I would pack on some weight - 30 or 40 lbs at least for the "cute chubby" effect
/r/seduction21/09/17 08:50 AM
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literally I hate what this sub has become. "does having a good body make me more attractive xD" "so this girl texts me constantly and invited me to her house, does she like me??!" not sure why I still come here lol
/r/seduction21/09/17 08:40 AM
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So a guy doing ballet is messaging "many kisses" to a girl hes not currently official with. I'd question if he really isn't a ballerina himself iykwim..
/r/seduction21/09/17 08:05 AM
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Well if theres one thing I learned its that if you are starting from scratch you have to be willing to add value. Not just go out and say "I want hot friends so I have a cool social circle". When I broke up with my gf with whom I had a lot of mutual friends that I lost in the 'divorce' I was in this same spot. I don't know what you are into so craft this to your own life style but for one example - my roommate and good friend is in a popular bar band, so if I met some cool people during the week…
/r/seduction20/09/17 07:58 AM
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Jesus this sub goes farther downhill everyday
/r/seduction19/09/17 07:51 AM
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Im glad Im not the only one who thinks this. In the beginning I always thought Tyler was supposed to be the "master sensai" on personal development. Some of his videos are pretty good but I get the feeling in a lot of them that he just starts spewing bullshit about becoming one with the universe and then does his big cheesy smile and calls attention to the fact that he just rambles and everyone is like oh so brilliant that he even recognizes it! I much prefer Julian and Max but even Max is getti…
/r/seduction19/09/17 06:55 AM
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I agree with this guy. Personally I prefer a girl without abs, or at the most maybe the slightest hint of abs. Im actually unattracted to those body building girls you see with captain America abs. Everyone has different body type preferences. I prefer slender girls, some of my friends only like "thick" girls. I am a very tall and thin guy, but some girls have told me they prefer "otter mode" to guys who are ridiculously jacked. Then again some girls only want channing tatum muscly guys. As long…
/r/seduction18/09/17 11:07 AM
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What part of this makes you think its a shit test lol? she made an effort to reschedule so I probably wouldn't over think this one if I were you and just tell her Thursday would be better. Imo your teasy response is a little too much when shes already committed to the date, drawing attention to being nervous makes it seem like this date is a really big deal to you when going on dates with nice girls should be something youre used to (or at least that's the impression you should give). Again just…
/r/seduction12/09/17 11:07 AM
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I put out a lot of content on self-actualization, self-development, winning in other areas of life, being grounded I'm sorry but this post comes off to me as someone who really has a lot of stock in other peoples opinions of them and therefore not someone I really want to read about self actualization from. Just my opinion from this very whiney post, why do you care so much about what the people around you or 'the PUA community' think about how much you want to get laid?
/r/seduction12/09/17 08:08 AM
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Read the side bar ffs. It has everything you need to know to start. You'll never get it to work from the mindset of 'Im 19 I have to get laid' though. You need to start by focusing on yourself and not seeking validation from getting laid.
/r/seduction12/09/17 07:53 AM
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Have a Dan Bilzerian lifestyle! said the youtube video with 100 views.
/r/seduction11/09/17 04:09 PM
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Can't speak to French culture but I'd say on the cheek to start with - but don't make it one of those generic European greeting kisses make it an actual kiss. I would hold her other cheek gently with my hand while I kissed the other one. Sets a good physical tone that you can follow up with later after you calibrate her, kissing on the mouth right when you meet seems a little more for people who are an official item. Just my opinion from limited info of course. If she hooked up with you and made…
/r/seduction11/09/17 04:01 PM
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Okay so what's your point? Yes it's always going to be easier to meet high quality people through networking rather than cold approaching because you start off with validation from being a friend and I agree with you that I would always rather do it in this way. But 2 of the hottest girls Ive ever been with - absolute 9-10 stunners (imo) were from cold approaches at bars so its not impossible. And anyways if you are doing pick up properly i.e. developing yourself personally along the way instead…
/r/seduction11/09/17 03:28 PM
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Why do you have to cut contact? If she doesn't like you in that way that's just part of the process. If you've made your intentions clear and that's her response you just gotta accept it. Doesn't mean you can't still be friends, its always a good idea to have attractive girls as friends. And if you stay friends theres always the possibility she develops feelings later on.
/r/seduction11/09/17 03:14 PM
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Good lord this is the most immature post I have seen here in a while
/r/seduction11/09/17 10:11 AM
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It sounds like you went out alone which might have been the problem. For me, when Im in a group of ideally 4 or 5 other guys I am unstoppable, but I also have a really hard time getting in a fun mood when I am alone. Last week I went to London alone because I just moved to Europe and don't have many good friends here. When I was going around alone I was enjoying myself but yknow just sort of casual, but on Friday night I met a group of really cool guys my age and seriously felt like I was on som…
/r/seduction11/09/17 09:23 AM
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Some of the posts on here really amaze me. So what you want to go have sex with a lot of girls but think that if they sleep with you that they are sluts? Im confused.
/r/seduction04/09/17 01:06 PM
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This is exactly my kind of humor. Telling a story so outrageously autistic while piecing it together with famous monologue quotes like 'The seas were angry that day, my friends' or what not. Problem is you have to careful how memey you get with the wrong crowds
/r/seduction04/09/17 12:24 PM
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like the time my tendies were uncooked I probably wouldn't tell that exact line to a girl but I actually did laugh pretty hard at it.
/r/seduction04/09/17 12:18 PM
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It really like that scene from dead poets society. So avoid using the word ‘very’ because it’s lazy. A man is not very tired, he is exhausted. Don’t use very sad, use morose. Language was invented for one reason, boys - to woo women - and, in that endeavor, laziness will not do. It also won’t do in your essays
/r/seduction04/09/17 12:17 PM
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Same with me. I always tell facts maybe with some spice but I work in engineering development so maybe Im conditioned to just explain things in the simplest terms. Within the last few months I have been really conscious to be better about this and imo 90% of it is wording and pauses. Im also a lot better now and realizing when Ive used up my allotted story time and am just boring people so I can tell a quick joke to end on a high note and cut it off
/r/seduction04/09/17 12:14 PM
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Lol literally last night one of my female friends was freaking the fuck out about what if she invites a guy to go to something and hes busy. I told her that same shit if they're into you they will make an effort to reschedule. Then later on that same damn night I invited a girl to coffee this afternoon and she was busy but asked if tomorrow was okay. Once you are 'in' with the person theres very little you can do to fuck it up without trying. Like the first scene of Hitch When you're wondering w…
/r/seduction04/09/17 11:59 AM
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At this point I would say that they get laid just from being rich even if they didn't get it from game.
/r/seduction04/09/17 11:55 AM
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Don't ask for the number. This makes it a question where they have a choice and in the buyer-seller mindset it knocks you down because you are receiving the number from them like a gift. Instead what I always do instead of saying 'can I have your number?' Ill say 'Hey lets exchange numbers' or simply 'give me your number'. I think I learned that from RSD Max a while back and I can say that's one thing that really has worked for me and makes getting the number feel a lot more natural
/r/seduction04/09/17 11:50 AM
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Most of us have been there man. I think the same the all the time that Ill never be able to find someone again as good as my ex, and it depresses me that even when I TRY to get back in the game I hardly ever come across a girl as hot as she is and when I do see one I chicken out. Just a piece of advice from me is to NEVER let yourself go down the rabbit hole of thinking about her - I pull one of her old shirts out of my closet, immediately start trying to name as many trig identities as possible…
/r/seduction30/08/17 11:42 AM
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Damn man I literally know that feel. That's why my recent breakup with my old high school/college sweetheart was so hard for me was because my ex was crazy hot. Way out of my league hot. and Ive always been someone who has struggled with self esteem in my appearance. so a lot of the time Ill get stuck on thoughts that Ill never be able to get another girl as hot as she is. but you just have to accept that that's how it works, a hot girl is always going to have more options and theres nothing you…
/r/seduction30/08/17 10:57 AM
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I believe the saying is that we are the average of the 5 people we associate with the most. Excellent saying though. Another one of my favorites is from Nick Saban - "Mediocre people don't like high-achievers and high-achievers don't like mediocre people. Mediocre people don't like being forced to do more than what they've always done, and high achievers don't like being slowed down by mediocrity"
/r/seduction30/08/17 09:24 AM
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