youknowthevibbees Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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3	I’m finally done Will never understand why some women get into a relationship with someone they already know is violent—especially when he physically abused his previous partner. Why do they think they’ll be the exception? And if she’s determined to stay with him, then your first priority should be getting your kids away from that man. Sorry this wasn’t the life you imagined…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/08/26 03:07 PM
1	Worst year ever. Do I just keep up the charade? ”traumatize my kids” What is this phenomenon where some parents thinks a kids life will be great just because they have to parents at home? And when the parents are as distance as you and your wife? Not sleeping in the same bed, no weeding ring, I can assume no being intimate either (not only sex)… not roommates for the kids…. The kids will pick up on that… and think that this is a normal relationship….. If you want to wait for your wife to stack up here body count by 20, get bored of it, then c…	/r/Divorce_Men	31/07/26 11:41 AM
2	20+ years of marriage, last year was tough, now found out about infidelity Sorry to say this, but if she still truly loved you, she would have at least tried to reconcile… not just go straight to divorce… Her wanting counseling now just sounds like her just trying to make you more ok with the fact that she cheated….. I completely understand why you want to keep the divorce peaceful, especially for your kids and because finances are tight. But don’t let that stop you from protecting yourself. If the roles were reversed and you had cheated while hiding it for months, do …	/r/Divorce_Men	25/07/26 02:32 PM
10	I knew this would be tough. But to see her immediately with another man… Sorry to tell you, and you probably have figured this out by now… but assuming the person she is with now was her affair partner, usually means the contact between them never stop….	/r/Divorce_Men	20/07/26 07:52 PM
1	Do I tattle on my ex wife and her paramour? (After divorce is final) Is the affair still going? Either way tell her… You deserve a little bit of selfishness atm so yes also tell after the divorce is settled… because those agreements you listed sounds as good as they can come….	/r/Divorce_Men	22/06/26 08:58 PM
3	Can’t stop the tears Yea that right there is something you can never forget or forgive….. Theirs absolutely no reason to continue this	/r/Divorce_Men	15/05/26 03:39 PM
1	Can people who get divorced remain close friends? It’s possible to stay as friends yes, how good of friends depends, and what kind of friends…. Like I don’t think you want hear about how great the new guy she’s dating is… But either way… she asked, but is this something you want?	/r/Divorce_Men	16/03/26 04:23 AM
3	She wants me, she wants me not, she wants me and everything else. Protect you how exactly? 😂 nothing she did or said was her protecting you…. If she did actually date, then I believe this was her using this opportunity/manipulation to do so in peace… she either had a person waiting or she found someone quick… I also think in her mind she thought this “house seperation” was something she was gonna keep for a while, then one day come up with the “should we try again” after he fun had run out… Updateme!	/r/Divorce_Men	20/05/25 10:05 PM
1	Yes and no reconciliation I will never understand poly man 😂 And her now have to “chose” between her husband for 11 years or a guy she met 7 months ago, is one of the reason I also will Never understand poly or put my self in that situation. But hey if it works for you (clearly not) then go for it… What are your thoughts atm? It looks like you are in between divorce or stay married. I can also tell you that her love for that guy is probably just the feeling of “new love”. The time she realize that you are ready do move o…	/r/Divorce_Men	16/04/25 06:53 PM
2	She is officially out Congrats ❤️ Updateme!	/r/Divorce_Men	08/04/25 02:37 AM
2	An Update on my Divorce It’s always sad to see a family split, especially when it’s not due to abuse, cheating, or anything like that. But after reading your post, I truly believe you’re making the right decision. For the first time in 20 years, you’re choosing yourself—after repeatedly expressing your needs over the years and receiving nothing in return. It’s good that she seems amicable for now, and I hope that doesn’t change once she truly realizes there’s no going back. But time will tell… One thing that really sto…	/r/Divorce_Men	02/04/25 03:20 PM
10	Mid-20s Love Revisited: Can We Rebuild After Infidelity and Divorce? Looking at your post 4 years ago… why tf would you want to get together again with a person who cheated on you more then once, planned to hook up with another person, mocked, laughed at you with other people and also physical abusive?	/r/Divorce_Men	19/03/25 12:03 PM
2	Wife suddenly left me and my world is crumbling apart. Updateme!	/r/Divorce_Men	27/02/25 11:58 PM
4	AITA for buying my ex wife flowers on V-day, after the divorce? From what you are writing in your posts and comments it seems like you are doing this because you still love her, and by that I wouldn’t call you an asshole, BUT you have to also think how she will see it. She left you because of your screw ups, maybe she didn’t have the same love for you back then, and that’s why she wouldn’t want to work on the relationship? Or maybe she has love for you still, but trying to “forget” that because of what you did.. sending her flowers and a card will just make …	/r/Divorce_Men	11/02/25 06:11 AM
4	Any reconciliation stories after false allegations? I really hope not…. Why would you want to be with a person again who you spent everyday with just for them to make up fake stories to get people’s sympathy😂…. Don’t make any sense… to me at least	/r/Divorce_Men	02/02/25 08:01 PM
2	STBXW wants to date after she moves out Hell no🤣🤣 You are 43 years.... Find a new relationship when you are ready for that.... I have also a feeling that she will drop you the second a new man comes around... She's just making sure you aren't running around with other women 🤣	/r/Divorce_Men	07/01/25 02:16 PM
1	STBXW wants to date after she moves out Heeeeelll nooo.... 🤣🤣	/r/Divorce_Men	07/01/25 02:13 PM
2	I Just Can't Shake This Feeling It was a long story maybe I went by it, but why did she start to act like this, because this is just crazy… Leave this person and please for your own, never look back… sounds like a complete nightmare	/r/Divorce_Men	23/12/24 10:53 PM
17	Ex wife message Looks like she’s tired of her 9 to 5 job 🤣 Updateme!	/r/Divorce_Men	06/12/24 11:32 PM
2	Sad Have you maybe asked her to stop or that you can’t handle being friends with her anymore if all she does is talking about him? She doesn’t she this the way you do. In her mind you two will always be best friends, even what she do. Tell her that enough is enough, if she has no plan on coming back then she can just leave you alone and not come to you and just talk about him… tell her that the only talks between you know has to be about the divorce. Updateme!	/r/Divorce_Men	30/11/24 05:46 AM
3	My (ex-)wife and I speedran divorce You like to “speedrun” things I can see🤣	/r/Divorce_Men	22/11/24 02:57 AM
7	Wife 45/F caught sexting then locked me up 45/M then had an affaire while kids were taken away Start with canceling the phone service😂 Then lawyer up….	/r/Divorce_Men	30/09/24 11:13 PM
1	Not even a month and she’s sending me stuff about couples that lasted longer than us. Yea i would never… but he was into that lifestyle to it seems… just sad it was with 🤕 person	/r/Divorce_Men	13/09/24 08:56 AM
6	Not even a month and she’s sending me stuff about couples that lasted longer than us. Sorry but I laughed a bit…. Imagine having a poly relationship, and she still chose to lie and leave for another man….. and now trying to get another chance…. Is she good in the head or what? 😭	/r/Divorce_Men	12/09/24 09:38 PM
4	Our son had cancer, we are over now. Damn man…. Not trying to sound like the devils advocate, but one thing is to want you wife and old life back, but do not you think that you can get passed what she has done? Like it would suck even more if you took her back stayed for some months then realized that this isn’t gonna work, while creating a bad home life for your son… Good luck❤️	/r/Divorce_Men	09/09/24 06:28 AM
6	Cheater STBXW is suddenly being nice to me 4 months after divorce filing 6 months after DDay Her affair fog(I think it’s what’s it’s called) is probably gone, and she sees that the grass wasn’t as greener on the other side.. her guilty is probably also starts to eat her alive… idk… Or classic cheater.. she wants to stay as friends(really don’t know what why cheaters except this, but is common) Just throwing some thoughts here😂 Edit: read thru your history and one thing I saw was: the fact that she already has narcissistic tendencies maybe the fact that you seemed like you didn’t care ab…	/r/Divorce_Men	27/08/24 04:14 AM
3	Wife started dating an older man as soon as she said, "I want a divorce" Dude sometimes the only answer is to leave… I believe that in some cases fighting for a marriage is right, but how you describe this… just leave man and spare you both from having a horrible co parents future…. They say that women fall out of love long before actually ending it, and the fact that she went out with a guy the day she asked, just shows she in this category… and if she somehow stops the divorce, it will just be years of trying to fix something that could just still end up in a divor…	/r/Divorce_Men	23/07/24 04:37 AM
5	No idea where this came from Updateme!	/r/Divorce_Men	12/07/24 12:17 AM
1	Wife wants divorce, but stay together for the kids. But I’m done Updateme!	/r/Divorce_Men	05/07/24 01:23 AM
1	My family says I should stay, but I want a divorce Updateme!	/r/Divorce_Men	10/06/24 04:44 PM
4	Would you take her back? Just leave man😂… you will use many months or maybe even years to just get over that she sleeped with 4 guys	/r/Divorce_Men	09/06/24 09:03 PM
1	Why do they get so angry and destructive when most of the time they’re the ones leaving? Is usually for them to trick themselves to feel like they did the right decision in the future…. And a ego boost	/r/Divorce_Men	07/05/24 05:30 PM
1	Moved back in a couple weeks ago but now I have Syphilis. The fact that you slept with her again knowing you have it condom or not is probably the nail in the coffin…. Should’ve told her before….	/r/Divorce_Men	07/05/24 05:26 PM