youlockitup Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	How forward is TOO forward from a young woman (22F) looking for a 2nd no-strings-attached hookup with a friend (23M)? What are some better options? the obvious answer, which i'm surprised nobody in r/SEDUCTION has said yet, is a) you can't be too forward with men. it's basically not a thing. especially with how this guy sounds. unless you're hideous (you're not by the sounds of it), then he will probably be thrilled that a girl actually did the leg work. b) fuck your friends for being judgmental. if you wanna bang some dude who the hell are they to judge? tl;dr - just fuckin do it.	/r/seduction	17/01/14 07:35 AM
2	[FR] Week 2 after Seddit Day 2+3: Riding my bike So I ride my bike to working out, and as I was riding home an HB6 pops up on my route but going the opposite direction. This is more of a question for help, but how would one Open in a situation like this? umm...i simply wouldnt. if you had turned around on your bike to catch up or something, that's going to come off as really weird, i feel. maybe if you pass her again you can wave and smile. then if you pass her a third time on your way home you could pull off the turn a…	/r/seduction	16/07/12 05:37 PM
2	Seddit has opened my eyes to a world of possibilities. couldnt agree with you more. the only way to get over something uncomfortable to you is to MAKE it comfortable. and you are the only person who can do that. great read. keep up the good work.	/r/seduction	16/07/12 05:31 PM
9	[FR] First time sarging in months That is definitely where you lost it. I cringed while reading that part. As for the FR, give us some more details about how you opened each set. What did you say? What were each sets reactions? And to me, it seems like you'd be much more successful if you had a solid wingman. Things could have ended very differently for you if you had a little help (I know...captain hindsight here....)	/r/seduction	16/07/12 02:12 PM
1	Phrases with which to "close?" definitely using that last one.	/r/seduction	15/07/12 03:59 AM
2	[FR]Party Bus Adventure Okay but what KIND of questions. Examples, buddy. The more detail the better. That way we can figure out what you did wrong, what you can do better, and what we can all learn from.	/r/seduction	11/07/12 02:18 AM
1	[FR]F-Close. How do I build an entourage? I'm failing at it. great analysis	/r/seduction	10/07/12 03:43 PM
2	[FR] Day Game at Night no problem. sounds like a plan, and happy gaming!	/r/seduction	10/07/12 05:52 AM
2	[FR] Day Game at Night haha yeah that would be nice. maybe one of the week or something since some days dont have a ton of FRs. but also forgot to add that at the first set where you blanked at the teen section, that would have been a good time for a light neg. something along the lines of "unless you're reading twilight, the adult section is over there" or something similar (unless they were actually like...17 like the HB7 later). seems you kind of frequent the bookstore, so maybe you could use that neg at a later da…	/r/seduction	10/07/12 05:46 AM
2	[FR] Day Game at Night no no. long field reports are good. the more detail, the better we can critique you. i think it was a good length, not overly detailed, but gave the necessary details of the events that occurred, and flowed easily from set to set. also, i've only been browsing this subreddit for a few days now, so I dont think i'm the best person to say. but from the field reports i've read (a bunch of them. i find them very interesting), this one was very good.	/r/seduction	10/07/12 05:30 AM
5	[FR] Day Game at Night good job with the #-close, too bad she seemed to suck. as for the shit test, i think you did fine. i think that answer would have worked on anyone who has actually experienced a 21st birthday. but otherwise youngins like this HB7 just assume you're supposed to be drinking like a maniac for days on end. i think it went fine.	/r/seduction	10/07/12 04:54 AM
1	[FR]A few approaches and some lessons you can say something similar without directly complimenting her looks. like "i was really enjoying our conversation, and i'd like to continue it so i can get to know you better" or something long those lines. or, you could approach her not long after she does the ice luge (or whatever any future girl gets pulled away to do) later, and say something long the lines of "so how'd the ice luge treat you? i have/havent done it yet. etc. etc." or whatever is appropriate for the situation.	/r/seduction	10/07/12 04:49 AM