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| 2 | The Ultimate Guide to TinderI’ve met lots of quality women through tinder you’d be surprised | /r/seduction | 27/01/19 01:28 PM |
| 1 | Vent post: I ghosted a girl that I was really into but I felt was playing games with me...plz helpNah didn’t consider long distance, just caught feels because I had so much in common with her and let it cloud my judgement and I made an emotional decision that I now regret only a day later. Was already anxious about my trip and this just compounded the existing stress. Thanks for the advice man. | /r/seduction | 26/01/19 01:00 AM |
| 2 | Vent post: I ghosted a girl that I was really into but I felt was playing games with me...plz helpYeah I know man...thanks for the honesty. | /r/seduction | 25/01/19 09:50 PM |
| – | Vent post: I ghosted a girl that I was really into but I felt was playing games with me...plz helpYeah man I think you’re totally right on several points here, thanks for the advice. I realize that my over investment in her is a lack of abundance thing but connecting with someone on deeper level like that isn’t something I’ve experienced much. I also always have to remind myself that the 9-10 types are a whole other animal....it’s something I’ve learned the hard way several times lately, the amount of attention they get is ridiculous. | /r/seduction | 25/01/19 09:32 PM |
| – | I was going to have sex and lose my virginity with a girl who liked me and I couldn't get an erection. Is it possible to make her interested in me again?Yeah I probably wouldn’t have taken cialis either if the problem wasn’t so persistent for me. Doctor said he thinks I may have a venous leak too so I kind of just gave up lol. I barely ever get morning wood. Good luck with everything hope my advice helps, you’ll get through this. | /r/seduction | 25/01/19 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Never compromise for her shitty behavior!!Hell no. The n word is on an entirely different level than honky and cracker in my opinion. White people weren’t enslaved, dehumanized, and confined to poverty for hundreds of years. Y’all are right, context does matter, just not the way you’re portraying it. | /r/seduction | 25/01/19 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Never compromise for her shitty behavior!!To some people, saying the hard r n-word, even in a joking manner, is incredibly unacceptable. It is one of the most offensive words in the English language, and using it as a joke reflects a massive lack of respect of African Americans and the oppression they’ve experienced. I have cut friends out of my life over the “joking” usage of this word. | /r/seduction | 25/01/19 05:03 PM |
| 2 | Never compromise for her shitty behavior!!Stunned by how many people are minimizing her saying the hard r n-word....absolute dealbreaker for me | /r/seduction | 25/01/19 05:00 PM |
| – | I was going to have sex and lose my virginity with a girl who liked me and I couldn't get an erection. Is it possible to make her interested in me again?A few things. To be honest I did end up getting a cialis (off brand viagra) prescription. $30 for a 3 month supply with a coupon from the GoodRX site to guarantee you’ll never have this problem again. I was hesitant to do this for years because of the possibility of my problem being psychological, the fact that I would have to talk to my parents about it, the hassle, etc. My only regret is not doing this sooner, since this problem ruined sex for me my first two years of college. I don’t take it … | /r/seduction | 25/01/19 04:57 PM |
| 2 | Witty and humor via tinder and text but in real life different story...Oh my bad it isn’t a sexist joke, more mocking where they are from or something like that. Compliment them but tease them about something in their background is the gist of what I was going for. | /r/seduction | 25/01/19 12:03 AM |
| 1 | Can confidence really overpower someone who looks average to below average when trying to look for someone to date?Yes yes yes. Most simple example is that someone with confidence is more likely to approach, escalate, and take risks than someone with no or low confidence. It’s a numbers game to an extent. Confidence is also attractive to everybody. | /r/seduction | 24/01/19 08:20 PM |
| 1 | How to stop putting attractive girls on a pedestal?Idk what a shad is but I will admit that I am naturally above average looking. But that alone didn’t do jack shit for me for many years, because I had a stupid haircut, dressed like a 4th grader, had no self confidence, was a people pleaser, and spent most of my weekends doing drugs with losers. When I was 19 I had a bodycount of two; my fat depressive ex girlfriend and a random one night stand with some drunk crazy chick. I never thought I’d have any chance at the hottest girls. There is defini… | /r/seduction | 24/01/19 08:17 PM |
| 4 | my 2019 resolution: leave comfort zone permanentlyI don’t disagree, and it may sound like cliche advice at this point, but 3/4 of the posts I see on here ask about stuff that models discusses extensively. I think a lot of the everyday lurkers/commenters have not read it and may not have even heard of it. I will recommend that book to everyone because it saved my goddamn life. | /r/seduction | 24/01/19 08:07 PM |
| – | Witty and humor via tinder and text but in real life different story...Practice, practice, practice. Oh, and practice. Also read Models by Mark Manson and No More Mr Nice Guy. Humor is a challenging aspect of game if it doesn’t come naturally to you. I’d say watch stand up comedy and figure what types of humor work best for you. Some good rules of thumb for using humor on women are to combine compliments/joking insults (Wow you’re really smart for a girl from...) and to practice push/pull (occasionally “pull” your interest away if she gives a bad answer to a joke). | /r/seduction | 24/01/19 08:06 PM |
| 1 | Married coworker coming on to me?Not worth your time, effort, or mental energy in my opinion. She has problems and she’s using you, there is no future or happy ending in this “relationship.” I’d move on or ignore the advances. | /r/seduction | 24/01/19 08:00 PM |
| – | I was going to have sex and lose my virginity with a girl who liked me and I couldn't get an erection. Is it possible to make her interested in me again?Well there’s only one way to find out, id say go for it and try again. I had a streak in college of several girls in a row I couldn’t get erect with because of nerves. It was horribly embarrassing and I absolutely felt like an emasculated wuss. It was also at a small college so word got around about my little “problem.” The girls were surprisingly pretty understanding, and gave me 2nd and even 3rd chances. If you’re honest about it and don’t freak out and cry or something only a total b*tch will… | /r/seduction | 24/01/19 07:48 PM |
| – | my 2019 resolution: leave comfort zone permanentlyHell yeah man! Check out Models by Mark Manson if you want something to really get you motivated and pointed in the right direction. Only thing I’d say you ought to be concerned ab the age gap. Some college girls will reject you because you’re older. Definitely hit some venues that’ll have people more your age. | /r/seduction | 24/01/19 06:03 PM |
| 1 | How to stop putting attractive girls on a pedestal?Couldn’t disagree more, it comes down to status and personality. If a guy is the life of the party and super involved and successful, then women will be more drawn to him. A woman with poor social skills, no matter how hot, will struggle to date such men more than you’d expect. | /r/seduction | 24/01/19 03:27 PM |
| – | How to stop putting attractive girls on a pedestal?Well I’ve come across a LOT of hot girls who while hot, struggle with many personality shortcomings (shyness, awkwardness, clinginess) that lead to the top 10% of guys using them for sex and then casting them aside. These girls will definitely “date down” given the chance. Getting laid alone isn’t seen as much of an achievement in the eyes of a hot girl, being desired, pursued, and committed to is. | /r/seduction | 24/01/19 03:24 PM |
| 2 | Insecurity wont go away no matter how many girls i get withREAD MODELS BY MARK MANSON, NO MORE MR NICE GUY, AND HOW TO WIN FRIENDS AND INFLUENCE PEOPLE. IN THAT ORDER. PDF’s are online for free. It literally saved my life. Way better than anything someone in Reddit will tell you. Models in particular is life changing stuff. And yes, sex can be super unfulfilling if it’s with chicks you aren’t that interested in or who aren’t interested in you. | /r/seduction | 23/01/19 10:49 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]I mean “shit test” is a super broad reddit term, but I feel like you should flip it back on them, or confirm and amplify whatever they are throwing at you to a comedic degree. | /r/seduction | 23/01/19 10:46 PM |
| 2 | Improving my gameREAD MODELS BY MARK MANSON, NO MORE MR NICE GUY, AND HOW TO WIN FRIENDS AND INFLUENCE PEOPLE. IN THAT ORDER. PDF’s are online for free. It literally saved my life. Way better than anything someone in Reddit will tell you. Models in particular is life changing stuff. | /r/seduction | 23/01/19 10:45 PM |
| 49 | How to stop putting attractive girls on a pedestal?Invest in yourself (physique, style, friends, confidence) and start seeing yourself in a more positive light. Talk to attractive girls more in non-sexual settings, and naturally you will begin to see them as people (ugly, imperfect people just like everyone else) and not angels. No, I’m not recommending to become a friend zone king. I’m talking work, class, etc. Actually hook up with, date, and spend time alone with attractive girls. Honestly until you do this it is hard to entirely overcome thi… | /r/seduction | 23/01/19 10:42 PM |
| 1 | Lateral Game: The Fundamental Kernel of Natural GameSigh...you still have not given us the studies you are basing your statements on my friend. While I don’t disagree with what you’re arguing entirely, we don’t know how they measured any of the variables you discuss. Bad scientific research is published everyday that falls prey to the issues I raise, and people use it to defend their viewpoints all the time. Not saying this is yours but we just don’t know. And anyway, just telling people to “use PUA” without rehearsal or practice is obviously not… | /r/seduction | 18/01/19 07:49 PM |
| 0 | How do I stop being do triggerhappy on dating apps/sites?Seek therapy. I’m not trying to be harsh, but that is bizarre behavior. You sound like a smart guy, you can do better. | /r/seduction | 18/01/19 05:16 PM |
| 2 | Lateral Game: The Fundamental Kernel of Natural GameEveryone GO READ MODELS BY MARK MANSON. | /r/seduction | 18/01/19 05:08 PM |
| 1 | Lateral Game: The Fundamental Kernel of Natural GameThis right here is a classic ad hoc fallacy. People who feel motivated to research and practice PUA to begin with are clearly getting less ass than the average person, or they wouldn’t feel the need to develop this skill. Once they start practicing PUA, and few people probably ever reach “mastery,” the initial limitations that made them below average with women won’t go away over night. The problem is with them, not PUA itself. And there is no real way to quantity if someone is a “nice guy.” If … | /r/seduction | 18/01/19 05:04 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Your only mistakes that I can point out without literally watching your interactions are the fact that you didn’t go in for the kill and ask her to come home w you, and said “you’re pretty cool.” You’re not the only one to make these mistakes so don’t be hard on yourself, but I’d recommend using tinder mostly for casual sex. | /r/seduction | 18/01/19 01:38 AM |
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