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Well then I guess I’m getting nothing then. I either go for number, WhatsApp or FB (if they’re older). I don’t like instagram because often times, if a girl gives you their IG she probably is just using you for followers and has many guys in her DMs anyways. Interesting perspective though and thanks for sharing.
/r/seduction25/01/25 02:18 AM
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Tell her it’s fine because you were planning to go without her anyways as you only invited her instead of planning it specially for her and also say that you still got to meet “many faces.” If you act out, it will make you look weak and insecure. But if you tell her you met other girls without actually saying it, it makes you look sociable, unbothered AND desired.
/r/seduction15/11/24 09:15 PM
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“Most women”, how can you say that when ALL women are vastly different?
/r/seduction15/11/24 07:59 PM
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So basically have your own life and don’t show off. Agreed! I also think though, part of it is that some men fail to understand what women look for isn’t the same as what men look for. For example, for men, looks don’t matter to women as much as they do to men. And for women, we don’t care whether they make a good leader, decision making, strength or other masculine traits… men and women are literally opposite. This is why guys will “looksmax” and still fail. And why women will climb the ladder,…
/r/seduction15/11/24 05:35 PM
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If you want to get better in a certain area of your life then you have to find your weakest area and develop it. You are already getting girls, although not at the rate you wish, but to get more girls… you should be improving other areas too. Having 4 girls will be costly so, consider increasing salary. You have to balance everything, so if your social life is thriving but finances aren’t straight, cut back on social and get some bread. But if someone is a big shot but not getting girls because …
/r/seduction15/11/24 05:26 PM
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You are way too hard on yourself, take a breather G. I think you’re really over estimating how much people are having sex. Even if you sleep with 1, you’re still doing better than a lot of guys. And you had a girlfriend too. Relax there, you are thinking of this as a number game, but you don’t want to nor be able to sleep with every girl. I had sex with 2 in a couple of months because I too just started. But I was also partially selective because quality over quantity.
/r/seduction15/11/24 11:28 AM
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Well how many girls are you approaching? Also I always say this, but ditch apps! Apps= no good unless you are some big shot or spend money on some profile coach which isn’t worth it. In dating apps, she has hundreds of other guys. But when you approach her irl, you have her attention and it’s more memorable.
/r/seduction14/11/24 03:53 PM
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What are you trying to talk about? Are you trying to talk about their day? Or are you asking about them? Ask about them or tell a story (could be fabricated). If they still aren’t interested, just look at your phone, say “I gotta take this” and dip on out. Don’t waste your time on someone who’s going to be dry. 9/10 times it’s what the guy is talking about. And only 1/10 times is a girl really just naturally dry.
/r/seduction13/11/24 10:46 PM
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I think you have a common misconception. You don’t shrink your dating pool…. like not everyone is going to like you. What about the girls that don’t like clean guys without tats or piercings?? You will lose the girls that like clean guys but gain the ones that like tats, because what one woman sees as a turn off is what another could find attractive. Every woman is different. You saying that you’ll narrow your options assumes that every single woman likes you in the first place. INFACT, I ENCOUR…
/r/seduction13/11/24 02:12 PM
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Well said, and I would like to add that although I’m still working on patiences, it’s a must. Another case for hostile vs benevolent sexism is instead og thinking… “Gee, we always go shopping for one thing but it turns into 3 hours of shopping and 37 bags. Why can’t she just fucking be quick!” Turn that into this thought.. “She always takes so long with shopping, so she must want to spend time with me… how cute!”
/r/seduction13/11/24 01:46 PM
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Get off dating apps and go to target! Dating apps are like training wheels. But if you go to target, you’ll find middle class baddies and milfs. Plus, dating apps won’t work unless you are some big shot or spend hundreds and even thousands just on your profile.
/r/seduction13/11/24 12:51 PM
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Nice! And sorry about that, some of the American women are just so vain compared to other women around the globe and they wouldn’t even be exactly the prettiest 🤦🏽‍♂️. But I would have said “Oh that’s great but I’m from Austria, so can your boyfriend help me with directions then?” Lmao.
/r/seduction13/11/24 12:30 PM
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Right on! People over complicate the process but in the end it doesn’t matter what you do or say… it’s how you do it. That’s why sometimes being direct is better than pick up lines or beating around the bushes. Being direct is straight to the point and bold… it filters out fluff and is ideal, especially when one of the two of you don’t have time to keep on chatting.
/r/seduction12/11/24 07:26 PM
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Yeah. I see a point there. If she has a wall up, so should you. But once that wall is down, it’s ok to care.
/r/seduction12/11/24 07:14 PM
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“Hey I only have a minute but when you opened the door I noticed (insert compliment about something that stands out earrings, shirt, boots etc) I’m (your name) what’s you’re name?” Get her name then number. Then you’re a delivery driver so when you ask her on a date be like “I got one final stop at (place+ time of proposed date), would you like to join me?” But act as if you were going anyways and actually go even if she doesn’t because you might actually meet someone.
/r/seduction12/11/24 07:12 PM
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I appreciate you trying to help, but I think you’re over thinking it. Sure may help for some people and if thinking of it as a game helps you… then GREAT! But we’re dealing with actual humans with emotions. Don’t forget why some of us are here, because we want that connection that we never really got before learning. Completely forgetting about women’s emotions aren’t fair to them. Look at it like this: it’s not about trying to sleep with as many women but more so making them feel great.
/r/seduction12/11/24 06:56 PM
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Not just once but many times when I was still a chump, I’d get “let’s just be friends” all the time, then I would stay in it hoping they’d change their mind. It took me the 6th girl to finally stop orbiting.
/r/seduction12/11/24 02:15 PM
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Tell her “K” and act nonchalant while working on a backup date.
/r/seduction12/11/24 11:16 AM
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25 and got out of High school? Or do you mean get out of School High?! Lmao anyways, you say making guy friends is easy, then have them go out with you and have fun with the bros because it’s social proof. Then you can also tell them to make you approach girls. Give them $50 broken up into $5 increments and then have them return $5 for every girl or 2 you approach. No matter if you get rejected, you still approached so you get $5 back. It doesn’t matter if you’re Asian or Latino like myself, rac…
/r/seduction10/11/24 09:53 PM
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Yeah. What I suggest is reading “Mystery Method”. It will tell you how to open groups which in short: You start talking to your interest’s group and make friends with the friends. Her friends are her defense. Once you win her friends, the gate is down. But this is because women are more susceptible… especially with friends. A girl doesn’t want to be judged for giving you her info, but if the group likes you then SHE will also like you. “Oh the group thinks lavellj048 is valid, so now I think so …
/r/seduction10/11/24 09:05 PM
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Start peacocking and talk to as many strangers as possible. The longer people see you by yourself, the more it will kill your social proof. So if you cannot find anyone, pretend to check your phone then bounce to a different venue. But I would also try to make guy friends because you can hit them up next weekend asking if they’ll be at the bar then you can just meet them there.
/r/seduction10/11/24 08:38 PM
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Sir, big props! I am 24 but I would like to be like you in my 40s. I am semi broke but working on self improvement and staying healthy. If you don’t mind… is there anything you wish you would have done at my age that you didn’t do?
/r/seduction10/11/24 06:03 PM
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No, he was just first. Let it be and find another one. It’s a club, there are many others. That’s why the saying is “hesitation kills”.
/r/seduction10/11/24 06:01 PM
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Learn to approach. BUT it’s hard to without first altering your perspective. You need to go from trying to appease women to finding yourself and instead finding people who appreciate you. I also recommend some guy friends. Guys get you girls and girls gets you guys because of social proof. Start talking to strangers that won’t intimidate you. Get rid of those stomach knots with people you don’t really mind the outcome with.
/r/seduction10/11/24 05:59 PM
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See. You have to think like that. It may be over but be glad it happened. You got some, better than nothing. Plus you want to be the one she’s attracted to instead of the kind she claims to like.
/r/seduction10/11/24 02:01 AM
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And you’re a white flag so why don’t you just surrender!
/r/seduction10/11/24 12:22 AM
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So if you’re confident that they are skinnier or that you’re better than them then the confidence should be there. I used to feel the same way but wait till you realize what I’m about to tell you brother, and it will completely flip your perspective (for the better). What women are ATTRACTED to is different from what they LIKE. When a woman has a relationship with a guy, it’s basically just an agreement and all she does is agree to keep hanging out with him. When a woman is attracted to a guy, s…
/r/seduction09/11/24 11:56 PM
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Those guys you are comparing yourself to, ain’t shit! Plus you don’t even know the dynamics, what if they’re just going out as friends? Have you tried asking? I used to feel not good enough and intimidated by other men too! So what I did was sign up and started taking kick boxing on and off but it’s given me confidence. You need a hobby that will give you confidence. I suggest something masculine because if you do something that makes you feel like a man, you’ll start acting accordingly.
/r/seduction09/11/24 07:16 PM
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I am not, but I am trying to be. Just not in this town I currently live in. So I’m just trying to get my money up to move to a bigger area.
/r/seduction09/11/24 02:58 PM
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Hmm. Maybe I should try that. Or bounce her to a different venue. I never tried calling or texting right away because I thought it’d look desperate… but I could be wrong and will try.
/r/seduction08/11/24 05:21 PM
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Eh. You could make an effort but they’re more likely to flake because as far as they’re concerned, yeah she may have had a great time but you’re just a person she had a good time with. That’s why day game is better, because even if it’s harder, girls are more sincere and WAY less likely to flake. My lays are from work or mutual friends. Never really got further than making out during night time.
/r/seduction08/11/24 05:18 PM
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Dude if everything you’re saying is true, then you can get close to any girl. I am 6ft but you’d make me look like a child 😂. Anyways if I were dating a model, I wouldn’t have to be running game… I would just keep her honestly. But if you are scared of rejection, instead of thinking of it like this “I got rejected, I’m not good enough… what’s wrong with me!” Think of it like this “I am just not her type, but oh well… let me keep trying. There is someone just as pretty who will appreciate me even…
/r/seduction08/11/24 05:06 PM
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Yes! Plus the longer OP lingers, the more weird it will get. That or she’ll eventually lose interest.
/r/seduction08/11/24 03:08 PM
3

“Hey, I just saw you and wanted to say hi because (insert compliment). (Pause quickly but not long enough for her to respond). I’m (you), what’s your name? (Reach out hand).” “You have really smooth hands! What kind of lotion are you using?” Opens up a whole conversation because women like talking about beauty. Or if you’re feeling bold, get more specific with compliments because you’ll certainly stand out. While hundreds of guys already complimented her body or looks, you can do something more …
/r/seduction08/11/24 12:17 PM
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Peacocking. If you peacock, you get noticed and “invited”. If a girl stares at you and smiles, she is just begging for you to go to her… I used to think they were just being nice but no. Also I’ve done costumes+props. And whenever I had props, I’ve been approached by girls themselves. It’s easy to peacock, you just have to stand out. But peacock the right way because if you wear way too much jewelry or chains, it will look like you’re trying too hard or they’ll be too intimidated to be welcoming…
/r/seduction08/11/24 12:03 PM
1

Well they DO care about body but not as much as you think. So yes, being in shape helps but it’s not on the top of their list understand? Like for us Personality and looks. But for them, fun, masculinity and looks coming at the bottom. So they do prefer a fit body but it won’t be a deal breaker if a guy is 10 pounds over but fulfills the other prerequisites. Understand?
/r/seduction08/11/24 12:30 AM
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I was the same exact way. I thought my muscles only could seal the deal. But there is one thing you have to learn about women, G. They want someone that connects with them, provides and makes them feel “alive”. Our bodies don’t matter to them the way theirs does to us. That’s why it’s hard for single women in their 40s to find someone, because looks fade. And that’s why men in their 50s date girls that could be their daughters. Because what we offer doesn’t fade and we only gain wisdom with time…
/r/seduction08/11/24 12:17 AM
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You need to approach one anyways. To over come your fears go out in public and say hi to a couple of them passing by. Also do some cold approaches and be completely honest… no pick up line or routine.. just the straight up. “I think you’re cute and would like to take you out for drinks”. Ways to not be creepy is: •Groom and stay clean •Have posture •Smile a little but not too much bc then you’d come across as fake or trying too hard •Make eye contact, but keep your eyes slightly squint and relax…
/r/seduction08/11/24 12:03 AM
11

Are they into Latinos? Asking for my wing… lmao
/r/seduction07/11/24 11:53 PM
3

Yeah. I think that you’re overthinking it. Doing one favor like holding her purse for 3 seconds isn’t simping. It’s a problem if she’s bossing you around… even if you are clapping cheeks you still shouldn’t let a lady boss you around. Now guys, yeah we like sex but we also have to still have some self respect too!
/r/seduction07/11/24 08:07 PM
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So? I been doing this stuff for almost a year and got laid only 4 times. Ik, lousy PUA. But you don’t just become an expert of everything over night. Learning is like a straight line (but to me an exponential curve). It takes me FOREVER to get something but then overnight I master it after a while. Back on topic though, what you could do is just be a listener and listen. The more you feel insecure about it, the more power you are giving sex and it’ll intimidate you. Just listen or talk about the…
/r/seduction07/11/24 08:01 PM
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You were needy. Girls are more likely to flake with apps, I’ve been unmatched/unfriended/unadded by numerous girls. It’s not you, trust me and take it at face value. Don’t try to think of a reason bc then you’ll go in a downward spiral of insecurity just think “She unadded me, time to keep trying” and that’s it.
/r/seduction06/11/24 05:32 PM
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Nope, you’re normal and not a psychopath. Some PUAs with years down still get nervous. I (although only months of doing this) still get nervous sometimes, I’m just good at masking it. It’s something you can alleviate but not quite get rid of. What helped me is picturing them naked bc it’d always make me laugh and then when they ask why I’m laughing, well an opportunity to tell a story even if a made up story…
/r/seduction06/11/24 12:30 AM
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Yes. I agree with that. So a neg. But that’s why it’s important to neg first before she could even say anything about you.
/r/seduction05/11/24 11:15 PM
1

Don’t be overly polite but also don’t be a dick, be somewhere in between. Assertive, yet fair and empathetic. Body language, voice/tone and sprinkling in innuendos and jokes that walk the line works for me. Once you practice it, it becomes a habit and once it’s a habit… it becomes part of your “frame”. Women have an intuition and they KNOW if you are around other women or not. They sense it and that’s why sometimes the moment a man is taken, he suddenly exists to every woman. You can have this f…
/r/seduction05/11/24 11:01 PM
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You’re fine. So long as she’s gave CLEAR indicators of interest and don’t make it weird. And if she touched you first then you can definitely touch her and reciprocate. A lot of mistakes I made in the past are: -Touching too soon -Touching the wrong place: Avoid the back unless she’s super comfortable with you. -Reaching out to touch bc I’m not close enough -Looking at my own hand; looking at your hands draws attention to it. But if she is married and still going out with you, you’re DEFINITELY …
/r/seduction05/11/24 05:25 PM
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The works of Mystery, Style’s mentor. So when I first started falling down the pick up rabbit hole, The Game was recommended, gave it a read and Mystery was pretty intriguing. “Mystery method” basically teaches what everyone here is already commenting…. “Make friends with her friends then isolate.”
/r/seduction05/11/24 05:20 PM
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Not that I know of. I only read mystery method, tried it and made small tweeks with each failure. But if I’m not wrong, there are videos of Mystery himself out there doing it. Not sure where to find them though.
/r/seduction05/11/24 05:10 PM
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You’ve read Mystery Method, didn’t you? Bc if so, same!
/r/seduction05/11/24 04:44 PM
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Get a wing who is a good talker then. But it’s good to approach groups alone bc you won’t always have a wing available.
/r/seduction05/11/24 04:41 PM
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You have a better chance opening with a set. Groups are actually the EASIEST because the girl will feel safer than if she was alone. Then the hardest to approach is a girl who is with only 1 other friend. With groups, all you have to do is make friends with her friends because they’re the main cock block and once you’re cool with them, you’ve gained (potentially) her info and some new friends just incase it doesn’t work out. What I recommend is reading “The mystery method” as Mystery list differ…
/r/seduction05/11/24 04:38 PM
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Agression isn’t good. If you’re aggressive and get mad, that shows you have no control of your emotions which guys should have. Think about it, she blows you off but you insult her or even yell… the first thing a girl will most likely think is: “Geez, what is his problem. Does he really get upset that easily? And he insulted me, so why would I like him? Or what if he’s super mad, might he strike me??” I once tried to approach a girl in-front of a lady friend (friend that’s a girl) and it was so …
/r/seduction05/11/24 03:06 PM
3

Get some Bro friends or if you already have some, take out $200 in $20 increments, go out and sarg with them. And when you go out be it daytime or night, give them your money and have them return you $10 or $20 for every girl you approach. That’s how I got over my fears… by being held accountable. Plus I had my buddies watch me like a hawk so that I couldn’t lie. I guarantee you that you’d want your money back and that’d be more important then anything a women could possibly say to you. But have…
/r/seduction05/11/24 02:05 PM
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NO ONE GIVES A SHIT!….. No really no one cares and that’s actually GOOD! Because you see think of this. You approach a girl and tank. Or worst, a SET and tank like I did once. I was walking by an out door restaurant and saw a group of girls and chose one to open on. This was several months to a year ago when I was still new to game (and still am) so I bombed it by asking for directions and eventually it WAS going well to the point I found out the girl I singled out was a Kiwi (from NZ). After th…
/r/seduction05/11/24 10:24 AM
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