youre_a_cat Archive

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47	My boyfriend (31) says he wants to move in with me so he can “save” and is not talking about going half on bills. How can I tell him that I expect him to pay bills if he moves in with me ? No worries! You live and learn. At least thankfully this time you didn't do anything that's too hard to undo.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/04/22 05:11 PM
131	Yeet any man with weird food hangups I agree to an extent, but I wouldn't necessarily call people LV for not liking a lot of common things (to an extent!). I'd instead consider this an incompatibility. No harm, no foul, no value judgment, they're just incompatible.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/04/22 09:43 PM
9	Looking at stuff reminding us of LVM we know, exes, or former unrequited crushes I don't know, I think it really depends on what kind of art you want to make. 99% of the time, I'd say that looking at the stuff solely as a source of inspiration is terrible, because it's still making the men (formerly) in your life the center of the art. However, looking at that stuff as a reminder of YOUR strength, YOUR resilience, and YOUR growth from who you were before could be very healing and yield great art. Just make sure it's about you, not them. For example, contrast Ariana Grande's …	/r/askFDS	28/03/22 06:38 PM
6	He’s crazy if he thinks Gen z/millennial woman are gonna put up with this😂💀 Phew, let me breathe a collective sigh of relief for me and all my ladies over the age of 22. At least we're safe from this guy and all the losers who think like him...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/02/22 07:05 PM
5	Stop fucking falling in love with "potential"! The only time I'd say dating for potential is normal is when he's in school, and you're in school.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	04/02/22 07:59 PM
211	Crystal Hefner Destroys Depraved Hugh Hefner's Revenge Porn Stash I hate how big of a cultural icon Playboy bunnies are. I hate when women dress like Playboy bunnies for Halloween, knowing about all the types of abuse that went on at the Playboy mansion. And I hate how the Playboy bunny logo is getting plastered across all types of clothes being sold by massive fast fashion brands, ready for teenage girls to wear.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/01/22 11:35 PM
57	Awful everything 😩 same grooming, different scrote That poor child, I hope the OP reports him to the authorities and that the sexting stops. I can't imagine what that poor girl's life will be like in the future when she grows up and realizes that she was groomed by a pedophile.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/01/22 12:16 AM
10	It’s just me or you also find man cave a bull$hit ? It really depends on the situation. My boyfriend has a man cave where he keeps his pottery/bottle collection and has a desk to take meetings from. I have a woman cave where I can work on my art projects or work and display my handbag collection! In cases like this I don't see any problem with it. The stereotypical depiction of a man cave is extremely pathetic though.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/12/21 08:53 PM
91	VET VET VET your male friends to the same standards you would a potential partner! Yup yup yup. In high school I truly believed that all people were people, and we could all make emotional connections with others regardless of our genitals. I quickly realized that that's not what men believe, so women shouldn't give them the benefit of the doubt. Our lives could depend on it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/12/21 07:37 AM
193	Even in a best case scenario with a seemingly “ok” man, age gap relationships still suck Well that was incredibly predictable. The average human brain finishes maturing at the age of 25, so she's right on schedule.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/11/21 07:14 PM
33	Do you have any female role models? You're doing amazing. I always say my role model is my future self!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/11/21 07:10 PM
14	Successful novelist wife writes a book on her lunch hour. Husband is mad. So glad you're writing a character like this! My childhood was spent reading fantasy novels where the main character was always a young boy, I would have loved reading a main character that I could imagine myself being!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/11/21 03:26 AM
91	The Rapper Da Baby kicked out his baby mama and his newborn child, and when she didn't leave he called cops on her and reported her. He allegedly wanted to invite another woman to his condo and he wanted her out after she cooked, cleaned for him, slept with him. Oh wow, i didn't even catch that in the screenshot! Good eye.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/11/21 10:11 PM
36	News flash: scrote was able to pay his $38,000 bond & the school hasn’t expelled him 🙃 Even his fraternity have protected him… Why?? Why??? Why???? Just why??!?? What could possibly motivate someone to do this to a classmate????	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/10/21 03:32 AM
46	An analysis of the dangers of not vetting from a foreign drama I’m watching Is this a chinese or korean drama? Those shows always seem to romanticize young attractive male CEOs even though it's so unrealistic.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/10/21 12:14 AM
6	HV relationships, age difference, and poll. just choose "1" then, its mostly all approximate anyway	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/10/21 12:11 AM
9	HV relationships, age difference, and poll. 197 28.8%1yr 95 13.9%2yr 109 15.9%3yrs 128 18.7%4-5yrs 62 9.1%6-9yrs 94 13.7% 10+yrs when i voted (685 votes), i saw this ^	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/10/21 12:10 AM
3	Ladies, how much should an engagement ring cost? Haha thanks! We are both software engineers	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/10/21 11:54 PM
4	Ladies, how much should an engagement ring cost? In college when I was broke, I was convinced my future engagement ring would be $3000 at most. Currently the casual jewelry I wear is worth that much on a normal day. Now that my boyfriend and I both make money, price is not really the most important thing anymore—he said he would get me my favorite ring/stone, which we think will cost around $30-50k. For reference this is about 1-1.5 months salary for each of us. I would probably not go over this amount.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/10/21 05:45 PM
88	Having standards is not a hate crime I agree, the amount of hate FDS gets on other subreddits is insane... especially when the overarching advice in FDS is "leave the situation as fast as you can if you do not like it". We're not tricking, manipulating, or hurting men whatsoever. The mental gymnastics that people go through to equate this subreddit to incels is astonishing.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/10/21 06:56 AM
16	Scrote: I have $7.5 M in assets, my wife has cancer, we have three little kids, if I quit my job I might resent the fact that I never got to my arbitrary $10 M target, I'm thinking of leaving her because the stress is too much for me OMG... is this real?? I kinda wanna see for myself, there's nothing that makes me more satisfied than hearing men like that complain about getting exactly what they worked for 😂😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/09/21 06:37 PM
15	Scrote: I have $7.5 M in assets, my wife has cancer, we have three little kids, if I quit my job I might resent the fact that I never got to my arbitrary $10 M target, I'm thinking of leaving her because the stress is too much for me There's one called FIREy Femmes, but that community isn't as active as the usual FIRE groups	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/09/21 06:34 PM
31	Scrote: I have $7.5 M in assets, my wife has cancer, we have three little kids, if I quit my job I might resent the fact that I never got to my arbitrary $10 M target, I'm thinking of leaving her because the stress is too much for me exHaUsTiNg bALaNCe of pAnDEmIc, KiDs hOMe, wIFe wItH CaNCeR Oh boo hoo, won't someone think of the sad, healthy adult man of the house?? I'm sure his poor wife would recover faster and have a happier life in general if she left. The poor lady is probably too exhausted with cancer treatments to begin divorce proceedings at this time. :(	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/09/21 05:22 PM
75	Scrote: I have $7.5 M in assets, my wife has cancer, we have three little kids, if I quit my job I might resent the fact that I never got to my arbitrary $10 M target, I'm thinking of leaving her because the stress is too much for me If he has an AVERAGE return of 7% every year, he'll reach $10M in 4 years, without needing to contribute anything... let's say 5 because he will spend a bit of his nest egg over the 5 years if he doesn't work. This guy is a piece of shit!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/09/21 05:17 PM
12	Cut off your guy friend There are 7 billion people in the world, it's statistically very likely you'll be able to find someone who you get along more with. Plus if he's made you cry before, then (in my opinion) that would taint all the good memories. Onto new possibilities!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/09/21 06:14 PM
13	Making more than your SO I wouldn't mind if my boyfriend was working in a lower-paying job, but he would have to be at the same or higher level than me in his field. I do believe there are are lots of jobs that don't pay as well as mine, but are just as "respectable" (aka do something useful for the world or people). For example, research, teaching, mechanical engineering, etc. The reason for same-or-higher level is because I've waded through a lot more shit than men have to deal with in order to get my degree and find …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/09/21 10:17 AM
8	How do you feel about video games? Ooh, yes this post is a great list of guidelines.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/09/21 05:31 PM
2	How do you feel about video games? I think there can be a bit of leeway here. If a man makes video games part of his identity a.k.a. calling himself a Gamer, then that's a pretty strong indicator that he places too much importance on games. This is why I dumped 3 of my 4 exes, they got depressed for some random reason and took up gaming. Sometimes I'd wake up in the middle of the night to hear them screaming at some 13 year old kid over killing some monsters or something. If he's just a casual player (doesn't always need the late…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/09/21 05:31 PM
39	Never be a fangirl/stan/groupie for musicians, actors, or pro-athletes. Kris Wu	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/08/21 08:20 PM
1	Importance of partner's family when vetting? Your description of A and B is obviously biased toward B, haha. Aside from that, I would definitely not date A because if his family is the only thing that is significantly good about him, then I might as well date his mom, dad, or siblings. I would grow to resent someone who isn't interesting to me. I'd also rather date someone who worked their way to the top, rather than someone born there. This may be because I am in the same boat (grandparents never went to college, half of my uncles and aun…	/r/askFDS	20/08/21 09:59 PM
4	I'm constantly sexualized I'm so sorry to hear this. It's almost a universal female experience, but it definitely should not be. The only advice I have for you is to hang out only with other women. Is it possible for you and your female friends to have a ladies-only pool party in the future, for example?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/08/21 08:28 PM
37	I forgot that I had salmon and accidentally left it in my fridge for too long. It expired. I was upset about it since I hate wasting food (and also because salmon is delicious), and lamented to my BF about it. Next time I saw him, he had a piece of salmon in the fridge waiting for me to take home My boyfriend hates peaches but he always has an array of peaches sitting in our kitchen in various stages of ripeness, so I can eat one every day!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/08/21 09:13 PM
144	This. My university experience boiled down into one sentence 😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/08/21 01:18 AM
12	This might be unrelated, but has anybody else developed a new substitute addiction since finding FDS? I'm already dating someone, but after I found FDS, I lost interest in Instagram, shopping, clubs/bars, and TV/movies. Once I started noticing the creepy way women are conditioned to normalize accepting less in life, everything was ruined for me. I guess my substitute addictions or ways to pass the time would be 1) food shopping and cooking new recipes, and 2) taking courses on coursera, and 3) financial planning.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/08/21 08:08 PM
20	What (FDS) Women Want Your work is inspiring. Who knows how many lives you've changed? I'm so happy that hundreds of children were able to be influenced by you. I'm sure they all will lead healthier and more fulfilling lives!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/08/21 05:36 PM
7	bought myself a ring as a promise to myself to always value myself, and to stay away from men who don’t! I love this idea! I want self-love promise rings to become a thing!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/06/21 08:41 PM
45	The more you become aware the more things like these are not funny. It’s just misogynistic really. Same, I was playing "where's waldo" to try to find the dishwasher.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/06/21 08:22 PM
28	What do you do when you remember your ex? I cringe	/r/askFDS	29/05/21 10:40 PM
22	Comments in a group for engagement rings 😂 Hehe I would be sooo happy if he proposed to me with a pizza box! I'm so petite even though i eat a ton! Hehehe who needs a ring when you can have pepperoni?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/05/21 11:49 PM
23	Male students in Japan are so incompetent they’re allowed to pass high school entrance exams with up to 40% lower scores than girls. Pre-FDS, I thought the plummeting birth rate in Japan was a Huge Problem. Now that I know more about the world, I realize that this is how it should be. This is what happens when women exercise their choice. Good on those ladies!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/05/21 11:43 PM
48	who's suprised? Not me. I was considering living in Japan for a while, but news like this makes me scared to think about how I'll be treated if I were to go there.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/05/21 11:38 PM
31	Don't worry if you're not one of those "popular girls" Ooh, you just put into words why the first part of the post rubbed me the wrong way. It did come across as a bit victim blamey, as if the women born with above-average looks are craving that type of attention -- like the talk about "tactics". I didn't think this post was supposed to be about the women's behavior.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/05/21 07:34 PM
43	Don't worry if you're not one of those "popular girls" As an average looking lady, I have to say that it COMPLETELY depends on your environment. In places where I fit in and look just like everyone other woman out there (hair color, height, facial features, etc), I am invisible to men. No one approaches me, no one asks me for anything, etc etc etc. In places where people of my race are in the minority/exotic (🤮), it's almost disgusting how fast men swarm to me and my friends to ask for directions, catcall, compliment, or strike up random conversatio…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/05/21 07:30 PM
116	Men & “the wall” My friend (23) used to brag to me about how her boyfriend (42) was so much more accomplished in his field than mine was. A few weeks ago she said that her man pulled a back muscle during sex. That's what a 20 year age gap will do to ya!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/05/21 07:26 PM
36	The First Date Debate LOL the only men who called me a gold digger were men who made less than me... every guy I know who makes the same or more than me is generous with money, even with friends. We'll all go out and take turns to pay for dinner, or drinks, or whatever. Counting pennies is tiring, and if I make enough to be this generous with my money, WHY would I be with a man who isn't?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/05/21 07:02 PM
32	A female only gym and scrotes are comparing it to segregation and racism. Im not joking Please do! It will help normalize women-only spaces!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/05/21 12:01 AM
37	Had a funeral for a close relative a few years ago and it helped me get some closure. They don’t like expensive weddings and now they don’t think people should have funerals either if they want one? Fuck outta hear with your cheap ass And catering for $15 per person? Is that like a group order from Taco Bell?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/05/21 08:42 PM
22	The myth that young women will lust after 45 year old men in their apparent ‘peak earning potential’ 🤪 Well of course it doesn't mean that I owe him anything, but that's not what the men might think	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/05/21 07:47 PM
46	The myth that young women will lust after 45 year old men in their apparent ‘peak earning potential’ 🤪 I've been seeing a lot of tik toks that start off with "Ladies, this is your sign to become a sugar babyyyyy" and then they follow up with screenshots of some guy venmoing the (gorgeous and young) woman increments of $30-200, videos of new Chanel bags and Gucci shoes, and fancy dinners, as if that's desirable or something. It sickens me, I am about their age and it's nearly heartbreaking for me to see them be so proud of that.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/05/21 07:03 PM
59	The myth that young women will lust after 45 year old men in their apparent ‘peak earning potential’ 🤪 So true! When I first joined FDS I was so disappointed in myself because FDS really promotes not paying 50/50 on dates, but that's mostly what I've done in the past for this exact reason.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/05/21 06:57 PM
52	Louder for the creeps in the back My former best male friend was A for a long time, until he was B. I'm so glad he was "too hurt" to be my friend anymore, I was really convinced he was a good person until FDS showed me what guys like that really think about.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/05/21 06:35 PM
5	Bullet Dodging Chronicles: Where Are They Now? In college I dated a guy for a bit, but broke up with him because he played too many video games. Then he shit-talked me to the rest of our friend group, telling everyone how I ruined his life, how he missed me, how he had been in the process of trying to spend time with me and make me happy (yeah yeah yeah). Later on he got cheated on at a party in front of his own eyes by the next girlfriend, got super depressed, and got rejected from all the jobs he applied to. I have no clue what he's doing …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/05/21 01:08 AM
4	This 👏🏻 is 👏🏻 why 👏🏻 I 👏🏻 have 👏🏻 trust issues!! Take them to the barbers on the first date. 💈 🪒 Please don’t let this be true	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/05/21 08:07 PM
49	I can't think of anything I could say that would be better than her response Kingdom of what?? A kingdom of mushrooms and fungus living in his bathroom?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/05/21 10:44 AM
115	This Scrote on Psychology Today has “concluded” that size doesn’t matter ladies! On a side note, 7/8 = 87.5%, not 84%. This guy can't math, not even when it's in his favor. 😂	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/05/21 06:50 AM
99	Can we discuss the “men age like fine wine” tragicomedy?😂🤣😱. Also, it is men that “let themselves go”. Men that complain about their wife losing her looks are lazy, not good providers (she is overworked and undersupported) and have drained her of her life energy. My grandma dumped her boyfriend for this exact reason. She said it was better to be single and enjoy spending time with her grandchildren and children than to be shuttled into a "wife" role again.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/05/21 06:40 AM
50	Can we discuss the “men age like fine wine” tragicomedy?😂🤣😱. Also, it is men that “let themselves go”. Men that complain about their wife losing her looks are lazy, not good providers (she is overworked and undersupported) and have drained her of her life energy. Yeah, my 30 year old friends all look like they did when they were 25. My 25 year old friends look exactly like how we looked in high school. Women take care of themselves.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	06/05/21 06:39 AM
25	Words men use to insult us that are actually compliments? Let's get a list going! Ah, I've gotten "know it all" before! Jealous prick was mad I was smarter than him 🤷‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/05/21 05:39 PM
15	Cosmetic surgery, social pressure and happiness Ah, your comment reminded me of that Vietnamese American girl (she JUST turned 18) that was in the news recently for suffering a botched boob job. She ended up with severe brain damage due to incorrect anesthesia and now she may have to live her life in a vegetative state. Edit: Just looked it up again, turns out she died of cardiac arrest 14 months after the attempted surgery. This is such a tragic outcome.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/05/21 09:52 PM
8	Cosmetic surgery, social pressure and happiness And sometimes it's downright impossible! You can't get DDs by working your pecs out.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/05/21 09:48 PM
7	Cosmetic surgery, social pressure and happiness I enjoyed hearing your thoughts on this! I agree that the argument that "it's not hurting anyone so mind your own business" is incredibly wrong. I'm in my mid 20s and I know a couple people who got plastic surgery. Because of this, other people in my friend group started getting curious about it, when before, the thought probably would have never crossed their mind.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/05/21 09:46 PM
12	Cosmetic surgery, social pressure and happiness I started watching random clips of K-dramas on youtube, and the amount of middle and high school girls in these shows who beg their mom for plastic surgery is alarming. What's worse is that these child characters have classmates who were able to go through it, and the girls who aren't allowed/can't afford to do plastic surgery are portrayed as feeling left out. Makes me so worried for the future. A 15 year old should not be thinking about how to change their face to be attractive.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	03/05/21 09:42 PM
14	Mood for life ✨ Literally, childhood ruined! I guess I need to make up some fairytales with some actual good values before I have kids...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/05/21 05:36 PM
32	Female friendships and misogynistic propaganda Feel this 100%. I used to look down on gossip like the other students at school. But when I told a girl at a party to watch out for this creepy guy who has previously followed me around before, he tried to confront me about “spreading gossip”. And that’s when I stopped caring what men think about gossiping. If I’m called a bitch so be it, gossip is fun and it works! ☺️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	02/05/21 05:34 PM
4	My love myself ring, best thing about it... the strongest woman I know gave it to me to as a reminder to love me first bc I am all I need. I love it, what a great idea! That truly represents the greatest love of all :)	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/04/21 05:35 AM
4	FDS has really opened my eyes TW: mentions rape, abuse Please do. This happened to me at 16 and I didn't have a clue what to do about it.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/04/21 05:08 PM
53	I'm sick of men always trying to shoot their shot with EVERY woman they interact with My workplace is really good already, but if I had a dollar for everytime someone said I was too pretty to be an engineer (and must be in HR or be a PM) then I'd probably be able to retire by now.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/04/21 08:21 PM
46	I (23 F) broke up with my boyfriend (28 M) for certain reasons. I am new to dating. Did I make the right call? Some people are saying my standards are too high or "sexist." You're only 23 and you are about to have 3 degrees? You are MILES above this schmuck's league! You have amazing potential in your career, and you're making all the right choices. I'm sure I'm not the only FDS lady that is happy and relieved you've been able to rid yourself of this dead weight!	/r/askFDS	27/04/21 10:21 PM
5	Need Some Good Advice On How To NOT Waste My Life And My Early 20s??? Dear, you have been an adult for 1 year. Think about what you've been able to do in the last year, and think about what you'll be able to do in the next 50 years of your life. 50 years is a LONG time. I'll mostly address your 2nd question. What you said about being too old to change your major scares me. You are NOT too old to change your major. My mom got her bachelors and masters in her 20s... and got her PhD in her 40s. She's now a professor in a field completely unrelated to her first bachel…	/r/askFDS	22/04/21 05:45 PM
27	AskFeminists: “We do not allow FDS users to participate here. “ Explain like I’m 5? I joined the same way. I wanted to see what radical female incels would be like, and instead I found an uplifting community of women who define themselves without reference to men. In my opinion the women of this subreddit have attained the most clarity in what feminism actually is...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/04/21 12:42 AM
43	FWB Because You’ll Be Fucked Either Way And Not The Way You Like! wow, I'm pleasantly surprised by this!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/04/21 09:34 PM
11	I'm a porn addict, my wife forced herself to watch with me instead of asserting healthy boundaries. Now we are divorcing, she resents me. It couldn't have been the porn. Anyone? 🤡 It absolutely disgusts me that he's putting so much work into sounding poetic. He's romanticizing the breakdown of a marriage and completely glossing over his/her involvement in it so that he doesn't have to face the truth of what his addiction did. 🤮	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/04/21 07:07 PM
58	I don't care This makes so much sense to me... no wonder I haven’t really wanted to watch any movies in the last 4 or so years!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	16/04/21 10:04 PM
1	If women are financially independent these days, why don't more of them date younger men? Because younger men probably don't have as much experience and maturity in relationships. Older single women probably don't want to date someone they have to teach and coach. They would probably also want to do different things. For example, a 45-yo woman who is successful is probably looking to go on fancier, relaxing vacations compared to a 25 year old man who would probably think that backpacking across Europe in hostels is the coolest thing you can do.	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/04/21 10:47 PM
21	Low effort meme but it's for LVM so Okay, what the hell is in the microwave? Salmon?	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/04/21 04:38 AM
8	17 and feeling lost. I'm going to try to address your bullet points in order. I graduated from college 2 years ago, and I work in engineering, so I think my advice might be helpful to you. Don't be put off by your school not being a "brand name" school. Once you accumulate some work experience after you graduate (or you go to postgrad school), it won't matter what undergrad school you went to. I work at a company that is considered top-tier in my field, and the people that end up working here are from a whole bunch …	/r/askFDS	15/04/21 04:28 AM
12	All my male friends want to date me and I feel pressured when I rejected them Experienced this so often as a gal in a guy-heavy field. It's not that I was particularly desirable, it was that they hadn't had much interaction with women, so any time I spent meaningful time with them in groups, I always got relationship-zoned. What made it worse was that their friends would badmouth me and pressure me into reciprocating feelings... all the while I literally had a boyfriend and had never hung out with them one-on-one, lol. The worst time was when I got really close to these 2…	/r/askFDS	15/04/21 02:05 AM
156	Globally we perform 66% of the work, earn 10% of the income and own 1% of the property. It makes me shudder to know there are women out there hApPiLY squandering that 10% away on a 50/50 date or rElAtIoNShIP I think in Mexico in 2020, the women went on strike to protest gender-based violence. It made me so sad that literally all they wanted was for assault and murder against women to be investigated fairly. They were begging for the bare minimum. We have a long way to go and it's so discouraging but I'm glad I have FDS and its members to talk to. :(	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/04/21 01:48 AM
138	I don't defend men or their plights on social media at all Yeah, this is super discouraging. Every single time I see a post about women’s struggles (usually made from a feminist IG or FB account), men brigade the comments, saying “well I hope you recognize the men’s/boys’ struggles too. Because equality.” It used to piss me off so much, I would start comment flame wars and basically tell them to make their own post if they care so much about men’s issues. I’m so sick of this shit. I don’t support men’s rights posts when I see them now, I just scroll on …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/04/21 07:22 PM
13	Yesterday i was in girl’s study room in zoom. Why do men have to invade women’s spaces and harass them?! Agreed. These girls should block, report, and delete. People who you are forced to interact with (classmates at your school) need to face consequences for their actions. I am so tired of women and girls' educations facing interruptions from disgusting male assholes, while the perpetrators can continue on with no impact to their academic career.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/04/21 08:45 PM
6	Pickmes are dangerous because, just like men, they know, but they don’t care. Yeah that's true. I'm sure that nearly all the members of FDS would not hesitate to help a pickme who wants to change, because we're decent people and a lot of us have been there.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/04/21 08:01 PM
23	Awakening to the Problems of Liberal Feminism After reading this I'm realizing how lucky I was to find this subreddit. FDS stands out as a voice of reason among most of the other feminist communities that I browse.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/04/21 07:56 PM
2	I'm sick of pop music! This is exactly the reason I started listening to country music. I wouldn't say all of it is better, but there are quite a few higher-profile country artists that mostly sing about how much they appreciate nature, their wife, their kids, beer, fishing, etc. Sure, you still get a bunch of them that sing about long tan legs and shaking that sugar, but as a female, the lyrics and themes in the music are a lot more tolerable to me. The larger female artists also feel a lot more real, and the things …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	31/03/21 12:12 AM