yourenogood Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
17	A little lost		yourenogood	/r/askTRP	27/05/14 08:12 PM
7	Negotiations and relationships	Red Pill Theory	yourenogood	/r/TheRedPill	31/10/14 08:14 AM
4	Role Models		yourenogood	/r/askTRP	02/08/14 05:24 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
13	Surprise: Most women on OKCupid are fat sassy moms What's really interesting to me is that so many guys define themselves by their work. There's a full range of occupations in there; software, engineering, navy, marines, construction, trades. The only common factor I can see is that all those jobs are total sausagefests. The only female job I see there is "nurse".	/r/TheRedPill	21/09/15 08:02 AM
2	Monk Mode has taught me the following If you are ugly and unintelligent, then you are genetically pretty fucked and will always have to try harder than people with better genes. I think the key is to play the hand you're dealt. As you say, if you've got looks but no money, play that up. Money but no looks, vice versa. Where you have very little, recognise that it may be best to look at alternatives; hookers don't give a shit what you look like and are reasonably affordable, and the time and effort required to chase women can instead…	/r/TheRedPill	19/12/14 12:55 AM
3	The Herbivore's Dilemma: Japan panics about the rise of "grass-eating men," who shun sex, don't spend money, and like taking walks. I think the really interesting thing is... why Japan? The women there aren't as fat, ugly, aggressive, masculinised, anti-male, etc as many other places in the world. I do suspect statistics in the West are skewed by immigration, and that if the US had as homogenous a population, the same thing would be observed.	/r/TheRedPill	18/12/14 11:34 PM
1	Remember, AWALT. Indian woman sucks dick, fucks all over the place, marries traditional Indian beta provider.... There's been an often repeated meme that Indian/Asian women are better than American women. Hence why lately there's been a lot of posts on Indian women, to highlight that it's untrue and AWALT.	/r/TheRedPill	02/11/14 07:11 PM
10	Your height is not an excuse. Look at Tom Cruise. Endlessly mocked and derided for his height because he is a confident "alpha" type guy. Jack Black is the exact same height (5'6), but doesn't receive the same treatment. Why? Jack Black is already a beta bucks kind of guy; the funny, friendly, harmless orbiter type. With Tom Cruise however, he projects himself as a confident, in-charge type of guy, so women have to constantly test whether he has the frame to back that up, relentlessly attacking his obvious weakness to try an…	/r/TheRedPill	02/11/14 04:00 PM
1	Aggression from low value girls? Uggos have to find other ways to try and feel powerful.	/r/askTRP	31/10/14 09:32 AM
1	Why did the (recent) feminist movement start? Hillary4Prez2k16!!!1! http://www.reddit.com/r/TheRedPill/comments/2j67j9/stefan_molyneux_on_the_history_of_female_smv/cl9025m Anyway, on a wider note, women have embraced it because fundamentally it's about keeping the beta bucks in line. You only need one alpha with good genes to fuck all day, so it suits the female sexual mating strategy to have an ample supply of beta bucks who do as they're told; the one alpha fucks that happens to emerge is enough to supply that side of the equation.	/r/askTRP	31/10/14 09:20 AM
14	What's with the hubris of sex workers? A prostitute, current or former, will never tell anyone, especially her boyfriend, that she is a prostitute. It is far more common than you think, and there will be many of you here who have sisters, mothers, friends, exes and current gfs/plates who are or have been prostitutes. Many times I would go to meet a new girl, turn up at her place and find "oh shit, it's that girl who works at the gym!", "oh shit, you're Jessica's friend!", "oh shit, you're David's ex!". Prostitutes are just regular gi…	/r/TheRedPill	31/10/14 08:45 AM
3	The solution to the female one-sided control of the commodity of sex is obvious--- let's legalize prostitution! The escorting scene in Amsterdam and Germany both suck on account of legalised prostitution there. There will always be lots of guys in demand and very few decent girls worth going to. Prices go up, quality of service goes down. Funnily enough, the best places for it are those where it's legal to sell but not buy and attitudes are very feminist (meaning permissive attitudes to female sex, but very restrictive attitudes to male sex). Plenty of young sluts looking to sell, not very many guys looki…	/r/TheRedPill	31/10/14 08:33 AM
7	Comedian Michael Che Attacked for Suggesting That Maybe Getting Called Beautiful Isn't the Worst Act of Harassment - Handles it like a pro What is the end game, make it illegal for men to talk to strangers? Bingo. From the linked article: It ultimately reveals that Che does not understand what is so problematic about street harassment: Men feeling entitled to direct their unsolicited thoughts at women Men only have the right to speak when allowed to, like a feudal age serf or a child in school.	/r/TheRedPill	31/10/14 07:53 AM
1	"Slaying" the Patriarchy http://www.donotlink.com/ CAHM AAAHHHHHHN WASSAMATAYOU	/r/TheRedPill	30/10/14 05:48 PM
1	The most powerful word and why you should start using it more often. Would like to add that hoe lee chit, if you're just starting out with this, beginning to say no will have people shit all over you. If you've established yourself as the nice guy who always goes out of his way to help others, you are now expected to do all these things as standard. Once you begin to say no, people will do their absolute best to crush your insubordination. Stand firm though and don't cave in because even if you do acquiesce, it will not be appreciated - they will only remember th…	/r/TheRedPill	29/10/14 02:46 PM
2	4/10 American girl goes to Japan- gets treated like a man in America. Do you both speak Korean? How easy is it to get work there? Have considered moving there in the long haul, but it would take several years of study just to learn the language for a society that may not even accept me.	/r/TheRedPill	29/10/14 12:42 PM
90	4/10 American girl goes to Japan- gets treated like a man in America. Feminists have a real, scathing hatred for nerds. Two feminist girls I know absolutely pour scorn on nerds and nerdy hobbies, despite never having spoken to a single nerd in their lives. Nerds do not cat-call, "harass", insult, assault, attack, or otherwise harm them in any small way, and yet they are the pure and unwavering focus of all their hate. I can only assume the reasons are: 1. To keep the beta bucks in line; nerds being identified as weak, wealthy and desperate 2. The general female na…	/r/TheRedPill	29/10/14 12:39 PM
24	Woman wears a GoPro camera in New York city to show how much she suffers "Street Harassment" Wants you to donate money to stop these heinous acts. Solution: Just ignore the fact that they're non-white males, scoop it all up into the wider category of "men", and throw that shit at white, middle class guys as usual because they're the easy target.	/r/TheRedPill	28/10/14 10:20 PM
2	[Meta] Reminder: Use a throwaway when posting on TRP You do get the odd hateful post. It's the same as you get anywhere though. Five minutes of looking through TwoX will net you posts outright saying "ugh I fucking hate men". Since we're already assumed to be evil, ours is taken as evidence though.	/r/TheRedPill	24/10/14 04:46 PM
11	What the hell is gamergate? Girl bangs a bunch of game journalists, and in exchange gets promotion for her text game. Boyfriend finds out, gets mad and publishes story on the internet. Shitstorm blows up across numerous forums. Girl posts her own info on tumblr then says she's been "hacked", claims death threats, etc. Usual attempt at playing the victim to try get shit to die down. Meanwhile, mainstream gaming media explodes in fury talking about how evil and misogynistic gamers are. Posts on the subject are shut down ever…	/r/askTRP	24/10/14 04:34 PM
3	Ugly girl laments miserable time out at club. Hamsters console her; "Men have it much easier" I caught that thread too. All I could think of was how she described life for 90% of men (you have to pay for your own shit, nobody wants to take your photo, and generally people would rather you didn't exist).	/r/TheRedPill	24/10/14 03:01 PM
2	How do you deal with girls who are awful conversationalists? One thing to add I haven't seen covered here is posing your questions in a way that encourages her to keep talking and prevents one-word answers, e.g.: "What have you been listening to lately?" vs "What music do you like?" "Tell me about what you do" vs "What's your job?" This way it doesn't end up as constant questions from you with one word answers from her.	/r/trpGAME	17/10/14 05:16 PM
1	Opinions requested: on how to present chronic pain or illness. Hide it, or be open about it? So why choose someone with the risk? You're right. I guess this is what it all comes down to.	/r/TheRedPill	15/10/14 01:12 PM
2	Opinions requested: on how to present chronic pain or illness. Hide it, or be open about it? Great insight, something I had indeed missed. Yeah what I meant when I referred to Christopher Reeve is that someone could take one look at him (when he was alive), see his sickly body and think "shit genes!", when actually his genes had nothing to do with it. For example, a guy might be short, but it might be down to malnutrition as a child, or whatever.	/r/TheRedPill	15/10/14 01:10 PM
3	Opinions requested: on how to present chronic pain or illness. Hide it, or be open about it? The more you know! Is downs purely an age thing then? I.e. there's no real genes at play which cause the irregularity?	/r/TheRedPill	15/10/14 01:06 PM
0	Former kindergarten teacher makes 6 figures by twerking on vine (6 second videos) "Hey guys, thanks for coming on here and watching my videos. I'd like to get serious for a moment and talk about all the great work being done by the Google Women in STEM™ Program. Every day, women are held back in a patriarchical society which discourages women from choosing tech careers, and ensures that hard-working women will always earn less than men. That's why I've partnered with the Google Women in STEM™ Program to help spread the message to women that they should pursue careers in STEM.…	/r/TheRedPill	15/10/14 11:54 AM
5	[Example] Eye-opening Backpacking in Europe Depends where in Europe. Scandinavia has an insane hook-up culture. I think there's also a foreign bias at play; if you're a foreigner, you're always going to do a lot better, so you'll always think girls in other countries are easier than your own.	/r/TheRedPill	15/10/14 08:49 AM
2	Women are MORE important to humanity than men are. I don't exist for the benefit of "humanity" (i.e. everyone else). A tree, a rabbit, a lion, everything works for its own benefit. That doesn't mean we can't co-operate for mutual gain, but we're not slaves to other masters; we are free beings, and the only one looking out for our interests are ourselves. Bees and ants are hive species, and effectively each hive is one being. We are not a hive species, we are individuals who co-operate for mutual gain, and don't delude yourself otherwise. There's…	/r/TheRedPill	14/10/14 12:45 PM
2	Opinions requested: on how to present chronic pain or illness. Hide it, or be open about it? I think people often put too much of an emphasis on the link between genetics and outcome. The way you turn out on a person is not purely down to genetics, and even then, everyone has "bad" genes; you probably have the genes for down syndrome, autism, crohn's, all kinds of things, but they're recessive and will only appear in your children if your partner has them too, allowing them to become active. Hence why we're not attracted to our siblings and don't inbreed; even if your siblings were incr…	/r/TheRedPill	14/10/14 12:12 PM
1	How to deal with LTR getting vagina tingles over a D list musician offering her guest passes? Spot on imo. I think dread game has a place here in how you convey it though. What she's doing is not okay and is extremely disrespectful. She will try to hamster and tantrum her way out of it, but these are your boundaries, and if she wants to stay she has to respect that. Remember, you're not trying to control her, the choice of what she does is hers, but that doesn't mean you can't have boundaries of what you'll accept. If she wants to go, you can do nothing to stop her, but she can also do n…	/r/askTRP	14/10/14 10:22 AM
1	Stefan Molyneux on the history of female SMV, family and feminism rides the same wave of guilt into office that Obama did. Another interesting correlation: http://www.google.com/trends/explore#q=white%20privilege Massive spike in Sep 2008 for "white privilege", 2 months before the election that got Obama into office.	/r/TheRedPill	14/10/14 09:52 AM
3	Remember, women test frame in all social situations, it is not exclusive to dating. Make sure you take time to yourself away from women. I agree it can wear you down, and I think every guy has had to deal with it throughout history. Our ancestors would go off hunting with all the other men, our Grandfathers had male-only smoking or golf clubs, and likewise we need to have our own female-free activities and spaces to recuperate and take breaks from the constant shit-tests. Take a look at local clubs and activities in your area, or start your own with even just one decent male fr…	/r/TheRedPill	14/10/14 09:25 AM
23	Stefan Molyneux on the history of female SMV, family and feminism My tinfoil hat theory is that a lot of the current interest in all things feminism is largely just a big push for a Hillary Clinton 2016 bid. So, Hillary Clinton's next big shot is in 2016. What would be a good strategy to get people to vote for her? Effective policies which tackle the root causes of issues? Nah fuck that shit, you should vote because having a female president is progressive and what we all need in these difficult times is a feelgood exercise where we can pat ourselves on the ba…	/r/TheRedPill	14/10/14 08:00 AM
5	TRP: Bob Ross as a mater of not breaking frame? Never watched any Bob Ross, but know who he is through him being mentioned a lot on the internet. For context to your post (assuming it's not common knowledge), he used to be a drill sergeant in the military (air force I think), hence the screaming etc. Would seem from what I know that the guy holds frame well. I think frame is an important concept for men to grasp; everyone knows that the coward, the submissive, the weak guy becomes the social punching bag at the bottom of the food chain, so to…	/r/askTRP	13/10/14 04:30 PM
1	If women actually enjoy being dominated... why is the society so angry with TRP? You're missing a very major component of the sexual marketplace which explains this: alpha fucks, beta bucks. Yes, women want strong, confident, dominating men. But they also want weak, supplicating beta bucks to exploit. The alpha fucks provides the good strong genes the woman wants. The beta bucks does all the rest of the resource-intensive work of taking care of her and the children. For this to work, you need a plentiful supply of beta bucks (to ensure their thirst, and because you can only …	/r/askTRP	13/10/14 11:52 AM
2	General Date Setup and Execution Guide for Newbies Fantastic stuff, and really useful to have it all clearly laid out in one post like this. Can't emphasise enough how much of a difference telling her what the date location is vs asking her what she wants to do has made for me.	/r/trpGAME	13/10/14 08:47 AM
3	I fear. How to stop being afraid. Assuming you don't live somewhere warm, the natural reaction to a cold shower is that you panic unnecessarily. You feel shocked and you start breathing quickly. Natural physiological reaction because your body doesn't want you getting hypothermia/pneumonia/vulnerable/burning a shitload of energy and so gives you this "flight" response to get you to get out ASAP. Since we're not still living in caveman times though, it's perfectly safe and healthy to do it (as long as you're not staying in there …	/r/askTRP	12/10/14 09:44 AM
1	Can't get laid living at home. Going to make a few assumptions here: 1. You're only moving out to get laid (based on the text of your post, you don't seem to really be that eager to move out other than to get laid) 2. You like living at home (you mention no downsides bar that your parents won't let you bring girls over) So, what you're saying is that you're wondering whether it's worth paying $500 a month for the possibility of getting laid. You could end up getting locked into paying rent to live somewhere you hate, and stil…	/r/askTRP	11/10/14 01:13 PM
6	Personal Question, How did you find The Red Pill? Exact same thing with me. Still very surprised TRP is on here, since the reddit site itself is basically feminist; reddit has a male majority userbase, and yet by default every new member is signed up to TwoXChromosomes - a sub for women's issues - while the male issues subs (e.g. TRP) are pushed away. Then you've got the whole free speech vs censorship shit always going in favour of female issues; the PCmasterrace sub got deleted because since they weren't happy about the fiveguys/gamergate shi…	/r/TheRedPill	30/09/14 10:04 AM
7	False Rape lists. It's time. For me it wouldn't be about shame, just avoiding the bad women. In my blue pill days I was almost taken to the cleaners by one girl, and only when I googled her name by chance did I find out what she was really like (pregnant with another guy's kid and was trying to pass it off as mine, had done this to many other guys before and was all over the internet with it - I discovered this, did all the necessary checks to confirm, and ran like hell).	/r/TheRedPill	30/09/14 09:53 AM
10	The most RedPill man in all of existence: WWE CEO Vince McMahon In a 2012 interview, McMahon tells Bloomberg Businessweek that he sleeps just four hours a night. If Russo got in at 7 a.m., McMahon's car would already be there, and if he stayed until 10 p.m., McMahon's car would still be there. One ex-writer tells me that employees are not allowed to sneeze when they're in a meeting with McMahon because he sees it as a lack of self-control. And in an April interview on Stone Cold Steve Austin's podcast, former WWE creative team member Paul Heyman says that Mc…	/r/TheRedPill	30/08/14 06:35 AM
2	You need to be doing a combat sport If its just you and one other guy, fantastic, take him down choke him out. Problem is it rarely is. You pull the guy into your guard, his mates start treating your head like a soccer ball. Seconding this. I did various martial arts for several years, but found that in an actual street fight they just give you a false sense of security. Thugs don't go into 1 on 1 duels, they have ten of their friends behind them and carry bricks, looking for one or two lone guys on their own to hit over the head …	/r/TheRedPill	30/08/14 06:15 AM
6	My cousin was kidnapped, raped, and turned into a sex slave, yet you won't hear any feminist come to help her. I don't see a problem in a society not allowing people in who are not culturally similar to themselves. Culturally similar to who though? Take the US. Does that mean you only allow in feminist hipsters, assuming that to be US culture? Or maybe ghetto culture is the dominant one? How far do you have to be similar culturally, and on what points? I've met many people round the world I would consider my friends and happily welcome into my community over plenty of people within my own country. Would …	/r/TheRedPill	30/08/14 06:03 AM
2	Urban Dictionary's definition of the red pill is amusing Most likely. There was all sorts of damage control shutting down subs when the five guys stuff was in full swing.	/r/TheRedPill	29/08/14 08:04 AM
1	Girlfriend suggested getting a prenup after marriage argument. Hahaha well spotted, I didn't notice that part.	/r/askTRP	23/08/14 12:53 PM
24	How to react at night club when woman asks you to buy her a drink "Bartender, a tap water for the lady please."	/r/askTRP	23/08/14 12:51 PM
2	Girlfriend suggested getting a prenup after marriage argument. Prenups have historically always been ignored by UK courts. Due to the common law system, the precedent has always been followed. This may be about to change however, due to a landmark case in the UK a few years ago where a pre-nup was upheld, because this time the wife was rich and the guy wasn't. The Judges agreed that a pre-nup could be considered "in the right case" (read: when it benefits women). http://www.theguardian.com/money/2010/oct/20/prenuptial-agreement-enforced-uk-law So, if you're…	/r/askTRP	23/08/14 09:20 AM
11	Girl loses her relationship with her "employed, Jewish, in his 30s and that’s pretty much ideal" man.. After she goes on a show to find a man, "dating naked". Holy shit, dat jump between anal and DP. Surely if you're taking it up the butt already, the difficult part is over?	/r/TheRedPill	23/08/14 09:04 AM
2	Would you fuck a girl knowing her partner count is in the triple digits? Never really understood the whole concept that sluts = experienced = good in bed. Best girls I've ever been with in bed have been virgins; they're keen to please and take an active role in it. Girls who have fucked plenty of times have that entitled attitude that their presence is enough so you should be doing all the work, and just lay there like a dead starfish. Anyone actually found "experienced" girls to be better at sex, or is this just a commonly accepted myth?	/r/askTRP	23/08/14 09:01 AM
14	Just this morning at my university a girl was gangraped by black men... wait, nvm Bigotry lies at the heart of the SJW movement. It's just a reactionary hipster bigotry. Wanting black people to sit at the back of the bus is dated and unfashionable; get with the times Grandpa! Who wants to be some boring outdated old fart with those kind of attitudes? The cool new bigotry is to say things like "they're not all bad, but imagine a bowl of M&Ms, 10% of which are poisoned- better to be safe and treat them all guilty!". You can't actually come out and say you're a bigot, that's jus…	/r/TheRedPill	23/08/14 08:55 AM
1	Don't Be Like Bruce Most people I've seen trying to change this take on too much, too soon. Just start with a few key things, and build it up from there as you want to. Coming from a life of McDonalds and a 2l bottle of coke once a day and then trying to eat only chicken breasts and brown rice while working out for 2 hours a day is just setting yourself up for failure. Start simple, take a couple of new changes on board and incorporate them solidly into your lifestyle. The key is consistency; there is no point forc…	/r/TheRedPill	22/08/14 02:06 PM
2	Don't Be Like Bruce The problem with salt is the enormous quantities the average person eating a lot of processed food consumes. The problem with butter is just the amount of calories for such a small and unsatisfying amount of food. When you lace that shit on everything as I've seen a lot of fat guys do, it's very easy to quickly run a huge calorie surplus without feeling like you're eating much.	/r/TheRedPill	22/08/14 01:48 PM
2	Don't Be Like Bruce Seconding /u/DancingLycanthrope 's suggestion, only black coffee works fine for me to perk me up before a work-out. Would also suggest getting your own set of an oly barbell, cage and dumbbells (those selectabell ones are great). Saves you a lot of time and money in the long run.	/r/TheRedPill	22/08/14 01:42 PM
1	Ten years ago, Kate Bolick ended a happy relationship with an eligible man. She thought her future was limitless and that she would have her pick of husbands. But now, almost 40, she believes she may be alone forever... Aw fuck, beat me to it. Has this woman never been to college?	/r/TheRedPill	20/08/14 02:12 PM
5	Re: Censorship on the current drama She doxxed herself. Posted up on her tumblr saying "I've been hacked!", and then the next post was a bunch of false contact details. I don't think she knows what hacking is...	/r/TheRedPill	20/08/14 02:00 PM
29	Mel Gibson's ex walked away with more than $400,000,000 during their divorce and is entitled to half of every future check he receives for the rest of his life - [xpost /r/todayilearned] He did, and with two divorces that's a hell of a bill each month.	/r/TheRedPill	18/08/14 02:42 PM
1	Dealing with shitty SMV while young? Basically this, you just have to sit it out. Spend the time putting the long-term effort into things that will improve your SMV later on (as you're doing, studying a good subject, lifting, learning), and then reap the rewards later.	/r/askTRP	16/08/14 05:00 AM
3	Don't Date A Single Mother A good reference on this would be Sergey Aleynikov. He was genius a coder for Goldman Sachs, he got fed up working there so decided to move on. They decided "if we can't have him, no-one can" and so threw a bunch of bullshit charges at him. FBI gladly pursue as their eager lapdog, question him based on Goldman Sach's talking points (which they don't understand), and then are thrilled when they get the responses they were told to look for out of him (Sergei having given the information willingly …	/r/TheRedPill	10/08/14 02:32 PM
33	No More Mr Nice Guy should be required reading before the rest of the sidebar. No more mr nice guy = don't be nice just to get what you want I think this is oversimplifying it too much and sort of misses the point. Being a “nice guy” is not really a philosophy of "I can get this thing if I am nice”; I don't believe the "nice guy" is really that Machiavellian, and it’s not really as direct as “be nice, get shit”. It’s a set of self-destructive, toxic behaviours rooted in childhood, and saying it’s “being nice to get what you want” misses the real depth or cause of it. I wan…	/r/TheRedPill	20/07/14 08:41 PM
2	TechCrunch groups TheRedPill with Stormfront as a "misogynist hate site" A snapshot of that thread on TRP where someone linked to his video as "some beta blue pill guy", explained how extremely blue pill and wrong his thinking was and how it was clearly fucking him up, a whole week or so before the shooting spree, should be the standard reaction to any time we get compared to him.	/r/TheRedPill	20/07/14 05:20 PM
9	No More Mr Nice Guy should be required reading before the rest of the sidebar. I did wonder about this. Personally the book was absolutely spot on about absolutely everything, and was quite eerie to read as I had never imagined an off the shelf book would be able to so accurately describe me. The exercises in it have also already paid dividends and I feel I'm making a lot of progress in improving. TRP is standard philosophy for all guys in understanding the true mating game they're playing, while "no more mr nice guy" is for a specific type of guy who's very likely to have…	/r/TheRedPill	20/07/14 05:09 PM
1	Easy Way to Practice Dominance You seem to be getting a lot of stick for this, but I'm with you OP. I think people are looking too much into specific scenarios of where this could go wrong, instead of seeing it as an exercise to improve your sense of dominance. You don't have to go doing this every day at all times in Detroit. It's an exercise to try to change your mindset. In trying to shed my own beta habits, I started looking at apologising, and decided to count how many times I said "sorry" in a day. In that afternoon I s…	/r/TheRedPill	19/07/14 09:50 AM
6	Question about the woman that quit her 4 year relationship to have sex with a stranger she met posting nudes on GW. He must have some kind of super game? Or the bitch is just a big whore? The rest of the story heavily suggests the latter.	/r/askTRP	15/07/14 06:44 PM
21	You cannot negotiate desire - reactions of UFC ring girls Yeah that physique is perfectly possible if you tren hard and keep a clen diet.	/r/TheRedPill	08/07/14 06:35 PM
7	Ugly post-wall woman who controls the money in her relationship His comment towards the end says it all: "The way I was brought up is that the man goes out and works, while the woman looks after the home". He's been raised to be a beta provider his whole life. He thinks this is it, and that this is just what he has to put up with.	/r/TheRedPill	05/07/14 06:30 PM
1	An interesting thing that's happened to me since swallowing the red pill: I stopped idealizing my mother Read "No More Mr Nice Guy!". PDF available on google. Whole section about this that's exacty as you describe.	/r/TheRedPill	05/07/14 01:40 PM
7	Critique of "game" and PUA from a non-feminist point of view Sounds like the standard female preference that their ideal mates are naturally born by accident, and don't learn or develop to be that way. "Six packs are hot, but men should have six packs from working as lumberjacks. Working out a six pack in the gym is vain and off-putting." "Men should be dominant and confident, but if they're not, trying to learn to be so is off-putting." "Wealth is attractive, but working and studying STEM to get a good job is not." Game and PUA is really just talking and…	/r/TheRedPill	05/07/14 12:53 PM
1	An exception to the rule of never listen to women advice I would never advocate ignoring a woman simply because she's a woman. Sure, most of them are full of shit, but that doesn't mean seeing someone's a woman, and then dismissing everything they say without listening to it. Likewise, you wouldn't say "Ah, this is a man, so he must know what he's talking about" and instantly approve of everything he says. It does you no harm to listen to someone's advice and points of view, consider it on its own merits, and then accept or disregard on its own basis.…	/r/TheRedPill	05/07/14 12:46 PM
3	10/10 Genetics on Tinder: an experiment Bodybuilding forums are OBSESSED with genetics. Bodybuilding goes way into perfection and minutiae to achieve aesthetics, and genetics have a major impact on how your body looks, e.g. misaligned abs, muscle insertions.	/r/TheRedPill	05/07/14 12:35 PM
2	10/10 Genetics on Tinder: an experiment And the guys who do have success from TRP almost invariably become successful sexually because they hit the gym. Totally disagree. I used to hit the gym a lot in my blue pill days, and was in fantastic shape. I often got compliments and had girls admiring me. But I never got laid. I still ended up in the friendzone, and I could still never get more than maybe a second date. Most girls used me for their own validation, as some sort of trophy to show off "look who wants me!", but they were all put…	/r/TheRedPill	05/07/14 12:27 PM
2	10/10 Genetics on Tinder: an experiment This is all correct, but don't let it dictate your thinking. Yes, the men who are very good looking will do well with women no matter what, and yes, if you are ugly you can only go so far, but I think people (everyone, not necessarily here) puts too much emphasis on genes, bones structure, etc, and forgets the importance of body language, posture, expression, etc. Not only that, but how much of an effect grooming can have on you. I feel like people often have this set idea that you have one sing…	/r/TheRedPill	05/07/14 12:16 PM
1	What do you think of the SCOTUS ruling on businesses being allowed to deny women coverage of birth control based on the religion of business owners? Not American, so I haven't really been following this, but as with all things feminism, it's impossible to escape since all the mainstream media eats this shit up. They've played down the part about what it actually is that's been denied. Is it really just that an employer won't have to pay birth control?! Why the fuck should an employer be forced into paying that anyway?! Do they cover condoms? What health conditions, diseases, vaccinations, etc aren't being covered in order to divert funds int…	/r/TheRedPill	03/07/14 01:19 PM
26	Asian bluepiller notices RP Theory is correct but still wants to be plugged in just so that he could be "nice" "I knew a guy who was Asian and he was attractive, therefore your life experiences are completely wrong."	/r/TheRedPill	03/07/14 12:58 PM
7	What solution does TRP suggest to women in regards to riding the CC that is win/win for both gender? I don't think there's any point in trying to engineer a "solution" for it. One of the key differences between MRA and TRP in my opinion, is that MRA deals with the ideal, what should happen. They attempt to engineer a set of social norms which would work well for everyone, but these only work if everyone plays along (think prisoner's dilemma). They therefore get very bitter and angry at women's behaviours because they prevent a better societal system from working in order to selfishly benefit. A…	/r/TheRedPill	03/07/14 12:35 PM
2	"White Privilege" as the Neutron Bomb of Moral Warfare I mentioned this in another thread, but I think the SJW obsession with "white privilege" helps white males attract women (though not as an intended effect obviously). Basically, girls predominantly go for white guys: http://blog.okcupid.com/index.php/your-race-affects-whether-people-write-you-back/ My own theory is that white males are sub-consciously associated with wealth and power in the current zeitgeist; not always entirely sub-consciously mind you, as the SJWs will quite openly declare tha…	/r/TheRedPill	03/07/14 10:40 AM
4	Indian/Asian Men you have been warned. I'm interested to see how this dynamic changes as Asia becomes the richer region. Pretty sure the main reason whites are preferred is because the race is associated with wealth and power. The common feminist/ racist complaint is that it's "white guys" in charge; the stereotype is an association between wealth/power, and whiteness. The more they go on about it, the more the stereotype becomes common sub-conscious thinking; white = rich. Indians meanwhile are associated with being dirt poor and li…	/r/TheRedPill	02/07/14 07:36 PM
1	Sheryl Sandberg confirms alpha fux beta bux I read Freakonomics, but I don't remember that chapter. New edition?	/r/TheRedPill	02/07/14 06:00 PM
19	Sheryl Sandberg confirms alpha fux beta bux Someone who thinks women should be smart, opinionated and ambitious. Do feminists not understand what opinionated means? Why do they think being opinionated is an admirable quality? Opinionated: adjective characterized by conceited assertiveness and dogmatism To break this down further (I know English isn't everyone's first language). Conceited: adjective excessively proud of oneself; vain Dogmatism: noun the tendency to lay down principles as undeniably true, without consideration of evidence o…	/r/TheRedPill	02/07/14 05:52 PM
3	Edward Cullen and Shemales - A short presentation on human sexuality by a cognitive neuroscientist Haven't got time to watch the video yet, but I suspect it hits the same points as that other "why guys like shemales" video that was floating around a while ago. The bald guy with the goatee doing the lecture. Basic thing was that guys operate on a few visual triggers for arousal- tits, asses, pussies, and yes, dicks. My own theory on why dicks is a trigger is that it gives him an instinctual incentive to bring out his dick when he's with a girl. Pull out her tits! Done. Let's see her ass! Done.…	/r/TheRedPill	24/06/14 06:40 AM
3	[question] Why do you think this subreddit is so hated on Reddit? Agreed. Not to say that bankers or the finance industry is misunderstood, or did nothing wrong, they definitely deserve all the vitriol they get, but people do it because they're following the herd, and everyone else says it. I guarantee most people who consider bankers on a tier with pedophiles could not tell you anything about LIBOR, CDOs, Sergey Aleynikov, or describe any one of the huge mound of scandals any of the big financial institutions took part in; fury first, facts follow... if at al…	/r/TheRedPill	23/06/14 06:34 PM
6	46-year-old mother of three wants a rich, tall man with a nice build. Not the best representation, but a lot for the time restraint. No links or full quotes so lurkers can't search the city I'm from. Profile 1: Fat, with 2 kids, 28, Job: "full time mother" She's looking for "someone who works hard" and "knows how to treat a lady" Profile 2: Fat. post-wall, 1 kid, at least her height requirements aren't 6ft+ She's "a princess??" (sic), and wants someone over 5'10, and older than her, since men "mature sloer" (sic) Profile 3: Best of the best. 33, overweight, 3 kids…	/r/TheRedPill	23/06/14 06:17 PM
5	46-year-old mother of three wants a rich, tall man with a nice build. Online dating in general is FULL of these types. Give me five minutes and I could find a whole bunch of similar ones. Starting... NOW EDIT: I take it back, need some time to set up a profile...	/r/TheRedPill	23/06/14 05:51 PM
2	35 Practical Steps Men Can Take To Support Feminism I don't think there could be a more clear piece of evidence that feminism is purely a mating strategy to gain power, and has nothing to do with equality. EDIT Examples: "6. When a woman tells you something is sexist, believe her." Women are always right. Men are always wrong, unless they agree. "23. Dont treat your spouse like a nag. If she is nagging, you are probably lagging." If a woman wants you to do something, that means you have to do it.	/r/TRPOffTopic	22/06/14 03:32 PM
4	Since bettering myself (physically fit and setting my standards higher), what I observed at the waterpark today. Ditto. Fucking love coca-cola and this has been the hardest thing for me to kick. Have been replacing it with sparkling water recently, and actually I've not been doing too bad though; lots of ice, sparkling water and a bit of lemon juice (no sugar)- seems to fill the void coke left behind. I also have an issue with fat-loss; I look much better overall with maybe 14% bf imo, but a lot of it sticks on my belly. If I cut down to lose the belly, I lose fat everywhere else, and I find my face looks …	/r/TheRedPill	22/06/14 08:13 AM
3	I want to take my first step, I want to take the red pill.[Rant/Help!] First thing I'd recommend if you find you're a pushover (with thanks to /u/RPthrowaway123 /u/dousche and /u/SpinalArt who recommended it to me) is read "No More Mr Nice Guy!". I don't know your situation, but I think there's a good chance you'll find it accurately describes your life and thinking to a tee, as it did mine. There's a pdf floating around if you google it and want to try before you buy. Gives you a set plan for changing the foundations of your thinking. Meanwhile, just keep an eye o…	/r/TheRedPill	22/06/14 08:06 AM
2	There's a petition to get the youtube channel 'simple pickup' removed because talking to a woman, any woman, is 'street harassment' She isn't doing it for your attention necessarily though; she's doing it for the attention of the 10% alpha males; the Jeremy Meeks of the world. Guys like that won't need to watch simple pickup, only recovering betas; feminists don't want betas to change, because they need them to stay in line, stay beta, and provide the beta bux in later life.	/r/TheRedPill	22/06/14 07:48 AM
0	There's a petition to get the youtube channel 'simple pickup' removed because talking to a woman, any woman, is 'street harassment' I'm not from the US so I could be wrong here, but couldn't it just be brought under the banner of "harassment", "breach of the peace", "public disturbance", or any other vague "I don't like what you're doing" law? I honestly feel so sorry for American males; pretty sure you guys have it the hardest. On top of that, if you do want to change things, who are you gonna vote for, the all college is rape party or the all masturbation is evil party?	/r/TheRedPill	22/06/14 07:24 AM
5	I experienced what it's like to be a very attractive male. Or as I like to call it- My tinder experiment with a red pill twist. As others here are saying, the problem is not your looks, it's how you're presenting yourself; posture, pose, body language, facial expression, etc. Take this one as an example: https://i.imgur.com/Igi7vcP.jpg 1. Head is stooped down a little, shoulders slightly tensed and inwards; making you smaller, less intimidating. It's a posture for looking small, unthreatening and non-competitive, occupying the smallest space possible, and at the same time bracing and protecting yourself from others in a …	/r/TheRedPill	20/06/14 08:10 PM
13	Job interviews reward narcissists, punish applicants from modest cultures Ditto. Basically the typical HR interview is entirely about the impression you make, and how you make the interviewer feel. The career HR interviewer doesn't know anything technical about the job to grill you on, so that's the best they can do. When you're being interviewed by a technical employee, or at a competency assessment, you're directly assessed on your capabilities on the job, and how you make someone feel is secondary or doesn't come into it. It would be the same outcome regardless of …	/r/TheRedPill	17/06/14 06:41 AM
2	Woman gets approached by confident guy, thinks he's a douchebag - but gives him blowjobs and sex anyway because he's so "charming". She later regrets it and decides it was all misogyny. I think you have to be careful of the fact that it is her telling you the story, now, since it could be mostly female hamster bullshit making things up afterwards to justify it in her mind (i.e. he didn't really stalk her or chase her that much at all).	/r/TheRedPill	16/06/14 03:48 AM
1	Gaming a hot girl sunbathing on her front lawn https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VI8KjD2BdtY&feature=player_detailpage#t=100	/r/askTRP	15/06/14 05:29 PM
3	Why Do Men Overestimate Their Own Level of Attractiveness? I actually kind of agree that a lot of guys chase after girls who are above them in attractiveness. Think of the whiteknight/orbiters who will surround themselves with a hot chick as part of her entourage, rather than focus their energies elsewhere. I was struggling to find a rational explanation, so thought back to my own blue pill days, and considered whether I had done the same (tl;dr, I did). My ratings on OkC were actually quite high. I even got that eugenics super selection email saying I'…	/r/TheRedPill	15/06/14 03:24 PM
12	We sit down, drunk girl attacks foreigner, white knights and police try to screw him. But he didn't really talk to them, he was just sitting near them.	/r/TheRedPill	15/06/14 02:44 PM
10	We sit down, drunk girl attacks foreigner, white knights and police try to screw him. and going to a country where I can be a fucking man and be appreciated by women and society. What country is that though? There honestly seems to be so few these days that have a decent standard of living.	/r/TheRedPill	15/06/14 02:43 PM
31	A fatty block her beta husband from social media to stop him from looking at pictures of beautiful skinny women... and beg them not to post pictures of them in bikini. A teacher by trade, I gave up my career in education to refocus my skill set to community development theory and practice. She isn't even a teacher now. She's given up the hellish, cortisol fuelled all nighters and 120 hour work weeks that come with elementary school teaching in order to focus more on another shitty blog the theory of social justice.	/r/TheRedPill	13/06/14 08:49 PM
15	Twitter feminists trend #EndFathersDay (not a joke) I guarantee many of these twitter accounts are 4chan trolls. It's the "journalists" jumping on board so fast that surprised me. I mean, a bunch of people can get together and start up a twitter shitstorm without problem, but newspapers have... well, maybe not quality controls obviously, but SOMETHING... right?! Unless anyone can just submit a story and they'll put it up? EDIT: Okay, actually some of the accounts do seem reasonably legit. I just can't tell any more.	/r/TheRedPill	13/06/14 08:32 PM
2	How many red pill men are childless by choice? How has it turned out for you? How have you cope staying childless in face of societal and familial pressure? Very much so. From my contact with a local clinic so far, my prospects are looking grim because I've apparently had too many sex partners- red flag for STDs for them. Going to get tested next week; once I have a (presumably) clean recent test, should be good to go for the next stages (sperm analysis). Other than that, they ask all sorts of shit about your health history, family health, height, eye colour, hair colour, ethnicity, etc. You also have to have a sperm analysis to test your fertility.…	/r/TheRedPill	13/06/14 06:04 PM
5	How many red pill men are childless by choice? How has it turned out for you? How have you cope staying childless in face of societal and familial pressure? I'm considering becoming a sperm donor. All the benefits of your biological imperitive being fulfilled, with none of the drawbacks of modern fatherhood.	/r/TheRedPill	13/06/14 06:17 AM
10	Drunken Dipshittery Results in a Life Lesson About Beta Shaming I disagree with people saying you shouldn't apologise for your actions at all, and that even if you do something shitty you should just keep running with it. You don't have to back away into a corner because someone called you out, and you certainly shouldn't do it BECAUSE someone called you out, but I think if you say something that you actually regret, you can still take it back without it being an act of beta submission. Too many times you see people totally unwilling to back down from what i…	/r/TheRedPill	12/06/14 07:16 PM
2	Why are British girls so fat? You hit the nail on the head, although there's a reason we're this way. British Empire had most of the world, and great produce flowed in from everywhere into the UK; at a time when most people were just living on bread and water, we had spices, sugars, exotic fruits and vegetables, etc. Local food declined in popularity when there was so much amazing new shit to have, and so did local production, resulting in us basically just importing all our food, bar a few staples. Then the world wars hit, …	/r/TheRedPill	12/06/14 06:53 AM
1	My Tattoo Ha, funny you said this, I was thinking the same thing myself recently. I know they do similar things in court; asking the girl how big the guy is, etc; doesn't usually count for a lot though, last one I was reading about the girl said he was huge, his doctor said his penis was tiny, she hamstered it up about "w-well it was huge to me!" A tattoo I think would be much more concrete. You'd have to be sure you told absolutely nobody you had it though.	/r/TheRedPill	12/06/14 06:30 AM
2	What do married women even do all day? Occupation: ful tim mumy :) 90% of pof/okc profiles	/r/TheRedPill	11/06/14 06:43 AM
9	The Archetypal Modern Woman: "She fucks uncountable alphas, ignoring the beta who likes her, through her years of youth & prettiness. She realizes how empty it all is, but only once the wall approaches & the good times end, so she uses the last of her charms to husband-up the barely tolerable beta." Definitely this. The blue pill certainly doesn't want this; he just thinks that's his lot in life; he can't get any better, so he'll take what he can get to avoid being a lonely reject. He then has to hamster his way into rationalising why he can accept this deal, because he's kinda stuck with it; like the little boy who spends all his pocket money on a crap games console, then feels the need to ferverously defend it from all criticism. The blue piller definitely does not want this, and he is ve…	/r/TheRedPill	09/06/14 09:49 PM
5	Crazed woman attacks man over pictures he wasn't taking I think I need to stop coming to TRP, this shit just depresses me. On the plus side I've learned to just record any and every confrontation; might save me one day. Been assaulted by a woman with a bottle myself, and it's just a lose-lose situation.	/r/TheRedPill	09/06/14 07:42 PM
2	So what type of music do you put on when you've got a girl back to your room? Music that lets her know I'm high value and she's going to have to step it up: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hU7EHKFNMQg	/r/TheRedPill	08/06/14 09:21 AM
5	The man(nequin) of my dreams She says the questions began in her early 30s. What a coincidence!	/r/TheRedPill	08/06/14 08:58 AM
12	Narcissists have all the fun. Honestly, narcissists may have all the fun, but they are not happy. A narcissist swings between crippling self-doubt, and wildly overoptimistic arrogance. They feel they are a god/godess, and that they deserve and are entitled to the world; when they inevitably don't get this, they spiral downwards into frustration about why, when they are obviously so superior, they are not taking their rightful place as god-emperor of mankind, and lash out blaming others as holding them back or whatever. As su…	/r/TheRedPill	08/06/14 08:55 AM
14	These Charts Shows What Age of the Opposite Sex Men and Women Are Most Attracted To (from the book authored by the founder of OkCupid) A lot of people mentioning here that the female chart is just what women "say" they want. Unless I missed something, it doesn't say explicitly how they got the data, but my guess is it was the same methods as with the stats blog; i.e. the raw data on how users actively messaged or rated others. Same guy from the stats blog as who wrote the book it seems- "Christian Rudder". One interesting one in the stats blog is that bisexual people might say they like both genders, but were found to actually …	/r/TheRedPill	08/06/14 08:25 AM
17	Redpill in chart form. Is this the same guy as who used to do the OkCupid stats blog? I always found that one kinda funny, because the data was literally right there, and yet it would always be presented and summarised with some pro-feminist/hamster slant which contradicted it. E.g. Data shows women overwhelmingly go for guys who have pics with their shirt off "Men should avoid having shirtless pics, but maybe have say one at the beach where it's not out of place"	/r/TheRedPill	07/06/14 07:34 AM
2	Let's discuss "creeps" and "creep-shaming" for a second Alpha fucks, beta bux. Gotta have a supply of supplicant, pliable providers to fall back on and provide everything for the children sired by the 10% alphas. Best way to keep them that way is to keep them ashamed, apologetic, desperate, controlled; then you can exploit them as you wish. Same thing exists in herds of horses, which are matriarchical. As soon as a young male reaches puberty, they are kicked out of the herd. In the herd is safe, secure, outside is dangerous- everyone wants to be in t…	/r/TheRedPill	07/06/14 07:24 AM
0	Redpill in chart form. Hahahaha that perfectly clear wall at 30... oh man...	/r/TheRedPill	07/06/14 07:06 AM
37	Only be kind to people who appreciate kindness. I don't buy the idea that men see kindness as a sign of virtue; in my experiences it's more often than not siezed on as a sign of weakness to be exploited too. I would however agree they are fundamentally different from male-female relationships, and that males take into account things like honour, indebtedness, etc which allow them to function more smoothly with kindness, in a way that male-female relationships simply do not. I.e. a male can go help his male friend build his house, and know tha…	/r/TheRedPill	07/06/14 06:33 AM
6	Be confrontational Ditto. I didn't join TRP till recently, but had made the same discoveries a couple of years ago. Confrontation was always my downfall too, and what kept resetting my progress, eventually leading to me discovering TRP. With thanks to /u/RPthrowaway123 /u/dousche and /u/SpinalArt who recommended it for this, read "No More Mr Nice Guy!". I imagine it will be as eerily close to your own life as it was to mine. There's copies in PDF if you google it and want to check it out first. One thing I've been…	/r/TheRedPill	06/06/14 05:19 PM
1	Do you have any female friends that you can be honest with and who give you honest female advice that you use to your benefit? I realised recently that not only were my female friends very poor friends, but they were actually horrifically toxic. I don't speak to them any more, but I had completely forgotten that, during my blue pill days, they used to feed me so much blue pill shit, totally try to shame and shut me down if I showed any interest in girls or sex, and generally tried to mould me into being a better beta provider. My sister's not too bad for decent advice though. I don't believe any female you're not relate…	/r/askTRP	04/06/14 02:13 PM
3	Just treat women as people and everything will be alright Women are your competitors as much as other men are. Your own genes are just doing what they can to get ahead and survive (they don't actually TRY anything, but hopefully you know what I mean here). They compete with other gene units, eating them, stealing from them, using them, co-operating with them, whatever is needed to get ahead. We're fed the line though that men compete with other men for women. Not the whole case though, and a part of blue pill thought; blue pill says women are just wait…	/r/TheRedPill	03/06/14 06:39 PM
2	My father is about to get divorce raped. Depends on where you live. Often no, unless you state that you're recording beforehand, like those customer service calls where they declare it at the start.	/r/TheRedPill	02/06/14 07:07 PM
4	My father is about to get divorce raped. Depends where OP is from, but in the UK anyway, the courts don't give a shit who's fault the divorce is. http://www.lawdonut.co.uk/law/personal-law/cohabitation-separation-and-divorce/divorce-and-separation-financial-matters-faqs "1. Does the reason for the divorce make any difference to how the financial settlement is worked out? Very rarely. In general, any financial settlement should be fair, and should give priority to the welfare and needs of any children. Behaving badly, or committing adul…	/r/TheRedPill	02/06/14 07:06 PM
7	There's No Such Thing as a Slut - Olga Khazan \| The Atlantic The Atlantic is just feminist trash with a light dusting of actual news over the top.	/r/TheRedPill	02/06/14 07:00 PM
1	What Malcolm X learned from prostitutes. My experiences were a bit split. Plenty of hookers like this, but also plenty who did really enjoy it (or at least have no qualms pretending). I definitely don't claim that's the case for all of them though, or that a substantial number don't exist like you said. A common theme of the ones I found who enjoyed it was loving the attention and validation that came from knowing a guy was paying her to be with him. Some didn't even fuck guys outside of prostitution because they felt almost like the g…	/r/TheRedPill	02/06/14 06:58 PM
17	Kirstie Allsopp tells young women: ditch university and have a baby by 27 Perfectly possible to go to University AND have a baby by 27. University is only 4 years at most, so if you go straight out of school, you're 22 or so by the time you finish; no reason you can't have a baby at this point. Problem is Uni/College gets girls onto the carousel, after which they don't want to get off until they're forced to by the wall. I don't see any valid reason why they couldn't go to Uni, find someone in those 4 years, then have a child at 22. They don't though, because it's see…	/r/TheRedPill	02/06/14 06:35 PM
3	Tinder strategy in terms of photos? I'd ditch 3. or at least make it photos with groups of decent looking, but otherwise less attractive guy friends. 1 gets the lead picture, assuming you have visible abs.	/r/TheRedPill	01/06/14 04:53 PM
18	'If you are a man you are a part of rape culture'. This is really getting out of hand -.- You're just a pig with no empathy for the developing world tier oppression and fear these women face. When I spot a woman on the street on a potential collision course with me through my binoculars, I initially light a green flare. This signals that I am friendly, and will do no harm, as well as giving her advanced warning of my presence. I then move into the second stage, where I take out my standard semaphore guide, retract the two flags I conceal in my anus at all times, and adopt the semapho…	/r/TheRedPill	01/06/14 10:54 AM
2	The Lover-Provider continuum, AFBB, Polygamy vs Monogamy Agreed. With a prostitute you both give and receive. Lot of blue pill husbands give plenty but receive nothing.	/r/TheRedPill	01/06/14 07:10 AM
1	My life sucks From personal experience: 1. anti depressants 2. wild night with prostitutes It's very, very difficult to break yourself out of a funk you find yourself in. Picking up girls is really all about confidence and happiness. You get depressed because you can't get laid, and you can't get laid because you're depressed. Exercise is very good for depression, but if you're depressed the last thing you want to do is exercise. Those who have been severely depressed know what I mean. My own theory about dep…	/r/askTRP	31/05/14 05:01 PM
8	Do you think some women drop their frame and explain to their sons how things really work? Parents blue pill their kids to make them easier to control. Sit down. Shut up. Don't run off. Don't climb that tree. Do what you're told. Share. Be polite. Don't talk to me that way. Mostly though it centres around being obedient, quiet and submissive. Fathers are absent through divorce, long work hours, jobs in other countries, etc Raising a child properly is hard; you have to actually make a lot of effort to teach them things, put up with their mistakes and behaviour experiments when you're t…	/r/askTRP	31/05/14 04:26 PM
6	The Shaming of Male Sexuality Saw this in another thread somewhere but can't find it now to link to it, so will just post the video. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HGEO6ig8WsM Even having been redpilled, this was still a bit of an eye-opener. I had perceived this in my blue pill days and it confused me no end- why was I always being harassed and shamed for showing an interest in sex, when the guys who did well with girls weren't? Even when I was reasonably popular with girls, there seemed to be ways I wasn't "allowed" to ac…	/r/TheRedPill	31/05/14 06:51 AM
2	What to do when a woman hits you? Have had a woman smash a bottle over the back of my head in the street before. Just out of the blue, no idea who she was or why she did it. I was just walking along, next thing I feel a massive thud to the back of my head, and I've suddenly spun round, fist raised to face my attacker- instinct I guess as I'm usually a total pussy and could never hit anyone even in defence. I just sort of found myself in that position without any thought behind it. Standing right in front of me was a girl, broken…	/r/askTRP	29/05/14 06:52 PM
1	A little lost I'll give it a try then I guess; I do find myself getting wound up and frustrated thinking about things sometimes, particularly at night when I should really be sleeping, so this may be a good option.	/r/askTRP	28/05/14 06:49 PM
1	A little lost Will do, thank you for the recommendation, and from people seconding it, sounds like a good choice.	/r/askTRP	28/05/14 06:48 PM
3	A little lost Thank you for this. Really great advice. Nothing more I can really add, but I'll be saving a copy of this to properly digest and make sure I keep at it, particularly the part about focusing on one thing, and trying to succeed at doing that, then building it up. I really want to improve, but I've just never really found a strategy how. Really appreciate this, thank you.	/r/askTRP	28/05/14 06:47 PM
3	A little lost Not at all. I hate it. I hate myself for acting like it, and I hate that it's the role I end up in. As a very young kid I used to actually be very social, outgoing, and was often a leader of groups of kids. As the abuse wore on and got worse (it wasn't really present as far as I remember until maybe 3 years old, and it was only through years and years of it, plus lots of bullying outside the home, that I ended up in the sorry state I'm in now). Cuckolding may have been the wrong word then; basic…	/r/askTRP	27/05/14 09:14 PM
1	A little lost I sort of avoided the idea of writing this down a lot to be honest, because I felt like it was a bit self indulgent; wallowing in my own misery and self pity would only reinforce that image of myself by repetition. This was sort of how I felt about therapy, in that it was just this regular outpouring of "poor me" without any real way to get out of it. Maybe I'm wrong and sticking at it would help, I don't know, I just never felt any sort of progress with it.	/r/askTRP	27/05/14 08:58 PM