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yourmomistighter/r/askMRP04/08/22 01:58 PM
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I appreciate the input StoopidDingus69.
/r/askMRP09/08/22 04:31 PM
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Honestly man. Amazing comment. I agree with every word you’ve said. Not sure if I can stop fucking her entirely because I’m always in the mood, but I’ve been encouraging her to tell me no if she truly doesn’t want it. Additionally you’re right about needing to take big leaps with my financial life. I have a plan in place and will try to have a much greater career in 8 months, I just need to build my skill. Have wasted like 4 hours today talking to randos on Reddit as this post was dropped there …
/r/askMRP09/08/22 04:30 PM
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Extreme BDSM stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:09 PM
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Lmfao you lack reading comprehension. No, I was not. I was withdrawing when it was a no to sex years ago.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:05 PM
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Ghost my wife? Where? In the other corner of the bedroom?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 04:01 PM
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I honestly don’t think I‘m “bad at sex“ but really what man does? So I‘ll play along. How do you expect me to do this with a wife that often rejects being eaten out (despite seeming to orgasm from it)? Also should note that she doesn’t like foreplay (she has said this) and that when were just fucking I‘ll probably last like 4 minutes lmao. Unless I pull out repeatedly and like caress her/eat her out. I don’t think I’m sexually vanilla. I pull her hair/spank/choke/slap/name-calling/commands/move …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:51 PM
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The only reason I know she cries/sulks in the bathroom is because she‘s told me such. I said earlier that I thought she was just pissing to prevent a UTI. She knows our sex life is an issue, she isn‘t foolish. I‘m trying to calm the fuck down and stop being a horny dog humping her leg 24/7. I don’t know what answer you’re looking for.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:37 PM
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And I specifically encouraged her to start telling me no more and I will stop withdrawing attention/affection in response to it (which is a tactic from MRP called dread). She‘s told me no to sex 2x for the first time in years.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:26 PM
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I have spoke to her about this…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:24 PM
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You really are serious about this question. But truthfully, I don’t know. My gut-react answer is she got less orgasms when we first met, but she was incredibly more enthusiastic. She‘s very self-sacrificial, I think she cared about pleasing me and was willing to do anything to do it and was wild she was getting fucked by me. But now… not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 03:09 PM
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Because it‘s askMRP. Also no it‘s not if she faked it I probably wouldn’t know. There are times she basically pisses herself and squirms and shakes and I think that‘s obvious enough. But then there are times she doesn’t piss and still squirms and shakes and makes a loud noise and honestly it could be faked. She‘s said otherwise. I don’t know really. No, she‘s never stopped. I don’t get her off every time as she frequently say‘s no to me eating her out even though I make it clear I enjoy doing so…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:57 PM
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You take everything very literal. The sincere understanding that “I‘m on the spectrum“ was amusing. But no, I‘m not. Just simply not great at deciphering or having to guess her feelings about things. No need to apologize about anything. I also don’t mention pleasuring her as it‘s askMRP. Notice the context. She also has orgasmed from me eating her out before, many times. According to her she‘s only faked it once (don’t know if that’s true but I‘ll go with it). She also doesn’t cry every time in …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:40 PM
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You come at this with the pretense that I don’t want her to enjoy fucking. Which definitely isn’t the case. Some women are not as blunt as you. Attempting to understand how she is feeling or what she wants proves itself to be difficult on a daily basis. I have to play a guessing game, sometimes for years, to arrive at an answer. I say all this as the truth is — I don’t truly know what she wants or enjoys. She expects me to just get it without any discussion, as if it should be obvious — and I as…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 02:21 PM
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I‘m not claiming she likes sex with me now. But in the beginning, I definitely think she did. She must like something about me to put out 5x a week for years despite not wanting to — and it’s not money.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:58 PM
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It is when I‘m dead broke. What else is she getting from being with me? The answer is my appearance, and maybe sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:49 PM
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I agree with the first part of what you’ve said, but “dreading“ and withdrawing attention is what made her feel incapable of telling me no to begin with — so I won’t be doing that. I agree I need more money though, and status. Working on it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:48 PM
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No, but I‘ve been encouraging her to tell me no when she doesn’t want it. She‘s given me a no 2x for the first time in years — don‘t even recall the last time I got a no. It sounds funny that I‘m celebrating over her telling me no for sex, but yeah I am. Also, just to brag, she still said yes 2x as well. Hopefully not out of feeling forced — not sure.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:41 PM
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I am very in-shape, am on the verge of competing in bodybuilding. I keep myself well put-together. My wife tell‘s me she‘s attracted to me and I genuinely believe it. I get the attention of a lot of women. I‘ve gone to the gym 6x a week for years, lifted since 13-14, and been on steroids since 19. I am in-shape. I can promise you that. Now… I don‘t say all of that to brag, but to point out, that maybe, just maybe, it isn‘t an issue of attraction. The problem is more likely due to her having sex …
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:34 PM
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Caveat: It wasn’t until recently that I discovered she hates it and it makes her cry — and now that I know, I‘m attempting to remedy the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:29 PM
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The steroids will aid you in that hope. But then again… I am fucking 5x a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:26 PM
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If you look further you‘ll come to notice that MRP attacks every poster. Especially in askMRP. It‘s an attempt to test frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:24 PM
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Not anymore. Maybe you should have treated them better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:19 PM
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I wish the same for your cats.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 01:05 PM
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This is exactly why she resents sex with me. It took years for me to understand that. I‘m making an effort to undo the resentment I‘ve built. Encouraging her to tell me no when she doesn’t want it and doing all I can to not be butthurt about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:57 PM
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Hot take.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:49 PM
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Good advice. I appreciate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:48 PM
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She‘s said such. Whether that’s true or not, I wouldn’t know.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:45 PM
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You do not definitively know whether she will ever have sexual desire for me again. I‘m willing to make changes in hopes she does.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:32 PM
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Yeah she typically doesn’t want foreplay as she just wants to get it over with.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 12:25 PM
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The ?!?!?! made me laugh. But I‘ll answer you. How could I not tell? Every time we fucked, she‘d said “okay“ (as she felt she couldn’t say otherwise) and then anytime I asked her if everything was fine, are you in pain, do you want me to switch a position, she basically said “no, everything is fine, you can keep going“ and then we‘d finish up, and she‘d go sulk in the bathroom for 90 minutes. It wasn’t until recently that I‘ve learned she’d use that distance to sometimes cry. If it makes you fee…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 11:47 AM
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You completely misunderstand what I said. My situation is well known in the Discord server. Only now do other‘s act as if it‘s heinous. Also, it‘s not until recently have I come to truly understand she hates it. She never tells me no (because she feels like she can’t) and even whilst fucking her if I asked if everything is okay she‘d say „yeah, it‘s fine, keep going“ with a blank look on her face. Autism behold, it took me 5 years of being with her to know that wasn’t true.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 11:30 AM
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I am “wtf“ from the PPD Discord server, my story isn’t new.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/22 11:12 AM
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Agree with everything but the last two sentences. I appreciate your input. I‘m in the process of getting a better career. I‘ve set myself a deadline and am attempting to improve my skills.
/r/askMRP08/08/22 06:59 PM
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I saw your comment the first time. But yes, that’s exactly right. What non-monetary price must I pay to make my wife enthusiastic to do anything I want sexually?
/r/askMRP08/08/22 06:55 PM
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Not her.
/r/askMRP07/08/22 01:14 AM
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I did re-read your comment several times over before I responded. It actually made me laugh that you‘d word it as, “defining for who I am,“ so I‘m not gonna waste effort attempting to decipher your poor rhetorical question. Maybe you need to stop looking so far into it, as the answer is right in front of you. Starfish sucks. Enthusiasm is enjoyable.
/r/askMRP07/08/22 12:46 AM
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I know right? How could I ever want anything better than starfish sex for the rest of my life?
/r/askMRP07/08/22 12:06 AM
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I did work construction previously, and while yes it paid better, it wasn’t significantly so. I also was constantly fatigued and lost a lot of energy for the gym. I have a plan in place to make more money, but I‘d agree that this is a good start nonetheless.
/r/askMRP06/08/22 08:32 PM
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Agreed. I haven’t managed to work through the majority of it yet (the exercises, not the book). I think money is my biggest priority for the time being.
/r/askMRP06/08/22 08:27 PM
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I hope you realize that excerpt isn’t from me. Retarded contribution.
/r/askMRP06/08/22 08:25 PM
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Perhaps it was poorly implied… I‘m not willing to remain in a relationship without enthusiasm once I regard myself as deserving of it. I don‘t currently think I am.
/r/askMRP06/08/22 08:23 PM
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Not sure if your question is to get me to deduct the answer „Validational Sex“ or not. Predictably, I don’t agree. I assure you, steroids and a naturally high sex-drive genuinely does make me want to fuck her for years, even if it‘s starfish. That being said, of course I‘m not happy with that, nor the lack of special sex acts (i.e. my last post), and that is validational, but I think rightfully so.
/r/askMRP05/08/22 04:38 PM
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Read the majority of the books on the sidebar as well. Still a pointless comment.
/r/askMRP05/08/22 04:19 PM
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Pointless in the long-term. I‘m going to keep my current job where I have ample free-time and build my skills whilst at work and eventually get myself an actual career.
/r/askMRP05/08/22 04:17 PM
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Answer to the first question is priorities. I value a coach more than new clothes. Every guy that‘s brand new or decently advanced has one, everyone in the middle thinks they don’t need one. I‘ve been at this 11 years. A coach is indispensable, and bodybuilding means a lot to me personally. Secondly, yes I have read MAP and MMSLP. Lastly, I‘ve had different jobs that were slightly above minimum wage, but nothing groundbreaking. I think my best bet is honing skill as a web developer and truly goi…
/r/askMRP05/08/22 01:37 PM
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Was on gear prior to meeting my wife. Started lifting around 13-14. Started gear at 19. Yes, 19. I‘m 25 now. The gear is cheap, but the food is expensive. So is the coach.
/r/askMRP05/08/22 12:37 PM
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Okay. Yeah. I agree with this.
/r/askMRP05/08/22 11:06 AM
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Good point. The only things I can think of that I‘m going to try to do in the near term and have been planning for awhile/just now are: Teach myself front-end web development and get a job as a webdev by October of 2023. This will raise my salary significantly, and I‘d have no financial issues ever again as long as lifestyle inflation isn‘t too severe. Continue cutting with my coach and get to 8% bodyfat. Will bulk again after, but that’s the game. Try to do all I can to remain lean on the bulk …
/r/askMRP05/08/22 02:31 AM
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If I were unattractive, and I have literally no money or assets, why would my wife put-out for years in hopes of not losing me? Confused on this point. Put another way: Briffaults law here. Riddle me this. Why would my wife stay in a marriage where she‘s repeatedly fucked to the point of crying in the bathroom when there‘s seemingly nothing to be gained from it?
/r/askMRP05/08/22 01:00 AM
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This is the most practical response I’ve been given so far, so thank you for that. I‘ll make an effort to hash-out my thoughts to each point. She finds me unattractive because: I am constantly broke and often owe her money, my wardrobe needs a renewal but I cannot even afford new clothes, I have no social life and have no real desire in getting one, I‘m too predictable, I‘m unnecessarily over-affectionate borderline smothering sometimes, she knows I‘m desperate to fuck her pretty much daily, asi…
/r/askMRP05/08/22 12:56 AM
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Typically, rich out-of-shape guys are here whining that their wife wont fuck them. I‘m the reverse. I‘m in-shape and broke and my wife fucks me, but passionlessly. Seems like a different scenario to me. However, I‘ll agree, I still have a lot of areas in my life I need to improve.
/r/askMRP04/08/22 11:47 PM
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Lol‘d. Deserved.
/r/askMRP04/08/22 11:43 PM
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In short, I shouldn’t have the covert contract of expecting any changes from my wife as she may never come along, and by having this pretense I‘m subconsciously communicating that her lack of change in behavior upsets me, and that further prevents desired change in her. Aka, have no expectations of your wife in response to your changes. Sounds like a load of bullshit. Am I ready to start making demands? Hell no. But if I were a greater man I certainly would covertly imply that my commitment requ…
/r/askMRP04/08/22 11:41 PM
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Okay so this entire sub-reddit was composed just so you could answer „read the sidebar“ to every question asked? Sounds retarded.
/r/askMRP04/08/22 11:33 PM
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I‘ve been reading a lot of posts new and old (aka lurking) for years now. One comment in particular has really resonated with me concerning this topic. It‘s by jacktenofhearts, it was an excerpt of his pertaining to why sex should not be something your wife considers a favor she‘s doing for you: For example, sexual intercourse. Not a favor. My wife doesn't want to have sex that night? Cool, no sex then. Fuck if I'm gonna let her associate sex with something she's only doing out of some misguided…
/r/askMRP04/08/22 11:29 PM
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Since she‘s the breadwinner, and she distrusts me with financial management, rightfully so, she conducts all of the payments/makes sure the animals have food/gets household essentials. Hell, just pointing that out really makes me realize how much I‘m fucking up financially. Although making a lot of money isn’t sexually attractive, being a fool with your money whilst in a marriage is highly unattractive. Also, yes, I‘m pretty muscular. Not natty. Been lifting for 11 years. My coach is currently p…
/r/askMRP04/08/22 10:41 PM
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I‘ve read it. This isn‘t helpful. Offer more specific advice. What‘s the point of askMRP if you’re just gonna say something along the lines of „hurr durr read the sidebar“. Hopefully my disrespect is triggering enough for you to go off on me and actually say what I need to hear, then again, maybe not.
/r/askMRP04/08/22 10:35 PM
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I‘ve read the original version of this post multiple times, never read this one. I‘d say it‘s mostly an accurate assessment of my sexual life, aside from the major caveat of me never making more than my wife, not owning a car, being a financial drain rather than benefit. She still always puts out despite all that. Of course I absolutely know my financial situation needs to be fixed, but I‘ve begun to believe it isn‘t an attraction problem, because really, what would she lose if she chose to not …
/r/askMRP04/08/22 10:32 PM
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Money makes you attractive as a provider, not as a sexual partner. That said, I agree. I need to make more. Working on it.
/r/askMRP04/08/22 09:37 PM
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