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Dipshit.
/r/AntiFeminists24/07/22 03:09 PM
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You sound like someone who takes second hand information as first hand gospel. Do you have any opinion that doesn't lean on a social constructionist fad? I agree that people who transitions to escape chauvinism are in for a really bad time when they get both the opposite gender chauvinism and a lack of acceptance from the gender they attempt to transition to.
/r/AntiFeminists24/07/22 03:07 PM
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Jordan B. Peterson is saying the same shit, but when he does it, he's put up on the cross and coerced by the media to kill himself via overdosing to cope. And many men know this kind of acceptance is out there, but misandrists gatekeep that compassion and tell them the only way they can get it is to gender transition.
/r/AntiFeminists24/07/22 02:50 PM
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It seems like hating men/"Patriarchy" is the only qualification you need to be accepted as "woman", regardless of your personal circumstances. When cis hetero men say they hate men, it's just another reason to be disgusted at men.
/r/AntiFeminists23/07/22 06:24 PM
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Arguing exceptions vs rules is a diversion, and they probably still believe a homeless man benefits, in the belief that he could likely get a job faster and easier than other groups of homeless. They'd likely blame him for wasting his privilege on top of it. I doubt any card carrying feminist would accept that a homeless man doesn't benefit from "Patriarchy"
/r/AntiFeminists23/07/22 12:08 PM
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At some point, a perceived trend is taken as an objective fact, and in that transition, chauvinism is born.
/r/AntiFeminists22/07/22 10:21 PM
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But are they good men? Or useful idiots?
/r/MensRights21/07/22 09:21 PM
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Christ, focus on yourself you psycho.
/r/AntiFeminists18/07/22 10:50 PM
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This woman is based af. She's rational and pragmatic and acknowledges the facts of reality and gender relations. No conflation of feminism and female chauvinism here, despite the host's goading and insinuations.
/r/AntiFeminists17/07/22 03:01 AM
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Nothing more insulting to them than refusing to sell out in a buyer's market.
/r/AntiFeminists16/07/22 04:20 AM
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Women resent being expected to apologize for any number of behaviors which may or may not be apology-worthy. Men resent being expected to apologize for being men.
/r/MensRights16/07/22 04:13 AM
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Never thought I'd hear these words coming out of my mouth (hands?) but you've got a bunch of internalized misogyny. Ironically or not, I don't think you'll find a lot of people supporting male chauvinism here. The expectation that a man will be dominating is a gender role that many men resent, and it doesn't make them less of a "real man" to resent it. Someone set up this relationship dynamic for you in the past. I'm glad this guy doesn't beat you.
/r/MensRights15/07/22 04:58 AM
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Trauma bonding.
/r/MensRights14/07/22 12:59 PM
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The conceit of female chauvinism is "but men are worse when they do it" instead of just drawing a clear line between good and bad faith. The heart of the conceit is that it is forgivable for a woman to do something in bad faith when the consequences of a man acting in bad faith are worse. Bullshit. We should all be acting in good faith. "Comparison is the thief of joy."
/r/MensRights12/07/22 04:29 AM
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Maybe not.
/r/AntiFeminists10/07/22 12:44 PM
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I'd like to see an "antichauvinist" sub that continues the content in this sub in a more holistic sense (including decrying male chauvinism right next to female chauvinism, although the two are harder and harder to distinguish from each other these days)
/r/AntiFeminists10/07/22 12:35 PM
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Dead canary in the coal mine post?
/r/AntiFeminists10/07/22 12:34 PM
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Reminds me of Cartman from South Park.
/r/AntiFeminists09/07/22 05:15 PM
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Yeah it's whoever you let in that hurts you. Men are primarily hurt by women because most men don't get intimate with other men.
/r/AntiFeminists09/07/22 03:54 PM
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I had to drop my inspin sister in the last year as well. You can only tie yourself to someone who hates your whole gender for so long. If you can't help them see the light, they'll only drag you down into their darkness.
/r/MensRights08/07/22 08:44 PM
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They seek men to enable the good parts. Their commodification of men is one of the more detestable aspects of their chauvinism. Take a look at any dating app and it's basically "Hi, I hope you're independently wealthy because I don't work and I looooooove to travel."
/r/AntiFeminists07/07/22 11:11 AM
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Every aspect of a woman's life is somehow a man's fault.
/r/AntiFeminists06/07/22 11:41 PM
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"Sorry, I don't see gender. I'm non-binary. Please don't project gendered characteristics onto me." Beat them at their own game. If she still gives you shit, you can take it to HR.
/r/AntiFeminists06/07/22 11:39 PM
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And "not playing the game" gets criticized as sexism/patriarchy, so you lose even by opting out. These women operate on a rhetorical Xanatos Gambit where they are never in the wrong. They leave no room for themselves to grow.
/r/AntiFeminists06/07/22 02:10 PM
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Useful idiots dealing with sunk cost. God knows there's a lot of that going around.
/r/AntiFeminists06/07/22 12:49 PM
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The patriarchy is the methods and modes of female chauvinism, projected onto all men. They presume we are as evil as they know themselves to be capable of being. Men are simply not that conspiratorial: We decide everything on an individual basis, and if there is any collective behavior to be perceived, it's guaranteed to be emergent/unintentional. Or invented for political expediency by femchauvs. It seems like most of our "sexism" and "racism" these days are really just deviations on classism (…
/r/AntiFeminists06/07/22 12:38 PM
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Conspiracy theories presumed to be factual based on anecdotal experiences with facing personal hardship that could be (but not guaranteed to be) attributed to misogyny. While people are discriminated against for many factors, it's very easy to presume that there's a particular factor that is being discriminating against, and then they can inflate that into some kind of strawman conspiracy. If you have societal privilege regarding victimhood status, it makes it even easier.
/r/MensRights05/07/22 08:20 PM
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💯 Female chauvinism and male (red pill) chauvinism are interdependent. Female chauvinism is anti-feminist as it is.
/r/AntiFeminists04/07/22 02:36 PM
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I have to assume you're a plant to try to get this sub banned.
/r/AntiFeminists04/07/22 02:35 PM
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What is a woman but a miserable pile of secrets? *smashes wine glass on the floor*
/r/AntiFeminists01/07/22 11:55 PM
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It's no surprise that internalizing other people's demonization of your gender expression leads to bad mental health, regardless of what your gender is. Men have it particularly rough in this regards, thanks to innate bias.
/r/MensRights01/07/22 05:58 PM
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It's real, just projected onto everything that isn't necessarily misogyny. It's most often projected on valid claims of misandry.
/r/AntiFeminists01/07/22 05:16 PM
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Certainly reassuring, thanks. At the time I would've jumped on a hand grenade to get one if I had to.
/r/MensRights01/07/22 05:01 PM
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The link you pasted saying "this" is about low testosterone. https://www.webmd.com/men/ss/slideshow-low-testosterone-overview Here's what I was commenting on: https://www.webmd.com/men/news/20070222/study-suggests-vasectomy-dementia-link I got my vasectomy in '09, just a couple years after this study, so that might be why. My speech skills are slowly degrading, but I'm chalking it up to life long cannabis use taking it's toll & revealing dyslexia that I was previously hypervigilant about, but wh…
/r/MensRights01/07/22 12:25 PM
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It's not the sperm that crosses the blood barrier, it's the antibodies your body creates to kill the sperm. It was one of the things I had to sign a consent form for before I got my operation. I never mentioned low T and I don't see how it's relevant. The testes are still creating testosterone, and those pathways aren't impeded.
/r/MensRights01/07/22 12:14 PM
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Vasectomy-haver here. Decided to be childfree in my early 20s and couldn't trust the women I was dating to respect those wishes. Not just does fertility drop off, but the antibodies that cross the blood barrier to attack the sperm (if they have nowhere to go, they become the body's enemy) can also cross the blood barrier in the brain and become a contributing factor to dementia. I do everything I can to mitigate the risk, but the procedure is ultimately very risky in the long term if you get it …
/r/MensRights01/07/22 09:54 AM
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I think very soon we'll be asking what gender dysphoria "is" in the way people are asking what a man or a woman "is".
/r/MensRights30/06/22 04:18 PM
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"Until you make the unconscious conscious, it will direct your life and you will call it fate." Your perspective is appreciated.
/r/MensRights30/06/22 03:47 PM
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Same principle for transmen, though: A strong perception of a misogynist world, internalized, turned into dysphoria. It's gender chauvinism that's creating trans people; The reason it's so prevalent now is because the internet is ubiquitous, and the most extreme views on are on display for children everywhere. It's easy to cherry pick who the enemy is based on your born-as gender, and then you internalize the views of the enemy and gain dysphoria. The trans issue is a societal issue about gender…
/r/MensRights30/06/22 03:27 PM
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There's some old advice that goes something along the lines of "never loan money to someone expecting to get it back." I think it can be somewhat adapted here. Never spend money on a woman unless you'd spend it on them platonically.
/r/MensRights28/06/22 07:12 PM
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Dave Foley of the Kids In The Hall got crucified in this way. https://www.thestar.com/entertainment/television/2011/03/11/comedian\_dave\_foley\_fears\_arrest\_owes\_500000\_in\_childsupport.html
/r/MensRights28/06/22 06:10 PM
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Because it's just that ridiculous and just that real.
/r/MensRights20/06/22 06:39 PM
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Your crime is being a man. Every other complaint is just extrapolation.
/r/MensRights20/06/22 03:11 PM
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The covert message is "suffer an abusive relationship with the psycho mother -- for the kids' sake." Yeah, my dad tried that, and it didn't benefit me to see her tear him down day in and day out.
/r/MensRights20/06/22 12:21 PM
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Imagine gatekeeping being raped.
/r/MensRights20/06/22 12:20 PM
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I'd love to see someone post an article about Munchausen by Proxy on Mother's Day. Fucking hit piece, this was.
/r/MensRights20/06/22 12:48 AM
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I'd rather see married couples who love each other IRL, not see people virtue signal about how great their lives are on social media. At least you know the former is real, because you can feel it in their presence. The latter could be total self-aggrandizing bullshit (and I imagine often is).
/r/AntiFeminists19/06/22 11:33 PM
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Some women will take any opportunity to publicly announce what an imperfect slave their partner is. Almost as annoying as the ones who come out of the woodwork to rub in everyone's faces how "perfect" their relationship is. Two sides of the same egotistical coin.
/r/AntiFeminists19/06/22 10:49 PM
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Never underestimate the power of the masses of ordinary people fucking up the best laid plans.
/r/MensRights19/06/22 10:46 PM
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Patriarchy is a conspiracy theory, and people who talk about it seriously are just as ridiculous as those right wingers who talk about a shadow government trying to create a global one world order.
/r/MensRights19/06/22 08:01 PM
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Good for you. I'm not attracted to women who are into casual sex anymore, so I've entered the "monk" phase of my life. It seems even the women looking for a life partner aren't willing to let go of a side guy fuck buddy in order to demonstrate good faith.
/r/MensRights19/06/22 06:48 PM
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Oh yeah dude, never shit where you eat. Worst betrayal of my life was dating my "BFF". Only date 'disposable' people in the hopes that they prove themselves to be irreplaceable.
/r/MensRights19/06/22 06:41 PM
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Damn, if that were me I'd just go full on with the emotional damage and say "Nah, I'd rather fuck someone who actually wants to get me off." True, brutal, and will either fix the situation or free you up for a new situation. They always cry "abuse" when you break free from their chauvinist narcissist control schemes. Ignore it and move on.
/r/MensRights19/06/22 06:35 PM
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I enjoy teasing and power dynamics. The point of foreplay is to get them so frustrated that they borderline rape you in response. Same game regardless of your gender. If they aren't attracted to you, you deserve to get fucked by someone who is. 🤷‍♂️
/r/MensRights19/06/22 06:27 PM
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Talking about white women, m8.
/r/MensRights19/06/22 06:25 PM
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Better go with both black and gay for full effect.
/r/MensRights19/06/22 02:57 PM
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Well the irony is that they view white people as intrinsically fascist, but engineered hatred for any group of people becomes justification for actual fascism. It's still primarily white people (oligarchs) who benefit from anti-white hatred dividing the poors.
/r/MensRights18/06/22 10:50 PM
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I will accept some positive change over no positive change, any day of the week. I am more of a pragmatist. You appear to be an idealist.
/r/MensRights18/06/22 10:39 PM
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As long as white people are being considered walking devils, I'll take this as an inroad for female chauvinist bigots to ease up on men, in faith that it will eventually encompass all other races.
/r/MensRights18/06/22 10:33 PM
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The only way I can work with the gender divide is to look at things as good faith vs bad faith; Playing comparison games with severity is the female chauvinist game, and men will never win at it.
/r/AntiFeminists17/06/22 02:34 PM
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My primary social outlet is D&D, where most women involved tend to be securely partnered already, and the dating apps are full of women with weird (if not chauvinist) attitudes about dating and men. (Too many people keep a sexual partner while looking for a life partner, and I feel like that's bad faith from the get go and not worth engaging with.) So I'm sworn off in the sense that I'm done wading through narcissists, and I realize that I also don't really have any social networks that would su…
/r/MensRights17/06/22 02:32 PM
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Remember: Masculinity is the fragile one. /s
/r/AntiFeminists17/06/22 01:45 PM
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Yeah, the essence of my post is that there is a healthy "middle road" approach to both porn and online dating. At worst, they create unrealistic expectations of reality, and most often, they serve as unhealthy escapism for horrible relationships.
/r/AntiFeminists16/06/22 05:26 PM
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If you're having sex for an ego boost, you're disgusting. Feeling desired can be done with casual compliments/flirting, and compassion is best meted out through platonic friendships. And my point is not that porn is a replacement for a relationship, but it is a replacement for a hormonal outlet that many men are entrapped in toxic relationships to maintain.
/r/AntiFeminists16/06/22 05:25 PM
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These are methods to win the room to your side and harangue your opponent into submission, not to find a consensus rooted in good faith compromise.
/r/AntiFeminists16/06/22 03:59 PM
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Why would the media disarm their most potent weapon?
/r/MensRights16/06/22 12:56 PM
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Too much of /r/MensLib is concerned with reputation management under the assumption that modern feminism is entirely valid. They would do better to realize that feminism isn't a monolith, and that exploiting reputation management is the primary weapon of female chauvinists.
/r/MensRights15/06/22 11:54 PM
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I had an old conservative boss who came out in favor of abortion because he realized he didn't want his tax dollars paying for the welfare of unwanted children.
/r/MensRights15/06/22 02:37 PM
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But boy oh boy, to be that 1 in 5… Skinny tall dudes with inoffensive personalities based on sexual opportunism.
/r/MensRights15/06/22 01:26 PM
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And they think it's less evil because it doesn't leave visible scars.
/r/AntiFeminists14/06/22 01:41 PM
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I'm guessing the insinuation is that men destroy things when they're angry but women don't. You wouldn't believe the amount of shit of mine I've had destroyed due to a woman who felt privileged to be angry.
/r/AntiFeminists14/06/22 12:36 PM
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Ivory tower.
/r/AntiFeminists13/06/22 01:02 PM
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The only difference is conceit.
/r/AntiFeminists12/06/22 10:22 PM
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They want men to open up about their feelings, but silence them if they want men's issues addressed, then blame it on "toxic masculinity," When they claim that patriarchy hurts men because men aren't allowed to express their emotions, what they really mean is that they don't value men at all for being strong. That's their problem, not men's. Strength and stability is valuable, and you just need to find people who can appreciate it. When a man does share his true feelings, people's opinion of him…
/r/AntiFeminists11/06/22 03:01 PM
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No shortage of those types. No personal accountability. Everything bad is someone else's fault, everything good needs to be brought by someone else.
/r/AntiFeminists11/06/22 02:43 PM
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Sexual urges are treated like any other addiction: it has a personal cost to indulge, there's a price to pay for it, and there's a market to exploit you over it. A certain cost benefit analysis turns it into something to manage vs something to pursue. At a certain point, it's better to jerk off than to willfully step into the bear trap of commodifying others and yourself.
/r/AntiFeminists11/06/22 12:37 PM
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And it starts back up once the marriage license is filed.
/r/AntiFeminists11/06/22 07:05 AM
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It's fine to say "most" anyone (albeit edgy and biased af) because the person reading it can easily assume they're "one of the good ones." People get hurt when you say "all" or just say "men" or "women", implying an "all". Ironic that you're the one calling others toxic. You've got bitch level sass.
/r/AntiFeminists11/06/22 07:04 AM
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I could never settle for that, but I eventually learned how to be self-satisfied.
/r/AntiFeminists11/06/22 07:02 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/antifeminists/comments/v9o4gt/what_is_feminism_and_what_is_antifeminisms_end/iby6kp6/?utm_source=reddit&utm_medium=web2x&context=3 I don't say it about many people, but you truly are a wretched cunt. I was watching you reply to other people the whole time you were "busy having sex and just having a fucking life in general". Go fuck yourself.
/r/AntiFeminists11/06/22 06:49 AM
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https://www.reddit.com/r/relationship_advice/comments/v2a77q/husband_demands_to_be_pegged_or_divorce/ Post context: "So I ask him If he is gay or bi? I asked if he was cheating on me physically. He said that he’s not gay or bisexual he’s totally straight, and no he’s never met up with anyone a cheated on me." Your comment: "Your husband is cheating on you and trying to coerce you into doing sexual acts that you don’t want to do." Conceit: No evidence he is cheating anywhere in the post. You pres…
/r/AntiFeminists11/06/22 06:49 AM
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Yeah, it doesn't quibble about race or sex or whatever. It's just the belief that all human beings are equal, and should be treated as such.
/r/AntiFeminists11/06/22 04:30 AM
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As a man, you'll always be a second-class citizen to them, if not an oppressor in sheep's clothing. That's why I asked why you still want to identify as a feminist instead of something less loaded, like an egalitarian or whatnot. I hope it's not to attract feminist women, because they are also the most likely to hit you with a false allegation at some point.
/r/AntiFeminists11/06/22 04:27 AM
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You know it's a cult when all dissent is silenced and shunned. Maybe not feminism at large, but certainly those subs.
/r/AntiFeminists11/06/22 04:24 AM
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It's another word for bigotry/supremacist views. It can be applied to race, class, sex, etc.
/r/AntiFeminists11/06/22 04:18 AM
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Stabbed in the back, eh? How do you feel about identifying as a feminist when most normative folk associate feminism with female chauvinism?
/r/AntiFeminists11/06/22 04:16 AM
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/u/sgt_oddball_17 said to look at your account. They didn't say "post history". It's actually in the comment history where it's painfully clear that you hate men.
/r/AntiFeminists11/06/22 04:10 AM
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Because there is no basic respect.
/r/AntiFeminists11/06/22 03:55 AM
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“The lips of wisdom are closed, except to the ears of understanding."
/r/AntiFeminists11/06/22 03:43 AM
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Sad. Just a child, still trying to figure out what to believe, and manipulated through toxic empathy.
/r/AntiFeminists11/06/22 03:31 AM
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I would've blocked at "just not into dating losers". It's fine to inquire about another person's circumstances, but the sexist bigotry was apparent at that point.
/r/AntiFeminists11/06/22 03:24 AM
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It was coined in a George W Bush speech about how black children are failing in school because no one expects them to succeed, creating a bigoted culture that encourages black people not to even try, creating a self-fulfilling prophecy. https://en.wiktionary.org/wiki/soft_bigotry_of_low_expectations It maps over incredibly well to countless other nuanced, culturally internalized bigotries. Much of the sexism towards men is rooted in the belief that men aren't capable of growing out of sexist att…
/r/AntiFeminists11/06/22 03:17 AM
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I'll assume that you're asking in good faith First mistake.
/r/AntiFeminists11/06/22 03:14 AM
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To protect against societal toxic masculinity. You're referring to the "soft bigotry of low expectations", except it's not so soft.
/r/AntiFeminists11/06/22 03:10 AM
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These "bad faith pretending to be good faith" posts all read the same way: Full of assertions, demanding other people do their research for them, and pretending like anything said would have any influence whatsoever. The tone is "angry, but trying to be polite for optics". That's all. OP, how about you tell me about the relationship between female chauvinism and feminism, and we'll go from there. EDIT: No reply? No surprise.
/r/AntiFeminists11/06/22 02:57 AM
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Being worshipped for no reason?
/r/AntiFeminists09/06/22 04:19 PM
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Holy shit, this is beautiful. Concise, and right on the nose.
/r/AntiFeminists09/06/22 07:00 AM
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Always has been. 🌍🧑🏿‍🚀🔫👩🏿‍🚀 Why else would a large portion of women from every generation shun it?
/r/AntiFeminists08/06/22 11:21 PM
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Kyriarchy implies that heterosexual white men are also oppressed, but one could still argue not to the same extent. The way I envision oppression in kyriarchy.
/r/AntiFeminists08/06/22 02:54 PM
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Yeah, trying to convince someone that outside help is impossible is gaslighting and abuse for sure. Anyone defending Amber are just outing themselves as abusers themselves.
/r/AntiFeminists08/06/22 09:51 AM
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Just wait until they find out that it's kyriarchy oppressing them, not patriarchy. They claim to be intersectional, thinking it means "oppressed people of all types working together against the cishet white man", but true intersectionality means that we're all basically oppressing each other all the time, and that there isn't any one big bogeyman who needs to be taken down. Yet they persist in delusion.
/r/AntiFeminists08/06/22 01:57 AM
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Try to tell them that and they'll just say that you're an abuser and you're projecting, and/or that you're trying to create a hostile environment that would hurt other victims. 🙄 They've found a way to argue so that they're never wrong, but they also have given themselves no room to grow and learn how to get right.
/r/AntiFeminists06/06/22 06:49 PM
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Go ahead :P
/r/AntiFeminists06/06/22 06:13 PM
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Uhhh, that's how I feel as a man. The worst of men are a dumpster fire, but the rest of us have to carry their stink because people refuse to even investigate whether we deviate from the worst possible scenario.
/r/AntiFeminists06/06/22 06:06 PM
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Everyone who claims to be intersectional doesn't actually understand intersectionalism. It isn't "cishet white man responsible for everyone's oppression". It actually says the opposite.
/r/AntiFeminists06/06/22 03:22 PM
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I feel like most men wouldn't shoot their shot with a woman if there wasn't already flirting happening or subtle indications of mutual interest. The few guys who think showing their dick or harassing women with impromptu propositions would be the type to act crazy at a rejection, because they were already acting crazy in the first place.
/r/AntiFeminists05/06/22 01:10 PM
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Pro-tip: The worst people on the other side believe the exact same as you do.
/r/AntiFeminists04/06/22 10:12 PM
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When you read into everything, you eventually lose the ability of seeing things at face value. Very few rabbit holes are worth going down.
/r/AntiFeminists04/06/22 03:51 PM
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There are coercive, high control groups through the entirety of society. I can say for certain that when you break free from cult mentality, it's either through transcendence or simply relocation. Somone who relocates will move hard into the "anti" position of whatever it is they believed (or were subject to) prior. Those who transcend can't tolerate any more arbitrary "us vs them" division mongering anymore.
/r/AntiFeminists04/06/22 03:45 PM
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Let the mass of men and women deny each other instead of putting aside their hatred and lack of compromise: Love will still bloom within the cracks that form between the lies.
/r/AntiFeminists04/06/22 01:49 PM
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Amen.
/r/AntiFeminists03/06/22 03:57 PM
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Same (in having issues with both characterizations). Left seems like a jaded adult questioning everything with no anchor. Right seems like a dependent woman-child. Where are the well-balanced and well-rounded adults?
/r/AntiFeminists03/06/22 03:49 PM
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It's a way of diminishing their issues so they can keep highlighting our issues to keep us on our back heel.
/r/AntiFeminists03/06/22 02:57 PM
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Green: Narcopaths Pinkish purple: The 1% Red: SJWs
/r/AntiFeminists03/06/22 01:38 PM
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They think that they can hurt us by attacking us the same way male chauvinists attack us: By teasing us and judging us on the limits on our sexual access. It's honestly gross. These women have internalized male chauvinism to oppress other men, because they assume (bigotedly) that they could never reach us in a good faith dialogue. In truth, they can reach us, but they are the ones unwilling to compromise, so it reinforces their sexism when compromise fails.
/r/AntiFeminists03/06/22 12:21 PM
7

Nothing else screams of the pinnacle of “cooperation” quite like throwing a group of women together and watching them all roll up their sleeves, establish a chain of command, make a plan, delegate responsibilities and execute. I laughed so hard. I've seen how all-women businesses "function". Lots of gaslighting, coercion, power struggle, and bullying, usually.
/r/AntiFeminists03/06/22 11:56 AM
1

They see your presence as inherently disrespectful unless you're going along with the herd.
/r/AntiFeminists02/06/22 11:27 PM
7

The female chauvinist creed is "Women can do whatever they want without judgement, because men are always worse." It's ethically bankrupt.
/r/AntiFeminists02/06/22 08:00 PM
2

Nice username.
/r/AntiFeminists02/06/22 06:38 PM
25

They're intentionally ignorant.
/r/AntiFeminists02/06/22 04:55 PM
1

Because it isn't a monolith.
/r/AntiFeminists01/06/22 06:50 PM
1

FYI you don't need to be male to be a male chauvinist, and you don't need to be female to be a female chauvinist. Gender chauvinism is fully interdependent and they support each other. Every time the opposite sex hurts you, the chauvinists of your own gender are there to comfort you and induct you into the gender hatred. Think of male feminists and conservative women as examples of people who have internalized the opposite sex's chauvinism. It runs along the dominance and submission paradigm, an…
/r/AntiFeminists01/06/22 02:15 PM
11

Some men are violent by nature and just looking for an "honorable" excuse to exercise it. Women can direct these living warheads by crying and pretending to be a victim.
/r/AntiFeminists01/06/22 11:42 AM
33

And it's so fragile yet it doesn't fall apart when confronted with scrutiny.
/r/AntiFeminists31/05/22 09:40 PM
69

The Duluth Model is here to tell you to shut the fuck up and suffer, scrote.
/r/AntiFeminists31/05/22 04:24 PM
8

Because she has enough life context to understand it's gone too far and has become as hideous as the male problem it was created to address.
/r/AntiFeminists31/05/22 01:15 PM
9

I think their rationalization is that a wife is secure with marriage, so you must attend her feelings without concern about security, whereas a man is never secure and is therefore unpredictable. Can't predict the behavior of someone fighting for their life.
/r/AntiFeminists31/05/22 01:03 PM
1

And that's what makes a person a male chauvinist: Eagerness to sexually objectify. If you want an actual life partner, real morals and standards start to come in. I'm guessing all my downvotes are from dudes whose gross dreams I've crushed.
/r/AntiFeminists31/05/22 01:00 PM
-2

Only male chauvinists want a live-in fuck maid.
/r/AntiFeminists30/05/22 05:32 PM
16

Poor kid.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/05/22 03:50 PM
1

You're a male chauvinist complaining about female chauvinism as if male chauvinism didn't exist.
/r/AntiFeminists30/05/22 03:41 PM
0

Woman hates on men *using her idea of how men hate one each other*. Pick apart the second part and it makes sense.
/r/AntiFeminists30/05/22 02:52 PM
-1

Your failure to understand doesn't make it untrue. It's not either/or misandry or misogyny. Gender chauvinism is interdependent.
/r/AntiFeminists30/05/22 02:39 PM
0

I feel like you've missed my point. Male chauvinism has self-policing methods the same way female chauvinism does; They both rely on reputation management with threat of shame and shunning. Female chauvinists see male chauvinists policing and grooming other men into male chauvinism with shaming tactics over sexual life, she takes on the male chauvinist code, and she attempts to use it against a man in her misandry. However, the male chauvinist code is intrinsically misogynist, therefore, she is …
/r/AntiFeminists30/05/22 01:27 PM
1

The sad thing is it's co-opted internalized male chauvinism. They try to hurt men the way they think men hurt each other. It's intrinsically misogynistic.
/r/AntiFeminists30/05/22 12:04 PM
12

You can tell a male abuser from the marks on the woman's body. You can tell a female abuser by the man's entire loss of will to live as he begins to understand that his entire society is complicit in the abuse levied on him.
/r/AntiFeminists29/05/22 11:48 AM
2

If they're working on a manifesto, they probably aren't a good partner.
/r/AntiFeminists28/05/22 10:29 PM
42

The term was invented by a woman, but it's only ever used as a pejorative against men. It's the woman's rebuttal to the word "cunt". It's a way of objectifying a man as a failure as a mate, and insinuates that they have no worth.
/r/AntiFeminists28/05/22 03:08 PM
1

It's not necessarily any more valid if it's coming from men. I assume women because they are more likely to rumor monger.
/r/AntiFeminists26/05/22 08:39 PM
5

It's been a snowball effect ever since #MeToo, but I feel like the pendulum is on its way back.
/r/AntiFeminists26/05/22 08:20 PM
6

That could say a lot more with women presuming men are predators without evidence than any character judgment on Joss.
/r/AntiFeminists26/05/22 02:08 PM
87

Performing a "sincere listening attempt" is their way of covering up bad faith with a good faith sheen to trick you into trusting them. They're the female version of /r/niceguys; You know you're going to be called a bitch either way by the end of it.
/r/AntiFeminists26/05/22 02:01 PM
10

If you can't dispute the point, attack the person making the point, and claim victory to the audience.
/r/AntiFeminists26/05/22 01:50 AM
11

Idk man, Indian women seem like the worst if we're going by internet posts.
/r/AntiFeminists25/05/22 05:16 PM
2

35 or 40 is about when men get entirely disillusioned by the lies they've been fed by women their entire lives.
/r/AntiFeminists25/05/22 05:12 PM
14

Best way to keep violent oppression over men is to conscript other men to do your violent oppression for you.
/r/AntiFeminists25/05/22 02:14 PM
40

Anon sounds like they have very valid feelings, but I hope they meet some outliers without any romantic interest. Most women might be chauvinist cunts, but certainly not all.
/r/AntiFeminists25/05/22 01:46 PM
3

Even if everything is risky, there's such a thing as calculated and hedged risks. These people are just wielding fear for political purpose.
/r/AntiFeminists25/05/22 12:36 PM
10

She means even less apologetic than non-apologetic. Seems like what she's intending to advocate for is the abandonment of reputation management. If enough people don't care about the consequences for their sexism, then no one can discriminate against them. Or if they are discriminated against, they see it as for a worthy cause.
/r/AntiFeminists23/05/22 06:07 PM
19

It's men's fault that women will freeze to death in freezing weather when wearing nothing.
/r/AntiFeminists23/05/22 04:56 PM
7

Replace "men" here with "transwomen" and reassess.
/r/AntiFeminists23/05/22 04:07 PM
24

I don't feel entitled to a woman, but I am deeply disappointed that women don't encourage each other to live up to noble, pro-social values, especially regarding men. I'm also disappointed that men have had their idea of a "good man" co-opted by female chauvinists, and simps agree with anything, creating a false air of validity.
/r/AntiFeminists23/05/22 03:07 PM
35

The irony.
/r/AntiFeminists23/05/22 03:05 PM
-1

The difference is that a car or TV isn't a human being. We're done here.
/r/AntiFeminists23/05/22 12:56 PM
0

Treating a person as a commodity/object is intrinsically hateful. Misogynistic men absolutely do see women that way.
/r/AntiFeminists23/05/22 12:35 PM
10

Misogynists don't stop fucking just because they stop respecting women. Why would a misandrist be any different? The most disgusting thing about gender chauvinism is continuing to sexually exploit the gender you hate.
/r/AntiFeminists23/05/22 11:19 AM
3

What can he say to help you understand that he deserves better than to be in a relationship with a sexist?
/r/AntiFeminists23/05/22 11:18 AM
20

Women like this hurt all women.
/r/AntiFeminists22/05/22 12:28 PM
7

The internet makes it look like it's entirely incels and foids.
/r/AntiFeminists22/05/22 10:11 AM
15

It has to be explicitly said, not inferred, for them to take action. They're a company. They just want to cover their asses.
/r/AntiFeminists20/05/22 03:17 PM
10

What makes them "witches" is that they've fallen from grace and are proud of it. In spiritual terms, it's better to be a renunciant than a rebel.
/r/AntiFeminists20/05/22 02:09 PM
5

It's better to date them after they realize this, but they're quick to adapt to new privilege and renege prior wisdom.
/r/AntiFeminists20/05/22 01:59 PM
3

So now a man can call himself non-binary and secure only female passengers to victimize.
/r/AntiFeminists20/05/22 01:58 PM
1

Bart Crenshaw is a good looking guy.
/r/AntiFeminists20/05/22 01:54 PM
2

Women are valued for different traits as they age. Men are valued the same way regardless of their age. If you haven't shifted from "sex muffin" to "wise matriarch", you are absolutely going to lose value as you age. But the wise matriarch skills pay off at any age.
/r/AntiFeminists20/05/22 12:27 AM
1

If they had to pick a high paying career for the right to have children, they would, as men do. But they don't have to, so they don't.
/r/AntiFeminists19/05/22 10:12 PM
1

Get a sex change? And here all men need to do to get dumped is to lose their job.
/r/AntiFeminists19/05/22 07:44 PM
16

I'm also irritated by the sound of fake, ingratiating woman laughter. No one talks to you as excited and aloof as a child unless they want something from you.
/r/AntiFeminists19/05/22 04:30 PM
4

Oooh, clever. I'm sure that's a bannable offense as well, if anyone bothers to notice.
/r/AntiFeminists19/05/22 03:08 PM
2

And they say testosterone is the only problematic hormone.
/r/AntiFeminists19/05/22 02:41 PM
4

Commenting anything begins the bot's comment history hunt on your profile.
/r/AntiFeminists19/05/22 01:45 PM
15

I've come to realize the world is like >80% useful idiots ruining everything under the presumption they're fixing it.
/r/AntiFeminists19/05/22 01:23 PM
4

This is the same kind of sexism that "racism is privilege plus power" is for racism.
/r/AntiFeminists19/05/22 01:17 PM
46

If the android was a man, they'd be angry that it wasn't a woman. Most of what they have to say is just noise. And there would be noise regardless of the state of reality.
/r/AntiFeminists19/05/22 12:11 AM
2

To be fair, everything detestable about humanity is a characteristic of humanity. Misanthropy is fine as long as you don't paint individuals with the same brush you paint the whole.
/r/AntiFeminists18/05/22 12:14 PM
20

You can always count on them to gender things that don't need to be gendered.
/r/AntiFeminists17/05/22 12:39 PM
7

Try to turn him poly under duress. Until he catches you with another member of your harem, loses it, and ends up on the news for murder-suicide.
/r/AntiFeminists17/05/22 01:18 AM
2

Male chauvinism isn't normal or accepted. Neither is female chauvinism, but we aren't ready to talk about that.
/r/AntiFeminists16/05/22 05:35 PM
4

Dude, two things: 1> Prostitution 2> Money (in case #1 is too specific) What's hard for a man to get is love.
/r/AntiFeminists12/05/22 06:39 PM
39

Anyone promiscuous is a slut. Men don't get free passes for being skanks like women insist they do.
/r/AntiFeminists12/05/22 03:49 PM
49

They think they can bend men past the breaking point and still win. They think only poor quality men break, but in reality we all bleed and we all hit our limit.
/r/AntiFeminists12/05/22 01:12 PM
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Reddit wasn't enough of a "safe space" for their particular brand of female chauvinism. On their website, it's a lot easier to monetize the tragedy of all those foids.
/r/AntiFeminists12/05/22 02:15 AM
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It's a waste of time to comment in someone else's echo chamber. You're not going to change anyone's minds, you're just going to reveal yourself as an outsider.
/r/AntiFeminists12/05/22 12:37 AM
1

In the feminist utopia, women are allowed to stab men in the eyes with letter openers for attempting to be emotionally considerate.
/r/AntiFeminists09/05/22 06:11 PM
8

You have little to no real power regarding family planning. A man, more often than not, is a conduit to children who are presumed to be lovely things that love their moms unconditionally. Until they turn into teenagers to a single parent, and either get down with the sickness (of internalized gender chauvinism) or get clean and go their own way.
/r/AntiFeminists09/05/22 12:35 PM
1

He was the last Supreme Court inductee to tilt it conservative (especially true after RBG passed away).
/r/AntiFeminists09/05/22 11:45 AM
-3

It is not in the interest of men for women to choose to have a child he doesn't want using his semen. Maybe you should support getting a vasectomy. Then you will have high sexual market value at a time where abortion is not easy. Be a man and take responsibility if you don't want children. Otherwise, find a woman fit enough to be the mother of your children (good luck).
/r/AntiFeminists09/05/22 11:43 AM
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There are no true relationships built on ultimatums. Male and female chauvinism are codependently created. Here you find yourself with no compassion for women because of a few women who have no compassion for men because of a few men at the bottom of the bell curve.
/r/AntiFeminists08/05/22 05:35 PM
0

I live in the present. If you want to educate me, give me links.
/r/AntiFeminists06/05/22 01:32 PM
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No, it's the other way around. That's how they get you. Female chauvinists embed themselves women's groups who believe in equality, and immediately begin muddying the definition of the words "feminist" and "equality". When the chauvinists create a bad reputation, fools blame it on feminism, just because the femchauvs identify as feminists, and the women who believe it's about equality instead of superiority get upset because they see that as an attack on their freedoms. Think of female chauvinis…
/r/AntiFeminists06/05/22 12:36 PM
10

Ironic, because female chauvinism is also anti-feminist. Why isn't that on this list?
/r/AntiFeminists05/05/22 08:20 PM
3

Naturally neither are true, but if you're going to assume the absolute worst based on biologically gendered characteristics, that's what my post is about: If you reduce men to testosterone and women to estrogen, without the prefrontal cortex to mediate and make them decent people.
/r/AntiFeminists29/04/22 09:46 PM
15

I agree. It's more about whether you're a female chauvinist than whether or not you identify as a feminist.
/r/AntiFeminists29/04/22 08:02 PM
102

As far as it takes to protect their immoral privileges to harm men with no consequence.
/r/AntiFeminists29/04/22 03:51 PM
20

Not at all. The fewer people being lured into the cult, the better. Reddit is full of impressionable people who could've stumbled into it by accident.
/r/AntiFeminists28/04/22 08:19 PM
9

Shannon Curry was incredible here.
/r/AntiFeminists28/04/22 05:57 PM
11

Good lord, at a certain point if the wall of text is large enough, I know it's not worth reading. If you have to lead someone that far down your rabbit hole to make your point, it doesn't reflect reality. The things that women hate about men are the things women do that they project on men. In the end, all they hate is the "otherness" of us. True, pure hatred.
/r/AntiFeminists28/04/22 02:35 PM
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Just leave. You're gonna be part of the problem one way or another.
/r/AntiFeminists28/04/22 12:47 PM
6

Female and male are adjectives, not nouns. Women and men are nouns. It's a way of making your sex seem more like an affliction or a way to dehumanize a person based on their sex.
/r/AntiFeminists28/04/22 12:09 AM
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Call us males but call themselves women 🙄 Classic chauvinist. Like dudes who go around calling women "females".
/r/AntiFeminists27/04/22 10:06 PM
36

Particularly on the second image you posted, I hate that whole "the dad should've done more" angle, because men are in a "damned if you do/damned if you don't". If he does nothing, he's criticized for his indecision and failure to act, but if he does do something, he's considered an absolute psycho for not finding a more subtle and feminine approach. Regardless, a single man cannot fight two fully grown women who are in beast mode, nonetheless three. He would have to be truly superhuman to do so…
/r/AntiFeminists26/04/22 07:10 PM
15

The worst thing you can be as a woman is a victim, but as a victim, you have guaranteed unconditional social support; There's deep validation in discovering yourself in a bad situation. This kind of validation can become an addiction. It necessitates demonizing men as an investment for later being able to reap victimhood privilege. Women truly don't care about men. They might care about one man, her sons, and her father, if you find a good one, but this is not to be expected. Women only really c…
/r/AntiFeminists26/04/22 05:36 PM
13

Women hate men for being men, but they ESPECIALLY hate men when they have no self-respect. Just like how misogynists especially hate women who do have self-respect.
/r/AntiFeminists26/04/22 03:59 PM
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It assumes the man is a shitty father and/or a sexist on the sole basis that he's a man. It's pretty textbook sexism. In the very least, it's "the soft bigotry of low expectations".
/r/AntiFeminists26/04/22 03:57 PM
8

Please don't drive clicks to this site or this author.
/r/AntiFeminists25/04/22 08:25 PM
29

All journalists are sleazy as fuck. If you have to prepackage reality in order for people to understand it, then they were never capable of understanding reality in the first place. If that's a given, the journalistic process is bound to twist reality and mislead people.
/r/AntiFeminists25/04/22 07:17 PM
7

"So you" "So you" "So you" Fuck off.
/r/AntiFeminists25/04/22 02:38 PM
8

The animosity would be there regardless. Recent local history just makes a nice argument point. Moral conceit is the domain of the submissive position, regardless of gender.
/r/AntiFeminists25/04/22 02:12 PM
12

If you want to ask if men are oppressing women, the question is what women are aspiring to that men are an obstacle of. If women want to be men, then yeah, they're "held down", because they want something they can't achieve. Instead, women have these chauvinistic attitudes of how much better men have it that are based on lies: Like people don't care if a man has casual sex, men make an undeserved amount of money, men get away with everything, etc. This leads to a mentality that causes women to w…
/r/AntiFeminists25/04/22 01:02 PM
13

Collective emergent paternalism is a bunch of men coming together to create or manage something. The focus is on the project, and the paternalism is just a consequence of their gender/hormone expression. "Patriarchy" suggests that men are specifically oppressing others to maintain their hegemony, but the fact is that A> there is no hegemony and B> we are creating new things to stay ahead, not holding people down. Male accomplishment helps the entire species; It isn't a competition with women. tl…
/r/AntiFeminists25/04/22 12:41 PM
3

And one person's bad is never an excuse for another person's bad.
/r/AntiFeminists25/04/22 12:22 PM
2

The disingenuous arguments are for the sake of preserving their arsenal.
/r/AntiFeminists25/04/22 12:21 PM
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I agree. There is a form of collective emergent paternalism, but it's very different from "Patriarchy". There is a collective emergent maternalism as well, but mentioning it will make you a target. Calling it "Matriarchy" will get you laughed out of the room. There's a difference between the reality and the construct/straw man. Get enough masculine energy together, and paternalism will result, but there is no conspiracy by men to hold women down. On the other hand, there does seem to be a conspi…
/r/AntiFeminists25/04/22 12:13 PM
2

Yeah, the focus on meditation is somewhat ironic; They see enlightenment as an accident by its nature. (An accident where the ego paradigm comes off the rails just long enough to see "this is that") So meditation is treated as a practice to become more accident prone: It doesn't get you there, but it puts you in a mode where you might end up there anyway. Zen wants you to reach samadhi as soon as possible, because it is ever deepening and a perpetual beginning of the path instead of the end. Lik…
/r/AntiFeminists21/04/22 10:28 PM
3

"Better to fail to unite for a just cause than to unite to uphold totalitarianism" is their view.
/r/AntiFeminists21/04/22 12:12 PM
0

The irony is that they completely misunderstand intersectionality. If they understood it, they wouldn't believe in "Patriarchy". The two views are mutually exclusive. They took a term that people wanted to believe in (kyriarchy) and twisted its definition to "the cishet white men are ruining everything", when that's not the case. Cishet white men are discriminated against in an intersectional model as well, and deserve inclusion.
/r/AntiFeminists21/04/22 12:09 PM
2

I feel like post-modernist is a slur these days, whereas if you admit your Buddhism, people are disabled by their own presumptions or lack of understanding. Even if there is a big overlap, it doesn't carry the same stink. I have deep respect for Theravedans; I feel like the bodhisattva ideal is a bit of a well-intentioned trap, or a consequence of getting a bit too grounded in the Absolute. I am sotapanna, and of all the traditions I've visited, I like the White Plum Asanga the most.
/r/AntiFeminists21/04/22 11:58 AM
1

I'm a Zen Buddhist. My focus is on ego psychology and ontology, not buying into intellectual abstractions as truth. But I will create intellectual abstractions to help unwind other abstractions. (Upaya)
/r/AntiFeminists20/04/22 05:10 PM
3

They think that patriarchy oppresses men, and that men are too ignorant on the whole to realize how they're upholding this imaginary social construct. It's the "soft bigotry of low expectations". Chauvinism always begins with assuming the other side is too stupid to understand your point, when they understand it perfectly and simply disagree.
/r/AntiFeminists20/04/22 04:29 PM
3

What must be picked apart is Patriarchy as an unintentional, emergent, and collective paternalism vs "Patriarchy" as some kind of grand conspiracy where every man is defending a power structure to marginalize others. AKA the real vs the construct. Feminists need to reconcile the gap between the real man and the straw man. But they refuse to because it doesn't benefit them to do it; It would crush the ideology they lean on for vindication.
/r/AntiFeminists20/04/22 04:27 PM
3

🤸‍♂️🥇
/r/AntiFeminists20/04/22 04:23 PM
5

Born to die World is a fuck I am trash man
/r/AntiFeminists20/04/22 02:51 PM
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tHaTs HoW pAtRiArChY hUrTs MeN And it's women who expect us to do it, not the patriarchy.
/r/AntiFeminists20/04/22 06:57 AM
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It's been mainstream for a while, they just keep diverting the focus back onto and propping up Patriarchy as "the mainstream" because you need a dominant culture for a counterculture to survive. Otherwise it would devolve into shit. Every ideology has its own sense of self-preservation. What ideologies lack is integrity.
/r/AntiFeminists19/04/22 06:42 PM
1

The government is either filled with simps, or men who realize that simps will never challenge their power and therefore simps should be culturally protected and groomed as the "norm" to aspire to. Which do you think is more likely to be true?
/r/AntiFeminists19/04/22 05:59 PM
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Feminism is rife with female chauvinists. Feminism refuses to address female chauvinism. Female chauvinists have hijacked feminism. Feminism either needs to address female chauvinism, or subs like this will continue. As harmful as Patriarchy (used as a synonym for collective, emergent paternalism) allegedly is, it at least teaches men what's right vs wrong. (Women, especially "feminist" women, are HAPPY to control men through paternal social attitudes, knowing that reputation and self-image are …
/r/AntiFeminists19/04/22 04:21 PM
4

You're confusing propriety with integrity. They're usually mutually exclusive.
/r/AntiFeminists18/04/22 03:52 PM
25

FDS chauvinists criticizing men for acting just like FDS chauvinists.
/r/AntiFeminists18/04/22 05:17 AM
1

You're just talking about yourself. You're the one who failed to rise to the convo.
/r/AntiFeminists17/04/22 02:52 PM
1

That is normal for me, dumb dumb. Buy a dictionary.
/r/AntiFeminists17/04/22 02:51 PM
0

That you can beat off instead of commodifying others who will ruin your life and feel owed to it.
/r/AntiFeminists17/04/22 02:49 PM
1

If you saw a piece of candy in a bear trap, how many limbs would you lose before you learn to just deal with your drive on your own?
/r/AntiFeminists17/04/22 01:57 PM
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No no no, you see, only women are allowed to exclude men. When men exclude themselves, they're being sexist to the women they aren't allowing influence from. Do I really need to add an /s?
/r/AntiFeminists15/04/22 08:13 PM
0

That wasn't a feminist, that was a chauvinist cunt.
/r/AntiFeminists15/04/22 01:15 PM
10

They seem there to catch people who are done with women and try to convince them to be not done quite yet. Lots of dudes with wives/girlfriends who want to believe they have dignity when they don't.
/r/AntiFeminists14/04/22 07:51 PM
6

We found ourselves a female chauvinist defending feminism so that they can keep their "moral vindication" cover for their chauvinism.
/r/AntiFeminists12/04/22 02:10 PM
9

/u/Virtual_Macaroon4088 is having a hard time realizing that they don't want to be feminist.
/r/AntiFeminists12/04/22 02:09 PM
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The beautiful thing is that men are actually meant to go solo, and partnership is us meeting women halfway. If women can't meet us halfway, we're far happier staying on our own side until someone does. Keep vetting and vet hard; It's better to be alone than with someone who will ruin your life.
/r/AntiFeminists12/04/22 02:05 PM
2

This might be why I'm demisexual. Childhood attachment issues led me to date a bunch of emotionally unavailable women who only wanted to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 12:53 PM
1

Buddhism supports white lies through the principle of "upaya"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 12:49 PM
5

This would be solved by making a distinction between feminists and female chauvinists, and how there's a bit of an overlap, so people don't have to quibble about "true" feminism. Just call out the cunts as not being feminists *at all*. Deny their self-identification, tell them that female chauvinism is anti-feminist.
/r/AntiFeminists09/04/22 01:28 PM
11

Nothing gets you ostracized from other women faster than having something they want but can't get. Brag about having a great man, and all the most hateful women will try to fuck him just to ruin what you have.
/r/AntiFeminists09/04/22 01:24 PM
5

I'll leave everything in my will to battered men's groups.
/r/AntiFeminists09/04/22 01:24 PM
5

They want attention and validation. Don't give it to them.
/r/AntiFeminists09/04/22 01:14 PM
6

No see, anything negative intrinsically comes from Patriarchy, so these women were actually holding these men to Patriarchal standards, and therefore Patriarchy is at fault once again. /s 🧠🤸‍♀️🥇 They've found a way to be cunts and still blame it on men.
/r/AntiFeminists09/04/22 01:13 PM
3

Will Smith is brainwashed into an ideology perpetuated by chauvinist women and he is enslaved by reputation management. He believes that he is not a "good man" unless he is there for his wife and children no matter what. And in this case the "no matter what" is the systematic degradation and devaluation of him as a man. Ironic, no? He's doing all the "right" things, and he's getting all the wrong results. As if he never should've bought in in the first place.
/r/AntiFeminists09/04/22 01:01 PM
2

Gynocentrism is the manifestation of the belief that women are the "protagonists" of reality (everything revolves around them), even if they are not holding explicit power over others. In a gynocentric society, Patriarchy will bend itself backwards to give women special privileges, which is exactly what we see with the Duluth Model.
/r/AntiFeminists09/04/22 12:58 PM
2

I do hope that IF you've not had the opportunity to meet that caliber of woman yet, that you will in future. 🙂 As an asexual who has no desire for partnership, I'm deeply bothered by this sociocultural norm that men need a woman to be complete or vice versa.
/r/AntiFeminists09/04/22 12:57 PM
0

If the Patriarchy didn't also hate transwomen for abandoning manhood... But that's netiher here nor there; The Patriarchy looks down on transwomen too much for it to be considered a mastermind behind the fad. Patriarchy could be considered part of what's producing transmen, though. But that just ironically goes to show that Patriarchy isn't a monolith. They try to reconcile by saying "well transwomen are women, so they aren't a part of Patriarchy", but transwomen are still coded for Patriarchy, …
/r/AntiFeminists09/04/22 12:55 PM
2

Then they immediately try to indoctrinate you into their man hating bullshit, expecting you to tow the party line.
/r/AntiFeminists09/04/22 12:50 PM
3

Moral conceit is the linchpin of female chauvinism.
/r/AntiFeminists09/04/22 12:46 PM
1

Antipathy is not the way.
/r/AntiFeminists08/04/22 11:32 PM
6

Big time.
/r/AntiFeminists08/04/22 07:13 PM
10

And what does this obvious psychopath get? Community service.
/r/AntiFeminists08/04/22 03:53 PM
0

And those successful boss ladies didn't get there or become successful by complaining about men. A successful woman playing the "man's game" is about as hated as a skinny person to a fat acceptance activist: Their existence undermines the cause. Don't hate those women; They're single-handedly working to close the gender pay gap.
/r/AntiFeminists07/04/22 10:12 PM
7

It's all projection. Life for a woman involves a lot of social violence from other women (as opposed to physical violence -- they are more likely to intentionally ruin your relationships with other people instead of hitting you), and they are conditioned from a young age (possibly by their mothers) that they need to fall in line or they will not be allowed to attain or keep anything good. So naturally, when they go imagining that men have such better lives, they can't help but interpret it as so…
/r/AntiFeminists07/04/22 09:54 PM
5

Trans Rights Activist Trans Exclusionary Radical Feminist
/r/AntiFeminists07/04/22 08:43 PM
25

48 y/o woman gets off free for sexually harrassing a minor. Women still oppressed?
/r/AntiFeminists07/04/22 12:23 PM
6

"When women do it, it isn't as bad as when a man does it." Ahhhhh the moral conceit of female chauvinism. Evil is evil; Your perception of a greater evil doesn't excuse you from committing 'lesser' evils.
/r/AntiFeminists06/04/22 03:43 PM
36

Creating a group against women's rights is hate as much as a group against men's rights is hate. I think you're conflating it with an argument as to whether women HAVE rights or not. Women are not lacking any rights.
/r/AntiFeminists06/04/22 12:54 AM
61

Please don't, that's obvious hate. You're just gonna get your IP banned. If anything, jump the shark and go absurd, like "dog's sufferage" or "feline rights".
/r/AntiFeminists05/04/22 10:35 PM
9

Every good cult has a pretty public face and an ugly and controlling inner circle.
/r/AntiFeminists05/04/22 12:54 PM
1

Sex bots target incels, so you're probably posting in a way that's triggering a detection algo.
/r/AntiFeminists05/04/22 12:20 PM
18

This. And also notice how they invented gendered terms for chauvinism ('incel', 'misogynist', and 'patriarchy') so that any man who tries the flip the table on them with derivative terms ('femcel', 'misandrist', and 'matriarchy') immediately looks like an unimaginative, contrarian dipshit. We used to have a non-gendered term for all that stuff: Chauvinism. I'm proud to be an anti-chauvinist egalitarian. You wouldn't catch me dead identifying as a feminist.
/r/AntiFeminists05/04/22 12:03 AM
2

Thanks for your support.
/r/AntiFeminists04/04/22 10:13 PM
3

It's not even about the body count or all the sex. It's the fact that she used that many men for her self-discovery. Basic lack of empathy. If you don't get your sense of adventurous variety by 10 dudes, what's the deal? There's other stuff going on. EDIT
/r/AntiFeminists04/04/22 10:07 PM
5

I'd be happy to talk in terms of male and female (*and non-binary*) gendered chauvinism, and the intersection/codependency of them, except the whole world thinks that the only type of chauvinism that exists is male chauvinism, so I am unfortunately reduced to these less nuanced talking points.
/r/AntiFeminists04/04/22 09:54 PM
7

Amber says right there in this video that she feels empowered to abuse him because no one would believe him as a man. Women like her are far more common than you'd think.
/r/AntiFeminists04/04/22 09:29 PM
9

Misandry vs transphobia? Corporate needs you to find the difference between this picture and this picture. TERFs would have no reason to hate trans people if they weren't using their trans identity to inject themselves into women's spaces. What irks me is the duplicity: If a man transitions, she has a 50/50 chance of being allowed under the umbrella of intersectional feminism, whereas if he never transitions, he has zero chance. TERFs are sexist from the get go, but trans people are trying to un…
/r/AntiFeminists04/04/22 06:18 PM
7

Women are evil to you, and blame you for it, until you comply, and then they give you bullshit platitudes to reward you for obedience. It's disgusting. Highly manipulative and controlling on a mass scale. Both men and women suffer in this.
/r/AntiFeminists04/04/22 02:05 PM
1

Personally, I'm very lucky to be at a point where I can be justifiably picky, and in my late-30's have found reasonable success (especially compared to previous eras) and, in some horrid twist of irony, I feel less pressure than ever to have to kind of "show off" or really try. Some people may not agree with it, but, I'm not terribly worried what some people think either. The main thing is to be happy, and if the person you choose isn't contributing to that, then that's the only red flag I need …
/r/AntiFeminists03/04/22 08:21 PM
0

Feminism says men can be stay at home husbands, but then the subtext is "why would you want a man like that?" I saw the same kind of "talking out of both sides of the mouth" in the religious cult I grew up in. It's very beneficial to have a very good looking public position while also having a much more controlling and ugly private position.
/r/AntiFeminists03/04/22 07:02 PM
3

Back to protozoans.
/r/AntiFeminists03/04/22 01:06 PM
4

There's other alternatives to cheating. Like breaking up. Trying to justify monkey branching is a bad look.
/r/AntiFeminists03/04/22 01:03 PM
0

Women mainly care about what you have to offer them, and will monkey-branch if she feels like you aren't measuring up. If she's single past her 20s, it's probably because she has a history of being disloyal. If she's a single mother, even worse for disenfranchising her children's father.
/r/AntiFeminists03/04/22 12:41 PM
4

FDS users are worse, because they have all the moderates brainwashed into thinking their extremism is justified. No one comes to the defense of niceguys EXCEPT extremists, whose support harms more than helps.
/r/AntiFeminists03/04/22 12:39 PM
3

I prefer to just out myself as an enemy by asking them if they think women are capable of being sexist. Even asking the question should get a female chauvinist to go on full attack mode. Their entire MO is that female chauvinism doesn't exist, it's just "equality" in the face of a hegemony of male chauvinism.
/r/AntiFeminists02/04/22 02:05 PM
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Women will never allow a purely male space to exist. They never did before the internet, and they won't after the internet. They call the existence of these spaces inherently sexist, since we are accumulating influence and power that they don't have access to. Yet, when we try to enter female spaces, suddenly the story is very different, and they have privileges for exclusion that our presumed "influence and power" don't afford us. If you want a male-only space, don't advertise it. The first rul…
/r/AntiFeminists02/04/22 01:54 PM
1

Never engage directly. Just keep winning rooms.
/r/AntiFeminists01/04/22 01:55 PM
1

I agree that "toxic masculinity" is bullshit. But only because it's a gendered term that has reached mainstream acceptance, just like "misogynist" and "incel". Women are guilty of all of the things they insult men about, in their own way, but they make sure that any word we build off of their words ("toxic femininity", "misandrist", and "femcel") never take root in the collective consciousness. That is why I explicitly use the term "chauvinist", because it is non-gendered, and old school. Do you…
/r/AntiFeminists31/03/22 08:34 PM
3

If it weren't for intersectional feminism, I'm not sure we ever would've reached this point. But they really jumped the shark. And then they kept pushing and pushing and pushing. Eventually, someone's gonna show you yourself in a mirror.
/r/AntiFeminists31/03/22 08:25 PM
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That's an interesting point. Is a chauvinist mentally unhinged by nature of their chauvinism? I can get behind it. As long as we can include all the "red pill" dudes who think a woman being an independent human is haram.
/r/AntiFeminists31/03/22 08:24 PM
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She's gonna give women domineering abuse in a slightly different package.
/r/AntiFeminists31/03/22 01:40 PM
1

Sounds like you are trying to counter female chauvinism with male chauvinism. This is what they want and to be expected. They successfully got you policing other men out of arrogance, presuming you're above it all. No matter how 'alpha' you are, she's still gonna make up some bullshit to justify monkey branching. You cannot "train" women. You can only be a domineering ass. Making men less domineering was the right move, but they still treat us like we have them locked indoors in a burka when we …
/r/AntiFeminists31/03/22 01:31 PM
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This is fitting. What you've encountered is the hegemonic zeitgeist of female chauvinism. What a person gets from being submissive is the license for moral conceit regarding the "evil" of the dominant for being domineering. You see this moral conceit in the form of the denial that women can ever abuse men. I have a litmus test for identifying a female chauvinist. I simply ask her if she believes that women can be sexist. If she says no, I've found one. Another reason that men don't have books li…
/r/AntiFeminists30/03/22 03:25 PM
14

How dare men tell other men to have self-respect instead of letting them turn into blubbering sacks of shit in the public eye due to female abuse?
/r/AntiFeminists29/03/22 06:45 PM
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The only "mental health" problem these people have is having natural grief after being disenfranchised (except maybe Kanye -- he needs to chill with the Pete shit, bc he's really angry at Kim and won't let himself be bc she's his child's mother, same shit as Will and Jada). They put all their money on one stock, and it just cratered to zero. They hinged their mental health on things that could be taken away from them. And that turns them into passively suicidal slaves. Men do haze each other, bu…
/r/AntiFeminists29/03/22 06:41 PM
14

"Why are men avoiding me for being a useful idiot for a proselytizing social movement?"
/r/AntiFeminists29/03/22 06:38 PM
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Jada is the most visible female chauvinist in popular culture right now who is bothering to publicly justify her behavior. She's absolutely for the streets. I hope Will finds his way out of this dark night of the soul and breaks out of his internalized misandry and gender expectation that a disenfranchised man is only a "good man" if he always take the high road. The Oscars proved that's breaking down. "Good" is starting to lose meaning amidst all the emotional abuse. This is how demons are born…
/r/AntiFeminists29/03/22 03:57 PM
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The fact that the mod can't even type the sub's name right reinforces the notion that they're shaking too hard from their autistic screeching.
/r/AntiFeminists29/03/22 03:47 PM
3

Susan?
/r/AntiFeminists29/03/22 03:46 PM
3

I'd be happier with this subreddit if it made a distinction between feminism (not a monolith) and female chauvinism (an emergent monolith that hides behind feminism). An egalitarian antichauvinist subreddit would be my wet dream.
/r/AntiFeminists29/03/22 03:45 PM
5

These people viewed themselves as victims of you before you bothered to reply. They are weak and will be culled in the next disaster.
/r/AntiFeminists29/03/22 03:44 PM
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I'm sure they'd love it if men would make it clear what a "real woman" is. Their chauvinist conceit knows no bounds.
/r/AntiFeminists29/03/22 12:26 AM
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Severely, and part of his emotional instability right now is because the whole world was/is laughing at him.
/r/AntiFeminists29/03/22 12:25 AM
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Female chauvinism: "Women can't ever be as bad as men." Pro-tip: That belief is what makes them worse.
/r/AntiFeminists28/03/22 09:02 PM
2

You can't blame them. They're literally shaking as they hand out the exclusionary bans.
/r/AntiFeminists28/03/22 08:58 PM
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"Who hurt you?" turns immediately into "So why haven't you gone to therapy and gotten over it yet, sweaty?" It reminds me of the Scientologist's "What are your crimes?"
/r/AntiFeminists28/03/22 07:11 PM
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This. When you tell someone they should seek help for suicide when they obviously aren't suicidal, it's a way of sticking it in their heads that someone thinks they should kill themselves. And reddit anonymizes it, so of course it'll be abused.
/r/AntiFeminists28/03/22 04:21 PM
2

It means he hates OTHER men and hates women for ever having any interest in other men. It makes him a possessive violent psycho, ironically. Eventually the facade drops.
/r/AntiFeminists27/03/22 05:49 PM
3

Holy shit this man hates himself. The internalized misandry is intense.
/r/AntiFeminists27/03/22 12:35 PM
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They're craven.
/r/AntiFeminists26/03/22 03:18 PM
4

You're projecting. It was said to me in a belittling and disempowering way, not to highlight that my behavior was problematic. ANY disagreement was unacceptable. Regardless of how large. Now go fuck yourself, abuser.
/r/AntiFeminists26/03/22 09:29 AM
1

You obviously don't practice what you preach.
/r/AntiFeminists26/03/22 08:50 AM
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I had a woman tell me once "Do you want to be right, or do you want to be happy?" and I nuked her out of my life. Suspending my critical thinking will not make me happy, it will make me a slave.
/r/AntiFeminists25/03/22 04:33 PM
7

Exactly. The statistics would just be added to the list of taboo topics.
/r/AntiFeminists25/03/22 03:54 PM
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If the statistics weren't slanted in their favor, they would just find a way to make them irrelevant to the argument anyway.
/r/AntiFeminists24/03/22 10:41 PM
7

They just make up the reality they exist in and project it onto unwitting bystanders who see reality as it is.
/r/AntiFeminists23/03/22 05:03 PM
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They'd read this, turn to you, and say that regardless of this person's anecdotal experience, it statistically doesn't happen. What they don't acknowledge is the anti-male stigma they perpetuate, and how it makes people disbelieve men who are proven innocent.
/r/AntiFeminists22/03/22 04:05 PM
3

All any feminist needs to say to earn my respect is that feminism isn't a monolith, female chauvinism is real, and that many chauvinists hide behind the label of feminism. That would be an honest person.
/r/AntiFeminists20/03/22 03:49 AM
6

They're saying the quiet part out loud. These are sexists.
/r/AntiFeminists19/03/22 06:14 PM
0

Regressive moron.
/r/AntiFeminists18/03/22 01:38 PM
2

That's a backwards rationalization and you know it. You start with what you want and find a way to make it reasonable. You know what else is human nature? Addiction. People backwards rationalize that as well. But one day you wake up, realize only you can be relied on, put on your big boy pants and cut the toxic shit out of your life.
/r/AntiFeminists18/03/22 01:29 PM
3

Bruh I think of sex every 6 years. When I meet a woman who isn't giving me any chauvinist vibes at all (and my God is it rare)
/r/AntiFeminists18/03/22 11:57 AM
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That's because you expect women to have honor, and only because deep down you still want to be with a woman. Once you lose your personal investment, their ethical failings become more a matter of curiosity than something to get upset about.
/r/AntiFeminists18/03/22 11:47 AM
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Yeah he's part of the problem. Female chauvinism is a moral supremacist mandate divorced from personal accountability.
/r/AntiFeminists18/03/22 11:39 AM
10

Probably in the incel trans pipeline. Boys who can't get laid but drink every little bit of female chauvinist Kool aid.
/r/AntiFeminists18/03/22 11:38 AM
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God forbid anyone take any steps to solve their own side of the problem. No, we are victims, and it's the world's fault, so we have to fix the world instead...
/r/AntiFeminists13/03/22 04:31 PM
4

I love /r/TrueOffMyChest because it's a coexistence space for both extremes of any political viewpoint.
/r/AntiFeminists13/03/22 02:36 PM
5

Some of those that work forces are the same that simp psychos
/r/AntiFeminists13/03/22 02:30 PM
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FDS is known to brigade any convo they find distasteful.
/r/AntiFeminists13/03/22 01:43 PM
5

It's called female chauvinism, and it's deeply rooted in ego, so all the more irony to accuse men of having fat egos.
/r/AntiFeminists12/03/22 02:14 PM
1

Not silence, usually starts up with ad hominem attacks suggesting a man is worthless unless she wants to have sex with him.
/r/AntiFeminists12/03/22 02:02 PM
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"We are going to show the results shortly." And cue the water works prior to the obvious negative outcome...
/r/AntiFeminists11/03/22 02:43 PM
2

The difference is between abundance and scarcity mentalities. Most men operate from scarcity so they're happy to get what they get, but an abundance mentality is about judging and filtering the undesirables so that only the desirables remain.
/r/AntiFeminists11/03/22 01:46 PM
3

There's been no offense, but I appreciate it. I'm sorry I came back hard; I meet people with the energy they give me, to avoid giving good faith to people who insist on acting in bad faith. I have an 80/20 rule. 80% of it is satire of the other 20% who are 100% serious about it (who probably think the satirical people are actually on their side). If you want to dive into some good satirical subs to purge yourself with a little vicarious roleplay, these are great ones: /r/AntiHateCommunities /r/F…
/r/AntiFeminists10/03/22 09:36 PM
3

It's not ironic. Male chauvinists support raunch culture and open sexuality in female chauvinism, because it means their odds of getting laid without putting in any effort are higher. It's not relationship oriented at all. It's calculated and self-interested, and hurts women, the same way that female chauvinism encouraging competition through male chauvinism ('you can't keep her unless you're alpha enough!') only hurts men. Simps are gross.
/r/AntiFeminists10/03/22 05:11 PM
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It's the fault of a degradation of male values. Generations of fatherless homes permeating the culture. It used to be that you'd have to have some kind of initiation ritual into manhood that involved enduring pain, duty, and rising into a brotherhood of equals. What is the male initiation ritual into manhood today? Fucking a woman. Getting involved with a woman still involves pain and duty, but there is no brotherhood of equals on the other side, and the woman is rarely worth the pain or devotio…
/r/AntiFeminists10/03/22 03:30 PM
1

If you followed the link you can just type your name into the box on the page. https://reddit-user-analyser.netlify.app/#SAMMYYYTEEH
/r/AntiFeminists10/03/22 02:37 PM
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The simp indoctrination program is progressing further than expected.
/r/AntiFeminists10/03/22 12:53 PM
39

Ok, fair, but taking up half the label is pretty audacious and pretentious. Reeks of virtue signaling.
/r/AntiFeminists10/03/22 12:51 AM
6

People can run scripts that check the reddit histories of any commenter, as they comment, and if they see that you've commented or posted in a blacklisted group, they'll just insta-ban. It's pretty normal for fringe echo chambers. Here is yours. It's why I do an annual throwaway. People can characterize me for a year before I get a fresh start and get to poke at their ears again.
/r/AntiFeminists10/03/22 12:04 AM
1

That's because recognizing nuance requires effort.
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 10:28 PM
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Dude, I used quotes when I said "The Patriarchy" so that should've clued an absolute moron like you that I was using it sarcastically. There is a middle ground to be found. It just involves acknowledging male chauvinism and female chauvinism as interdependent and mutually assured. If you don't see how assholes and cunts create and support each other, then you're fucking blind.
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 10:06 PM
16

The "knocked up Oprah" sketch is so good.
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 09:42 PM
47

"Congrats king" 😂
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 09:42 PM
1

You could make the same accusations towards men. And that's basically what feminism already does.
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 09:25 PM
1

The ideology of feminism isn't a monolith. A lot of people have different interpretations of what it is. Some of the interpretations don't deserve disparagement. Do you see? "Not all men". "Not all women." "Not all feminists."
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 09:25 PM
2

Hey... thanks for being here. This sub needs women. I think the real problem is female chauvinists who co-opt feminism, instead of "feminism" as a female chauvinist bogeyman, and I think that women are essential in recognizing and helping to pull apart the two. In the same way that men say "not all men", we can also say "not all feminists". There are people out there who identify as feminist who don't have a speck of female chauvinism in them, and I support their identification.
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 08:05 PM
1

Traditionalism is just female chauvinism kowtowing to male chauvinism. That's always how it works. Men must view the women as "lesser" so that their "inadequacies" are immediately forgiven. The "inadequacy" is often an intellectual or ethical/honorable one. Never trust a woman who plays dumb. She's catering to the male chauvinist inclination to view her as dumb, and therefore she will always get away with her schemes by pretending to be dumb. The white knights now don't go after tradwomen, they …
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 08:03 PM
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If you tell her what she is, she'll take it as an insult. She won't take it to heart. At a certain point, you may have to accept that your lives are moving in different directions. Chauvinist hatred doesn't just go away. People throw all the pain they've ever had about the opposite sex into it.
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 07:45 PM
2

The real question is: Why can't women root out the people who claim to be egalitarian but are only pro-woman? And I think the answer has something to do with why men haven't been able to root out people who engage in domineering and violent behavior. Should all women be maligned because of a few? Should all men be maligned because of a few?
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 06:45 PM
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You're talking about shit that was instituted in the 2000s, by the time that female chauvinists had fully captured the feminist movement. You know feminism is much older? And the older feminism is against this new "feminism"? tl;dr: You aren't going to fix feminism by painting it all as evil with a broad brush. The evil parts need to be pulled out of it, and we need women's help for that. Just like how we need the toxic masculine aspects pulled out of men's rights.
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 06:13 PM
-10

If you find yourself strawmanning and arguing with people who actually agree with you, you're a complete moron. Anyway, feminism isn't bad. It's all the female chauvinist cunts who use the feminist label and try to co-opt feminism who are bad. Educate women on female chauvinism, and they'll recognize the truth on their own. Female chauvinism and male chauvinism are interdependent, and they create "The Patriarchy" (aka the Chauvinist Spectrum in Kyriarchy) together.
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 05:40 PM
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This is the Patriarchy writing laws that will never affect them, but will punish millions of ordinary men, who have no role at all in "The Patriarchy". You never have to worry about indebted and family-strapped men rising up against injustice. THIS is how the Patriarchy hurts men too. Not by telling men they shouldn't have feelings. Men have feelings, women just find them inappropriate because they can't empathize.
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 05:18 PM
1

"I wouldn't feel comfortable celebrating men's day" because he's anticipating a cunt will ruin his day over it.
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 04:14 PM
11

She's obviously a mermaid bro EDIT: Purple hair = I relate to my gender androgynously Green hair = I'm trapped in the 90's alternative scene Pink hair = I'm going to steal money from your wallet for drugs Rainbow hair = If there were a more extra thing to do, I'd do it
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 03:19 PM
1

Ok dude, good luck with your failed crusade and internalized propaganda.
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 02:03 PM
0

If you think a thicker boot on your neck is a better future, that's your prerogative as a useful idiot.
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 01:59 PM
0

Just so you know, they do produce antipsychotic medicine for people like you.
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 01:54 PM
0

Slava Ukraini! 🇺🇦
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 01:36 PM
1

Let Russia have Ukraine: We need to fix our "man problem" first. /s
/r/AntiFeminists09/03/22 01:32 PM
8

BuT mEn HaVe To Be EtHiCaLlY pErFeCt So We DoN't HaVe To Be SeLeCtIvE!
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 03:25 PM
5

Gotta maintain sexual hegemony over the scrotes. 💅
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 03:20 PM
18

The aim of female chauvinism is to maintain victimhood status at any cost. The aim of male chauvinism is to get the victims to shut the fuck up and grow some agency.
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 03:17 PM
13

Whenever anything bad happens to a man, the woman who is relying on that man's resources is the REAL victim.
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 02:53 PM
1

"Raunchy female chauvinist" fits. Not a femcel, but there is a huge crossover between femcels and female chauvinists, just like how there's a crossover between inceldom and male chauvinism. I can see OP's mistake.
/r/AntiFeminists08/03/22 02:18 PM
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What you want is for women to have higher ideals. You realize men fail to live up to higher ideals as well? Almost as though the failure is with humanity and subculture rather than gender. Your personal dating problem needs to be engaged with from a place of understanding the failings of humanity, while also having higher standards without feeling disgust towards others on the basis of them.
/r/AntiFeminists07/03/22 02:42 PM
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I made a comment to OP about female chauvinism, because I think a big problem is that female chauvinists have hijacked the male view of feminism, by identifying with feminism despite being anti-feminist. Hopefully he'll read it, understand it, and change the nature of his gender studies.
/r/AntiFeminists07/03/22 12:58 PM
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Spend a lot more time thinking about female chauvinism than progressive vs traditional women, because both tend to be chauvinist regardless of whether they're trying to change men or profit from them. Female chauvinism is anti-feminist. What you are against is female chauvinism, not feminism. Learn to tell the difference and life will get much easier. There is something to be said as to why women won't root out and decry female chauvinists from feminism, but anyone can identify as anything -- En…
/r/AntiFeminists07/03/22 12:56 PM
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> So, question for men: do you give a shit about families? Do you give a shit about your own children? Bold of you to assume they're our children just because the woman says they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 07:22 PM
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Cool story bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 04:18 PM
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In my 20s I'd jump straight into sex and then see what her expectations were and I'd do my best to satisfy them. Now that I'm secure in my 30s, I wouldn't dare have sex with someone who's into casual sex. It's meaningless and it doesn't "find meaning" like I thought it would. Heartless people are out there trying to get off.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:32 PM
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OP is INFJ or ENFJ methinks. (MBTI) They're usually full of questions about how other people would act in order to figure themselves out, but generally keep their cards close to their chest, and the madonna/whore complex is a recurring theme of conflict.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:31 PM
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Regardless of your gender, you are a puppet of nature, and hormones are running the show. Don't overcomplicate it. You can't think or fuck your way into happiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 03:30 PM
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Wanting one. I'm happy without someone else putting their expectations on me and crawling up my ass.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/22 02:39 PM
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