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Fruits Basket is classic shoujo, written by a woman for young girls. If you want one with a female ensemble I suggest Kageki Shoujo, Sailor Moon, and Girl Crush. If you want josei recommendations (target audience is adult women) I have some of those too! Either way, I think it’s worth giving the medium another chance.
/r/ExRedPill05/03/26 03:08 PM
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What kind of romance novels are you reading? Not an attack, just curious. As a woman who loves romance I haven’t come across this.
/r/ExRedPill05/03/26 12:25 PM
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To be fair, Lucky Star was written by a man and its target demographic is adult men.
/r/ExRedPill05/03/26 12:23 PM
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Male gorillas also engage in sex with each other to strengthen bonds. What does that tell us?
/r/ExRedPill04/03/26 05:33 PM
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It's true that men are taught to be assertive and confrontational whereas women are taught the opposite but that's a failing in my opinion. I think gendering traits like confidence does more harm than good than men. Lacking confidence is a flaw that can be corrected but tying it to your status as a man is unhelpful.
/r/ExRedPill21/10/22 08:43 PM
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What would you consider masculine traits these men have lost?
/r/ExRedPill21/10/22 07:23 PM
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Being treated like a live-in maid is a form of emotional labor that you can only deal so much of. That's where lack of fulfillment comes in. For instance: Men are less likely to listen to their wives and provide support when they're stressed while women listen and give support even when they themselves are stressed and Women are painted as nags when they ask for emotional support or a more even split of chores
/r/ExRedPill06/10/22 04:31 PM
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I mean to say this gently, but you don't come across as someone with tons of female friends or someone who thinks he's attractive. Truthfully, everything you've said in this comment about yourself comes across as fantasy. Your comments to Available-Ad-9338 come across as fervent projection like you think those things about yourself and you're projecting them outward in anger.
/r/ExRedPill06/10/22 03:27 PM
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I know a lot of women that sleep around and typically speaking they are the coldest nastiest most unfeminine women around Where do you know these women from? You clearly think negatively of them so they're obviously not your friends. How do you know these women well enough to know what they do with their time?
/r/ExRedPill06/10/22 03:05 PM
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What does that actually mean ? Modern married women work but also bear the brunt of household work and childcare with insufficient support from their spouses. Basically, women do twice the work and get less of the benefits. Even if you love someone you don't want to be miserable because of them. Here's a good write-up from BBC that links research about this. Why don’t men complain about that? Like I mentioned before, men benefit more from marriage than women do. In addition to having someone who…
/r/ExRedPill06/10/22 02:51 PM
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The words “insecurity” always seem to pop up when someone gets a bit too close to an uncomfortable truth. Funny how that happens. What else would you call it when men hyperfixate on women leaving them for a man who's better at sex? Insecurity is normal but if left unchallenged it'll turn you toxic. She clearly stated that she regretted going out and trying out the apps because the experience changed the way she viewed her ex after they got back together. Yes, that is what happens when you experi…
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 09:36 PM
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The idea of “alpha widows” comes down to men’s insecurities when it comes to sex. GoodSilhouette has a great analogy. Trying new things opens your world. Your coworker isn’t an alpha widow. She had little sexual experience. She then had more sexual experiences which lead to her learning what she did and didn’t like. She then went back to having sex in a way she no longer enjoyed, leaving her unsatisfied. It wasn’t the market value of the men she’s slept with that changed her experience, it was h…
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 08:46 PM
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It's not a real thing so I don't see the reason to define it. Loving someone doesn't mean they have to be the best you've ever had. Plus, if she was dating only the second guy she'd ever been with then she had very little experience. New experiences open your world. This happens to men too. Are men who had better sex before their current girlfriends called alpha widowers? Of course not.
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 08:08 PM
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The shock of the century!
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 07:57 PM
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That was true in the 50s but not anymore. Men aren't the sole providers in marriages anymore. Women also pay for their spouse and children. As for splitting the housework, a 2020 Gallup poll shows women still do the bulk of chores. The only thing husbands are more likely to do than wives are maintain the car and do yardwork. They equally share responsibility in paying bills (women 37%, men 34%) and planning family activities. Married men in dual-income households only pitch in slightly more than…
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 07:57 PM
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I don't get anything about "alphas widows" or pair bonding from this. I see a woman who wanted to go back to her ex after unfulfilling relationships only to be let down because their relationship wasn't the same. People romanticize their exes and get upset when they realize that they outgrew that person or that they were looking back at their time together with rose-colored glasses. It happens to everyone.
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 07:17 PM
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I think there's a reason for that. There's nothing to back up their claims but they throw the term around so it sounds like they actually did their research. Hours later and I'm still looking for anything that backs this up. I even read Jordan Peterson's blog and he only references pair bonding as a reason men are less violent, nothing about women being worthless.
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 07:14 PM
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I'm so sorry that happened to you but how does that relate to my comment?
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 04:55 PM
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I've never heard of this brand of red pill rhetoric before. With biological terms like "pair bonding" you'd think there would tons of research on the topic but I'm not coming up with much. I found studies on prairie voles and titi monkeys that include sections on how pair bonding evolved in humans but not on why promiscuous women are worthless. But I did get to read some interesting papers on the benefits of promiscuity in female animals so that was fun. Do you have any papers you could direct m…
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 04:53 PM
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I think high promiscuity is connected with this but i could be wrong This is incorrect. The fact is men benefit from marriage more than women do (married men live longer and earn more money than single men, plus they get a live-in maid they can have sex with). The most consistent reason women give for divorce is actually lack of emotional fulfillment. Modern women can financially afford to be on their own so divorce is not as daunting as before.
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 04:20 PM
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The red pill has a tendency to create boogeymen out of women with BPD and NPD. BPD is present in less than 2% of the population but if you listen to redpillers you'd think 80% of the female population had it. I'm sorry that you are hurt, but not every abusive woman has BPD. Maybe your ex was actually clinically diagnosed by a psychiatrist but it also has to be said that the red pill overestimates how many women have BPD and villainizes them. Your ex was a horrible person, but that doesn't mean w…
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 03:57 PM
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Non-monogamy isn’t for everyone. I believe men are more likely to be non-monogamous than women but there are women out there who want multiple partners and that’s fine too. Not everything is about sex though.
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 03:43 PM
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I agree with others are saying about you calling men “men” but women “females”. If you’re othering women in your head then it will come across in your actions as well. You said you’ve been excluded from gatherings because you make women uncomfortable. Could you say what a typical interaction with women is like for you? What happened the last time you spoke to a woman you were interested in?
/r/ExRedPill05/10/22 06:51 AM
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It’s not ironic that a former sex worker is a good partner. I’m sorry you experienced that, but I’m still confused as to your definition of masculinity. For you does it mean being reserved? How do you define femininity? I only ask because you say you want a woman who won’t expect you to act masculine but I’m curious on how you would expect her to act.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/22 11:21 PM
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How do you fine masculinity in this context? To find what you’re looking for you’ll also need to be open to all that dictates. Are you a man that understands a woman’s experience? Are you okay with a woman not being traditionally feminine ? Can you let her be her own version of “your woman”?
/r/ExRedPill07/06/22 09:43 PM
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My first thought when you said men were coming to r/sb was “Why were men coming there at all?” When you’re talking about problems you face, it can feel disingenuous and insulting when someone barges in to talk about their own problems. “I experience X too!” can be comforting when it’s invited, but men coming into a community about small breasts definitely isn’t invited.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/22 07:01 PM
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What does testosterone have to do with criticism of female rappers for “acting like men”? You’re taking a very conservative approach here. “Behavior in men is getting more toxic because behavior in women”? Why are women responsible for the way men act? You’re romanticizing “Back in the day”. Women—and men, but especially women—had less choice back then. I read about your mother’s traumatizing behavior. Have you heard of the term confirmation bias? Is it that people are blind to what choice and l…
/r/ExRedPill24/03/22 07:12 PM
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Why the focus on women then if everyone is all the same? And what's wrong with polyamory if it's healthy and consensual? Can you correlate how much polyamory and STDs are tied? As for psychiatric meds, mental health is less stigmatized. That's why people are more open about seeking treatment. That wasn't the norm back in the day because people were told to repress their feelings.
/r/ExRedPill24/03/22 04:13 PM
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especiallg with meghan rhe stallion and cardi b and sahweetie and other musical artists promoting it They are doing that as part of the rockstar lifestyle rappers promote. Do you believe there's an epidemic of men doing the same based on Migos, Lil Baby, YoungBoy, Roddy Rich etc etc? Seems disingenuous to say there's a culture of women doing it based on female rappers when male rappers established this pattern long ago.
/r/ExRedPill23/03/22 11:02 PM
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Glad to hear you recognized the dangerous of the red pill! But I think your view of people who have sex needs to be re-evaluated. Orgies don't appeal to me but there's nothing immoral about people who want to. There's also nothing immoral about sex work. You seem to have some residual red pill beliefs. Just take it one step at a time and be open to new ideas.
/r/ExRedPill23/03/22 09:59 PM
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"as much was other dudes or something" How do you know this? Or are you assuming? You could try experimenting with your sexuality. Or you could open up to changing your thought process. Otherwise you'll be stuck making yourself miserable for the rest of your life. It's not women doing this to you, it's you.
/r/ExRedPill23/03/22 09:54 PM
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Okay. But that experience obviously left a mark on you if you keep bringing it up. I would revisit it if I were you if only because it still impacts you. Anyway, I suggest looking up confirmation bias and how that feeds into prejudice.
/r/ExRedPill23/03/22 08:20 PM
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How did you know she had other guys talking to her? And if you were trying to be her friend why does it matter that she had other male friends? Or were you trying to pursue her romantically?
/r/ExRedPill23/03/22 08:01 PM
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This interaction with someone who gave short replies is an example of 'female nature'? What would you say the 'male nature' is?
/r/ExRedPill23/03/22 07:39 PM
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Oh no. Nice Eyes Guy has some bad takes. Have you ever heard the term “confirmation bias”? Also you said you never met a woman who lacks empathy or isn’t mentally abusive but then you give an example of a woman not texting you back. That may hurt your feelings but that’s not abusive. You might be abusing yourself. You self-sabotaged by creating a whole story about her in your head and then blocking her. You might think this toxic mindset will keep you from being hurt but in reality you’ll only m…
/r/ExRedPill23/03/22 07:21 PM
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I mean this very gently, but do you think you may be using your past as a crutch so you don't have to change? You must know you aren't the only person who has experienced those things and that not everyone with a hurtful past holds that type of resentment.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/21 11:47 PM
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Because your views aren't [edit] consistent with current data showing women aged 24-40 outearn men in the same age range on average. I don't doubt that you "know some guys" who experience this or that, but you really shouldn't let anecdotal evidence color your entire worldview. It's really not healthy for you.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/21 11:38 PM
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How old are you? This is a genuine question by the way.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/21 11:13 PM
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I'm trying to be understanding and compassionate because I know what you've written here comes from a place of real hurt, but I guarantee you you're hurting the "49-year-old Thai woman" you're degrading as some pity prize. You need to unpack that bitterness and self-hatred first before you pull another person into it. If you're miserable both with and without someone then I think you should approach your issues from a different angle
/r/ExRedPill10/07/21 10:58 PM
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Same here. I hope she can find someone who appreciates her when OP inevitably spirals out.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/21 10:34 PM
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Does your partner know you think of her as a “lesser prize”? You also mentioned she is Thai in the same sentence. Is her race also a reason you view her—your own companion that you chose—as “lesser”, like you view her age? Why are you with someone you clearly have disdain for? Do you see her as a person? Because she is.
/r/ExRedPill10/07/21 10:33 PM
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