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Well, I am highly sensitive with a better sense of smell than most. So what is true for some is not necessarily true for all.
/r/RedPillWomen26/07/26 02:41 PM
2

I believe pheromones play a big part.
/r/RedPillWomen25/07/26 03:21 PM
1

Sounds immature, but he is only 23.
/r/RedPillWomen17/07/26 11:39 AM
3

Just be sure you aren't frog farming. I don't think so, this guy sounds nutty. But frog farmers take great guys and disrespect and immaculate them where the man builds resentment, doesn't feel loved eat. It happens when we expect men to behave like women.
/r/RedPillWomen09/07/26 02:25 AM
0

At least part of ot is that feminism turned women into frog farmers.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/26 09:18 PM
3

I guess some would like the low pressure aspect, and it is deliberately a short date, or can be if you need to flee.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/26 11:05 PM
4

Sounds like you had more than a couple dates with him. I don't think it is fair to judge on a fist meeting.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/26 10:58 PM
2

Good point, screening out the gold diggers.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/26 10:56 PM
5

I think he might be worried about treating you bc extreme feminists who look for things to complain about mightiest tainted his thinking.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/26 10:55 PM
2

Exactly.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/26 10:50 PM
5

Coffee date 100% appropriate for a first meeting.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/26 10:49 PM
7

I would give him grace. Some women these days get mad if the guy wants to pay or basically be a man.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/26 10:48 PM
7

Maybe he's had a date with a radical feminist who lost her mind when he held the door for her, and now he's scared to lead.
/r/RedPillWomen18/06/26 10:47 PM
1

Creepy at best.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/26 03:22 PM
10

There is a huge imbalance of power and he knows it. I didn't say it was illegal, but it is odd and that is my opinion. He doesn't want to be with someone mature with life experience.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/26 11:21 AM
48

Very odd for a man of that age to date an 18 year old.
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/26 01:43 AM
1

What does 1 year months mean?
/r/RedPillWomen12/06/26 12:33 AM
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Why did you only read half of The Surrendered Wife? Duct Tape and stay on your paper. No offense but being around you would be exhausting.
/r/RedPillWomen10/06/26 11:04 PM
1

I do not take refilling to be anti woman at all.
/r/RedPillWomen05/06/26 08:07 PM
0

Very off topic imo.
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/26 01:45 AM
7

Yeah, I don't think OP is in love, but maybe if she let's her guard down that will happen. It is still early in the relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/26 05:33 PM
7

You didn't mention love of this man, did you? Do you love him? From the post, I cannot tell, but if you did, you probably wouldn't bother asking for advice.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/26 05:28 PM
2

I was referencing brining antisemitism into it.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/26 05:20 PM
0

Are you looking for love, or for money? Not throwing shade, this is anvhonest question. I 've seen people try to choose a partner by using lists of pros snd cons, and chemistry is completely left put of the equation. This approach doesn't work.
/r/RedPillWomen01/06/26 04:10 PM
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I am the queen of awkward and giving this dude all the grace.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/26 09:14 PM
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💯%
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/26 09:12 PM
1

Just couldn't relate this in any way to the post.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/26 09:10 PM
0

So you and Ted send a selfie to a friend who cooperates with police to identify your killer? Not much help for your safety, but maybe for his next victim's.
/r/RedPillWomen29/05/26 09:09 PM
4

I have said some dumb shit when nervous, I say cut him some slack.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/26 01:57 AM
1

Ted Bundy was charming.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/26 01:56 AM
9

I too got lost on that one.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/26 01:55 AM
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I agree, but did you know that one of the original goals of feminism was the breakdown of western civilization? Did you know the CIA hired Gloria Stienem, she went undercover as a playboy bunny. She kept her CIA involvement secret. When it came out she downplayed it, making our CIA sound like a bunch of laid back libs(these are the ppl that killed JFK). Their agenda was destroying families, and getting more influence over the youth of the country by turning kids against their parents. Girls who …
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/26 09:42 PM
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No woman under 50 in the western world was raised to believe marriage is required, the default. In the US in the 70s women's "lib" was all the hype, divorces took over, all the mom's had full time jobs in ghe 80s. We were raised to know it is a choice, regardless of what parents or the church said. You can't keep the influence of teacher's union or media out of your home. The downside of all of this is the deterioration of the nuclear family.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/26 10:16 PM
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Part of this is due to feminism (when it became "men are evil"). There has been an overt campaign pushed on young girls for many years to inform them that they don't need a man. On the surface, it is empowering. Deep down is is part of a campaign against families.(sorry to get political, but this is true and we'll documented.) And while it might feel great, and certainly peaceful, it ignores biology altogether. Women have needs and it is safer to pursue them in a relationship. Yes, people gripe …
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/26 04:45 PM
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I think everyone on social media likes to post about the awesome life they have. The singletons don't share pics and stories about being lonely. The marrieds don't post about feeling disrespected or taken for granted. The moms don't post pics of their newborn laying on the bathmat when mom had a stomach bug and no choice but to put baby on the bathroom floor so they could barf. Don't put too much stock into the lives people post online. Everyone has ups and downs. Happy and sads. If they say oth…
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/26 04:19 PM
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People chronically online are sometimes just hateful.
/r/RedPillWomen15/05/26 10:53 PM
5

Is it hard to say," I am seeing someone?" How could he take that personally?
/r/RedPillWomen14/05/26 12:47 AM
9

The pill killed my libido entirely.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/26 02:09 PM
1

Helping him apply to jobs is mothering him. Not attractive. Are you using tears with expectations? You may be trying to control him in that way. It sounds like you could try expressing your desires vs. complaining to him about these things. What are you doing for self care?
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/26 12:38 AM
5

To me it sounds like you get more of what you are focused on. Stop seeing yourself as a victim and stop looking for the worst in everyone.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/26 06:38 PM
2

The asker should pay.
/r/RedPillWomen18/04/26 01:13 PM
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I think if you have a close friend who is pro marriage, and wants to be helpful, then yes. I would not discuss with those who only offer, "you should leave type advice."
/r/RedPillWomen21/03/26 02:20 PM
8

I would never ever agree about my children. That's not happening. Also, doing your sub thing, kneeling with kids present is super icky.
/r/RedPillWomen26/02/26 11:43 PM
4

Self care and trying to look cute for him are not the same. Make sure you do things that light you up. (Looking cute might be one, but only if it makes YOU feel happy).
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/26 06:17 PM
3

Goddess of fun and light. A Laura Doyle term. Music, outdoors, comedy, create something, spend time with someone who makes you laugh.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/26 06:14 PM
5

How is your self care? Are you sleeping well? You need to fo things that give you dopamine, serotonin, oxytocin. What a comedy, walk outside, talk to a close friend. You cannot be the GOFL if you don't take care of you.
/r/RedPillWomen10/02/26 04:49 PM
2

You didn't just give too much, you made so many demands.
/r/RedPillWomen01/02/26 03:06 PM
8

No, as long as the 19 yr old is at least average in terms of emotional maturity.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/26 12:34 AM
7

I would think a regular brief , low-rise, high rise, or high cut leg, with no panty line (many are branded this way) would work. Not sure about boy shorts. Tbh, I wish my husband noticed or cared what I had on. I am kind of into being submissive (to me it is a turn on) so I wouldn't take issue with this.
/r/RedPillWomen29/12/25 03:21 PM
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It is more likely imo, that the chemistry is just not there, at least for him. You cannot change that. If you have had relationships with great chemistry, then you will understand what I mean. If that is missing, and he realizes that, then that is that.
/r/RedPillWomen22/12/25 01:46 PM
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I think that it doesn't have to mean hook up. I think explaining that it is too soon, not a good idea snd see how he handles it. If he loses interest, he is solely looking for sex. If he is really fine with it and goes along with a different plan, I would assume he wasn't pressuring for sex in the first place.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/25 10:51 PM
3

Just smile. Show a tiny bit of interest. If they are attracted that is all that is needed; a big fat obvious hint that you are noticing them.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/25 10:54 PM
2

All you need to do is 2 full seconds of eye contact and a smile. They just want to know they are welcome to speak to you. Give them an eyebrow flash and a smile. They will send you a drink, and come over. Trying to pick them up is beneath you and unnecessary.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/25 10:52 PM
9

I think that people settle down when they fall in love and nobody can predict when that will happen for them.
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/25 07:27 PM
1

Don't ask questions you don't want answered.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/25 02:38 AM
1

Agree, it gets me to look at how I contribute to conflict (rolling my eyes, for example). The biggest takeaway for me is that for men, respect = love. If they feel disrespected, it is the same as a woman feeling unloved. I never realized it. I love it when I can gain a new perspective on an old problem.
/r/RedPillWomen12/10/25 03:39 PM
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