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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Living apart together....commitment without cohabitation....is it the wave of the future? What is LAT?	/r/PurplePillDebate	26/01/23 04:22 PM
2	Women don't necessarily want the best men, they just want a guy better than them Do it	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/22 08:55 PM
6	Those who don’t agree with the red pill. What advice that isn’t red pilled would you give to those who struggle with dating? I can offer my anecdotal experience on this. I’m a rock climber and when I climb indoors at a gym, it is almost entirely young people (teens to late twenties) and the split is consistently ~50/50 men and women. It’s remarkable how balanced the activity is in regards to gender demographic. I’m in my early 20s myself. There are certainly older climbers but they mostly seem to climb outdoors or do lead/trad climbing. Bouldering seems to skew very young (lots of kids doing it too). Rock climbers are…	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/12/22 08:38 PM
1	Lots of talk in this sub about when results are seen and lots of people talking about how they're sick of being in the "process" - at the other end people only share their success stories at the end, figured a mid-journey report would bring some much needed optimism here. Thank you for sharing your story, It’s heartening to hear the progress you’ve made. Best of luck in the future!	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/12/22 04:30 PM
1	Girls don't want a 'guy who's 6ft+' because that's some magical height, they want a guy who's 6ft+ so that they can tell their friends they're dating a guy who's 6ft+. Would you be open to dating a man shorter than you if you were otherwise a great fit?	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/12/22 05:59 AM
3	What do women mean when they say they want to feel protected by a man? Your experiences completely check out to me. US cities are scary to me as a guy—I can only imagine how women feel. I consistently worry (almost neurotically) about my sister and mother as the area we’ve lived in has grown over the years. Being consistently armed when i go outside has helped me to feel at peace a lot more. Are you in an area where that is feasible?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 09:06 PM
1	Does a man who gives all the signs of looking for a relationship indicate a scarcity mindset? Can you elaborate on that? I’ve only ever dated open feminists and they’ve never been mean/hateful to me. Granted that’s just my experience and I haven’t even dated many people to begin with.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 08:55 PM
2	How much of a role does being fit and muscular play in a man's attractiveness? That’s very heartening to hear, thanks for sharing your situation. If you don’t mind me asking, what kind of women do you tend to attract/have prospects with?	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/12/22 07:01 PM
1	Do you think being a male breadwinner is becoming less of a status symbol? Do you live in the US by chance?	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/12/22 08:01 PM
3	Do you think being a male breadwinner is becoming less of a status symbol? That sounds amazing. If you don’t mind me asking, what is your job?	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/12/22 10:27 PM
2	There's no way to know if a guy has taken the Red Pill unless he explicitly tells you It doesn’t sound like you’re red pilled then, it just sounds like you follow evolutionary psych, and it just so happens to align with red pill sometimes. This wouldn’t apply to you then	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/12/22 12:16 AM
2	Thoughts on the idea that average modern women want super tall men because they are hyper masculine and overweight? I’ve heard that such is often the case. I’m honest with my height on OLD and I think women have generally been pleasantly surprised when they see me, at least in regards to that. Just goes to show how many guys are willing to fib for a match.	/r/PurplePillDebate	28/11/22 03:56 PM
1	why are men still told to peruse and imitate relationships? Idk, I wouldn’t mind lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	24/11/22 07:20 PM
1	30 Years is not old at all and stop listening to so much bad advice I think that your forties are a grey area, where depending on how well you’ve taken care of yourself, your age will either start to show, or not so much. However, it’s certainly an age where most people will no longer look young. They will have noticeable facial features that indicate their age. Plenty of fit, healthy 40-somethings out there.	/r/PurplePillDebate	22/11/22 09:25 PM
1	What’s your unpopular dating opinion that would get you crucified by this sub? All of those things describe me (except for not being jacked), and I feel as though I had to work very hard to get to where I am. I guess from some perspectives you could consider me average, but I don’t want to think of myself that way :(	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/22 10:17 PM
1	Why Won’t You Pay For Sex? If you don’t mind me asking, what do you think characterizes an exceptional escort service? Like are there certain things you’d look for when judging the quality? Sorry if this question is out of left field but I’m curious about sex work and it’s hard to find a straight answer oftentimes lol Feel free to PM me too if you’d rather discuss there!	/r/PurplePillDebate	30/09/22 06:57 PM
1	"Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated advice It seems that Swedens high rate is a result of a broader definition of rape, and higher confidence in the judiciary system which leads to more reports. I personally do not find that to be a negative. My understanding is that a lot of rape in the US sadly goes unreported due to little faith in our justice systems. It is interesting how statistics can be misleading. If you ever have the time and feel like it, Darrell huff’s “how to lie with statistics” is a great read, assuming you haven’t already…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 02:40 PM
1	"Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated advice I always assumed that the US infant mortality was due to a lack of healthcare access for so many. I hadn’t heard about Swedens rape though, do you have a source for that? I’m not saying I don’t believe you, it’s just that what you’re saying flies in the face of my whole worldview.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 02:25 PM
1	"Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated advice Ah I see. I am from the southern US and dream of one day being able to live in Scandinavia. Perhaps the young people are different? It seems that younger folks are more tolerant to me at least. Regardless, thanks for your input. I guess I’ll have to see for myself if I like being there. I note that those countries have super high ratings on the happiness index. Why do you think that is?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 02:12 PM
1	"Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated advice I’m sorry to hear you haven’t liked it. Could you talk a little bit more about your experience? I’ve always assumed that it was an amazing place to live, relative to the US at least.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 01:34 PM
1	"Just get a social circle bro" is very outdated advice What country is this if you don’t mind me asking?	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/09/22 05:41 AM
1	How do normal people pair off? I can see that. You’d have to keep your finances separate for it to work, and things could get weird if one partner ran into an emergency, etc.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/07/22 05:51 AM
1	Flaws of the 80/20 rule Thank you for your advice. I do lift weights already, which has done wonders for my confidence so far. I also hope that I’ll grow out of gaming so much when I’m happy with where I live. I spend so much time gaming because I hate where I live and can’t relate to my neighbors (they hold me in disdain for my life choices).	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/22 06:32 PM
2	Flaws of the 80/20 rule Somewhat overweight, love gaming, have beards, short to average height and a very normal, boring job. You did not have to call me out like this lmao 💀	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/07/22 05:42 PM
1	How do normal people pair off? I completely agree. Im a child free FIRE guy and finding women who are interested in that kind of lifestyle is incredibly difficult. It doesn’t help that I live in the Bible Belt, USA. I think our demographic is just extremely small, so no need to feel bad for being single.	/r/PurplePillDebate	02/07/22 10:13 PM
1	Dating for men is not that hard as you make it seem to be I’m not sure if you are athletically inclined, but I can say that BJJ has been great for me. I can say from experience that the people you meet there are incredibly welcoming/polite. You also get very comfortable being in extremely close contact with people (obviously). I think for me it has also impacted my social life outside of the sport as I don’t really feel physically intimidated by anyone anymore.	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/05/22 03:13 PM
3	If you're fat, there's no point in complaining about not finding any thin girls to date. Hmm, can you liquidize your calorie intake? I've struggled similarly to you (went from 115lbs at 18 to 195lbs at 22 and hit plateaus of horrible nausea/discomfort every 10 pounds gained or so). Tapioca powder worked like a dream for me. With it, I could get down 1500 calories or so in roughly 6 cups of liquid.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/22 10:17 PM
15	If you're fat, there's no point in complaining about not finding any thin girls to date. No such thing. You just need to eat more. You’re obviously not eating “thousands of good calories per day” if you’re still 175.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/05/22 01:59 PM