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Abusive people don't start out abusive. They start out kind and loving and supportive. After you're trapped, they start dropping the mask. Most commonly, abusers drop their mask only after marriage or pregnancy. But there are plenty of other times they might drop it (e.g., you lose your job). This is the biggest reason why it's dangerous to become a 'trad wife:' without the financial means to escape, you very quickly become a prisoner. If he's consuming red pill content, he's actively consuming …
/r/ExRedPill17/06/26 11:57 PM
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Not only debunked, but debunked by the person who popularized it, David Mech. But it had already entered public consciousness by the time he realized his mistake. He even tried to get the publisher to stop printing his book. But they refused and people continue to buy it.
/r/ExRedPill12/11/22 06:14 PM
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Or unless you're willing to work on whatever the issue is. Which is probably better than paying. At least if you're hoping for validation.
/r/ExRedPill12/05/22 10:00 AM
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I recommend Milton Mayeroff's On Caring. It can help you understand the psychological factors involved in clear language. We have this (extremely toxic) belief in rugged individualism in our culture, but, when you dig down past the surface, you find that it's all a mirage. Even the people in those reality shows where people supposedly are completely self-sufficient, there's more going on than we see. No one in our society is truly independent, and the fact that we are blind to the connections be…
/r/ExRedPill18/04/22 11:10 PM
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Okay, first things first: I've had several women tell me that the only time they've ever not been treated badly for approaching a guy was when they were drunk or pretending to be drunk. So women are very hesitant to hit on men. Secondly, women are not a monolith, just like men aren't. Dispel that lie from your life asap. Third, online dating is harder if you're less attractive, but not impossible. The best thing to do is put a lot of effort into your OkCupid profile, and then start liking the wo…
/r/ExRedPill31/01/22 09:20 PM
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Fun fact: most is still not all.
/r/ExRedPill10/11/20 05:20 PM
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What were you talking about then? Can a man "lower his standards" to have sex whenever he wants? I doubt that. So it's about looks. Same as the 80/20 thing on tinder. Quite frankly, dating or hooking up with a guy even half as toxic and misogynistic as you are would involve very low standards, imo. Tell them to download tinder. I legit don't think a woman can be incel. Been there, done that. And, just so you know, the argument from incredulity is a fallacy and not the kind of logical argument yo…
/r/ExRedPill10/11/20 11:41 AM
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I like how you say "if they lower their standards" but then claim incels are shallow. Why do you assume that all standards are about looks? That seems like a pretty shallow take to me, ngl. women who calim to can't find someone to have sex with are volcels You are just outright wrong. I know several women who are involuntarily celibate. They just haven't created a misandristic movement blaming men for their struggles. That's common sense. "Common sense" is not fact. And what many take as common …
/r/ExRedPill10/11/20 09:07 AM
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One of the problems with the incel position is that it is factually incorrect. Some, possibly even many, women can have sex whenever they want (as long as they are willing to lower their standards far enough). But not all. Never all. Incels take the situation for those women who have an easy time (if they lower their standards), and then wonder why they do not have things as easy as those women. Meanwhile, those same incels often have very high, very superficial, standards. And they never even c…
/r/ExRedPill10/11/20 07:29 AM
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