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As an a average looking girl. I can say with confidence that my fellow average looking girls are not sex deprived.
/r/askTRP03/03/18 07:27 PM
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It’s very hot where I live so swimming is my favourite but I do enjoy other physical activists as well.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/18 07:15 PM
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I grew up in a traditional family. My Dad taught my brother to swim by pushing him in the deep end. He took the exact opposite approach with me. In the the end we both learned to swim. We are doing fine and love our Dad.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/18 05:51 PM
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I daydream because there is a hopeless romantic in me. It's part of my personality. That part of my personality also helps me in other artistic pursuits such as writing, drama etc. I also swim regularly. It clears my head. You will find activities that you enjoy as much daydreaming. Do those activities more. Nurture those parts of you.
/r/RedPillWomen28/02/18 07:26 AM
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I know how you feel. I have been daydreaming about wedding and kids since I was 5. I also love fanfiction and "trashy" romance novels. There is nothing wrong with this. Mr.Perfect wants Ms.Perfect. He doesn't want to save the awkward plain Jane from her miserable life. That's a dream you should give up on. It will only bring suffering. You can't change the world but you can change yourself to become a more interesting person. A person with interests, hobbies, financial security etc.
/r/RedPillWomen27/02/18 10:38 AM
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Can I just say that you two are actual couple goals and I love reading about your relationship. Totally not trying to be a creep.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/18 08:19 AM
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Dodged a bullet. He sounds irrational.
/r/RedPillWomen24/02/18 02:55 PM
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You can't just say a statement is wrong without explaining why it's wrong. At least tell me where I can look to understand your reasoning.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/18 07:25 PM
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I am just stating my observation and possible hypothesis for the behavior. I don't know what men really think. The reasons I stated for not being a pursuer always existed so it cannot be the reason why men suddenly don't want to be the pursuers. I don't understand what you think I am wrong about.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/18 07:10 PM
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I am a woman.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/18 07:01 PM
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Men can and still do most of the chasing. I think men aren't bothering with relationships because they can get sex without it. There is less incentive to marry or even be in a committed relationship. Only the most beta male have given up on women completely.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/18 06:58 PM
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I have asked out guys twice. One of them didn't work. He was still hung up over his ex. The other was more attracted to my best friend. I worked hard. I planned dates. It was so much effort but it led nowhere because I ended up resenting the relationship. Letting the guys be the chaser works. Because I know they want me. It allows me to do the selection. I don't have to deal with the pain of rejection and all that crap. Why chase men who are not interested when you can be with a man who absolute…
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/18 06:44 PM
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Asking the guy out sets the wrong precedent. I don't really think it's the red pill women way. If you still want to do it. Be straight forward.
/r/RedPillWomen16/02/18 03:22 PM
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The last part is so true! I have noticed it too. If you want to see what men prefer physically, observe the wives and girlfriends of men at top of the dominance hierarchy. They are the ones who get to choose.
/r/RedPillWomen14/02/18 07:02 AM
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Around him I feel warmth in my core. I feel like I am napping on a hammock on a breezy summer day.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/18 04:02 PM
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You deliberately mislead a guy. That's not being a selector. That's being a b*itch.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/18 03:51 PM
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If I am taking him out for his birthday then I pay. Almost all other times he pays. We are both students so I really can’t expect him to pay all the time even if he insists he can. We haven’t ever divided as such, but he’s very generous with money so it all works out.
/r/RedPillWomen31/01/18 05:30 AM
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It won’t make you unattractive. Actually, I think having these interests will make you more attractive. Best of the both worlds. Besides it’s not like you can sit down and change your interests. Don’t be argumentative. It’s not pleasant in a male or a female. Debating viewpoints and shoving your views are two different things.
/r/RedPillWomen22/01/18 12:22 PM
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If you have the money go for it. Otherwise save up and then go for it. Teeth make a huge difference in appearance.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/18 06:13 PM
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I am very short so 1200 is good enough for me but you are right.
/r/RedPillWomen11/12/17 01:59 AM
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Limit your calories to 1200. You can have whatever you want just try to limit the calories at first. After that you can continue decreasing your sugar intake etc. and add exercise. For weight loss, it is important to build healthy habits. I was struck at a BMI of 24. Not exactly overweight but I looked chubby. This helped me a lot. Now I am slim and working on toning up.
/r/RedPillWomen10/12/17 02:14 PM
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Not a wife yet, but I love it when my boyfriend praises my cooking to his friends.
/r/RedPillWomen09/12/17 06:01 AM
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This was a fun read. MV is basically SMV+MMV but PU is a new metric to me(though an old concept.) I am adopting it.
/r/RedPillWomen30/11/17 03:22 PM
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Be more cheerful. If you are very shy, just start with smiling at more people. You’ll be surprised by how often people approach you if you do that.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/17 12:33 AM
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Nice. If you can maintain attraction to a beta man then you should because they are very caring and loving. Most women however are just not attracted to them. What made you choose him at first?
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/17 10:44 AM
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If I were you, I wouldn't ask him. Try to forge a relationship beyond sex. Ease him into the type of relationship you want. If he's receptive to your non sexual advances. Yay! If not, it's not going to work how you want it to work. You're not going to get a relationship from a guy if he's not emotionally invested in you. There are few posts around here about emotional hook point. Take a look at them.
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/17 06:41 PM
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That's why casual sex isn't recommended. Women are more likely to catch the feels than men. If the guy you are seeing is plating many women and has done so for long. Give up. You are not going to change his mind. If his n count is low and he is only having sex with you at the moment. Then it's more likely to develop into an exclusive relationship. Show your RMV qualities so he sees you as more than a fling. Don't give an ultimatum. It doesn't work and if it works you are likely to lose respect f…
/r/RedPillWomen31/10/17 10:20 AM
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I am against sending nudes to anyone, even if we are dating. It's just risky and demeaning.
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/17 08:10 AM
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In the modern world, hell yeah!
/r/RedPillWomen14/06/17 08:45 AM
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It's reddit birthday as in she joined reddit 1 year ago on this day.
/r/RedPillWomen28/05/17 10:52 AM
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Such rigid plans will not serve you well. Just develop some solid principles that you are willing to adhere to when worse comes to worst. Be open to possibilities and guys. Things happen. I like your plan but the chances of it working are sickeningly low(I know, I made a plan like that at 17)
/r/RedPillWomen27/05/17 05:07 PM
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I don't even remember how many alts I have at this point haha
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/17 08:06 AM
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Can I upvote this a million times? haha xD
/r/RedPillWomen20/05/17 01:11 PM
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It was a month ago. Something silly that I don't even remember anymore.
/r/RedPillWives19/05/17 08:27 PM
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There is a strict hierarchy in Korean culture. If you have a contradictory opinion to someone above you in the hierarchy(boss, husband, parents etc.), you don't express it explicitly. If you think it is important enough then you express it softly(I don't know how exactly because I am not Korean) It's a cultural thing. I wouldn't recommend acting like this with an American man because he would think you're crazy and have no opinion of your own.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/17 04:33 PM
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Depending on the tone of your voice, he might constitute follow up questions as disagreement. Did this issue come up after marriage or did he always act like this? If it came up after marriage maybe something else is bothering him. Talk to him about how and why it is making you uncomfortable. If he's always been like this. He's unlikely to change now.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/17 06:07 AM
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From my experience, that's how it goes in Asian culture. You don't disagree with husband candidly. This is one of those issues with cross-cultural relationship. One of you has to the adopt the cultural mannerism. They live in Korea so it makes sense for her to learn the cultural mannerism and understand the cues. Edit : This article is tongue in cheek but it still illustrates my point. https://qz.com/117519/how-different-cultures-say-i-disagree/
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/17 04:55 AM
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You can set up a VPN if you're feeling paranoid but I highly doubt these Gender Studies feminist know what IP even is.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/17 02:16 AM
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Nod your head and agree with whatever he's saying. If you can give some points supporting his views. Trivial things are not worth the fight.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/17 02:14 AM
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Discord is a better idea. The chances of being doxxed are also slim.
/r/RedPillWomen18/05/17 05:33 PM
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We can help you better if you share why you think he's committed to you.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/17 12:09 PM
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This is not a situation you want to be in. If your current partner expresses feelings of love for an ex or some other woman. You should reevaluate your own position with him. Men are the gatekeepers of commitment. Your boyfriend sounds like the male version of Alpha Widow. He still wants her. Not you.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/17 10:51 AM
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I am planning to check out Tripiṭaka once I am done with the Upanishads. I also want to read the Vedas(sometime in future). Upanishads are really fascinating so I am taking my time with them.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/17 10:40 AM
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I like to read spiritual texts and meditate on them. So far I have read the Bible, quran, bhagvad gita and various other texts.
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/17 09:41 AM
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You can consider yourself whatever you want but it's not right to consider yourself a feminist and an RPW.
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/17 05:45 AM
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I am not even married and this is still exciting!
/r/RedPillWomen10/05/17 12:57 AM
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I used to hate dating but I learned to like it. It's really fun to get to know someone. The key is to focus on your date and not how you're looking or acting. Listening is a very attractive quality. You could also try learning non-verbal communication, body language etc once you get over your fears. If you haven't read How to make friends and influence people by Dale Carnegie, then READ IT! It changed how I interact with people.
/r/RedPillWomen09/05/17 10:17 PM
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You're right! I have few healthy dishes in mind that he really likes :)
/r/RedPillWives07/05/17 06:02 AM
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Thank you! I am going to make myself useful and just make his life easier.
/r/RedPillWives06/05/17 05:53 PM
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My boyfriend has some important exams coming up that will affect his future career. I don't know how to support him. I think I should give him some space so that he can study more but he has always said that being with me is very relaxing for him. We don't live together so meeting up takes time. Help? Edit : Added some words that I missed xD
/r/RedPillWives06/05/17 04:10 PM
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YES!!!
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/17 03:52 PM
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That's a good point. It takes around 10 years to become a doctor. It's similar for other high paying careers. So say a woman takes this career and then she has to leave it for at least 5 years when she has a kid(because kids need at least one parent and women tend to marry up). 5 years are long enough for her training to be pretty much useless in a high paying career because they also tend to be very dynamic. Financial Independence is very difficult for a woman to keep if she also wants a tradit…
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/17 06:17 PM
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Maybe you should get to know his views about women in general because most men from TRP are very bitter. Show him some taste of his own medicine and see how he takes it.
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/17 08:31 AM
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I found that third one on this blog. Did he actually say that? https://heartiste.wordpress.com/2009/08/13/relationship-game-week-agree-and-amplify/
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/17 07:57 AM
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Children are a huge investment. Women should only have children when they fully understand the struggle that comes with it. A lot of struggle comes with high paying careers as well. I have personally found that women are more willing to be caretakers than workers and men are more willing to be workers than caretakers. You can't be both at the same time. A traditional relationship works well because of this naturally preferred dynamic. There are women who are excellent in their chosen field and t…
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/17 04:26 PM
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You can't control anyone(unless you're a REALLY good manipulator haha) so #2 should be, relinquish control of people.
/r/RedPillWives03/05/17 03:57 PM
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It's sandal season! Definitely fulfilling this goal :)
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/17 02:37 PM
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I am looking forward to it!!
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/17 10:24 AM
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Hi! These are my goals for the month of May: Lose 10lbs Exercise 3 times a week(I always exercise on weekends so just have to find some time during the week) Get a pedicure(Is this a goal? I have never got one before and I really want to try it)
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/17 09:51 PM
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He doesn't sound like Captain material. Too many mixed signals. I second ThatStephordGal.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/17 04:20 PM
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Virgin here! I have thought a lot about this. I am not going to have sex with a guy unless I feel he's emotionally invested in me. So no one night stands or friends with benefits bullshit.
/r/RedPillWomen30/04/17 04:12 PM
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