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How did you come to understand what the red pill was? What brought you to the realization that you ex was red pilled?
/r/ExRedPill11/06/22 09:29 PM
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I’m sorry there is nothing you can do until he comes to the realization himself.
/r/ExRedPill24/05/22 08:20 AM
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You lack a sense of self! That’s what’s holding you back!!
/r/ExRedPill07/05/22 12:24 PM
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How rid you know you’ve been affected by men like this (who follow the red pill)?
/r/ExRedPill04/05/22 11:04 PM
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How rid you know you’ve been affected by men like this (who follow the red pill)?
/r/ExRedPill04/05/22 11:04 PM
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Can you read?!!! Read the entire description before you start showing your ignorance. You need a lot of help sir! My post shows how you can start finding help. You need a lot of it sir! If you don't want to follow it don't come here and show us how f'd up you are. Red Pill is not a system, you've been brainwashed, and it's what I'm trying to point out. It's also the main purpose of this sub dummy!
/r/ExRedPill30/04/22 11:48 AM
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It’s how you approach that matters
/r/ExRedPill01/04/22 09:30 PM
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I unlearned this stuff, it took a while and complete dedication, but I did. I am happy in a relationship now. I recommend seeing a therapist as soon as possible. I wish someone had told me this earlier. A more affordable website to check first is BetterHelp; that’s where I found a therapist, and my recovery happened quickly. I wish you well in your recovery, brother; the journey starts now!
/r/ExRedPill05/03/22 05:02 AM
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It took me 4 serious months of work, that’s all it takes to see real change. But it happened because I decide enough was enough that you’re right!
/r/ExRedPill07/12/21 04:14 AM
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Man you’re only 21!!! Stop rushing life and stop comparisons. Work on yourself brother and everything will workout!!
/r/seduction21/10/21 08:58 AM
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No, that’s not the case. I was in the same boat as you and a therapist helped me, look at my previous posts. I recommend you try it. At least try and see, what’s the worst that could happen? It’s what I did and I don’t regret it even once.
/r/ExRedPill17/10/21 09:32 PM
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Talk to a therapist
/r/ExRedPill17/10/21 09:24 PM
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Yes I did. I now go out alone. Go to restaurant's alone I'm not afraid of crowds. I just face it without giving it thought and it all works out. I gotta add I had help working with a therapist through this process. I talked to him every week. I still have therapy but instead of doing it weekly I do it monthly now and eventually I won't have to any more. I'd recommend betterhelp.com a cheaper solution to therapy, choose either a male or a female therapist either one you want. I chose a male mysel…
/r/ExRedPill11/10/21 09:47 AM
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To become better you gotta face that sh*t. Talk to women, flirt with women, make them smile, blush, look them in the eye. It won't be easy at first but you become better unconsciously over time and you don't even know it. I was the same way, look at my previous post in the sub. I'm glad to say I'm not the same anymore. Brother you can do it, I promise you can. It's in you already. Just go out and do it. I hope this helps. It's not going to be easy at first. But it will all work out in the end I …
/r/ExRedPill11/10/21 08:26 AM
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Social status matters not only to women but everybody.
/r/ExRedPill03/10/21 01:23 PM
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I took up the redpill when I was talking to this beautiful girl I had just met, I was trying to find ways online on how I can lead it to sex. Social pressure also played a part, most of my friends were getting laid.
/r/ExRedPill03/10/21 01:21 PM
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That's the brainwashing . It's crazy they gotta put a label on it smh
/r/ExRedPill30/09/21 02:34 PM
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Well put!
/r/ExRedPill29/09/21 05:42 PM
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When you follow trp bs you are essentially trying to be like someone else and not yourself. Someone is telling you what to do instead of you doing what you wanna do to bring your fulfillment. Women won't sleep or date a guy who is trying to be like someone else.
/r/ExRedPill29/09/21 01:25 PM
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Are you really?
/r/ExRedPill29/09/21 12:02 PM
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Why do you care?
/r/ExRedPill27/09/21 01:03 PM
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What?! No worries dude! You dont have to listen to me. Do your thing.
/r/ExRedPill18/09/21 02:15 PM
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Yo please! Wrong sub! We are trying to get away from all this brainwashing sir!!
/r/ExRedPill12/09/21 03:12 PM
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This is not a political sub like you said earlier!!
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 10:54 AM
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Sounds like a case of lost identity. You need to get in line with your self brother. I recommend starting with a therapist.
/r/ExRedPill03/09/21 10:52 AM
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Dude! Stop looking outside yourself for solutions. This is where the problem begins at the end you find yourself in another cult-like movement. All the answers are within you and I ask that you find it inside of you. Work on becoming the best version of yourself. Break/face those mental barriers and get to where you need to be. Stop running away. I've done it!! You won't be free until you find your true self. This is the alternative to the Red pill.
/r/ExRedPill16/08/21 12:08 PM
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How long has it been since you left?
/r/ExRedPill30/07/21 10:21 AM
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I had the same issue. You can check my previous posts on this sub. The only way to fix this is to FACE YOUR FEARS and learn how to overcome them there is no way around it. Go out there and interact with as many women as possible. It's not easy, dealing with the anxiety but slowly but surely you will get better guarantee. I'm way better now and my confidence is through the roof.
/r/ExRedPill06/07/21 01:12 PM
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I'm a guy and i second this.
/r/ExRedPill01/07/21 09:26 AM
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What are they?
/r/ExRedPill02/06/21 12:03 PM
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How is this misdirection? A happy and stable life comes from being a better version of yourself always improving yourself, knowing you deeper than you know anything else. I can talk about this all day haha. That's what I'm trying to say, sorry if you misunderstood.
/r/ExRedPill16/05/21 03:43 PM
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Embrace your insecurities and as soon as you can share them too. .
/r/ExRedPill16/05/21 12:50 PM
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And this comes by focusing on your self brother! By making sure you are the best version of yourself in all aspects.
/r/ExRedPill16/05/21 12:24 PM
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Lets gooo!
/r/ExRedPill09/05/21 09:59 PM
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Love this!!
/r/ExRedPill07/05/21 12:04 PM
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I'm a guy!
/r/ExRedPill05/05/21 02:34 PM
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I'm a guy! What are you talking about?
/r/ExRedPill05/05/21 02:33 PM
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There is nothing like female behavior/nature, that's the rp brainwashing I'm talking about, trying to make you give a f*vk about what women do. I ask that you go do your research on the book before posting this ignorance!
/r/ExRedPill05/05/21 12:27 PM
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This is exactly the point. Don't prove yourself to anybody. Then you will love self improvement knowing its all about you and your winnings. Why should you care what ANYBODY else thinks?
/r/ExRedPill05/05/21 07:04 AM
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Check out my latest post on the sub about why you shouldn't care!
/r/ExRedPill05/05/21 06:40 AM
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Why do dudes care so much about what women or other people do?
/r/ExRedPill05/05/21 04:34 AM
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They are all great. Another youtuber that has helped me has been the Man Mindset by Steve Dean Williams, he even did a show with the Bulldog Mindset sometime last month. Check him out
/r/ExRedPill08/04/21 11:42 PM
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I recommend watching the entire video and checking out his other videos as well.
/r/ExRedPill07/04/21 09:19 AM
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Nothing about TRP is correct. The honest truth is that TRP just made me insecure about myself and i hate it. I feel like i have lost my identity as a male. Everything about it is so feminine and opposite of what being masculine is and i hate it. I'm scared im turning into a little bi**h. A real man or 'alpha' shouldn't care about care about who they are and pleasing anybody else. They have utmost belief in themselves always. This is what i had and I'm craving every inch of it right now!!
/r/ExRedPill07/04/21 08:30 AM
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I was in the same shoes, what really helped me at first was taking accountability, and second is I started a business about a year ago and I'm making more money than ever before which has given me security and which has led to my confidence. Confidence is key here. I would recommend building up your confidence no matter how you do it, and all this won't matter.
/r/ExRedPill21/03/21 04:44 AM
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True! Accountabilty is actually the first step.
/r/ExRedPill20/03/21 05:20 PM
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This is exactly it!
/r/ExRedPill06/03/21 12:55 PM
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Yeah
/r/ExRedPill03/03/21 04:44 PM
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For sure! It all starts with baby steps. As well take full responsibility with everything going on within you life. If you realize that you can change every situation in your life without blaming anybody, then at that point you start to gain confidence.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/21 10:16 PM
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By taking personal accountability. Everything that you do is your fault.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/21 10:12 PM
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It's nice to see that you actually took accountability instead of blaming women. This is my main problem with TRP. If only everybody took accountability...
/r/ExRedPill02/03/21 10:09 PM
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You need confidence. Work on becoming a better version of yourself bro! You will build confidence, this is the only way out of this!
/r/ExRedPill24/02/21 06:47 AM
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EASY. Just don't be idle. An idle mind is the devil's workshop. I don't watch porn or masturbate aton anymore (1nce in 3 weeks), I don't have sex either :). Biggest reason for this i can say is because i stay busy. Then discipline follows after that.
/r/ExRedPill05/01/21 01:07 AM
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David Tian seems to be a good resource to, he's been through this. I recommend you check him out.
/r/ExRedPill01/12/20 06:50 PM
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Clear watch/search history, start afresh on youtube as long as you do not look up RP content you should be fine. That's what helped me
/r/ExRedPill22/11/20 06:04 PM
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This is an interesting video. I went through the same thing when i turned RP. Corey, IMO is trying to leave TRP What do you guys think?
/r/ExRedPill25/06/20 03:48 PM
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First get a purpose. Then approach each interaction with the girl genuinely. No tricks or games, no gimmicks or no hidden agenda.
/r/ExRedPill07/06/20 04:41 PM
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No your relationship is not ruined. Just send her a text apologizing for not texting her back. Acknowledge that she tried to reach out to you and you didn't respond. Then go from there.
/r/ExRedPill04/06/20 12:29 PM
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My philosophy after the red pill is to just be transparent as possible. If i have any feelings i just express it and not feel bad about it. To this point everything has been great. Just about changing my views. Full recovery is not far away!!!
/r/ExRedPill24/05/20 07:42 PM
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I suggest finding a purpose and putting full focus on it. This will stop you from analyzing too much other than your purpose. Finding what i love and working on it everyday is the best thing i ever had, this slowly shifted my mindset and i can tell I'm just a few miles away.. don't give up!!!
/r/ExRedPill23/05/20 01:27 PM
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He turned Redpill and i lost him. He will one day wake up to the realization that RP is just bs.
/r/ExRedPill19/05/20 11:43 AM
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TRP has no aspect of social dynamics in it! Prove me wrong! There is no reason for me to read up TRP for that!
/r/ExRedPill17/05/20 04:41 PM
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