| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 16 | Cold approaching for 20 days, I want to quit | yulewuha | /r/askTRP | 12/02/21 07:49 PM | |
| 10 | 5'3 Guy Approaches Woman With Success - Lookmaxing theory debunked | yulewuha | /r/askTRP | 12/01/20 02:10 AM | |
| 4 | Should you lower your standards to get more experience? | yulewuha | /r/askTRP | 03/01/21 02:26 AM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | I probably saw a girl that I really liked, but I'm not sure it's her, 4 week to do somethingThinking about it, I actually would love that, probably If I meet her would be even worse for me, thinking more about her and stuff | /r/askTRP | 05/03/21 09:59 PM |
| 1 | I probably saw a girl that I really liked, but I'm not sure it's her, 4 week to do somethingI'm doing both, whats wrong about texting an old girl, meeting up and then go and fuck other women, I just want to get this done and move on. Trust me man, I do have other options. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/21 08:10 PM |
| 3 | Trying to find my purposeYou dont need a job but need to like programming if you want to self-learn. Udemy courses are good, another good one is fullstackopen, free and with exercises. Lot of resources online, just search, but remember if you hate programming dont do it for the money. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/21 07:31 PM |
| 1 | I probably saw a girl that I really liked, but I'm not sure it's her, 4 week to do somethingTrust me man, she had that boyfriend for something like 10 years. I never told her my feelings and just want say that. I would do it for sure but seems a bit weird contacting her after years, but I think would help my mindset just to tell her how I felt. Mind you, this girl told other people I might be gay because I didnt make a move on her. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/21 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Cold approaching for 20 days, I want to quitIt's been 20 days. I wont say I'm anxious in the interaction, it's in the opening part. But yeah I need to do more, maybe instead of doing everyday I could do 2-3 days a week and do 5+ approaches, what do you think? | /r/askTRP | 13/02/21 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Cold approaching for 20 days, I want to quitI usually open with 'I thought you look very cute, I wanted to say hi". I never get bad reaction or rejections, after that I try to talk a bit about where she's from what she's doing, maybe a tease here an there and thats it. I feel my opening line is not good | /r/askTRP | 13/02/21 12:18 PM |
| 2 | Cold approaching for 20 days, I want to quitHonestly I dont find it interesting go talk to her about random topics. I'm just doing it to get better, but I see your point, I think I'm getting a bit robotic and with one goal, instead I should go with a free mind and just enjoy talking to her. | /r/askTRP | 13/02/21 12:12 PM |
| 1 | Cold approaching for 20 days, I want to quitYeah I still get pretty butthurt at rejection, I admit I need to work on that too. Yes I know the first one is always warmup, and usually doesnt go very well, I'll try to do at least 2-3 on weekends and when I have more time | /r/askTRP | 13/02/21 12:08 PM |
| 1 | Cold approaching for 20 days, I want to quitTo be honest I think that what I've been missing. Approaching is always a chore for me, but I remember in the past sometimes I used to have fun in the interaction, tease the girl, joke and all that. I think this is what's been missing lately and why I want to quit. Need to think more about my mindset and try to enjoy myself while doing it. Thanks for the perspective man, appreciate it | /r/askTRP | 13/02/21 12:00 PM |
| 3 | Cold approaching for 20 days, I want to quitThank you so much man! I just came back home because I said fuck it I'm stopping now, but I will go out and do it, even if its fucking freezing outside. God bless you brother, thanks again. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/21 09:16 PM |
| 2 | Cold approaching for 20 days, I want to quitI feel I'm pretty good at SMV, it's just that I'm thinking cold approach is a bit too forced and doing it 20 days on a row without results feels disappointing After doing 1 approach I don't feel myself to push for more. I just want to do that and get done with it | /r/askTRP | 12/02/21 08:56 PM |
| 5 | Cold approaching for 20 days, I want to quitSo I still need to approach anyways? Even if it feels pointless? Sometimes going around in the cold for 1hr to find a girl (thanks covid) and courage to talk to her it's a pain in the ass. And I did it for 20 days in a row.. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/21 08:54 PM |
| 4 | Cold approaching for 20 days, I want to quitYou are the only reply that didn't say approach anyway but approach only the women that give you signal first. I don't really agree with that (some women don't give signals even if interested in you) but I think it's 'safer' and less stressful. | /r/askTRP | 12/02/21 08:52 PM |
| 1 | Should i accept myself as an introvert or try to become an extrovert?seen as "not fun" ? by who? and why do you care? | /r/askTRP | 19/01/21 03:04 AM |
| 4 | Where to meet succesful, smart people, and those who want to live an above average life?Dont try to meet them. Keep doing your thing and moving up in life and opportunities will present | /r/askTRP | 19/01/21 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Sliding into DMs" slide in making a joke about u having cancer🤣 " Dont do this | /r/askTRP | 19/01/21 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Does meditation actually work?Try for one month, if it works for you good, if not stop doing it | /r/askTRP | 19/01/21 02:52 AM |
| 2 | Am I supposed to have any motivation to approach women beyond sex?You need to find a girl that you like and have more experiences. Keep moving forward however you feel. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 11:25 PM |
| 2 | How to manage age difference?However you are feeling right now it's ok. Be aware of your thoughts and move forward, you know what to do brother, best of luck! | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 11:23 PM |
| 4 | Girl that rejected me at school keeps talking to me.Yes above guys are right, if you like her take your shot OP. If she rejected you that means you did something wrong or she doesn't like you. You said she expressed interest so maybe you did it too early or with no confidence or idk. If you think she still might like you try again, but try not too follow her too much or become an orbiter, make her chase and all that stuff, read sidebar, she's playing games with you and making you think. You could do the same you know? If you are not interested … | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 11:20 PM |
| 2 | What to do with £40k?Look into risky investments then, but you need to study man, otherwise you are just going to gamble everything. Maybe you will double it in one day and lose everything the next week. Tons of resources online. I presume that you worked hard to get those 40k right? Now work hard trying to find the best way to make them grow. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 11:15 PM |
| 1 | How to know if your coming across an alpha male or just a narcissist with a fragile ego that’s overcompensating?You will be alpha and confident when you keep doing shit and improving yourself. Just keep doing you and doing whatever you want and whatever feels right for you. You will know if what you did was wrong or not, if it was coming from insecurity or not. And from that you will keep learning and redefining yourself and your personality. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 11:13 PM |
| 1 | I'm 18 and in a crucial stage in choosing my career. Please help!Dont listen to anybody else, if you like computers go for it, dont worry about demands its one of the best fields to get into in this time and age | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 11:08 PM |
| 1 | 23, jobless , living at home -- what to do ?Stop everything and focus full time on getting a job and a roof over your head. First get a job that you can live and save even a tiny bit with your apartment (Consider getting roomates because is cheaper). Then start doing everything else (girls, approaches, gym). Now you need to get the fuck out. Days are passing by, its your life man, you dont want to be 28 in the same place again | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 11:07 PM |
| 1 | Women who liked me years ago don’t like me anymore despite me leveling up?He gave you a fucking good answer, move on man, who knows what they think, for one reason or another they are not interested, and what do you do in this case? move on | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 11:03 PM |
| 1 | How to get past the initial job interview?Keep trying... I had the same happen to me twice, keep moving forward and keep trying, dont get attached to any jobs until you are officially hired. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 11:01 PM |
| 1 | What to do with £40k?Listen nobody but also everybody and keep researching. Depends how old are you and what time, risk you want you could do a lot of stuff. Keep researching. E.g. if you are 40yo with kids you are not gonna do risky stuff with that, so depends. But read and research a lot before doing something | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 10:58 PM |
| 2 | I may be pushing too hard with girls. Advice?" I do my very best to not exhibit any beta-male characteristics. Which may be why Im not getting anything out of this. " Read what you wrote. Thats the wrong mindset, you shouldnt do your best to act a certain way. You act however you want. You want to say some cheesy and beta shit? Say it, if it doesnt work you'll remember the lesson trust me. Dont follow other people definition of alpha, say whatever the fuck you want and act however you want. You are being someone else and acting weird and… | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 10:55 PM |
| 2 | How to not get stuck in ORBITER LAND?Texting doesnt necessary put you there. Its your mindset that puts you there. All comes from your head. Read sidebar and work on yourself, 360, all areas of life and keep approaching/talking to women online or whenever you can find them. | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 10:50 PM |
| 2 | Authenticity and Cold approachI am trying to make a good impression. I am trying to become better at charming women. This, also look at what you wrote OP. You need to change your mindset, these phrases will only harm you in the long term. You need to approach and aknowledge that you dont have experience and are inautenthic, but you are working to get better and you will get better. As this guy said you need to keep approaching, but also dont forget your mindset, be aware whats going through your brain, and know that's a wr… | /r/askTRP | 17/01/21 10:48 PM |
| 7 | How do I get people to stop talking over me/interrupting me?Talk louder and with more conviction. Like If you are telling a story and someone cuts you off and start speaking, talk a bit louder than him and act if he wasnt speaking at all. You need to be confident and 100% sure of yourself when you do it. Requires practice but from now on do it. Remember though its all about your mindset, if you perceive that what you are saying is more important and high value he will shut up and everyone will listen to you. Requires work depending on your starting poi… | /r/askTRP | 05/01/21 07:53 PM |
| -2 | 5'3 Guy Approaches Woman With Success - Lookmaxing theory debunkedWhat matters then? | /r/askTRP | 12/01/20 03:09 AM |
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