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Thanks for the advice! I ended up waiting on it and he initiated so we're all good. I appreciate you bringing me back to Earth haha!
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/18 12:54 AM
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Thanks! That's what I did and he initiated!
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/18 12:53 AM
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Thank you! That reassured me and I ended up just waiting on it. He texted me the next day and set up plans to see me, so I'm glad I didn't act on it.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/18 12:53 AM
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Honestly I might give Forest a try. I've gotten off all social media but I'm still struggling with being nervous about texts as you can see. Thanks for the suggestion!
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/18 12:52 AM
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LOL you were 100% right. I overreacted but everything's all good now! Thanks for the laugh.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/18 12:51 AM
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Wow, that's so cool to hear that we've basically been on parallel tracks! I don't have a long term bf yet, but I started to go out with someone recently completely organically instead of relying on apps, which is a first for me! It's been cool so far! Lol I cringe looking back too - glad we're both past that!
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/18 12:50 AM
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Thanks! I definitely overreacted. He replied the next day and things are all good.
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/18 12:49 AM
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I also recommend Stylenanda if you're willing to pay for international shipping!
/r/RedPillWomen08/09/18 12:46 AM
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I agree with this. I wouldn't mind so much if they were just overweight and older, and sometimes mental issues unfold only when you're pretty deep into the relationship. It's the craigslist part that is super sketchy to me, and I'd be wary of that. Enough to consider nexting him.
/r/RedPillWomen07/09/18 06:29 PM
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You're right! Thanks for the advice! It'll be okay to double text in a day or two, right?
/r/RedPillWomen03/09/18 11:21 PM
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I'm back at college so I don't have a lot of time to prep and make my meals anymore, sadly. I ended up making fajitas and chicken with cilantro rice yesterday, which took me around an hour to make but was super good!
/r/RedPillWomen26/08/18 07:11 AM
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I’ve rarely been hit on randomly. Most of the time, it’s just a hi. My most attractive and beautiful friends (we’re talking strictly physically) all rarely get hit on as well. To give context, all my friends and I are in a big university in a major coastal city. My shy friends are quite inexperienced and don’t interact much with men. My more extroverted friends, the ones who start conversations with everyone and are naturally flirty, are way luckier with men and have tons who are after them. Don…
/r/RedPillWomen15/08/18 06:35 PM
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I’m currently at college right now (in quite a liberal state) and I found many like-minded friends through chance! My childhood friends are blue-pilled and some are cc riders, and even though I would never throw away our nearly decade-long friendship, I kind of knew in my gut I wasn’t trying to be best friends with people who were so different from me in college. I ended up meeting a few of my closer friends, two well-raised and interesting women, through random assignment rooming and sitting ne…
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/18 06:40 PM
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Yeah, I definitely agree! There have been many men who I thought was drop dead gorgeous before I met them, only to be utterly disappointed when they spoke and made me realized we have nothing in common. The opposite has been true as well - I wasn't that attracted to my first boyfriend looks-wise, but after getting close to him as friends for about a year, I found myself pretty head over heels! Eventually I even wondered if he was out of my league because he was so intelligent and charming to me.
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/18 08:17 AM
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Thanks for sharing these articles! I've never heard of Susan Patton but she definitely preaches a lot of what RPW does! She seems very intelligent and well-spoken, so I'll keep looking into her. I've actually made a previous post about how to meet men in college, haha! As an introvert, it was a little difficult to put myself out there and express my interest to the very eligible men around me. Online dating helped ( I set the location diameter small enough so that it only covered my university's…
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/18 08:12 AM
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I think you're right! I can definitely see a woman scanning the room to pick out the best available man, while a man would compare all the women to their preferred ideal type and see who ticks all the right boxes physically. But I still believe that personality is quite important for both sexes too! Hm, then it might be a correlational issue and not a causation issue! Thanks for pointing this out!
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/18 07:58 AM
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I've tried online dating too, and I definitely don't regret the experience at all. I met a few decent men (at different times, of course) through online dating who taught me a lot about myself and what I'm looking for in a serious relationship. Though the seemingly unlimited options do make it easier for people to hold out for something better, I found that once I went through a few first dates and found a person I really liked, it was easy to stick to them. It was just the process of sorting th…
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/18 07:55 AM
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Yeah, I think it's the fact that a good majority of people who attend graduate school (maybe besides for social work and other similar fields) are entering into careers that benefit those with masculine personality traits. But I can definitely see the possibility for women in these masculine-oriented fields who don't have personality defects that inhibit their dating life because they can separate their work from their personal life or because they chose a field post-grad school that allowed the…
/r/RedPillWomen12/08/18 07:44 AM
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Hey thank you so much! I'll definitely do this next time I host!
/r/RedPillWomen14/07/18 03:52 AM
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Learn and try 5 new recipes. Exercise 3 times a week and stretch twice a day. Finish the book I've started and start another. Complete 1 painting.
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/18 02:00 AM
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I've never had a situation like yours, but if I had I'd be equally as frustrated as you. I think if you say it in a way that makes it sound like you want him to do it because you just want him very badly, it wouldn't come off bitchy at all. In fact, I think just you asking for it can be very sexy to men! Something like "____, just the thought of you going down on me makes me so hot and heavy. Please baby, can you help me with that?" If he seems uncomfortable or hesitant, then I would drop it tha…
/r/RedPillWomen29/06/18 09:43 PM
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Do you ladies have any tips on how to keep all your food hot, especially if you're doing something with multiple courses? I've been getting more and more ambitious with my dinner parties and I thought I made a pretty exciting 4-course dinner that overall was pretty successful. The only thing that I didn't plan for was my steak going cold because I didn't know if I could risk reheating hit in case it becomes well-done. Any suggestions in situations like this?
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/18 05:43 AM
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Both! Before discovering RPW, I preached and agreed with BP ideals and saw nothing wrong with my friends on the CC, being super masculine, etc. However, I still never lost my virginity (I guess my nerdy HS years + super protective parents kinda saved me in the long run) and somehow never landed in a situation that was very BP. I suppose I'm glad I discovered RPW recently while I was 19. It'll keep my life in check during the most tempting years of my life, something that would be much more diffi…
/r/RedPillWomen03/06/18 06:43 AM
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I think this depends on the OP's age and this guy's age as well. If he's around or above 30, he's in the right age range to be financially stable and have enough experience to know how to take a woman out. In this case, drinks may be a little weak but still not a complete red flag in my opinion. You can also learn quite early on whether or not he is a responsible drinker this way. Plus, he could still prove you wrong during the date. If he's in his early 20's, taking someone for a decent dinner …
/r/RedPillWomen02/06/18 09:30 PM
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My nails have finally recovered after a year or 2 of working food service (constantly running your hands under water made my nails much more brittle!) so I've started to grow them out more. I didn't have time to paint them when I was at college but now that I'm on summer break, I paint them with a dusty rose color and I'd paint a light translucent shimmer over that to give them a little shimmer. Personally, I think super bright nails are a bit much on me but I have a weak spot for sexy maroon or…
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/18 03:07 AM
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Omg, we have such similar music tastes! I've been loving Kali Uchis' new record! I didn't think I would run into someone else who likes Maxine Ashley! Her song Perpetual Nights is sooooo elegant!
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/18 07:28 AM
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I love this song!
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/18 06:24 AM
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I love anything by Sade! Specifically, Is It a Crime is so beautiful to me!
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/18 06:23 AM
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I'm also wondering about discussing monogamy very early on. Sometimes I worry that bringing up monogamy on the first or second date makes it seem like I just want someone to be my boyfriend, rather than wanting HIM specifically to be my boyfriend. I wouldn't want him to think I just want a relationship and not want to actually know him and vet him first and foremost. Since men are the gatekeepers of commitment, wouldn't a high-value man be slightly turned off by a woman who is eager enough to br…
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/18 06:12 PM
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To be honest, I'm quite conflicted about how I feel about a man with a high N-count. If it's high, it diminishes his RMV and makes me think of him as a player who I could never fully trust. However, if it's moderate or slightly more than that, it shows that he has enough charisma and confidence to get multiple women to sleep with him which raises his SMV for me. But as a virgin, I tend to think that it's nearly impossible for a guy to convince his way between my thighs, but I often forget that m…
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/18 05:55 AM
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I feel you so much! When I was blue-pilled, I was embarrassed to tell my ex that I was a virgin. I thought it meant that I was undesirable and inexperienced, and was actually worried that he would leave me because of this! Funny what the blue-pill does to ya!
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/18 05:44 AM
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Haha, the ideal is that young fit girls are the apple of all men's eyes, but it's a little more difficult if you're shy! I struggle holding eye contact with cute men who walk past simply because I don't want them to think I'm creepy. The guys who I'm acquainted with and interested in usually just see me as a friend because though I'm friendly, I never have the guts to show any physical IOIs in case I ruin our friendship. This is something that I'm gonna work on though! You're right about online …
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/18 05:34 AM
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I will definitely check this film out! Thanks for the rec!
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/18 05:29 AM
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Ah, worst case scenario I'm the opposite of you! I think I'm quite photogenic but I don't know if it really translates to real life. Ya girl knows how to work them angles! That's good that you have so much more to offer than what a shallow profile shows though :) I haven't really heard that many success stories but that's because all of my friends who use dating apps are either using it for validation or hookups. I've had many close calls to success, but the test of time usually proves that they…
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/18 05:28 AM
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Wow, I never thought about it that way but it makes so much sense. I've literally become somewhat addicted to swiping, but not to talking to the people I match with. These apps run on how often you use them and stay on them, not on how much you actually connect with these people. Thanks for pointing that out!
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/18 05:26 AM
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Glad someone who struggles with shyness can verify how breaking out of your shell helps! Thanks for giving me a lil kick of hope~
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/18 05:24 AM
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Ahh, I see! I'm the opposite - I feel like I'm the one who gets friendzoned! I'm not very overt with my flirting (something I'm gonna work on) so a lot of the guys I meet in real life who I'm interested in never really get the message that I'm into them. For example, if I'm into them, I'd try to show my interest by just being friendly but never showing any physical IOIs or any escalation. Eventually we just become buddies and that's that. I became dependent on dating apps because it gave me the …
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/18 05:21 AM
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This is such a good point! A lot of the time, I end up getting enamored with the person because we have a lot of chemistry, but I didn't have a lot in common with them in terms of goals and values. For me, it was very productive in the beginning but very frustrating as the relationship progressed.
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/18 05:18 AM
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Wow 4 days?! That's amazing! I'm glad you found someone you were so compatible with! Yeah, another benefit for online dating is that it really helps you find someone who you know already has common interests in you, especially if you're using OKC. I mostly used Tinder and Bumble, which are only based on proximity and age. I set my proximity super low because I kind of wanted someone from my university as I'm a bit paranoid about meeting up with complete strangers. However, that doesn't really he…
/r/RedPillWomen05/05/18 05:16 AM
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Yes exactly! Glad you liked it!
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/18 10:22 AM
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The only guy I've met in real life and dated was my first boyfriend in high school, and we were just awkward teenagers so it didn't go amazingly lol. After that, I turned to dating apps because I never learned how to flirt without knowing they like you back. My aha moment was that the dating apps are productive in the sense that you definitely are putting yourself on the market, but were counterproductive for me because I never got to grow into a better person with better social skills. That's j…
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/18 10:21 AM
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yeah, expanding your hobbies seems like such a great way to meet new people who are interested in the same thing that you are! even if you don't necessarily meet someone to date, you'll still be better off because you're making new friends that add to your life!
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/18 10:15 AM
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I love the no-makeup makeup look too! It's definitely my everyday go-to! I used to cake my face on in high school, only to realize how bad that was for my self-esteem and self-image around my first year of college. Once I realized this, I stopped wearing makeup completely! This was good for leveling out the stability of my self-image, as I no longer felt the extreme bursts of confidence I had with a fully-beat face nor the drastic lows of taking all of that makeup off and looking at the big diff…
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/18 09:33 AM
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Definitely! I used to drink maybe .75 liters a day and my acne was atrocious. After my senior year of high school I made it a habit to drink at 2.5-3.5 liters a day, and the frequent bathroom breaks are definitely worth my acne clearing up! I'm starting to see fine lines regardless, but I think I'm overscrutinizing my face because I'm only 19 lol!
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/18 09:27 AM
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Thanks for the advice! I have a super extensive daily/nightly skincare routine which definitely helped me a lot a year or so ago (I had pretty bad acne problems). Now that my skin's cleared up acne-wise, the skincare routine doesn't really do much for my redness or dark circles (which don't get better even if I get 8 hours of sleep consistently). I definitely will consider microblading though because my brow hairs are a light gray :/ I also love your tip about not having any ugly clothes around!…
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/18 09:25 AM
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Number 1 definitely depends on the woman. For me, I show I'm interested by being very receptive to their affection. This doesn't work out too well if he isn't that naturally affectionate or is shy, unfortunately. For number 2, it is very normal, at least in my and my friends' experiences. At least with young women who are wary of their friends being dumped for being too clingy or needy, a lot of us don't want to seem this way and instead wait until we see the guy showing interest in us. Also, if…
/r/RedPillWomen02/05/18 05:42 AM
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I see! Glad you two have such a functional and healthy relationhship. Thanks for sharing and clarifying!
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/18 06:07 AM
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Okay, that makes a lot of sense then! Do guys eventually ease up on it later on in the relationship like women tend to eventually put out as the relationship gets more serious?
/r/RedPillWomen25/04/18 09:57 PM
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I definitely agree! I brought this up because I thought it was a bit silly for two people in a loving LTR to be rationing out how they show affection deliberately, but it definitely makes more sense if this rule is more about the different ways that men and women love each other. Thanks for the reply!
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/18 03:57 AM
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Hm, I see what you are saying! Maybe men and women have different ways to quantify how much love they give and receive. Good point!
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/18 03:54 AM
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Exactly! Just wanted to get other ladies' imputs on how they react to a well-known male strategy, or at least a well-known RP strategy. Definitely didn't mean for it to sound like I was finger-wagging at TRP. Obviously, it seems like it works for them; I just didn't know before posting whether or not it worked for RPW as well.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/18 03:52 AM
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that makes sense! maybe it won't seem like less because 2/3 in real life actually isn't that much less to be noticeable at all! you're right, as long as both parties are content at the end of it all, it should be fine.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/18 03:49 AM
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Love this! I feel like this solves the affection incongruence in a way that satisfies both sexes, as long as both are willing to reward their partner's affection with their own affection as well. Thanks for your thoughtful clarification :)
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/18 01:42 AM
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Not really upset, more like I was confused whether it would be productive to RPW's best interests. I feel like a good chunk of RPW wouldn't be too happy if they got less than the amount of affection they put in as well, which is why I brought it up. I just wanted to see their take on it, or if there were a good amount of women out there who are okay with that and actually think it is productive! If so, I'd want to hear that person's reasoning for feeling that way, and see if it could widen my pe…
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/18 01:34 AM
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Yeah you're right, it probably isn't productive to be even thinking about it! I just came across the topic on TRP and been thinking about it ever since. Gonna get it it outta my system sooner or later!
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/18 11:11 PM
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There are tons of video recipes on youtube that are really helpful too! I love the channel Bon Appetit!
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/18 10:53 PM
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I see! This makes a lot of sense! Thanks~
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/18 10:49 PM
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Wow, this definitely makes sense! I think this was the bit that I just wasn't getting! Ideally, I would want them to be affectionate but still like a rock. The guys that weren't affectionate enough with me were more on the nerdy side, and while I don't know if they knew anything about RP or not, if they were following this rule then it does end up not as effective as they might hope.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/18 10:49 PM
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Just to clarify, what do you mean by holding them to a higher standard? Does this mean expecting more or less affection from them than they would naturally show?
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/18 09:46 PM
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My only experience in the past has been with an ex who gave less affection than me, which eventually led me to pull away as well, and an ex who was quite affectionate, which propelled me to do the same. But I recognize that this is quite anecdotal and short-term too! I don't have much experience so I definitely won't assume that these two situations apply to everyone.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/18 09:45 PM
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I'm not dealing with this situation personally, but I was wondering more about the theory of this rule. Right now I am still in the getting-to-know them phase with someone, so this doesn't really apply yet. I really like your point about giving him breathing room and not smothering him with attention! I try my best to stay busy with my own schedule so I don't have to be clingy and expect the same from who I'm with.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/18 09:39 PM
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If a man shows too much affection, I can see myself losing a bit of respect for him. However, if a man shows less affection than I do, I definitely would just think he is not as interested or invested and would start to back off or withdraw my affection as well. Maybe I'm just a bit young and not as experienced though!
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/18 09:32 PM
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This makes sense! If he just shows his love in a diff way then it's completely okay, but it just seems a bit strange to me for a man to have to hold off on showing affection in order to keep their woman, especially if she is showing him a good amount.
/r/RedPillWomen22/04/18 09:30 PM
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So right! Of course you still need to exercise in other ways and eat healthy, but when I did that for months without the vacuum I never saw much of a difference in the size of my waist. I felt better and my arms and legs were tighter, but even as I lost some of my belly pooch I still was very ruler shaped. I'm by no means super hour-glass shaped (waist-to-hip ratio is currently at a 0.74) but before doing the vacuum, nothing could bring my waist in no matter how hard I tried. The vacuum really m…
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/18 09:00 PM
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I loooove the vaccuum! I went from a 25.5 or a 26 inch waist to a 24.4! Super easy and effective. I do this while doing a lot of weighted leg exercises to grow a booty. Since I use the Stairmaster with resistance bands for this, I think I get some cardio that way too.
/r/RedPillWomen19/04/18 08:34 PM
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Okay, we're a little different in height (I'm 5') but my ex was around 6'1" and I definitely was attracted to that but it was so awkward to do anything! Couldn't dance up on him sexily because my butt would be at his thighs and not where it counts LOL, he could only kiss me when we were sitting (or if he was super hunched over while I would be en pointe LOL) and it was a weird feeling to hold hands in public because I'd have to lift my hands a bit like a kid with their parent( ex: http://i.daily…
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/18 08:06 AM
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This!! Many of my first dates are super taken aback and pretty excited when I get the ice cream/boba/popcorn if they pay for dinner. For the actual dinner bill though, I would just make eye contact and say, "Let's split?" once. If they are all about it, then we would split. If they say they want to pay, I'll let them. Just make sure to thank them sincerely if they do end up paying the bill! You can show that you aren't just there for a free meal without making the situation awkward :)
/r/RedPillWomen16/04/18 06:33 AM
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I'm curious about what is too much IOI. Which ones would specifically turn you off? Since I'm still in my late teens and in college, I think I can get away with dressing a little more on the revealing side (legs and shoulders and midriff mostly) without it looking weird or try-hard. I usually dress this way if it's a nice day out anyways, but I don't really see it having an effect on the guys I'm semi-flirting with. Also, how do I make suggestive jokes or shoot bedroom eyes without looking super…
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/18 06:45 PM
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Okay, I'll keep trying to say hi to everyone! I guess I'm just a bit nervous about guys knowing that I'm into them because I don't want to deal with the awkwardness that'll follow if they aren't feeling me back. But just being friendly and saying hi more often doesn't seem too bad, so I'll try that! I'm glad I realized the day vs night thing! It's saved me a lot of time!
/r/RedPillWomen09/04/18 06:40 PM
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I think a big part of why it's difficult for you to get over this guy is because he's on a pedestal in your head. He's that unobtainable guy who you can't get out of your head and as he keeps sending mixed signals, it makes you feel inferior because after all that time he won't do anything that shows he's thinking about committing to you. I know it's hard, but I think you should realize your worth! You are a young, well-educated, feminine, and healthy woman who probably has lots of options. I wo…
/r/RedPillWomen05/04/18 09:45 PM
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Thank you so much for your response! Wow, I never thought that he was scared of coming off as desperate or clingy (probably since I would have swooned if he said he was, even while I claimed to want the opposite SMH). I guess fear of desperation is a two-way street! We definitely messed around a lot, but he worked way harder at pleasing me sexually than I did for him. I definitely wanted to, but I didn't want to risk getting an STD and he was still in the process of going to the doctor and getti…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/18 11:18 PM
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Thank you for your reply! When I was in nun-mode, I really focused on school and just becoming more well-read in general. I didn't date anyone then, started going to the gym, wore makeup again, and dressed more girly to make myself feel more feminine. I do feel like I'm ready to date again, but you're right about having a clear vision about what I'm looking for in a guy, so thanks for the advice! Hopefully I can get over him soon then! Edit: Also, I definitely don't think he was RP, but I do thi…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/18 11:09 PM
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Thanks for your no-nonsense reply! I really appreciate it. I guess I just never realized that a wishy-washy answer basically means no, whereas when I was BP, I thought it made me more desirable by being less clingy! Glad I know that's not the way to do it now. I don't know why I didn't push for exclusivity verbally when I cut off all the other guys I was seeing by the third date because I liked him the most. We definitely messed around a lot, but he definitely gave more than I did and I do feel …
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/18 11:03 PM
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Thanks for responding! I guess I thought he was alpha because he was really charismatic (not just with me, but with everyone around him and with my friends). Looks-wise, definitely had high SMV and had a lot of very attractive exes, who were much more conventionally attractive than I was. But yeah, I still wonder if he is a typical flakey twenty-something dude too haha. Everyone else's comments are making me realize a lot of it was my fault though, so I don't wanna keep blaming him for everythin…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/18 10:54 PM
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Thanks for the reply! This makes a lot of sense! I guess being BP made me too hesitant to express my standards and show that I was into him, even though I really was. I'll keep this in mind as I keep dating :)
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/18 10:49 PM
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Thanks for the quick reply! I guess I should have elaborated a bit more about the marriage and kids thing, but after I brought it up he ended up agreeing with me and not wanting marriage or kids as well, which makes me think he might be a plate-spinner in hindsight. Another red flag was that when I first brought up his flakiness, albeit over text since we were semi-long-distance, instead of dealing with it or trying to fix it, he didn't respond for days. This was suspicious because we usually te…
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/18 07:16 AM
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