yurnero07 Archive

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4	Are faithful men attracted to cheaters? With how terrible divorce can be for men, I see why some men are so cruel. They don’t wanna be hurt & cheated! Well there is no label on any man or woman when they are marrying. Learnt the tough way that any man, who us too faithful will get cheated because they fail to attract other woman and restrict their dgaf energy from interacting with other females. Similarly men who dgaf, they are in their natural flirtatious element with everyone they meet irrespective of the gender, giving strong signal to his partner that if she decides to sway her way, The man will not hesitate to hit the road and leave her b…	/r/Divorce_Men	16/10/25 08:34 PM
2	2 years post separation dating experience I think considering you have kids, there is no need for you to get into marriage. Because for men marriage is about having & growing your own family. I think you keep dating for the time and take care of your kids, let them have access to their mother as they grow and ensure they hve a shot on more opportunities to grow as strong individuals. In short be a better father and you will be more satisfied at the end of the journey.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/09/25 01:32 PM
10	After my divorce, I found a GF who pays me half of utility bills in cash (never asked her to do it)so I can have spending $ since I have to pay alimony for 7 more years & she knows I lost everything including life savings. Almost made me cry when she gave me cash today. 🥺 That's kind of her. But I am not sure if she is love bombing you. But I hope she is genuine. Whatever may happen, dont take money from her. Rather if you two are staying together then just divide the expenses and define the boundaries. That way she still contributes but the responsibilities are defined. And all the nest OP. I can understand how harsh it is to loose all your hard earned money to Alimony.	/r/Divorce_Men	01/09/25 07:34 PM
-1	Lack of intimacy divorce? Hey OP, I understand what you are going through. But with two kids, you have to think what is that you want the most? Happy Kids or Good Sex life? Both are important but life is such that we don't get everything. Divorces affect the kids the most. Worst part is that they will never tell how much it affects them. You will only see the signs much later in your life. I think what you are trying to search in sex, will continue to miss even if you find a sex partner. The kids won't be able to behave …	/r/Divorce_Men	06/05/25 06:51 PM
1	I had my 1st post divorce hook up You better treat that dog royally.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/01/25 08:43 PM
1	Went overseas to date women... kind of stunned really. Very well said.	/r/Divorce_Men	06/12/24 05:34 PM
13	Went overseas to date women... kind of stunned really. Exactly. I come from an Eastern nation and I have seen how Western men are milked post-marriage by these Eastern Women. Suddenly cases will be filed against the poor souls in the native Eastern nation and if the guy participates then he will be milked like crazy. The laws in these Eastern countries are way too old and are very anti-men, if you get stuck in this loop it's a nightmare. OP Women are the same everywhere, they will change the moment they get that freedom that the west offers. Women w…	/r/Divorce_Men	06/12/24 07:31 AM
3	Pack it up and sneak out today Dear Sir OP, you are very senior to me, but I feel you just need some me time and separate time with friends. Leaving such a caring and calm or boring partner is a WRONG thought and decision. Feel free to develop your own routine and circle of friends. You need to enjoy yourself, you have every right to do so. Plan an all Men trip. Then come back to your boring life. Trust me this will help you to appreciate both sides of life. Also this will make her miss you a bit and she may consider joining …	/r/Divorce_Men	25/08/24 02:47 PM
6	Red flags - avoid them not so easy. OP your story helps me understand what bullet am about to dodge. Thanks for sharing with us.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/08/24 12:48 PM
13	Wife left me after 6 years of marriage Hey OP, I am sorry for what you are going through. I hope you will be able to move on soon. However, from what I read, it felt that you made her your life's goal i.e. you invested in her too much than she invested in you. As men, it's difficult, but important to stay busy with your own goals and let the other person take care of their own mess. But then she was your wife and I as a man you did everything to provide for her. Sometimes they dont deserve us and by the time they realise it's too lat…	/r/Divorce_Men	20/08/24 08:50 PM
1	Finally choosing myself Lol 😂	/r/Divorce_Men	05/08/24 07:03 PM
1	Finally choosing myself Interesting take. I would really like to know your take on the below scenario: So let's say a Woman right after marriage forces(read mental abuse) the man for Divorce.....and right at the end of the Divorce she takes a U-Turn and does not want Divorce.....So what do you think the man should do in this case? Shall he still Divorce his wife(contested on grounds of mental cruelty) or the man should reconcile with her to avoid the grave sin?	/r/Divorce_Men	05/08/24 08:49 AM
1	Finally choosing myself But punishments is result of sin....why it's a grave sin? Is it a grave sin to divorce a man?	/r/Divorce_Men	03/08/24 03:31 PM
2	Finally choosing myself Thanks for this. You speak out of experience. I am going through something similar as the OP.	/r/Divorce_Men	02/08/24 03:14 PM
1	Finally choosing myself Why it's a sin?	/r/Divorce_Men	02/08/24 03:13 PM
3	Divorcing an okay marriage OP if you have a child then you should think twice. It will be really hard for the kid. It's their future that's gonna take the hit. Even if kids are let's say older, they still find it very hard to accept. They will feel why it happens with them when they look at other families. Better to go for counselling and somehow get your wife's hands off the drinks. I know it's a tough challenge... I think in your case you need to weigh between two things: 1. The future impact on your kid. 2. The current…	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/24 07:56 PM
13	Nothing is sacred anymore OP never ever date anyone from your workplace...no matter how much they hit on you. It always ends nasty.	/r/Divorce_Men	27/07/24 07:18 PM
2	How long did it take your ex wife to move on after you initiated divorce? Exactly	/r/Divorce_Men	26/07/24 07:28 AM
12	Why does she keep asking me to hang out with her and the kids? She has failed miserably to replace you.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/07/24 09:25 PM
1	I won. Here's how Damn...I am on verge of divorce..these numbers are scary. But not much of a choice I guess we have.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/07/24 04:46 PM
6	I won. Here's how I sometimes wonder if a happy marriage even exists in this world.	/r/Divorce_Men	10/07/24 07:43 PM