yuyumiestro Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	What are your tips for maintaining self-respect in dating?	STRATEGY	yuyumiestro	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/06/20 04:43 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
20	How to trust yourself and your intuition? Start outside of the world of dating. Trust yourself in things like “What do I want to eat?” “Do I want black or blue jeans?” “What do I want to do with this free hour?” I think you might find that you struggle trusting yourself in other areas as well. Once you make a decision, however small it may be, go with it. Be confident in your choice, and try not to backtrack. Observe how that makes you feel. You can also practice self-trust by saying yes or no to invitations without providing an express…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/07/20 09:22 PM
81	We got a real winner on our hands here “I’m not like other girls, I think your bio is hilarious.” Let me prove it!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/07/20 02:59 AM
5	I strongly believe when someone shows you who they are, believe them. Block and delete. This goes for friendships too!!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/07/20 02:55 AM
5	No, I am NOT the crazy one. Yeah you are definitely the rebound, good call 🤦🏼‍♀️	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/07/20 11:10 PM
40	Male lurkers: cold approaching strange women is creepy and weird I was just cold approached the other day on my lunch break in a sketchy part of town. He biked up to me and asked me my name, for my number, etc. and continued to bike with me as I walked... despite my obvious discomfort. I wasn’t flattered at all and I didn’t give him any of my info. It feels more like a power play than genuine romantic interest.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	18/07/20 05:28 PM
21	Reminder: level-up in your social life as well I totally agree that friendships shape us and it’s best to choose our social environments wisely. I also think that keeping the peace with most people is better than ghosting, cutting off, or bad mouthing. Though you can’t please everyone, and you could die trying. I’ve also found that men really aren’t friends in the truest sense of the word, though they can be great to chat with. I’ve come to find that some people are the type to have a large circle of acquaintances that they maintain while ot…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/06/20 05:32 AM
14	WHO SHOULD PAY FOR A TRIP Taking a trip is definitely a romantic gesture intended to bring you closer to having sex with him. It’s basically an extended sleepover. I would let him pay for everything and continue to move at your own pace. Remember, he invited you. Also, enjoy! Sounds like fun. If you think he’s moving too fast, or you’re not ready to sleep with him, maybe put on the breaks and do a trip later.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/06/20 06:41 PM
1	Level Up- your favorite clothing sources? Nordstrom has a great selection of tops, dresses, shoes and jewelry, and they frequently have sales. Look for peplum or wrap tops; tops that either fit your form or cinch in at the waist. Aritzia has a few quality basics, Zara has great dressier shorts and dresses, and Madewell has really nice jeans. DSW has a huge selection of affordable shoes, and if you sign up for their list they’ll send ace coupons. Flat sandals or heels instead of sneakers helps enhance a feminine vibe. Subtle jewelry can …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/06/20 04:13 AM
8	My friend sent this to me. She told me in under a minute, 6 other girls retweeted this. I hate how universal this is! Not sure why you’re getting downvoted, I think you’re spot on. It’s like screaming to the world that you just had bad sex. Like, my aunt and uncle follow me on social media. My manager is going to see this. My next date is going to see this. Some genres are reserved for privileged/trusted or anonymous eyes only.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/06/20 04:38 AM
6	My friend sent this to me. She told me in under a minute, 6 other girls retweeted this. I hate how universal this is! “She Comes First” by Ian Kerner should be added to the FDS handbook and every man’s library.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/06/20 02:54 AM
15	Apparently I am too hash. Does that even make sense? “If I free up” has me shook to the core. Shoooook! Definitely trust yourself on this one, you made a wise decision! 👏🏼	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	22/06/20 02:51 AM
7	I'm a Ferrari, you should be on a tricycle Yes, absolutely! And honestly, what does this accomplish? The interpersonal dynamic is almost exactly the same as trying to fix or change a LVM boyfriend, only here it’s even more desperate outside the confines of a relationship. Lame comments or a lack of proven interest from men should just be brushed off and ignored gracefully.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/06/20 09:44 PM
6	I'm a Ferrari, you should be on a tricycle I couldn’t agree more, women who have the time to entertain LVM in any form are lowering their own self-worth in the process. If you are unimpressed by a guy, that’s it. It’s done. He’s had his chance. Find something else to do. It’s not that funny to burn a LVM, it’s kind of a waste of your time and attention. HVW aren’t out to burn men on the stake.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/06/20 09:39 PM
56	When you treat someone above you, they take advantage; when you treat others as equals, you get respect and are valued. Discussion on Redpillwomen I think the most simple answer is that these types of women have low self-esteem, and genuinely don’t think they have a deserve things like a nice apartment or a timely proposal. By putting all the “say” power in his hands, they both confirm their perceived unworthiness and feel temporary relief from the comfort that comes with being with someone perpetually.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/06/20 01:47 AM
2	Don’t feel that the relationship is progressing. Talk it out first, or break it off? Yes, we had several. He revealed that he was scared. If I were you I would honor my feelings by probing a bit. Sometimes men need to be probed to realize that you are not going to stick around for a dead end. Don’t be afraid to be direct and honest, but try to frame it in a positive light, e.g., What do you think of taking a trip in August? Or, I’d love to meet your parents, what did they say about the reservation? His response of either shutting down or expanding the conversation should tell yo…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/06/20 12:27 PM
9	Don’t feel that the relationship is progressing. Talk it out first, or break it off? I found myself in a similar situation and called it off at the 8 month mark. I’m glad I did. He would regularly have dinner with his parents, who lived in the area, and even regularly told me that he told them about me. But he never actually took action to bring me into that side of his life. At some point in the relationship, if you’re not moving closer you’re only going to move farther apart. However, sometimes it helps to ask. Maybe he knows something about them that you don’t. Start a conver…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/06/20 03:54 AM