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| 1 | Do you consider Mark Manson's writings to be a more trustworthy or healthy outlook on life and realtionships? TRP, or more specifically PUA, has hurt me and since then I've been VERY suspicious of any dating and even life advice but I've noticed you have Mark Manson's posts in your First Aid Kit.From the "tests" I've done and those done by people I know it really does seem like neediness is pretty much a non-issue. If you're honest about it and express it fully then I've found that the girls can be just as attracted | /r/ExRedPill | 03/09/20 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Finding a women has to be the hardest thing in the world.Yes, but skills can't really be bought. You can buy coaching I suppose, which will reduce the time, but you still have to put in lots of time either way. | /r/seduction | 21/03/18 10:29 PM |
| 2 | Finding a women has to be the hardest thing in the world.Went out 5 days a week for at least an hour | /r/seduction | 15/03/18 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Finding a women has to be the hardest thing in the world.21 | /r/seduction | 15/03/18 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Finding a women has to be the hardest thing in the world.Easy? Took me a whole year to get laid even once! | /r/seduction | 15/03/18 04:18 PM |
| 5 | Pro tip for finding out if she gave the Right/Wrong number.If she gave you a fake she's obviously not interested anyway, and calling her out on it will achieve nothing | /r/seduction | 14/02/18 03:15 PM |
| 1 | I'm having my first ever Day 2 in 3 hours! Tips are welcome!That's pretty much my exact mentality when I'm out at night gaming actually. I'll try to keep it in mind, but it feels different now since it's my first time. | /r/seduction | 28/02/17 02:23 PM |
| 1 | I'm having my first ever Day 2 in 3 hours! Tips are welcome!It's at 6 PM here | /r/seduction | 28/02/17 02:20 PM |
| 1 | 95% of nights I suck. 5% I'm GODAlright, so tonight was pretty weird. I went out and by luck met and old wing. We talked a bit and that got me out of my head. I approached and it went really well, I could feel how I was non-needy, I just wanted to approach. Then my foolishness got the better of me and I didn't approach for a while (excuse being that I would talk to my wing, but really I was affraid of losing state). After that I was back to normal, just another shitty night. I did try to accept it, and I did I think. But Every… | /r/seduction | 31/01/17 12:41 AM |
| 1 | 95% of nights I suck. 5% I'm GODI'll try accepting it tomorrow. Will rapport back. | /r/seduction | 30/01/17 02:56 AM |
| 1 | 95% of nights I suck. 5% I'm GODHA! Like I ever considered quitting! Of course, but I just wondered if there was any mindset or something that's fucked up that I can fix. | /r/seduction | 30/01/17 12:38 AM |
| 1 | 95% of nights I suck. 5% I'm GODWhen I'm with friends and family I'm the most extroverted guy I've ever met. When I'm trying to talk to strangers 95% of the time I'm the most introverted guy ever and 5% of the time I'm the most extroverted guy ever. | /r/seduction | 29/01/17 11:59 PM |
| 2 | 95% of nights I suck. 5% I'm GODAlready read it, and I've meditated for 101 straight days now. It's very different to get present in your room alone when you feel safe and to do it in a club. I'm not sure the skill even translates. On the nights when I suck I'm scared, I can't think straight and my mind overwhelms me. I literally just freeze up and can't do anything. | /r/seduction | 29/01/17 11:50 PM |
| 2 | 95% of nights I suck. 5% I'm GODThis is exactly why. The problem is that I have no idea how to trigger it. It's pretty random. It's easy to say "You have a severed arm, that's the problem". Right, but how do I fix it? | /r/seduction | 29/01/17 11:37 PM |
| 4 | 95% of nights I suck. 5% I'm GODAlready do. On my 101th day straight today, actually. | /r/seduction | 29/01/17 11:37 PM |
| 1 | 95% of nights I suck. 5% I'm GODI don't think like that, it's just an observation I've made afterwards. And I never stop trying no matter what. I always keep going til the end. | /r/seduction | 29/01/17 11:18 PM |
| 1 | 95% of nights I suck. 5% I'm GODYeah, seems we have the same problem dude. If you find anything, please let me know. I'll do the same for you, of course. | /r/seduction | 29/01/17 11:18 PM |
| 1 | How do you remember your night out better?It breaks my flow | /r/seduction | 16/07/16 04:43 PM |
| 1 | How do you remember your night out better?I don't drink | /r/seduction | 16/07/16 04:43 PM |
| -2 | My wing man was attacked today when he approached a girl. I'm not sure what to thinkCalibrating before is exactly what RsdJulien says NOT to do | /r/seduction | 17/04/16 05:45 PM |
| 0 | My wing man was attacked today when he approached a girl. I'm not sure what to thinkWhat about calibrating after the fact? | /r/seduction | 17/04/16 04:20 PM |
| 0 | My wing man was attacked today when he approached a girl. I'm not sure what to thinkDay 1 shit from whom exactly? I've only watched Shift and PIMP. No warning about this at all. All you hear is that we should be more confident and less scared and if we fuck it up we can just calibrate after the fact. | /r/seduction | 17/04/16 04:20 PM |
| 1 | My wing man was attacked today when he approached a girl. I'm not sure what to thinkHe has never been in a fight in his life, neither has any other RSD instructor. I'd be supprised if NO slaps resulted in a fight with a dude | /r/seduction | 17/04/16 04:18 PM |
| 3 | My wing man was attacked today when he approached a girl. I'm not sure what to thinkHe just placed his hand there and removed it immediatly. Is it really that big a deal? | /r/seduction | 17/04/16 04:13 PM |
| -1 | My wing man was attacked today when he approached a girl. I'm not sure what to thinkI exclusively watch RSD, and they have never warned me about this shit. | /r/seduction | 17/04/16 04:10 PM |
| 0 | My wing man was attacked today when he approached a girl. I'm not sure what to thinkHe told us two that the guy got jealous and that we should stay away from them. What does it matter? And are you saying that RSD are bad instructors? Are you seriously suggesting that getting slapped by women when going out is a common occurrence? | /r/seduction | 17/04/16 04:08 PM |
| -6 | My wing man was attacked today when he approached a girl. I'm not sure what to thinkAre you serious? This goes against all the advice from all RSD instructors | /r/seduction | 17/04/16 04:06 PM |
| 0 | My wing man was attacked today when he approached a girl. I'm not sure what to thinkHe did back of after less than 1 second | /r/seduction | 17/04/16 04:05 PM |
| 1 | My wing man was attacked today when he approached a girl. I'm not sure what to thinkDon't touch someone out of the blue because the internet made you feel entitled to do so - it's just basic common sense and manners. Then why has the pick up community made me entitled to do so? And further more, one could argue that it's common sense and manners to only do warm approaches. I get what you are saying, but isn't the saying that you shouldn't be too scared to push it too far as long as you back off at first signs of resistance and apolegise? My friend did so, and he still got into … | /r/seduction | 17/04/16 02:40 AM |
| 0 | My wing man was attacked today when he approached a girl. I'm not sure what to thinkIt is perfectly reasonable, even perhaps expected in a bar, for a women to reject an approach, even noisily, or with a slap. What the fuck are you talking about? This is the first time anything like that has ever happened to me and I go out every day! Every example any instructor is going to give you is that such rejections should never happen! | /r/seduction | 17/04/16 02:25 AM |
| 2 | What was the moment when you realized you had come pretty far?I long for that day! | /r/seduction | 13/04/16 12:26 PM |
| 2 | What was the moment when you realized you had come pretty far?-.- | /r/seduction | 13/04/16 02:51 AM |
| 1 | Are anime eyes = dialated pupils?What are you trying to say? The term Anime eyes is used by the likes of RSDJulien all the time. It's a fairly established concept and a good IOI to look for, isn't it? | /r/seduction | 06/04/16 02:26 AM |
| 0 | Are anime eyes = dialated pupils?First off, you're not going to find out if she's "interested," by simply talking to her. You're going to find out by what's referred to as "kino." Escalate with her, and her reaction will SHOW you if she's interested. Yes, you are right that this is a valid strategy. I'm mostly looking to know this because I want to be able to analyze as many interactions as possible and gain the most value from my night. Many interactions I simply am not comfortable with being physical, which I might need to ch… | /r/seduction | 05/04/16 08:27 PM |
| 0 | Are anime eyes = dialated pupils?Yes I know that, I guess what you should be looking for is a change in pupil dilation, though this might be problematic if she's hooked from the get go. Still, I can think of nothing better. Thank you for giving me a clear and concise answer. I really appreciate it! | /r/seduction | 05/04/16 08:19 PM |
| 1 | How should you bounce between sets?Who said anything about me going to just clubs? I'm talking cafés, bars, you name it. | /r/seduction | 25/09/14 06:46 PM |
| 0 | Me when I successfully picked up a girl after 20 years of pathetic tryhardness and virginity for the first time!ikr xDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDDdd | /r/seduction | 24/08/14 01:00 PM |
| 0 | Me when I successfully picked up a girl after 20 years of pathetic tryhardness and virginity for the first time!You are, Bot! xD | /r/seduction | 24/08/14 12:59 PM |
| 3 | Me when I successfully picked up a girl after 20 years of pathetic tryhardness and virginity for the first time!Dude, are you 20 or have you actually tried for 20 years xD? | /r/seduction | 24/08/14 12:56 PM |
| 1 | Have I got this right?So all that I have heard of average looking people like Style and Mystery scoring massively especially at night clubs with women looking for casual sex is not true then? Just an unrealistic dream for the unattractive? | /r/seduction | 16/07/14 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Have I got this right?I am of course speaking of physical attractiveness. | /r/seduction | 16/07/14 04:08 AM |
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