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| 10 | ComplicationsI would set up to meet her there. Plus, honestly if the date doesn't go well, you don't have to suffer through an akward ride home with her. | /r/seduction | 17/02/20 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Texting in between datesYou might also wanna ask about sexual history before hand. Don't wanna catch something | /r/seduction | 07/02/20 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Is it possible at your core to just be not good enough no matter what?I feel like people who got into relationships like this, liked something about them at some point. My ex was a total bum, not very good looking, but he was so sweet at the beginning of our relationship that I stayed even after he cheated on me twice (probably more, but I only found out about 2). I was settling, everyone around me knew, but I was too faithful and committed. | /r/seduction | 01/02/20 10:30 PM |
| 1 | Texting in between datesGoal is to get to know each other more. Screening their likes/interests, values/morals, aspirations, personality, etc. to see if you two would be compatible for a relationship. This way, you don't have to wait almost a week till your 2nd date, where you might find out she has completely different ideas than you and you no longer want to pursue that relationship. Saves time and money to help figure things out sooner through conversation. | /r/seduction | 01/02/20 10:16 PM |
| 2 | Texting in between datesThat's actually not a bad question. Comes off as kind of funny & random, but good segway into further conversation. Like if someone asked me this, I'd name various Mexican cheeses. And I could tell you what delicious meals they go on. And I could suggest restaurants that have good cheese, and share my theory about how people love cheese when they're high. Plenty of conversation potential if the person is cool. | /r/seduction | 01/02/20 10:09 PM |
| 1 | How would you address why you don't have anything on facebook/no friends on it? Say she asks you for your facebook or searches you, only to find a blank page with your name on itI agree, tf she cares if you have social media? I deleted my Facebook years ago, and the only thing I have now is Snapchat, which I don't even post on. My bf respected that and he also only has Snapchat, but I could care less if he didn't have anything. I just never used Facebook so I deleted it. Simple. | /r/seduction | 01/02/20 09:37 PM |
| 1 | 22m very shy with no experience. Advice plsRock climbing sounds like it could be a good place to talk to women. You can talk about the difficulties, share funny stories, scary stories, tips, etc. about rock climbing. It's not really bothering them, they're there to share in that experience, so it could be fun. As for the no experience, I'd suggest online dating. This sifts out the girls who are available and actually looking for a relationship. Tinder actually might be a good sight to advertise you're looking to gain some experience. Not… | /r/seduction | 01/02/20 09:16 PM |
| 2 | 30+ year old SOCIALLY ANXIOUS guy with ASPERGERS talks to girls for the first time (INFIELD VIDEO!!!)I get it, and in some situations it's very attractive to "be the man" but everyone is different and likes different things. I will say, I skimmed through the video and I don't agree with his Stop method. There's no real reason for it in my opinion. Some guy in the audience asks about approaching women with an "excuse me" and I agree with the coach that is about the confidence/conviction in which you approach women. You have to approach with confidence if you're going to stop them with an Excuse … | /r/seduction | 01/02/20 03:42 PM |
| – | 30+ year old SOCIALLY ANXIOUS guy with ASPERGERS talks to girls for the first time (INFIELD VIDEO!!!)Maybe try taking to women in other situations like grocery stores, clothing stores, bars, etc. I'd recommend a softer approach, maybe starting with "Excuse me miss", "Sorry to bother you" instead of "Stop". And maybe "I just wanted to say I think you look lovely to talk to. Maybe, if I can get your number, we could go out for a drink sometime". A softer approach like this should make them feel more comfortable, and you would come off as more natural. I think this could still work with you riding… | /r/seduction | 01/02/20 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Want to Cold Approach waitress?Ask her out! Go to her place of work (make sure she's there!!), ask the hostess to speak to her. If they give you some excuse, like she's too busy, ask them if you can wait/about how long till she gets some free time. If it's not long, wait. If it's too long, say okay, you'll be back around that time. Then ask her out! Let her know, hey I've been trying to build up the courage to ask you out, would you maybe want to get a drink/eat dinner/go out later. If she's into you too, it'll make her gitty… | /r/seduction | 01/02/20 01:23 PM |
| 3 | How to pickup girls when going clubbing?Find a girl that looks like she might be single (usually in a group of girls, or might be dressed extra skimpy) Ask her to dance. If she's interested, she'll usually look back at her friends for approval/letting them know she's going to head out, and she'll say sure. If she says no thanks, she's not interested. If she says she doesn't know how to or doesn't like the song, could be that she's trying to reject you nicely or doesn't want to make a fool of herself. To be sure, just be straight up, "… | /r/seduction | 01/02/20 01:10 PM |
| 1 | Being too "romantic"?Ask her what she's looking for. Could be she just wants to hook up and nothing more, or she could be seeing someone else. Don't play the 3 day game. Communication is key with all relationships. Also ask her if she doesn't like to be complimented. I personally didn't know how to take compliments and always ruined them by ignoring, dismissing, or changing the subject. Took one of my friends to finally tell me, "Why can't you just take a compliment? Say thanks and move on." | /r/seduction | 01/02/20 12:59 PM |
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